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Negativity: The Thief of Dreams | Chernice Mbogori | TEDxYouth@BrookhouseSchool


negativity the thief of dreams why do

negativity the thief of dreams why do you do the things you do why do you act

you do the things you do why do you act

you do the things you do why do you act the way you act Jim Rhon once said that

the way you act Jim Rhon once said that

the way you act Jim Rhon once said that we are the average of the five people we

we are the average of the five people we

we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with now many people

spend the most time with now many people

spend the most time with now many people will deny this fact but research shows

will deny this fact but research shows

will deny this fact but research shows that we are more affected by our

that we are more affected by our

that we are more affected by our environment than we choose to believe

environment than we choose to believe

environment than we choose to believe what then am I saying if you surround

what then am I saying if you surround

what then am I saying if you surround yourself with negative people and

yourself with negative people and

yourself with negative people and failures please do not be surprised as

failures please do not be surprised as

failures please do not be surprised as negativity and failure is bound to

negativity and failure is bound to

negativity and failure is bound to follow you

follow you

follow you Pope Francis once said the less you

Pope Francis once said the less you

Pope Francis once said the less you focus on negative people the easier life

focus on negative people the easier life

focus on negative people the easier life becomes did you know that negative

becomes did you know that negative

becomes did you know that negative people never really live why because

people never really live why because

people never really live why because instead of focusing on being the best

instead of focusing on being the best

instead of focusing on being the best they can be the instead lose out on

they can be the instead lose out on

they can be the instead lose out on opportunities and not because they lack

opportunities and not because they lack

opportunities and not because they lack the ability but because of their mindset

imagine how sad you would be at the end

imagine how sad you would be at the end of your a-levels when you realize you

of your a-levels when you realize you

of your a-levels when you realize you wasted your prime life under achieving

wasted your prime life under achieving

wasted your prime life under achieving and not because you lacks the ability as

and not because you lacks the ability as

and not because you lacks the ability as teenagers I know it might not always be

teenagers I know it might not always be

teenagers I know it might not always be in control of my emotions but we can

in control of my emotions but we can

in control of my emotions but we can control our thoughts and this allows us

control our thoughts and this allows us

control our thoughts and this allows us to control our emotions confused once

to control our emotions confused once

to control our emotions confused once you have positive thoughts and let out

you have positive thoughts and let out

you have positive thoughts and let out positivity you will start to receive

positivity you will start to receive

positivity you will start to receive positivity as the saying goes what goes

positivity as the saying goes what goes

positivity as the saying goes what goes around comes around

around comes around

around comes around I myself am still struggling to practice

I myself am still struggling to practice

I myself am still struggling to practice positivity because I to live in a world

positivity because I to live in a world

positivity because I to live in a world where we are constantly surrounded by

where we are constantly surrounded by

where we are constantly surrounded by negativity discouragement and people

negativity discouragement and people

negativity discouragement and people trying to bring us down

I remember vividly once when I hit rock

I remember vividly once when I hit rock bottom my dad telling me to never give

bottom my dad telling me to never give

bottom my dad telling me to never give up as students I know we struggle with

up as students I know we struggle with

up as students I know we struggle with varied things be it our academic grades

varied things be it our academic grades

varied things be it our academic grades or sports achievements or even thinking

or sports achievements or even thinking

or sports achievements or even thinking that some teachers do not like us the

that some teachers do not like us the

that some teachers do not like us the list is endless

list is endless

list is endless but I want you and I to make a

but I want you and I to make a

but I want you and I to make a deliberate decision that that rock

deliberate decision that that rock

deliberate decision that that rock bottom that we hit could actually be the

bottom that we hit could actually be the

bottom that we hit could actually be the foundation that we could use to stand up

foundation that we could use to stand up

foundation that we could use to stand up again personally I have struggled with

again personally I have struggled with

again personally I have struggled with mathematics since year three I do not

mathematics since year three I do not

mathematics since year three I do not know why this is the only subject that I

know why this is the only subject that I

know why this is the only subject that I am never sure if our passing whenever

am never sure if our passing whenever

am never sure if our passing whenever the teacher gives us a written

the teacher gives us a written

the teacher gives us a written assessment in class now don’t label me

assessment in class now don’t label me

assessment in class now don’t label me as arrogant when I say that to me

as arrogant when I say that to me

as arrogant when I say that to me a passed grade is anything above a B I

a passed grade is anything above a B I

a passed grade is anything above a B I love and enjoy learning maths but what

love and enjoy learning maths but what

love and enjoy learning maths but what happens to me in my examinations is what

happens to me in my examinations is what

happens to me in my examinations is what I have not figured out up until today

I have not figured out up until today

I have not figured out up until today despite all of the effort I put in

despite all of the effort I put in

despite all of the effort I put in preparation

preparation

preparation however because of my uncertainty in

however because of my uncertainty in

however because of my uncertainty in what I’ll get in mathematics I always

what I’ll get in mathematics I always

what I’ll get in mathematics I always ensure that I put in the maximum effort

ensure that I put in the maximum effort

ensure that I put in the maximum effort in my other subjects so that my overall

in my other subjects so that my overall

in my other subjects so that my overall grade will be decent enough despite that

grade will be decent enough despite that

grade will be decent enough despite that see as I share this story with you I

see as I share this story with you I

see as I share this story with you I hope that someone in the audience can

hope that someone in the audience can

hope that someone in the audience can use that thing in their life that might

use that thing in their life that might

use that thing in their life that might as well be looked at as negative and

as well be looked at as negative and

as well be looked at as negative and turn it into something positive who and

turn it into something positive who and

turn it into something positive who and the audience can say that they have

the audience can say that they have

the audience can say that they have never fallen victim to negative thoughts

never fallen victim to negative thoughts

never fallen victim to negative thoughts let me tell you we all have the innate

let me tell you we all have the innate

let me tell you we all have the innate power to achieve great things now

power to achieve great things now

power to achieve great things now judging from my age you might think that

judging from my age you might think that

judging from my age you might think that I do not know what I am talking about

I do not know what I am talking about

I do not know what I am talking about and that’s fine by me however I

and that’s fine by me however I

and that’s fine by me however I to encourage you all to avoid declaring

to encourage you all to avoid declaring

to encourage you all to avoid declaring anybody as being tabula rasa what I’m

anybody as being tabula rasa what I’m

anybody as being tabula rasa what I’m saying is you can learn a lot from

saying is you can learn a lot from

saying is you can learn a lot from anybody I’ve decided my new mantra is

anybody I’ve decided my new mantra is

anybody I’ve decided my new mantra is saying no to negativity saying no to

saying no to negativity saying no to

saying no to negativity saying no to that voice that whispers to me in class

that voice that whispers to me in class

that voice that whispers to me in class Shanice you will fail because of

Shanice you will fail because of

Shanice you will fail because of mathematics as I conclude if you forget

mathematics as I conclude if you forget

mathematics as I conclude if you forget everything that I have said today do not

everything that I have said today do not

everything that I have said today do not forget this quote from Henry Ford

forget this quote from Henry Ford

forget this quote from Henry Ford whether you think you can or you can’t

whether you think you can or you can’t

whether you think you can or you can’t you’re right we all have the power to

you’re right we all have the power to

you’re right we all have the power to shape our future with the smallest of

shape our future with the smallest of

shape our future with the smallest of things our thoughts thank you

things our thoughts thank you

things our thoughts thank you [Applause]

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