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Hello my

call Anatolia

homons

really

practically

the last 20 years without

small I am

lawyer and today I

I want to talk to

you to a very important

theme that

certainly so or

otherwise

each person

absolutely everyone about

marriage

or rather about why

register

matrimonial

relationship is

right and it’s necessary

to start, let’s

let’s try to hold

experiment to

seems all faith

I will ask now only

ask

take part

I’m not being lazy

I ask you to raise your hands

those who think so

called

civil marriage

positive

who

positively

refers to citizens

marriage that is to

without registering

and matrimonial

relations, raise

Please, hand yes

thank you thank you

who did not hesitate

thanks to those who need me

helped and now

I ask you to raise your hands

those who are positive

refers to such

phenomenon as

cohabitation

who is positive

refers to people to

partner and to such

word as a roommate

concubine

raise your hands here

one person for two

layer you are a sign

introduce

far less

much less on

in fact, at the very

the fact that we

call civil

marriage, that is

living without

registration of marriage and

have cohabitation

right it

is called that way

I

that I understand that these

words cohabiting partner

concubine

cohabitation does not hurt

hearing

frankly speaking and

in the window they and me very much

there is a rumor on

wrong and these

words we

operate and will

that is, accommodation

without registration of marriage

a joint

We will stay

call

cohabitation dress

cohabitants like to us

it did not please but

legally and

in fact this is true

in fact I

really very

I do not like

aspiring to

some high

intelligence

expression to which

at the next

consideration of

turn out to be

sheer emptiness

because not everything is beautiful and

that sounds beautiful on

really right

and is true also to the number

such statements

this

probably everyone heard

good marriage good

it will not be called

can it be

a good deed is named

yes yes no

but in fact it is

stupid

saying let’s

Let’s see why and I

I will try to you

explain who is not

convinced that

I try to convince

really the word marriage

no relation to

something bad is not

have it happened

from the Old Slavic

verb brothers then

there is take taking wives

take husbands i

Ivan Tsarevich

I take a wife Vasilisa

beautiful

I take my husbands well and so

then that is it

no word

negative shade

actually

does not bear

let’s see how

it happens like this

can be found

young people sometimes

even happens

occurs

a few hours but

this is a rare case

clinical case

here mass usually

more are found

like each other

learned their best

parties and someone from

the two of them are talking

dear or expensive and

beloved beloved I am so

love you I so want

place to be with you

constantly not only

here in hours and minutes

our meetings come

live together very

often the second

half according to

really if

this person is loved

if you want to

because it sounds

short

but then sometimes

lately all

more often the one who’s here

expressed such

the proposal says

only I know that in fact

we love each other so much

friend why do we need all

this

official why do we need these

registration of the wedding

and then what are you

you know

a good deal of marriage

do not call until we hear

such a thing happens

but I want you

say that if you

heard such words

m way I do not advise

hear honestly

I sincerely advise

he let none

never such words

will say it personally to me

who does not want this

agrees it is his

right but I’m you this

does not want so here if

you hear such

I say that

the one who speaks you

he is a psychic

this is absolutely accurate

he has

super-abilities

at least he

sees the future of this

as if he sees your

your together with him

being not he sees out

what

and what with him

joint future

no why it is so

let’s suppose

that here are the 2

roommate we with you

agreed that

we will name things

by their own names live

together they are young they

are beautiful

maybe not quite

young but they want

bear handsome

expensive car and

sound in many respects

someone more

piggy bank overall

brings someone

less

it may not

brings a piggy bank

someone just erases

socks

brings to the dumb

who brings cash

signs in the common piggy bank

they buy

they are very

wanted him beautiful

expensive car

live together later

some

time by one way or another

reasons for their relationship

ladilis they just

diverge and what about

occurs then a

then it turns out that

this beautiful and very

expensive car is not

want to share

somehow but you

because you understand

that people if

they did not part

part simply for

unfortunately in

most cases

they part or

enemies or even

enemies and

the way they do it

expensive car on

which they saved up

all its own can be

not for long

duty to the conscious

life is divided

nothing you share

in half and not

saw it differently

will not

car and here

the very beginning

interesting

people start to go to

lawyers to try

try these k

familiar

consult

because it is clear that

this car

registered on

one

he is not

registered 2 of them

persons and this one at

registered

the car is beautiful

understands how

winning position

he understands

that he does not need

do nothing for

that this

car share it

just ride it

just enjoys a

second

this moment is sad

or hands down

either tries this court

or we press another

the situation is absolutely

exactly the same only

people were smarter they

have accumulated

not on the road

car she

apartment because

car price

very often equal to

cost of apartments

bought this apartment

lived together

made

repair beautiful

did well done

dealings went well

someone from this

apartment is leaving

by the way, this someone is not

always wants to leave

this apartment

and the same

SYMPTOMS like

share and who in

this apartment will be

actually reside

and certainly

more rights

is obtained from those on

who is housing

registered

because when people

start together

they do not think

such trifles they

trust each other and

right by the way

do many of you

think that I’m here

I tell very much

the scary thing of

firmware yes probably

and these many will think

about the knife and the court we can

collect documents

collect witnesses

go to a lawyer or

then with someone else

consult and

go to court and these

many I want you

say will be right

but partly because

believe me one

only an hour spent

in a court

sometimes worth a year

life

year life you do not

imagine what

intellectual

moral nervous

efforts are worth participating

in the hearing

she will have you neither

one believe me by the way

if management

such is the technique

counting the hour of judgment here

life in the present

time is not bad

relatively look

I’m about 7000 years old on

really joked

there is little more

five thousand years if

leadership of such

counting methodology

Believe you this is not

need

and not the fact that you have

It turns out that

felt in as

2 is your ex

half believe me

will be very strong

resist and you

do not know in this

person

once beloved and

adored

human

creature let’s take

situation a little

another may be

more sad I

I understand of course

telling sad

things note whines

the problem is always

sad truth though

resolution of those

problems need

should say

deliver

pleasure that part

life is what to do

suppose people

live together on

for some reason in their

the house was in trouble

one of them

arrested

custody just

the criminal

let’s say he

not guilty or

is guilty of this

case it does not have

values ​​and of course

a person who

lives 7 together

roommate

concubine

calls for questioning

investigator

unconditionally a person

which marriage

registered

that are

spouses will come and

will say not wanting

damage his

wife know what

fellow investigator

or in the future

respected juices court

because I want to

take advantage

article 27 of its

of the constitution

The Republic of Belarus

Since we live in our

country in the republic

Belarus and I will not

testify

against your spouse

and against their

close and will be right and

he will be released and he goes

free soul

knowing that no

did not damage

his spouse in

if people

They survived without

registration of marriage

you are not so simple

believe in ninety

percent of cases

at least you will be forced

to testify in

you are not strong enough

resist this

machine I’m not saying that

this car is not needed

it is absolutely necessary

because someone

crime should

disclose

but it happens that way

situation and it is not read

often when a person and

not guilty

but this whole machine

tries to prove him

culpability for sure

also from the same

sad history

imprisoned

rights in relation to

who was

criminal case and

of course the

who lived with him

jointly wants

to see him

this is a great happiness

see a person

which you did not see

support him

please give companion

investigator of a date

give a high court

meetings

and they tell you

you know what

and we can meet

give only the spouse

either close

relative

and alas your second

half

is without

support definitely

it’s sad I

agree this is sad

stories

but also consists of

Our life is exactly

as well as a needle

we need then when

we need something

sew and we then on

pay attention to it

The fact that it usually does not

exists in our

life why us

flasher exactly the same and

here

but how are you

you understand with a needle

enjoy

every

to man in the same way

and here I wanted to

would say a conclusion

I think that not even

thinking confidently that

love is the most

it’s great that I’m life

because there is life

love itself

surely life is

and there is love

and if you want

make one’s own

half in their

second half

more secure

more happy if

you really

love your second

do not demean one half

and cohabitation

marry thank you

[applause]

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