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[Applause] hello this is Emma is how I answer my

hello this is Emma is how I answer my

hello this is Emma is how I answer my phone

phone

phone it saves a few precious seconds on every

it saves a few precious seconds on every

it saves a few precious seconds on every call I learned it on my first campaign

call I learned it on my first campaign

call I learned it on my first campaign with my very first cell phone a pink

with my very first cell phone a pink

with my very first cell phone a pink blackberry mini I was 17 and got into

blackberry mini I was 17 and got into

blackberry mini I was 17 and got into the campaign because my friend Emily

the campaign because my friend Emily

the campaign because my friend Emily asked me to go door knocking with her

asked me to go door knocking with her

asked me to go door knocking with her one Saturday afternoon after a few

one Saturday afternoon after a few

one Saturday afternoon after a few conversations with strangers I was

conversations with strangers I was

conversations with strangers I was hooked

hooked

hooked what captured my heart in that first

what captured my heart in that first

what captured my heart in that first campaign was building connections and

campaign was building connections and

campaign was building connections and connecting others to new people and

connecting others to new people and

connecting others to new people and experiences field campaigning

experiences field campaigning

experiences field campaigning facilitates deep friendships amongst

facilitates deep friendships amongst

facilitates deep friendships amongst volunteers and through phone calling and

volunteers and through phone calling and

volunteers and through phone calling and door-knocking

door-knocking

door-knocking enables hundreds of conversations

enables hundreds of conversations

enables hundreds of conversations throughout the community I was a young

throughout the community I was a young

throughout the community I was a young idealist and this was a clear actionable

idealist and this was a clear actionable

idealist and this was a clear actionable way to change the world campaigning has

way to change the world campaigning has

way to change the world campaigning has brought me all over the world from that

brought me all over the world from that

brought me all over the world from that first campaign in my home town in

first campaign in my home town in

first campaign in my home town in northern Minnesota to San Francisco from

northern Minnesota to San Francisco from

northern Minnesota to San Francisco from Wisconsin to truth and Tobago and most

Wisconsin to truth and Tobago and most

Wisconsin to truth and Tobago and most recently Western Australia I’ve lived in

recently Western Australia I’ve lived in

recently Western Australia I’ve lived in Perth for about 18 months now I came out

Perth for about 18 months now I came out

Perth for about 18 months now I came out here to work on two electoral projects

here to work on two electoral projects

here to work on two electoral projects lucky that because I was able to witness

lucky that because I was able to witness

lucky that because I was able to witness a very important campaign two months ago

a very important campaign two months ago

a very important campaign two months ago I started on the marriage equality

I started on the marriage equality

I started on the marriage equality campaign as a WI state coordinator

campaign as a WI state coordinator

campaign as a WI state coordinator before we get started I have to add I am

before we get started I have to add I am

before we get started I have to add I am an ally in this fight and I’m a white

an ally in this fight and I’m a white

an ally in this fight and I’m a white this is hetero female I was raised by a

this is hetero female I was raised by a

this is hetero female I was raised by a village of gay and lesbian artists Andy

village of gay and lesbian artists Andy

village of gay and lesbian artists Andy and Andrew sandy and Rochelle Jeff and

and Andrew sandy and Rochelle Jeff and

and Andrew sandy and Rochelle Jeff and David and Chuck Chuck actually gave me

David and Chuck Chuck actually gave me

David and Chuck Chuck actually gave me my first pair of heels

my first pair of heels

my first pair of heels glow-in-the-dark platforms size 11

glow-in-the-dark platforms size 11

glow-in-the-dark platforms size 11 they are my family and absolutely shaped

they are my family and absolutely shaped

they are my family and absolutely shaped Who I am today they are who I was

Who I am today they are who I was

Who I am today they are who I was fighting for four days ago Australia

fighting for four days ago Australia

fighting for four days ago Australia finished voting on whether the same-sex

finished voting on whether the same-sex

finished voting on whether the same-sex marriage should be legal four days from

marriage should be legal four days from

marriage should be legal four days from now we will know the result right now

now we will know the result right now

now we will know the result right now here today we are in a suspended moment

here today we are in a suspended moment

here today we are in a suspended moment the ball is in the air where the

the ball is in the air where the

the ball is in the air where the campaigning is over and we can discuss

campaigning is over and we can discuss

campaigning is over and we can discuss the process without the results clouding

the process without the results clouding

the process without the results clouding the analysis the process was

the analysis the process was

the analysis the process was unprecedented

unprecedented

unprecedented it was a non-binding voluntary postal

it was a non-binding voluntary postal

it was a non-binding voluntary postal survey conducted by the Australian

survey conducted by the Australian

survey conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics the ABS not the

Bureau of Statistics the ABS not the

Bureau of Statistics the ABS not the Australian Electoral Commission I had a

Australian Electoral Commission I had a

Australian Electoral Commission I had a voting period of about six weeks and

voting period of about six weeks and

voting period of about six weeks and cost the government more than 120

cost the government more than 120

cost the government more than 120 million dollars when we talk about

million dollars when we talk about

million dollars when we talk about change and how a change comes about

change and how a change comes about

change and how a change comes about society it comes down to top-down change

society it comes down to top-down change

society it comes down to top-down change or bottom-up change

or bottom-up change

or bottom-up change top-down change is when the institution

top-down change is when the institution

top-down change is when the institution at the top makes an executive decision

at the top makes an executive decision

at the top makes an executive decision and the public fights or falls within

and the public fights or falls within

and the public fights or falls within that system bottom-up change occurs when

that system bottom-up change occurs when

that system bottom-up change occurs when individuals independently create change

individuals independently create change

individuals independently create change and that becomes the collective norm or

and that becomes the collective norm or

and that becomes the collective norm or system an example of top-down change is

system an example of top-down change is

system an example of top-down change is in the US when the Supreme Court decided

in the US when the Supreme Court decided

in the US when the Supreme Court decided that same-sex marriage was legal what

that same-sex marriage was legal what

that same-sex marriage was legal what that meant practically was you could be

that meant practically was you could be

that meant practically was you could be super out and proud on the coasts but it

super out and proud on the coasts but it

super out and proud on the coasts but it was still difficult to be queer in the

was still difficult to be queer in the

was still difficult to be queer in the middle of the country we just hadn’t had

middle of the country we just hadn’t had

middle of the country we just hadn’t had that conversation yet here in Australia

that conversation yet here in Australia

that conversation yet here in Australia this same-sex marriage postal survey is

this same-sex marriage postal survey is

this same-sex marriage postal survey is forcing a bottom-up change in our

forcing a bottom-up change in our

forcing a bottom-up change in our culture where individuals are having

culture where individuals are having

culture where individuals are having conversations and demonstrations

conversations and demonstrations

conversations and demonstrations throughout regional and Metro Australia

throughout regional and Metro Australia

throughout regional and Metro Australia about same-sex marriage and broadly the

about same-sex marriage and broadly the

about same-sex marriage and broadly the rights of LGBTI Kew people top-down

rights of LGBTI Kew people top-down

rights of LGBTI Kew people top-down decisions are necessary at times don’t

decisions are necessary at times don’t

decisions are necessary at times don’t get me wrong but genuine cultural

get me wrong but genuine cultural

get me wrong but genuine cultural acceptance comes from bottom up change

acceptance comes from bottom up change

acceptance comes from bottom up change where people sit in living rooms dining

where people sit in living rooms dining

where people sit in living rooms dining rooms sports clubs and at the pub to

rooms sports clubs and at the pub to

rooms sports clubs and at the pub to discuss and discover our shared values

discuss and discover our shared values

discuss and discover our shared values as a community and you can only create

as a community and you can only create

as a community and you can only create bottom-up change if the public is

bottom-up change if the public is

bottom-up change if the public is engaged and part

engaged and part

engaged and part dissipating only if there is high

dissipating only if there is high

dissipating only if there is high participation can you create bottom-up

participation can you create bottom-up

participation can you create bottom-up change there is objective evidence to

change there is objective evidence to

change there is objective evidence to the high participation rate in this

the high participation rate in this

the high participation rate in this campaign for a non-binding voluntary

campaign for a non-binding voluntary

campaign for a non-binding voluntary postal survey the ABS has released the

postal survey the ABS has released the

postal survey the ABS has released the most current estimates of voter turnout

most current estimates of voter turnout

most current estimates of voter turnout is seventy eight point five percent

is seventy eight point five percent

is seventy eight point five percent twelve point six million Australians

twelve point six million Australians

twelve point six million Australians have returned their survey this beats

have returned their survey this beats

have returned their survey this beats voter turnout for brexit for Trump and

voter turnout for brexit for Trump and

voter turnout for brexit for Trump and for the Ireland constitutional record

for the Ireland constitutional record

for the Ireland constitutional record referendum and when you consider

referendum and when you consider

referendum and when you consider Australian local government elections

Australian local government elections

Australian local government elections [Music]

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[Music] non-binding voluntary postal surveys

non-binding voluntary postal surveys

non-binding voluntary postal surveys over a multi week voting period voter

over a multi week voting period voter

over a multi week voting period voter turnout is estimated about twenty to

turnout is estimated about twenty to

turnout is estimated about twenty to thirty percent I have witnessed few

thirty percent I have witnessed few

thirty percent I have witnessed few examples of truly organic participation

examples of truly organic participation

examples of truly organic participation it simply defies my two rules of

it simply defies my two rules of

it simply defies my two rules of campaigning which are one no one cares

campaigning which are one no one cares

campaigning which are one no one cares about your issue and two everyone is

about your issue and two everyone is

about your issue and two everyone is lazy those are the barriers we have to

lazy those are the barriers we have to

lazy those are the barriers we have to overcome every single day on the

overcome every single day on the

overcome every single day on the campaign trail but not on this campaign

campaign trail but not on this campaign

campaign trail but not on this campaign people got active and were proactive

people got active and were proactive

people got active and were proactive about their engagement without being

about their engagement without being

about their engagement without being asked let me tell you about my friends

asked let me tell you about my friends

asked let me tell you about my friends younger brother

younger brother

younger brother this guy was typically apathetic didn’t

this guy was typically apathetic didn’t

this guy was typically apathetic didn’t give two shakes about politics or

give two shakes about politics or

give two shakes about politics or current affairs but when he discovered

current affairs but when he discovered

current affairs but when he discovered that all the surveys in his apartment

that all the surveys in his apartment

that all the surveys in his apartment building had been damaged and stolen he

building had been damaged and stolen he

building had been damaged and stolen he took it upon himself to a figure out how

took it upon himself to a figure out how

took it upon himself to a figure out how to replace a survey be replace them for

to replace a survey be replace them for

to replace a survey be replace them for every apartment in his building and see

every apartment in his building and see

every apartment in his building and see drafted up a note explaining what

drafted up a note explaining what

drafted up a note explaining what happened in the instructions on how to

happened in the instructions on how to

happened in the instructions on how to replace a survey he then took it one

replace a survey he then took it one

replace a survey he then took it one step further and posted those

step further and posted those

step further and posted those instructions up at his workplace that is

instructions up at his workplace that is

instructions up at his workplace that is an incredible amount of effort and

an incredible amount of effort and

an incredible amount of effort and initiative for someone to take without

initiative for someone to take without

initiative for someone to take without being asked

being asked

being asked bottom-up change occurs when individuals

bottom-up change occurs when individuals

bottom-up change occurs when individuals like this take it on it inspires them to

like this take it on it inspires them to

like this take it on it inspires them to identify solutions and to act so why was

identify solutions and to act so why was

identify solutions and to act so why was there such high participation well one

there such high participation well one

there such high participation well one reason is that LGBT IQ rights are a

reason is that LGBT IQ rights are a

reason is that LGBT IQ rights are a global issue

global issue

global issue it crosses class race gender age able

it crosses class race gender age able

it crosses class race gender age able Ness every single ISM that is unifying

Ness every single ISM that is unifying

Ness every single ISM that is unifying in itself the people from a variety of

in itself the people from a variety of

in itself the people from a variety of backgrounds share this common thread

backgrounds share this common thread

backgrounds share this common thread that global nature is overwhelming and

that global nature is overwhelming and

that global nature is overwhelming and that motivates people to act

that motivates people to act

that motivates people to act another reason is due to the simplicity

another reason is due to the simplicity

another reason is due to the simplicity the question should the law be change to

the question should the law be change to

the question should the law be change to allow same-sex couples to marry no major

allow same-sex couples to marry no major

allow same-sex couples to marry no major economic ramifications or complicated

economic ramifications or complicated

economic ramifications or complicated systems to consider just about marriage

systems to consider just about marriage

systems to consider just about marriage that inspired people to get active and

that inspired people to get active and

that inspired people to get active and take it on in a whole bunch of ways

take it on in a whole bunch of ways

take it on in a whole bunch of ways one example is businesses both large and

one example is businesses both large and

one example is businesses both large and small took it upon themselves to make a

small took it upon themselves to make a

small took it upon themselves to make a rainbow version of their logo or a

rainbow version of their logo or a

rainbow version of their logo or a clever slogan sports organizations like

clever slogan sports organizations like

clever slogan sports organizations like the Australian Football League and

the Australian Football League and

the Australian Football League and National Rugby League stood by their at

National Rugby League stood by their at

National Rugby League stood by their at support in the face of media and

support in the face of media and

support in the face of media and political backlash entire neighbourhoods

political backlash entire neighbourhoods

political backlash entire neighbourhoods gathered to paint a fence or chalk the

gathered to paint a fence or chalk the

gathered to paint a fence or chalk the sidewalk nurses and security guards wore

sidewalk nurses and security guards wore

sidewalk nurses and security guards wore badges to show their support while at

badges to show their support while at

badges to show their support while at work and most of this activity was not

work and most of this activity was not

work and most of this activity was not organized by the central campaign some

organized by the central campaign some

organized by the central campaign some said our campaign was leaderless lacking

said our campaign was leaderless lacking

said our campaign was leaderless lacking a single figurehead but that was its

a single figurehead but that was its

a single figurehead but that was its strength in the everyday people

strength in the everyday people

strength in the everyday people everywhere took it upon themselves to

everywhere took it upon themselves to

everywhere took it upon themselves to lead in their own way perhaps most

lead in their own way perhaps most

lead in their own way perhaps most surprising to me given my political

surprising to me given my political

surprising to me given my political background were the different political

background were the different political

background were the different political parties and ideologies that came

parties and ideologies that came

parties and ideologies that came together around this issue if our

together around this issue if our

together around this issue if our beliefs were a Venn diagram we would

beliefs were a Venn diagram we would

beliefs were a Venn diagram we would overlap on a very thin margin however

overlap on a very thin margin however

overlap on a very thin margin however this middle ground provide an

this middle ground provide an

this middle ground provide an opportunity for us to get to know one

opportunity for us to get to know one

opportunity for us to get to know one another on an individual level Sonia and

another on an individual level Sonia and

another on an individual level Sonia and Suzette were volunteers on the campaign

Suzette were volunteers on the campaign

Suzette were volunteers on the campaign one is a union organizer the other is a

one is a union organizer the other is a

one is a union organizer the other is a former Liberal Party staffer one was

former Liberal Party staffer one was

former Liberal Party staffer one was apprehensive about meeting her first

apprehensive about meeting her first

apprehensive about meeting her first liberal the other disliked unionists

liberal the other disliked unionists

liberal the other disliked unionists they come from the left and right of the

they come from the left and right of the

they come from the left and right of the political spectrum a highly unexpected

political spectrum a highly unexpected

political spectrum a highly unexpected friendship indeed through volunteering

friendship indeed through volunteering

friendship indeed through volunteering on this campaign they’ve developed an

on this campaign they’ve developed an

on this campaign they’ve developed an understanding and

understanding and

understanding and for each other’s work and respect for

for each other’s work and respect for

for each other’s work and respect for one another despite their political

one another despite their political

one another despite their political differences all these individuals and

differences all these individuals and

differences all these individuals and organizations got active and got engaged

organizations got active and got engaged

organizations got active and got engaged on their own so there are three reasons

on their own so there are three reasons

on their own so there are three reasons why high participation generates

why high participation generates

why high participation generates bottom-up change one is that when

bottom-up change one is that when

bottom-up change one is that when individuals campaign it is so pervasive

individuals campaign it is so pervasive

individuals campaign it is so pervasive everyone is talking about this issue in

everyone is talking about this issue in

everyone is talking about this issue in different spaces spaces where values

different spaces spaces where values

different spaces spaces where values based conversations like politics and

based conversations like politics and

based conversations like politics and religion are usually avoided these are

religion are usually avoided these are

religion are usually avoided these are new conversations to is that people

new conversations to is that people

new conversations to is that people share their personal story they’re

share their personal story they’re

share their personal story they’re having the tough conversations one by

having the tough conversations one by

having the tough conversations one by one through their personal network

one through their personal network

one through their personal network sharing stories and experiences changes

sharing stories and experiences changes

sharing stories and experiences changes the way people view an issue third is it

the way people view an issue third is it

the way people view an issue third is it because this is happening colleague to

because this is happening colleague to

because this is happening colleague to colleague friend to friend neighbor to

colleague friend to friend neighbor to

colleague friend to friend neighbor to neighbor we’re identifying our shared

neighbor we’re identifying our shared

neighbor we’re identifying our shared values identifying our shared values is

values identifying our shared values is

values identifying our shared values is so powerful because once we’ve decided

so powerful because once we’ve decided

so powerful because once we’ve decided on and named those values we can stand

on and named those values we can stand

on and named those values we can stand by them and fight for them proudly as a

by them and fight for them proudly as a

by them and fight for them proudly as a united community this conversation was

united community this conversation was

united community this conversation was not always respectful and the entire

not always respectful and the entire

not always respectful and the entire exercise caused enormous pain on the

exercise caused enormous pain on the

exercise caused enormous pain on the LGBT iq+ community asking any segments

LGBT iq+ community asking any segments

LGBT iq+ community asking any segments of society to vote going cap in hand to

of society to vote going cap in hand to

of society to vote going cap in hand to their neighbors asking for their dignity

their neighbors asking for their dignity

their neighbors asking for their dignity and self-worth is immensely painful this

and self-worth is immensely painful this

and self-worth is immensely painful this mechanism for decision making was

mechanism for decision making was

mechanism for decision making was unprecedented and was pushed to a public

unprecedented and was pushed to a public

unprecedented and was pushed to a public debate due to a failure of leadership in

debate due to a failure of leadership in

debate due to a failure of leadership in our representative democracy

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some even though we didn’t ask for this

some even though we didn’t ask for this win lose or draw we cannot deny that the

win lose or draw we cannot deny that the

win lose or draw we cannot deny that the bottom of change has occurred high

bottom of change has occurred high

bottom of change has occurred high participation and individual engagement

participation and individual engagement

participation and individual engagement drives activity into communities in

drives activity into communities in

drives activity into communities in unique and unexpected ways that forces

unique and unexpected ways that forces

unique and unexpected ways that forces new conversations conversations that

new conversations conversations that

new conversations conversations that share information and experiences which

share information and experiences which

share information and experiences which spreads understanding and empathy by

spreads understanding and empathy by

spreads understanding and empathy by having these conversations we identify

having these conversations we identify

having these conversations we identify our shared values and collective

our shared values and collective

our shared values and collective identity that creates change on an

identity that creates change on an

identity that creates change on an individual level from the bottom up

individual level from the bottom up

individual level from the bottom up thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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