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it says on your programs that I’m here

it says on your programs that I’m here to talk to you today about the Battle of

to talk to you today about the Battle of

to talk to you today about the Battle of our bodies throughout history well I was

our bodies throughout history well I was

our bodies throughout history well I was a really angry girl when I wrote that

a really angry girl when I wrote that

a really angry girl when I wrote that you see I just read this book this book

you see I just read this book this book

you see I just read this book this book Caliban and the witch by Silvia Federici

Caliban and the witch by Silvia Federici

Caliban and the witch by Silvia Federici and it basically talks about how agree

and it basically talks about how agree

and it basically talks about how agree dearly have cooperated to sort of

dearly have cooperated to sort of

dearly have cooperated to sort of oppress the poor over history and it’s

oppress the poor over history and it’s

oppress the poor over history and it’s happened for thousands of years and and

happened for thousands of years and and

happened for thousands of years and and there’s been a resistance so basically I

there’s been a resistance so basically I

there’s been a resistance so basically I just learned that history was a

just learned that history was a

just learned that history was a bloodbath and somehow I didn’t expect it

bloodbath and somehow I didn’t expect it

bloodbath and somehow I didn’t expect it not sure but how about homes something

not sure but how about homes something

not sure but how about homes something that I had already known in my heart of

that I had already known in my heart of

that I had already known in my heart of hearts

hearts

hearts basically that I’m probably not going to

basically that I’m probably not going to

basically that I’m probably not going to save the world in my lifetime know how

save the world in my lifetime know how

save the world in my lifetime know how much I wanted to and I’m sure that like

much I wanted to and I’m sure that like

much I wanted to and I’m sure that like me you all at some point had dreams that

me you all at some point had dreams that

me you all at some point had dreams that you were going to make the world a

you were going to make the world a

you were going to make the world a better place through your actions

better place through your actions

better place through your actions whether it be as a scientist or an

whether it be as a scientist or an

whether it be as a scientist or an astronaut or a ballerina or in my case

astronaut or a ballerina or in my case

astronaut or a ballerina or in my case you know getting up on the battlefield

you know getting up on the battlefield

you know getting up on the battlefield gang everyone a big hug and putting out

gang everyone a big hug and putting out

gang everyone a big hug and putting out well peace over a cup of tea but at some

well peace over a cup of tea but at some

well peace over a cup of tea but at some point these dreams they get put to the

point these dreams they get put to the

point these dreams they get put to the side and we start looking for a mortgage

side and we start looking for a mortgage

side and we start looking for a mortgage trying to just get a job to support

trying to just get a job to support

trying to just get a job to support ourselves there’s other stuff it goes

ourselves there’s other stuff it goes

ourselves there’s other stuff it goes out the window and you know why is that

out the window and you know why is that

out the window and you know why is that so my talk today it is about this battle

so my talk today it is about this battle

so my talk today it is about this battle throughout history but it’s sort of

throughout history but it’s sort of

throughout history but it’s sort of about the tug of war that created the

about the tug of war that created the

about the tug of war that created the Society that forged our personalities

Society that forged our personalities

Society that forged our personalities and how we owe it to ourselves to do

and how we owe it to ourselves to do

and how we owe it to ourselves to do what we love see the history of the

what we love see the history of the

what we love see the history of the world is the history of what lets us be

world is the history of what lets us be

world is the history of what lets us be the greatest versions of ourselves but

the greatest versions of ourselves but

the greatest versions of ourselves but to be the greatest versions of ourselves

to be the greatest versions of ourselves

to be the greatest versions of ourselves we have to overcome whatever it is

we have to overcome whatever it is

we have to overcome whatever it is that’s holding us back and you know what

that’s holding us back and you know what

that’s holding us back and you know what better way to talk about that then an

better way to talk about that then an

better way to talk about that then an analogy about awkward British people in

analogy about awkward British people in

analogy about awkward British people in spring I had to take a ride with a girl

spring I had to take a ride with a girl

spring I had to take a ride with a girl that I had never met before we were

that I had never met before we were

that I had never met before we were worlds apart she was a friend of a

worlds apart she was a friend of a

worlds apart she was a friend of a friend but we couldn’t be any different

friend but we couldn’t be any different

friend but we couldn’t be any different any more different guys um grandma goes

any more different guys um grandma goes

any more different guys um grandma goes out the window when you’re scared of

out the window when you’re scared of

out the window when you’re scared of things and

things and

things and well we connected on a really great

well we connected on a really great

well we connected on a really great level because we’ve both been trying out

level because we’ve both been trying out

level because we’ve both been trying out this really incredible meditation

this really incredible meditation

this really incredible meditation technique called for partner you spend

technique called for partner you spend

technique called for partner you spend 10 days in silence however she had

10 days in silence however she had

10 days in silence however she had noticed this unique part of the market

noticed this unique part of the market

noticed this unique part of the market where British people because in silence

where British people because in silence

where British people because in silence in 10 days we freaked out so much that

in 10 days we freaked out so much that

in 10 days we freaked out so much that unlike anywhere else in the world we

unlike anywhere else in the world we

unlike anywhere else in the world we need therapy alongside this meditation

need therapy alongside this meditation

need therapy alongside this meditation technique and this was something about

technique and this was something about

technique and this was something about earth and I’m sure I’ve asked each and

earth and I’m sure I’ve asked each and

earth and I’m sure I’ve asked each and every one of you in this room why you

every one of you in this room why you

every one of you in this room why you think people in this country are so

think people in this country are so

think people in this country are so particularly awkward you’d all have a

particularly awkward you’d all have a

particularly awkward you’d all have a different theory see some of my friends

different theory see some of my friends

different theory see some of my friends pointed out stiff upper-lip stoicism and

pointed out stiff upper-lip stoicism and

pointed out stiff upper-lip stoicism and how that makes us repress absolutely

how that makes us repress absolutely

how that makes us repress absolutely everything instead of dealing with our

everything instead of dealing with our

everything instead of dealing with our problems and I think about individualism

problems and I think about individualism

problems and I think about individualism how we’re all expected to be perfect to

how we’re all expected to be perfect to

how we’re all expected to be perfect to have everything and yet we’re flawed I

have everything and yet we’re flawed I

have everything and yet we’re flawed I eat too much and I watch too much TV and

eat too much and I watch too much TV and

eat too much and I watch too much TV and I really could go on but I won’t instead

I really could go on but I won’t instead

I really could go on but I won’t instead I’m going to move on to talking about

I’m going to move on to talking about

I’m going to move on to talking about things that could help us I want to talk

things that could help us I want to talk

things that could help us I want to talk today about a concept that is being

today about a concept that is being

today about a concept that is being celebrated increasingly around the world

celebrated increasingly around the world

celebrated increasingly around the world this is Japanese eco guy it looks a bit

this is Japanese eco guy it looks a bit

this is Japanese eco guy it looks a bit like this it’s a pretty simple formula

like this it’s a pretty simple formula

like this it’s a pretty simple formula it’s broken down into four parts it’s

it’s broken down into four parts it’s

it’s broken down into four parts it’s doing what you love doing what you’re

doing what you love doing what you’re

doing what you love doing what you’re good at doing what you can be paid for

good at doing what you can be paid for

good at doing what you can be paid for and doing what the world needs

and doing what the world needs

and doing what the world needs it’s from Okinawa culture so in this

it’s from Okinawa culture so in this

it’s from Okinawa culture so in this culture iki means life and Kai means the

culture iki means life and Kai means the

culture iki means life and Kai means the realization of what one expects and

realization of what one expects and

realization of what one expects and hopes for and here this concept is part

hopes for and here this concept is part

hopes for and here this concept is part of the fabric of a happy and fulfilled

of the fabric of a happy and fulfilled

of the fabric of a happy and fulfilled life anthropologist kind of have

life anthropologist kind of have

life anthropologist kind of have observed it in Japan as down here

observed it in Japan as down here

observed it in Japan as down here Okinawa Japan up here as this sort of

Okinawa Japan up here as this sort of

Okinawa Japan up here as this sort of post-war effort of bringing building

post-war effort of bringing building

post-war effort of bringing building citizenship and this means that then the

citizenship and this means that then the

citizenship and this means that then the meaning of your personality is

meaning of your personality is

meaning of your personality is intertwined with your society in the UK

intertwined with your society in the UK

intertwined with your society in the UK we’re not going to be part of any big

we’re not going to be part of any big

we’re not going to be part of any big citizenship building project that’s not

citizenship building project that’s not

citizenship building project that’s not on our agenda so instead if a guy has

on our agenda so instead if a guy has

on our agenda so instead if a guy has been marketed to us as fulfilling your

been marketed to us as fulfilling your

been marketed to us as fulfilling your life through your individual purpose

life through your individual purpose

life through your individual purpose your well-being your health and you know

your well-being your health and you know

your well-being your health and you know cultural appropriation that’s not

cultural appropriation that’s not

cultural appropriation that’s not necessarily

necessarily

necessarily good thing however what I think this

good thing however what I think this

good thing however what I think this highlights about British people instead

highlights about British people instead

highlights about British people instead is a good thing and it’s something that

is a good thing and it’s something that

is a good thing and it’s something that as a girl I’m really thankful for you

as a girl I’m really thankful for you

as a girl I’m really thankful for you see we’ve come a really long way from

see we’ve come a really long way from

see we’ve come a really long way from fifty years ago where I would not elect

fifty years ago where I would not elect

fifty years ago where I would not elect be have been allowed to have the job I

be have been allowed to have the job I

be have been allowed to have the job I love the partner I love and then to go

love the partner I love and then to go

love the partner I love and then to go home and live like an absolute spinster

home and live like an absolute spinster

home and live like an absolute spinster watching TV and eating pizza and all

watching TV and eating pizza and all

watching TV and eating pizza and all that kind of stuff that I kind of like

that kind of stuff that I kind of like

that kind of stuff that I kind of like but we fought really really hard to get

but we fought really really hard to get

but we fought really really hard to get to where we are as people and we’re

to where we are as people and we’re

to where we are as people and we’re still fighting today you see today I can

still fighting today you see today I can

still fighting today you see today I can do what I want to do instead of what I

do what I want to do instead of what I

do what I want to do instead of what I have to do to survive and in the whole

have to do to survive and in the whole

have to do to survive and in the whole history of the world that’s quite

history of the world that’s quite

history of the world that’s quite unusual see this is kind of edged on to

unusual see this is kind of edged on to

unusual see this is kind of edged on to the history of our landscapes as well as

the history of our landscapes as well as

the history of our landscapes as well as onto our own life I grew up in

onto our own life I grew up in

onto our own life I grew up in Lincolnshire and I’m really interested

Lincolnshire and I’m really interested

Lincolnshire and I’m really interested in herbalism and that’s part of the map

in herbalism and that’s part of the map

in herbalism and that’s part of the map of Lincoln see if you walk down monks

of Lincoln see if you walk down monks

of Lincoln see if you walk down monks Road those of you who know amongst RIT

Road those of you who know amongst RIT

Road those of you who know amongst RIT is kind of just across the park cross

is kind of just across the park cross

is kind of just across the park cross Linden Hill anyway those worries me Lane

Linden Hill anyway those worries me Lane

Linden Hill anyway those worries me Lane Rosemary Lane is called this because

Rosemary Lane is called this because

Rosemary Lane is called this because that’s where monks used to grow medicine

that’s where monks used to grow medicine

that’s where monks used to grow medicine in the herbal garden this is the tithe

in the herbal garden this is the tithe

in the herbal garden this is the tithe barn

barn

barn if you cross the Usher Park again you go

if you cross the Usher Park again you go

if you cross the Usher Park again you go up crease down steps you’ll see this

up crease down steps you’ll see this

up crease down steps you’ll see this kind of old barn that’s been integrated

kind of old barn that’s been integrated

kind of old barn that’s been integrated into the modern college but that’s where

into the modern college but that’s where

into the modern college but that’s where for what little you could give you would

for what little you could give you would

for what little you could give you would receive your medicine for the plague

receive your medicine for the plague

receive your medicine for the plague Lincoln Cathedral overlooks the whole

Lincoln Cathedral overlooks the whole

Lincoln Cathedral overlooks the whole city it sees what’s going on and yet at

city it sees what’s going on and yet at

city it sees what’s going on and yet at his foot is where the victims of the

his foot is where the victims of the

his foot is where the victims of the plague have been laid to rest however as

plague have been laid to rest however as

plague have been laid to rest however as a woman I would not have been invited to

a woman I would not have been invited to

a woman I would not have been invited to be a part of the medicinal narrative

be a part of the medicinal narrative

be a part of the medicinal narrative which was trying to battle the plague

which was trying to battle the plague

which was trying to battle the plague one of the greatest killers of our time

one of the greatest killers of our time

one of the greatest killers of our time of time and I would be burned at the

of time and I would be burned at the

of time and I would be burned at the stake as a witch CY was half of the

stake as a witch CY was half of the

stake as a witch CY was half of the population just sort of excluded from a

population just sort of excluded from a

population just sort of excluded from a narrative that was so important today I

narrative that was so important today I

narrative that was so important today I don’t have to worry about that

don’t have to worry about that

don’t have to worry about that see if I’m sick I can go to the doctor

see if I’m sick I can go to the doctor

see if I’m sick I can go to the doctor I’m thankful for the NHS I’m thankful

I’m thankful for the NHS I’m thankful

I’m thankful for the NHS I’m thankful for employees rights that means that I

for employees rights that means that I

for employees rights that means that I don’t have to work in 90-hour week I’m

don’t have to work in 90-hour week I’m

don’t have to work in 90-hour week I’m thankful for where my friends fall down

thankful for where my friends fall down

thankful for where my friends fall down that they can turn to the welfare state

that they can turn to the welfare state

that they can turn to the welfare state but this is stuff that we’ve had to

but this is stuff that we’ve had to

but this is stuff that we’ve had to fight for and if we don’t cherish it we

fight for and if we don’t cherish it we

fight for and if we don’t cherish it we can lose it last winter

can lose it last winter

can lose it last winter I spent a night sleeping in the church

I spent a night sleeping in the church

I spent a night sleeping in the church supervising as a church through opened

supervising as a church through opened

supervising as a church through opened its doors to welcome in homeless Pete

its doors to welcome in homeless Pete

its doors to welcome in homeless Pete you see in that part of London

you see in that part of London

you see in that part of London homelessness is up by a third every year

homelessness is up by a third every year

homelessness is up by a third every year in Lincoln on any given night if you

in Lincoln on any given night if you

in Lincoln on any given night if you walk from the stone bow to the straight

walk from the stone bow to the straight

walk from the stone bow to the straight and narrow there is a person in every

and narrow there is a person in every

and narrow there is a person in every single doorway that needs your help see

single doorway that needs your help see

single doorway that needs your help see why can I stand up here and talk about

why can I stand up here and talk about

why can I stand up here and talk about how great society is and how we’re

how great society is and how we’re

how great society is and how we’re working towards our greater Iker guy

working towards our greater Iker guy

working towards our greater Iker guy when I am so mindful of the suffering

when I am so mindful of the suffering

when I am so mindful of the suffering that is around us let’s return to this

that is around us let’s return to this

that is around us let’s return to this this concept see it only feels good when

this concept see it only feels good when

this concept see it only feels good when you fulfill all of these things not just

you fulfill all of these things not just

you fulfill all of these things not just what you can be paid for or what you’re

what you can be paid for or what you’re

what you can be paid for or what you’re good at but also doing what the world

good at but also doing what the world

good at but also doing what the world needs if we return to the passion er and

needs if we return to the passion er and

needs if we return to the passion er and this idea that we kind of suffer when

this idea that we kind of suffer when

this idea that we kind of suffer when we’re confronted with ourselves in

we’re confronted with ourselves in

we’re confronted with ourselves in silence I want to say that deprivation

silence I want to say that deprivation

silence I want to say that deprivation of a home isn’t the only kind of

of a home isn’t the only kind of

of a home isn’t the only kind of deprivation you have you see when you

deprivation you have you see when you

deprivation you have you see when you see someone that needs your help and you

see someone that needs your help and you

see someone that needs your help and you choose to do nothing that has a profound

choose to do nothing that has a profound

choose to do nothing that has a profound impact on you but it has a profound

impact on you but it has a profound

impact on you but it has a profound impact on the society as well you see

impact on the society as well you see

impact on the society as well you see policies that penalize the poor work

policies that penalize the poor work

policies that penalize the poor work fair universal credit section 21 these

fair universal credit section 21 these

fair universal credit section 21 these are all signs that not enough of us

are all signs that not enough of us

are all signs that not enough of us stand up anymore and say no this isn’t

stand up anymore and say no this isn’t

stand up anymore and say no this isn’t good enough if we don’t do this then

good enough if we don’t do this then

good enough if we don’t do this then this might continue see it’s hard to put

this might continue see it’s hard to put

this might continue see it’s hard to put your head above the parapet but I’m not

your head above the parapet but I’m not

your head above the parapet but I’m not saying that necessarily you need to do

saying that necessarily you need to do

saying that necessarily you need to do that alone use the tools that I give you

that alone use the tools that I give you

that alone use the tools that I give you today and the tools that I know that you

today and the tools that I know that you

today and the tools that I know that you have inside of yourselves be happy

have inside of yourselves be happy

have inside of yourselves be happy question your own actions even if it is

question your own actions even if it is

question your own actions even if it is just for your own well-being if you do

just for your own well-being if you do

just for your own well-being if you do what you truly want to do you will

what you truly want to do you will

what you truly want to do you will fulfill your social action nikka guy I

fulfill your social action nikka guy I

fulfill your social action nikka guy I hope that in future I can do that and

hope that in future I can do that and

hope that in future I can do that and I’d be honored if you’d join me

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