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ashley probably the most in this
audience has known some case in their
Family neighbors known and for whom
they do not know anyone very much I am
part of the statistics of my first
sexual relationship at 17 when
I saw the pregnancy test I realized
that my adolescence ends and I started
my adulthood is good at least not
responsibilities would be that of an adult
and the first was to give the
news my parents their
he will simply gather him in the kitchen
he said he had something to tell him and he
I said I’m pregnant
my dad let go crying and told me
I was very happy because I was a baby
mine but very sad because my life was going
to be very difficult and he was not wrong
my mom just could not believe it
because years ago he had said that
I wanted to be a nun, I insisted
and insisted amnesia them to wait for me
assured that at that time I wanted
have said home
I remember the comments of the people
that they were learning that he was
pregnant the truth they made me
misplaced questions came to
ask if it was really
my first time as if there were some
difference
they also asked me why not
I took the pill the next day
I’m just going to think what that is
I wish I had helped
quite if they had asked me
example how I felt that if I
they could help in something that he planned
do if you wanted to keep the baby in
adoption
those questions did not come and I had to
decide for me alone and I decided to get married
I got married at seven months of pregnancy
in my boyfriend’s house and right there it was
dinner we rent tables and go to the
keyboardist or beer cake and the truth
it looked like a funeral they will see the
faces in this life nobody wanted to be the
girlfriend only me the truth being
sincere
I decided to get married because in addition to being
in love but despite that age you
you know, I really was very afraid
the next step I single word no
had loaded a baby that had not
seen therefore we got married and the
two months was already on her way to be
mother and a cesarean section
I was so nervous that it did not work and
I felt when they opened me and everything
what they touched me the doctors accepted
too much and I fell asleep totally by
so when my daughter was born I did not
I noticed
the recovery was quite heavy my
Face says it all
w recovery when I finally had my
daughter my hands I would like to tell you that
the maternal instinct springs from me
pores and that was love at first sight
but it was not like that
our love was building day to
day to go bathing her watching her laugh and
every night to unveil or cry together
with her until she became my
motivation to never surrender to
the four months was already back to
the university did not want it to happen
time I just wanted to finish for
to be able to generate income and be able to provide
a future to my daughter and me this stage
it was quite difficult for me because in
a six month period I would
I became a wife and the mother
student my father was still paying the
tuition
the grandmother of my daughter took care of it while
I was at school and then after
of three long years where I only give them
I told my friends that he wanted me
run over to be in a coma and power
rest came to the graduation of
again I felt proud of myself and
I could see the light at the end of the road
I consider my case as a case of
success for all the support I had and for
my sense of responsibility and effort
but what about the girls who do not
has the support that youtube
I started thinking and did a search
fast on the internet and I found out that there
scholarships to the scholarship a scholarship from the
Secretary of Public Education
the conacyt scholarship that is
specifically for mothers who are heads of
family and then I said ok get
I was here is an opportunity to
study but then you will see yourself
will have to face the next challenge
what is it to take care of your baby while
you’re in school
As you can see, it is not easy to return to
Studies after a pregnancy do not
planned therefore I dare to give
the recommendations based on what I
I have lived my experience
The first one is for parents who have
children pass
not for a situation like this one
unplanned pregnancy parents remember
that it is not time to punish being
indifferent
total support is required both
economic as moral so they can
meet the new responsibilities and
those that already had as the school
please do not collaborate or be of
agreement with marriage this age of
marriage they think they’re going to have
getting married for these reasons I do not see my
next recommendation is for
parents in general who talk about
sexuality with their children
I think this is a big measure for
avoid these statistics are high
I spoke with them not only above
why not tell them what the
experiences are the sensations that
they have when you see they do not take your hand
for the first time share a little that no
work or that is not a taboo of the
trust does not mean you give them
permission they will never ask you
obviously they also do not give them the
100 percent confidence in
example that you are seeing netflix in the
room while you’re watching TV
or asleep
you do not have to give them easy situations
because if it gets complicated, they’ll see
plan it and probably carry
protection reiterated speak of
sexuality
remember that the school or anyone else
will talk to you as you can
speak to you in fact the secretariat of
public education last year had
a controversy over implementation
of the parents’ sexuality manual
They made protests because they were not
agreement they said it was too much
information for the children that I am going
to give bad ideas
so I think Mexico is not
prepared for sexuality and while
do not be situations like mine
will continue to pass every day my last
recommendation is for young people
are going through this situation
remind them to fight that they plan
ask for help they have the right
do not stop long for
lament because they feel guilty
embarrassed losses do not know how
they came to and the world is not going to
stop with you then fight for
your future is the only way that I
I know they can get their life back
keep studying and of course it comes from
the hand of recommendations do not marry
at that time for those reasons and that
age but for the right reasons
wait for the truth sometimes it ‘s better mother
single for a while that is
divorcing the 23 years old I’m telling you
experience
remember that being wrong is not the worst
what can happen to you or not the worst
you can do and not do anything to
fix
in my case a mistake the
it became the motivation to do
the woman that I am now you in that the
they converted
and
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