imagine it’s winter 1993 side of Waco Texas you’re witnessing a brutal
Texas you’re witnessing a brutal
Texas you’re witnessing a brutal showdown between ATF and cult leader
showdown between ATF and cult leader
showdown between ATF and cult leader David Koresh as innocent lives are lost
David Koresh as innocent lives are lost
David Koresh as innocent lives are lost on both sides the smell of sulfur from
on both sides the smell of sulfur from
on both sides the smell of sulfur from all the shooting cuts into your nostrils
all the shooting cuts into your nostrils
all the shooting cuts into your nostrils so much so that you can taste metal in
so much so that you can taste metal in
so much so that you can taste metal in the back of your throat the hostage
the back of your throat the hostage
the back of your throat the hostage negotiators on the phone talking to
negotiators on the phone talking to
negotiators on the phone talking to David Koresh right now David if I could
David Koresh right now David if I could
David Koresh right now David if I could get your words read on the radio what
get your words read on the radio what
get your words read on the radio what would you say uh-huh
would you say uh-huh
would you say uh-huh you’re the Lamb of God and hunt you’re
you’re the Lamb of God and hunt you’re
you’re the Lamb of God and hunt you’re here to free the seven seals David
here to free the seven seals David
here to free the seven seals David you’re trustworthy and a man of your
you’re trustworthy and a man of your
you’re trustworthy and a man of your word right when David Koresh says yes to
word right when David Koresh says yes to
word right when David Koresh says yes to these two questions it is critical
these two questions it is critical
these two questions it is critical because it results in 18 children being
because it results in 18 children being
because it results in 18 children being freed every time David Koresh’s words
freed every time David Koresh’s words
freed every time David Koresh’s words were read on the radio two more children
were read on the radio two more children
were read on the radio two more children were released see when people feel they
were released see when people feel they
were released see when people feel they matter and belong cooperation will be
matter and belong cooperation will be
matter and belong cooperation will be strong Thanksgiving 2016 you’re in the
strong Thanksgiving 2016 you’re in the
strong Thanksgiving 2016 you’re in the suburbs of Washington DC a mother’s
suburbs of Washington DC a mother’s
suburbs of Washington DC a mother’s outside for 11 year old son’s room
outside for 11 year old son’s room
outside for 11 year old son’s room listening in she heard a faint click
listening in she heard a faint click
listening in she heard a faint click click click sound and she slowly opens
click click sound and she slowly opens
click click sound and she slowly opens the door she spots her son slumped over
the door she spots her son slumped over
the door she spots her son slumped over the bed the clicking came from a video
the bed the clicking came from a video
the bed the clicking came from a video game controller which was practically
game controller which was practically
game controller which was practically super glued to his hands the last five
super glued to his hands the last five
super glued to his hands the last five hours she loses her mind
hours she loses her mind
hours she loses her mind Angus for the love of God you are
Angus for the love of God you are
Angus for the love of God you are addicted to video games
she begins screaming at Angus for over
she begins screaming at Angus for over 20 minutes because Angus look
20 minutes because Angus look
20 minutes because Angus look up at her and said why what’d you say he
up at her and said why what’d you say he
up at her and said why what’d you say he wasn’t even listening
wasn’t even listening
wasn’t even listening the mother ruined Thanksgiving and when
the mother ruined Thanksgiving and when
the mother ruined Thanksgiving and when she stormed out of the room the little
she stormed out of the room the little
she stormed out of the room the little boys felt isolated and dejected a cult
boys felt isolated and dejected a cult
boys felt isolated and dejected a cult leader and an 11 year old boy who’s an
leader and an 11 year old boy who’s an
leader and an 11 year old boy who’s an addict perhaps you’re wondering what are
addict perhaps you’re wondering what are
addict perhaps you’re wondering what are these two stories have in common
these two stories have in common
these two stories have in common perhaps the better question is why are
perhaps the better question is why are
perhaps the better question is why are we saying good stuff to the bad guys and
we saying good stuff to the bad guys and
we saying good stuff to the bad guys and bad stuff to the good guys I wasn’t here
bad stuff to the good guys I wasn’t here
bad stuff to the good guys I wasn’t here with my fellow ATF colleagues in Waco
with my fellow ATF colleagues in Waco
with my fellow ATF colleagues in Waco Texas however that hostage negotiator
Texas however that hostage negotiator
Texas however that hostage negotiator Jim Cavanaugh years later became a
Jim Cavanaugh years later became a
Jim Cavanaugh years later became a mentor and friend to me see I’m the kind
mentor and friend to me see I’m the kind
mentor and friend to me see I’m the kind of person who can take you down with my
of person who can take you down with my
of person who can take you down with my words are you like me or do you know
words are you like me or do you know
words are you like me or do you know someone like me this has resulted and in
someone like me this has resulted and in
someone like me this has resulted and in travesties in college I got fired from a
travesties in college I got fired from a
travesties in college I got fired from a job I was mortified to call my parents
job I was mortified to call my parents
job I was mortified to call my parents my mother cried through the whole call
my mother cried through the whole call
my mother cried through the whole call when I worked for ATF my coworkers many
when I worked for ATF my coworkers many
when I worked for ATF my coworkers many of them were intimidated by me well that
of them were intimidated by me well that
of them were intimidated by me well that part I kind of liked a little see the
part I kind of liked a little see the
part I kind of liked a little see the way Jim Cavanaugh spoke to David Koresh
way Jim Cavanaugh spoke to David Koresh
way Jim Cavanaugh spoke to David Koresh inspired me to look at my world in a
inspired me to look at my world in a
inspired me to look at my world in a different way have you ever had a mentor
different way have you ever had a mentor
different way have you ever had a mentor that did that for you he inspired me to
that did that for you he inspired me to
that did that for you he inspired me to reexamine the way I deal with conflict
reexamine the way I deal with conflict
reexamine the way I deal with conflict and the way that I get people to
and the way that I get people to
and the way that I get people to cooperate what Jim Cavanaugh shared with
cooperate what Jim Cavanaugh shared with
cooperate what Jim Cavanaugh shared with me changed my life and I’m here to share
me changed my life and I’m here to share
me changed my life and I’m here to share it with you I call it the cooperation
it with you I call it the cooperation
it with you I call it the cooperation paradigm imagine how your lives would be
paradigm imagine how your lives would be
paradigm imagine how your lives would be different if you were able to tear down
different if you were able to tear down
different if you were able to tear down barriers to cooperation with everyone
barriers to cooperation with everyone
barriers to cooperation with everyone you interact with here’s how it works I
you interact with here’s how it works I
you interact with here’s how it works I thought we’d do a little experiment
thought we’d do a little experiment
thought we’d do a little experiment let’s imagine some of you are on your
let’s imagine some of you are on your
let’s imagine some of you are on your cell phones today I know it’s gonna be
cell phones today I know it’s gonna be
cell phones today I know it’s gonna be hard to imagine okay what I want to do
hard to imagine okay what I want to do
hard to imagine okay what I want to do is I’m pouring my heart out up here you
is I’m pouring my heart out up here you
is I’m pouring my heart out up here you not paying attention you’re on your cell
not paying attention you’re on your cell
not paying attention you’re on your cell phones here’s how I might address you
phones here’s how I might address you
phones here’s how I might address you very angrily not using the cooperation
very angrily not using the cooperation
very angrily not using the cooperation paradigm really sir you’re not even
paradigm really sir you’re not even
paradigm really sir you’re not even looking at me while I’m on stage and you
looking at me while I’m on stage and you
looking at me while I’m on stage and you people are on your cell phones who
people are on your cell phones who
people are on your cell phones who raised you you’re embarrassing yourself
raised you you’re embarrassing yourself
raised you you’re embarrassing yourself you’re so narcissistic and rude don’t
you’re so narcissistic and rude don’t
you’re so narcissistic and rude don’t ever think you’ll get a spot on this
ever think you’ll get a spot on this
ever think you’ll get a spot on this stage how’d that feel not so good right
stage how’d that feel not so good right
stage how’d that feel not so good right you don’t even know me I’m a stranger
you don’t even know me I’m a stranger
you don’t even know me I’m a stranger not to being pounded with this kind of
not to being pounded with this kind of
not to being pounded with this kind of negativity by your mother your father a
negativity by your mother your father a
negativity by your mother your father a teacher a mentor and they don’t even
teacher a mentor and they don’t even
teacher a mentor and they don’t even know they’re talking to you this way I’m
know they’re talking to you this way I’m
know they’re talking to you this way I’m a stranger stranger danger now let’s use
a stranger stranger danger now let’s use
a stranger stranger danger now let’s use the cooperation paradigm shake that off
the cooperation paradigm shake that off
the cooperation paradigm shake that off that didn’t feel so good
that didn’t feel so good
that didn’t feel so good same thing you’re on your phones here’s
same thing you’re on your phones here’s
same thing you’re on your phones here’s how a hostage negotiator might do it sir
how a hostage negotiator might do it sir
how a hostage negotiator might do it sir how are you enjoying today the 11:00
how are you enjoying today the 11:00
how are you enjoying today the 11:00 it’s fun right guys having fun today
it’s fun right guys having fun today
it’s fun right guys having fun today throughout the day yes yeah you got I
throughout the day yes yeah you got I
throughout the day yes yeah you got I love this audience I love there’s people
love this audience I love there’s people
love this audience I love there’s people in the back and you guys look like the
in the back and you guys look like the
in the back and you guys look like the kind of people who were able to
kind of people who were able to
kind of people who were able to cooperate because you respect what Ted
cooperate because you respect what Ted
cooperate because you respect what Ted stands for am i right you respect what
stands for am i right you respect what
stands for am i right you respect what Ted stands for not only are you saying
Ted stands for not only are you saying
Ted stands for not only are you saying yes you’re cheering and now you’ll put
yes you’re cheering and now you’ll put
yes you’re cheering and now you’ll put down your phones see what just happened
down your phones see what just happened
down your phones see what just happened is I positively primed your brain and
is I positively primed your brain and
is I positively primed your brain and now I can affect how you and perceive
now I can affect how you and perceive
now I can affect how you and perceive short-term thoughts and actions when I
short-term thoughts and actions when I
short-term thoughts and actions when I spoke to dr. Andrew Newberg he wrote the
spoke to dr. Andrew Newberg he wrote the
spoke to dr. Andrew Newberg he wrote the book how words can change your brain he
book how words can change your brain he
book how words can change your brain he explained to me that when we use
explained to me that when we use
explained to me that when we use negative tones and negative words like
negative tones and negative words like
negative tones and negative words like in my first example the amygdala fires
in my first example the amygdala fires
in my first example the amygdala fires in our brain the amygdala is like the
in our brain the amygdala is like the
in our brain the amygdala is like the incident commander and law-enforcement
incident commander and law-enforcement
incident commander and law-enforcement monitoring the scene of the crime
monitoring the scene of the crime
monitoring the scene of the crime looking for any subtle increase in
looking for any subtle increase in
looking for any subtle increase in danger when here’s negative tones and
danger when here’s negative tones and
danger when here’s negative tones and negative words
negative words
negative words the threat level spikes go ahead and get
the threat level spikes go ahead and get
the threat level spikes go ahead and get me an explosion of chemicals related to
me an explosion of chemicals related to
me an explosion of chemicals related to fear anxiety and sadness over you’re not
fear anxiety and sadness over you’re not
fear anxiety and sadness over you’re not hearing me
hearing me
hearing me you’re too busy fearing me however when
you’re too busy fearing me however when
you’re too busy fearing me however when the brain hears positive tones and
the brain hears positive tones and
the brain hears positive tones and positive words the threat
positive words the threat
positive words the threat goes down in the amygdala makes a
goes down in the amygdala makes a
goes down in the amygdala makes a different call prefrontal cortex are you
different call prefrontal cortex are you
different call prefrontal cortex are you out there good buddies for prefrontal
out there good buddies for prefrontal
out there good buddies for prefrontal cortex over the prefrontal cortex is the
cortex over the prefrontal cortex is the
cortex over the prefrontal cortex is the calm and clear hostage negotiator of the
calm and clear hostage negotiator of the
calm and clear hostage negotiator of the brain strategic and it takes over well
brain strategic and it takes over well
brain strategic and it takes over well this is their prefrontal cortex I can
this is their prefrontal cortex I can
this is their prefrontal cortex I can take it from here buddy now you’re
take it from here buddy now you’re
take it from here buddy now you’re hearing me because your brain and body
hearing me because your brain and body
hearing me because your brain and body are in harmony does that make sense
are in harmony does that make sense
are in harmony does that make sense no wonder why Angus didn’t hear a word
no wonder why Angus didn’t hear a word
no wonder why Angus didn’t hear a word his mother said she came in screaming
his mother said she came in screaming
his mother said she came in screaming with negative tones and negative words I
with negative tones and negative words I
with negative tones and negative words I think the former prime minister of India
think the former prime minister of India
think the former prime minister of India put it best Indira Gandhi when she said
put it best Indira Gandhi when she said
put it best Indira Gandhi when she said you can’t shake hands with a clenched
you can’t shake hands with a clenched
you can’t shake hands with a clenched fist let’s pull the curtain back a
fist let’s pull the curtain back a
fist let’s pull the curtain back a little further to how the cooperation
little further to how the cooperation
little further to how the cooperation paradigm works so you ready yeah say yes
paradigm works so you ready yeah say yes
paradigm works so you ready yeah say yes Janeane he writes how it goes
Janeane he writes how it goes
Janeane he writes how it goes we’ll go back to the cooperation
we’ll go back to the cooperation
we’ll go back to the cooperation paradigm when I use it with you first I
paradigm when I use it with you first I
paradigm when I use it with you first I said to this handsome gentleman right
said to this handsome gentleman right
said to this handsome gentleman right here
here
here I said how are you enjoying the day
I said how are you enjoying the day
I said how are you enjoying the day right enjoy the day and I said is it fun
right enjoy the day and I said is it fun
right enjoy the day and I said is it fun I’m asking positive questions and notice
I’m asking positive questions and notice
I’m asking positive questions and notice how I said how when you weren’t conflict
how I said how when you weren’t conflict
how I said how when you weren’t conflict with someone or you want them to
with someone or you want them to
with someone or you want them to cooperate use what and how questions not
cooperate use what and how questions not
cooperate use what and how questions not why questions why questions come across
why questions why questions come across
why questions why questions come across as you’re judging me why did he get your
as you’re judging me why did he get your
as you’re judging me why did he get your haircut why’d you hang that chandelier
haircut why’d you hang that chandelier
haircut why’d you hang that chandelier over your dining room table why for the
over your dining room table why for the
over your dining room table why for the love of God are you giving him another
love of God are you giving him another
love of God are you giving him another chance do you feel it the judgment so my
chance do you feel it the judgment so my
chance do you feel it the judgment so my motto is allow what and how and say bye
motto is allow what and how and say bye
motto is allow what and how and say bye to why repeat after me Allah what and
to why repeat after me Allah what and
to why repeat after me Allah what and how and say buh-bye why do this go
how and say buh-bye why do this go
how and say buh-bye why do this go bye-bye wife ya know why Allah what and
bye-bye wife ya know why Allah what and
bye-bye wife ya know why Allah what and how say bye to why the second step is I
how say bye to why the second step is I
how say bye to why the second step is I assigned you two traits I wanted you to
assigned you two traits I wanted you to
assigned you two traits I wanted you to have maybe you heard it I said what you
have maybe you heard it I said what you
have maybe you heard it I said what you look like the kind of audience who’s
look like the kind of audience who’s
look like the kind of audience who’s able to pay attention because what you
able to pay attention because what you
able to pay attention because what you respect what Ted stands for now I’ve
respect what Ted stands for now I’ve
respect what Ted stands for now I’ve assigned you the traits your brain has
assigned you the traits your brain has
assigned you the traits your brain has been primed I can influence your
been primed I can influence your
been primed I can influence your short-term thoughts and ultimately
short-term thoughts and ultimately
short-term thoughts and ultimately down your phone and not feel judged
let’s go back to that little 11 year old
let’s go back to that little 11 year old boy outside of Washington DC Angus
boy outside of Washington DC Angus
boy outside of Washington DC Angus my son I definitely did not bring my
my son I definitely did not bring my
my son I definitely did not bring my a-game to my parenting approach that
a-game to my parenting approach that
a-game to my parenting approach that Thanksgiving thankfully my college
Thanksgiving thankfully my college
Thanksgiving thankfully my college roommate was visiting me when I was done
roommate was visiting me when I was done
roommate was visiting me when I was done – screaming like a lunatic she gave me a
– screaming like a lunatic she gave me a
– screaming like a lunatic she gave me a hug we’re on the hug program she hugged
hug we’re on the hug program she hugged
hug we’re on the hug program she hugged me just Janine I love you honey but you
me just Janine I love you honey but you
me just Janine I love you honey but you need to talk to Angus like a hostage
need to talk to Angus like a hostage
need to talk to Angus like a hostage negotiator like you teach law
negotiator like you teach law
negotiator like you teach law enforcement and human resources
enforcement and human resources
enforcement and human resources you taught me Janine when people feel
you taught me Janine when people feel
you taught me Janine when people feel they matter and belong cooperation will
they matter and belong cooperation will
they matter and belong cooperation will be strong she added when you say he’s
be strong she added when you say he’s
be strong she added when you say he’s addicted to video games you’re calling
addicted to video games you’re calling
addicted to video games you’re calling him an addict how many of you have said
him an addict how many of you have said
him an addict how many of you have said words and anger and you didn’t even
words and anger and you didn’t even
words and anger and you didn’t even think of the words that came out of your
think of the words that came out of your
think of the words that came out of your mouth we’ve been there right well
mouth we’ve been there right well
mouth we’ve been there right well thankfully I had that pep talk in a nick
thankfully I had that pep talk in a nick
thankfully I had that pep talk in a nick of time because a week went by and my
of time because a week went by and my
of time because a week went by and my sister called the youngest I’m the
sister called the youngest I’m the
sister called the youngest I’m the oldest of three girls and I’m on the
oldest of three girls and I’m on the
oldest of three girls and I’m on the phone with her and I’m never forgets a
phone with her and I’m never forgets a
phone with her and I’m never forgets a quick thing started again faintly
quick thing started again faintly
quick thing started again faintly through the wall I’m like you gotta be
through the wall I’m like you gotta be
through the wall I’m like you gotta be kidding me
kidding me
kidding me so I said to my sister hold on I put her
so I said to my sister hold on I put her
so I said to my sister hold on I put her in my pocket and I I get ready to go
in my pocket and I I get ready to go
in my pocket and I I get ready to go into anguses room and I stopped and I
into anguses room and I stopped and I
into anguses room and I stopped and I pause what do I want to assign him what
pause what do I want to assign him what
pause what do I want to assign him what question do I want to ask him and I went
question do I want to ask him and I went
question do I want to ask him and I went into his room I went in for the wind
into his room I went in for the wind
into his room I went in for the wind when I went in I went over to Angus and
when I went in I went over to Angus and
when I went in I went over to Angus and I said hey honey
I said hey honey
I said hey honey how are you doing he said good I go what
how are you doing he said good I go what
how are you doing he said good I go what kind of game are you playing notice I’m
kind of game are you playing notice I’m
kind of game are you playing notice I’m using how and what questions he goes
using how and what questions he goes
using how and what questions he goes it’s mom be Apokolips mom it’s awesome
it’s mom be Apokolips mom it’s awesome
it’s mom be Apokolips mom it’s awesome tells me all about it
tells me all about it
tells me all about it then I said how do you win the game
then I said how do you win the game
then I said how do you win the game Angus do you have to do you have to hide
Angus do you have to do you have to hide
Angus do you have to do you have to hide from the zombies or kill the zombies he
from the zombies or kill the zombies he
from the zombies or kill the zombies he said oh no you got to do both I go so
said oh no you got to do both I go so
said oh no you got to do both I go so you understand the importance of balance
you understand the importance of balance
you understand the importance of balance I just did what a signed on my first
I just did what a signed on my first
I just did what a signed on my first trade and then I said as a matter of
trade and then I said as a matter of
trade and then I said as a matter of fact you’re so strategic Angus even your
fact you’re so strategic Angus even your
fact you’re so strategic Angus even your teachers tell me you make smart
teachers tell me you make smart
teachers tell me you make smart decisions isn’t this true when Angus
decisions isn’t this true when Angus
decisions isn’t this true when Angus gives me these two yeses they’re
gives me these two yeses they’re
gives me these two yeses they’re critical
critical
critical because it results in Angus putting down
because it results in Angus putting down
because it results in Angus putting down his video game controller and saying
his video game controller and saying
his video game controller and saying I’ve been kind of doing this for a while
I’ve been kind of doing this for a while
I’ve been kind of doing this for a while I think I’ll go out swimming drama-free
hello
hello I forgot my sister’s in my pocket I
I forgot my sister’s in my pocket I
I forgot my sister’s in my pocket I think it’s on pause and mute and it’s
think it’s on pause and mute and it’s
think it’s on pause and mute and it’s not she’s a mother of three girl she
not she’s a mother of three girl she
not she’s a mother of three girl she heard every single word I said when I
heard every single word I said when I
heard every single word I said when I picked up the phone I’ll never forget
picked up the phone I’ll never forget
picked up the phone I’ll never forget these wise words she said to me you have
these wise words she said to me you have
these wise words she said to me you have got to be me because she walks
got to be me because she walks
got to be me because she walks around assigning her daughter’s the
around assigning her daughter’s the
around assigning her daughter’s the traits she doesn’t want to have and she
traits she doesn’t want to have and she
traits she doesn’t want to have and she doesn’t even realize what she’s saying
doesn’t even realize what she’s saying
doesn’t even realize what she’s saying Janine how did you do that dude and I
Janine how did you do that dude and I
Janine how did you do that dude and I responded I’m not telling you you don’t
responded I’m not telling you you don’t
responded I’m not telling you you don’t have to be a hostage negotiator in law
have to be a hostage negotiator in law
have to be a hostage negotiator in law enforcement to use the cooperation
enforcement to use the cooperation
enforcement to use the cooperation paradigm you just need to have with Jim
paradigm you just need to have with Jim
paradigm you just need to have with Jim Cavanaugh house and I see it in all of
Cavanaugh house and I see it in all of
Cavanaugh house and I see it in all of you today kindness are you kind all you
you today kindness are you kind all you
you today kindness are you kind all you need is a little kindness here’s how it
need is a little kindness here’s how it
need is a little kindness here’s how it works I want you to rally your inner
works I want you to rally your inner
works I want you to rally your inner hostage negotiator the next time you
hostage negotiator the next time you
hostage negotiator the next time you have a conflict do you want someone to
have a conflict do you want someone to
have a conflict do you want someone to cooperate and I want you to remember the
cooperate and I want you to remember the
cooperate and I want you to remember the three steps one ask a positive question
three steps one ask a positive question
three steps one ask a positive question using a how or what and say by do i
using a how or what and say by do i
using a how or what and say by do i David Koresh was asked by Jim Cavanaugh
David Koresh was asked by Jim Cavanaugh
David Koresh was asked by Jim Cavanaugh what do you want your words to be if I
what do you want your words to be if I
what do you want your words to be if I could get them read on the radio step to
could get them read on the radio step to
could get them read on the radio step to a sign that the person in your life a
a sign that the person in your life a
a sign that the person in your life a positive trait you want them to have Jim
positive trait you want them to have Jim
positive trait you want them to have Jim Cavanaugh said to David Koresh you’re
Cavanaugh said to David Koresh you’re
Cavanaugh said to David Koresh you’re trustworthy and a man of your word
trustworthy and a man of your word
trustworthy and a man of your word right step three get them to agree this
right step three get them to agree this
right step three get them to agree this is where their brain has been positively
is where their brain has been positively
is where their brain has been positively primed and you can get them to cooperate
primed and you can get them to cooperate
primed and you can get them to cooperate I was going to end my talk today with a
I was going to end my talk today with a
I was going to end my talk today with a completely different ending and
completely different ending and
completely different ending and yesterday we had a rehearsal in here
yesterday we had a rehearsal in here
yesterday we had a rehearsal in here dress rehearsal all the speakers and we
dress rehearsal all the speakers and we
dress rehearsal all the speakers and we got feedback and Angus is with me here
got feedback and Angus is with me here
got feedback and Angus is with me here in this trip we came in from Washington
in this trip we came in from Washington
in this trip we came in from Washington DC and after I spoke I went out in the
DC and after I spoke I went out in the
DC and after I spoke I went out in the hall and he came up to me Andy ghost
hall and he came up to me Andy ghost
hall and he came up to me Andy ghost month you did a pretty good job
month you did a pretty good job
month you did a pretty good job there I go thanks Angus he goes yeah and
there I go thanks Angus he goes yeah and
there I go thanks Angus he goes yeah and tomorrow when you do the wheel talk I
tomorrow when you do the wheel talk I
tomorrow when you do the wheel talk I won’t tell anyone the part you made up
the part that’s not true I was like um
the part that’s not true I was like um this is awkward because other speakers
this is awkward because other speakers
this is awkward because other speakers around me ah thank saying yes what’s the
around me ah thank saying yes what’s the
around me ah thank saying yes what’s the part I made up and he said you didn’t
part I made up and he said you didn’t
part I made up and he said you didn’t ruin Thanksgiving we had a great
ruin Thanksgiving we had a great
ruin Thanksgiving we had a great Thanksgiving and I don’t even remember
Thanksgiving and I don’t even remember
Thanksgiving and I don’t even remember you yelling at me sometimes the weight
you yelling at me sometimes the weight
you yelling at me sometimes the weight we give to the things we said to people
we give to the things we said to people
we give to the things we said to people in the past is way more exaggerated than
in the past is way more exaggerated than
in the past is way more exaggerated than reality so whoever’s coming into your
reality so whoever’s coming into your
reality so whoever’s coming into your head while I’m on stage whether you’re
head while I’m on stage whether you’re
head while I’m on stage whether you’re thinking of the last word you said to
thinking of the last word you said to
thinking of the last word you said to your mother or something you said to
your mother or something you said to
your mother or something you said to your father earlier today or your
your father earlier today or your
your father earlier today or your significant other or even your son or
significant other or even your son or
significant other or even your son or daughter how about you forgive yourself
daughter how about you forgive yourself
daughter how about you forgive yourself because the cooperation paradigm isn’t
because the cooperation paradigm isn’t
because the cooperation paradigm isn’t about yesterday or an hour ago it’s
about yesterday or an hour ago it’s
about yesterday or an hour ago it’s about right now and what you do tomorrow
about right now and what you do tomorrow
about right now and what you do tomorrow and the days beyond I believe small acts
and the days beyond I believe small acts
and the days beyond I believe small acts can change the world this is my Angus
can change the world this is my Angus
can change the world this is my Angus who’s your Angus
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