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Hidden Threads | Valerie Mashman | TEDxKenyalang


hello everyone this is TEDx Konya lab

hello everyone this is TEDx Konya lab who knows what Kenya Lang means it means

who knows what Kenya Lang means it means

who knows what Kenya Lang means it means hornbill we’re in Sarawak the land of

hornbill we’re in Sarawak the land of

hornbill we’re in Sarawak the land of the hornbill and who agrees with me that

the hornbill and who agrees with me that

the hornbill and who agrees with me that sera whacks a pretty special place my

sera whacks a pretty special place my

sera whacks a pretty special place my friend Colin who could live in London

friend Colin who could live in London

friend Colin who could live in London Wellington or Sydney chooses to live in

Wellington or Sydney chooses to live in

Wellington or Sydney chooses to live in Sarawak because he says there’s no other

Sarawak because he says there’s no other

Sarawak because he says there’s no other place in the world where so there’s such

place in the world where so there’s such

place in the world where so there’s such a diversity of people who live in such a

a diversity of people who live in such a

a diversity of people who live in such a peaceful ambience and that’s no small

peaceful ambience and that’s no small

peaceful ambience and that’s no small achievement given the destructiveness

achievement given the destructiveness

achievement given the destructiveness and divisive ‘no sand violence of the

and divisive ‘no sand violence of the

and divisive ‘no sand violence of the world beyond our shores so what makes

world beyond our shores so what makes

world beyond our shores so what makes Sarawak special it’s us the people and I

Sarawak special it’s us the people and I

Sarawak special it’s us the people and I include myself in that I’m not what you

include myself in that I’m not what you

include myself in that I’m not what you see you look at me you see a tall white

see you look at me you see a tall white

see you look at me you see a tall white lady size 16 with a long nose but half

lady size 16 with a long nose but half

lady size 16 with a long nose but half of me is Italian and half of me is

of me is Italian and half of me is

of me is Italian and half of me is English and my heart is truly Sarawak

English and my heart is truly Sarawak

English and my heart is truly Sarawak Ian

I’m rather mixed up you see but being

I’m rather mixed up you see but being mixed up is a source of strength and

mixed up is a source of strength and

mixed up is a source of strength and many insights as I’ll share with you

many insights as I’ll share with you

many insights as I’ll share with you later on I’ve been taking a lifetime to

later on I’ve been taking a lifetime to

later on I’ve been taking a lifetime to understand what it is that makes Sarawak

understand what it is that makes Sarawak

understand what it is that makes Sarawak tick and I’m going to share with you a

tick and I’m going to share with you a

tick and I’m going to share with you a secret today I’ve discovered intangible

secret today I’ve discovered intangible

secret today I’ve discovered intangible invisible threads the linker saw

invisible threads the linker saw

invisible threads the linker saw together to make community and I’m going

together to make community and I’m going

together to make community and I’m going to give you two examples let’s go to

to give you two examples let’s go to

to give you two examples let’s go to Chinatown for the first example this was

Chinatown for the first example this was

Chinatown for the first example this was the intercultural mooncake festival held

the intercultural mooncake festival held

the intercultural mooncake festival held in carpenter street it was two months

in carpenter street it was two months

in carpenter street it was two months ago did anyone go so the whole of

ago did anyone go so the whole of

ago did anyone go so the whole of carpenter Street became open and people

carpenter Street became open and people

carpenter Street became open and people came from all about the bid I you came

came from all about the bid I you came

came from all about the bid I you came from the mountains around the Malays

from the mountains around the Malays

from the mountains around the Malays came from a cross River and the E Bank

came from a cross River and the E Bank

came from a cross River and the E Bank came from the outline kam punks

came from the outline kam punks

came from the outline kam punks and then there were all kinds of people

and then there were all kinds of people

and then there were all kinds of people that joined the party people left their

that joined the party people left their

that joined the party people left their cars and their computers to enjoy the

cars and their computers to enjoy the

cars and their computers to enjoy the celebration

celebration

celebration we took our lanterns and looked up at

we took our lanterns and looked up at

we took our lanterns and looked up at the full moon and we enjoyed the rhythm

the full moon and we enjoyed the rhythm

the full moon and we enjoyed the rhythm of the lion dances and we could hear the

of the lion dances and we could hear the

of the lion dances and we could hear the harmonies of the Malay drums who come

harmonies of the Malay drums who come

harmonies of the Malay drums who come every year from a camping on the coast

every year from a camping on the coast

every year from a camping on the coast we could also hear the plaintive

we could also hear the plaintive

we could also hear the plaintive melodies of the Borneo lute the SAP a

melodies of the Borneo lute the SAP a

melodies of the Borneo lute the SAP a with their songs from far upriver and

with their songs from far upriver and

with their songs from far upriver and then there were the harmonies on the

then there were the harmonies on the

then there were the harmonies on the five-foot way of the Chinese Orchestra

five-foot way of the Chinese Orchestra

five-foot way of the Chinese Orchestra so it was a wonderful celebration of a

so it was a wonderful celebration of a

so it was a wonderful celebration of a mixed

mixed

mixed of music and entertainment but not just

of music and entertainment but not just

of music and entertainment but not just that there was the food you could smell

that there was the food you could smell

that there was the food you could smell the aroma of the mouth-watering satay as

the aroma of the mouth-watering satay as

the aroma of the mouth-watering satay as it cooked

it cooked

it cooked barbecued you could taste the spiciness

barbecued you could taste the spiciness

barbecued you could taste the spiciness of the Sarawak Luxor or the Kahlo me and

of the Sarawak Luxor or the Kahlo me and

of the Sarawak Luxor or the Kahlo me and then there were the moon cakes it was

then there were the moon cakes it was

then there were the moon cakes it was all yeah man

all yeah man

all yeah man [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] the downside is it’s pretty difficult to

the downside is it’s pretty difficult to

the downside is it’s pretty difficult to diet in Sarawak but it was the moon

diet in Sarawak but it was the moon

diet in Sarawak but it was the moon cakes that really made the festival

cakes that really made the festival

cakes that really made the festival because they had invisible threads that

because they had invisible threads that

because they had invisible threads that linked us with the legends of ancient

linked us with the legends of ancient

linked us with the legends of ancient China the traditions and customs of long

China the traditions and customs of long

China the traditions and customs of long ago and these invisible threads into

ago and these invisible threads into

ago and these invisible threads into wove and matted together the Chinese

wove and matted together the Chinese

wove and matted together the Chinese community in Chinatown and those of us

community in Chinatown and those of us

community in Chinatown and those of us outside had shared experience and

outside had shared experience and

outside had shared experience and histories of these festivals and we came

histories of these festivals and we came

histories of these festivals and we came having collected our invisible threads

having collected our invisible threads

having collected our invisible threads and we interwoven with the community the

and we interwoven with the community the

and we interwoven with the community the newspapers had a field day for this

newspapers had a field day for this

newspapers had a field day for this event they talked about unity and

event they talked about unity and

event they talked about unity and harmony and diversity the cynics thought

harmony and diversity the cynics thought

harmony and diversity the cynics thought differently in the coffee shops and

differently in the coffee shops and

differently in the coffee shops and social media they said all this was a

social media they said all this was a

social media they said all this was a show for the tourism industry or it was

show for the tourism industry or it was

show for the tourism industry or it was fodder for the politicians but I don’t

fodder for the politicians but I don’t

fodder for the politicians but I don’t agree with this I believe these

agree with this I believe these

agree with this I believe these invisible threads are much more

invisible threads are much more

invisible threads are much more resilient and go much deeper and I’m

resilient and go much deeper and I’m

resilient and go much deeper and I’m going to take you on the long journey

going to take you on the long journey

going to take you on the long journey we’re going to long pull one a long

we’re going to long pull one a long

we’re going to long pull one a long house on the edge of the Cal

house on the edge of the Cal

house on the edge of the Cal bitch Highlands it’s close to Indonesia

bitch Highlands it’s close to Indonesia

bitch Highlands it’s close to Indonesia it’s very remote it’s where my husband

it’s very remote it’s where my husband

it’s very remote it’s where my husband comes from what can we see here it’s a

comes from what can we see here it’s a

comes from what can we see here it’s a place where elders sit by the fire and

place where elders sit by the fire and

place where elders sit by the fire and knowledge is transmitted from one

knowledge is transmitted from one

knowledge is transmitted from one generation to the next

generation to the next

generation to the next grandfather to grandson in the stories

grandfather to grandson in the stories

grandfather to grandson in the stories that are told are the invisible threads

that are told are the invisible threads

that are told are the invisible threads about knowledge of land of resources of

about knowledge of land of resources of

about knowledge of land of resources of territory of customs and traditions and

territory of customs and traditions and

territory of customs and traditions and these are what hold the communities

these are what hold the communities

these are what hold the communities together I was told of a very special

together I was told of a very special

together I was told of a very special story and I’m going to share some of it

story and I’m going to share some of it

story and I’m going to share some of it with you today the story introduced me

with you today the story introduced me

with you today the story introduced me to a new idea the idea is nun tau in

to a new idea the idea is nun tau in

to a new idea the idea is nun tau in collab it London Tau

collab it London Tau

collab it London Tau it means our people our people were the

it means our people our people were the

it means our people our people were the ancestors of the community that lives in

ancestors of the community that lives in

ancestors of the community that lives in the longhouse today they’re very mixed

the longhouse today they’re very mixed

the longhouse today they’re very mixed they’re collab it sabang and lauric and

they’re collab it sabang and lauric and

they’re collab it sabang and lauric and our people were led in migrations by a

our people were led in migrations by a

our people were led in migrations by a tall strong invincible leader called

tall strong invincible leader called

tall strong invincible leader called tellenson he could deflect Spears from

tellenson he could deflect Spears from

tellenson he could deflect Spears from enemies just by flexing his muscles and

enemies just by flexing his muscles and

enemies just by flexing his muscles and he led our people across river systems

he led our people across river systems

he led our people across river systems down valleys to a place that was very

down valleys to a place that was very

down valleys to a place that was very safe protected by rapids in the river

safe protected by rapids in the river

safe protected by rapids in the river and it was at this place but today we

and it was at this place but today we

and it was at this place but today we can still see signs of tellenson and the

can still see signs of tellenson and the

can still see signs of tellenson and the people he gathered with him in the stone

people he gathered with him in the stone

people he gathered with him in the stone graves and monuments on the river system

graves and monuments on the river system

graves and monuments on the river system it was this place though that they

it was this place though that they

it was this place though that they experienced the threat of their enemies

experienced the threat of their enemies

experienced the threat of their enemies what to do

what to do

what to do what could they do to Lin Sam said we

what could they do to Lin Sam said we

what could they do to Lin Sam said we have to split up those of us who are

have to split up those of us who are

have to split up those of us who are good at climbing can go up up into the

good at climbing can go up up into the

good at climbing can go up up into the hills and those of us who are good at

hills and those of us who are good at

hills and those of us who are good at going by boat can go down river and this

going by boat can go down river and this

going by boat can go down river and this is what they did they had to split up

is what they did they had to split up

is what they did they had to split up and form two separate communities and it

and form two separate communities and it

and form two separate communities and it is there where they lived and prospered

is there where they lived and prospered

is there where they lived and prospered why is this story told this story is

why is this story told this story is

why is this story told this story is told today because in the telling of the

told today because in the telling of the

told today because in the telling of the story community is is made we hear about

story community is is made we hear about

story community is is made we hear about our people and our people become

our people and our people become

our people and our people become generated in the minds of the listeners

generated in the minds of the listeners

generated in the minds of the listeners people have kin upriver and downriver to

people have kin upriver and downriver to

people have kin upriver and downriver to count on for festivals and weddings and

count on for festivals and weddings and

count on for festivals and weddings and funerals this idea of being together as

funerals this idea of being together as

funerals this idea of being together as our people was very important for

our people was very important for

our people was very important for survival in the forest our people

survival in the forest our people

survival in the forest our people intermarried and adopted children and

intermarried and adopted children and

intermarried and adopted children and made blood brothers they formed large

made blood brothers they formed large

made blood brothers they formed large heterogeneous mixed communities for

heterogeneous mixed communities for

heterogeneous mixed communities for defense because it was very important in

defense because it was very important in

defense because it was very important in the rain forests imagine if you wanted

the rain forests imagine if you wanted

the rain forests imagine if you wanted to cut down a big tree how many men

to cut down a big tree how many men

to cut down a big tree how many men would you need three five no ten at

would you need three five no ten at

would you need three five no ten at least ten men were needed to cut down a

least ten men were needed to cut down a

least ten men were needed to cut down a tree to create long houses or boats or

tree to create long houses or boats or

tree to create long houses or boats or fireplaces then you needed to clear land

fireplaces then you needed to clear land

fireplaces then you needed to clear land for farming you needed people to help

for farming you needed people to help

for farming you needed people to help you

you

you so your paddy plant your paddy weed

so your paddy plant your paddy weed

so your paddy plant your paddy weed you’re paddy and harvest how did you do

you’re paddy and harvest how did you do

you’re paddy and harvest how did you do it you work on my fields I work on yours

it you work on my fields I work on yours

it you work on my fields I work on yours this is the great Malaysian spirit of

this is the great Malaysian spirit of

this is the great Malaysian spirit of cooperative labor

cooperative labor

cooperative labor often grow young and this was the

often grow young and this was the

often grow young and this was the essence of how our people lived but what

essence of how our people lived but what

essence of how our people lived but what it was that kept them together were

it was that kept them together were

it was that kept them together were invisible threats the invisible threads

invisible threats the invisible threads

invisible threats the invisible threads with the shared values these shared

with the shared values these shared

with the shared values these shared values meant working hard so you had

values meant working hard so you had

values meant working hard so you had lots of paddy for festivals for sharing

lots of paddy for festivals for sharing

lots of paddy for festivals for sharing for being generous at all costs it was

for being generous at all costs it was

for being generous at all costs it was important to keep the community together

important to keep the community together

important to keep the community together so you rode on consensus you supported

so you rode on consensus you supported

so you rode on consensus you supported your leaders and her all costs you

your leaders and her all costs you

your leaders and her all costs you avoided conflict I learnt about avoiding

avoided conflict I learnt about avoiding

avoided conflict I learnt about avoiding conflict very early on in my marriage I

conflict very early on in my marriage I

conflict very early on in my marriage I hinted I was married to a can Abbot well

hinted I was married to a can Abbot well

hinted I was married to a can Abbot well we’d been married a few months the

we’d been married a few months the

we’d been married a few months the honeymoon was over and I was learning

honeymoon was over and I was learning

honeymoon was over and I was learning new things about my husband every day

new things about my husband every day

new things about my husband every day and having to adjust one of these was

and having to adjust one of these was

and having to adjust one of these was that he has amination

that he has amination

that he has amination idea of time that is very fluid and

idea of time that is very fluid and

idea of time that is very fluid and flexible and I was conditioned with a

flexible and I was conditioned with a

flexible and I was conditioned with a British sense of time that goes by the

British sense of time that goes by the

British sense of time that goes by the clock and Big Ben ding-dong ding-dong

so one evening it was really important

so one evening it was really important that he came home by 6 o’clock because

that he came home by 6 o’clock because

that he came home by 6 o’clock because we had to go to the airport to meet my

we had to go to the airport to meet my

we had to go to the airport to meet my family who were just arriving so I told

family who were just arriving so I told

family who were just arriving so I told him in the morning please be back by

him in the morning please be back by

him in the morning please be back by 6:00 so we get there on time 6 o’clock

6:00 so we get there on time 6 o’clock

6:00 so we get there on time 6 o’clock came and I was waiting and waiting

came and I was waiting and waiting

came and I was waiting and waiting my stomach was churning and I was

my stomach was churning and I was

my stomach was churning and I was getting ready for a really good Italian

getting ready for a really good Italian

getting ready for a really good Italian fight

so when my husband came in at 6:20 what

so when my husband came in at 6:20 what did I do

did I do

did I do I started yelling at him and what did my

I started yelling at him and what did my

I started yelling at him and what did my husband do did he yell back did he throw

husband do did he yell back did he throw

husband do did he yell back did he throw shoes at me

shoes at me

shoes at me no he laughed and what did I – I felt

no he laughed and what did I – I felt

no he laughed and what did I – I felt cheated

cheated

cheated I laughed back and we’ve been laughing

I laughed back and we’ve been laughing

I laughed back and we’ve been laughing ever since to get back to this idea

ever since to get back to this idea

ever since to get back to this idea about our people our people was a very

about our people our people was a very

about our people our people was a very fluid inclusive idea of identity I’ve

fluid inclusive idea of identity I’ve

fluid inclusive idea of identity I’ve given you an example of it as it’s used

given you an example of it as it’s used

given you an example of it as it’s used in our longhouse in a historical setting

in our longhouse in a historical setting

in our longhouse in a historical setting but can a bit still use it today but

but can a bit still use it today but

but can a bit still use it today but this inclusive idea of identity that

this inclusive idea of identity that

this inclusive idea of identity that accommodates mixed communities is very

accommodates mixed communities is very

accommodates mixed communities is very different to the way we think of

different to the way we think of

different to the way we think of ourselves now we’ve inherited from the

ourselves now we’ve inherited from the

ourselves now we’ve inherited from the colonial administrators a very fixed way

colonial administrators a very fixed way

colonial administrators a very fixed way of defining people according to

of defining people according to

of defining people according to ethnicity based on difference when this

ethnicity based on difference when this

ethnicity based on difference when this idea was being introduced by the

idea was being introduced by the

idea was being introduced by the colonial administrators they did it in

colonial administrators they did it in

colonial administrators they did it in order to classify and know the

order to classify and know the

order to classify and know the population and control them of course

population and control them of course

population and control them of course but Tom Harrison the curator at the time

but Tom Harrison the curator at the time

but Tom Harrison the curator at the time protested firmly he said people cannot

protested firmly he said people cannot

protested firmly he said people cannot think of themselves as named static

think of themselves as named static

think of themselves as named static classified groups and have a lot of us

classified groups and have a lot of us

classified groups and have a lot of us who are mixed also have the same feeling

who are mixed also have the same feeling

who are mixed also have the same feeling I have a young cousin Julie her father

I have a young cousin Julie her father

I have a young cousin Julie her father is eben her mother is Bedar you and then

is eben her mother is Bedar you and then

is eben her mother is Bedar you and then she has a stepmother who’s Chinese wipey

she has a stepmother who’s Chinese wipey

she has a stepmother who’s Chinese wipey who asked her what is she she doesn’t

who asked her what is she she doesn’t

who asked her what is she she doesn’t know she says she’s naughty bad she’s

know she says she’s naughty bad she’s

know she says she’s naughty bad she’s not bid are you she’s not Chinese

not bid are you she’s not Chinese

not bid are you she’s not Chinese she’s Sarawak iam and then she’s

she’s Sarawak iam and then she’s

she’s Sarawak iam and then she’s Malaysian so when she has to fill in a

Malaysian so when she has to fill in a

Malaysian so when she has to fill in a form and tick a box saying ethnicity she

form and tick a box saying ethnicity she

form and tick a box saying ethnicity she ticks three boxes just to protest if you

ticks three boxes just to protest if you

ticks three boxes just to protest if you like me have one parent who speaks one

like me have one parent who speaks one

like me have one parent who speaks one language and one parent who speaks

language and one parent who speaks

language and one parent who speaks another who have grandparents who

another who have grandparents who

another who have grandparents who worship in different places who have

worship in different places who have

worship in different places who have cousins who celebrate different

cousins who celebrate different

cousins who celebrate different festivals don’t feel muddled there is

festivals don’t feel muddled there is

festivals don’t feel muddled there is tremendous hope because you have a mixed

tremendous hope because you have a mixed

tremendous hope because you have a mixed heritage of rich traditions to draw

heritage of rich traditions to draw

heritage of rich traditions to draw invisible threats to build more

invisible threats to build more

invisible threats to build more community those invisible threats

community those invisible threats

community those invisible threats remember are based on generosity on

remember are based on generosity on

remember are based on generosity on inclusiveness on tradition and custom on

inclusiveness on tradition and custom on

inclusiveness on tradition and custom on shared experiences like we saw in the

shared experiences like we saw in the

shared experiences like we saw in the mooncake festival and this is what makes

mooncake festival and this is what makes

mooncake festival and this is what makes Sarawak at its very best

Sarawak at its very best

Sarawak at its very best special we in this room today are

special we in this room today are

special we in this room today are experiencing lots of people’s

experiencing lots of people’s

experiencing lots of people’s testimonies we are living shared

testimonies we are living shared

testimonies we are living shared experience

experience

experience there are many invisible threads being

there are many invisible threads being

there are many invisible threads being generated in this room our challenges

generated in this room our challenges

generated in this room our challenges today is not to lose those invisible

today is not to lose those invisible

today is not to lose those invisible threads but to gather them and this will

threads but to gather them and this will

threads but to gather them and this will be TEDx at its very best

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