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Are We Defined by What We Do? | Cesar Harada | TEDxTurtleCove


Who am I really I am

Who am I really I am that believes that every single small

that believes that every single small

that believes that every single small action that we take is a lot more

action that we take is a lot more

action that we take is a lot more important than who we are who yars in

important than who we are who yars in

important than who we are who yars in how old we are our gender the color of

how old we are our gender the color of

how old we are our gender the color of our skin how much money we make doesn’t

our skin how much money we make doesn’t

our skin how much money we make doesn’t really matter to me and I’d like to

really matter to me and I’d like to

really matter to me and I’d like to share with you a story and how I came to

share with you a story and how I came to

share with you a story and how I came to learn about who I really am I’m 17

learn about who I really am I’m 17

learn about who I really am I’m 17 holding the hand of my girlfriend we are

holding the hand of my girlfriend we are

holding the hand of my girlfriend we are in the underground in the Train in Paris

in the underground in the Train in Paris

in the underground in the Train in Paris and we are waiting on the platform and

and we are waiting on the platform and

and we are waiting on the platform and we just got our graduation we just

we just got our graduation we just

we just got our graduation we just graduated from high school we’re very

graduated from high school we’re very

graduated from high school we’re very happy and I’m looking down into the

happy and I’m looking down into the

happy and I’m looking down into the tunnel and I can see that the train is

tunnel and I can see that the train is

tunnel and I can see that the train is coming but at the same time as I’m

coming but at the same time as I’m

coming but at the same time as I’m looking there’s a man that runs from

looking there’s a man that runs from

looking there’s a man that runs from behind of us and jumps headfirst and

behind of us and jumps headfirst and

behind of us and jumps headfirst and smashes his head on the on the rail on

smashes his head on the on the rail on

smashes his head on the on the rail on the ground and he’s had his shaking and

the ground and he’s had his shaking and

the ground and he’s had his shaking and bleeding on the electric rail and

bleeding on the electric rail and

bleeding on the electric rail and without thinking I jump on the rail and

without thinking I jump on the rail and

without thinking I jump on the rail and I kick his face out of the electric rail

I kick his face out of the electric rail

I kick his face out of the electric rail I grab his body I throw him off the rail

I grab his body I throw him off the rail

I grab his body I throw him off the rail and as the train is coming I jump to the

and as the train is coming I jump to the

and as the train is coming I jump to the other side and as I look backwards to

other side and as I look backwards to

other side and as I look backwards to see how my girlfriend is going I see

see how my girlfriend is going I see

see how my girlfriend is going I see that she’s fainting and she’s falling

that she’s fainting and she’s falling

that she’s fainting and she’s falling towards the Train the train track in

towards the Train the train track in

towards the Train the train track in this moment I do not know if my

this moment I do not know if my

this moment I do not know if my girlfriend has been hit by the train but

girlfriend has been hit by the train but

girlfriend has been hit by the train but I collect the guy’s body and I try to

I collect the guy’s body and I try to

I collect the guy’s body and I try to drag him up and some people on the

drag him up and some people on the

drag him up and some people on the platform help us to bring in to safety

platform help us to bring in to safety

platform help us to bring in to safety and he comes back to his senses very

and he comes back to his senses very

and he comes back to his senses very quickly and actually is trying to run

quickly and actually is trying to run

quickly and actually is trying to run away he doesn’t want to be taken care of

away he doesn’t want to be taken care of

away he doesn’t want to be taken care of and the train departs and I see that my

and the train departs and I see that my

and the train departs and I see that my girlfriend is there and she is fine she

girlfriend is there and she is fine she

girlfriend is there and she is fine she she was not her head was not hit by the

she was not her head was not hit by the

she was not her head was not hit by the train she’s surrounded by a stranger was

train she’s surrounded by a stranger was

train she’s surrounded by a stranger was trying to help her so in a blink of an

trying to help her so in a blink of an

trying to help her so in a blink of an eye I

eye I

eye I I saved this guy who was trying to kill

I saved this guy who was trying to kill

I saved this guy who was trying to kill himself here obviously and I almost

himself here obviously and I almost

himself here obviously and I almost killed myself and I almost killed the

killed myself and I almost killed the

killed myself and I almost killed the woman that I loved

woman that I loved

woman that I loved and so it was a pretty shocking moment

and so it was a pretty shocking moment

and so it was a pretty shocking moment but it kind of worked well in terms of

but it kind of worked well in terms of

but it kind of worked well in terms of how I was educated and my father’s

how I was educated and my father’s

how I was educated and my father’s Japanese my mom is French and so I grew

Japanese my mom is French and so I grew

Japanese my mom is French and so I grew up with the unspoken rule of Japanese

up with the unspoken rule of Japanese

up with the unspoken rule of Japanese tradition of

tradition of

tradition of Shido and in the tradition we are told

Shido and in the tradition we are told

Shido and in the tradition we are told that we have to respect all the people

that we have to respect all the people

that we have to respect all the people and they have to look for us they have

and they have to look for us they have

and they have to look for us they have to protect us to the point that they

to protect us to the point that they

to protect us to the point that they have to be willing to sacrifice their

have to be willing to sacrifice their

have to be willing to sacrifice their life to protect us and so it also works

life to protect us and so it also works

life to protect us and so it also works very well with the definition I came

very well with the definition I came

very well with the definition I came across recently of what is courage the

across recently of what is courage the

across recently of what is courage the definition says that courage is the

definition says that courage is the

definition says that courage is the willingness to sacrifice one’s own

willingness to sacrifice one’s own

willingness to sacrifice one’s own comfort or one’s own life for something

comfort or one’s own life for something

comfort or one’s own life for something greater than oneself but then for weeks

greater than oneself but then for weeks

greater than oneself but then for weeks after this incident happened with my

after this incident happened with my

after this incident happened with my girlfriend I had a lot of chances to

girlfriend I had a lot of chances to

girlfriend I had a lot of chances to exchange about what happened and her

exchange about what happened and her

exchange about what happened and her conclusion was that I cared as much

conclusion was that I cared as much

conclusion was that I cared as much about the life of a stranger if not more

about the life of a stranger if not more

about the life of a stranger if not more than about her life or are the expenses

than about her life or are the expenses

than about her life or are the expenses of her life and so that for me she

of her life and so that for me she

of her life and so that for me she wasn’t nothing special that’s what she

wasn’t nothing special that’s what she

wasn’t nothing special that’s what she felt and so we separated shortly after

felt and so we separated shortly after

felt and so we separated shortly after that and that was a very painful

that and that was a very painful

that and that was a very painful realization but also it helped me to

realization but also it helped me to

realization but also it helped me to discover something about myself is that

discover something about myself is that

discover something about myself is that I have this unbounded a sense of empathy

I have this unbounded a sense of empathy

I have this unbounded a sense of empathy how far do you extend your empathy your

how far do you extend your empathy your

how far do you extend your empathy your is it just for your family or is it for

is it just for your family or is it for

is it just for your family or is it for your countrymen in Hong Kong or is it

your countrymen in Hong Kong or is it

your countrymen in Hong Kong or is it for China or is it for people who look

for China or is it for people who look

for China or is it for people who look like you or is it for the humankind or

like you or is it for the humankind or

like you or is it for the humankind or is it with the animals maybe you a

is it with the animals maybe you a

is it with the animals maybe you a vegetarian or is it for the trees maybe

vegetarian or is it for the trees maybe

vegetarian or is it for the trees maybe you are care for the environment or

you are care for the environment or

you are care for the environment or maybe you feel very deeply moved when

maybe you feel very deeply moved when

maybe you feel very deeply moved when you see the power of a mountain or when

you see the power of a mountain or when

you see the power of a mountain or when you see a sunset maybe you feel that

you see a sunset maybe you feel that

you see a sunset maybe you feel that those are you know powerful experiences

those are you know powerful experiences

those are you know powerful experiences for you but these are human impulses

for you but these are human impulses

for you but these are human impulses these are human desires but a human

these are human desires but a human

these are human desires but a human needs are different and those things can

needs are different and those things can

needs are different and those things can either be the things I described before

either be the things I described before

either be the things I described before we are either instinctual so these are

we are either instinctual so these are

we are either instinctual so these are things that we have in ours or things

things that we have in ours or things

things that we have in ours or things that we can learn we can learn empathy

that we can learn we can learn empathy

that we can learn we can learn empathy and so if you look at human needs when

and so if you look at human needs when

and so if you look at human needs when we are born we discover quickly we need

we are born we discover quickly we need

we are born we discover quickly we need to be warm we need to eat we need to

to be warm we need to eat we need to

to be warm we need to eat we need to have a shelter and as we grow up we

have a shelter and as we grow up we

have a shelter and as we grow up we discover all these new needs that we

discover all these new needs that we

discover all these new needs that we that we have that we want to have money

that we have that we want to have money

that we have that we want to have money we want to have a nice house we want to

we want to have a nice house we want to

we want to have a nice house we want to belong to a family

belong to a family

belong to a family want to love as well we want to have

want to love as well we want to have

want to love as well we want to have recognition from our peers we want to

recognition from our peers we want to

recognition from our peers we want to achieve great things and we want maybe

achieve great things and we want maybe

achieve great things and we want maybe to aspire to some spirituality we want

to aspire to some spirituality we want

to aspire to some spirituality we want to understand why in our lives and what

to understand why in our lives and what

to understand why in our lives and what really fascinates me is that we have

really fascinates me is that we have

really fascinates me is that we have designed the whole world around our

designed the whole world around our

designed the whole world around our needs if you look at a society that’s

needs if you look at a society that’s

needs if you look at a society that’s based on agriculture it is there to

based on agriculture it is there to

based on agriculture it is there to supply our need for food and

supply our need for food and

supply our need for food and industrialization has allowed us to make

industrialization has allowed us to make

industrialization has allowed us to make our mental self building shelters and

our mental self building shelters and

our mental self building shelters and clothes to be easier and service helped

clothes to be easier and service helped

clothes to be easier and service helped us to get people closer and now we live

us to get people closer and now we live

us to get people closer and now we live in this kind of intermediary adolescent

in this kind of intermediary adolescent

in this kind of intermediary adolescent since what so many people call the age

since what so many people call the age

since what so many people call the age of data we have focused a lot about data

of data we have focused a lot about data

of data we have focused a lot about data and numbers but I believe that the

and numbers but I believe that the

and numbers but I believe that the future of our society is going to be a

future of our society is going to be a

future of our society is going to be a society of knowledge a creativity and

society of knowledge a creativity and

society of knowledge a creativity and eventually a society of wisdom but the

eventually a society of wisdom but the

eventually a society of wisdom but the question is how are we going to get

question is how are we going to get

question is how are we going to get there it seems that we are very still

there it seems that we are very still

there it seems that we are very still very far from a society of wisdom and a

very far from a society of wisdom and a

very far from a society of wisdom and a society that’s truly sustainable so Hong

society that’s truly sustainable so Hong

society that’s truly sustainable so Hong Kong is a very special place to be right

Kong is a very special place to be right

Kong is a very special place to be right now for many reasons but I’ll mention

now for many reasons but I’ll mention

now for many reasons but I’ll mention this is that Hong Kong is also at the at

this is that Hong Kong is also at the at

this is that Hong Kong is also at the at the heart of one what is going to become

the heart of one what is going to become

the heart of one what is going to become one of the world largest city it’s

one of the world largest city it’s

one of the world largest city it’s extremely rich but it’s extremely

extremely rich but it’s extremely

extremely rich but it’s extremely unequal as well it means that you have

unequal as well it means that you have

unequal as well it means that you have very rich people and very poor people I

very rich people and very poor people I

very rich people and very poor people I mean just look at a three young you see

mean just look at a three young you see

mean just look at a three young you see like all people that have been abandoned

like all people that have been abandoned

like all people that have been abandoned by the family scavenging the street to

by the family scavenging the street to

by the family scavenging the street to collect garbage between tesla’s and if

collect garbage between tesla’s and if

collect garbage between tesla’s and if you look at the states of development

you look at the states of development

you look at the states of development like we have the most materialistic

like we have the most materialistic

like we have the most materialistic society we have everything we need the

society we have everything we need the

society we have everything we need the logistics everything that is necessary

logistics everything that is necessary

logistics everything that is necessary but still one of the most wasteful and

but still one of the most wasteful and

but still one of the most wasteful and the least recycle one of the city that

the least recycle one of the city that

the least recycle one of the city that recycles the less so there’s this

recycles the less so there’s this

recycles the less so there’s this incredible capacity but the same time

incredible capacity but the same time

incredible capacity but the same time this incredible lack of love and empathy

this incredible lack of love and empathy

this incredible lack of love and empathy that exist in the city and so what I see

that exist in the city and so what I see

that exist in the city and so what I see is that it really exemplify a modern

is that it really exemplify a modern

is that it really exemplify a modern society and Hong Kong is at the

society and Hong Kong is at the

society and Hong Kong is at the forefront of that being a very mature

forefront of that being a very mature

forefront of that being a very mature society and it can pave the way and lead

society and it can pave the way and lead

society and it can pave the way and lead by example

by example

by example if it makes us the right choices the

if it makes us the right choices the

if it makes us the right choices the West society is that with

West society is that with

West society is that with it’s healthy environments if you don’t

it’s healthy environments if you don’t

it’s healthy environments if you don’t have clean air clean water to drink you

have clean air clean water to drink you

have clean air clean water to drink you can’t have healthy families you can’t

can’t have healthy families you can’t

can’t have healthy families you can’t have healthy companies if you don’t have

have healthy companies if you don’t have

have healthy companies if you don’t have healthy company you can’t build and

healthy company you can’t build and

healthy company you can’t build and maintain advanced technology and people

maintain advanced technology and people

maintain advanced technology and people think about money as the main point of

think about money as the main point of

think about money as the main point of focus but technology money is just a

focus but technology money is just a

focus but technology money is just a form of technology but a problem in our

form of technology but a problem in our

form of technology but a problem in our society is that money has become the

society is that money has become the

society is that money has become the center of the reason the motivation for

center of the reason the motivation for

center of the reason the motivation for making all our decisions and we are

making all our decisions and we are

making all our decisions and we are willing to sacrifice environment and

willing to sacrifice environment and

willing to sacrifice environment and sacrifi the left of many people for

sacrifi the left of many people for

sacrifi the left of many people for money but why I was talking about

money but why I was talking about

money but why I was talking about courage is I feel the courage is

courage is I feel the courage is

courage is I feel the courage is embedded in this arrow is the courage to

embedded in this arrow is the courage to

embedded in this arrow is the courage to admit that the only way we’re going to

admit that the only way we’re going to

admit that the only way we’re going to build a sustainable society is to change

build a sustainable society is to change

build a sustainable society is to change the order of priority if we want to have

the order of priority if we want to have

the order of priority if we want to have a society sustainable we need to invest

a society sustainable we need to invest

a society sustainable we need to invest in the foundation of our wealth in the

in the foundation of our wealth in the

in the foundation of our wealth in the foundation of our sustainability if we

foundation of our sustainability if we

foundation of our sustainability if we destroy the environment in people’s life

destroy the environment in people’s life

destroy the environment in people’s life we can do that for some time but

we can do that for some time but

we can do that for some time but eventually it will not it will not last

eventually it will not it will not last

eventually it will not it will not last you will break eventually so we’ve come

you will break eventually so we’ve come

you will break eventually so we’ve come to a point where I feel that you know we

to a point where I feel that you know we

to a point where I feel that you know we have all this way that people treat each

have all this way that people treat each

have all this way that people treat each other like men to women men to animals

other like men to women men to animals

other like men to women men to animals mentally environment in general but we

mentally environment in general but we

mentally environment in general but we have to realize that actually without

have to realize that actually without

have to realize that actually without this kind of systemic understanding that

this kind of systemic understanding that

this kind of systemic understanding that we are just part of nature will it would

we are just part of nature will it would

we are just part of nature will it would just not work and I want to be in a

just not work and I want to be in a

just not work and I want to be in a world where weights weights like this so

world where weights weights like this so

world where weights weights like this so this is a sentence that my father told

this is a sentence that my father told

this is a sentence that my father told me when I was a kid and I didn’t

me when I was a kid and I didn’t

me when I was a kid and I didn’t understand that really at the beginning

understand that really at the beginning

understand that really at the beginning he told me that everything is equal it

he told me that everything is equal it

he told me that everything is equal it means that my life is no more important

means that my life is no more important

means that my life is no more important than your life is not more important

than your life is not more important

than your life is not more important than your life it’s not more important

than your life it’s not more important

than your life it’s not more important than the life of the fish I just ate

than the life of the fish I just ate

than the life of the fish I just ate it’s not more important than life of

it’s not more important than life of

it’s not more important than life of trees that that you know that can heat

trees that that you know that can heat

trees that that you know that can heat us from the algae that give us the air

us from the algae that give us the air

us from the algae that give us the air that we can breathe that everything is

that we can breathe that everything is

that we can breathe that everything is alive so it’s another thing that my

alive so it’s another thing that my

alive so it’s another thing that my father told me from the Shinto tradition

father told me from the Shinto tradition

father told me from the Shinto tradition is that everything on the grand scale of

is that everything on the grand scale of

is that everything on the grand scale of the universe everything is constantly

the universe everything is constantly

the universe everything is constantly moving and at the small scale the

moving and at the small scale the

moving and at the small scale the universe also everything is moving at

universe also everything is moving at

universe also everything is moving at the atomic scale

the atomic scale

the atomic scale there’s only movement nothing stays in

there’s only movement nothing stays in

there’s only movement nothing stays in the same place so on the pure scientific

the same place so on the pure scientific

the same place so on the pure scientific definition of life this is not true

definition of life this is not true

definition of life this is not true everything is not alive in the strict

everything is not alive in the strict

everything is not alive in the strict definition of science but what is true

definition of science but what is true

definition of science but what is true in it

in it

in it in the in the spirit of science is that

in the in the spirit of science is that

in the in the spirit of science is that nature changes all the time we keep as a

nature changes all the time we keep as a

nature changes all the time we keep as a designer as a scientist we we keep

designer as a scientist we we keep

designer as a scientist we we keep pursuing trying to describe how the

pursuing trying to describe how the

pursuing trying to describe how the world functions and when we use the word

world functions and when we use the word

world functions and when we use the word natural order it reflects more about

natural order it reflects more about

natural order it reflects more about human hubris than how the world actually

human hubris than how the world actually

human hubris than how the world actually is beautiful and complicated and keeps

is beautiful and complicated and keeps

is beautiful and complicated and keeps changing and the discovery made

changing and the discovery made

changing and the discovery made centuries ago keeps being questioned and

centuries ago keeps being questioned and

centuries ago keeps being questioned and the truth that we hold today is going to

the truth that we hold today is going to

the truth that we hold today is going to be questioned in the future so to me is

be questioned in the future so to me is

be questioned in the future so to me is to understand who I really am

to understand who I really am

to understand who I really am comes down to this question to to to to

comes down to this question to to to to

comes down to this question to to to to those ideas sorry is I am somebody who

those ideas sorry is I am somebody who

those ideas sorry is I am somebody who believes that our instinct is to protect

believes that our instinct is to protect

believes that our instinct is to protect life and to love and to try to extend

life and to love and to try to extend

life and to love and to try to extend our sense of empathy as far as possible

our sense of empathy as far as possible

our sense of empathy as far as possible and that for me that’s the exercise our

and that for me that’s the exercise our

and that for me that’s the exercise our being a human and if the definition of

being a human and if the definition of

being a human and if the definition of courage is to be willing to sacrifice

courage is to be willing to sacrifice

courage is to be willing to sacrifice one’s own comfort and one’s owns life

one’s own comfort and one’s owns life

one’s own comfort and one’s owns life for something that is greater then I

for something that is greater then I

for something that is greater then I want to spend my life to understand and

want to spend my life to understand and

want to spend my life to understand and to learn how to be courageous and I want

to learn how to be courageous and I want

to learn how to be courageous and I want to help other people find their courage

to help other people find their courage

to help other people find their courage thank you very much

you

you [Applause]

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