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Choose “AND”, Not “OR” | Michelle Sun | TEDxYouth@DBSHK


for those who know me they would know

for those who know me they would know when I’m in a crowd whether his friends

when I’m in a crowd whether his friends

when I’m in a crowd whether his friends or colleagues I’m relatively the quiet

or colleagues I’m relatively the quiet

or colleagues I’m relatively the quiet one I like to listen I like to listen

one I like to listen I like to listen

one I like to listen I like to listen when people say I want to have high

when people say I want to have high

when people say I want to have high scores or I can have fun with my friends

scores or I can have fun with my friends

scores or I can have fun with my friends I noticed when people say I want to get

I noticed when people say I want to get

I noticed when people say I want to get into my dream school or I can pursue my

into my dream school or I can pursue my

into my dream school or I can pursue my passion in playing lacrosse

passion in playing lacrosse

passion in playing lacrosse I can backpack across Europe or I can

I can backpack across Europe or I can

I can backpack across Europe or I can write my business plan I can achieve my

write my business plan I can achieve my

write my business plan I can achieve my savings goal or I can splurge on my

savings goal or I can splurge on my

savings goal or I can splurge on my favorite dress I can run my business or

favorite dress I can run my business or

favorite dress I can run my business or I can achieve a healthy lifestyle today

I can achieve a healthy lifestyle today

I can achieve a healthy lifestyle today I want to share with you a choice that

I want to share with you a choice that

I want to share with you a choice that I’m very passionate about a choice that

I’m very passionate about a choice that

I’m very passionate about a choice that has been catalyzing my life catalyzing

has been catalyzing my life catalyzing

has been catalyzing my life catalyzing changes and open up tons of

changes and open up tons of

changes and open up tons of possibilities in my journey a catalyst

possibilities in my journey a catalyst

possibilities in my journey a catalyst in a chemistry world is something that

in a chemistry world is something that

in a chemistry world is something that speeds up a chemistry reaction a

speeds up a chemistry reaction a

speeds up a chemistry reaction a chemical reaction with a catalyst only

chemical reaction with a catalyst only

chemical reaction with a catalyst only needs a little bit of this catalyst to

needs a little bit of this catalyst to

needs a little bit of this catalyst to achieve this this reaction and this

achieve this this reaction and this

achieve this this reaction and this catalyst can be repeatedly used many

catalyst can be repeatedly used many

catalyst can be repeatedly used many many times even after the reaction is

many times even after the reaction is

many times even after the reaction is done and the reaction that I want to

done and the reaction that I want to

done and the reaction that I want to talk about today is a reaction that

talk about today is a reaction that

talk about today is a reaction that opens up possibilities help us reach

opens up possibilities help us reach

opens up possibilities help us reach goals

goals

goals and enables us to live creatively

and enables us to live creatively

and enables us to live creatively the reaction is a creators mindset I can

the reaction is a creators mindset I can

the reaction is a creators mindset I can find a dream job or I can win my parents

find a dream job or I can win my parents

find a dream job or I can win my parents approval seven years ago I find myself

approval seven years ago I find myself

approval seven years ago I find myself talking talking to myself this phrase at

talking talking to myself this phrase at

talking talking to myself this phrase at my cubicle at an investment banking job

my cubicle at an investment banking job

my cubicle at an investment banking job I had been working for three years after

I had been working for three years after

I had been working for three years after college after my undergraduate studies

college after my undergraduate studies

college after my undergraduate studies as an economics major

as an economics major

as an economics major before that I was born and raised in

before that I was born and raised in

before that I was born and raised in Hong Kong in a local school in Causeway

Hong Kong in a local school in Causeway

Hong Kong in a local school in Causeway Bay and my family is one of the most

Bay and my family is one of the most

Bay and my family is one of the most traditional Asian families my mom and

traditional Asian families my mom and

traditional Asian families my mom and dad has worked in the same job for 30

dad has worked in the same job for 30

dad has worked in the same job for 30 years my sister gone on to become a

years my sister gone on to become a

years my sister gone on to become a doctor and working in an investment bank

doctor and working in an investment bank

doctor and working in an investment bank although maybe not as prestigious as a

although maybe not as prestigious as a

although maybe not as prestigious as a doctor is probably one of the things

doctor is probably one of the things

doctor is probably one of the things that an Asian family like my my own

that an Asian family like my my own

that an Asian family like my my own would approve yet I find myself 11 p.m.

would approve yet I find myself 11 p.m.

would approve yet I find myself 11 p.m. sitting at the cubicle of one of the

sitting at the cubicle of one of the

sitting at the cubicle of one of the buildings in central thinking to myself

buildings in central thinking to myself

buildings in central thinking to myself gosh I’m living someone’s dream I might

gosh I’m living someone’s dream I might

gosh I’m living someone’s dream I might be making good money I might be sitting

be making good money I might be sitting

be making good money I might be sitting in a prestigious building I might be

in a prestigious building I might be

in a prestigious building I might be wearing expensive suits but deep down I

wearing expensive suits but deep down I

wearing expensive suits but deep down I know this is not my passion I wanted

know this is not my passion I wanted

know this is not my passion I wanted something more and I crave and yearn and

something more and I crave and yearn and

something more and I crave and yearn and cry out loud in my heart for that I

cry out loud in my heart for that I

cry out loud in my heart for that I wanted to create something I wanted to

wanted to create something I wanted to

wanted to create something I wanted to impact others my own hands and I wanted

impact others my own hands and I wanted

impact others my own hands and I wanted to see through reaction in others that I

to see through reaction in others that I

to see through reaction in others that I can work with yet I find myself thinking

can work with yet I find myself thinking

can work with yet I find myself thinking I can either find my dream job or

I can either find my dream job or

I can either find my dream job or winning over my parents

winning over my parents

winning over my parents approval today’s catalyst I want to

approval today’s catalyst I want to

approval today’s catalyst I want to share is the choice of choosing and / or

share is the choice of choosing and / or

share is the choice of choosing and / or I like to catch myself and catch others

I like to catch myself and catch others

I like to catch myself and catch others around me when they say I can find a

around me when they say I can find a

around me when they say I can find a dream job or I can win over my family’s

dream job or I can win over my family’s

dream job or I can win over my family’s approval whenever I hear the word or I

approval whenever I hear the word or I

approval whenever I hear the word or I challenge myself to think what if I can

challenge myself to think what if I can

challenge myself to think what if I can replace it with aunt what if I can do

replace it with aunt what if I can do

replace it with aunt what if I can do both what can I do to make possible both

both what can I do to make possible both

both what can I do to make possible both finding a dream job and winning over my

finding a dream job and winning over my

finding a dream job and winning over my family’s approval I start it started

family’s approval I start it started

family’s approval I start it started with a tiny seat in my heart and I

with a tiny seat in my heart and I

with a tiny seat in my heart and I started working on it step by step

started working on it step by step

started working on it step by step 7 years from that day today

7 years from that day today

7 years from that day today I cannot say my family is completely

I cannot say my family is completely

I cannot say my family is completely comfortable with me going on an

comfortable with me going on an

comfortable with me going on an entrepreneurial path I can certainly say

entrepreneurial path I can certainly say

entrepreneurial path I can certainly say they’re comfortable they approve of my

they’re comfortable they approve of my

they’re comfortable they approve of my choice now to leave a safe job and

choice now to leave a safe job and

choice now to leave a safe job and pursue something I’m passionate about

pursue something I’m passionate about

pursue something I’m passionate about the choice of choosing and / or is not

the choice of choosing and / or is not

the choice of choosing and / or is not just about career change or is not just

just about career change or is not just

just about career change or is not just about academic studies this choice

about academic studies this choice

about academic studies this choice little did I know also open up to

little did I know also open up to

little did I know also open up to possibilities in my life outside of work

possibilities in my life outside of work

possibilities in my life outside of work outside a professional career three and

outside a professional career three and

outside a professional career three and a half years ago I started first

a half years ago I started first

a half years ago I started first codecademy which today I’m still working

codecademy which today I’m still working

codecademy which today I’m still working on every day passionately we teach young

on every day passionately we teach young

on every day passionately we teach young kids how to code and more importantly a

kids how to code and more importantly a

kids how to code and more importantly a creators mindset we believe that through

creators mindset we believe that through

creators mindset we believe that through learning coding a young child as young

learning coding a young child as young

learning coding a young child as young as five years old can learn to think

as five years old can learn to think

as five years old can learn to think like a creator and I realized by

like a creator and I realized by

like a creator and I realized by choosing the word and

choosing the word and

choosing the word and is over or is exactly that catalyst that

is over or is exactly that catalyst that

is over or is exactly that catalyst that I needed to embrace that creators

I needed to embrace that creators

I needed to embrace that creators mindset and I believe everybody is

mindset and I believe everybody is

mindset and I believe everybody is possible to it’s possible for everybody

possible to it’s possible for everybody

possible to it’s possible for everybody to make this choice now choosing the

to make this choice now choosing the

to make this choice now choosing the path of being an entrepreneur is not

path of being an entrepreneur is not

path of being an entrepreneur is not easy in fact many of many people warned

easy in fact many of many people warned

easy in fact many of many people warned me before going through that path that

me before going through that path that

me before going through that path that you know being an entrepreneur is one of

you know being an entrepreneur is one of

you know being an entrepreneur is one of the toughest job I would say I cannot

the toughest job I would say I cannot

the toughest job I would say I cannot agree more in the past three years maybe

agree more in the past three years maybe

agree more in the past three years maybe the time the hours the efforts and the

the time the hours the efforts and the

the time the hours the efforts and the challenges that like every day is thrown

challenges that like every day is thrown

challenges that like every day is thrown at this job

at this job

at this job maybe is probably 10 years make me age

maybe is probably 10 years make me age

maybe is probably 10 years make me age 10 years more I remember the first 18

10 years more I remember the first 18

10 years more I remember the first 18 months of starting this company I did

months of starting this company I did

months of starting this company I did not take any vacations I really saw

not take any vacations I really saw

not take any vacations I really saw friends and most of all I actually

friends and most of all I actually

friends and most of all I actually forgot about taking care of myself

forgot about taking care of myself

forgot about taking care of myself I was working every day consumed by

I was working every day consumed by

I was working every day consumed by everything that is inside out of my

everything that is inside out of my

everything that is inside out of my creation at the same time of course

creation at the same time of course

creation at the same time of course there’s not a lot of help that could be

there’s not a lot of help that could be

there’s not a lot of help that could be found so from taking out the trash to

found so from taking out the trash to

found so from taking out the trash to teaching to talking to parents and

teaching to talking to parents and

teaching to talking to parents and customers and posting on Facebook

customers and posting on Facebook

customers and posting on Facebook everything was on my plates sooo that

everything was on my plates sooo that

everything was on my plates sooo that early stages of running and stardom I

early stages of running and stardom I

early stages of running and stardom I realized wow my health is really going

realized wow my health is really going

realized wow my health is really going downhill I would go to the gym and try

downhill I would go to the gym and try

downhill I would go to the gym and try to run 5k and I would feel like dying so

to run 5k and I would feel like dying so

to run 5k and I would feel like dying so I thought to myself hey they say that as

I thought to myself hey they say that as

I thought to myself hey they say that as an entrepreneur you got to give up

an entrepreneur you got to give up

an entrepreneur you got to give up something you can either run a business

something you can either run a business

something you can either run a business or you can have a healthy lifestyle

or you can have a healthy lifestyle

or you can have a healthy lifestyle don’t they say you gotta suffer

don’t they say you gotta suffer

don’t they say you gotta suffer in order to do something great here I am

in order to do something great here I am

in order to do something great here I am catching myself again the word or what

catching myself again the word or what

catching myself again the word or what if is not only what if I can replace the

if is not only what if I can replace the

if is not only what if I can replace the word or with n what if I can run a

word or with n what if I can run a

word or with n what if I can run a business and lead a healthy lifestyle

business and lead a healthy lifestyle

business and lead a healthy lifestyle in fact last year I decided to take this

in fact last year I decided to take this

in fact last year I decided to take this to a next level I decided that I can run

to a next level I decided that I can run

to a next level I decided that I can run of business and I’m gonna train for my

of business and I’m gonna train for my

of business and I’m gonna train for my first triathlon for those of you who may

first triathlon for those of you who may

first triathlon for those of you who may not be familiar triathlon is about

not be familiar triathlon is about

not be familiar triathlon is about swimming biking and running and this is

swimming biking and running and this is

swimming biking and running and this is you’re talking about a person that when

you’re talking about a person that when

you’re talking about a person that when I was in secondary school I could barely

I was in secondary school I could barely

I was in secondary school I could barely run for nine minutes

run for nine minutes

run for nine minutes I remember in physical education class

I remember in physical education class

I remember in physical education class my least favourite subject of all I

my least favourite subject of all I

my least favourite subject of all I would be the last person at the corner

would be the last person at the corner

would be the last person at the corner and in the basketball court I actually

and in the basketball court I actually

and in the basketball court I actually never haven’t been able to shoot through

never haven’t been able to shoot through

never haven’t been able to shoot through that net so talking about this challenge

that net so talking about this challenge

that net so talking about this challenge and talking about challenging and

and talking about challenging and

and talking about challenging and mindset four months of hard work four

mindset four months of hard work four

mindset four months of hard work four months of seven to 10 hours of week

months of seven to 10 hours of week

months of seven to 10 hours of week training last October I completed my

training last October I completed my

training last October I completed my first Olympic distance triathlon in 3

first Olympic distance triathlon in 3

first Olympic distance triathlon in 3 hours 30 minutes nothing maybe the

hours 30 minutes nothing maybe the

hours 30 minutes nothing maybe the distance and the time nothing to write

distance and the time nothing to write

distance and the time nothing to write home about but I believe that through

home about but I believe that through

home about but I believe that through making small steps and through being

making small steps and through being

making small steps and through being aware of our thinking our words that we

aware of our thinking our words that we

aware of our thinking our words that we talk to ourselves replacing the word or

talk to ourselves replacing the word or

talk to ourselves replacing the word or with and we open up possibilities what

with and we open up possibilities what

with and we open up possibilities what if you can get high scores in your exams

if you can get high scores in your exams

if you can get high scores in your exams and have fun with your friends at the

and have fun with your friends at the

and have fun with your friends at the same time maybe we can form study

same time maybe we can form study

same time maybe we can form study sessions and have a meal grab a meal

sessions and have a meal grab a meal

sessions and have a meal grab a meal before and after study sessions what if

before and after study sessions what if

before and after study sessions what if you can backpack across you

you can backpack across you

you can backpack across you and write a business plan at the same

and write a business plan at the same

and write a business plan at the same time maybe through traveling abroad you

time maybe through traveling abroad you

time maybe through traveling abroad you can inspire yourself to find new

can inspire yourself to find new

can inspire yourself to find new business ideas or validate your ideas

business ideas or validate your ideas

business ideas or validate your ideas through talking to more people the

through talking to more people the

through talking to more people the possibilities are limitless once we

possibilities are limitless once we

possibilities are limitless once we identify what we’re limiting ourselves a

catalyst speeds up a chemical reaction

catalyst speeds up a chemical reaction through choosing and / or you we

through choosing and / or you we

through choosing and / or you we challenge ourselves to think creatively

challenge ourselves to think creatively

challenge ourselves to think creatively opens up ourselves to a richer lives

opens up ourselves to a richer lives

opens up ourselves to a richer lives full of new possibilities and at the

full of new possibilities and at the

full of new possibilities and at the same time challenges the assumptions

same time challenges the assumptions

same time challenges the assumptions behind our limited thinking this

behind our limited thinking this

behind our limited thinking this catalyst can be used repeatedly as well

catalyst can be used repeatedly as well

catalyst can be used repeatedly as well you only need to start being aware of it

you only need to start being aware of it

you only need to start being aware of it whenever you talk to yourself he catch

whenever you talk to yourself he catch

whenever you talk to yourself he catch yourself saying or and challenge to

yourself saying or and challenge to

yourself saying or and challenge to replace this with and only a tiny bit is

replace this with and only a tiny bit is

replace this with and only a tiny bit is needed and when we’re not limiting

needed and when we’re not limiting

needed and when we’re not limiting ourselves to choosing one over the other

ourselves to choosing one over the other

ourselves to choosing one over the other we’re living we’re going after what we

we’re living we’re going after what we

we’re living we’re going after what we truly wants we’re creative

truly wants we’re creative

truly wants we’re creative we’re motivated we’re constantly

we’re motivated we’re constantly

we’re motivated we’re constantly expanding our possibilities and we’re

expanding our possibilities and we’re

expanding our possibilities and we’re passionate so go ahead and start hearing

passionate so go ahead and start hearing

passionate so go ahead and start hearing start listening around you listening to

start listening around you listening to

start listening around you listening to yourself

yourself

yourself whenever you say the word or challenge

whenever you say the word or challenge

whenever you say the word or challenge with end and create your possibilities

with end and create your possibilities

with end and create your possibilities thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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