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How one act of kindness a day can change your life | Mark Kelly | TEDxTallaght


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[Applause] you better what I’m gonna tell you I

you better what I’m gonna tell you I

you better what I’m gonna tell you I hope you feel better your anxiety levels

hope you feel better your anxiety levels

hope you feel better your anxiety levels are gonna drop your blood pressure

are gonna drop your blood pressure

are gonna drop your blood pressure reduce your blood circulation increase

reduce your blood circulation increase

reduce your blood circulation increase improving your vitality and ultimately

improving your vitality and ultimately

improving your vitality and ultimately making you live longer imagine that

making you live longer imagine that

making you live longer imagine that anybody interested show hands everyone

anybody interested show hands everyone

anybody interested show hands everyone else is lying okay well let me tell you

else is lying okay well let me tell you

else is lying okay well let me tell you how I came across this unexpectedly my

how I came across this unexpectedly my

how I came across this unexpectedly my name is Mark Kelly I’m married I’ve got

name is Mark Kelly I’m married I’ve got

name is Mark Kelly I’m married I’ve got two kids I run a business I’ve got the

two kids I run a business I’ve got the

two kids I run a business I’ve got the same concerns as everybody else here I’d

same concerns as everybody else here I’d

same concerns as everybody else here I’d love to be happier and healthier like

love to be happier and healthier like

love to be happier and healthier like everybody else here I’m sure on a cold

everybody else here I’m sure on a cold

everybody else here I’m sure on a cold and wet January morning I was running to

and wet January morning I was running to

and wet January morning I was running to work and I came across a homeless man

work and I came across a homeless man

work and I came across a homeless man the same homeless man truth be told that

the same homeless man truth be told that

the same homeless man truth be told that I walked by each time and I don’t know

I walked by each time and I don’t know

I walked by each time and I don’t know what it was for I said to him would you

what it was for I said to him would you

what it was for I said to him would you want anything

want anything

want anything he said yeah I do coffee a milk and two

he said yeah I do coffee a milk and two

he said yeah I do coffee a milk and two sugars grant so went in they got it from

sugars grant so went in they got it from

sugars grant so went in they got it from and I gave it to him and I said my name

and I gave it to him and I said my name

and I gave it to him and I said my name is mark by the way Sedley thanks for the

is mark by the way Sedley thanks for the

is mark by the way Sedley thanks for the coffee then I was it awful away running

coffee then I was it awful away running

coffee then I was it awful away running back to work and laying around that

back to work and laying around that

back to work and laying around that morning I was feeling really good now

morning I was feeling really good now

morning I was feeling really good now I wasn’t sure because feeling really

I wasn’t sure because feeling really

I wasn’t sure because feeling really good because I gave somebody a coffee or

good because I gave somebody a coffee or

good because I gave somebody a coffee or because he was homeless not quite sure

because he was homeless not quite sure

because he was homeless not quite sure but let me give you a little bit of

but let me give you a little bit of

but let me give you a little bit of background at me I’m a guy who’s always

background at me I’m a guy who’s always

background at me I’m a guy who’s always chasing self-help book seminar yoga

chasing self-help book seminar yoga

chasing self-help book seminar yoga class I’m trying them all in and this

class I’m trying them all in and this

class I’m trying them all in and this feeling made me feel better than any of

feeling made me feel better than any of

feeling made me feel better than any of them so I started to Google I was like

them so I started to Google I was like

them so I started to Google I was like how can I make a difference a small

how can I make a difference a small

how can I make a difference a small difference to somebody that’s homeless

difference to somebody that’s homeless

difference to somebody that’s homeless so it turns out that money and

so it turns out that money and

so it turns out that money and perishable goods they’re actually not

perishable goods they’re actually not

perishable goods they’re actually not the way to go but to paste to brush and

the way to go but to paste to brush and

the way to go but to paste to brush and socks are so he said grant went with two

socks are so he said grant went with two

socks are so he said grant went with two pennies in Blanche’s town and I got a

pennies in Blanche’s town and I got a

pennies in Blanche’s town and I got a Tanner’s worked and I started to put

Tanner’s worked and I started to put

Tanner’s worked and I started to put them in these little plastic packs

them in these little plastic packs

them in these little plastic packs and I put them in my bag and I said if

and I put them in my bag and I said if

and I put them in my bag and I said if and when I come across anyone that needs

and when I come across anyone that needs

and when I come across anyone that needs them coming and going from work

them coming and going from work

them coming and going from work I’ll give them a pack so Monday evening

I’ll give them a pack so Monday evening

I’ll give them a pack so Monday evening I’m coming home I’m cycling through the

I’m coming home I’m cycling through the

I’m coming home I’m cycling through the liberties and I came across somebody

liberties and I came across somebody

liberties and I came across somebody grab my bike went over handed the pack

grab my bike went over handed the pack

grab my bike went over handed the pack he didn’t look up didn’t acknowledge us

he didn’t look up didn’t acknowledge us

he didn’t look up didn’t acknowledge us as a bit disappointed if I’m honest

as a bit disappointed if I’m honest

as a bit disappointed if I’m honest so got back on the bike but hey you know

so got back on the bike but hey you know

so got back on the bike but hey you know whatever got back on the bike and I’m

whatever got back on the bike and I’m

whatever got back on the bike and I’m cycling down by Houston station and I

cycling down by Houston station and I

cycling down by Houston station and I came across a man just beside the bridge

came across a man just beside the bridge

came across a man just beside the bridge there and he was wearing these socks but

there and he was wearing these socks but

there and he was wearing these socks but they were tonus sucks the type of socks

they were tonus sucks the type of socks

they were tonus sucks the type of socks that you would have if you just come out

that you would have if you just come out

that you would have if you just come out of an operation so I got off my bike you

of an operation so I got off my bike you

of an operation so I got off my bike you took out my pack and I handed this woman

took out my pack and I handed this woman

took out my pack and I handed this woman he took out the black socks and he

he took out the black socks and he

he took out the black socks and he fought them on he looked up at me now I

fought them on he looked up at me now I

fought them on he looked up at me now I could see I made a difference so go back

could see I made a difference so go back

could see I made a difference so go back on my bike I put the kids to bed and

on my bike I put the kids to bed and

on my bike I put the kids to bed and made some dinner and I was just feeling

made some dinner and I was just feeling

made some dinner and I was just feeling great I was like that small difference

great I was like that small difference

great I was like that small difference it made to their friends and I was

it made to their friends and I was

it made to their friends and I was feeling really good so for the next

feeling really good so for the next

feeling really good so for the next couple of weeks I just started to do act

couple of weeks I just started to do act

couple of weeks I just started to do act of kindness I’d leave her door open just

of kindness I’d leave her door open just

of kindness I’d leave her door open just long enough for someone else to walk by

long enough for someone else to walk by

long enough for someone else to walk by buy somebody a coffee I be able with my

buy somebody a coffee I be able with my

buy somebody a coffee I be able with my charlie from shopping instead of

charlie from shopping instead of

charlie from shopping instead of bringing it back to the Charlie ranch I

bringing it back to the Charlie ranch I

bringing it back to the Charlie ranch I actually bring it over to someone’s car

actually bring it over to someone’s car

actually bring it over to someone’s car give take it to your often they can take

give take it to your often they can take

give take it to your often they can take the trolley and then I do my way one of

the trolley and then I do my way one of

the trolley and then I do my way one of my colleagues John has said he caught me

my colleagues John has said he caught me

my colleagues John has said he caught me act doing a nice deed and he said to me

act doing a nice deed and he said to me

act doing a nice deed and he said to me that’s really nice what you’re doing I

that’s really nice what you’re doing I

that’s really nice what you’re doing I said you know what I’m not doing it for

said you know what I’m not doing it for

said you know what I’m not doing it for them I’m actually doing it for me

them I’m actually doing it for me

them I’m actually doing it for me because actually most selfish thing you

because actually most selfish thing you

because actually most selfish thing you can do and it made me feel really good

can do and it made me feel really good

can do and it made me feel really good word spread in my office as far as

word spread in my office as far as

word spread in my office as far as learning development and they said mark

learning development and they said mark

learning development and they said mark I think we should share this tell more

I think we should share this tell more

I think we should share this tell more people about us so we did so we did

people about us so we did so we did

people about us so we did so we did random acts of kindness for a week he

random acts of kindness for a week he

random acts of kindness for a week he was kind of like Chris Kindle but random

was kind of like Chris Kindle but random

was kind of like Chris Kindle but random we had a jar we put everyone’s name in

we had a jar we put everyone’s name in

we had a jar we put everyone’s name in us and they took a name and they do an

us and they took a name and they do an

us and they took a name and they do an act of kindness for somebody else in the

act of kindness for somebody else in the

act of kindness for somebody else in the job so Connor at lunchtime got a

job so Connor at lunchtime got a

job so Connor at lunchtime got a sandwich on his desk

sandwich on his desk

sandwich on his desk Dave our sales manager who spent most of

Dave our sales manager who spent most of

Dave our sales manager who spent most of his time our sales meetings drive around

his time our sales meetings drive around

his time our sales meetings drive around Ireland two colleagues surprised

Ireland two colleagues surprised

Ireland two colleagues surprised them and watched his car one of our

them and watched his car one of our

them and watched his car one of our colleagues just started two days into

colleagues just started two days into

colleagues just started two days into her new job and a bicycle stolen on

her new job and a bicycle stolen on

her new job and a bicycle stolen on hardwood trees as an office we came

hardwood trees as an office we came

hardwood trees as an office we came together and we donated four euro each

together and we donated four euro each

together and we donated four euro each and the Friday we presented her with a

and the Friday we presented her with a

and the Friday we presented her with a new bike she couldn’t believe that we

new bike she couldn’t believe that we

new bike she couldn’t believe that we would do this for her she burst into

would do this for her she burst into

would do this for her she burst into tears crying she now had a bicycle to go

tears crying she now had a bicycle to go

tears crying she now had a bicycle to go with that helmet that she’d been looking

with that helmet that she’d been looking

with that helmet that she’d been looking at all week we were on a high because we

at all week we were on a high because we

at all week we were on a high because we just found out for Euro we could see the

just found out for Euro we could see the

just found out for Euro we could see the difference it makes now at the start of

difference it makes now at the start of

difference it makes now at the start of this talk I said to you I’ll make you

this talk I said to you I’ll make you

this talk I said to you I’ll make you look younger and make you look feel

look younger and make you look feel

look younger and make you look feel better anyone interested still yeah well

better anyone interested still yeah well

better anyone interested still yeah well it turns out when you do a nice deed the

it turns out when you do a nice deed the

it turns out when you do a nice deed the hormone oxytocin is released that has a

hormone oxytocin is released that has a

hormone oxytocin is released that has a knock-on impact that drops your blood

knock-on impact that drops your blood

knock-on impact that drops your blood pressure reduces your anxiety gets the

pressure reduces your anxiety gets the

pressure reduces your anxiety gets the blood circulating so much so it goes up

blood circulating so much so it goes up

blood circulating so much so it goes up to cheeks so they go all rosy red so you

to cheeks so they go all rosy red so you

to cheeks so they go all rosy red so you look about 10 years younger where to

look about 10 years younger where to

look about 10 years younger where to improve your vitality because

improve your vitality because

improve your vitality because statistically shows you’re gonna live

statistically shows you’re gonna live

statistically shows you’re gonna live longer now I came across this completely

longer now I came across this completely

longer now I came across this completely unexpectedly I was thinking I can make a

unexpectedly I was thinking I can make a

unexpectedly I was thinking I can make a difference here so what I’m asking you

difference here so what I’m asking you

difference here so what I’m asking you today is do one act of kindness a day

today is do one act of kindness a day

today is do one act of kindness a day for you but you just might help society

for you but you just might help society

for you but you just might help society around the world thank you

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