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A Life of Adventure: Selfish or Selfless? | Terry O’Connor | TEDxSunValley


all right adventurer anyone how does

all right adventurer anyone how does that simple invitation dilate our eyes

that simple invitation dilate our eyes

that simple invitation dilate our eyes he’s the hair on our skin and make us

he’s the hair on our skin and make us

he’s the hair on our skin and make us want to lean in what is that word

want to lean in what is that word

want to lean in what is that word conjure up for you is it a bold or

conjure up for you is it a bold or

conjure up for you is it a bold or daring undertaking or perhaps a unique

daring undertaking or perhaps a unique

daring undertaking or perhaps a unique experience in a remote corner of the

experience in a remote corner of the

experience in a remote corner of the world and why is this word used up to

world and why is this word used up to

world and why is this word used up to 1.4 million times an hour in our mediums

1.4 million times an hour in our mediums

1.4 million times an hour in our mediums of modern digital storytelling I want to

of modern digital storytelling I want to

of modern digital storytelling I want to address these questions with you today

address these questions with you today

address these questions with you today on a journey explaining how adventure

on a journey explaining how adventure

on a journey explaining how adventure connects us how it makes us better

connects us how it makes us better

connects us how it makes us better people and perhaps how it could make for

people and perhaps how it could make for

people and perhaps how it could make for a better world

a better world

a better world my journeys brought me here 26,000 feet

my journeys brought me here 26,000 feet

my journeys brought me here 26,000 feet high on the North Ridge of Mount Everest

high on the North Ridge of Mount Everest

high on the North Ridge of Mount Everest looks adventurous perhaps heroic but let

looks adventurous perhaps heroic but let

looks adventurous perhaps heroic but let me start by filling you in on a secret

me start by filling you in on a secret

me start by filling you in on a secret the mind does not always feel heroic on

the mind does not always feel heroic on

the mind does not always feel heroic on adventure and it’s really hard to feel

adventure and it’s really hard to feel

adventure and it’s really hard to feel heroic when you really need to pee I

heroic when you really need to pee I

heroic when you really need to pee I thought I was well prepared but nobody

thought I was well prepared but nobody

thought I was well prepared but nobody told me how when nature calls I’m gonna

told me how when nature calls I’m gonna

told me how when nature calls I’m gonna navigate through four inches of down

navigate through four inches of down

navigate through four inches of down with two inches of glove complete this

with two inches of glove complete this

with two inches of glove complete this whole ordeal without frostbite to the

whole ordeal without frostbite to the

whole ordeal without frostbite to the important bits humbling discovery indeed

important bits humbling discovery indeed

important bits humbling discovery indeed an adventure has a way of challenging

an adventure has a way of challenging

an adventure has a way of challenging you as well

you as well

you as well and in my mind I am just terrified at

and in my mind I am just terrified at

and in my mind I am just terrified at that very day because two weeks prior I

that very day because two weeks prior I

that very day because two weeks prior I had just received terrible news scratchy

had just received terrible news scratchy

had just received terrible news scratchy and broken over a satellite phone

and broken over a satellite phone

and broken over a satellite phone transmission I heard the words sorry

transmission I heard the words sorry

transmission I heard the words sorry Terry but charlie is dead my dear friend

Terry but charlie is dead my dear friend

Terry but charlie is dead my dear friend and climbing partner had just had his

and climbing partner had just had his

and climbing partner had just had his last climb and tragically perished in an

last climb and tragically perished in an

last climb and tragically perished in an avalanche accident high in the Canadian

avalanche accident high in the Canadian

avalanche accident high in the Canadian Rockies well I was high in the Himalaya

Rockies well I was high in the Himalaya

Rockies well I was high in the Himalaya and so now I’m a conflicted climber

and so now I’m a conflicted climber

and so now I’m a conflicted climber thoughts of Charlie swirling in my head

thoughts of Charlie swirling in my head

thoughts of Charlie swirling in my head as I’m plodding along one crampon in

as I’m plodding along one crampon in

as I’m plodding along one crampon in front of the other

front of the other

front of the other I grabbed my oxygen mask and I’d give it

I grabbed my oxygen mask and I’d give it

I grabbed my oxygen mask and I’d give it a squeeze ice breaking off that’s

a squeeze ice breaking off that’s

a squeeze ice breaking off that’s clinging at the corners I take this deep

clinging at the corners I take this deep

clinging at the corners I take this deep breath and the sweet cool passes over my

breath and the sweet cool passes over my

breath and the sweet cool passes over my lips

lips

lips he never thought oxygen could taste so

he never thought oxygen could taste so

he never thought oxygen could taste so good I never thought oxygen actually had

good I never thought oxygen actually had

good I never thought oxygen actually had a taste and it strikes me that may not

a taste and it strikes me that may not

a taste and it strikes me that may not be a good thing why after losing Charlie

be a good thing why after losing Charlie

be a good thing why after losing Charlie am i drawn like a moth to a flame to

am i drawn like a moth to a flame to

am i drawn like a moth to a flame to this summit why am I doing this in the

this summit why am I doing this in the

this summit why am I doing this in the debate continued footstep after footstep

debate continued footstep after footstep

debate continued footstep after footstep until 29,029 feet there’s nothing left

until 29,029 feet there’s nothing left

until 29,029 feet there’s nothing left to climb a place where earth ends and

to climb a place where earth ends and

to climb a place where earth ends and sky begins and I was totally awestruck

sky begins and I was totally awestruck

sky begins and I was totally awestruck and then something interesting happened

and then something interesting happened

and then something interesting happened why at that moment that my thoughts then

why at that moment that my thoughts then

why at that moment that my thoughts then turned to a woman named Poisson she too

turned to a woman named Poisson she too

turned to a woman named Poisson she too had just died that year passed away from

had just died that year passed away from

had just died that year passed away from a heart disease easily preventable here

a heart disease easily preventable here

a heart disease easily preventable here in the developed world and I felt sorrow

in the developed world and I felt sorrow

in the developed world and I felt sorrow for her loss but I was filled with a

for her loss but I was filled with a

for her loss but I was filled with a sense of gratitude for the time that I

sense of gratitude for the time that I

sense of gratitude for the time that I had spent with her in the year prior

had spent with her in the year prior

had spent with her in the year prior caring for the neglected children in her

caring for the neglected children in her

caring for the neglected children in her village high on the Tibetan Plateau and

village high on the Tibetan Plateau and

village high on the Tibetan Plateau and I felt compelled to go back there again

I felt compelled to go back there again

I felt compelled to go back there again and then my thoughts turned to my dad

and then my thoughts turned to my dad

and then my thoughts turned to my dad and I just wanted to give him a hug in

and I just wanted to give him a hug in

and I just wanted to give him a hug in my youth he was my shark in the pool loo

my youth he was my shark in the pool loo

my youth he was my shark in the pool loo my grizzly bear chasing me around and

my grizzly bear chasing me around and

my grizzly bear chasing me around and his checkerboard slacks it was the man

his checkerboard slacks it was the man

his checkerboard slacks it was the man that taught me fear is real but

that taught me fear is real but

that taught me fear is real but something that perhaps you could look

something that perhaps you could look

something that perhaps you could look right in the eye and play with on the

right in the eye and play with on the

right in the eye and play with on the summit

summit

summit I thought about everything my father had

I thought about everything my father had

I thought about everything my father had done for me

done for me

done for me and I wanted so much to be there for him

and I wanted so much to be there for him

and I wanted so much to be there for him and the year prior to that day to remind

and the year prior to that day to remind

and the year prior to that day to remind him that he too could stare down his own

him that he too could stare down his own

him that he too could stare down his own fear before he decided to take his own

fear before he decided to take his own

fear before he decided to take his own life I just wanted to remind him that I

life I just wanted to remind him that I

life I just wanted to remind him that I loved him why when having this peak

loved him why when having this peak

loved him why when having this peak experience of my own was I connected to

experience of my own was I connected to

experience of my own was I connected to the lives and losses of others and why

the lives and losses of others and why

the lives and losses of others and why did adventure bring me to this place

look I tell my story because the value

look I tell my story because the value of adventure is misunderstood externally

of adventure is misunderstood externally

of adventure is misunderstood externally people see our risks and our endeavors

people see our risks and our endeavors

people see our risks and our endeavors as a fool’s errand we’re out there just

as a fool’s errand we’re out there just

as a fool’s errand we’re out there just to prove ourselves but there is this

to prove ourselves but there is this

to prove ourselves but there is this internal journey the private

internal journey the private

internal journey the private transcendence that makes these peak

transcendence that makes these peak

transcendence that makes these peak experiences for us stand out from

experiences for us stand out from

experiences for us stand out from everyday events and makes us want to

everyday events and makes us want to

everyday events and makes us want to transcend again in this thirst for

transcend again in this thirst for

transcend again in this thirst for adventure you know you don’t have to

adventure you know you don’t have to

adventure you know you don’t have to quench it by climbing Mount Everest or

quench it by climbing Mount Everest or

quench it by climbing Mount Everest or even skiing down a mountainside but you

even skiing down a mountainside but you

even skiing down a mountainside but you all have it drd4 this is the adventure

all have it drd4 this is the adventure

all have it drd4 this is the adventure gene in our DNA postulated by many to be

gene in our DNA postulated by many to be

gene in our DNA postulated by many to be the reasons why our ancestors pushed

the reasons why our ancestors pushed

the reasons why our ancestors pushed forth across oceans desert Arctic tundra

look the reason why we strive for these

look the reason why we strive for these rarefied experiences what makes

rarefied experiences what makes

rarefied experiences what makes adventure imagery so captivating is we

adventure imagery so captivating is we

adventure imagery so captivating is we are in fact hard-wired to want this warm

are in fact hard-wired to want this warm

are in fact hard-wired to want this warm glow of satisfaction when we say she ate

glow of satisfaction when we say she ate

glow of satisfaction when we say she ate this adventure gene and why would we

this adventure gene and why would we

this adventure gene and why would we evolve with that well something magic

evolve with that well something magic

evolve with that well something magic happens with that all which is good for

happens with that all which is good for

happens with that all which is good for the species here’s an example you’re

the species here’s an example you’re

the species here’s an example you’re gonna relate to who is here on August

gonna relate to who is here on August

gonna relate to who is here on August 21st who still has the glasses

how did you feel when the moon brought

how did you feel when the moon brought night to the day sky

night to the day sky

night to the day sky what was your internal journey and who

what was your internal journey and who

what was your internal journey and who were you connected to speaking of cosmic

were you connected to speaking of cosmic

were you connected to speaking of cosmic phenomenon let’s now consider an image

phenomenon let’s now consider an image

phenomenon let’s now consider an image so awe-inspiring it became the most

so awe-inspiring it became the most

so awe-inspiring it became the most reproduced photograph in history the

reproduced photograph in history the

reproduced photograph in history the blue marble from the NASA Apollo 17

blue marble from the NASA Apollo 17

blue marble from the NASA Apollo 17 mission in 1972 an image that became the

mission in 1972 an image that became the

mission in 1972 an image that became the very embodiment of the overview effect

very embodiment of the overview effect

very embodiment of the overview effect synonymous with this concept of awe and

synonymous with this concept of awe and

synonymous with this concept of awe and its impact probably best described by

its impact probably best described by

its impact probably best described by Apollo astronaut Edgar Mitchell when he

Apollo astronaut Edgar Mitchell when he

Apollo astronaut Edgar Mitchell when he said you develop this instant global

said you develop this instant global

said you develop this instant global consciousness a people orientation

consciousness a people orientation

consciousness a people orientation dissatisfaction with the state of the

dissatisfaction with the state of the

dissatisfaction with the state of the world but a compulsion to do something

world but a compulsion to do something

world but a compulsion to do something about it look this curious translation

about it look this curious translation

about it look this curious translation of altruism has recently become the

of altruism has recently become the

of altruism has recently become the focus of academic research we’re finding

focus of academic research we’re finding

focus of academic research we’re finding that ah like a community or religious

that ah like a community or religious

that ah like a community or religious experience helps us to bind to others

experience helps us to bind to others

experience helps us to bind to others motivating us to act in collaborative

motivating us to act in collaborative

motivating us to act in collaborative ways and individuals who experience are

ways and individuals who experience are

ways and individuals who experience are more frequently in their daily lives

more frequently in their daily lives

more frequently in their daily lives also are more likely to sacrifice and

also are more likely to sacrifice and

also are more likely to sacrifice and give more resources to others and the

give more resources to others and the

give more resources to others and the effect can be instantaneous in one

effect can be instantaneous in one

effect can be instantaneous in one brilliant study researchers asked some

brilliant study researchers asked some

brilliant study researchers asked some participants to stand out in the forest

participants to stand out in the forest

participants to stand out in the forest look up into the canopy nearby a campus

look up into the canopy nearby a campus

look up into the canopy nearby a campus while other subjects were forced to look

while other subjects were forced to look

while other subjects were forced to look at the blank facade of a Science

at the blank facade of a Science

at the blank facade of a Science Building and then in just one minute

Building and then in just one minute

Building and then in just one minute a planned accident occurred a passerby

a planned accident occurred a passerby

a planned accident occurred a passerby stumbled it drops in pens and guess what

stumbled it drops in pens and guess what

stumbled it drops in pens and guess what the individuals looking up into the

the individuals looking up into the

the individuals looking up into the forest canopy were much more likely to

forest canopy were much more likely to

forest canopy were much more likely to bend down grab the pens and offer help

bend down grab the pens and offer help

bend down grab the pens and offer help to the other person could it be that we

to the other person could it be that we

to the other person could it be that we have evolved in community because of awe

have evolved in community because of awe

have evolved in community because of awe because it Orient’s our actions to give

because it Orient’s our actions to give

because it Orient’s our actions to give that helping hand could a life of

that helping hand could a life of

that helping hand could a life of adventure in search of this ah not be

adventure in search of this ah not be

adventure in search of this ah not be selfish but actually self

look we are all hardwired for adventure

look we are all hardwired for adventure and in adventure we find awe and all

and in adventure we find awe and all

and in adventure we find awe and all benefits us all by orienting our actions

benefits us all by orienting our actions

benefits us all by orienting our actions towards the lives and needs of others

towards the lives and needs of others

towards the lives and needs of others around us yes Everest was significant

around us yes Everest was significant

around us yes Everest was significant but it was really about me feeling

but it was really about me feeling

but it was really about me feeling insignificant but connected to something

insignificant but connected to something

insignificant but connected to something greater

since that time I’ve tried to refine

since that time I’ve tried to refine that fabric by practicing a path of my

that fabric by practicing a path of my

that fabric by practicing a path of my personal adventures woven with the life

personal adventures woven with the life

personal adventures woven with the life of service and my path has taken me from

of service and my path has taken me from

of service and my path has taken me from the high Himalaya to the slums of

the high Himalaya to the slums of

the high Himalaya to the slums of Calcutta but I’m not the only one to be

Calcutta but I’m not the only one to be

Calcutta but I’m not the only one to be on such a path and I am only one story

on such a path and I am only one story

on such a path and I am only one story since that time I’ve committed my

since that time I’ve committed my

since that time I’ve committed my efforts to interview some of the world’s

efforts to interview some of the world’s

efforts to interview some of the world’s most inspiring and accomplished

most inspiring and accomplished

most inspiring and accomplished adventurers learning about their

adventurers learning about their

adventurers learning about their journeys I’ve discovered how the search

journeys I’ve discovered how the search

journeys I’ve discovered how the search for awe has led to partnerships for

for awe has led to partnerships for

for awe has led to partnerships for Porter’s progress and welfare and the

Porter’s progress and welfare and the

Porter’s progress and welfare and the high reaches of Pakistan how adventures

high reaches of Pakistan how adventures

high reaches of Pakistan how adventures have led to the removal of unexploded

have led to the removal of unexploded

have led to the removal of unexploded ordnance along the war-torn plains of

ordnance along the war-torn plains of

ordnance along the war-torn plains of Laos and relief for the widowed families

Laos and relief for the widowed families

Laos and relief for the widowed families of mountain workers in the high Himalaya

of mountain workers in the high Himalaya

of mountain workers in the high Himalaya and I’m looking forward to learning more

and I’m looking forward to learning more

and I’m looking forward to learning more what do I hope for you go on an

what do I hope for you go on an

what do I hope for you go on an adventure

adventure

adventure whether you find your awe looking up

whether you find your awe looking up

whether you find your awe looking up into the trees the night sky or in the

into the trees the night sky or in the

into the trees the night sky or in the mountains these moments will always be

mountains these moments will always be

mountains these moments will always be oxygen for our souls I just asked you to

oxygen for our souls I just asked you to

oxygen for our souls I just asked you to remember why you might feel that way

remember why you might feel that way

remember why you might feel that way perhaps our journeys are less about what

perhaps our journeys are less about what

perhaps our journeys are less about what we have just achieved but more about who

we have just achieved but more about who

we have just achieved but more about who we are about to become and what we are

we are about to become and what we are

we are about to become and what we are going to give in return when you find

going to give in return when you find

going to give in return when you find your calling share your story let’s all

your calling share your story let’s all

your calling share your story let’s all inspire adventures for a better world

inspire adventures for a better world

inspire adventures for a better world thank you

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