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so enhance Andersen’s fairy tale The

so enhance Andersen’s fairy tale The Snow Queen the story starts with a

Snow Queen the story starts with a

Snow Queen the story starts with a mirror that’s magic and when you look

mirror that’s magic and when you look

mirror that’s magic and when you look into it you can only see the ugly boring

into it you can only see the ugly boring

into it you can only see the ugly boring and cruel things in the world it was

and cruel things in the world it was

and cruel things in the world it was made by the evilest demon in the whole

made by the evilest demon in the whole

made by the evilest demon in the whole of history and he thought it was

of history and he thought it was

of history and he thought it was hilarious when you looked into it if you

hilarious when you looked into it if you

hilarious when you looked into it if you had a little pimple on your chin

had a little pimple on your chin

had a little pimple on your chin you’d see reflected a horrible

you’d see reflected a horrible

you’d see reflected a horrible disfiguring posture if you looked into

disfiguring posture if you looked into

disfiguring posture if you looked into it at reflection of children playing

it at reflection of children playing

it at reflection of children playing you’d see only how cruel they were being

you’d see only how cruel they were being

you’d see only how cruel they were being to each other

to each other

to each other and the demon showed this mirror to

and the demon showed this mirror to

and the demon showed this mirror to people but it wasn’t enough for him he

people but it wasn’t enough for him he

people but it wasn’t enough for him he decided to take it up to heaven to show

decided to take it up to heaven to show

decided to take it up to heaven to show God and his angels and so he started to

God and his angels and so he started to

God and his angels and so he started to fly upwards and as he did he noticed the

fly upwards and as he did he noticed the

fly upwards and as he did he noticed the mirror began to tremble and then it

mirror began to tremble and then it

mirror began to tremble and then it exploded into a hundred thousand tiny

exploded into a hundred thousand tiny

exploded into a hundred thousand tiny pieces and this was the worst thing that

pieces and this was the worst thing that

pieces and this was the worst thing that could have possibly happened because the

could have possibly happened because the

could have possibly happened because the pieces rained down on the earth and

pieces rained down on the earth and

pieces rained down on the earth and sometimes someone would get a piece of

sometimes someone would get a piece of

sometimes someone would get a piece of that mirror in their eye and then they

that mirror in their eye and then they

that mirror in their eye and then they could only see the ugly boring and cruel

could only see the ugly boring and cruel

could only see the ugly boring and cruel things in the world and sometimes

things in the world and sometimes

things in the world and sometimes someone would get a piece of that mirror

someone would get a piece of that mirror

someone would get a piece of that mirror in their hearts and then their heart

in their hearts and then their heart

in their hearts and then their heart would freeze into a block of ice so I

would freeze into a block of ice so I

would freeze into a block of ice so I love that story it might be my favorite

love that story it might be my favorite

love that story it might be my favorite because I feel that all of us have at

because I feel that all of us have at

because I feel that all of us have at some time felt like we’ve got a bit of

some time felt like we’ve got a bit of

some time felt like we’ve got a bit of that horrible

that horrible

that horrible mirror in our eye so I’m a professional

mirror in our eye so I’m a professional

mirror in our eye so I’m a professional storyteller and I draw my repertoire

storyteller and I draw my repertoire

storyteller and I draw my repertoire from folktales myths and legends from

from folktales myths and legends from

from folktales myths and legends from all around the world all different

all around the world all different

all around the world all different cultures and traditions and I thought

cultures and traditions and I thought

cultures and traditions and I thought when I was getting ready for this talk

when I was getting ready for this talk

when I was getting ready for this talk if I looked at all the different stories

if I looked at all the different stories

if I looked at all the different stories from all the different traditions for

from all the different traditions for

from all the different traditions for popular ones the ones have been told and

popular ones the ones have been told and

popular ones the ones have been told and retold and see what they have in common

retold and see what they have in common

retold and see what they have in common I might find out something about what we

I might find out something about what we

I might find out something about what we as human beings have in common and so

as human beings have in common and so

as human beings have in common and so had a look and I found that from Jack

had a look and I found that from Jack

had a look and I found that from Jack and the Beanstalk to the aboriginal

and the Beanstalk to the aboriginal

and the Beanstalk to the aboriginal Dreamtime stories from the Greek gods to

Dreamtime stories from the Greek gods to

Dreamtime stories from the Greek gods to Harry Potter stories that we tell and

Harry Potter stories that we tell and

Harry Potter stories that we tell and love are underpinned with magic and so

love are underpinned with magic and so

love are underpinned with magic and so this talk is about magic so I don’t mean

this talk is about magic so I don’t mean

this talk is about magic so I don’t mean I’m going to show you how to make a love

I’m going to show you how to make a love

I’m going to show you how to make a love potion or cut a woman in half or pick a

potion or cut a woman in half or pick a

potion or cut a woman in half or pick a card that’s not what I’m talking about

card that’s not what I’m talking about

card that’s not what I’m talking about I’m talking about that indefinable

I’m talking about that indefinable

I’m talking about that indefinable intangible sense of wonder and

intangible sense of wonder and

intangible sense of wonder and expectation which makes you feel as if

expectation which makes you feel as if

expectation which makes you feel as if you’re living in an enchanted world I

you’re living in an enchanted world I

you’re living in an enchanted world I think everybody has felt it at some time

think everybody has felt it at some time

think everybody has felt it at some time or another in their lives but for a lot

or another in their lives but for a lot

or another in their lives but for a lot of people it’s something that’s

of people it’s something that’s

of people it’s something that’s associated with childhood but stories

associated with childhood but stories

associated with childhood but stories aren’t just for children and nor is

aren’t just for children and nor is

aren’t just for children and nor is magic magic can be powerful and

magic magic can be powerful and

magic magic can be powerful and transformative and it can build bridges

transformative and it can build bridges

transformative and it can build bridges let me give you an example so back in

let me give you an example so back in

let me give you an example so back in the 1990’s

the 1990’s

the 1990’s I used to share a flat in the West End

I used to share a flat in the West End

I used to share a flat in the West End of London with a club promoter and at

of London with a club promoter and at

of London with a club promoter and at night he was always out clubbing so

night he was always out clubbing so

night he was always out clubbing so anyway it was August and it was really

anyway it was August and it was really

anyway it was August and it was really hot and I was trying to sleep and he was

hot and I was trying to sleep and he was

hot and I was trying to sleep and he was out I had all the windows open couldn’t

out I had all the windows open couldn’t

out I had all the windows open couldn’t sleep and I could hear someone outside

sleep and I could hear someone outside

sleep and I could hear someone outside on the street shouting up to him because

on the street shouting up to him because

on the street shouting up to him because our doorbell didn’t work and she’s

our doorbell didn’t work and she’s

our doorbell didn’t work and she’s making a really loud noise and I

making a really loud noise and I

making a really loud noise and I couldn’t sleep

couldn’t sleep

couldn’t sleep and I stuck my head out and I called

and I stuck my head out and I called

and I stuck my head out and I called down he’s gone out and she went oh thank

down he’s gone out and she went oh thank

down he’s gone out and she went oh thank God thank God songs here please please

God thank God songs here please please

God thank God songs here please please can I come up and just just wait for him

can I come up and just just wait for him

can I come up and just just wait for him I won’t be any trouble and I thought she

I won’t be any trouble and I thought she

I won’t be any trouble and I thought she seems alright so you can just come up

seems alright so you can just come up

seems alright so you can just come up and wait in his room he wouldn’t mind I

and wait in his room he wouldn’t mind I

and wait in his room he wouldn’t mind I know I know he wouldn’t mind so um I

know I know he wouldn’t mind so um I

know I know he wouldn’t mind so um I went down let her in she followed me up

went down let her in she followed me up

went down let her in she followed me up the stairs but instead of going into his

the stairs but instead of going into his

the stairs but instead of going into his room I’m waiting for him to came into my

room I’m waiting for him to came into my

room I’m waiting for him to came into my room and she threw herself down on my

room and she threw herself down on my

room and she threw herself down on my bed and by the lights of our room I

bed and by the lights of our room I

bed and by the lights of our room I could see that like a lot of his friends

could see that like a lot of his friends

could see that like a lot of his friends she was quite glamorous to look dyed

she was quite glamorous to look dyed

she was quite glamorous to look dyed hair false eyelashes heavy makeup and

hair false eyelashes heavy makeup and

hair false eyelashes heavy makeup and she looked funny as well and kind of

she looked funny as well and kind of

she looked funny as well and kind of strong she was wearing an Elvis Presley

strong she was wearing an Elvis Presley

strong she was wearing an Elvis Presley 1970s style jumpsuits with flares and

1970s style jumpsuits with flares and

1970s style jumpsuits with flares and flames at the side and I said I liked

flames at the side and I said I liked

flames at the side and I said I liked your jumpsuit and she said oh this yeah

your jumpsuit and she said oh this yeah

your jumpsuit and she said oh this yeah it’s a vintage and then she said thank

it’s a vintage and then she said thank

it’s a vintage and then she said thank you so much for letting me come in and

you so much for letting me come in and

you so much for letting me come in and wait I just needed to be with somebody

wait I just needed to be with somebody

wait I just needed to be with somebody so bad I’ve had the worst day of my life

so bad I’ve had the worst day of my life

so bad I’ve had the worst day of my life and I don’t even know why nothing’s even

and I don’t even know why nothing’s even

and I don’t even know why nothing’s even happened and I just liked her straight

happened and I just liked her straight

happened and I just liked her straight away and I said oh well what was it she

away and I said oh well what was it she

away and I said oh well what was it she said well normally she say

said well normally she say

said well normally she say I’m in a band but to make money I dance

I’m in a band but to make money I dance

I’m in a band but to make money I dance in the nightclub so it’s 12 hours a day

in the nightclub so it’s 12 hours a day

in the nightclub so it’s 12 hours a day you know it’s okay I don’t mind it

you know it’s okay I don’t mind it

you know it’s okay I don’t mind it normally but today she said it was so

normally but today she said it was so

normally but today she said it was so hot in there I couldn’t breathe and I

hot in there I couldn’t breathe and I

hot in there I couldn’t breathe and I started to think and my mind started

started to think and my mind started

started to think and my mind started going round and round and suddenly I

going round and round and suddenly I

going round and round and suddenly I started to feel like I’ve died and gone

started to feel like I’ve died and gone

started to feel like I’ve died and gone to hell

to hell

to hell and all the men were like demons and I

and all the men were like demons and I

and all the men were like demons and I kept telling myself when I go out it

kept telling myself when I go out it

kept telling myself when I go out it would be all right and I’d feel better

would be all right and I’d feel better

would be all right and I’d feel better but I’m out and I don’t feel any better

but I’m out and I don’t feel any better

but I’m out and I don’t feel any better and I thought I felt sorry for her and I

and I thought I felt sorry for her and I

and I thought I felt sorry for her and I so hot if I’m so hot and uncomfortable

so hot if I’m so hot and uncomfortable

so hot if I’m so hot and uncomfortable and I wanted to help her and then just

and I wanted to help her and then just

and I wanted to help her and then just suddenly it’s completely surreal public

suddenly it’s completely surreal public

suddenly it’s completely surreal public as I’ve sleep-deprived

as I’ve sleep-deprived

as I’ve sleep-deprived this totally surreal idea came into my

this totally surreal idea came into my

this totally surreal idea came into my head and I said do you like swimming

head and I said do you like swimming

head and I said do you like swimming uh-huh

uh-huh

uh-huh he said I said do you want to come

he said I said do you want to come

he said I said do you want to come swimming with me right now

swimming with me right now

swimming with me right now sure she said Oh

middle of the night we went down never

middle of the night we went down never met her before got in my car and drove

met her before got in my car and drove

met her before got in my car and drove to Hampstead Heath which is if you don’t

to Hampstead Heath which is if you don’t

to Hampstead Heath which is if you don’t know it amazingly a beautiful forest

know it amazingly a beautiful forest

know it amazingly a beautiful forest with a lake and everything in the middle

with a lake and everything in the middle

with a lake and everything in the middle of London

of London

of London so anyway we got there pitch dark of

so anyway we got there pitch dark of

so anyway we got there pitch dark of course forest no lights or anything and

course forest no lights or anything and

course forest no lights or anything and we got out of car leaving her through

we got out of car leaving her through

we got out of car leaving her through cobwebs breaking over our face sound of

cobwebs breaking over our face sound of

cobwebs breaking over our face sound of the animals birds

the animals birds

the animals birds she was giggling and then we came out to

she was giggling and then we came out to

she was giggling and then we came out to this hillside and the sky was black and

this hillside and the sky was black and

this hillside and the sky was black and the moon was white and the hill was

the moon was white and the hill was

the moon was white and the hill was totally white with long dry August grass

totally white with long dry August grass

totally white with long dry August grass it was like being in sight and negative

it was like being in sight and negative

it was like being in sight and negative and we came to all the trees where this

and we came to all the trees where this

and we came to all the trees where this this lake was and the lake had such

this lake was and the lake had such

this lake was and the lake had such presence it was like a living thing

presence it was like a living thing

presence it was like a living thing shiny and black and I said look it’s

shiny and black and I said look it’s

shiny and black and I said look it’s really cold I said and it can be deep so

really cold I said and it can be deep so

really cold I said and it can be deep so but she had just pulled off her clothes

but she had just pulled off her clothes

but she had just pulled off her clothes and dived in headfirst and then didn’t

and dived in headfirst and then didn’t

and dived in headfirst and then didn’t come up and I’ll start to get really

come up and I’ll start to get really

come up and I’ll start to get really worried before she suddenly stuck her

worried before she suddenly stuck her

worried before she suddenly stuck her head up in the middle and she shook her

head up in the middle and she shook her

head up in the middle and she shook her head and all the droplets fell off and

head and all the droplets fell off and

head and all the droplets fell off and she looks like a mermaid and I got in

she looks like a mermaid and I got in

she looks like a mermaid and I got in the pond as well way spinning around and

the pond as well way spinning around and

the pond as well way spinning around and she was telling me about her childhood

she was telling me about her childhood

she was telling me about her childhood in Canada riding horses bareback and

in Canada riding horses bareback and

in Canada riding horses bareback and swimming in the rivers she was so

swimming in the rivers she was so

swimming in the rivers she was so different and after that I was different

different and after that I was different

different and after that I was different I didn’t stay in touch with her I hear

I didn’t stay in touch with her I hear

I didn’t stay in touch with her I hear she remembered it obviously I remembered

she remembered it obviously I remembered

she remembered it obviously I remembered it telling you about it it was like

it telling you about it it was like

it telling you about it it was like having a piece of that awful mirror

having a piece of that awful mirror

having a piece of that awful mirror washed out of my eye and it changed the

washed out of my eye and it changed the

washed out of my eye and it changed the way forever

way forever

way forever that I relate to the city and I relate

that I relate to the city and I relate

that I relate to the city and I relate to strangers and so I thought I’d end

to strangers and so I thought I’d end

to strangers and so I thought I’d end this little talk with some ideas about

this little talk with some ideas about

this little talk with some ideas about how you can bring magic into your own

how you can bring magic into your own

how you can bring magic into your own life if you feel inspired to so I do

life if you feel inspired to so I do

life if you feel inspired to so I do storytelling events for adults and I was

storytelling events for adults and I was

storytelling events for adults and I was trying making a magical and these are

trying making a magical and these are

trying making a magical and these are things that work for me but you’ll have

things that work for me but you’ll have

things that work for me but you’ll have to find things that work for you really

to find things that work for you really

to find things that work for you really the thing the first thing is place so

the thing the first thing is place so

the thing the first thing is place so like a magical forest in the middle of

like a magical forest in the middle of

like a magical forest in the middle of London’s really good but anyway that’s

London’s really good but anyway that’s

London’s really good but anyway that’s beautiful and got lot of history and is

beautiful and got lot of history and is

beautiful and got lot of history and is deserted so if there’s snow whenever a

deserted so if there’s snow whenever a

deserted so if there’s snow whenever a few came here really late at night

and then there’s time of day so middle

and then there’s time of day so middle of the night which we did with brilliant

of the night which we did with brilliant

of the night which we did with brilliant or dawn when the day’s just been born

or dawn when the day’s just been born

or dawn when the day’s just been born even if it’s gray or when the Sun has

even if it’s gray or when the Sun has

even if it’s gray or when the Sun has gone down but the sky is still light

gone down but the sky is still light

gone down but the sky is still light cinematographers call that Magic Hour

cinematographers call that Magic Hour

cinematographers call that Magic Hour great time and then the other one is who

great time and then the other one is who

great time and then the other one is who you’re with

you’re with

you’re with so don’t want to be too prescriptive but

so don’t want to be too prescriptive but

so don’t want to be too prescriptive but if there’s a person who you know who

if there’s a person who you know who

if there’s a person who you know who keeps following you around talking about

keeps following you around talking about

keeps following you around talking about house prices and school places maybe not

house prices and school places maybe not

house prices and school places maybe not bring them maybe go by yourself and see

bring them maybe go by yourself and see

bring them maybe go by yourself and see who you believe meeting people is all

who you believe meeting people is all

who you believe meeting people is all part of it so that’s just some tips for

part of it so that’s just some tips for

part of it so that’s just some tips for you anyway but you’ll find your own way

you anyway but you’ll find your own way

you anyway but you’ll find your own way I’m sure there’s only one thing that I

I’m sure there’s only one thing that I

I’m sure there’s only one thing that I think is really important

think is really important

think is really important please believe because it is real we do

please believe because it is real we do

please believe because it is real we do live in an utterly boring and cruel

live in an utterly boring and cruel

live in an utterly boring and cruel world but it’s bursting with Wonder and

world but it’s bursting with Wonder and

world but it’s bursting with Wonder and beauty and as roald dahl wrote those who

beauty and as roald dahl wrote those who

beauty and as roald dahl wrote those who do not believe in magic will never find

do not believe in magic will never find

do not believe in magic will never find it thank you very much

it thank you very much

it thank you very much [Applause]

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