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Building Bridges Through the Three Ts of Giving | Sally Mbanefo | TEDxMendeWomen


it’s a pleasure and an honor to be here

it’s a pleasure and an honor to be here today to share my thoughts with you I

today to share my thoughts with you I

today to share my thoughts with you I don’t know how many of you remember your

don’t know how many of you remember your

don’t know how many of you remember your nursery rhymes if you remember this one

nursery rhymes if you remember this one

nursery rhymes if you remember this one please join me it’s called the London

please join me it’s called the London

please join me it’s called the London Bridge London Bridge is falling down

Bridge London Bridge is falling down

Bridge London Bridge is falling down falling down falling down London Bridge

falling down falling down London Bridge

falling down falling down London Bridge is falling down my fair lady echo bridge

is falling down my fair lady echo bridge

is falling down my fair lady echo bridge is falling down falling down falling

is falling down falling down falling

is falling down falling down falling down

down

down echo bridge is falling down my fair lady

echo bridge is falling down my fair lady

echo bridge is falling down my fair lady Naija Bridge is falling down falling

Naija Bridge is falling down falling

Naija Bridge is falling down falling down falling down

down falling down

down falling down Nigel Bridge is falling down my lady or

Nigel Bridge is falling down my lady or

Nigel Bridge is falling down my lady or bringing it home but can you imagine

bringing it home but can you imagine

bringing it home but can you imagine Lagos without a third mainland Bridge

Lagos without a third mainland Bridge

Lagos without a third mainland Bridge can you imagine Lea goes without a

can you imagine Lea goes without a

can you imagine Lea goes without a Cobra’s or can you imagine the southern

Cobra’s or can you imagine the southern

Cobra’s or can you imagine the southern part of Nigeria without the Niger bridge

part of Nigeria without the Niger bridge

part of Nigeria without the Niger bridge can you imagine leucojum without the

can you imagine leucojum without the

can you imagine leucojum without the confluence bridge I’m sure you can see

confluence bridge I’m sure you can see

confluence bridge I’m sure you can see the bridges on the on the screen echo

the bridges on the on the screen echo

the bridges on the on the screen echo bridge was the first bridge I was ever

bridge was the first bridge I was ever

bridge was the first bridge I was ever built in Nigeria but imagine still our

built in Nigeria but imagine still our

built in Nigeria but imagine still our lives without these physical bridges

can you imagine even worse life without

can you imagine even worse life without mental bridges life without social

mental bridges life without social

mental bridges life without social bridges life without spiritual bridges

bridges life without spiritual bridges

bridges life without spiritual bridges life without emotional bridges can you

life without emotional bridges can you

life without emotional bridges can you imagine how gloomy and really how

imagine how gloomy and really how

imagine how gloomy and really how unfortunate our lives would be and what

unfortunate our lives would be and what

unfortunate our lives would be and what effect this would have

effect this would have

effect this would have on the individual out there on the

on the individual out there on the

on the individual out there on the family on business relationships on

family on business relationships on

family on business relationships on friendships on the community and on the

friendships on the community and on the

friendships on the community and on the vulnerable group now whether we’re

vulnerable group now whether we’re

vulnerable group now whether we’re talking about physical bridges mental

talking about physical bridges mental

talking about physical bridges mental bridges emotional bridges or spiritual

bridges emotional bridges or spiritual

bridges emotional bridges or spiritual bridges there are three very important

bridges there are three very important

bridges there are three very important ingredients that we need and require to

ingredients that we need and require to

ingredients that we need and require to be able to build effective bridges

be able to build effective bridges

be able to build effective bridges they’re essential to the building of

they’re essential to the building of

they’re essential to the building of bridges in everybody’s lives this is the

bridges in everybody’s lives this is the

bridges in everybody’s lives this is the bridge and the tool of building bridges

bridge and the tool of building bridges

bridge and the tool of building bridges called the three T’s the first T is the

called the three T’s the first T is the

called the three T’s the first T is the T of time how much time do we create to

T of time how much time do we create to

T of time how much time do we create to add value into the lives of our fellow

add value into the lives of our fellow

add value into the lives of our fellow human beings

human beings

human beings the second T is the T of talent do you

the second T is the T of talent do you

the second T is the T of talent do you have a skill that you can share and pass

have a skill that you can share and pass

have a skill that you can share and pass on to the less privileged to the youth

on to the less privileged to the youth

on to the less privileged to the youth and the third T of these three T’s is

and the third T of these three T’s is

and the third T of these three T’s is the treasure

the treasure

the treasure do you have treasure or material things

do you have treasure or material things

do you have treasure or material things you can pass on as I asked this question

you can pass on as I asked this question

you can pass on as I asked this question I asked myself a large population of

I asked myself a large population of

I asked myself a large population of Nigerian society our youth what type of

Nigerian society our youth what type of

Nigerian society our youth what type of role models are we creating for these

role models are we creating for these

role models are we creating for these young people we’re all guilty

young people we’re all guilty

young people we’re all guilty we all have fancy cars we like men love

we all have fancy cars we like men love

we all have fancy cars we like men love G Wagon that I know once you have 20 or

G Wagon that I know once you have 20 or

G Wagon that I know once you have 20 or 10 because you can afford it what about

10 because you can afford it what about

10 because you can afford it what about just one or two and pass the rest on

just one or two and pass the rest on

just one or two and pass the rest on most you have 20 Ferragamo bags and

most you have 20 Ferragamo bags and

most you have 20 Ferragamo bags and Chanel shoes just because you can afford

Chanel shoes just because you can afford

Chanel shoes just because you can afford it just the other day I was at an event

it just the other day I was at an event

it just the other day I was at an event and I saw two young ladies just trotting

and I saw two young ladies just trotting

and I saw two young ladies just trotting along pretty girls between 20 and 30 or

along pretty girls between 20 and 30 or

along pretty girls between 20 and 30 or five really one is carrying the most

five really one is carrying the most

five really one is carrying the most expensive bag I think three or four

expensive bag I think three or four

expensive bag I think three or four times before I’d buy it and so was the

times before I’d buy it and so was the

times before I’d buy it and so was the other girl I was thinking how will a

other girl I was thinking how will a

other girl I was thinking how will a young man approach such a young lady and

young man approach such a young lady and

young man approach such a young lady and then he reminded me of a story my father

then he reminded me of a story my father

then he reminded me of a story my father used to tell us girls say c’mon girls I

used to tell us girls say c’mon girls I

used to tell us girls say c’mon girls I know you’re enjoying your life as you as

know you’re enjoying your life as you as

know you’re enjoying your life as you as my children but you must simplify your

my children but you must simplify your

my children but you must simplify your tastes

tastes

tastes keep your tastes simple because you do

keep your tastes simple because you do

keep your tastes simple because you do not know this type of money you’re going

not know this type of money you’re going

not know this type of money you’re going to fall in love with if you fall in love

to fall in love with if you fall in love

to fall in love with if you fall in love with a man who cannot afford you

with a man who cannot afford you

with a man who cannot afford you there’ll be problems so young people

there’ll be problems so young people

there’ll be problems so young people today yes we’re not good role models for

today yes we’re not good role models for

today yes we’re not good role models for you we are not doing what we should do

you we are not doing what we should do

you we are not doing what we should do some of us mothers when did we last cook

some of us mothers when did we last cook

some of us mothers when did we last cook maybe once a week if you can or even

maybe once a week if you can or even

maybe once a week if you can or even once a month I remember when I was a kid

once a month I remember when I was a kid

once a month I remember when I was a kid my dad would set out every Saturday

my dad would set out every Saturday

my dad would set out every Saturday he’ll cook for everyone and set the

he’ll cook for everyone and set the

he’ll cook for everyone and set the table I never forgot that

table I never forgot that

table I never forgot that so we might be very busy as women have

so we might be very busy as women have

so we might be very busy as women have high-powered jobs tell me about it but

high-powered jobs tell me about it but

high-powered jobs tell me about it but you must make time out to be with your

you must make time out to be with your

you must make time out to be with your family especially the young ones you

family especially the young ones you

family especially the young ones you need to mention them you need to coach

need to mention them you need to coach

need to mention them you need to coach them you need to add value in their

them you need to add value in their

them you need to add value in their lives not just through material things

lives not just through material things

lives not just through material things but through things you tell them these

but through things you tell them these

but through things you tell them these things you share with them the values

things you share with them the values

things you share with them the values you need to create very very strong

you need to create very very strong

you need to create very very strong character bridges in our children today

character bridges in our children today

character bridges in our children today it’s not just the social bridges or the

it’s not just the social bridges or the

it’s not just the social bridges or the mental bridges or the psychological

mental bridges or the psychological

mental bridges or the psychological bridges or the spiritual bridges or even

bridges or the spiritual bridges or even

bridges or the spiritual bridges or even the physical bridges we need to build

the physical bridges we need to build

the physical bridges we need to build bridges of character in our children

bridges of character in our children

bridges of character in our children because they are the future for us

because they are the future for us

because they are the future for us talking about role model I used to live

talking about role model I used to live

talking about role model I used to live I do live in a block of flats and about

I do live in a block of flats and about

I do live in a block of flats and about two years ago we had a new tenant who

two years ago we had a new tenant who

two years ago we had a new tenant who moved in this man had over 30 cars every

moved in this man had over 30 cars every

moved in this man had over 30 cars every weekend will look on a balcony were

weekend will look on a balcony were

weekend will look on a balcony were watching him what is it doing they’ve

watching him what is it doing they’ve

watching him what is it doing they’ve got a house where to put all these cars

got a house where to put all these cars

got a house where to put all these cars and they bring ten every weekend he

and they bring ten every weekend he

and they bring ten every weekend he Worman

Worman

Worman defender are even dented more next

defender are even dented more next

defender are even dented more next weekend’s warm in this one that’s all he

weekend’s warm in this one that’s all he

weekend’s warm in this one that’s all he does on a weekend

does on a weekend

does on a weekend then another weekend another group of

then another weekend another group of

then another weekend another group of cars are brought and then you know I was

cars are brought and then you know I was

cars are brought and then you know I was looking at this guy and I said what if

looking at this guy and I said what if

looking at this guy and I said what if he dies tomorrow of what value is all

he dies tomorrow of what value is all

he dies tomorrow of what value is all that it’s all vanities vanity vanity

that it’s all vanities vanity vanity

that it’s all vanities vanity vanity vanity and then I say to myself we need

vanity and then I say to myself we need

vanity and then I say to myself we need to build spiritual bridges mental

to build spiritual bridges mental

to build spiritual bridges mental bridges emotional bridges and every

bridges emotional bridges and every

bridges emotional bridges and every bridge that we need to do to be able to

bridge that we need to do to be able to

bridge that we need to do to be able to look after the younger ones after us I

look after the younger ones after us I

look after the younger ones after us I have had a lot of experience in the past

have had a lot of experience in the past

have had a lot of experience in the past eight years I began to realize I got to

eight years I began to realize I got to

eight years I began to realize I got to the top I was so happy with the first

the top I was so happy with the first

the top I was so happy with the first video we watched I have been a woman

video we watched I have been a woman

video we watched I have been a woman always lonely at the top and I formed a

always lonely at the top and I formed a

always lonely at the top and I formed a habit of always giving a ladder to a

habit of always giving a ladder to a

habit of always giving a ladder to a woman I was the topmost lady in La Farge

woman I was the topmost lady in La Farge

woman I was the topmost lady in La Farge cement and until I got that job a woman

cement and until I got that job a woman

cement and until I got that job a woman had never been in the executive of that

had never been in the executive of that

had never been in the executive of that company and had been in Nigeria for 45

company and had been in Nigeria for 45

company and had been in Nigeria for 45 years plus so I broke that chain of

years plus so I broke that chain of

years plus so I broke that chain of course they gave me a free hand to

course they gave me a free hand to

course they gave me a free hand to recruit of course trust me every

recruit of course trust me every

recruit of course trust me every recruitment was a woman who was good and

recruitment was a woman who was good and

recruitment was a woman who was good and who could do the job you know that

who could do the job you know that

who could do the job you know that didn’t go on cut out because the

didn’t go on cut out because the

didn’t go on cut out because the petitions were written to Paris and

petitions were written to Paris and

petitions were written to Paris and Paris came and said what this woman is

Paris came and said what this woman is

Paris came and said what this woman is doing amazing things and the woman she

doing amazing things and the woman she

doing amazing things and the woman she brought in they’re all professionals

brought in they’re all professionals

brought in they’re all professionals so what problems do you have with her so

so what problems do you have with her so

so what problems do you have with her so I became a local champion having come

I became a local champion having come

I became a local champion having come all the way from banking now we talk

all the way from banking now we talk

all the way from banking now we talk about giving our treasure I spent out of

about giving our treasure I spent out of

about giving our treasure I spent out of my 30 years plus in the corporate world

my 30 years plus in the corporate world

my 30 years plus in the corporate world I’ve spent 21 years in banking and I

I’ve spent 21 years in banking and I

I’ve spent 21 years in banking and I rose to the very top before I went into

rose to the very top before I went into

rose to the very top before I went into government now the bank has always

government now the bank has always

government now the bank has always complained we don’t like to give money

complained we don’t like to give money

complained we don’t like to give money to SMEs and to enterpreneurs

to SMEs and to enterpreneurs

to SMEs and to enterpreneurs why or they never pay us back they don’t

why or they never pay us back they don’t

why or they never pay us back they don’t pay you back because you have not

pay you back because you have not

pay you back because you have not willing you’re not willing to take that

willing you’re not willing to take that

willing you’re not willing to take that risk enduring and illiquid dangoty

risk enduring and illiquid dangoty

risk enduring and illiquid dangoty somebody stood by him when he had

somebody stood by him when he had

somebody stood by him when he had nothing

nothing

nothing and so we need to start as bankers as

and so we need to start as bankers as

and so we need to start as bankers as professionals to mentor and coach those

professionals to mentor and coach those

professionals to mentor and coach those young people if you give a loan how

young people if you give a loan how

young people if you give a loan how about creating a unit in the bank that

about creating a unit in the bank that

about creating a unit in the bank that will coach and mentor these young people

will coach and mentor these young people

will coach and mentor these young people teach them how to run their businesses

teach them how to run their businesses

teach them how to run their businesses in a profitable manner in a shrewd

in a profitable manner in a shrewd

in a profitable manner in a shrewd manner so that they can pay your loan

manner so that they can pay your loan

manner so that they can pay your loan back take an interest in that loan that

back take an interest in that loan that

back take an interest in that loan that you give them don’t look away assign a

you give them don’t look away assign a

you give them don’t look away assign a staff to about 10 and interpret SMEs

staff to about 10 and interpret SMEs

staff to about 10 and interpret SMEs it’s their job to make sure that that

it’s their job to make sure that that

it’s their job to make sure that that interpret that Enterprise is a success

interpret that Enterprise is a success

interpret that Enterprise is a success now you talk about giving when you talk

now you talk about giving when you talk

now you talk about giving when you talk about giving we’re not talking about

about giving we’re not talking about

about giving we’re not talking about giving your excess you fill up to the

giving your excess you fill up to the

giving your excess you fill up to the top and then you give your excess no

top and then you give your excess no

top and then you give your excess no we’re not talking about giving at your

we’re not talking about giving at your

we’re not talking about giving at your convenience

convenience

convenience no not at all we’re talking about

no not at all we’re talking about

no not at all we’re talking about sacrificial giving give until it hurts

sacrificial giving give until it hurts

sacrificial giving give until it hurts inconvenience yourself to give in the

inconvenience yourself to give in the

inconvenience yourself to give in the world today so many people do not have

world today so many people do not have

world today so many people do not have what is the future of the over 1 billion

what is the future of the over 1 billion

what is the future of the over 1 billion people in the world today that I live in

people in the world today that I live in

people in the world today that I live in below the poverty line what is the

below the poverty line what is the

below the poverty line what is the future of over 10 million children in

future of over 10 million children in

future of over 10 million children in Nigeria today that are not in schools

Nigeria today that are not in schools

Nigeria today that are not in schools what is the future of all these people

what is the future of all these people

what is the future of all these people even worse what is the future of those

even worse what is the future of those

even worse what is the future of those in the conflict zones is that the not

in the conflict zones is that the not

in the conflict zones is that the not Eastern Nigeria which you had a

Eastern Nigeria which you had a

Eastern Nigeria which you had a beautiful presentation this afternoon or

beautiful presentation this afternoon or

beautiful presentation this afternoon or is it the Africans that are dying in the

is it the Africans that are dying in the

is it the Africans that are dying in the Mediterranean or instead the conflict in

Mediterranean or instead the conflict in

Mediterranean or instead the conflict in Syria or the Rohingya refugees either

Syria or the Rohingya refugees either

Syria or the Rohingya refugees either way you look at it this is a call a

way you look at it this is a call a

way you look at it this is a call a wake-up call to all Africans to everyone

wake-up call to all Africans to everyone

wake-up call to all Africans to everyone that we need to build more mental

that we need to build more mental

that we need to build more mental bridges more social bridges more

bridges more social bridges more

bridges more social bridges more psychological bridges and spiritual

psychological bridges and spiritual

psychological bridges and spiritual bridges now

bridges now

bridges now the youth in Nigeria over eight years

the youth in Nigeria over eight years

the youth in Nigeria over eight years ago I found out that the money that I

ago I found out that the money that I

ago I found out that the money that I earned really had become of no value to

earned really had become of no value to

earned really had become of no value to me because as a banker you always talk

me because as a banker you always talk

me because as a banker you always talk about billions billions is like tank 0.5

about billions billions is like tank 0.5

about billions billions is like tank 0.5 naira because you’re always dealing in

naira because you’re always dealing in

naira because you’re always dealing in it so you have no respect for money so I

it so you have no respect for money so I

it so you have no respect for money so I began to give all I earned at the time

began to give all I earned at the time

began to give all I earned at the time from eight years ago till today yes I

from eight years ago till today yes I

from eight years ago till today yes I suffered when I was in cognitive ecause

suffered when I was in cognitive ecause

suffered when I was in cognitive ecause I had no salary more or less what I kept

I had no salary more or less what I kept

I had no salary more or less what I kept up doing it I need hurt and he was

up doing it I need hurt and he was

up doing it I need hurt and he was painful but it felt so good if you have

painful but it felt so good if you have

painful but it felt so good if you have money you have means and it has no

money you have means and it has no

money you have means and it has no purpose it is meaningless totally

purpose it is meaningless totally

purpose it is meaningless totally meaningless talking about sacrificial

meaningless talking about sacrificial

meaningless talking about sacrificial giving I remember on occasion it was all

giving I remember on occasion it was all

giving I remember on occasion it was all for charity and on my left I saw men who

for charity and on my left I saw men who

for charity and on my left I saw men who had Rolls Royces to my right I saw men

had Rolls Royces to my right I saw men

had Rolls Royces to my right I saw men who had private jets I don’t have any of

who had private jets I don’t have any of

who had private jets I don’t have any of those things and when they began to call

those things and when they began to call

those things and when they began to call for a project that really needed help I

for a project that really needed help I

for a project that really needed help I didn’t see any hands up and I was like

didn’t see any hands up and I was like

didn’t see any hands up and I was like what are all these big shots and the big

what are all these big shots and the big

what are all these big shots and the big cars they came with at the end of the

cars they came with at the end of the

cars they came with at the end of the day I had to put up my hand and it took

day I had to put up my hand and it took

day I had to put up my hand and it took that particular commitment of course I

that particular commitment of course I

that particular commitment of course I got home after about a few hours the

got home after about a few hours the

got home after about a few hours the phone rings mama mama mama I hope you’re

phone rings mama mama mama I hope you’re

phone rings mama mama mama I hope you’re preparing we’re coming oh I totally

preparing we’re coming oh I totally

preparing we’re coming oh I totally forgot my children were coming on

forgot my children were coming on

forgot my children were coming on vacation and I really I gave everything

vacation and I really I gave everything

vacation and I really I gave everything I had because nobody else volunteered

I had because nobody else volunteered

I had because nobody else volunteered and as I was just saying oh dear what am

and as I was just saying oh dear what am

and as I was just saying oh dear what am I going to do I got a phone call from

I going to do I got a phone call from

I going to do I got a phone call from the agent of a property that was

the agent of a property that was

the agent of a property that was abandoned for over two years he says my

abandoned for over two years he says my

abandoned for over two years he says my don’t forget it nobody is going to rent

don’t forget it nobody is going to rent

don’t forget it nobody is going to rent that property for you of course the

that property for you of course the

that property for you of course the person did not just want to rent it he

person did not just want to rent it he

person did not just want to rent it he was ready to pay cash that day and pay

was ready to pay cash that day and pay

was ready to pay cash that day and pay what pay three times of what I gave out

what pay three times of what I gave out

what pay three times of what I gave out and at that time I wasn’t working that

and at that time I wasn’t working that

and at that time I wasn’t working that was why I was I felt the impact I took

was why I was I felt the impact I took

was why I was I felt the impact I took time off to be a mama be at home for my

time off to be a mama be at home for my

time off to be a mama be at home for my children

children

children be their coach their mentor them so when

be their coach their mentor them so when

be their coach their mentor them so when you talk about giving it has to last if

you talk about giving it has to last if

you talk about giving it has to last if you have to feel some pain for it to be

you have to feel some pain for it to be

you have to feel some pain for it to be real because there are people who are so

real because there are people who are so

real because there are people who are so so unfortunate that even a drop of

so unfortunate that even a drop of

so unfortunate that even a drop of whatever you give is a big deal to them

whatever you give is a big deal to them

whatever you give is a big deal to them another incident there’s so many of them

another incident there’s so many of them

another incident there’s so many of them I took time off when I was director and

I took time off when I was director and

I took time off when I was director and coca-cola and I said look I want to

coca-cola and I said look I want to

coca-cola and I said look I want to spend every Kentucky bridge six months I

spend every Kentucky bridge six months I

spend every Kentucky bridge six months I have this tenant never pay my rent not

have this tenant never pay my rent not

have this tenant never pay my rent not the way youth so I didn’t let them pay

the way youth so I didn’t let them pay

the way youth so I didn’t let them pay annually I said pay your rent every

annually I said pay your rent every

annually I said pay your rent every month just to make it easy on them

month just to make it easy on them

month just to make it easy on them because they’re all young people I just

because they’re all young people I just

because they’re all young people I just needed just spending money reading so I

needed just spending money reading so I

needed just spending money reading so I went out I went from one in mass and we

went out I went from one in mass and we

went out I went from one in mass and we got there there was an appeal for a very

got there there was an appeal for a very

got there there was an appeal for a very sad sad state very few people stood up I

sad sad state very few people stood up I

sad sad state very few people stood up I only had money for the weekend you know

only had money for the weekend you know

only had money for the weekend you know and again you know not much was with me

and again you know not much was with me

and again you know not much was with me that weekend so I said well this looks

that weekend so I said well this looks

that weekend so I said well this looks really sad I only two or three people

really sad I only two or three people

really sad I only two or three people came on out of about 50 of us sitting uh

came on out of about 50 of us sitting uh

came on out of about 50 of us sitting uh so I went and I was seen in my heart I

so I went and I was seen in my heart I

so I went and I was seen in my heart I just pray that the children don’t say

just pray that the children don’t say

just pray that the children don’t say mom I want this anything I have to buy

mom I want this anything I have to buy

mom I want this anything I have to buy that I can’t cook at home you know so I

that I can’t cook at home you know so I

that I can’t cook at home you know so I went in and I put everything I had then

went in and I put everything I had then

went in and I put everything I had then I walked home I walked you know I got

I walked home I walked you know I got

I walked home I walked you know I got home I started making some crap you know

home I started making some crap you know

home I started making some crap you know for the children and they my god II came

for the children and they my god II came

for the children and they my god II came my damn my damn that boy is here again

my damn my damn that boy is here again

my damn my damn that boy is here again oh I see yeah really what does he want

oh I see yeah really what does he want

oh I see yeah really what does he want please I don’t want to see him the last

please I don’t want to see him the last

please I don’t want to see him the last time we talked about rent he started

time we talked about rent he started

time we talked about rent he started crying so what’s the point of either

crying so what’s the point of either

crying so what’s the point of either seeing him but the my god he kept

seeing him but the my god he kept

seeing him but the my god he kept insisting I said okay maybe I’ll see him

insisting I said okay maybe I’ll see him

insisting I said okay maybe I’ll see him so I said coming you won’t believe it

so I said coming you won’t believe it

so I said coming you won’t believe it this young man brought his six months

this young man brought his six months

this young man brought his six months areas right there for me and that made

areas right there for me and that made

areas right there for me and that made my weekend so giving is something that

my weekend so giving is something that

my weekend so giving is something that is it’s very special it’s not the person

is it’s very special it’s not the person

is it’s very special it’s not the person receiving that’s getting a gift it is

receiving that’s getting a gift it is

receiving that’s getting a gift it is you giving you are the one getting that

you giving you are the one getting that

you giving you are the one getting that gift you know

now why do we have why and what is the

now why do we have why and what is the purpose of bridges in our lives

usually bridges are there to take us in

usually bridges are there to take us in our journey in life from point A to B

our journey in life from point A to B

our journey in life from point A to B which is a forward movement but

which is a forward movement but

which is a forward movement but sometimes we do the wrong things maybe

sometimes we do the wrong things maybe

sometimes we do the wrong things maybe maybe we don’t build bridges in other

maybe we don’t build bridges in other

maybe we don’t build bridges in other people’s lives then we find ourselves

people’s lives then we find ourselves

people’s lives then we find ourselves having to move back to point a but that

having to move back to point a but that

having to move back to point a but that is the essence of bridges in our lives

is the essence of bridges in our lives

is the essence of bridges in our lives to move forward now why why do people

to move forward now why why do people

to move forward now why why do people want to move because of the prevalent

want to move because of the prevalent

want to move because of the prevalent inequality that humanity suffers

inequality that humanity suffers

inequality that humanity suffers sometimes bridges are there for you as

sometimes bridges are there for you as

sometimes bridges are there for you as an escape someone to escape from poverty

an escape someone to escape from poverty

an escape someone to escape from poverty from from poverty to prosperity

from from poverty to prosperity

from from poverty to prosperity some want to escape from illiteracy to

some want to escape from illiteracy to

some want to escape from illiteracy to literacy and others may just want to

literacy and others may just want to

literacy and others may just want to escape from dying at age five to living

escape from dying at age five to living

escape from dying at age five to living up to a hundred and twenty years old

up to a hundred and twenty years old

up to a hundred and twenty years old what I ask you what are the types of

what I ask you what are the types of

what I ask you what are the types of bridges that we have do you know that

bridges that we have do you know that

bridges that we have do you know that sometimes that bridge doesn’t have to be

sometimes that bridge doesn’t have to be

sometimes that bridge doesn’t have to be as long as Ted mainland bridge it

as long as Ted mainland bridge it

as long as Ted mainland bridge it doesn’t even have to be as long as

doesn’t even have to be as long as

doesn’t even have to be as long as London Bridge sometimes the bridge we

London Bridge sometimes the bridge we

London Bridge sometimes the bridge we need to build in other people’s lives

need to build in other people’s lives

need to build in other people’s lives just a little tile the bridge the size

just a little tile the bridge the size

just a little tile the bridge the size of a little tile your bathroom tiles or

of a little tile your bathroom tiles or

of a little tile your bathroom tiles or somebody should just stand on all the

somebody should just stand on all the

somebody should just stand on all the times it could be a bed to sleep on most

times it could be a bed to sleep on most

times it could be a bed to sleep on most times it could be just a meal to stay

times it could be just a meal to stay

times it could be just a meal to stay alive all the times it could be a desk

alive all the times it could be a desk

alive all the times it could be a desk and a chair and all the times it could

and a chair and all the times it could

and a chair and all the times it could be affordable credit to run a business

be affordable credit to run a business

be affordable credit to run a business an honest business and oftentimes as we

an honest business and oftentimes as we

an honest business and oftentimes as we are all politicians in this country it

are all politicians in this country it

are all politicians in this country it could just be a ballot paper to have a

could just be a ballot paper to have a

could just be a ballot paper to have a right to vote in a cooperative

right to vote in a cooperative

right to vote in a cooperative governance a government of corporate

governance a government of corporate

governance a government of corporate governance a choice now

governance a choice now

governance a choice now if we cannot build bridges in people’s

if we cannot build bridges in people’s

if we cannot build bridges in people’s lives then you might as well forget

lives then you might as well forget

lives then you might as well forget about the big ideas the conference’s on

about the big ideas the conference’s on

about the big ideas the conference’s on the retreats all these fancy things we

the retreats all these fancy things we

the retreats all these fancy things we do in the name of for the poor it has to

do in the name of for the poor it has to

do in the name of for the poor it has to be genuine it has to come from your

be genuine it has to come from your

be genuine it has to come from your heart Helen Keller did say one candle

heart Helen Keller did say one candle

heart Helen Keller did say one candle does not lose anything by lighting

does not lose anything by lighting

does not lose anything by lighting another candle and I say to you it’s not

another candle and I say to you it’s not

another candle and I say to you it’s not enough to have a light in your life

enough to have a light in your life

enough to have a light in your life you’ve got to light another person’s

you’ve got to light another person’s

you’ve got to light another person’s life light another candle in somebody’s

life light another candle in somebody’s

life light another candle in somebody’s life today and let us build a bridge

life today and let us build a bridge

life today and let us build a bridge builders spiritual bridge most

builders spiritual bridge most

builders spiritual bridge most importantly for our youth let us build

importantly for our youth let us build

importantly for our youth let us build character strong character bridges the

character strong character bridges the

character strong character bridges the youth in our society they are real for

youth in our society they are real for

youth in our society they are real for eight years I’ve been giving all I

eight years I’ve been giving all I

eight years I’ve been giving all I earned to them then I scrape and scratch

earned to them then I scrape and scratch

earned to them then I scrape and scratch people were so and broke your Brook

people were so and broke your Brook

people were so and broke your Brook years they have no idea what I’m doing

years they have no idea what I’m doing

years they have no idea what I’m doing with my money

with my money

with my money I’d rather beg and appeal for money then

I’d rather beg and appeal for money then

I’d rather beg and appeal for money then say no to some a young person that needs

say no to some a young person that needs

say no to some a young person that needs that money the needs of the young people

that money the needs of the young people

that money the needs of the young people in Nigeria are real then African child

in Nigeria are real then African child

in Nigeria are real then African child is ready to be taken seriously today so

is ready to be taken seriously today so

is ready to be taken seriously today so let us build a bridge for that orphan

let us build a bridge for that orphan

let us build a bridge for that orphan let us build a bridge today for that

let us build a bridge today for that

let us build a bridge today for that Widow let us build a bridge today for

Widow let us build a bridge today for

Widow let us build a bridge today for that internally displaced person let us

that internally displaced person let us

that internally displaced person let us build bridges of character by being good

build bridges of character by being good

build bridges of character by being good role models for our children they watch

role models for our children they watch

role models for our children they watch what we do we must show good example and

what we do we must show good example and

what we do we must show good example and that is the end of my thank you very

that is the end of my thank you very

that is the end of my thank you very much

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