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Limiting Labels | Mason Jeffers | TEDxWilmington


when writing my biography for today I

when writing my biography for today I found myself struggling to come up with

found myself struggling to come up with

found myself struggling to come up with as many limitless style achievements as

as many limitless style achievements as

as many limitless style achievements as some of the other presenters here good

some of the other presenters here good

some of the other presenters here good what as I told my parents I’ve only been

what as I told my parents I’ve only been

what as I told my parents I’ve only been on this planet for 15 years and the

on this planet for 15 years and the

on this planet for 15 years and the first four weren’t that eventful so I

have a question for you

have a question for you why do we label people why do we do that

why do we label people why do we do that

why do we label people why do we do that as soon as we meet somebody we craft

as soon as we meet somebody we craft

as soon as we meet somebody we craft rubber-stamp labels for them

rubber-stamp labels for them

rubber-stamp labels for them stuff like gifted challenged young old

stuff like gifted challenged young old

stuff like gifted challenged young old lazy ambitious Democrat Republican I

believe that these labels alleviate

believe that these labels alleviate uncertainty and that we’re more

uncertainty and that we’re more

uncertainty and that we’re more comfortable smug perhaps because we now

comfortable smug perhaps because we now

comfortable smug perhaps because we now know this person newsflash we don’t know

know this person newsflash we don’t know

know this person newsflash we don’t know them at all because human beings are not

them at all because human beings are not

them at all because human beings are not single-celled microorganisms we are

single-celled microorganisms we are

single-celled microorganisms we are wildly complex creations and the labels

wildly complex creations and the labels

wildly complex creations and the labels we place on people limit them and limit

we place on people limit them and limit

we place on people limit them and limit house they see themselves I was taken

house they see themselves I was taken

house they see themselves I was taken out of school in the first grade and I

out of school in the first grade and I

out of school in the first grade and I was allowed to grow academically and

was allowed to grow academically and

was allowed to grow academically and personally without labels I wasn’t a

personally without labels I wasn’t a

personally without labels I wasn’t a second grader or a third grader gifted

second grader or a third grader gifted

second grader or a third grader gifted or challenged I was as I simply still am

or challenged I was as I simply still am

or challenged I was as I simply still am just Mason I was never told by my

just Mason I was never told by my

just Mason I was never told by my parents or mentors you’re not ready for

parents or mentors you’re not ready for

parents or mentors you’re not ready for that you’re too smart for that

that you’re too smart for that

that you’re too smart for that you’re too young for that as a result I

you’re too young for that as a result I

you’re too young for that as a result I finished Algebra one at age eleven I

finished Algebra one at age eleven I

finished Algebra one at age eleven I passed a college entrance exam at age 13

passed a college entrance exam at age 13

passed a college entrance exam at age 13 and began taking college classes at 14 I

and began taking college classes at 14 I

and began taking college classes at 14 I finished a couple of semesters now of a

finished a couple of semesters now of a

finished a couple of semesters now of a GPA of 3.8 and I plan on transferring to

GPA of 3.8 and I plan on transferring to

GPA of 3.8 and I plan on transferring to the University in North Carolina in

the University in North Carolina in

the University in North Carolina in Charlotte where I hope to earn finance

Charlotte where I hope to earn finance

Charlotte where I hope to earn finance and economics degrees

and economics degrees

and economics degrees all of this would be so much easier if I

all of this would be so much easier if I

all of this would be so much easier if I could drive but no one’s good at

could drive but no one’s good at

could drive but no one’s good at everything though I can’t cook I said it

everything though I can’t cook I said it

everything though I can’t cook I said it I actually burned around the noodles

I actually burned around the noodles

I actually burned around the noodles once I did that

once I did that

once I did that ice skating was a big no and I really

ice skating was a big no and I really

ice skating was a big no and I really understand a lot of visual art it

understand a lot of visual art it

understand a lot of visual art it doesn’t work however I love playing the

doesn’t work however I love playing the

doesn’t work however I love playing the guitar I’m a pretty good welder and I’m

guitar I’m a pretty good welder and I’m

guitar I’m a pretty good welder and I’m in a leadership position to my Boy Scout

in a leadership position to my Boy Scout

in a leadership position to my Boy Scout troop

troop

troop there is no label that fits me and there

there is no label that fits me and there

there is no label that fits me and there is no label that fits you unless you

is no label that fits you unless you

is no label that fits you unless you accept it think for a minute what have

accept it think for a minute what have

accept it think for a minute what have you been labeled in your life huh shy

you been labeled in your life huh shy

you been labeled in your life huh shy boring disabled pretty single divorced

boring disabled pretty single divorced

boring disabled pretty single divorced these words don’t describe you the only

these words don’t describe you the only

these words don’t describe you the only label you need in life is your name what

label you need in life is your name what

label you need in life is your name what are the effects of labels for me I was

are the effects of labels for me I was

are the effects of labels for me I was limited when I wanted to volunteer at a

limited when I wanted to volunteer at a

limited when I wanted to volunteer at a local veterinarians office but I was too

local veterinarians office but I was too

local veterinarians office but I was too young at 14 years old to be allowed to

young at 14 years old to be allowed to

young at 14 years old to be allowed to help out no explanation to paraphrase

help out no explanation to paraphrase

help out no explanation to paraphrase the great Sir Ken Robinson if I’m

the great Sir Ken Robinson if I’m

the great Sir Ken Robinson if I’m hardworking if I’m dependable and if I’m

hardworking if I’m dependable and if I’m

hardworking if I’m dependable and if I’m kind to the animals

kind to the animals

kind to the animals then why should my date of manufacture

then why should my date of manufacture

then why should my date of manufacture matter I’m also taking college classes

matter I’m also taking college classes

matter I’m also taking college classes to become a welder even though no

to become a welder even though no

to become a welder even though no company will hire me until I’m 18 never

company will hire me until I’m 18 never

company will hire me until I’m 18 never mind that I’ll be certified never mind

mind that I’ll be certified never mind

mind that I’ll be certified never mind that I’ll have straight A’s and those

that I’ll have straight A’s and those

that I’ll have straight A’s and those are just the rules rules and labels they

are just the rules rules and labels they

are just the rules rules and labels they go hand in hand

go hand in hand

go hand in hand another label for me to deal with is

another label for me to deal with is

another label for me to deal with is homeschooler with it often comes some

homeschooler with it often comes some

homeschooler with it often comes some preconceived notions see a lot of people

preconceived notions see a lot of people

preconceived notions see a lot of people think that we aren’t educated very

think that we aren’t educated very

think that we aren’t educated very thoroughly or that we aren’t very

thoroughly or that we aren’t very

thoroughly or that we aren’t very socialized

socialized

socialized y’all can meet me later I’m pretty

y’all can meet me later I’m pretty

y’all can meet me later I’m pretty social you may think that I’m gifted or

social you may think that I’m gifted or

social you may think that I’m gifted or special but I want you to hold on to

special but I want you to hold on to

special but I want you to hold on to your labels because I don’t want them

your labels because I don’t want them

your labels because I don’t want them there are so many other kids just like

there are so many other kids just like

there are so many other kids just like me they are bored out of their minds

me they are bored out of their minds

me they are bored out of their minds trudging along in public school at the

trudging along in public school at the

trudging along in public school at the speed of government education they have

speed of government education they have

speed of government education they have labels affixed on their foreheads that

labels affixed on their foreheads that

labels affixed on their foreheads that one that one’s average throw him in with

one that one’s average throw him in with

one that one’s average throw him in with the welders you know they’re about

the welders you know they’re about

the welders you know they’re about average that one she’s a musician don’t

average that one she’s a musician don’t

average that one she’s a musician don’t expect her to do any math you know

expect her to do any math you know

expect her to do any math you know musicians are that one though that one’s

musicians are that one though that one’s

musicians are that one though that one’s gifted let’s give him a little extra

gifted let’s give him a little extra

gifted let’s give him a little extra homework you know he can handle it

homework you know he can handle it

homework you know he can handle it also known as how to make a child hate

also known as how to make a child hate

also known as how to make a child hate being gifted for the good of society let

being gifted for the good of society let

being gifted for the good of society let go your labels whether you put them on

go your labels whether you put them on

go your labels whether you put them on yourself or you put them on someone else

yourself or you put them on someone else

yourself or you put them on someone else you’re limited by them and so are they

you’re limited by them and so are they

you’re limited by them and so are they what would have happened if two kids in

what would have happened if two kids in

what would have happened if two kids in the late 1800s who were dismissed as

the late 1800s who were dismissed as

the late 1800s who were dismissed as high school dropouts had believed in

high school dropouts had believed in

high school dropouts had believed in them believed in the labels placed on

them believed in the labels placed on

them believed in the labels placed on them never believed in themselves oh

them never believed in themselves oh

them never believed in themselves oh there would be no Wright brothers

there would be no Wright brothers

there would be no Wright brothers memorial at Kitty Hawk and what if a

memorial at Kitty Hawk and what if a

memorial at Kitty Hawk and what if a young boy in the 1940s had believed in

young boy in the 1940s had believed in

young boy in the 1940s had believed in the labels placed on him because of a

the labels placed on him because of a

the labels placed on him because of a terrible stutter he even gave up

terrible stutter he even gave up

terrible stutter he even gave up speaking for years Darth Vader would

speaking for years Darth Vader would

speaking for years Darth Vader would have a very different voice from James

have a very different voice from James

have a very different voice from James Earl Jones I leave you with this

Earl Jones I leave you with this

Earl Jones I leave you with this cast-off your labels they limit you

cast-off your labels they limit you

cast-off your labels they limit you don’t hang labels on other people you

don’t hang labels on other people you

don’t hang labels on other people you limit them allow yourself to believe in

limit them allow yourself to believe in

limit them allow yourself to believe in anything ask yourself and tell me what

anything ask yourself and tell me what

anything ask yourself and tell me what do you want to

do you want to

do you want to we’ve thank you

we’ve thank you

we’ve thank you [Applause]

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