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Getting everyone to play | Denise Chapman Weston | TEDxChristchurch


hi everyone it’s really nice to see you

hi everyone it’s really nice to see you all

all

all grab those red tags cause we’re going to

grab those red tags cause we’re going to

grab those red tags cause we’re going to be doing something with them I want you

be doing something with them I want you

be doing something with them I want you to take out some pens and I want you to

to take out some pens and I want you to

to take out some pens and I want you to remember when you were a child what was

remember when you were a child what was

remember when you were a child what was your most favorite thing to do when you

your most favorite thing to do when you

your most favorite thing to do when you were little I remember the room you in

were little I remember the room you in

were little I remember the room you in remember the friends you used to play

remember the friends you used to play

remember the friends you used to play with remember I used to do in your

with remember I used to do in your

with remember I used to do in your privacy and with socially what was it

privacy and with socially what was it

privacy and with socially what was it swings blocks gardening Legos games

swings blocks gardening Legos games

swings blocks gardening Legos games video games write them down on the red

video games write them down on the red

video games write them down on the red write them all down everything you can

write them all down everything you can

write them all down everything you can remember just go back a couple years

remember just go back a couple years

remember just go back a couple years when you were little go back to that

when you were little go back to that

when you were little go back to that place where you would remember all those

place where you would remember all those

place where you would remember all those things you absolutely cherish doing I

things you absolutely cherish doing I

things you absolutely cherish doing I know it was a while ago but bring them

know it was a while ago but bring them

know it was a while ago but bring them all back they’re important they’re

all back they’re important they’re

all back they’re important they’re memorable they shape you don’t forget

memorable they shape you don’t forget

memorable they shape you don’t forget them and write them all down you’re

them and write them all down you’re

them and write them all down you’re gonna need them on your red sheet

gonna need them on your red sheet

gonna need them on your red sheet because you’re gonna need them later

because you’re gonna need them later

because you’re gonna need them later look at that list isn’t that amazing

look at that list isn’t that amazing

look at that list isn’t that amazing when you start thinking about all the

when you start thinking about all the

when you start thinking about all the things you used to do you were little

things you used to do you were little

things you used to do you were little when I was little I like to dress up I

when I was little I like to dress up I

when I was little I like to dress up I like to dress up my dog my brother I

like to dress up my dog my brother I

like to dress up my dog my brother I like to dress up with my friends and go

like to dress up with my friends and go

like to dress up with my friends and go dancing I love to dress up with spoons

dancing I love to dress up with spoons

dancing I love to dress up with spoons on my nose for some reason and I love

on my nose for some reason and I love

on my nose for some reason and I love dressing up with my father who is a

dressing up with my father who is a

dressing up with my father who is a Shriner clown we used to go to parades

Shriner clown we used to go to parades

Shriner clown we used to go to parades together and that yeah was my childhood

together and that yeah was my childhood

together and that yeah was my childhood but my most favorite thing to do was to

but my most favorite thing to do was to

but my most favorite thing to do was to get up on my bed and look across at my

get up on my bed and look across at my

get up on my bed and look across at my barrel get all dressed up and then I

barrel get all dressed up and then I

barrel get all dressed up and then I would go to these magnificent places of

would go to these magnificent places of

would go to these magnificent places of make-believe in the mirror of my

make-believe in the mirror of my

make-believe in the mirror of my imagination it was so awesome I could go

imagination it was so awesome I could go

imagination it was so awesome I could go to under the sea I could go to castles I

to under the sea I could go to castles I

to under the sea I could go to castles I could go to doorways that led somewhere

could go to doorways that led somewhere

could go to doorways that led somewhere new I loved to play in that mirror and

new I loved to play in that mirror and

new I loved to play in that mirror and imagine all the wonderful places I could

imagine all the wonderful places I could

imagine all the wonderful places I could go and then somewhere around 7 years old

go and then somewhere around 7 years old

go and then somewhere around 7 years old it started

it started

it started change because like I felt that Paul I

change because like I felt that Paul I

change because like I felt that Paul I had to grow up and I had a lick go of

had to grow up and I had a lick go of

had to grow up and I had a lick go of all that play that I used to do when I

all that play that I used to do when I

all that play that I used to do when I was little I didn’t want to I mean I

was little I didn’t want to I mean I

was little I didn’t want to I mean I could grow up that’s okay but I didn’t

could grow up that’s okay but I didn’t

could grow up that’s okay but I didn’t want to stop playing so I thought to

want to stop playing so I thought to

want to stop playing so I thought to myself what if I made myself a promise

myself what if I made myself a promise

myself what if I made myself a promise and I never stopped playing heck yeah I

and I never stopped playing heck yeah I

and I never stopped playing heck yeah I could do that because you know what

could do that because you know what

could do that because you know what isn’t that just as important as water

isn’t that just as important as water

isn’t that just as important as water and food and shelter why did it become a

and food and shelter why did it become a

and food and shelter why did it become a rule what’s this silly thing about that

rule what’s this silly thing about that

rule what’s this silly thing about that why did we have to stop playing I don’t

why did we have to stop playing I don’t

why did we have to stop playing I don’t remember what that’s about

remember what that’s about

remember what that’s about but it wasn’t wrong we had to let go of

but it wasn’t wrong we had to let go of

but it wasn’t wrong we had to let go of it and I didn’t think that was right

it and I didn’t think that was right

it and I didn’t think that was right because the possibilities of what you

because the possibilities of what you

because the possibilities of what you can do when you actually allow your play

can do when you actually allow your play

can do when you actually allow your play to continue how they all mix it together

to continue how they all mix it together

to continue how they all mix it together how you problem-solve all the time it

how you problem-solve all the time it

how you problem-solve all the time it was magnificent to still be playing I

was magnificent to still be playing I

was magnificent to still be playing I mean I was a teenager standing up on

mean I was a teenager standing up on

mean I was a teenager standing up on that bed still imagining all these

that bed still imagining all these

that bed still imagining all these worlds I could create but that was

worlds I could create but that was

worlds I could create but that was pretty easy for me because I’m a wacko

pretty easy for me because I’m a wacko

pretty easy for me because I’m a wacko I’m a certified weirdo and I’m an

I’m a certified weirdo and I’m an

I’m a certified weirdo and I’m an absolute complete letting my freak flag

absolute complete letting my freak flag

absolute complete letting my freak flag fly it’s not hard so how big of a deal

fly it’s not hard so how big of a deal

fly it’s not hard so how big of a deal was that for me to actually literally

was that for me to actually literally

was that for me to actually literally keep playing so I said I have to make a

keep playing so I said I have to make a

keep playing so I said I have to make a bigger promise and that bigger promise

bigger promise and that bigger promise

bigger promise and that bigger promise was dear everyone never stop playing so

was dear everyone never stop playing so

was dear everyone never stop playing so what that meant is I had to take what I

what that meant is I had to take what I

what that meant is I had to take what I made the promise to myself to do and try

made the promise to myself to do and try

made the promise to myself to do and try to bring that to all of you everyone

to bring that to all of you everyone

to bring that to all of you everyone everyone run the roll how was I gonna

everyone run the roll how was I gonna

everyone run the roll how was I gonna find out how to make sure that they

find out how to make sure that they

find out how to make sure that they never stopped playing never stop playing

never stopped playing never stop playing

never stopped playing never stop playing so I became a play ologist

so I became a play ologist

so I became a play ologist so I studied went to graduate school got

so I studied went to graduate school got

so I studied went to graduate school got a degree started clinical therapy worked

a degree started clinical therapy worked

a degree started clinical therapy worked with families and play I actually was a

with families and play I actually was a

with families and play I actually was a trained therapist for deaf children and

trained therapist for deaf children and

trained therapist for deaf children and their families learned sign

their families learned sign

their families learned sign which as I was growing up and able to

which as I was growing up and able to

which as I was growing up and able to treat them in therapy communication was

treat them in therapy communication was

treat them in therapy communication was different they used signs

different they used signs

different they used signs I used play then I started writing books

I used play then I started writing books

I used play then I started writing books about it those books were about teaching

about it those books were about teaching

about it those books were about teaching parents how to use play with their kids

parents how to use play with their kids

parents how to use play with their kids to solve problems and then I thought not

to solve problems and then I thought not

to solve problems and then I thought not big enough not enough families not

big enough not enough families not

big enough not enough families not enough so I started inventing and what

enough so I started inventing and what

enough so I started inventing and what were those inventions about they were

were those inventions about they were

were those inventions about they were about trying to take lots of families

about trying to take lots of families

about trying to take lots of families now using what I knew would the human

now using what I knew would the human

now using what I knew would the human behavior how to get people to play and

behavior how to get people to play and

behavior how to get people to play and bringing that into really big play

bringing that into really big play

bringing that into really big play things like the size of theme parks oh

things like the size of theme parks oh

things like the size of theme parks oh my goodness

my goodness

my goodness could I get lots of people to start

could I get lots of people to start

could I get lots of people to start playing you betcha

playing you betcha

playing you betcha take big buckets of water and dump on my

take big buckets of water and dump on my

take big buckets of water and dump on my head – no matter what our cannons climb

head – no matter what our cannons climb

head – no matter what our cannons climb up all kinds of tree house literally

up all kinds of tree house literally

up all kinds of tree house literally look at them play ah what else could I

look at them play ah what else could I

look at them play ah what else could I do work with my team and we invented

do work with my team and we invented

do work with my team and we invented 20,000 foam balls in a room with

20,000 foam balls in a room with

20,000 foam balls in a room with blasters and dumping them on their heads

blasters and dumping them on their heads

blasters and dumping them on their heads and falling and throwing them at each

and falling and throwing them at each

and falling and throwing them at each other and sucking my vacuums and

other and sucking my vacuums and

other and sucking my vacuums and distributing them all over the place and

distributing them all over the place and

distributing them all over the place and it was a lot of great fun and then

it was a lot of great fun and then

it was a lot of great fun and then around 25 years ago as my children were

around 25 years ago as my children were

around 25 years ago as my children were growing up I saw there was something

growing up I saw there was something

growing up I saw there was something else coming into play with us and that

else coming into play with us and that

else coming into play with us and that was technology no technology

was technology no technology

was technology no technology my name’s you definitely can steal the

my name’s you definitely can steal the

my name’s you definitely can steal the big play away but I didn’t look at it

big play away but I didn’t look at it

big play away but I didn’t look at it like that I looked at it like could it

like that I looked at it like could it

like that I looked at it like could it be magic like behind the curtain like

be magic like behind the curtain like

be magic like behind the curtain like you didn’t know what was going on and

you didn’t know what was going on and

you didn’t know what was going on and sort of sneak play in there using that

sort of sneak play in there using that

sort of sneak play in there using that technology so it wasn’t literally and

technology so it wasn’t literally and

technology so it wasn’t literally and the disadvantage to me but it taught me

the disadvantage to me but it taught me

the disadvantage to me but it taught me a lot about invention so I started

a lot about invention so I started

a lot about invention so I started inventing ways to take that kind of play

inventing ways to take that kind of play

inventing ways to take that kind of play like video games and bring them to life

like video games and bring them to life

like video games and bring them to life like an entire 20 thousand square foot

like an entire 20 thousand square foot

like an entire 20 thousand square foot building with castles and trees and tree

building with castles and trees and tree

building with castles and trees and tree houses and goblins and Dragons and you

houses and goblins and Dragons and you

houses and goblins and Dragons and you had this a magic wand it really works

had this a magic wand it really works

had this a magic wand it really works this there’s five million of these now

this there’s five million of these now

this there’s five million of these now in the world and eighteen of these

in the world and eighteen of these

in the world and eighteen of these spread across the world as well

spread across the world as well

spread across the world as well and what it really is is a video game

and what it really is is a video game

and what it really is is a video game come to life you can wave the man

come to life you can wave the man

come to life you can wave the man – quand and it will know who you are at

– quand and it will know who you are at

– quand and it will know who you are at track C through play and then it

track C through play and then it

track C through play and then it literally brings it all to life with

literally brings it all to life with

literally brings it all to life with treasure chest opening you go on quests

treasure chest opening you go on quests

treasure chest opening you go on quests and adventures like Dungeons & Dragons

and adventures like Dungeons & Dragons

and adventures like Dungeons & Dragons like world of warcraft come to life huh

like world of warcraft come to life huh

like world of warcraft come to life huh cool right and you keep this one and it

cool right and you keep this one and it

cool right and you keep this one and it never forgets – you just keep playing

never forgets – you just keep playing

never forgets – you just keep playing the whole time and it always comes back

the whole time and it always comes back

the whole time and it always comes back to how you play these are the magic

to how you play these are the magic

to how you play these are the magic West’s that are all over the world today

West’s that are all over the world today

West’s that are all over the world today and they literally spread through

and they literally spread through

and they literally spread through hallways and resorts and you never ever

hallways and resorts and you never ever

hallways and resorts and you never ever are forgotten I did it in waterpark

are forgotten I did it in waterpark

are forgotten I did it in waterpark slides – so you would go down the

slides – so you would go down the

slides – so you would go down the waterpark slide you go over there lights

waterpark slide you go over there lights

waterpark slide you go over there lights were overhead you have buttons on your

were overhead you have buttons on your

were overhead you have buttons on your handles you you press the button who’s

handles you you press the button who’s

handles you you press the button who’s going down you have to make sure it

going down you have to make sure it

going down you have to make sure it matches with the spy lights and you get

matches with the spy lights and you get

matches with the spy lights and you get backed on the bottom you get a score and

backed on the bottom you get a score and

backed on the bottom you get a score and then if you went home you could still do

then if you went home you could still do

then if you went home you could still do your virtual play like get your fix and

your virtual play like get your fix and

your virtual play like get your fix and we did it with magic West – but what

we did it with magic West – but what

we did it with magic West – but what would happen is the really really really

would happen is the really really really

would happen is the really really really big play like literally wasn’t on that

big play like literally wasn’t on that

big play like literally wasn’t on that virtual device it was in the big place

virtual device it was in the big place

virtual device it was in the big place where all the families were playing

where all the families were playing

where all the families were playing together yeah I still wasn’t good enough

together yeah I still wasn’t good enough

together yeah I still wasn’t good enough so we have that guy he’s already the

so we have that guy he’s already the

so we have that guy he’s already the playwright but who I really want is that

playwright but who I really want is that

playwright but who I really want is that dude he is my next victim

dude he is my next victim

dude he is my next victim he is the arm wrestler there are the

he is the arm wrestler there are the

he is the arm wrestler there are the ones that are kind of leaning in and

ones that are kind of leaning in and

ones that are kind of leaning in and leaning out like maybe I’m gonna do this

leaning out like maybe I’m gonna do this

leaning out like maybe I’m gonna do this and maybe I’m not and I had to think

and maybe I’m not and I had to think

and maybe I’m not and I had to think really hard use my play behavior on

really hard use my play behavior on

really hard use my play behavior on understanding of how I was gonna get

understanding of how I was gonna get

understanding of how I was gonna get them to play cuz they’re really who I’m

them to play cuz they’re really who I’m

them to play cuz they’re really who I’m after cuz remember these guys are kind

after cuz remember these guys are kind

after cuz remember these guys are kind of giving in to it he not so much so

of giving in to it he not so much so

of giving in to it he not so much so let’s take the foam Factory 25 years ago

let’s take the foam Factory 25 years ago

let’s take the foam Factory 25 years ago one of the coolest things about this is

one of the coolest things about this is

one of the coolest things about this is we used to do tests our teams used to

we used to do tests our teams used to

we used to do tests our teams used to bring them in build like a fake one and

bring them in build like a fake one and

bring them in build like a fake one and they all come in and we tried to see how

they all come in and we tried to see how

they all come in and we tried to see how it works so in came the girls the boys

it works so in came the girls the boys

it works so in came the girls the boys everyone’s running around the boys would

everyone’s running around the boys would

everyone’s running around the boys would go in and put like one ball at a time

go in and put like one ball at a time

go in and put like one ball at a time they go in and they put the ball on the

they go in and they put the ball on the

they go in and they put the ball on the shooter boom then go get another one

shooter boom then go get another one

shooter boom then go get another one boom then the girls they take their

boom then the girls they take their

boom then the girls they take their shirts out stuff the balls in run up to

shirts out stuff the balls in run up to

shirts out stuff the balls in run up to the blaster buh-buh-buh-buh-buh boom

the blaster buh-buh-buh-buh-buh boom

the blaster buh-buh-buh-buh-buh boom male the boys completely hunters and

male the boys completely hunters and

male the boys completely hunters and gatherers then I take those hunters and

gatherers then I take those hunters and

gatherers then I take those hunters and gathers and I thought hmm that’s how I’m

gathers and I thought hmm that’s how I’m

gathers and I thought hmm that’s how I’m gonna solve the problem so in walks the

gonna solve the problem so in walks the

gonna solve the problem so in walks the unpress lair the mom looking at this

unpress lair the mom looking at this

unpress lair the mom looking at this blaster Rena going gun play what’s going

blaster Rena going gun play what’s going

blaster Rena going gun play what’s going on I can’t connect I don’t know how so I

on I can’t connect I don’t know how so I

on I can’t connect I don’t know how so I take it and I give her a bag I said go

take it and I give her a bag I said go

take it and I give her a bag I said go get those balls and she would unfold her

get those balls and she would unfold her

get those balls and she would unfold her arms and she would grab that bag and

arms and she would grab that bag and

arms and she would grab that bag and she’d start loading up the balls and she

she’d start loading up the balls and she

she’d start loading up the balls and she start feeling kind of comfortable and

start feeling kind of comfortable and

start feeling kind of comfortable and she’d go after the blasters and then 20

she’d go after the blasters and then 20

she’d go after the blasters and then 20 minutes later she was vicious she was

minutes later she was vicious she was

minutes later she was vicious she was all over up boom I gave her play

all over up boom I gave her play

all over up boom I gave her play permission to participate I gave her

permission to participate I gave her

permission to participate I gave her something she knew how to do together to

something she knew how to do together to

something she knew how to do together to get her connected to that playful Cygnus

get her connected to that playful Cygnus

get her connected to that playful Cygnus and herself she was absolutely hanging

and herself she was absolutely hanging

and herself she was absolutely hanging out with those balls and making it

out with those balls and making it

out with those balls and making it happen now next magic West oh wait let

happen now next magic West oh wait let

happen now next magic West oh wait let me show you watch how it’s done

me show you watch how it’s done

me show you watch how it’s done I love that and I love how much that got

I love that and I love how much that got

I love that and I love how much that got everyone to play match request yeah yeah

everyone to play match request yeah yeah

everyone to play match request yeah yeah yeah yeah I’m able to their this I’m

yeah yeah I’m able to their this I’m

yeah yeah I’m able to their this I’m able to get people to play with magic

able to get people to play with magic

able to get people to play with magic wands it’s kind of easy my kids you’re

wands it’s kind of easy my kids you’re

wands it’s kind of easy my kids you’re gonna get two today you’re gonna fight

gonna get two today you’re gonna fight

gonna get two today you’re gonna fight dragons you’re in but Jesse yeah not so

dragons you’re in but Jesse yeah not so

dragons you’re in but Jesse yeah not so much this guy dad grandpa how was I

much this guy dad grandpa how was I

much this guy dad grandpa how was I gonna get them to play I was I’m gonna

gonna get them to play I was I’m gonna

gonna get them to play I was I’m gonna get them to wanna magic wand and play

get them to wanna magic wand and play

get them to wanna magic wand and play just like the rest of the kids so it was

just like the rest of the kids so it was

just like the rest of the kids so it was the ancient book of wisdom Muk Chi book

the ancient book of wisdom Muk Chi book

the ancient book of wisdom Muk Chi book I give it to the parents to the

I give it to the parents to the

I give it to the parents to the grandparents that had all the places all

grandparents that had all the places all

grandparents that had all the places all the secrets in it and then the kids

the secrets in it and then the kids

the secrets in it and then the kids would go back to the parents and they

would go back to the parents and they

would go back to the parents and they would ask for the clues and then the

would ask for the clues and then the

would ask for the clues and then the parents would go back and they’re like I

parents would go back and they’re like I

parents would go back and they’re like I get it it’s not hard as a videogame but

get it it’s not hard as a videogame but

get it it’s not hard as a videogame but I know how to play and they go by a

I know how to play and they go by a

I know how to play and they go by a magic wand like half of those magic

magic wand like half of those magic

magic wand like half of those magic wands that were sold are from parents

wands that were sold are from parents

wands that were sold are from parents that would buy it so I really enjoyed

that would buy it so I really enjoyed

that would buy it so I really enjoyed that until this one moment when I really

that until this one moment when I really

that until this one moment when I really knew that I accomplished my goal it was

knew that I accomplished my goal it was

knew that I accomplished my goal it was when standing out of magic quest and saw

when standing out of magic quest and saw

when standing out of magic quest and saw a family come up they all had once the

a family come up they all had once the

a family come up they all had once the father’s grandparents everybody in this

father’s grandparents everybody in this

father’s grandparents everybody in this guy he walks up to that lamppost and he

guy he walks up to that lamppost and he

guy he walks up to that lamppost and he waves his magic wand to light it up the

waves his magic wand to light it up the

waves his magic wand to light it up the technology is back in the building it’s

technology is back in the building it’s

technology is back in the building it’s not yeah it’s not lighting folks it’s

not yeah it’s not lighting folks it’s

not yeah it’s not lighting folks it’s done I was in heaven

done I was in heaven

done I was in heaven guess who he thought he was

guess who he thought he was

guess who he thought he was look what happened he’s a little boy

look what happened he’s a little boy

look what happened he’s a little boy again he’s a man with magic it really

again he’s a man with magic it really

again he’s a man with magic it really worked so what if we did this around the

worked so what if we did this around the

worked so what if we did this around the world

world

world what if our sandbox the US UN what if we

what if our sandbox the US UN what if we

what if our sandbox the US UN what if we bought play in to solve big problems

bought play in to solve big problems

bought play in to solve big problems what if we use skills and we thought

what if we use skills and we thought

what if we use skills and we thought about how we play useless things on your

about how we play useless things on your

about how we play useless things on your red tags to actually bring world change

red tags to actually bring world change

red tags to actually bring world change climate change problems solve through

climate change problems solve through

climate change problems solve through play it doesn’t have to stop we might

play it doesn’t have to stop we might

play it doesn’t have to stop we might find the answers we could do something

find the answers we could do something

find the answers we could do something big so I want you all to take your

big so I want you all to take your

big so I want you all to take your fingers like this

fingers like this

fingers like this and I want you to look at me with that

and I want you to look at me with that

and I want you to look at me with that Stern look like I did when I was a

Stern look like I did when I was a

Stern look like I did when I was a little girl and I want you to say it

little girl and I want you to say it

little girl and I want you to say it with me never stop play thank you very

with me never stop play thank you very

with me never stop play thank you very much

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