what is he doing on that phone how many of you have asked that same very
of you have asked that same very
of you have asked that same very question to the teens in your life what
question to the teens in your life what
question to the teens in your life what the heck are they doing on that phone
good evening my name is detective rich
good evening my name is detective rich Misaki I’ve been a police officer for 30
Misaki I’ve been a police officer for 30
Misaki I’ve been a police officer for 30 years my last 22 years with the city of
years my last 22 years with the city of
years my last 22 years with the city of Naperville investigating computer crime
Naperville investigating computer crime
Naperville investigating computer crime and protecting children online I’m about
and protecting children online I’m about
and protecting children online I’m about to say something that may upset you if
to say something that may upset you if
to say something that may upset you if you want to get up and leave or turn off
you want to get up and leave or turn off
you want to get up and leave or turn off this program I get it but it takes
this program I get it but it takes
this program I get it but it takes someone like me to tell it to you to
someone like me to tell it to you to
someone like me to tell it to you to your faces what’s going on and here it
your faces what’s going on and here it
your faces what’s going on and here it is all of you here tonight are
is all of you here tonight are
is all of you here tonight are responsible for your children I’m sorry
responsible for your children I’m sorry
responsible for your children I’m sorry I just have set you but it’s true you
I just have set you but it’s true you
I just have set you but it’s true you see you’re not only responsible for your
see you’re not only responsible for your
see you’re not only responsible for your children with their food clothing
children with their food clothing
children with their food clothing shelter and education you are
shelter and education you are
shelter and education you are responsible for their technology as well
responsible for their technology as well
responsible for their technology as well because if you’re not checking their
because if you’re not checking their
because if you’re not checking their roblox their minecraft their musically
roblox their minecraft their musically
roblox their minecraft their musically their snapchat their Instagram if you’re
their snapchat their Instagram if you’re
their snapchat their Instagram if you’re not checking contacts monitoring
not checking contacts monitoring
not checking contacts monitoring remotely having the technology talk with
remotely having the technology talk with
remotely having the technology talk with them somebody else will be is that what
them somebody else will be is that what
them somebody else will be is that what you want you see ladies and gentlemen
you want you see ladies and gentlemen
you want you see ladies and gentlemen when we give our children at the ripe
when we give our children at the ripe
when we give our children at the ripe old age of 11 this ominous device it’s
old age of 11 this ominous device it’s
old age of 11 this ominous device it’s like giving them the keys to your
like giving them the keys to your
like giving them the keys to your brand-new Mercedes and going sweetheart
brand-new Mercedes and going sweetheart
brand-new Mercedes and going sweetheart you can go to Vegas you can go to
you can go to Vegas you can go to
you can go to Vegas you can go to Florida go to New York wherever you want
Florida go to New York wherever you want
Florida go to New York wherever you want to go and when you come back mommy and
to go and when you come back mommy and
to go and when you come back mommy and daddy will fill that tank up and you can
daddy will fill that tank up and you can
daddy will fill that tank up and you can just go again but just don’t tell us if
just go again but just don’t tell us if
just go again but just don’t tell us if you did anything wrong
you did anything wrong
you did anything wrong because you never would do that what you
because you never would do that what you
because you never would do that what you sweetheart no mom you see ladies and
sweetheart no mom you see ladies and
sweetheart no mom you see ladies and gentlemen when we talk about what we are
gentlemen when we talk about what we are
gentlemen when we talk about what we are responsible for I travel all over the
responsible for I travel all over the
responsible for I travel all over the United States teaching in schools when I
United States teaching in schools when I
United States teaching in schools when I teach my students I talked to them about
teach my students I talked to them about
teach my students I talked to them about their contacts we talked about
their contacts we talked about
their contacts we talked about verification that they have to know
verification that they have to know
verification that they have to know before they release any personal
before they release any personal
before they release any personal information five things first-name
information five things first-name
information five things first-name lastname where they go to school their
lastname where they go to school their
lastname where they go to school their phone number and where they live if you
phone number and where they live if you
phone number and where they live if you can’t physically verify what those
can’t physically verify what those
can’t physically verify what those things are like Jimmy and my gym class
things are like Jimmy and my gym class
things are like Jimmy and my gym class lives there Sarah my soccer team lives
lives there Sarah my soccer team lives
lives there Sarah my soccer team lives there and she placed her that team
there and she placed her that team
there and she placed her that team that’s a verification I tell them that
that’s a verification I tell them that
that’s a verification I tell them that everyone else online is a liar that is
everyone else online is a liar that is
everyone else online is a liar that is your base when you’re traversing online
so let’s talk about how you talk to your
so let’s talk about how you talk to your kids what is your current technology
kids what is your current technology
kids what is your current technology talk to your kids does it go something
talk to your kids does it go something
talk to your kids does it go something like this if you take bad pictures if
like this if you take bad pictures if
like this if you take bad pictures if you take bad video if you tell people
you take bad video if you tell people
you take bad video if you tell people where we live you’re gonna be grounded
where we live you’re gonna be grounded
where we live you’re gonna be grounded I’m gonna take your phone away you’re
I’m gonna take your phone away you’re
I’m gonna take your phone away you’re not gonna see the light day you’re not
not gonna see the light day you’re not
not gonna see the light day you’re not gonna go out your friend in the door is
gonna go out your friend in the door is
gonna go out your friend in the door is gonna come off the hinges of your
gonna come off the hinges of your
gonna come off the hinges of your bedroom if you do that how many of
bedroom if you do that how many of
bedroom if you do that how many of you’ve done that yeah I see some hands
you’ve done that yeah I see some hands
you’ve done that yeah I see some hands out there well when you do that are your
out there well when you do that are your
out there well when you do that are your kids going to come to you no they won’t
kids going to come to you no they won’t
kids going to come to you no they won’t so when you have this technology talk
so when you have this technology talk
so when you have this technology talk with your kids I’m gonna show you what
with your kids I’m gonna show you what
with your kids I’m gonna show you what that should look like but first we have
that should look like but first we have
that should look like but first we have to concentrate on one simple
to concentrate on one simple
to concentrate on one simple foundational premise of the technology
foundational premise of the technology
foundational premise of the technology talk on what you are responsible for
talk on what you are responsible for
talk on what you are responsible for your kids there is no such thing as
your kids there is no such thing as
your kids there is no such thing as privacy for children can I get an amen
privacy for children can I get an amen
privacy for children can I get an amen yes
yes
yes that you are responsible for your kids
that you are responsible for your kids
that you are responsible for your kids because you buy them device I don’t care
because you buy them device I don’t care
because you buy them device I don’t care if nononono grandpa grandpa TI t you
if nononono grandpa grandpa TI t you
if nononono grandpa grandpa TI t you bought him that device they don’t own it
bought him that device they don’t own it
bought him that device they don’t own it you allow them to have it they own
you allow them to have it they own
you allow them to have it they own nothing because you’re responsible so
nothing because you’re responsible so
nothing because you’re responsible so when we talk about this technology talk
when we talk about this technology talk
when we talk about this technology talk I talked to parents something about
I talked to parents something about
I talked to parents something about called the golden ticket what the golden
called the golden ticket what the golden
called the golden ticket what the golden ticket says is that you’re gonna sit
ticket says is that you’re gonna sit
ticket says is that you’re gonna sit down with your kids and have that
down with your kids and have that
down with your kids and have that technology talk you’re gonna go through
technology talk you’re gonna go through
technology talk you’re gonna go through their context you’re gonna monitor
their context you’re gonna monitor
their context you’re gonna monitor remotely and you’re gonna sit down with
remotely and you’re gonna sit down with
remotely and you’re gonna sit down with them and say I’m I saw this guy speaking
them and say I’m I saw this guy speaking
them and say I’m I saw this guy speaking at the school the other day I had no
at the school the other day I had no
at the school the other day I had no idea what was going on I’m your social
idea what was going on I’m your social
idea what was going on I’m your social media listen I know Mom and Dad were
media listen I know Mom and Dad were
media listen I know Mom and Dad were going like this to you but none of that
going like this to you but none of that
going like this to you but none of that if you come to us and if you feel like
if you come to us and if you feel like
if you come to us and if you feel like someone’s making you do something you
someone’s making you do something you
someone’s making you do something you don’t want to do or somebody making you
don’t want to do or somebody making you
don’t want to do or somebody making you feel bad about yourself you need to come
feel bad about yourself you need to come
feel bad about yourself you need to come to us if you come to us we’re gonna give
to us if you come to us we’re gonna give
to us if you come to us we’re gonna give you that golden ticket and that golden
you that golden ticket and that golden
you that golden ticket and that golden ticket means that we’re not going to
ticket means that we’re not going to
ticket means that we’re not going to give you consequences we’re not gonna
give you consequences we’re not gonna
give you consequences we’re not gonna ground you you’re not gonna lose your
ground you you’re not gonna lose your
ground you you’re not gonna lose your phone you’re not we’re not gonna keep
phone you’re not we’re not gonna keep
phone you’re not we’re not gonna keep you from your friends because leaves and
you from your friends because leaves and
you from your friends because leaves and gentlemen the average internet predator
gentlemen the average internet predator
gentlemen the average internet predator has 250 victims in their lifetime
has 250 victims in their lifetime
has 250 victims in their lifetime 250 and odds are if they’re doing
250 and odds are if they’re doing
250 and odds are if they’re doing something bad to your kid they’re doing
something bad to your kid they’re doing
something bad to your kid they’re doing it to 20 30 others at the same time
so the technology talk is so important
so the technology talk is so important I’ve got another question for you how
I’ve got another question for you how
I’ve got another question for you how many of you allow your children to
many of you allow your children to
many of you allow your children to charge their devices in their rooms at
charge their devices in their rooms at
charge their devices in their rooms at night the common denominator in all my
night the common denominator in all my
night the common denominator in all my sextortion Child Exploitation cases is
sextortion Child Exploitation cases is
sextortion Child Exploitation cases is that when the parent allows that you to
that when the parent allows that you to
that when the parent allows that you to chart them to charge their devices in
chart them to charge their devices in
chart them to charge their devices in their rooms at night you’re sleeping
their rooms at night you’re sleeping
their rooms at night you’re sleeping they shut the door so you can’t hear
they shut the door so you can’t hear
they shut the door so you can’t hear them it’s not a matter of talking it’s
them it’s not a matter of talking it’s
them it’s not a matter of talking it’s typing reading and performing with apps
typing reading and performing with apps
typing reading and performing with apps like the Chromebook they get from school
like the Chromebook they get from school
like the Chromebook they get from school going in again Google Hangouts
going in again Google Hangouts
going in again Google Hangouts Ovoo omegle Skype house party these are
Ovoo omegle Skype house party these are
Ovoo omegle Skype house party these are video chat sites that our kids are using
video chat sites that our kids are using
video chat sites that our kids are using and there are two to six people in that
and there are two to six people in that
and there are two to six people in that chat room while they’re in their bedroom
chat room while they’re in their bedroom
chat room while they’re in their bedroom remember when we used to play
remember when we used to play
remember when we used to play spin-the-bottle on truth or dare
spin-the-bottle on truth or dare
spin-the-bottle on truth or dare somebody’s basement the park wherever
somebody’s basement the park wherever
somebody’s basement the park wherever and we were kids well our kids are
and we were kids well our kids are
and we were kids well our kids are playing truth or dare you know where
playing truth or dare you know where
playing truth or dare you know where they’re playing it on their devices in
they’re playing it on their devices in
they’re playing it on their devices in their rooms at night so when the people
their rooms at night so when the people
their rooms at night so when the people in the room it’s your kids turn for the
in the room it’s your kids turn for the
in the room it’s your kids turn for the dare we dare you to flash us okay no big
dare we dare you to flash us okay no big
dare we dare you to flash us okay no big deal haha three days later that person
deal haha three days later that person
deal haha three days later that person who was in the room who did a screen
who was in the room who did a screen
who was in the room who did a screen capture of what your son or daughter
capture of what your son or daughter
capture of what your son or daughter just did hey how do you like your new
just did hey how do you like your new
just did hey how do you like your new Instagram account without you flash and
Instagram account without you flash and
Instagram account without you flash and everybody if you don’t give me pictures
everybody if you don’t give me pictures
everybody if you don’t give me pictures and videos every week when I want them
and videos every week when I want them
and videos every week when I want them this is going out to your entire class
this is going out to your entire class
this is going out to your entire class this is gonna go out to everybody you
this is gonna go out to everybody you
this is gonna go out to everybody you know in your family if you don’t give me
know in your family if you don’t give me
know in your family if you don’t give me the picture and the videos that I want
the picture and the videos that I want
the picture and the videos that I want and what your can I can say oh my god I
and what your can I can say oh my god I
and what your can I can say oh my god I can’t believe it
can’t believe it
can’t believe it what do I get you I had to go my parents
what do I get you I had to go my parents
what do I get you I had to go my parents if I go to my parents you’re gonna be
if I go to my parents you’re gonna be
if I go to my parents you’re gonna be grounded we’re gonna take your phone
grounded we’re gonna take your phone
grounded we’re gonna take your phone away you’re not gonna see the light day
away you’re not gonna see the light day
away you’re not gonna see the light day I don’t want to be grounded I wanna lose
I don’t want to be grounded I wanna lose
I don’t want to be grounded I wanna lose my
my
my I want any um I want to pierce myself
I want any um I want to pierce myself
I want any um I want to pierce myself it’s only one picture it’s only one
it’s only one picture it’s only one
it’s only one picture it’s only one video I’ll just take the video it’s
video I’ll just take the video it’s
video I’ll just take the video it’s never one picture it’s never one video
never one picture it’s never one video
never one picture it’s never one video it’ll continue continue continue till
it’ll continue continue continue till
it’ll continue continue continue till your kids cannot handle it anymore the
your kids cannot handle it anymore the
your kids cannot handle it anymore the national senator missing Exploited
national senator missing Exploited
national senator missing Exploited Children ladies and gentlemen has
Children ladies and gentlemen has
Children ladies and gentlemen has created a fantastic PSA and what I’ve
created a fantastic PSA and what I’ve
created a fantastic PSA and what I’ve just described for you is the new
just described for you is the new
just described for you is the new phenomenon and a crime called sextortion
phenomenon and a crime called sextortion
phenomenon and a crime called sextortion exactly
exactly
exactly here’s another video for my special guy
here’s another video for my special guy
here’s another video for my special guy I can’t believe we haven’t talked all
I can’t believe we haven’t talked all
I can’t believe we haven’t talked all day I wish you went to my school or
day I wish you went to my school or
day I wish you went to my school or closer so we could finally meet take it
closer so we could finally meet take it
closer so we could finally meet take it up dinner an hour don’t spend too long
up dinner an hour don’t spend too long
up dinner an hour don’t spend too long with us
with us
with us [Music]
I know you’ve been waiting for this for
I know you’ve been waiting for this for a while I wanted to give you something
a while I wanted to give you something
a while I wanted to give you something special
you are responsible for your children we
you are responsible for your children we need to monitor we need to talk to the
need to monitor we need to talk to the
need to monitor we need to talk to the technology talk to them we need to check
technology talk to them we need to check
technology talk to them we need to check their contacts because we want to raise
their contacts because we want to raise
their contacts because we want to raise great digital citizens and you are
great digital citizens and you are
great digital citizens and you are responsible for that thank you very much
responsible for that thank you very much
responsible for that thank you very much have a great
have a great
have a great [Applause]
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