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How one crazy idea became the best holiday ever | Emily Rolfe | TEDxMonteCarlo


can you remember where you were last

can you remember where you were last April do you remember where some of you

April do you remember where some of you

April do you remember where some of you might have taken your children on

might have taken your children on

might have taken your children on holiday during the Easter break well

holiday during the Easter break well

holiday during the Easter break well this is where I went

this is where I went

this is where I went hell on earth or as my dad called it a

hell on earth or as my dad called it a

hell on earth or as my dad called it a beach holiday with no see I ran an ultra

beach holiday with no see I ran an ultra

beach holiday with no see I ran an ultra marathon in the Sahara Desert

marathon in the Sahara Desert

marathon in the Sahara Desert so if you think running a normal

so if you think running a normal

so if you think running a normal marathon is hard

marathon is hard

marathon is hard try running 250 kilometers if you think

try running 250 kilometers if you think

try running 250 kilometers if you think running for a day is hard well it’s 6:00

running for a day is hard well it’s 6:00

running for a day is hard well it’s 6:00 if you think running with a backpack is

if you think running with a backpack is

if you think running with a backpack is hard try running with 10 kilos that

hard try running with 10 kilos that

hard try running with 10 kilos that basically sums up my holiday and I

basically sums up my holiday and I

basically sums up my holiday and I absolutely loved it

absolutely loved it

absolutely loved it I ran an ultra marathon in the Sahara

I ran an ultra marathon in the Sahara

I ran an ultra marathon in the Sahara Desert called the marathon desaad when I

Desert called the marathon desaad when I

Desert called the marathon desaad when I was only 16 and the youngest female

was only 16 and the youngest female

was only 16 and the youngest female competitor so now not only do you think

competitor so now not only do you think

competitor so now not only do you think I’m crazy but it’s worse than that

I’m crazy but it’s worse than that

I’m crazy but it’s worse than that it was my crazy idea the idea popped

it was my crazy idea the idea popped

it was my crazy idea the idea popped into my head when I was around 14 and my

into my head when I was around 14 and my

into my head when I was around 14 and my dad’s personal trainer mad dog Mike died

dad’s personal trainer mad dog Mike died

dad’s personal trainer mad dog Mike died mad dog Mike helped my dad turned his

mad dog Mike helped my dad turned his

mad dog Mike helped my dad turned his life around when he was told he wouldn’t

life around when he was told he wouldn’t

life around when he was told he wouldn’t live past the age of 40 he got him into

live past the age of 40 he got him into

live past the age of 40 he got him into ultra running my dad accepted to do it

ultra running my dad accepted to do it

ultra running my dad accepted to do it with me as he had run it before trained

with me as he had run it before trained

with me as he had run it before trained by Mad Dog Mike he knew exactly what he

by Mad Dog Mike he knew exactly what he

by Mad Dog Mike he knew exactly what he was getting into but the rest of my

was getting into but the rest of my

was getting into but the rest of my family thought I was absolutely insane

family thought I was absolutely insane

family thought I was absolutely insane but I didn’t let that stop me and that’s

but I didn’t let that stop me and that’s

but I didn’t let that stop me and that’s what I’m here to tell you about my dad

what I’m here to tell you about my dad

what I’m here to tell you about my dad helped me train physically which is

helped me train physically which is

helped me train physically which is extremely important in a very short

extremely important in a very short

extremely important in a very short space of time six months compared to the

space of time six months compared to the

space of time six months compared to the two years the female winner trained for

two years the female winner trained for

two years the female winner trained for this entailed running a marathon every

this entailed running a marathon every

this entailed running a marathon every weekend for five weeks and doing some

weekend for five weeks and doing some

weekend for five weeks and doing some heat training we turned on all the

heat training we turned on all the

heat training we turned on all the heaters in the living room and did some

heaters in the living room and did some

heaters in the living room and did some ex

ex

ex sizes to strengthen our backs for the

sizes to strengthen our backs for the

sizes to strengthen our backs for the weight of the backpacks we also did what

weight of the backpacks we also did what

weight of the backpacks we also did what my dad called the other extreme we

my dad called the other extreme we

my dad called the other extreme we trained in the snow because it was like

trained in the snow because it was like

trained in the snow because it was like climbing up sand dunes and when it was

climbing up sand dunes and when it was

climbing up sand dunes and when it was stormy which happened occasionally it

stormy which happened occasionally it

stormy which happened occasionally it was like being in a sandstorm training

was like being in a sandstorm training

was like being in a sandstorm training was extremely hard for me I was only 16

was extremely hard for me I was only 16

was extremely hard for me I was only 16 I had the normal life of a teenager and

I had the normal life of a teenager and

I had the normal life of a teenager and I had still had to go to school I also

I had still had to go to school I also

I had still had to go to school I also had never run a marathon before so we

had never run a marathon before so we

had never run a marathon before so we really needed to do some mental training

really needed to do some mental training

really needed to do some mental training you might ask yourself what it means to

you might ask yourself what it means to

you might ask yourself what it means to train mentally well it means to cry for

train mentally well it means to cry for

train mentally well it means to cry for practically the whole time during your

practically the whole time during your

practically the whole time during your first marathon but still wanting to go

first marathon but still wanting to go

first marathon but still wanting to go back a week later and crying just a

back a week later and crying just a

back a week later and crying just a little bit less when you get to the

little bit less when you get to the

little bit less when you get to the marathon de sub you suddenly realize

marathon de sub you suddenly realize

marathon de sub you suddenly realize that any amount of physical preparation

that any amount of physical preparation

that any amount of physical preparation just isn’t enough even though I was

just isn’t enough even though I was

just isn’t enough even though I was extremely grateful my dad forced me to

extremely grateful my dad forced me to

extremely grateful my dad forced me to Train we really needed that mental

Train we really needed that mental

Train we really needed that mental strength which is what got us through

strength which is what got us through

strength which is what got us through the dark moments this run is just a

the dark moments this run is just a

the dark moments this run is just a little further than the drive from

little further than the drive from

little further than the drive from Monaco to Marseille 20 kilometers more

Monaco to Marseille 20 kilometers more

Monaco to Marseille 20 kilometers more and it’s in the desert

and it’s in the desert

and it’s in the desert it’s 250 kilometres over in stages over

it’s 250 kilometres over in stages over

it’s 250 kilometres over in stages over six days you have one long day over days

six days you have one long day over days

six days you have one long day over days four and five where you have to complete

four and five where you have to complete

four and five where you have to complete between 80 and 100 kilometres in 35

between 80 and 100 kilometres in 35

between 80 and 100 kilometres in 35 hours after that you still have another

hours after that you still have another

hours after that you still have another marathon of 42.2 kilometres to run and

marathon of 42.2 kilometres to run and

marathon of 42.2 kilometres to run and then another 10k when you get to the

then another 10k when you get to the

then another 10k when you get to the desert you’re given this hand-drawn map

desert you’re given this hand-drawn map

desert you’re given this hand-drawn map that’s supposed to guide you through all

that’s supposed to guide you through all

that’s supposed to guide you through all the descendants and JE balls which are

the descendants and JE balls which are

the descendants and JE balls which are the mountains in Merkin and you’re told

the mountains in Merkin and you’re told

the mountains in Merkin and you’re told you should probably follow these bright

you should probably follow these bright

you should probably follow these bright pink spray-painted bushes through the

pink spray-painted bushes through the

pink spray-painted bushes through the desert to get to the finish line every

desert to get to the finish line every

desert to get to the finish line every night every night we would cross the

night every night we would cross the

night every night we would cross the finish line we would get to our tent

finish line we would get to our tent

finish line we would get to our tent which we now called home and we would

which we now called home and we would

which we now called home and we would try and

try and

try and are disgusting freeze-dried food in the

are disgusting freeze-dried food in the

are disgusting freeze-dried food in the heat of the sand in the desert it’s not

heat of the sand in the desert it’s not

heat of the sand in the desert it’s not just flat sand and rocks as you may

just flat sand and rocks as you may

just flat sand and rocks as you may imagine it to be it’s also mountains

imagine it to be it’s also mountains

imagine it to be it’s also mountains sand dunes rope climbs and sometimes the

sand dunes rope climbs and sometimes the

sand dunes rope climbs and sometimes the sand dunes can be the size of

sand dunes can be the size of

sand dunes can be the size of three-story buildings after about three

three-story buildings after about three

three-story buildings after about three days my legs kind of started to feel a

days my legs kind of started to feel a

days my legs kind of started to feel a bit tired when we’ve done around 90

bit tired when we’ve done around 90

bit tired when we’ve done around 90 kilometers and I ended up with a blister

kilometers and I ended up with a blister

kilometers and I ended up with a blister on my left foot the size of a golf ball

on my left foot the size of a golf ball

on my left foot the size of a golf ball which my dad had told me I had to pop

which my dad had told me I had to pop

which my dad had told me I had to pop myself in order to avoid infection I

myself in order to avoid infection I

myself in order to avoid infection I couldn’t do it because the skin over my

couldn’t do it because the skin over my

couldn’t do it because the skin over my blister was so thick so I had to go and

blister was so thick so I had to go and

blister was so thick so I had to go and see what they called doc trotters who

see what they called doc trotters who

see what they called doc trotters who are the doctors who follow us throughout

are the doctors who follow us throughout

are the doctors who follow us throughout the race but he turned out to be a

the race but he turned out to be a

the race but he turned out to be a dentist got out a scalpel and sliced my

dentist got out a scalpel and sliced my

dentist got out a scalpel and sliced my blister open it was hideous

blister open it was hideous

blister open it was hideous the long day took us 27 hours to

the long day took us 27 hours to

the long day took us 27 hours to complete 90 kilometres and it was the

complete 90 kilometres and it was the

complete 90 kilometres and it was the longest day of my life I had my dad next

longest day of my life I had my dad next

longest day of my life I had my dad next to me all the time telling me his stupid

to me all the time telling me his stupid

to me all the time telling me his stupid jokes over and over again I was trying

jokes over and over again I was trying

jokes over and over again I was trying to search for these bright pink

to search for these bright pink

to search for these bright pink spray-painted bushes and then when it

spray-painted bushes and then when it

spray-painted bushes and then when it got dark these glow sticks that they

got dark these glow sticks that they

got dark these glow sticks that they placed on the bushes that local children

placed on the bushes that local children

placed on the bushes that local children moved around anyway it got so bad at one

moved around anyway it got so bad at one

moved around anyway it got so bad at one point that I sort of planned the

point that I sort of planned the

point that I sort of planned the assassination of the organizers with my

assassination of the organizers with my

assassination of the organizers with my spork which is a spoon with the spikes

spork which is a spoon with the spikes

spork which is a spoon with the spikes of a fork because I thought it might

of a fork because I thought it might

of a fork because I thought it might make them suffer like we had the

make them suffer like we had the

make them suffer like we had the helicopters also kept blowing sand in

helicopters also kept blowing sand in

helicopters also kept blowing sand in our mouths all the time and they kind of

our mouths all the time and they kind of

our mouths all the time and they kind of got on my nerves so I decided I might

got on my nerves so I decided I might

got on my nerves so I decided I might just go and sneak out in the night to

just go and sneak out in the night to

just go and sneak out in the night to mess with their electrics there were

mess with their electrics there were

mess with their electrics there were good parts though during the marathon

good parts though during the marathon

good parts though during the marathon ders up there were people who we met and

ders up there were people who we met and

ders up there were people who we met and crossed paths with who I don’t think I

crossed paths with who I don’t think I

crossed paths with who I don’t think I would have ever met otherwise

would have ever met otherwise

would have ever met otherwise they helped make the distances shorter

they helped make the distances shorter

they helped make the distances shorter with

with

with jokes and the chat and just meeting

jokes and the chat and just meeting

jokes and the chat and just meeting these people was amazing my dad and his

these people was amazing my dad and his

these people was amazing my dad and his stupid jokes his singing competitions of

stupid jokes his singing competitions of

stupid jokes his singing competitions of the same two songs highway to hell and

the same two songs highway to hell and

the same two songs highway to hell and Hotel California which I now can’t bear

Hotel California which I now can’t bear

Hotel California which I now can’t bear to listen to it helped me through the

to listen to it helped me through the

to listen to it helped me through the desert and created an extremely strong

desert and created an extremely strong

desert and created an extremely strong bond between us

bond between us

bond between us I also took one piece of technology with

I also took one piece of technology with

I also took one piece of technology with me to the desert my iPod

me to the desert my iPod

me to the desert my iPod I saved the battery of my iPod for the

I saved the battery of my iPod for the

I saved the battery of my iPod for the long day so that my two favorite bands

long day so that my two favorite bands

long day so that my two favorite bands modern baseball and the 1975 could help

modern baseball and the 1975 could help

modern baseball and the 1975 could help me get through the darkest moments of

me get through the darkest moments of

me get through the darkest moments of the long day

the long day

the long day there was also beauty in the challenge

there was also beauty in the challenge

there was also beauty in the challenge like the moment we got to checkpoint

like the moment we got to checkpoint

like the moment we got to checkpoint five of the long day and there were

five of the long day and there were

five of the long day and there were these deck chairs a bonfire as if we

these deck chairs a bonfire as if we

these deck chairs a bonfire as if we needed a bonfire and mint tea waiting

needed a bonfire and mint tea waiting

needed a bonfire and mint tea waiting for us there was also the moment during

for us there was also the moment during

for us there was also the moment during the long day when I got really tired I

the long day when I got really tired I

the long day when I got really tired I was crying my feet were hurting so much

was crying my feet were hurting so much

was crying my feet were hurting so much and all of a sudden my dad freezes he

and all of a sudden my dad freezes he

and all of a sudden my dad freezes he just stops points at something says

just stops points at something says

just stops points at something says Emily look over there I stop and look

Emily look over there I stop and look

Emily look over there I stop and look but I can’t see anything because I’m

but I can’t see anything because I’m

but I can’t see anything because I’m crying so much and my eye my vision went

crying so much and my eye my vision went

crying so much and my eye my vision went blurry and then I’ve kind of make out

blurry and then I’ve kind of make out

blurry and then I’ve kind of make out this huge incredible 2 meter long snake

this huge incredible 2 meter long snake

this huge incredible 2 meter long snake in front of us that just appeared out of

in front of us that just appeared out of

in front of us that just appeared out of nowhere and this Danish guy walks past

nowhere and this Danish guy walks past

nowhere and this Danish guy walks past us and points at it and goes a snake and

us and points at it and goes a snake and

us and points at it and goes a snake and walked straight into its path these

walked straight into its path these

walked straight into its path these incredible moments are really what kept

incredible moments are really what kept

incredible moments are really what kept me going during the marathon der sub we

me going during the marathon der sub we

me going during the marathon der sub we also raise money for charity a charity

also raise money for charity a charity

also raise money for charity a charity called Diabetes UK which we’ve been

called Diabetes UK which we’ve been

called Diabetes UK which we’ve been involved with since my sister was

involved with since my sister was

involved with since my sister was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes

diagnosed with type 1 diabetes

diagnosed with type 1 diabetes we raised twenty three thousand five

we raised twenty three thousand five

we raised twenty three thousand five hundred pounds for a new microscope that

hundred pounds for a new microscope that

hundred pounds for a new microscope that researchers needed to diagnose kidney

researchers needed to diagnose kidney

researchers needed to diagnose kidney disease I really didn’t want to let the

disease I really didn’t want to let the

disease I really didn’t want to let the people who donated so much money down so

people who donated so much money down so

people who donated so much money down so that really kept me going there was

that really kept me going there was

that really kept me going there was there were also people who

there were also people who

there were also people who told me I couldn’t finish before I left

told me I couldn’t finish before I left

told me I couldn’t finish before I left who told me that who even bet on me not

who told me that who even bet on me not

who told me that who even bet on me not finishing so I really wanted to prove to

finishing so I really wanted to prove to

finishing so I really wanted to prove to them that I could finish I even started

them that I could finish I even started

them that I could finish I even started doubting myself after these people told

doubting myself after these people told

doubting myself after these people told me I couldn’t finish and so I really

me I couldn’t finish and so I really

me I couldn’t finish and so I really learned during the marathon job that I

learned during the marathon job that I

learned during the marathon job that I could achieve anything and I proved to

could achieve anything and I proved to

could achieve anything and I proved to myself that I could finish this race I’m

myself that I could finish this race I’m

myself that I could finish this race I’m not the first to tell you that life’s a

not the first to tell you that life’s a

not the first to tell you that life’s a marathon and you can do anything

marathon and you can do anything

marathon and you can do anything it is about challenging yourself and

it is about challenging yourself and

it is about challenging yourself and leaving your comfort or your safety zone

leaving your comfort or your safety zone

leaving your comfort or your safety zone but I also came here to tell you that I

but I also came here to tell you that I

but I also came here to tell you that I had the best holiday ever

had the best holiday ever

had the best holiday ever and the best experience I’ve had so far

and the best experience I’ve had so far

and the best experience I’ve had so far I’m not the youngest female competitor

I’m not the youngest female competitor

I’m not the youngest female competitor I’m the second and people told me I

I’m the second and people told me I

I’m the second and people told me I couldn’t finish but if you really set

couldn’t finish but if you really set

couldn’t finish but if you really set your mind on something and you have the

your mind on something and you have the

your mind on something and you have the determination to do it you can finish I

determination to do it you can finish I

determination to do it you can finish I know I’ve changed and I’ve learned

know I’ve changed and I’ve learned

know I’ve changed and I’ve learned something I’m not really sure what it is

something I’m not really sure what it is

something I’m not really sure what it is yet because it still feels completely

yet because it still feels completely

yet because it still feels completely surreal but I had the best experience my

surreal but I had the best experience my

surreal but I had the best experience my dad said to me on the long day when we

dad said to me on the long day when we

dad said to me on the long day when we were both crying and yes he was crying

were both crying and yes he was crying

were both crying and yes he was crying that he would never wish so much pain on

that he would never wish so much pain on

that he would never wish so much pain on his daughters but since it was my idea

his daughters but since it was my idea

his daughters but since it was my idea and I showed the determination to do it

and I showed the determination to do it

and I showed the determination to do it he was okay with it

he was okay with it

he was okay with it so if one day your kids come up to you

so if one day your kids come up to you

so if one day your kids come up to you with a crazy idea like mine I think you

with a crazy idea like mine I think you

with a crazy idea like mine I think you should encourage them thank you

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