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Eliminating the Shame and Stigma of Addiction | Kathryn Helgaas Burgum | TEDxFargo


I’m Katherine and I’m in long-term

I’m Katherine and I’m in long-term recovery with over 15 years of sobriety

recovery with over 15 years of sobriety

recovery with over 15 years of sobriety I met Susan when I tore to jail to learn

I met Susan when I tore to jail to learn

I met Susan when I tore to jail to learn about addiction in jails she was about

about addiction in jails she was about

about addiction in jails she was about to begin her prison term what Susan and

to begin her prison term what Susan and

to begin her prison term what Susan and I have in common is our addiction the

I have in common is our addiction the

I have in common is our addiction the disease of addiction is destroying lives

disease of addiction is destroying lives

disease of addiction is destroying lives families futures across every social and

families futures across every social and

families futures across every social and economic group in our country this year

economic group in our country this year

economic group in our country this year alone over 60,000 people will die of a

alone over 60,000 people will die of a

alone over 60,000 people will die of a drug overdose in the United States

drug overdose in the United States

drug overdose in the United States yes addiction is a disease scientists

yes addiction is a disease scientists

yes addiction is a disease scientists physicians and the US Surgeon General

physicians and the US Surgeon General

physicians and the US Surgeon General agree that addiction is a disease it’s a

agree that addiction is a disease it’s a

agree that addiction is a disease it’s a chronic brain disease that affects

chronic brain disease that affects

chronic brain disease that affects behavior Susan and I are like more than

behavior Susan and I are like more than

behavior Susan and I are like more than 20 million other people across our great

20 million other people across our great

20 million other people across our great nation who have the disease of drug or

nation who have the disease of drug or

nation who have the disease of drug or alcohol addiction back in the 1930s

alcohol addiction back in the 1930s

alcohol addiction back in the 1930s scientists began studying addictive

scientists began studying addictive

scientists began studying addictive behavior because people addicted to

behavior because people addicted to

behavior because people addicted to drugs and alcohol were thought to be

drugs and alcohol were thought to be

drugs and alcohol were thought to be morally flawed those views shaped

morally flawed those views shaped

morally flawed those views shaped society’s response to addiction treating

society’s response to addiction treating

society’s response to addiction treating it as a moral failure failure rather

it as a moral failure failure rather

it as a moral failure failure rather than a health problem which led to an

than a health problem which led to an

than a health problem which led to an emphasis on punishment rather than

emphasis on punishment rather than

emphasis on punishment rather than prevention and treatment alcohol

prevention and treatment alcohol

prevention and treatment alcohol addiction was declared disease by the

addiction was declared disease by the

addiction was declared disease by the American Medical Association way back in

American Medical Association way back in

American Medical Association way back in 1954 welcome to 2017 or addiction is

1954 welcome to 2017 or addiction is

1954 welcome to 2017 or addiction is still viewed by many as a lack of

still viewed by many as a lack of

still viewed by many as a lack of willpower or a character flaw and is

willpower or a character flaw and is

willpower or a character flaw and is amazingly approached with punishment

amazingly approached with punishment

amazingly approached with punishment rather than treatment in many community

rather than treatment in many community

rather than treatment in many community this punishment approach brings with it

this punishment approach brings with it

this punishment approach brings with it a powerful shame and stigma that

a powerful shame and stigma that

a powerful shame and stigma that influences our laws our services

influences our laws our services

influences our laws our services research care and support for people

research care and support for people

research care and support for people with the disease of addiction three

with the disease of addiction three

with the disease of addiction three words have deprived addicts of medical

words have deprived addicts of medical

words have deprived addicts of medical treatment empathy and compassion for

treatment empathy and compassion for

treatment empathy and compassion for decades or more like centuries shame

decades or more like centuries shame

decades or more like centuries shame stigma and discrimination the shame and

stigma and discrimination the shame and

stigma and discrimination the shame and stigma of being an alcoholic influenced

stigma of being an alcoholic influenced

stigma of being an alcoholic influenced my own decision to not seek treatment

my own decision to not seek treatment

my own decision to not seek treatment and to keep my disease hidden and I am

and to keep my disease hidden and I am

and to keep my disease hidden and I am not alone sadly only 1 in 10 people who

not alone sadly only 1 in 10 people who

not alone sadly only 1 in 10 people who need treatment for addiction actually

need treatment for addiction actually

need treatment for addiction actually seek treatment my drinking started in

seek treatment my drinking started in

seek treatment my drinking started in high school I knew as a teenager I

high school I knew as a teenager I

high school I knew as a teenager I didn’t drink like others I experienced

didn’t drink like others I experienced

didn’t drink like others I experienced my first blackout while in high school I

my first blackout while in high school I

my first blackout while in high school I struggled with alcohol related issues

struggled with alcohol related issues

struggled with alcohol related issues and episodes over the next 25 years I

and episodes over the next 25 years I

and episodes over the next 25 years I chose to live and work in cultures with

chose to live and work in cultures with

chose to live and work in cultures with excessive drinking I had no desire to

excessive drinking I had no desire to

excessive drinking I had no desire to attend events that didn’t have alcohol

attend events that didn’t have alcohol

attend events that didn’t have alcohol and I couldn’t imagine my life without

and I couldn’t imagine my life without

and I couldn’t imagine my life without alcohol I had a fairly successful life

alcohol I had a fairly successful life

alcohol I had a fairly successful life despite my constant struggle with my

despite my constant struggle with my

despite my constant struggle with my addiction and its impact on my career my

addiction and its impact on my career my

addiction and its impact on my career my family and my relationships but I could

family and my relationships but I could

family and my relationships but I could never reach my full potential with my

never reach my full potential with my

never reach my full potential with my addiction holding me back there came a

addiction holding me back there came a

addiction holding me back there came a time when I knew I needed to stop

time when I knew I needed to stop

time when I knew I needed to stop drinking but addiction is the powerful

drinking but addiction is the powerful

drinking but addiction is the powerful disease and it kept me drinking for many

disease and it kept me drinking for many

disease and it kept me drinking for many years I could achieve any goal I set for

years I could achieve any goal I set for

years I could achieve any goal I set for myself but I could not stop drinking

myself but I could not stop drinking

myself but I could not stop drinking even though I experienced many defeating

even though I experienced many defeating

even though I experienced many defeating demoralizing and

demoralizing and

demoralizing and baffling drunk episodes I thought I was

baffling drunk episodes I thought I was

baffling drunk episodes I thought I was insane I’d stop drinking for three

insane I’d stop drinking for three

insane I’d stop drinking for three months and then start again I’d stop for

months and then start again I’d stop for

months and then start again I’d stop for a year and then start drinking again and

a year and then start drinking again and

a year and then start drinking again and this happened for over a period of eight

this happened for over a period of eight

this happened for over a period of eight years I’m so grateful that my higher

years I’m so grateful that my higher

years I’m so grateful that my higher power kept asking me to pull on my boots

power kept asking me to pull on my boots

power kept asking me to pull on my boots and try again

and try again

and try again I finally became completely willing to

I finally became completely willing to

I finally became completely willing to do whatever it would take to get sober

do whatever it would take to get sober

do whatever it would take to get sober and when I became completely willing

and when I became completely willing

and when I became completely willing that’s when the miracle happened for me

that’s when the miracle happened for me

that’s when the miracle happened for me and I started staying sober I found a

and I started staying sober I found a

and I started staying sober I found a program that’s built on a foundation of

program that’s built on a foundation of

program that’s built on a foundation of gratitude helping others and a higher

gratitude helping others and a higher

gratitude helping others and a higher power and it changed my life I’ll

power and it changed my life I’ll

power and it changed my life I’ll forever be grateful to this program and

forever be grateful to this program and

forever be grateful to this program and its people for embracing me and helping

its people for embracing me and helping

its people for embracing me and helping me stay sober and it’s my sobriety and

me stay sober and it’s my sobriety and

me stay sober and it’s my sobriety and my role as first lady of North Dakota

my role as first lady of North Dakota

my role as first lady of North Dakota that has allowed me to shed light on

that has allowed me to shed light on

that has allowed me to shed light on this issue and visit firsthand those

this issue and visit firsthand those

this issue and visit firsthand those suffering and this is what I’ve learned

suffering and this is what I’ve learned

suffering and this is what I’ve learned the powerful the disease of addiction

the powerful the disease of addiction

the powerful the disease of addiction comes in many forms the disease of drug

comes in many forms the disease of drug

comes in many forms the disease of drug addiction has become a monster of

addiction has become a monster of

addiction has become a monster of gargantuan size with the opioid crisis

gargantuan size with the opioid crisis

gargantuan size with the opioid crisis these powerful drugs turn normal people

these powerful drugs turn normal people

these powerful drugs turn normal people into thieving conniving shells of who

into thieving conniving shells of who

into thieving conniving shells of who they once were and likely who they’ll

they once were and likely who they’ll

they once were and likely who they’ll never ever be again the brain chemistry

never ever be again the brain chemistry

never ever be again the brain chemistry are those addicted to opioids can be

are those addicted to opioids can be

are those addicted to opioids can be forever altered they may crave the drug

forever altered they may crave the drug

forever altered they may crave the drug for the rest of their lives opioid

for the rest of their lives opioid

for the rest of their lives opioid addiction starts for many when they are

addiction starts for many when they are

addiction starts for many when they are teenagers or adults with a doctor’s or a

teenagers or adults with a doctor’s or a

teenagers or adults with a doctor’s or a dentist prescription for pain medicine

dentist prescription for pain medicine

dentist prescription for pain medicine my niece was an all-state goalie in high

my niece was an all-state goalie in high

my niece was an all-state goalie in high school she injured her knee while

school she injured her knee while

school she injured her knee while playing hockey and was

playing hockey and was

playing hockey and was and pain medicine unbeknownst to me and

and pain medicine unbeknownst to me and

and pain medicine unbeknownst to me and her family she became addicted to

her family she became addicted to

her family she became addicted to opioids and she’s 23 now and I recently

opioids and she’s 23 now and I recently

opioids and she’s 23 now and I recently helped her find treatment for her

helped her find treatment for her

helped her find treatment for her addiction surprisingly one in four

addiction surprisingly one in four

addiction surprisingly one in four people addicted to opioids got their

people addicted to opioids got their

people addicted to opioids got their first pill from a doctor a friend or a

first pill from a doctor a friend or a

first pill from a doctor a friend or a relative 91 people died every day in the

relative 91 people died every day in the

relative 91 people died every day in the u.s. from an opioid overdose I met the

u.s. from an opioid overdose I met the

u.s. from an opioid overdose I met the parents of a boy who died of an opioid

parents of a boy who died of an opioid

parents of a boy who died of an opioid overdose in his car in a high school

overdose in his car in a high school

overdose in his car in a high school parking lot they were devastated by

parking lot they were devastated by

parking lot they were devastated by their son’s needless death however there

their son’s needless death however there

their son’s needless death however there was no one outpouring of community

was no one outpouring of community

was no one outpouring of community support like there would be for a

support like there would be for a

support like there would be for a teenager who died of cancer or in a car

teenager who died of cancer or in a car

teenager who died of cancer or in a car accident shame and stigma keep people

accident shame and stigma keep people

accident shame and stigma keep people away my friend Sheila knows the feeling

away my friend Sheila knows the feeling

away my friend Sheila knows the feeling of shame because her daughter has been

of shame because her daughter has been

of shame because her daughter has been addicted to heroin

addicted to heroin

addicted to heroin since she was 16 heroin is a cheaper

since she was 16 heroin is a cheaper

since she was 16 heroin is a cheaper Street version of an opioid drug Sheila

Street version of an opioid drug Sheila

Street version of an opioid drug Sheila told me recently that she called her

told me recently that she called her

told me recently that she called her daughter’s probation officer regularly

daughter’s probation officer regularly

daughter’s probation officer regularly hoping she would get arrested and sent

hoping she would get arrested and sent

hoping she would get arrested and sent to prison

to prison

to prison Sheila knew was the only way to save her

Sheila knew was the only way to save her

Sheila knew was the only way to save her daughter’s life

daughter’s life

daughter’s life Sheila’s daughter is now in prison

Sheila’s daughter is now in prison

Sheila’s daughter is now in prison Sheila knew that the only opportunity

Sheila knew that the only opportunity

Sheila knew that the only opportunity that her daughter would have for

that her daughter would have for

that her daughter would have for recovery was through medication assisted

recovery was through medication assisted

recovery was through medication assisted treatment but she was not able to get

treatment but she was not able to get

treatment but she was not able to get that treatment for many addicted to

that treatment for many addicted to

that treatment for many addicted to opioids or heroin their best hope for

opioids or heroin their best hope for

opioids or heroin their best hope for recovery and to live a normal life is

recovery and to live a normal life is

recovery and to live a normal life is medication assisted treatment

medication assisted treatment

medication assisted treatment medications may be taken daily for the

medications may be taken daily for the

medications may be taken daily for the rest of their lives to be able to live a

rest of their lives to be able to live a

rest of their lives to be able to live a normal life now I realize that the use

normal life now I realize that the use

normal life now I realize that the use of medication to treat addiction and

of medication to treat addiction and

of medication to treat addiction and help people reduce the

help people reduce the

help people reduce the cravings is controversial but I ask you

cravings is controversial but I ask you

cravings is controversial but I ask you to consider this this is similar to the

to consider this this is similar to the

to consider this this is similar to the disease of diabetes where insulin may

disease of diabetes where insulin may

disease of diabetes where insulin may need to be taken

need to be taken

need to be taken lifelong to keep diabetes in check to

lifelong to keep diabetes in check to

lifelong to keep diabetes in check to lead a healthy normal life addiction to

lead a healthy normal life addiction to

lead a healthy normal life addiction to methamphetamine is also destroying

methamphetamine is also destroying

methamphetamine is also destroying communities and families I know of a

communities and families I know of a

communities and families I know of a Native American tribal chairwoman who

Native American tribal chairwoman who

Native American tribal chairwoman who cared for her grandchild born addicted

cared for her grandchild born addicted

cared for her grandchild born addicted to meth the baby’s little hands were

to meth the baby’s little hands were

to meth the baby’s little hands were covered with tiny gloves to prevent her

covered with tiny gloves to prevent her

covered with tiny gloves to prevent her from scratching herself or pulling her

from scratching herself or pulling her

from scratching herself or pulling her hair out while going through meth

hair out while going through meth

hair out while going through meth withdrawal babies and children are the

withdrawal babies and children are the

withdrawal babies and children are the innocent victims of the devastation

innocent victims of the devastation

innocent victims of the devastation caused in our communities by untreated

caused in our communities by untreated

caused in our communities by untreated addiction many people addicted to drugs

addiction many people addicted to drugs

addiction many people addicted to drugs or alcohol end up in jail or prison

or alcohol end up in jail or prison

or alcohol end up in jail or prison because of addiction related crimes 65 %

because of addiction related crimes 65 %

because of addiction related crimes 65 % of people incarcerated in the US have an

of people incarcerated in the US have an

of people incarcerated in the US have an addiction and most of them need

addiction and most of them need

addiction and most of them need treatment and not incarceration during

treatment and not incarceration during

treatment and not incarceration during the past 30 years it was thought that

the past 30 years it was thought that

the past 30 years it was thought that more punishment meant less addiction

more punishment meant less addiction

more punishment meant less addiction addicts who are convicted of non-violent

addicts who are convicted of non-violent

addicts who are convicted of non-violent possession related crimes carry the

possession related crimes carry the

possession related crimes carry the extra burden and stigma of being a felon

extra burden and stigma of being a felon

extra burden and stigma of being a felon when they are released to a prison

when they are released to a prison

when they are released to a prison felons can’t find jobs they can’t find

felons can’t find jobs they can’t find

felons can’t find jobs they can’t find safe homes and in some states felons

safe homes and in some states felons

safe homes and in some states felons can’t live together in the same building

can’t live together in the same building

can’t live together in the same building this felony discrimination towards the

this felony discrimination towards the

this felony discrimination towards the disease of addiction perpetuates the

disease of addiction perpetuates the

disease of addiction perpetuates the cycle of addiction addiction is and

cycle of addiction addiction is and

cycle of addiction addiction is and should be viewed as a lifelong chronic

should be viewed as a lifelong chronic

should be viewed as a lifelong chronic disease like diabetes or heart disease

disease like diabetes or heart disease

disease like diabetes or heart disease 30 million children and adults in the US

30 million children and adults in the US

30 million children and adults in the US have diabetes in 2016

have diabetes in 2016

have diabetes in 2016 thirty-four million dollars was invested

thirty-four million dollars was invested

thirty-four million dollars was invested in research to find a cure the mission

in research to find a cure the mission

in research to find a cure the mission of the American Diabetes Association is

of the American Diabetes Association is

of the American Diabetes Association is to prevent and cure diabetes and to

to prevent and cure diabetes and to

to prevent and cure diabetes and to improve the lives of all people affected

improve the lives of all people affected

improve the lives of all people affected by diabetes think about this what if

by diabetes think about this what if

by diabetes think about this what if addiction could be viewed in our

addiction could be viewed in our

addiction could be viewed in our communities in the same way as diabetes

communities in the same way as diabetes

communities in the same way as diabetes and what if there was an American

and what if there was an American

and what if there was an American addiction association with this mission

addiction association with this mission

addiction association with this mission to prevent and cure addiction to love

to prevent and cure addiction to love

to prevent and cure addiction to love respect and care for all people in our

respect and care for all people in our

respect and care for all people in our communities affected by addiction

addiction needs to be treated and

addiction needs to be treated and embraced like any other chronic

embraced like any other chronic

embraced like any other chronic progressively fatal illness or disease

progressively fatal illness or disease

progressively fatal illness or disease before real changes can be made in our

before real changes can be made in our

before real changes can be made in our communities and before the shame and

communities and before the shame and

communities and before the shame and stigma can be eliminated this is my

stigma can be eliminated this is my

stigma can be eliminated this is my mission each and every day as an

mission each and every day as an

mission each and every day as an advocate and a recovering alcoholic I

advocate and a recovering alcoholic I

advocate and a recovering alcoholic I ask you to become advocates and bring

ask you to become advocates and bring

ask you to become advocates and bring your advocacy to the streets if you have

your advocacy to the streets if you have

your advocacy to the streets if you have an addiction start talking about it if

an addiction start talking about it if

an addiction start talking about it if you’re the caregiver of an addict

you’re the caregiver of an addict

you’re the caregiver of an addict have a child or loved one that has an

have a child or loved one that has an

have a child or loved one that has an addiction share this information with a

addiction share this information with a

addiction share this information with a person next to you today if you know

person next to you today if you know

person next to you today if you know someone who is suffering from alcohol

someone who is suffering from alcohol

someone who is suffering from alcohol meth or other or opioid or other

meth or other or opioid or other

meth or other or opioid or other addictions talk with them about it hug

addictions talk with them about it hug

addictions talk with them about it hug them every chance you get because they

them every chance you get because they

them every chance you get because they may not be there tomorrow

talking will remove the shame and the

talking will remove the shame and the stigma we can work together in every

stigma we can work together in every

stigma we can work together in every community and in every home to help save

community and in every home to help save

community and in every home to help save lives help those that have given up hope

lives help those that have given up hope

lives help those that have given up hope and help our communities start dreaming

and help our communities start dreaming

and help our communities start dreaming of the future again

of the future again

of the future again we are a nation in crisis and I stand

we are a nation in crisis and I stand

we are a nation in crisis and I stand here today asking all of you to help me

here today asking all of you to help me

here today asking all of you to help me lift the shame and stigma of addiction

lift the shame and stigma of addiction

lift the shame and stigma of addiction I’ll end with the saying from the Native

I’ll end with the saying from the Native

I’ll end with the saying from the Native American a jib way you cannot destroy

American a jib way you cannot destroy

American a jib way you cannot destroy one who is dreamed a dream like mine I’m

one who is dreamed a dream like mine I’m

one who is dreamed a dream like mine I’m dreaming of a bright future for our

dreaming of a bright future for our

dreaming of a bright future for our nation one where the American addiction

nation one where the American addiction

nation one where the American addiction Association has found a cure for

Association has found a cure for

Association has found a cure for addiction and where there is love

addiction and where there is love

addiction and where there is love support and kindness for people families

support and kindness for people families

support and kindness for people families and communities suffering from the

and communities suffering from the

and communities suffering from the disease of addiction thank you

[Music]

[Music] you

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