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Kindness: The ultimate rebellion against bullying | Lucy Thomas | TEDxUNSW


so ever since I finished school each of

so ever since I finished school each of my working days has begun with the same

my working days has begun with the same

my working days has begun with the same super awkward scenario a school assembly

super awkward scenario a school assembly

super awkward scenario a school assembly hall packed with a couple of hundred

hall packed with a couple of hundred

hall packed with a couple of hundred teens perched on individual chairs you

teens perched on individual chairs you

teens perched on individual chairs you know those lightweight bright blue

know those lightweight bright blue

know those lightweight bright blue plastic stackable chairs with those legs

plastic stackable chairs with those legs

plastic stackable chairs with those legs that great so loudly on the floor every

that great so loudly on the floor every

that great so loudly on the floor every time you uncross your legs or shift your

time you uncross your legs or shift your

time you uncross your legs or shift your weight or lean into Sheriff smirk at the

weight or lean into Sheriff smirk at the

weight or lean into Sheriff smirk at the front of the room stands myself beside a

front of the room stands myself beside a

front of the room stands myself beside a co-presenter and a teacher who is quite

co-presenter and a teacher who is quite

co-presenter and a teacher who is quite graciously giving that standard school

graciously giving that standard school

graciously giving that standard school speaking intro that we’re also familiar

speaking intro that we’re also familiar

speaking intro that we’re also familiar with your whole year level has been

with your whole year level has been

with your whole year level has been pulled out of class for the day for a

pulled out of class for the day for a

pulled out of class for the day for a great learning experience

great learning experience

great learning experience so put your iPads under your seats if I

so put your iPads under your seats if I

so put your iPads under your seats if I see any mobile phones they will be

see any mobile phones they will be

see any mobile phones they will be confiscated boys and without further ado

confiscated boys and without further ado

confiscated boys and without further ado I’d like to welcome our guests by now of

I’d like to welcome our guests by now of

I’d like to welcome our guests by now of course all of the audience totally know

course all of the audience totally know

course all of the audience totally know why we’re here and so you can totally

why we’re here and so you can totally

why we’re here and so you can totally imagine their reaction as soon as we

imagine their reaction as soon as we

imagine their reaction as soon as we share that announcement hi We’re from

share that announcement hi We’re from

share that announcement hi We’re from Project Rocket and we’re here to talk

Project Rocket and we’re here to talk

Project Rocket and we’re here to talk about bullying

about bullying

about bullying [Music]

[Music]

[Music] I can say that from years of doing this

I can say that from years of doing this

I can say that from years of doing this the awkwardness Peaks that first moment

the awkwardness Peaks that first moment

the awkwardness Peaks that first moment that we drop the be bomb or worse yet

that we drop the be bomb or worse yet

that we drop the be bomb or worse yet the see bomb bullying or cyberbullying I

the see bomb bullying or cyberbullying I

the see bomb bullying or cyberbullying I guess when you’re told that you’re about

guess when you’re told that you’re about

guess when you’re told that you’re about to participate in an anti-bullying

to participate in an anti-bullying

to participate in an anti-bullying workshop at your school you come to

workshop at your school you come to

workshop at your school you come to expect something really really negative

expect something really really negative

expect something really really negative judgy typically uncool I know that’s

judgy typically uncool I know that’s

judgy typically uncool I know that’s what myself and my little sister bro had

what myself and my little sister bro had

what myself and my little sister bro had come to expect when we’re in school and

come to expect when we’re in school and

come to expect when we’re in school and yeah I guess that’s why we fresh out of

yeah I guess that’s why we fresh out of

yeah I guess that’s why we fresh out of school decided to start our own effort

school decided to start our own effort

school decided to start our own effort project Rockit to tackle hate in ozzie

project Rockit to tackle hate in ozzie

project Rockit to tackle hate in ozzie schools we were motivated by a really

schools we were motivated by a really

schools we were motivated by a really simple idea that which I’m here to

simple idea that which I’m here to

simple idea that which I’m here to explore today we want to live in a world

explore today we want to live in a world

explore today we want to live in a world where kindness and respect thrive over

where kindness and respect thrive over

where kindness and respect thrive over bullying hate and Prejudice a world

bullying hate and Prejudice a world

bullying hate and Prejudice a world where all young people are free to

where all young people are free to

where all young people are free to realize their potential now that sounds

realize their potential now that sounds

realize their potential now that sounds like a really corny idea but we all know

like a really corny idea but we all know

like a really corny idea but we all know that bullying smothers development and

that bullying smothers development and

that bullying smothers development and extinguishes potential in some cases it

extinguishes potential in some cases it

extinguishes potential in some cases it destroys lives so from the get-go

destroys lives so from the get-go

destroys lives so from the get-go we went for a different approach instead

we went for a different approach instead

we went for a different approach instead of talking out school students we’d ask

of talking out school students we’d ask

of talking out school students we’d ask questions and really listen to their

questions and really listen to their

questions and really listen to their answers instead of trying to leverage

answers instead of trying to leverage

answers instead of trying to leverage guilt or inspiration as the reasons why

guilt or inspiration as the reasons why

guilt or inspiration as the reasons why people should stand up for everything

people should stand up for everything

people should stand up for everything all of the time we just be real and

all of the time we just be real and

all of the time we just be real and understanding about the genuine risks

understanding about the genuine risks

understanding about the genuine risks that people face in challenging

that people face in challenging

that people face in challenging prejudice we collaborate with the

prejudice we collaborate with the

prejudice we collaborate with the audience to come up with socially

audience to come up with socially

audience to come up with socially credible strategies for challenging

credible strategies for challenging

credible strategies for challenging bullying strategies we’d all be willing

bullying strategies we’d all be willing

bullying strategies we’d all be willing to use it’ll be real it’ll be fun we’d

to use it’ll be real it’ll be fun we’d

to use it’ll be real it’ll be fun we’d all laugh we’d feel connected and

all laugh we’d feel connected and

all laugh we’d feel connected and therefore more prepared to look out for

therefore more prepared to look out for

therefore more prepared to look out for each other that was the plan so what I

each other that was the plan so what I

each other that was the plan so what I didn’t know then was exactly what all of

didn’t know then was exactly what all of

didn’t know then was exactly what all of those school students would come to mean

those school students would come to mean

those school students would come to mean to me and my team that they would

to me and my team that they would

to me and my team that they would eventually become our greatest teachers

eventually become our greatest teachers

eventually become our greatest teachers our heroes that they would totally

our heroes that they would totally

our heroes that they would totally transform the entire course of my life

transform the entire course of my life

transform the entire course of my life that 11 years on project rocket would

that 11 years on project rocket would

that 11 years on project rocket would have reached hundreds of thousands of

have reached hundreds of thousands of

have reached hundreds of thousands of young people all over the country and

young people all over the country and

young people all over the country and stand as Australia’s youth driven

stand as Australia’s youth driven

stand as Australia’s youth driven movement against bullying

movement against bullying

movement against bullying so all of this is a huge surprise to me

so all of this is a huge surprise to me

so all of this is a huge surprise to me because when we started out we weren’t

because when we started out we weren’t

because when we started out we weren’t trying to launch our careers we weren’t

trying to launch our careers we weren’t

trying to launch our careers we weren’t trying to start something and not driven

trying to start something and not driven

trying to start something and not driven myself by one singular experience of

myself by one singular experience of

myself by one singular experience of severe school bullying but more by the

severe school bullying but more by the

severe school bullying but more by the general potential of a world underpinned

general potential of a world underpinned

general potential of a world underpinned by empathy and connection so I want to

by empathy and connection so I want to

by empathy and connection so I want to put a pause in my story for a moment and

put a pause in my story for a moment and

put a pause in my story for a moment and share a concept borrowed from social

share a concept borrowed from social

share a concept borrowed from social psychology known as reciprocity you’re

psychology known as reciprocity you’re

psychology known as reciprocity you’re familiar with this it’s like psych 101

familiar with this it’s like psych 101

familiar with this it’s like psych 101 this is the idea that we generally tend

this is the idea that we generally tend

this is the idea that we generally tend to feel obliged to pay back the way

to feel obliged to pay back the way

to feel obliged to pay back the way we’re treated by others it makes a lot

we’re treated by others it makes a lot

we’re treated by others it makes a lot of sense it sets up many of our moral

of sense it sets up many of our moral

of sense it sets up many of our moral expectations and obviously provides a

expectations and obviously provides a

expectations and obviously provides a really strong but totally selfish

really strong but totally selfish

really strong but totally selfish argument for kindness you got to deal it

argument for kindness you got to deal it

argument for kindness you got to deal it out to get it back in return but the

out to get it back in return but the

out to get it back in return but the problem with this model is that while

problem with this model is that while

problem with this model is that while being nice boost the odds that people

being nice boost the odds that people

being nice boost the odds that people are nice back what about when they’re

are nice back what about when they’re

are nice back what about when they’re not sometimes a cruel reaction could be

not sometimes a cruel reaction could be

not sometimes a cruel reaction could be catastrophic and like so many people I

catastrophic and like so many people I

catastrophic and like so many people I grew up with these simplistic and I’ll

grew up with these simplistic and I’ll

grew up with these simplistic and I’ll admit super privileged ideas about

admit super privileged ideas about

admit super privileged ideas about kindness which was soon to be blown out

kindness which was soon to be blown out

kindness which was soon to be blown out of the water

of the water

of the water because after nearly a decade of

because after nearly a decade of

because after nearly a decade of tackling bullying in 2013 I cooked a

tackling bullying in 2013 I cooked a

tackling bullying in 2013 I cooked a full blast of hate and Prejudice myself

full blast of hate and Prejudice myself

full blast of hate and Prejudice myself I still remember the moment we met she

I still remember the moment we met she

I still remember the moment we met she was standing with a group of people and

was standing with a group of people and

was standing with a group of people and she looked back across her shoulder real

she looked back across her shoulder real

she looked back across her shoulder real Safi and she just asked do you know who

Safi and she just asked do you know who

Safi and she just asked do you know who I am

I am

I am just like that we came from totally

just like that we came from totally

just like that we came from totally different walks of life and she hadn’t

different walks of life and she hadn’t

different walks of life and she hadn’t dated a girl before but we were both

dated a girl before but we were both

dated a girl before but we were both struck by an immediate curiosity you

struck by an immediate curiosity you

struck by an immediate curiosity you know there’s connections that are

know there’s connections that are

know there’s connections that are totally extraordinary when they’re

totally extraordinary when they’re

totally extraordinary when they’re happening to you but also totally

happening to you but also totally

happening to you but also totally ordinary because they happen to people

ordinary because they happen to people

ordinary because they happen to people everywhere every day and you can kind of

everywhere every day and you can kind of

everywhere every day and you can kind of pick it sometimes when you notice the

pick it sometimes when you notice the

pick it sometimes when you notice the stranger on the train beaming at their

stranger on the train beaming at their

stranger on the train beaming at their phone and you’re like okay either you’re

phone and you’re like okay either you’re

phone and you’re like okay either you’re texting someone you’re totally into or

texting someone you’re totally into or

texting someone you’re totally into or you’re watching videos of baby hours on

you’re watching videos of baby hours on

you’re watching videos of baby hours on YouTube also a very strong possibility I

YouTube also a very strong possibility I

YouTube also a very strong possibility I know well I won’t go into great detail

know well I won’t go into great detail

know well I won’t go into great detail but after a couple of months of that

but after a couple of months of that

but after a couple of months of that undefined hanging out smashed avocado

undefined hanging out smashed avocado

undefined hanging out smashed avocado breakfasts and meeting each other’s

breakfasts and meeting each other’s

breakfasts and meeting each other’s friends she decided to sit down with her

friends she decided to sit down with her

friends she decided to sit down with her family to tell them we were dating and I

family to tell them we were dating and I

family to tell them we were dating and I guess that didn’t go very well because

guess that didn’t go very well because

guess that didn’t go very well because from the moment they knew she flatly

from the moment they knew she flatly

from the moment they knew she flatly refused to ever speak to me again and

refused to ever speak to me again and

refused to ever speak to me again and that’s where the trouble started at

that’s where the trouble started at

that’s where the trouble started at first I became the subject of some

first I became the subject of some

first I became the subject of some really stomach-turning homophobic

really stomach-turning homophobic

really stomach-turning homophobic comments made to my friends my family my

comments made to my friends my family my

comments made to my friends my family my staff rumors that I’d somehow managed to

staff rumors that I’d somehow managed to

staff rumors that I’d somehow managed to manipulate the straight out of her I

manipulate the straight out of her I

manipulate the straight out of her I wish I knew that kind of magic arguments

wish I knew that kind of magic arguments

wish I knew that kind of magic arguments that being the older of the two of us I

that being the older of the two of us I

that being the older of the two of us I should have known better than to think

should have known better than to think

should have known better than to think it was okay and then more serious

it was okay and then more serious

it was okay and then more serious allegations formal complaints designed

allegations formal complaints designed

allegations formal complaints designed to target my career my reputation to

to target my career my reputation to

to target my career my reputation to insinuate that project Rockit was a

insinuate that project Rockit was a

insinuate that project Rockit was a window into something seedy I was taken

window into something seedy I was taken

window into something seedy I was taken to court and when that failed

to court and when that failed

to court and when that failed intimidated by some dodgy police officer

intimidated by some dodgy police officer

intimidated by some dodgy police officer they knew and physically threatened by

they knew and physically threatened by

they knew and physically threatened by people we’re still to this day haven’t

people we’re still to this day haven’t

people we’re still to this day haven’t met I kind of had to just stand there

met I kind of had to just stand there

met I kind of had to just stand there and watch through these actions taken by

and watch through these actions taken by

and watch through these actions taken by her and her family as my own character

her and her family as my own character

her and her family as my own character was rewritten into something ugly and

was rewritten into something ugly and

was rewritten into something ugly and menacing

menacing

menacing well she remained hidden by this

well she remained hidden by this

well she remained hidden by this spectacular cloak of fiction and it felt

spectacular cloak of fiction and it felt

spectacular cloak of fiction and it felt like my life was starting to unravel I

like my life was starting to unravel I

like my life was starting to unravel I dropped out of university I moved out of

dropped out of university I moved out of

dropped out of university I moved out of the house I was living in they knew I

the house I was living in they knew I

the house I was living in they knew I lived there I stopped eating sleeping

lived there I stopped eating sleeping

lived there I stopped eating sleeping socializing I was very hesitant to

socializing I was very hesitant to

socializing I was very hesitant to defend myself because I worried that I’d

defend myself because I worried that I’d

defend myself because I worried that I’d make things worse for her and I held the

make things worse for her and I held the

make things worse for her and I held the Titanic esque mass of digital evidence

Titanic esque mass of digital evidence

Titanic esque mass of digital evidence of our true interactions but we both

of our true interactions but we both

of our true interactions but we both knew that in pulling this out she’d be

knew that in pulling this out she’d be

knew that in pulling this out she’d be really added to her family so I suppose

really added to her family so I suppose

really added to her family so I suppose my care for her became the very weapon I

my care for her became the very weapon I

my care for her became the very weapon I hold against her and I guess while I now

hold against her and I guess while I now

hold against her and I guess while I now knew the inner anarchy of having given

knew the inner anarchy of having given

knew the inner anarchy of having given kindness to someone who then tries to

kindness to someone who then tries to

kindness to someone who then tries to destroy you

destroy you

destroy you I was totally just left to imagine her

I was totally just left to imagine her

I was totally just left to imagine her torture imagine the torture of having

torture imagine the torture of having

torture imagine the torture of having tried to destroy someone who show

tried to destroy someone who show

tried to destroy someone who show you care I couldn’t imagine how she was

you care I couldn’t imagine how she was

you care I couldn’t imagine how she was living with that and so for a long time

living with that and so for a long time

living with that and so for a long time loomed the overhanging threat that this

loomed the overhanging threat that this

loomed the overhanging threat that this person I care for so deeply would try to

person I care for so deeply would try to

person I care for so deeply would try to harm herself meanwhile it wasn’t even

harm herself meanwhile it wasn’t even

harm herself meanwhile it wasn’t even safe to reach out to tell her I care

safe to reach out to tell her I care

safe to reach out to tell her I care eventually I did realize that

eventually I did realize that

eventually I did realize that sacrificing myself would not protect her

sacrificing myself would not protect her

sacrificing myself would not protect her from the reality of who she is but it’s

from the reality of who she is but it’s

from the reality of who she is but it’s not kind to shield someone from their

not kind to shield someone from their

not kind to shield someone from their denial it’s enabling and I got help to

denial it’s enabling and I got help to

denial it’s enabling and I got help to stand up for myself for the truth for

stand up for myself for the truth for

stand up for myself for the truth for everything I believe in and not without

everything I believe in and not without

everything I believe in and not without struggle I can’t quite explain the

struggle I can’t quite explain the

struggle I can’t quite explain the confusion of scrolling through our old

confusion of scrolling through our old

confusion of scrolling through our old text messages that once brought me joy

text messages that once brought me joy

text messages that once brought me joy screenshotting the excited exchanges of

screenshotting the excited exchanges of

screenshotting the excited exchanges of two people just getting to know each

two people just getting to know each

two people just getting to know each other to file them into a folder marked

other to file them into a folder marked

other to file them into a folder marked evidence the humiliation of sitting my

evidence the humiliation of sitting my

evidence the humiliation of sitting my own lovely hetero solicitor’s office

own lovely hetero solicitor’s office

own lovely hetero solicitor’s office photos of his beautiful wife and kids

photos of his beautiful wife and kids

photos of his beautiful wife and kids beaming brightly at me across the desk

beaming brightly at me across the desk

beaming brightly at me across the desk while I hand over my vulnerable private

while I hand over my vulnerable private

while I hand over my vulnerable private intimate communications with another

intimate communications with another

intimate communications with another woman to be scrutinized you know working

woman to be scrutinized you know working

woman to be scrutinized you know working to combat bullying didn’t make it easier

to combat bullying didn’t make it easier

to combat bullying didn’t make it easier when it was directed at me but it

when it was directed at me but it

when it was directed at me but it provided so much meaning

provided so much meaning

provided so much meaning I kept showing off at school and running

I kept showing off at school and running

I kept showing off at school and running workshops and I found myself feeling

workshops and I found myself feeling

workshops and I found myself feeling some next-level connection to the work

some next-level connection to the work

some next-level connection to the work that I’ve never felt before because now

that I’ve never felt before because now

that I’ve never felt before because now I had to think really deeply about what

I had to think really deeply about what

I had to think really deeply about what it’s like to be bullied about the

it’s like to be bullied about the

it’s like to be bullied about the different ways that people inflict

different ways that people inflict

different ways that people inflict cruelty on others on communities and

cruelty on others on communities and

cruelty on others on communities and sometimes whole cultures more

sometimes whole cultures more

sometimes whole cultures more systematically and ultimately themselves

systematically and ultimately themselves

systematically and ultimately themselves because well terrorizing people doesn’t

because well terrorizing people doesn’t

because well terrorizing people doesn’t do you any good in the long run

do you any good in the long run

do you any good in the long run I found myself thrashing out the ideas

I found myself thrashing out the ideas

I found myself thrashing out the ideas behind project Rockets struggling to

behind project Rockets struggling to

behind project Rockets struggling to grow my worldview to somehow accommodate

grow my worldview to somehow accommodate

grow my worldview to somehow accommodate the reality that some people just can’t

the reality that some people just can’t

the reality that some people just can’t tolerate kindness for whatever of so

tolerate kindness for whatever of so

tolerate kindness for whatever of so many possible reasons they try to

many possible reasons they try to

many possible reasons they try to destroy it it was around that time that

destroy it it was around that time that

destroy it it was around that time that I was invited to speak at a huge summit

I was invited to speak at a huge summit

I was invited to speak at a huge summit here in Sydney the National young

here in Sydney the National young

here in Sydney the National young leaders day the breakfast to show up and

leaders day the breakfast to show up and

leaders day the breakfast to show up and share your ideas

share your ideas

share your ideas you know how the hell you’ve been tested

you know how the hell you’ve been tested

you know how the hell you’ve been tested the risks you’ve taken in your failures

the risks you’ve taken in your failures

the risks you’ve taken in your failures so I stood in stage in front of 3,000

so I stood in stage in front of 3,000

so I stood in stage in front of 3,000 students at Olympic Park and I just

students at Olympic Park and I just

students at Olympic Park and I just blurted out my story for the first time

blurted out my story for the first time

blurted out my story for the first time and just something so strange happened

and just something so strange happened

and just something so strange happened that crowd of teens in a hall managed to

that crowd of teens in a hall managed to

that crowd of teens in a hall managed to see past my warbling trembling voice and

see past my warbling trembling voice and

see past my warbling trembling voice and the terrible nervous jokes that I told

the terrible nervous jokes that I told

the terrible nervous jokes that I told to lighten my story they just embraced

to lighten my story they just embraced

to lighten my story they just embraced me with this sincere group empathy kind

me with this sincere group empathy kind

me with this sincere group empathy kind of like you guys are doing now for the

of like you guys are doing now for the

of like you guys are doing now for the first time ever I felt the collective

first time ever I felt the collective

first time ever I felt the collective weight of this movement we created

weight of this movement we created

weight of this movement we created behind me the power of people truly

behind me the power of people truly

behind me the power of people truly connecting over a single idea that very

connecting over a single idea that very

connecting over a single idea that very same idea behind project rocket you know

same idea behind project rocket you know

same idea behind project rocket you know being bullied shattered my view of

being bullied shattered my view of

being bullied shattered my view of kindness but then kindness the kindness

kindness but then kindness the kindness

kindness but then kindness the kindness of the thousands of teens I’ve only just

of the thousands of teens I’ve only just

of the thousands of teens I’ve only just met over the years ultimately put me

met over the years ultimately put me

met over the years ultimately put me back together again

back together again

back together again it dawned on me that all of the years of

it dawned on me that all of the years of

it dawned on me that all of the years of awkward intros the times had

awkward intros the times had

awkward intros the times had accidentally spat on the front row their

accidentally spat on the front row their

accidentally spat on the front row their individual expressions of Revelation of

individual expressions of Revelation of

individual expressions of Revelation of a commitment to change to diversity to

a commitment to change to diversity to

a commitment to change to diversity to generosity the bold and ever complex

generosity the bold and ever complex

generosity the bold and ever complex beliefs of countless fifteen year olds

beliefs of countless fifteen year olds

beliefs of countless fifteen year olds coerced into action by their peers had

coerced into action by their peers had

coerced into action by their peers had amounted to this you know I really think

amounted to this you know I really think

amounted to this you know I really think that the ultimate act of rebellion

that the ultimate act of rebellion

that the ultimate act of rebellion against bullying is survival and I’m not

against bullying is survival and I’m not

against bullying is survival and I’m not just talking about life and death

just talking about life and death

just talking about life and death survival I also mean the survival of

survival I also mean the survival of

survival I also mean the survival of ideas that drive you who you are who you

ideas that drive you who you are who you

ideas that drive you who you are who you love your culture what makes you stand

love your culture what makes you stand

love your culture what makes you stand out which can be brutal because that

out which can be brutal because that

out which can be brutal because that might just be the very reason you were

might just be the very reason you were

might just be the very reason you were targeted sadly we do is still live in a

targeted sadly we do is still live in a

targeted sadly we do is still live in a world where those who knock down others

world where those who knock down others

world where those who knock down others on the basis of our differences can

on the basis of our differences can

on the basis of our differences can still lean back on many social legal

still lean back on many social legal

still lean back on many social legal political structures that are

political structures that are

political structures that are systematically aligned with their

systematically aligned with their

systematically aligned with their prejudice and this is why we must repeal

prejudice and this is why we must repeal

prejudice and this is why we must repeal I chose to rebel against the most

I chose to rebel against the most

I chose to rebel against the most bizarre and awful cruelty I’ve ever

bizarre and awful cruelty I’ve ever

bizarre and awful cruelty I’ve ever known by surviving it and if you’re

known by surviving it and if you’re

known by surviving it and if you’re battling your own personal Death Eaters

battling your own personal Death Eaters

battling your own personal Death Eaters so can you I told myself I’m proud to

so can you I told myself I’m proud to

so can you I told myself I’m proud to exist in the face of this hatred

exist in the face of this hatred

exist in the face of this hatred I’m not defined by other people’s

I’m not defined by other people’s

I’m not defined by other people’s ignorance I am still here and I’m still

ignorance I am still here and I’m still

ignorance I am still here and I’m still kind so of course I still believe that

kind so of course I still believe that

kind so of course I still believe that kindness breeds kindness but just

kindness breeds kindness but just

kindness breeds kindness but just perhaps not through that simple model of

perhaps not through that simple model of

perhaps not through that simple model of reciprocity I spoke to you before the

reciprocity I spoke to you before the

reciprocity I spoke to you before the truth is there is not one simple set of

truth is there is not one simple set of

truth is there is not one simple set of steps to ensure that kindness rise over

steps to ensure that kindness rise over

steps to ensure that kindness rise over bullying hate and Prejudice it’s a

bullying hate and Prejudice it’s a

bullying hate and Prejudice it’s a practice a really tough discipline for

practice a really tough discipline for

practice a really tough discipline for all of us to blunder out and stumble

all of us to blunder out and stumble

all of us to blunder out and stumble through everyday and still that doesn’t

through everyday and still that doesn’t

through everyday and still that doesn’t take away the power of kindness even if

take away the power of kindness even if

take away the power of kindness even if unseen we can never know the power of

unseen we can never know the power of

unseen we can never know the power of these gestures now in 11 years time like

these gestures now in 11 years time like

these gestures now in 11 years time like project rocket or well after we’re gone

project rocket or well after we’re gone

project rocket or well after we’re gone it may be your intention to carry others

it may be your intention to carry others

it may be your intention to carry others but it could just be the very thing that

but it could just be the very thing that

but it could just be the very thing that carries you through your own blackest

carries you through your own blackest

carries you through your own blackest song when we’re kind to people we’re

song when we’re kind to people we’re

song when we’re kind to people we’re paying it back to ourselves and them in

paying it back to ourselves and them in

paying it back to ourselves and them in ways we don’t yet know and if you can

ways we don’t yet know and if you can

ways we don’t yet know and if you can exercise compassion for somebody who

exercise compassion for somebody who

exercise compassion for somebody who can’t or won’t do the same for you the

can’t or won’t do the same for you the

can’t or won’t do the same for you the hardest sort of kindness then I really

hardest sort of kindness then I really

hardest sort of kindness then I really believe you’ll have so much more to

believe you’ll have so much more to

believe you’ll have so much more to offer to this troubled messy world we

offer to this troubled messy world we

offer to this troubled messy world we face right now ever since I finished

face right now ever since I finished

face right now ever since I finished school each of my working days has begun

school each of my working days has begun

school each of my working days has begun with the same awkward introduction hi

with the same awkward introduction hi

with the same awkward introduction hi I’m Lucy I’m from project rocket and I’m

I’m Lucy I’m from project rocket and I’m

I’m Lucy I’m from project rocket and I’m here to talk about bullying and so much

here to talk about bullying and so much

here to talk about bullying and so much has changed over the past 11 years but

has changed over the past 11 years but

has changed over the past 11 years but that conversation still needs to happen

that conversation still needs to happen

that conversation still needs to happen and now more than ever with every person

and now more than ever with every person

and now more than ever with every person I meet every tiny but valuable piece of

I meet every tiny but valuable piece of

I meet every tiny but valuable piece of this massive puzzle of humanity I’m

this massive puzzle of humanity I’m

this massive puzzle of humanity I’m reminded that every one of us really

reminded that every one of us really

reminded that every one of us really does have a role to play in creating

does have a role to play in creating

does have a role to play in creating this a world where kindness and respect

this a world where kindness and respect

this a world where kindness and respect thrive over bullying hate and Prejudice

thrive over bullying hate and Prejudice

thrive over bullying hate and Prejudice and all young people are free to realize

and all young people are free to realize

and all young people are free to realize their potential thank you

their potential thank you

their potential thank you you

you

you [Applause]

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