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You Are Not Who They Think You Are | Vinny McCoy | TEDxDrogheda


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[Applause] what are you doing for the rest of your

what are you doing for the rest of your

what are you doing for the rest of your life for your dreams and what are your

life for your dreams and what are your

life for your dreams and what are your aspirations who says that your identity

aspirations who says that your identity

aspirations who says that your identity is influenced by culture art social

is influenced by culture art social

is influenced by culture art social media or fashion who says that that is

media or fashion who says that that is

media or fashion who says that that is the norm

the norm

the norm what about what you want to do who do

what about what you want to do who do

what about what you want to do who do you want to be what do you want to

you want to be what do you want to

you want to be what do you want to become where do you want to go my name

become where do you want to go my name

become where do you want to go my name is vini McCoy I spent many years in the

is vini McCoy I spent many years in the

is vini McCoy I spent many years in the Army I’ve been on numerous United Nation

Army I’ve been on numerous United Nation

Army I’ve been on numerous United Nation missions I’ve seen two wars in the

missions I’ve seen two wars in the

missions I’ve seen two wars in the Middle East

Middle East

Middle East I’ve spent 23 years soldiering on the

I’ve spent 23 years soldiering on the

I’ve spent 23 years soldiering on the Irish father true in the troubled times

Irish father true in the troubled times

Irish father true in the troubled times I know own a successful security company

I know own a successful security company

I know own a successful security company and in my spare time I help young people

and in my spare time I help young people

and in my spare time I help young people to identify themselves and I put in to

to identify themselves and I put in to

to identify themselves and I put in to them when I get out of life and I give

them when I get out of life and I give

them when I get out of life and I give them advice but I wasn’t always like

them advice but I wasn’t always like

them advice but I wasn’t always like that and I can tell you now I didn’t get

that and I can tell you now I didn’t get

that and I can tell you now I didn’t get to where I was by having a piece of

to where I was by having a piece of

to where I was by having a piece of paper from the education system to tell

paper from the education system to tell

paper from the education system to tell me what I could do and what I couldn’t

me what I could do and what I couldn’t

me what I could do and what I couldn’t do I want to bring you back to nineteen

do I want to bring you back to nineteen

do I want to bring you back to nineteen seventy five seventy six when a man

seventy five seventy six when a man

seventy five seventy six when a man called Nelson Mandela was on his 15th

called Nelson Mandela was on his 15th

called Nelson Mandela was on his 15th year in jail for having a vision for

year in jail for having a vision for

year in jail for having a vision for having a dream it was a time that a

having a dream it was a time that a

having a dream it was a time that a career guidance coach was unheard of and

career guidance coach was unheard of and

career guidance coach was unheard of and if you left school early you’re tagged

if you left school early you’re tagged

if you left school early you’re tagged as a dropout you weren’t normal actually

as a dropout you weren’t normal actually

as a dropout you weren’t normal actually the more I think of it I try to be

the more I think of it I try to be

the more I think of it I try to be normal one sanitaire was probably the

normal one sanitaire was probably the

normal one sanitaire was probably the worst two minutes of my life

but you know along all that time no one

but you know along all that time no one asked me why did I leave school and I’m

asked me why did I leave school and I’m

asked me why did I leave school and I’m gonna tell you now I left school because

gonna tell you now I left school because

gonna tell you now I left school because the education system simply had not got

the education system simply had not got

the education system simply had not got the same vision as I had so I left but I

the same vision as I had so I left but I

the same vision as I had so I left but I want to tell you story what happened

want to tell you story what happened

want to tell you story what happened before he left and it’s true because

before he left and it’s true because

before he left and it’s true because about me

about me

about me there was a school to be a team of three

there was a school to be a team of three

there was a school to be a team of three people and I was honored and the

people and I was honored and the

people and I was honored and the teachers put a lot of energies into to

teachers put a lot of energies into to

teachers put a lot of energies into to the speakers and it was my turn to go on

the speakers and it was my turn to go on

the speakers and it was my turn to go on stage so I get out there and I stood on

stage so I get out there and I stood on

stage so I get out there and I stood on stage in front a forty to test or level

stage in front a forty to test or level

stage in front a forty to test or level felt like that in front of over 200

felt like that in front of over 200

felt like that in front of over 200 people and I stood there and I stood

people and I stood there and I stood

people and I stood there and I stood there and I stood there what came over

there and I stood there what came over

there and I stood there what came over me

me

me I’ve christened that sense called the

I’ve christened that sense called the

I’ve christened that sense called the goldfish syndrome

I could see everything I could hear

I could see everything I could hear everything it was not in common hurt so

everything it was not in common hurt so

everything it was not in common hurt so I walked off the stage and I was greeted

I walked off the stage and I was greeted

I walked off the stage and I was greeted with the forced heat job you’re an

with the forced heat job you’re an

with the forced heat job you’re an embarrassment that was horrible

embarrassment that was horrible

embarrassment that was horrible that was a disaster I hope you got to

that was a disaster I hope you got to

that was a disaster I hope you got to sweep in roads but there was this one

sweep in roads but there was this one

sweep in roads but there was this one voice and the top beyond the shoulder

voice and the top beyond the shoulder

voice and the top beyond the shoulder and he said young McCoy you won’t feel

and he said young McCoy you won’t feel

and he said young McCoy you won’t feel like it now but in time that will stand

like it now but in time that will stand

like it now but in time that will stand here two teens came over me standing on

here two teens came over me standing on

here two teens came over me standing on that stage and one was the isolation but

that stage and one was the isolation but

that stage and one was the isolation but I’ll never ever ever forget the fear so

I’ll never ever ever forget the fear so

I’ll never ever ever forget the fear so what is fear fear is the take or a many

what is fear fear is the take or a many

what is fear fear is the take or a many a dream and if you overcome your fear

a dream and if you overcome your fear

a dream and if you overcome your fear you will get to live your dream so I

you will get to live your dream so I

you will get to live your dream so I left school and I was introduced to my

left school and I was introduced to my

left school and I was introduced to my second family which was the army that

second family which was the army that

second family which was the army that wasn’t taken yesterday so I joined the

wasn’t taken yesterday so I joined the

wasn’t taken yesterday so I joined the army and I knew straight away it’s where

army and I knew straight away it’s where

army and I knew straight away it’s where I was a accomplice a map orienteering

I was a accomplice a map orienteering

I was a accomplice a map orienteering the life and people listen to what you

the life and people listen to what you

the life and people listen to what you say and you got to make decisions and I

say and you got to make decisions and I

say and you got to make decisions and I just enjoyed it I just landed on my feet

just enjoyed it I just landed on my feet

just enjoyed it I just landed on my feet two years later I found myself landing

two years later I found myself landing

two years later I found myself landing in Peru to the Middle East on a mission

in Peru to the Middle East on a mission

in Peru to the Middle East on a mission and my mornings were full of marhaba

and my mornings were full of marhaba

and my mornings were full of marhaba Siddiqui he thought mop suit you learned

Siddiqui he thought mop suit you learned

Siddiqui he thought mop suit you learned the local language and excuse me if

the local language and excuse me if

the local language and excuse me if they’re uneven from Arabic they’re my

they’re uneven from Arabic they’re my

they’re uneven from Arabic they’re my Arabic is not great but that’s your mana

Arabic is not great but that’s your mana

Arabic is not great but that’s your mana was followed out helping families

was followed out helping families

was followed out helping families helping refugees

helping refugees

helping refugees life was great until diety end of April

life was great until diety end of April

life was great until diety end of April 1980 when closer than you are in front

1980 when closer than you are in front

1980 when closer than you are in front of me now I was talking to to my

of me now I was talking to to my

of me now I was talking to to my comrades and a few minutes later were

comrades and a few minutes later were

comrades and a few minutes later were shot dead the point of nowhere

shot dead the point of nowhere

shot dead the point of nowhere a few minutes later on the checkpoint we

a few minutes later on the checkpoint we

a few minutes later on the checkpoint we were missing another Irish soldier and a

were missing another Irish soldier and a

were missing another Irish soldier and a car crashed into the checkpoint shots

car crashed into the checkpoint shots

car crashed into the checkpoint shots were fired and we opened the back of the

were fired and we opened the back of the

were fired and we opened the back of the car and there was that old soldier still

car and there was that old soldier still

car and there was that old soldier still alive but badly wounded and we got a

alive but badly wounded and we got a

alive but badly wounded and we got a medivac then taken away someone’s past

medivac then taken away someone’s past

medivac then taken away someone’s past and I found myself at home my hometown

and I found myself at home my hometown

and I found myself at home my hometown and our D and when you’ve been there you

and our D and when you’ve been there you

and our D and when you’ve been there you don’t go down to town straight away

don’t go down to town straight away

don’t go down to town straight away because you don’t mix life is very

because you don’t mix life is very

because you don’t mix life is very different where you’re after comin from

different where you’re after comin from

different where you’re after comin from and when I eventually got down to town

and when I eventually got down to town

and when I eventually got down to town and crossing over the bridge

and crossing over the bridge

and crossing over the bridge I met one of my old school met to the

I met one of my old school met to the

I met one of my old school met to the voice of while you drop loaded Vinnie

voice of while you drop loaded Vinnie

voice of while you drop loaded Vinnie where have you been this 2 years and I

where have you been this 2 years and I

where have you been this 2 years and I got talking to him and I was amazed as

got talking to him and I was amazed as

got talking to him and I was amazed as his attitude he was going to college and

his attitude he was going to college and

his attitude he was going to college and he proceeded to tell me dad he couldn’t

he proceeded to tell me dad he couldn’t

he proceeded to tell me dad he couldn’t understand what he was doing at school

understand what he was doing at school

understand what he was doing at school and if he didn’t get his degree he was

and if he didn’t get his degree he was

and if he didn’t get his degree he was going to be nothing absolutely nothing

going to be nothing absolutely nothing

going to be nothing absolutely nothing and he was convinced with the system

and he was convinced with the system

and he was convinced with the system that was in place that if he couldn’t

that was in place that if he couldn’t

that was in place that if he couldn’t understand that his life was gone

understand that his life was gone

understand that his life was gone he was living in this thing called dogma

he was living in this thing called dogma

he was living in this thing called dogma you’re living your life in someone

you’re living your life in someone

you’re living your life in someone else’s tinkin so I moved on there’s a

else’s tinkin so I moved on there’s a

else’s tinkin so I moved on there’s a great man that I call my hero in life

great man that I call my hero in life

great man that I call my hero in life the man called Christie Hennessy a

the man called Christie Hennessy a

the man called Christie Hennessy a brilliant musician Christie can never

brilliant musician Christie can never

brilliant musician Christie can never read or write he could write some great

read or write he could write some great

read or write he could write some great songs in his head and bring them out

songs in his head and bring them out

songs in his head and bring them out different people Christie Moore merely

different people Christie Moore merely

different people Christie Moore merely black all those but Christie would tell

black all those but Christie would tell

black all those but Christie would tell you if he was alive today did he hear

you if he was alive today did he hear

you if he was alive today did he hear dat’s cool he asked his mother could he

dat’s cool he asked his mother could he

dat’s cool he asked his mother could he leave school and you Nina told the

leave school and you Nina told the

leave school and you Nina told the teacher I’m leaving school and the

teacher I’m leaving school and the

teacher I’m leaving school and the teacher said to him why do you know

teacher said to him why do you know

teacher said to him why do you know what’s going to happen out there

what’s going to happen out there

what’s going to happen out there and Christie was about to answer and the

and Christie was about to answer and the

and Christie was about to answer and the teacher goes nothing nothing’s going to

teacher goes nothing nothing’s going to

teacher goes nothing nothing’s going to happen you and you’ll never

happen you and you’ll never

happen you and you’ll never nothing but the annoying thing about

nothing but the annoying thing about

nothing but the annoying thing about this was no one’s seen Christie for his

this was no one’s seen Christie for his

this was no one’s seen Christie for his creativity he was a genius a Christie

creativity he was a genius a Christie

creativity he was a genius a Christie would true life without reading or

would true life without reading or

would true life without reading or writing and he reminds me of obstacles

writing and he reminds me of obstacles

writing and he reminds me of obstacles that’s the ward comes into my mind and

that’s the ward comes into my mind and

that’s the ward comes into my mind and the obstacles are I was sitting in

the obstacles are I was sitting in

the obstacles are I was sitting in Phoenix Park one day and this blind man

Phoenix Park one day and this blind man

Phoenix Park one day and this blind man passed me and I had a great view

passed me and I had a great view

passed me and I had a great view standing right behind him and I was

standing right behind him and I was

standing right behind him and I was rolled walks or whatever on the footpad

rolled walks or whatever on the footpad

rolled walks or whatever on the footpad cobblestone door wouldn’t have been

cobblestone door wouldn’t have been

cobblestone door wouldn’t have been there yesterday all fresh stuff and I

there yesterday all fresh stuff and I

there yesterday all fresh stuff and I watched him I mean oh and he removed

watched him I mean oh and he removed

watched him I mean oh and he removed he got Brenda sneak around the pin and

he got Brenda sneak around the pin and

he got Brenda sneak around the pin and he go round the seat and he could out

he go round the seat and he could out

he go round the seat and he could out the far side unscathed I mean that’s it

the far side unscathed I mean that’s it

the far side unscathed I mean that’s it that’s the answer that’s the Christie

that’s the answer that’s the Christie

that’s the answer that’s the Christie Hennessy err life is full of obstacles

Hennessy err life is full of obstacles

Hennessy err life is full of obstacles and sometimes we can’t see them but we

and sometimes we can’t see them but we

and sometimes we can’t see them but we know they’re there and when it’s left to

know they’re there and when it’s left to

know they’re there and when it’s left to our own devices we’ll always find a way

our own devices we’ll always find a way

our own devices we’ll always find a way to get through them it’s like so much

to get through them it’s like so much

to get through them it’s like so much TNT in the mirror you look in the mirror

TNT in the mirror you look in the mirror

TNT in the mirror you look in the mirror you need to sort out person out you need

you need to sort out person out you need

you need to sort out person out you need to tell that person you needed this I

to tell that person you needed this I

to tell that person you needed this I don’t believe in all of that you

don’t believe in all of that you

don’t believe in all of that you couldn’t be more wrong that person in

couldn’t be more wrong that person in

couldn’t be more wrong that person in the mirror is you you’re unique and

the mirror is you you’re unique and

the mirror is you you’re unique and you’re perfect it’s what you don’t see

you’re perfect it’s what you don’t see

you’re perfect it’s what you don’t see it’s what you need to sort out I learnt

it’s what you need to sort out I learnt

it’s what you need to sort out I learnt a thing in life to listen and you can

a thing in life to listen and you can

a thing in life to listen and you can listen the way you’re let do it now you

listen the way you’re let do it now you

listen the way you’re let do it now you can listen with your ears and you can

can listen with your ears and you can

can listen with your ears and you can listen with your eyes it’s when you

listen with your eyes it’s when you

listen with your eyes it’s when you start listening with your heart and that

start listening with your heart and that

start listening with your heart and that is to understand the person and to see

is to understand the person and to see

is to understand the person and to see the world as their seer 2 years ago with

the world as their seer 2 years ago with

the world as their seer 2 years ago with our school reunion 40 years and I was on

our school reunion 40 years and I was on

our school reunion 40 years and I was on the committee and I got a great honor I

the committee and I got a great honor I

the committee and I got a great honor I was asked to host it

was asked to host it

was asked to host it and it was amazing the joke was the drop

and it was amazing the joke was the drop

and it was amazing the joke was the drop bird got to host so the conversation

bird got to host so the conversation

bird got to host so the conversation that night was unbelievable I want to

that night was unbelievable I want to

that night was unbelievable I want to really come down to sixty percent of the

really come down to sixty percent of the

really come down to sixty percent of the guys and girls the right school felt it

guys and girls the right school felt it

guys and girls the right school felt it wasted three years of our life and most

wasted three years of our life and most

wasted three years of our life and most of these people were running their own

of these people were running their own

of these people were running their own businesses today the education system

businesses today the education system

businesses today the education system just didn’t help these people

just didn’t help these people

just didn’t help these people Matt’s to you to you and me are

Matt’s to you to you and me are

Matt’s to you to you and me are different with an armory Union last year

different with an armory Union last year

different with an armory Union last year and it’s called you stand down the

and it’s called you stand down the

and it’s called you stand down the colorful and that’s it there I got to

colorful and that’s it there I got to

colorful and that’s it there I got to walk in the front and we’re all still in

walk in the front and we’re all still in

walk in the front and we’re all still in step after forty years it’s in Marion

step after forty years it’s in Marion

step after forty years it’s in Marion Square and it was to honor her fallen

Square and it was to honor her fallen

Square and it was to honor her fallen and the most amazing thing about this

and the most amazing thing about this

and the most amazing thing about this was a lot of us overseas a lot of guys

was a lot of us overseas a lot of guys

was a lot of us overseas a lot of guys couldn’t read or write I used to talk to

couldn’t read or write I used to talk to

couldn’t read or write I used to talk to guys who that when they came down to the

guys who that when they came down to the

guys who that when they came down to the job been done we got it done

job been done we got it done

job been done we got it done and the most amazing terrifying

and the most amazing terrifying

and the most amazing terrifying unbelievable moment the guy that we

unbelievable moment the guy that we

unbelievable moment the guy that we talked aware to medevac the 25 years

talked aware to medevac the 25 years

talked aware to medevac the 25 years prior to that I sat and talked I needed

prior to that I sat and talked I needed

prior to that I sat and talked I needed his own family Dale and I was just in

his own family Dale and I was just in

his own family Dale and I was just in there isn’t it you know a compass will

there isn’t it you know a compass will

there isn’t it you know a compass will point you in the right direction but it

point you in the right direction but it

point you in the right direction but it can’t make you go there it’s up to you

can’t make you go there it’s up to you

can’t make you go there it’s up to you my goldfish now is what I’m aware

my goldfish now is what I’m aware

my goldfish now is what I’m aware I’ve become that person that tapped me

I’ve become that person that tapped me

I’ve become that person that tapped me on the shoulder I become that person now

on the shoulder I become that person now

on the shoulder I become that person now and every day I give a talk have no

and every day I give a talk have no

and every day I give a talk have no doubt you are looking at a person live

doubt you are looking at a person live

doubt you are looking at a person live in their dream today today is the toward

in their dream today today is the toward

in their dream today today is the toward of November 2017 on the toward November

of November 2017 on the toward November

of November 2017 on the toward November 2018 if you are the same person

2018 if you are the same person

2018 if you are the same person then as you are now will you be happy

then as you are now will you be happy

then as you are now will you be happy with your life

with your life

with your life so I’m asking you have you the story to

so I’m asking you have you the story to

so I’m asking you have you the story to tell like me or are you gonna wait 40

tell like me or are you gonna wait 40

tell like me or are you gonna wait 40 years how can I leave you with this life

years how can I leave you with this life

years how can I leave you with this life to me it’s not a bit to big cars it’s

to me it’s not a bit to big cars it’s

to me it’s not a bit to big cars it’s not about all the land certainly not

not about all the land certainly not

not about all the land certainly not about the money and not about how you

about the money and not about how you

about the money and not about how you look it’s all about the person you

look it’s all about the person you

look it’s all about the person you become

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