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How the World taught me to be Bold and Beautiful. | Tiffany Brar | TEDxVazhuthacaud


[Music]

[Music] hello everyone hello everyone

hello everyone hello everyone

hello everyone hello everyone am i audible loud and clear can you

am i audible loud and clear can you

am i audible loud and clear can you believe that this boy never crossed the

believe that this boy never crossed the

believe that this boy never crossed the threshold and classroom he has never

threshold and classroom he has never

threshold and classroom he has never been to school

been to school

been to school yet he speaks English he uses a phone

yet he speaks English he uses a phone

yet he speaks English he uses a phone he’s a computer he does all these things

he’s a computer he does all these things

he’s a computer he does all these things as well as any other educated people why

as well as any other educated people why

as well as any other educated people why and how because of his sheer

and how because of his sheer

and how because of his sheer determination his determination to

determination his determination to

determination his determination to change his life and he first came to

change his life and he first came to

change his life and he first came to Jordan a male he thought his life was a

Jordan a male he thought his life was a

Jordan a male he thought his life was a complete waste

complete waste

complete waste he thought he was a complete gone up

he thought he was a complete gone up

he thought he was a complete gone up because everyone had told him he’s

because everyone had told him he’s

because everyone had told him he’s useless

useless

useless he cannot do a thing because he’s

he cannot do a thing because he’s

he cannot do a thing because he’s uneducated

I spoke to him I counseled him and I

I spoke to him I counseled him and I told him that your life is in your hands

told him that your life is in your hands

told him that your life is in your hands it’s not too late unleash

it’s not too late unleash

it’s not too late unleash so what have you’ve not been to school

so what have you’ve not been to school

so what have you’ve not been to school you can still go you can still study you

you can still go you can still study you

you can still go you can still study you can still do a lot of things it’s up to

can still do a lot of things it’s up to

can still do a lot of things it’s up to you it’s up to us I grew up I studied

you it’s up to us I grew up I studied

you it’s up to us I grew up I studied hard I wanted to make that change

hard I wanted to make that change

hard I wanted to make that change but then in the path of my growth

but then in the path of my growth

but then in the path of my growth I lost one of my most important building

I lost one of my most important building

I lost one of my most important building blocks my mother herself

and then I thought I have another

and then I thought I have another building block my father but

building block my father but

building block my father but unfortunately he had to respond to his

unfortunately he had to respond to his

unfortunately he had to respond to his call of the nation he had to go or the

call of the nation he had to go or the

call of the nation he had to go or the Kargil war

Kargil war

Kargil war I was again left alone at a crosswalk

I was again left alone at a crosswalk

I was again left alone at a crosswalk dejected who will I turn to now but

dejected who will I turn to now but

dejected who will I turn to now but still a little voice was winging inside

still a little voice was winging inside

still a little voice was winging inside me don’t give up don’t give up go ahead

me don’t give up don’t give up go ahead

me don’t give up don’t give up go ahead it’s never too late keep your hopes high

it’s never too late keep your hopes high

it’s never too late keep your hopes high I did just that I kept my hopes high I

I did just that I kept my hopes high I

I did just that I kept my hopes high I completed my studies then I went on you

completed my studies then I went on you

completed my studies then I went on you might be a special education because I

might be a special education because I

might be a special education because I wanted to fulfill my dream of changing

wanted to fulfill my dream of changing

wanted to fulfill my dream of changing that glass room set up bringing those

that glass room set up bringing those

that glass room set up bringing those back benchers to the front bench it

back benchers to the front bench it

back benchers to the front bench it wasn’t easy

wasn’t easy

wasn’t easy I started my project as a global blind

I started my project as a global blind

I started my project as a global blind school

school

school and that means that I was traveling

and that means that I was traveling

and that means that I was traveling through houses of blind people in the

through houses of blind people in the

through houses of blind people in the groups and corners of Kerala I went

groups and corners of Kerala I went

groups and corners of Kerala I went there holes I spoke to them I spoke to

there holes I spoke to them I spoke to

there holes I spoke to them I spoke to their parents they were also discouraged

their parents they were also discouraged

their parents they were also discouraged in discriminating detective I counsel

in discriminating detective I counsel

in discriminating detective I counsel Bremen on tried to instill in them the

Bremen on tried to instill in them the

Bremen on tried to instill in them the confidence that they can be front

confidence that they can be front

confidence that they can be front benchers they can be superheroes

all of them understood some parents

all of them understood some parents began to understand that I was talking

began to understand that I was talking

began to understand that I was talking since but some thought I was talking

since but some thought I was talking

since but some thought I was talking computer

I went to some of those schools and I

I went to some of those schools and I saw many backbenchers and many teachers

saw many backbenchers and many teachers

saw many backbenchers and many teachers who reminded me of my old teacher

who reminded me of my old teacher

who reminded me of my old teacher I try to speak to them too I try to make

I try to speak to them too I try to make

I try to speak to them too I try to make that change some accepted it some more

that change some accepted it some more

that change some accepted it some more I continued I continued tell myself it’s

I continued I continued tell myself it’s

I continued I continued tell myself it’s never too late

never too late

never too late don’t give up these were the words that

don’t give up these were the words that

don’t give up these were the words that instilled in that drive to make that

instilled in that drive to make that

instilled in that drive to make that change

change

change I expanded my project I started a

I expanded my project I started a

I expanded my project I started a training center and now we have a

training center and now we have a

training center and now we have a Cineplex training center where we train

Cineplex training center where we train

Cineplex training center where we train blind people in all those skills they

blind people in all those skills they

blind people in all those skills they need to come to the front bench to be

need to come to the front bench to be

need to come to the front bench to be useful and productive citizens to come

useful and productive citizens to come

useful and productive citizens to come where to come to that front bench to

where to come to that front bench to

where to come to that front bench to leave the back bench behind

leave the back bench behind

leave the back bench behind not only in school but in their lives

not only in school but in their lives

not only in school but in their lives yes this is how Aneesh has now half of

yes this is how Aneesh has now half of

yes this is how Aneesh has now half of the front pitch

the front pitch

the front pitch despite I’m not going to school not seen

despite I’m not going to school not seen

despite I’m not going to school not seen a classroom yes I’m sure you all heard

a classroom yes I’m sure you all heard

a classroom yes I’m sure you all heard the waiting speaks English right yes

the waiting speaks English right yes

the waiting speaks English right yes that is the change that is change

that is the change that is change

that is the change that is change but we all need two hands to clap two

but we all need two hands to clap two

but we all need two hands to clap two stones to strike a fire it’s not only us

stones to strike a fire it’s not only us

stones to strike a fire it’s not only us it’s not only the government all of us

it’s not only the government all of us

it’s not only the government all of us just sit there and say all our lives are

just sit there and say all our lives are

just sit there and say all our lives are so bad oh the government should do this

so bad oh the government should do this

so bad oh the government should do this but it’s not only the government it’s we

but it’s not only the government it’s we

but it’s not only the government it’s we who have to do it along with above that

I travel from state to state country to

I travel from state to state country to country unaided with my wife came that I

country unaided with my wife came that I

country unaided with my wife came that I hope right now

hope right now

hope right now and during one of these troubles are

and during one of these troubles are

and during one of these troubles are going to Europe I participated in a

going to Europe I participated in a

going to Europe I participated in a discussion at the European Parliament

discussion at the European Parliament

discussion at the European Parliament about disabilities and changemakers I

about disabilities and changemakers I

about disabilities and changemakers I also saw the European rolls they were

also saw the European rolls they were

also saw the European rolls they were great they were accessible they were

great they were accessible they were

great they were accessible they were small

small

small there were guidelines of the goals they

there were guidelines of the goals they

there were guidelines of the goals they were buttons that help us to cross the

were buttons that help us to cross the

were buttons that help us to cross the road without help for the first time in

road without help for the first time in

road without help for the first time in my life I could cross a road without a

my life I could cross a road without a

my life I could cross a road without a care in the world no cars coming in

care in the world no cars coming in

care in the world no cars coming in front or behind I pressed the button I

front or behind I pressed the button I

front or behind I pressed the button I heard the sound and across the road was

heard the sound and across the road was

heard the sound and across the road was great I was thrilled a lot of people

great I was thrilled a lot of people

great I was thrilled a lot of people told me I’ll stay here you’ll get a job

told me I’ll stay here you’ll get a job

told me I’ll stay here you’ll get a job I was like no I have to go back to my

I was like no I have to go back to my

I was like no I have to go back to my country and try to take something for

country and try to take something for

country and try to take something for you guys and try to implement it in my

you guys and try to implement it in my

you guys and try to implement it in my own country I came back

and I met our honorable governor I spoke

and I met our honorable governor I spoke to him about the problems that we face

to him about the problems that we face

to him about the problems that we face about accessibility

about accessibility

about accessibility according to article 9 of the UNCRPD we

according to article 9 of the UNCRPD we

according to article 9 of the UNCRPD we have equal rights to excess goods and

have equal rights to excess goods and

have equal rights to excess goods and services everything should be accessible

services everything should be accessible

services everything should be accessible buildings food services public places

buildings food services public places

buildings food services public places transport everything how we’re really

transport everything how we’re really

transport everything how we’re really doing that have you seen the food

doing that have you seen the food

doing that have you seen the food passenger manual

passenger manual

passenger manual do they look like footpaths today

why can a blind person can any of you

why can a blind person can any of you close your eyes and walk on that

close your eyes and walk on that

close your eyes and walk on that footpath

footpath

footpath no because it’s full of slabs and stones

no because it’s full of slabs and stones

no because it’s full of slabs and stones and sticks and water pools you name it

and sticks and water pools you name it

and sticks and water pools you name it it’s there except a proper place to go

it’s there except a proper place to go

it’s there except a proper place to go this is a hindrance

this is a hindrance

this is a hindrance I hope the government does but the

I hope the government does but the

I hope the government does but the government can only do something if some

government can only do something if some

government can only do something if some people like us not only me but we blind

people like us not only me but we blind

people like us not only me but we blind people make our voices heard we are not

people make our voices heard we are not

people make our voices heard we are not doing that we are just sitting in the

doing that we are just sitting in the

doing that we are just sitting in the four walls of our houses waiting for

four walls of our houses waiting for

four walls of our houses waiting for everyone to do something for us the

everyone to do something for us the

everyone to do something for us the supermarkets in Europe they are

supermarkets in Europe they are

supermarkets in Europe they are accessible the price tags of things are

accessible the price tags of things are

accessible the price tags of things are written in Braille people help us as

written in Braille people help us as

written in Braille people help us as soon as we enter that supermarket people

soon as we enter that supermarket people

soon as we enter that supermarket people are helping us they’re asking us what we

are helping us they’re asking us what we

are helping us they’re asking us what we want why because blind people regularly

want why because blind people regularly

want why because blind people regularly go there they buy things for themselves

go there they buy things for themselves

go there they buy things for themselves here we depend on someone to take us to

here we depend on someone to take us to

here we depend on someone to take us to buy things for us and what is that

buy things for us and what is that

buy things for us and what is that excuse it’s not accessible what do we do

excuse it’s not accessible what do we do

excuse it’s not accessible what do we do unless we go out there and do something

unless we go out there and do something

unless we go out there and do something people are not gonna help us I take my

people are not gonna help us I take my

people are not gonna help us I take my students now regularly to the

students now regularly to the

students now regularly to the supermarket and to the shops now they go

supermarket and to the shops now they go

supermarket and to the shops now they go themselves and now the first time they

themselves and now the first time they

themselves and now the first time they went people were unresponsive they just

went people were unresponsive they just

went people were unresponsive they just didn’t know how to handle these blind

didn’t know how to handle these blind

didn’t know how to handle these blind people why were they wasting their time

people why were they wasting their time

people why were they wasting their time the second time the same response but

the second time the same response but

the second time the same response but the third time people started

the third time people started

the third time people started understanding that these blind people

understanding that these blind people

understanding that these blind people can’t do it they need help they need

can’t do it they need help they need

can’t do it they need help they need empathy so people started coming forward

empathy so people started coming forward

empathy so people started coming forward and helping only if we take that

and helping only if we take that

and helping only if we take that initiative with everyone stand behind us

initiative with everyone stand behind us

initiative with everyone stand behind us so we have to do that that’s what I’m

so we have to do that that’s what I’m

so we have to do that that’s what I’m here I’m here

here I’m here

here I’m here to bring about that change but I can’t

to bring about that change but I can’t

to bring about that change but I can’t do it alone I need my fellow blind

do it alone I need my fellow blind

do it alone I need my fellow blind colleagues and I need you all to support

colleagues and I need you all to support

colleagues and I need you all to support me in that change and I want to make

me in that change and I want to make

me in that change and I want to make adventure adventure isn’t yet another

adventure adventure isn’t yet another

adventure adventure isn’t yet another hindrance in front of us we don’t see

hindrance in front of us we don’t see

hindrance in front of us we don’t see too many blind people engaged in sports

too many blind people engaged in sports

too many blind people engaged in sports activities especially girls we are

activities especially girls we are

activities especially girls we are continuously cautioned by our parents

continuously cautioned by our parents

continuously cautioned by our parents don’t do this don’t do that don’t play

don’t do this don’t do that don’t play

don’t do this don’t do that don’t play don’t run you’ll fall it’s dangerous I

don’t run you’ll fall it’s dangerous I

don’t run you’ll fall it’s dangerous I couldn’t do that when I was small I

couldn’t do that when I was small I

couldn’t do that when I was small I couldn’t run and play and jump and hop

couldn’t run and play and jump and hop

couldn’t run and play and jump and hop and skip no one allowed me to I was like

and skip no one allowed me to I was like

and skip no one allowed me to I was like isolated well my friends went out to

isolated well my friends went out to

isolated well my friends went out to play I was made to just stand there in a

play I was made to just stand there in a

play I was made to just stand there in a corner and watch them run and play ball

corner and watch them run and play ball

corner and watch them run and play ball and everything

and everything

and everything but now I’ve gone up I can I can do this

but now I’ve gone up I can I can do this

but now I’ve gone up I can I can do this I have flown inside a plane

I have flown inside a plane

I have flown inside a plane I have jumped four four thousand feet

I have jumped four four thousand feet

I have jumped four four thousand feet high I have thrown in the air

I have flown in the air like a bird with

I have flown in the air like a bird with both my hands touching the air it was

both my hands touching the air it was

both my hands touching the air it was like this an indescribable victory I was

like this an indescribable victory I was

like this an indescribable victory I was flying like a bird without a care in the

flying like a bird without a care in the

flying like a bird without a care in the world

world

world that skydiving of course I had an

that skydiving of course I had an

that skydiving of course I had an instructor with me and we had fun

rope climbing wall climbing and tandem

rope climbing wall climbing and tandem cycling the tandem cycling experience

cycling the tandem cycling experience

cycling the tandem cycling experience was something thrilling in itself I’ve

was something thrilling in itself I’ve

was something thrilling in itself I’ve always wanted to drive and ride a cycle

always wanted to drive and ride a cycle

always wanted to drive and ride a cycle myself and I couldn’t do that this time

myself and I couldn’t do that this time

myself and I couldn’t do that this time even though I had a tandem I had someone

even though I had a tandem I had someone

even though I had a tandem I had someone in front of me I could do it I felt like

in front of me I could do it I felt like

in front of me I could do it I felt like I was riding that cycle I was on that

I was riding that cycle I was on that

I was riding that cycle I was on that road pedaling my dear life yes I was

road pedaling my dear life yes I was

road pedaling my dear life yes I was there

people told me you can’t do that you

people told me you can’t do that you can’t cycle you won’t even reach your

can’t cycle you won’t even reach your

can’t cycle you won’t even reach your destination there’s too much traffic

destination there’s too much traffic

destination there’s too much traffic even if you have a kind of I said no and

even if you have a kind of I said no and

even if you have a kind of I said no and I did it people told me you can’t climb

I did it people told me you can’t climb

I did it people told me you can’t climb that wall you’ll just fall but I did it

that wall you’ll just fall but I did it

that wall you’ll just fall but I did it people told me you can’t go broke riding

people told me you can’t go broke riding

people told me you can’t go broke riding it’s dangerous I did it

it’s dangerous I did it

it’s dangerous I did it people told me skydiving oh Lord you ha

people told me skydiving oh Lord you ha

people told me skydiving oh Lord you ha I did it I said no to all those negative

I did it I said no to all those negative

I did it I said no to all those negative thoughts all those negative instructions

thoughts all those negative instructions

thoughts all those negative instructions and I said yes I can do it it

so adventure is not a hinge excuse me

so adventure is not a hinge excuse me Alex

Alex

Alex blindness is not a hindrance for

blindness is not a hindrance for

blindness is not a hindrance for adventure every blind person every

adventure every blind person every

adventure every blind person every disabled person has the right to

disabled person has the right to

disabled person has the right to adventure we can enjoy our lives

we can have adventure we can do sports

we can have adventure we can do sports and recreation we can do it as well as

and recreation we can do it as well as

and recreation we can do it as well as any other person we just need to have

any other person we just need to have

any other person we just need to have certain adaptations

we can play cricket there’s so many

we can play cricket there’s so many blind cricket players we can play

blind cricket players we can play

blind cricket players we can play cricket as long as we have a sound ball

cricket as long as we have a sound ball

cricket as long as we have a sound ball we can do tandem cycling skydiving and

we can do tandem cycling skydiving and

we can do tandem cycling skydiving and paragliding as long as we have a tandem

paragliding as long as we have a tandem

paragliding as long as we have a tandem we can feel those things just let us

we can feel those things just let us

we can feel those things just let us feel stop stopping us because what we

feel stop stopping us because what we

feel stop stopping us because what we need here is empathy not sympathy equal

need here is empathy not sympathy equal

need here is empathy not sympathy equal treatment

treatment

treatment we need that zest we need that Drive but

we need that zest we need that Drive but

we need that zest we need that Drive but that has to come from within us and from

that has to come from within us and from

that has to come from within us and from you I conduct awareness programs

you I conduct awareness programs

you I conduct awareness programs I’ve even blindfolded people

I’ve even blindfolded people

I’ve even blindfolded people they have seen us they have seen our

they have seen us they have seen our

they have seen us they have seen our lives from their perspective yes it was

lives from their perspective yes it was

lives from their perspective yes it was great so people understood that yes the

great so people understood that yes the

great so people understood that yes the life of a blind person is like this but

life of a blind person is like this but

life of a blind person is like this but that’s not for sympathy

that’s not for sympathy

that’s not for sympathy that’s for empathy so that they can also

that’s for empathy so that they can also

that’s for empathy so that they can also come out there with us and make that

come out there with us and make that

come out there with us and make that change I hope you all can because it’s

change I hope you all can because it’s

change I hope you all can because it’s not only I I who can do it it’s only if

not only I I who can do it it’s only if

not only I I who can do it it’s only if you all stand with me I can do that now

you all stand with me I can do that now

you all stand with me I can do that now will you all join with me will you all

will you all join with me will you all

will you all join with me will you all help me make that change because I can’t

help me make that change because I can’t

help me make that change because I can’t do it alone nothing can be done alone as

do it alone nothing can be done alone as

do it alone nothing can be done alone as the proverb says united we stand divided

the proverb says united we stand divided

the proverb says united we stand divided we fall

we fall

we fall yes we have to make that change our

yes we have to make that change our

yes we have to make that change our father of the nation said be the change

father of the nation said be the change

father of the nation said be the change you want to see

you want to see

you want to see don’t only talk about chains but go out

don’t only talk about chains but go out

don’t only talk about chains but go out there and be that change because you can

there and be that change because you can

there and be that change because you can we can our life is in our hands and it’s

we can our life is in our hands and it’s

we can our life is in our hands and it’s never too late even if we are 50 years

never too late even if we are 50 years

never too late even if we are 50 years old we can go to school it’s up to us

old we can go to school it’s up to us

old we can go to school it’s up to us make that change to make that difference

make that change to make that difference

make that change to make that difference and to make our lives worth living

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