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did you know that 1 in 27 Australians

did you know that 1 in 27 Australians are members of an AFL club one in 27 and

are members of an AFL club one in 27 and

are members of an AFL club one in 27 and when I say member I don’t mean to

when I say member I don’t mean to

when I say member I don’t mean to someone who just buys a season’s ticket

someone who just buys a season’s ticket

someone who just buys a season’s ticket or a ticket for a match or watches the

or a ticket for a match or watches the

or a ticket for a match or watches the game on TV I’m talking about someone who

game on TV I’m talking about someone who

game on TV I’m talking about someone who is a shared owner of their football club

is a shared owner of their football club

is a shared owner of their football club now this fierce loyalty is at its

now this fierce loyalty is at its

now this fierce loyalty is at its highest here in Melbourne where on any

highest here in Melbourne where on any

highest here in Melbourne where on any given weekend in winter time you can see

given weekend in winter time you can see

given weekend in winter time you can see thousands of people and families draped

thousands of people and families draped

thousands of people and families draped in the colours of their teams heading to

in the colours of their teams heading to

in the colours of their teams heading to these Coliseum’s to watch a live game

these Coliseum’s to watch a live game

these Coliseum’s to watch a live game and whether they’re a new family who’s

and whether they’re a new family who’s

and whether they’re a new family who’s arrived from Mumbai and I’m going to top

arrived from Mumbai and I’m going to top

arrived from Mumbai and I’m going to top the Essen bombers as their team or

the Essen bombers as their team or

the Essen bombers as their team or they’ve grown up in working-class North

they’ve grown up in working-class North

they’ve grown up in working-class North Melbourne and for them it’s the

Melbourne and for them it’s the

Melbourne and for them it’s the Kangaroos one of the things they all

Kangaroos one of the things they all

Kangaroos one of the things they all have in common is their love of AFL and

have in common is their love of AFL and

have in common is their love of AFL and the love of their team so what is it

the love of their team so what is it

the love of their team so what is it about this game in these clubs which

about this game in these clubs which

about this game in these clubs which drives this enormous sense of connection

drives this enormous sense of connection

drives this enormous sense of connection and tribalism is it the thrill of the

and tribalism is it the thrill of the

and tribalism is it the thrill of the contest the opportunity to see amazing

contest the opportunity to see amazing

contest the opportunity to see amazing athletes performing incredible acts of

athletes performing incredible acts of

athletes performing incredible acts of physical courage and bravery or just the

physical courage and bravery or just the

physical courage and bravery or just the thrill of winged well of course it’s all

thrill of winged well of course it’s all

thrill of winged well of course it’s all these things but it’s also much much

these things but it’s also much much

these things but it’s also much much more and my team our team listened cured

more and my team our team listened cured

more and my team our team listened cured a football club

is living proof of the ability of our

is living proof of the ability of our sporting tribes to transform communities

sporting tribes to transform communities

sporting tribes to transform communities through the power of belonging my name

through the power of belonging my name

through the power of belonging my name is Matt finis and I never played AFL

is Matt finis and I never played AFL

is Matt finis and I never played AFL on the ground Colosseum in front of

on the ground Colosseum in front of

on the ground Colosseum in front of hundreds of thousands of people I wasn’t

hundreds of thousands of people I wasn’t

hundreds of thousands of people I wasn’t a great kick

a great kick

a great kick indeed now I’m just one of the suits who

indeed now I’m just one of the suits who

indeed now I’m just one of the suits who along with the orange peelers and the

along with the orange peelers and the

along with the orange peelers and the cheer squad sit on the sidelines of our

cheer squad sit on the sidelines of our

cheer squad sit on the sidelines of our great game but over the last few years

great game but over the last few years

great game but over the last few years I’ve had the privilege to play a very

I’ve had the privilege to play a very

I’ve had the privilege to play a very small role in quite an inspiring journey

small role in quite an inspiring journey

small role in quite an inspiring journey of discovery which is a journey worth

of discovery which is a journey worth

of discovery which is a journey worth sharing

sharing

sharing now the origins of a strain rules

now the origins of a strain rules

now the origins of a strain rules football have been hotly debated but can

football have been hotly debated but can

football have been hotly debated but can be traced generally back to Indigenous

be traced generally back to Indigenous

be traced generally back to Indigenous Australians playing a game called man

Australians playing a game called man

Australians playing a game called man Brook and has subsequently been passed

Brook and has subsequently been passed

Brook and has subsequently been passed on from generations and played on

on from generations and played on

on from generations and played on suburban and country ovals around the

suburban and country ovals around the

suburban and country ovals around the country fiercely egalitarian our game

country fiercely egalitarian our game

country fiercely egalitarian our game and whilst it’s often been the great

and whilst it’s often been the great

and whilst it’s often been the great distractor leave your worries and

distractor leave your worries and

distractor leave your worries and anxieties at home and go to the footy

anxieties at home and go to the footy

anxieties at home and go to the footy it’s also being the stage from time to

it’s also being the stage from time to

it’s also being the stage from time to time upon which much of our nation’s

time upon which much of our nation’s

time upon which much of our nation’s social dialogue has played out and so

social dialogue has played out and so

social dialogue has played out and so you know it’s not without its politics

you know it’s not without its politics

you know it’s not without its politics indeed

indeed

indeed that moment back in 1993 when Nicky we’d

that moment back in 1993 when Nicky we’d

that moment back in 1993 when Nicky we’d mal lifted his jumper and point to the

mal lifted his jumper and point to the

mal lifted his jumper and point to the calories skin it remains one of the most

calories skin it remains one of the most

calories skin it remains one of the most enduring images of Australian sport and

enduring images of Australian sport and

enduring images of Australian sport and race in our history now the mighty

race in our history now the mighty

race in our history now the mighty Saints were born right here in some

Saints were born right here in some

Saints were born right here in some killed over 140 years ago and it’s fair

killed over 140 years ago and it’s fair

killed over 140 years ago and it’s fair to say that over that time winning

to say that over that time winning

to say that over that time winning Premiership cups hasn’t been our strong

Premiership cups hasn’t been our strong

Premiership cups hasn’t been our strong suit it was back in 1966 when we won our

suit it was back in 1966 when we won our

suit it was back in 1966 when we won our first and only Premiership Cup

first and only Premiership Cup

first and only Premiership Cup unfortunately back in 1966 there was

unfortunately back in 1966 there was

unfortunately back in 1966 there was this tradition of the opposing players

this tradition of the opposing players

this tradition of the opposing players swapping jumpers with each other after

swapping jumpers with each other after

swapping jumpers with each other after the game so even our Premiership

the game so even our Premiership

the game so even our Premiership photograph album has our Premiership

photograph album has our Premiership

photograph album has our Premiership heroes wearing the jumpers of the

heroes wearing the jumpers of the

heroes wearing the jumpers of the Magpies

Magpies

Magpies [Laughter]

[Laughter]

[Laughter] but I can tell you that right now

but I can tell you that right now

but I can tell you that right now everyone it’s in Kilda is firmly focused

everyone it’s in Kilda is firmly focused

everyone it’s in Kilda is firmly focused on securing a second piece of silverware

on securing a second piece of silverware

on securing a second piece of silverware for our trophy cabinet when our players

for our trophy cabinet when our players

for our trophy cabinet when our players think about making our people proud they

think about making our people proud they

think about making our people proud they think about returning to their home with

think about returning to their home with

think about returning to their home with a premiership cup on behalf of hundreds

a premiership cup on behalf of hundreds

a premiership cup on behalf of hundreds and thousands of some Kilda supporters

and thousands of some Kilda supporters

and thousands of some Kilda supporters but they also know that they can’t win a

but they also know that they can’t win a

but they also know that they can’t win a premiership every year let alone every

premiership every year let alone every

premiership every year let alone every month or every week so they’ve developed

month or every week so they’ve developed

month or every week so they’ve developed a plan to engender pride in the way they

a plan to engender pride in the way they

a plan to engender pride in the way they go about playing and training and living

go about playing and training and living

go about playing and training and living on a weekly basis and whether it’s

on a weekly basis and whether it’s

on a weekly basis and whether it’s playing with pride or playing for pride

playing with pride or playing for pride

playing with pride or playing for pride this intangible sentiment has become

this intangible sentiment has become

this intangible sentiment has become such an important ingredient of our

such an important ingredient of our

such an important ingredient of our sense of purpose in our footy club that

sense of purpose in our footy club that

sense of purpose in our footy club that it’s worth actually stepping back and

it’s worth actually stepping back and

it’s worth actually stepping back and exploring just some of that journey just

exploring just some of that journey just

exploring just some of that journey just before I arrived at some Kilda back in

before I arrived at some Kilda back in

before I arrived at some Kilda back in 2014 I discovered that a marketing

2014 I discovered that a marketing

2014 I discovered that a marketing agency had been confirmed by the club to

agency had been confirmed by the club to

agency had been confirmed by the club to overhaul the brand create a new logo on

overhaul the brand create a new logo on

overhaul the brand create a new logo on an advertising campaign and in a rare

an advertising campaign and in a rare

an advertising campaign and in a rare moment of clarity I remember thinking

moment of clarity I remember thinking

moment of clarity I remember thinking hang on a second our identity is not a

hang on a second our identity is not a

hang on a second our identity is not a marketing exercise the last thing we

marketing exercise the last thing we

marketing exercise the last thing we need is a new logo but we certainly need

need is a new logo but we certainly need

need is a new logo but we certainly need to get a better sense of ourselves and

to get a better sense of ourselves and

to get a better sense of ourselves and critically our relationship with our

critically our relationship with our

critically our relationship with our community since Kilda was born in a

community since Kilda was born in a

community since Kilda was born in a unique part of Melbourne this melting

unique part of Melbourne this melting

unique part of Melbourne this melting pot of humanity which is really grounded

pot of humanity which is really grounded

pot of humanity which is really grounded yet aspirational and in his brightest

yet aspirational and in his brightest

yet aspirational and in his brightest moments everyone is welcome to be

moments everyone is welcome to be

moments everyone is welcome to be themselves it’s in Cuba we’re rock stars

themselves it’s in Cuba we’re rock stars

themselves it’s in Cuba we’re rock stars rubbed shoulders with the homeless and

rubbed shoulders with the homeless and

rubbed shoulders with the homeless and neither is out of place it’s no

neither is out of place it’s no

neither is out of place it’s no coincidence that the annual celebration

coincidence that the annual celebration

coincidence that the annual celebration of sexual diversity in this state one of

of sexual diversity in this state one of

of sexual diversity in this state one of the most culturally diverse cities in

the most culturally diverse cities in

the most culturally diverse cities in Australia is a march down the Main

Australia is a march down the Main

Australia is a march down the Main Street of some Kilda

Street of some Kilda

Street of some Kilda as we listen to the stories of our fans

as we listen to the stories of our fans

as we listen to the stories of our fans now members our coaches and our players

now members our coaches and our players

now members our coaches and our players and we connected the dots between this

and we connected the dots between this

and we connected the dots between this place which gave birth to our footy club

place which gave birth to our footy club

place which gave birth to our footy club all those years ago and what we are

all those years ago and what we are

all those years ago and what we are today we actually discovered a

today we actually discovered a

today we actually discovered a disconnect that was sitting right before

disconnect that was sitting right before

disconnect that was sitting right before our eyes and pretty conveniently ignored

our eyes and pretty conveniently ignored

our eyes and pretty conveniently ignored we discovered a section of our community

we discovered a section of our community

we discovered a section of our community which felt welcome to be themselves in

which felt welcome to be themselves in

which felt welcome to be themselves in some cool to the suburb but not when

some cool to the suburb but not when

some cool to the suburb but not when they were supporting it’s in cured of

they were supporting it’s in cured of

they were supporting it’s in cured of the club we discovered a section of our

the club we discovered a section of our

the club we discovered a section of our community that felt safer to be

community that felt safer to be

community that felt safer to be themselves on the streets than they did

themselves on the streets than they did

themselves on the streets than they did in the stadiums now by coincidence at

in the stadiums now by coincidence at

in the stadiums now by coincidence at the same time as we were having this

the same time as we were having this

the same time as we were having this conversation

conversation

conversation a small Football Club in country

a small Football Club in country

a small Football Club in country Victoria started a conversation which is

Victoria started a conversation which is

Victoria started a conversation which is to be honest being taboo in country

to be honest being taboo in country

to be honest being taboo in country towns let alone footie clubs for years

towns let alone footie clubs for years

towns let alone footie clubs for years when Yarra Glen Jason ball came out and

when Yarra Glen Jason ball came out and

when Yarra Glen Jason ball came out and spoke openly about his homosexuality his

spoke openly about his homosexuality his

spoke openly about his homosexuality his footy club decided to change the color

footy club decided to change the color

footy club decided to change the color of their jumper to take a stand against

of their jumper to take a stand against

of their jumper to take a stand against homophobia and wrap their arms around

homophobia and wrap their arms around

homophobia and wrap their arms around Jason when that footy club decided to

Jason when that footy club decided to

Jason when that footy club decided to have a conversation to address prejudice

have a conversation to address prejudice

have a conversation to address prejudice and stereotypes which had existed for

and stereotypes which had existed for

and stereotypes which had existed for generations some Keota was inspired into

generations some Keota was inspired into

generations some Keota was inspired into action if a country footy town can have

action if a country footy town can have

action if a country footy town can have that conversation and make such a

that conversation and make such a

that conversation and make such a difference in their community what could

difference in their community what could

difference in their community what could we do on a national basis imagine if we

we do on a national basis imagine if we

we do on a national basis imagine if we could stage a game attended by tens of

could stage a game attended by tens of

could stage a game attended by tens of thousands of people watched by hundreds

thousands of people watched by hundreds

thousands of people watched by hundreds of thousands if not millions more where

of thousands if not millions more where

of thousands if not millions more where we laid out the welcome mat and sent the

we laid out the welcome mat and sent the

we laid out the welcome mat and sent the most powerful message to the LGBTI

most powerful message to the LGBTI

most powerful message to the LGBTI community you’re welcome at the footie

community you’re welcome at the footie

community you’re welcome at the footie well we knew this was the right thing to

well we knew this was the right thing to

well we knew this was the right thing to do and we knew that we were the club to

do and we knew that we were the club to

do and we knew that we were the club to do it but we also knew that get it wrong

do it but we also knew that get it wrong

do it but we also knew that get it wrong and you can cause more damage than good

and you can cause more damage than good

and you can cause more damage than good so we embarked on a two-year journey of

so we embarked on a two-year journey of

so we embarked on a two-year journey of discovery which ultimately made us a

discovery which ultimately made us a

discovery which ultimately made us a much richer place for what it is that we

much richer place for what it is that we

much richer place for what it is that we learned we met with politicians and

learned we met with politicians and

learned we met with politicians and activists media commentators community

activists media commentators community

activists media commentators community organisations who were really keen to

organisations who were really keen to

organisations who were really keen to help us to help them to belong in sport

help us to help them to belong in sport

help us to help them to belong in sport we surveyed our members to get a sense

we surveyed our members to get a sense

we surveyed our members to get a sense of their attitudes we marched with our

of their attitudes we marched with our

of their attitudes we marched with our coaches and our players and our staff

coaches and our players and our staff

coaches and our players and our staff with the LGBTI community and some Kilda

with the LGBTI community and some Kilda

with the LGBTI community and some Kilda and we did education sessions as well

and we did education sessions as well

and we did education sessions as well because for too long

because for too long

because for too long language like proof homo have

language like proof homo have

language like proof homo have been all too commonly used in our game

been all too commonly used in our game

been all too commonly used in our game and along the way we met some of the

and along the way we met some of the

and along the way we met some of the most inspiring people who were so giving

most inspiring people who were so giving

most inspiring people who were so giving of their wisdom and their courage to

of their wisdom and their courage to

of their wisdom and their courage to join us in our journey but we also

join us in our journey but we also

join us in our journey but we also learned that some of our fans resented

learned that some of our fans resented

learned that some of our fans resented their footy club having this

their footy club having this

their footy club having this conversation so we did receive some hate

conversation so we did receive some hate

conversation so we did receive some hate mail the occasional cut up membership

mail the occasional cut up membership

mail the occasional cut up membership and we also received flyers distributed

and we also received flyers distributed

and we also received flyers distributed by anti-marriage equality campaigners

by anti-marriage equality campaigners

by anti-marriage equality campaigners urging people to boycott our game it’s

urging people to boycott our game it’s

urging people to boycott our game it’s funny but our club got a bit of an

funny but our club got a bit of an

funny but our club got a bit of an insight into what it would be like to be

insight into what it would be like to be

insight into what it would be like to be on the wrong side of homophobia now we

on the wrong side of homophobia now we

on the wrong side of homophobia now we were certainly troubled by this but I’ve

were certainly troubled by this but I’ve

were certainly troubled by this but I’ve got to say there was more than a few

got to say there was more than a few

got to say there was more than a few sleepless nights but we were far more

sleepless nights but we were far more

sleepless nights but we were far more encouraged by these heartwarming

encouraged by these heartwarming

encouraged by these heartwarming messages of support that we received

messages of support that we received

messages of support that we received from Saints fans and fans of other clubs

from Saints fans and fans of other clubs

from Saints fans and fans of other clubs who all of a sudden saw an opportunity

who all of a sudden saw an opportunity

who all of a sudden saw an opportunity for change and who would have thought

for change and who would have thought

for change and who would have thought that over 20 years on since Niki win ma

that over 20 years on since Niki win ma

that over 20 years on since Niki win ma lifted up his jumper that he would start

lifted up his jumper that he would start

lifted up his jumper that he would start a new conversation about discrimination

a new conversation about discrimination

a new conversation about discrimination and Prejudice when he and his gay son

and Prejudice when he and his gay son

and Prejudice when he and his gay son tine and shared the story

tine and shared the story

tine and shared the story of an Aboriginal father sporting hero

of an Aboriginal father sporting hero

of an Aboriginal father sporting hero and his estranged son growing up in

and his estranged son growing up in

and his estranged son growing up in Ballarat who would have thought that by

Ballarat who would have thought that by

Ballarat who would have thought that by simply painting the rainbow colors on

simply painting the rainbow colors on

simply painting the rainbow colors on our ground and changing the colours

our ground and changing the colours

our ground and changing the colours likewise of our goal umpires flags that

likewise of our goal umpires flags that

likewise of our goal umpires flags that we would send such a powerful message of

we would send such a powerful message of

we would send such a powerful message of inclusion that it would encourage people

inclusion that it would encourage people

inclusion that it would encourage people to come to the football when they’d

to come to the football when they’d

to come to the football when they’d never been before

never been before

never been before who would afford that’s the simple act

who would afford that’s the simple act

who would afford that’s the simple act of our coaches and players sending

of our coaches and players sending

of our coaches and players sending messages of welcome would have such an

messages of welcome would have such an

messages of welcome would have such an impact that a Saints fan would come to

impact that a Saints fan would come to

impact that a Saints fan would come to the stadium and marching to see his team

the stadium and marching to see his team

the stadium and marching to see his team holding his male partners hand for the

holding his male partners hand for the

holding his male partners hand for the first time who would have thought

first time who would have thought

first time who would have thought [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] colors of the rifles and spices not

colors of the rifles and spices not

colors of the rifles and spices not every owner is a gram the primeira one

every owner is a gram the primeira one

every owner is a gram the primeira one by college it really is priceless she

by college it really is priceless she

by college it really is priceless she began for the iPhone

now it’s hard to believe it’s been over

now it’s hard to believe it’s been over a year since the first ever pride game

a year since the first ever pride game

a year since the first ever pride game in world sport was staged in Melbourne

in world sport was staged in Melbourne

in world sport was staged in Melbourne on that winter’s night a whole nother

on that winter’s night a whole nother

on that winter’s night a whole nother season has been running one including a

season has been running one including a

season has been running one including a second pride game which we took to

second pride game which we took to

second pride game which we took to Sydney this year to lad the welcome mat

Sydney this year to lad the welcome mat

Sydney this year to lad the welcome mat to a whole new community of LGBTI fans

to a whole new community of LGBTI fans

to a whole new community of LGBTI fans and there were news stories this year

and there were news stories this year

and there were news stories this year too but now we can week out when we go

too but now we can week out when we go

too but now we can week out when we go to the footy we see these symbols of

to the footy we see these symbols of

to the footy we see these symbols of Pride and inclusion in the scarves and

Pride and inclusion in the scarves and

Pride and inclusion in the scarves and the beanies and the flags which are

the beanies and the flags which are

the beanies and the flags which are there week in week out and these symbols

there week in week out and these symbols

there week in week out and these symbols of pride remind us as a fully Club that

of pride remind us as a fully Club that

of pride remind us as a fully Club that our community is proud of what we’re

our community is proud of what we’re

our community is proud of what we’re doing and our players can draw upon that

doing and our players can draw upon that

doing and our players can draw upon that pride as strengths to deliver that

pride as strengths to deliver that

pride as strengths to deliver that second premise ship back for the Saints

second premise ship back for the Saints

second premise ship back for the Saints and fuel a contagious sense of belonging

and fuel a contagious sense of belonging

and fuel a contagious sense of belonging for everyone thank you

for everyone thank you

for everyone thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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