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[Music]

I could talk with you about

the power that we have to connect with

other people because I think that

We underestimate a lot, I’m convinced

that I can tell you the story of my

life through people

they were doing on the road every

person took me from one point to another in a

challenge to another each person

helped to achieve my

objectives and I will not deny it be

connected with a lot of people and

you walk a lot more bearable happens

you were once put to

think about that I think that at the end of the

day

the way is about connecting with other

people

it’s about generating random encounters

the only ones and also while

I prepared this meeting with you I

I started thinking that teaches us to connect

with people

taught them to you while

I thought that I was wondering does what

can teach because each one is unique

each encounter is unique and each one

connected to the rest of the people who

it is a unique place and the reality that does not

you reach a conclusion you can not

teach but he assured that it’s worth

try it in the world of work or of

business is talking about this power

afford to connect as networking

net means to see working wants

say work on building networks of

Contact personally and when you have to

think a bit about this talk and how

accountant this networking experience is

a very cold distant area and for me

it has nothing to do with what he wants

say connect with another person when

I think generates a meeting generated with

another person

I think of a collaborative attitude

I think of an instance of a going and

back when we connect with someone from

there really has to be a round trip

we have to want to generate a

fertile ground for the one who comes to

work so it’s next we have

have to want to multiply also

the world of work and the world

entrepreneur to whom I belong is

they do a lot of activities that

are intended to encourage this

construction of networks

the network tissue are usually

short events that have some talk

a cocktail that the goal is

we find every time one of those

events

what else is exchanged with cards

personal

one more creative others more

traditional one more uglier other lives

but the reality that they are all

different cards that go to the

same drawer down my desk like this

who collects cards unintentionally and

when the exercise to see what happens with

those cards

I realize that you can not associate a

face to each card because when

we connect with someone when we want

that something according to the memorable our

mind works if we only go to

remember those moments that are

extraordinary that are extraordinary

that are different are destructive that

they are better because they are worse

but it’s always something that

normal and I think that connecting that is one

when will you connect with someone to

with all his emotions for counted his

story for good and bad but all

our history and connect has to

see with going open to the opening with the

another I am going to build a link with

a person I will not talk to the charge

that person occupies

that’s why it also happens to us there are people who

believes that the network of contacts that

just a quick passport to a

lots of contacts that another way not

would that people realize is it or

It’s not genuine when you go to the meeting

people realize this way it was that

connecting people

I learned that working as a team I am

a much more intelligent person and

creative

then the most effective gender stuff

better and that’s how it was the

protagonist and participant of the

creation of the community of

biggest entrepreneurs of our

country and for that I want to tell you a

history a few years ago

I worked in a banking company

private in montevideo and that company for

the financial crisis decided to close its

doors in uruguay

that makes Macarena decide to give the

compensation go to europe for a walk

for a while

that trip generated in me an opportunity

bail on uruguay convinced and

knowing that we Uruguayans have the faith

fortune that our country is all

for doing absolutely everything yes and I said

fortune because for me it is a

opportunity

I’m convinced that so I go back

to uruguay

I resume my economic career

left a little half before I leave

thinking so that I wanted to dedicate

which of all the problems

opportunities that I had wanted

resolve and with whom

while a job as a waiter is achieved

in a restaurant on the coast of Rocha

to the east of our country a job

super fun was the first time

I had a lot of fun working and not

Would you go back to the mud

close to that restore one night a

friend tells me you have to meet

felippo I think there are incredible things

together the middle g-30 so in that bar

later appears federico camiña las

introduce federico macarena with this

day the garena all good not those

cold contacts we make by

family and that night was that

we talked for a while and nothing else but in

the running of the days

we were finding in the spa

Chávez is because he was addressing the

strip to eat with your family or with your

friends and consciously or unconsciously

We both wanted to continue the conversation

we wanted to continue talking we come

here I put uncomfortable topics in the

Today , he told us

I was trying not to see if

really I was a person to do

something together generate curiosity

huge because he told me that I have with

what is going to be an incredible team

As they say that, the days go by and

Let’s keep talking

It turns out that Federico was the owner of a

Hostel in that square in La Pedrera have

maintained stable in montevideo had

Hostels in Colonia and within everything

is also opening hostels in

Colombia was dedicated to a person who

how I liked to work alone but

that as I was always looking

projects to which its march

that’s how we kept talking and with

We dream of what later was the

first collaborative workspace

from Uruguay

we add four more founding partners and

together we create synergies with work

synergy was for me my first

entrepreneurship my life

if you play and that a child for that delivery

unconditional is love is to give everything that

I’m from iu during the early stages of

his life

Let’s define what is an excellent

experience many people tell me good

What was the key to successful

company if I am convinced that the

success was not ours

the success was the connection that we achieved

in three work teams and that

entrepreneur community that was formed

and that all he wanted was

collaborate and reach all further away

I convinced

however beyond cinergia today

federico in my friend is a person with

what to eat a Sunday eagerness that we

we join with our families and

share other things we

we connect going far beyond the

reason why initially we

we met

so it was that after entering we thought

energetic federico and we thought a little

good where do we do it as we build

the investment as we name it

what do we do that I got a

I work in an NGO that powers

Successful entrepreneurs is a law

international that also has a

headquarters in montevideo but most

interesting from this headquarters and that has a

Directory composed of businessmen

most prestigious of our country

those people who already have a path

travel and we sure have a

advice then that says I do not have

to take advantage that I am here so that

Some of them advise me and that’s how it was

one afternoon the office had an event

what I was doing

they are all there the same place and in the

moment in the US corridor did not fall

very well apart and I approached him

apologize asking for forgiveness you have

permission to speak to you

apology or doubts that I am

work macarena here the department

acceleration edited team looked at me

Macarena waves do not sell I did not give

account because I was asking for forgiveness

for directing the word because I turned

to that cold sweat from behind

I care what takes time

half an hour that I do not think is a

important entrepreneur because we do that

I remember that and I laugh still

but I appreciate it

so it was that after 10 minutes of

stress I managed to tell you what I wanted

was to have a coffee with him

to what to my surprise this person

it becomes minimized of course to 14m the

bicycle area by we have a coffee

precise that I heard what you

defend about your project but all

we need that I usually ask

to the people

I heard about my companies indecisions

and it was so easy all the nerves that

think what happens to ask him to take a

coffee when to get something totally

normal

that day I learned and I deal with that

moment every day and every time

an entrepreneur came to ask my time

to be given an opinion about his

project is the least we can do

to return our society things

that he has given us and to follow

building a country of entrepreneurs

also that person after the famous

coffee and one of the best advice

they gave me in life forever

align your personal goals with your

career goals

that’s why there is no how failed and what

personal and what is professional is aligned

it is difficult that the queen said

and he was right to hear it once

when people tell you to work this

here we come to work the problems

that remain outside happen or not to me

salts did not come out I never used it the

same chain that is happy because

I squared off annual football the end of

last week or that is sad because

I discussed my boyfriend the day before

I can not separate it because when

connected with people especially of my

emotions of my corporality and emotion

of the desire that I have to know the

another person and for good and for bad I

I have my story and it is part of those

connections that we generate

so it was that that election taught me

many things taught me that all

we have something to contribute to others

that we do not have to be afraid to ask

help

what a wonderful thing to need

help ask someone who does not see it

it’s not that simple , it costs us so much

moment he taught me that taught me that

many times one goes to look for something and

ended up bringing things I did not expect

or it takes things did not expect

only that can happen let’s continue that

I find myself from a foreign place and I do not

we come to that meeting of an attitude

opening

It is not so easy to say very easy not

it’s so easy to do it in this story

of connecting people stone of a friend

my entrepreneur also valentina

I met nelson better Uruguayan than

lives 40 years ago in new york that

he founded a program at a university he

call columbia for companies

Latin Americans a program made to

measure to consolidate and scale

companies in the region is fascinated

with this program I was convinced that

what we need to teach now for

be able to scale

so he has a scholarship and for me

surprise I got it the next

decision that I had to make to choose

to one of my five partners so that I

will accompany in this adventure because the

only condition that put in the

program was that we expect two people

organization all my partners I

they taught me something they gave me something like

all the people who passed by me

lifetime

however on that occasion they are

will invite Federico the copy to

Federico because we are friends because

would be at the quarry in that spa

through camila

we connect much more than to do

business

In addition he had his

hospitals then it seemed to me that

he was going to serve this power to come

with me to spill their own

deal

this was the first of January 2016

we left a plane heading to new york

almost without finishing the festive toast

our families

just as we imagined the program

super demanding

I thought I would 15 days to new york

I did not know New York

I knew the way from the hotel to the

college and university hotel

as we imagine also the

program had a lot of

entrepreneurs and incredible people that

we knew which until today we continue in

contact because in the background beyond

of everything we learned from that

I was also trying this program had

two parts the first part of that

program was to do a project

About our company to identify

where there were processes that required

attention to be able to grow and to

carry out that work was going to us

assign a mentor wants us to go

partner and argue the process

to my surprise as we met the

mentor

we had a very long meeting what

I would say a true encounter

Gregory that’s the name of the mentor

know everything about us and know why

we were there as our families

that offered life goals

we had other things we did that

he did not like that he did not skimp on anything

its time to get to know us and connect

really with us we also

He told about his companies

he had a real estate fund

in the United States in Central America

with all his family

He told us what it was like to live outside of his

country a link that was much more

there for a moment we forgot that

we are in that conversation because

we have to do a project for the

university on the way passed many

things with federico we decided to sell this

first project is the first company and

take a step to the side of what was

synergy and we embark on other

projects, I tell you that it was

gregorio s mentor from columbia who

introduced to federico one of the funds

largest investment bank in america

latina

you would believe me they would believe me in addition

if I tell you that this association is going to

lead to the hospital chain more

big latin america

they would believe me good and went to federico

we found on that beach founding the

first coworking space next to the

university led him to his costs

today they play in major leagues in a few

years will multiply the spaces and

hospitality that they have to me I got to

give the first coworking space but

it also took me today to be part of the

founding team of the first

application of medicine our country

yes just as you hear it today you can

have a medical consultation on your cell phone

also unveiled nico amacoco

chaos and with it power we said will continue

campus the first academy not

traditional that seeks to empower people

through entrepreneurial skills

I do not want to imagine the amount of

things that await me in the amount of

people that I have yet to meet

allow it and mismatches

true go open to generate a

Go get experience building a

find people stories

Believe me you are going to take places that

start

imagine thank you very much

[Applause]

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