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The Importance of Adaptability | Matthew Shaw | TEDxYouth@FrogsHollowPark


adaptability and cultural understanding

adaptability and cultural understanding are essential to successfully navigating

are essential to successfully navigating

are essential to successfully navigating this ever-changing social or political

this ever-changing social or political

this ever-changing social or political landscape let there be no doubt it is

landscape let there be no doubt it is

landscape let there be no doubt it is definitely changing in the early months

definitely changing in the early months

definitely changing in the early months of 2014 a young Australian boy stepped

of 2014 a young Australian boy stepped

of 2014 a young Australian boy stepped off the plane and onto the tarmac

off the plane and onto the tarmac

off the plane and onto the tarmac how much International Airport in Doha

how much International Airport in Doha

how much International Airport in Doha Qatar for the very first time the result

Qatar for the very first time the result

Qatar for the very first time the result of a twin leg journey that have totaled

of a twin leg journey that have totaled

of a twin leg journey that have totaled over 24 hours of travel time I had just

over 24 hours of travel time I had just

over 24 hours of travel time I had just arrived what was to be my permanent new

arrived what was to be my permanent new

arrived what was to be my permanent new home at the young age of only 14 and

home at the young age of only 14 and

home at the young age of only 14 and having just permanently departed Alice

having just permanently departed Alice

having just permanently departed Alice Springs

Springs

Springs it was needless to say a bit of a

it was needless to say a bit of a

it was needless to say a bit of a surreal experience not really knowing

surreal experience not really knowing

surreal experience not really knowing what to expect I made my way through the

what to expect I made my way through the

what to expect I made my way through the ultra-modern luxurious Airport was

ultra-modern luxurious Airport was

ultra-modern luxurious Airport was surrounded by tall Arabic men in fashion

surrounded by tall Arabic men in fashion

surrounded by tall Arabic men in fashion crisp like those with impeccably groomed

crisp like those with impeccably groomed

crisp like those with impeccably groomed facial hair typically being men were

facial hair typically being men were

facial hair typically being men were followed submissively by their entourage

followed submissively by their entourage

followed submissively by their entourage of six to seven gorgeous Arabic women

of six to seven gorgeous Arabic women

of six to seven gorgeous Arabic women dressed literally head-to-toe in

dressed literally head-to-toe in

dressed literally head-to-toe in imported black burgers having come from

imported black burgers having come from

imported black burgers having come from Alice where typical telly attire

Alice where typical telly attire

Alice where typical telly attire consists of English shorts and thongs it

consists of English shorts and thongs it

consists of English shorts and thongs it was just the first ting of the drastic

was just the first ting of the drastic

was just the first ting of the drastic changes which were installed for me

changes which were installed for me

changes which were installed for me nevertheless we made our way through the

nevertheless we made our way through the

nevertheless we made our way through the airport and into the 5 a.m. mist of the

airport and into the 5 a.m. mist of the

airport and into the 5 a.m. mist of the desert the country of Qatar which is 130

desert the country of Qatar which is 130

desert the country of Qatar which is 130 times smaller than our homeland the

times smaller than our homeland the

times smaller than our homeland the Northern Territory alone Andrews

Northern Territory alone Andrews

Northern Territory alone Andrews negligible population is concentrated

negligible population is concentrated

negligible population is concentrated overwhelmingly in its capital Doha is at

overwhelmingly in its capital Doha is at

overwhelmingly in its capital Doha is at first glance at least just like any

first glance at least just like any

first glance at least just like any other Western metropolis

other Western metropolis

other Western metropolis you search Doha on Google Images you’ll

you search Doha on Google Images you’ll

you search Doha on Google Images you’ll see a soaring skylines riddled with

see a soaring skylines riddled with

see a soaring skylines riddled with multi-million dollar architectural

multi-million dollar architectural

multi-million dollar architectural masterpieces complete with a diverse

masterpieces complete with a diverse

masterpieces complete with a diverse range of multicultural rhythms the Qatar

range of multicultural rhythms the Qatar

range of multicultural rhythms the Qatar you’d be seeing is the Qatar I was

you’d be seeing is the Qatar I was

you’d be seeing is the Qatar I was promised when I was conducting my own

promised when I was conducting my own

promised when I was conducting my own curious months of Investigation in the

curious months of Investigation in the

curious months of Investigation in the months prior to moving there but imagine

months prior to moving there but imagine

months prior to moving there but imagine however the fractures in society soon

however the fractures in society soon

however the fractures in society soon began to show it is best described that

began to show it is best described that

began to show it is best described that Qatar is caught between this

Qatar is caught between this

Qatar is caught between this contemporary Brella

contemporary Brella

contemporary Brella Dubai and its traditional parents Saudia

Dubai and its traditional parents Saudia

Dubai and its traditional parents Saudia Arabia it aspires to be a modern

Arabia it aspires to be a modern

Arabia it aspires to be a modern international heart and it was

international heart and it was

international heart and it was demonstrated this with its scandalously

demonstrated this with its scandalously

demonstrated this with its scandalously successful bid for the 2022 World Cup

successful bid for the 2022 World Cup

successful bid for the 2022 World Cup and the billions upon billions of

and the billions upon billions of

and the billions upon billions of dollars

dollars

dollars is currently pouring into its domestic

is currently pouring into its domestic

is currently pouring into its domestic infrastructure to facilitate that but

infrastructure to facilitate that but

infrastructure to facilitate that but doesn’t want to lose touch with the

doesn’t want to lose touch with the

doesn’t want to lose touch with the essence of Islamic culture which has

essence of Islamic culture which has

essence of Islamic culture which has been at its core since its independence

been at its core since its independence

been at its core since its independence in 1971 it was this conflict that I

in 1971 it was this conflict that I

in 1971 it was this conflict that I began to see in my time in Doha Turkey

began to see in my time in Doha Turkey

began to see in my time in Doha Turkey is a conical cutout of the country which

is a conical cutout of the country which

is a conical cutout of the country which still enforces Sharia law in a system

still enforces Sharia law in a system

still enforces Sharia law in a system under which a woman’s testimony accounts

under which a woman’s testimony accounts

under which a woman’s testimony accounts for half of that of a man’s and with any

for half of that of a man’s and with any

for half of that of a man’s and with any and all of a man’s seven wives must

and all of a man’s seven wives must

and all of a man’s seven wives must cease the mission before being legally

cease the mission before being legally

cease the mission before being legally permitted to leave the country it’s not

permitted to leave the country it’s not

permitted to leave the country it’s not exactly difficult to see a few of the

exactly difficult to see a few of the

exactly difficult to see a few of the initial moral conflicts that arose in my

initial moral conflicts that arose in my

initial moral conflicts that arose in my 14 year old lion how could I live

14 year old lion how could I live

14 year old lion how could I live happily in a society in which Muslim

happily in a society in which Muslim

happily in a society in which Muslim women were expected to come up all of

women were expected to come up all of

women were expected to come up all of their skin showing only their face or

their skin showing only their face or

their skin showing only their face or eyes in a society in which more than a

eyes in a society in which more than a

eyes in a society in which more than a few disapproving glances were sent away

few disapproving glances were sent away

few disapproving glances were sent away my dark-skinned stepmother as she

my dark-skinned stepmother as she

my dark-skinned stepmother as she accompanied my wife father the country

accompanied my wife father the country

accompanied my wife father the country in which polygamy was not best accepted

in which polygamy was not best accepted

in which polygamy was not best accepted but culturally celebrated these

but culturally celebrated these

but culturally celebrated these questions pointed me is I’ve battled to

questions pointed me is I’ve battled to

questions pointed me is I’ve battled to come to terms with the completely new

come to terms with the completely new

come to terms with the completely new society into which I have been plunged

society into which I have been plunged

society into which I have been plunged now of course these are not the only

now of course these are not the only

now of course these are not the only areas to which I was forced to adapt

areas to which I was forced to adapt

areas to which I was forced to adapt Saturday morning bacon and eggs in a

Saturday morning bacon and eggs in a

Saturday morning bacon and eggs in a country with no smoked bacon is really

country with no smoked bacon is really

country with no smoked bacon is really just eggs and having to ensure that my

just eggs and having to ensure that my

just eggs and having to ensure that my shoulders and knees were covered

shoulders and knees were covered

shoulders and knees were covered whenever I go into public even on the

whenever I go into public even on the

whenever I go into public even on the 40-degree – three days was at times a

40-degree – three days was at times a

40-degree – three days was at times a little frustrating

little frustrating

little frustrating coupled with the devastating reality

coupled with the devastating reality

coupled with the devastating reality that I was going to have to wait seven

that I was going to have to wait seven

that I was going to have to wait seven years until my 21st birthday before even

years until my 21st birthday before even

years until my 21st birthday before even being eligible to learn to drive it was

being eligible to learn to drive it was

being eligible to learn to drive it was certainly not off to a convincing start

certainly not off to a convincing start

certainly not off to a convincing start but facing these culture shops I would

but facing these culture shops I would

but facing these culture shops I would inevitably left at a crossroads with

inevitably left at a crossroads with

inevitably left at a crossroads with what was fundamentally at their core the

what was fundamentally at their core the

what was fundamentally at their core the religion of Islam the religion of Islam

religion of Islam the religion of Islam

religion of Islam the religion of Islam is undoubtedly the most divisive issue

is undoubtedly the most divisive issue

is undoubtedly the most divisive issue facing the modern Western society with

facing the modern Western society with

facing the modern Western society with the proliferation by the number and

the proliferation by the number and

the proliferation by the number and severity of extremist militant terrorist

severity of extremist militant terrorist

severity of extremist militant terrorist organizations all around the globe there

organizations all around the globe there

organizations all around the globe there had been a visibly increasing

had been a visibly increasing

had been a visibly increasing international trend to implement and

international trend to implement and

international trend to implement and dispels protectionist policies elected

dispels protectionist policies elected

dispels protectionist policies elected members of Australian Parliament have

members of Australian Parliament have

members of Australian Parliament have publicly and blatantly said that a

publicly and blatantly said that a

publicly and blatantly said that a Muslim

Muslim

Muslim in Australia is entirely incompatible

in Australia is entirely incompatible

in Australia is entirely incompatible with an open and cohesive society the

with an open and cohesive society the

with an open and cohesive society the most powerful man in the free world the

most powerful man in the free world the

most powerful man in the free world the President of the United States of

President of the United States of

President of the United States of America recently issued a monumental

America recently issued a monumental

America recently issued a monumental executive order which explicitly

executive order which explicitly

executive order which explicitly unprecedented Lee and as it had recently

unprecedented Lee and as it had recently

unprecedented Lee and as it had recently been filmed illegally been all

been filmed illegally been all

been filmed illegally been all immigrants from seven middle-eastern

immigrants from seven middle-eastern

immigrants from seven middle-eastern countries all countries with an

countries all countries with an

countries all countries with an overwhelming majority of Muslim citizens

overwhelming majority of Muslim citizens

overwhelming majority of Muslim citizens the fear of the perceived malevolence of

the fear of the perceived malevolence of

the fear of the perceived malevolence of invasion of Islam had divided everyone

invasion of Islam had divided everyone

invasion of Islam had divided everyone in my time in Doha

in my time in Doha

in my time in Doha I was inevitably thanks with this

I was inevitably thanks with this

I was inevitably thanks with this culture and I was forced to adapt to it

culture and I was forced to adapt to it

culture and I was forced to adapt to it to respect it

to respect it

to respect it initially I as anyone would misguidedly

initially I as anyone would misguidedly

initially I as anyone would misguidedly saw this as an obligation to ensure a

saw this as an obligation to ensure a

saw this as an obligation to ensure a smooth social transition a proverbial

smooth social transition a proverbial

smooth social transition a proverbial prerequisite for fitting in but the

prerequisite for fitting in but the

prerequisite for fitting in but the value of this experience later became

value of this experience later became

value of this experience later became apparent to me either being gifted a

apparent to me either being gifted a

apparent to me either being gifted a front-row seat into the teachings of

front-row seat into the teachings of

front-row seat into the teachings of Islam and those who follow us let me be

Islam and those who follow us let me be

Islam and those who follow us let me be clear what I saw was not a hatred for

clear what I saw was not a hatred for

clear what I saw was not a hatred for the West it was not a mission to force

the West it was not a mission to force

the West it was not a mission to force their faith unto me and to punish those

their faith unto me and to punish those

their faith unto me and to punish those who didn’t obey the longer I spent in

who didn’t obey the longer I spent in

who didn’t obey the longer I spent in Doha and the more integrated I became of

Doha and the more integrated I became of

Doha and the more integrated I became of a Muslim society the clearer it became

a Muslim society the clearer it became

a Muslim society the clearer it became to me that I actually didn’t have to

to me that I actually didn’t have to

to me that I actually didn’t have to compromise on my values at all I did not

compromise on my values at all I did not

compromise on my values at all I did not have to abandon one school of thought

have to abandon one school of thought

have to abandon one school of thought for another I instead came to appreciate

for another I instead came to appreciate

for another I instead came to appreciate the merit of both cultural teachings

the merit of both cultural teachings

the merit of both cultural teachings allow me to elaborate the first time

allow me to elaborate the first time

allow me to elaborate the first time that my stepmother broke down into tears

that my stepmother broke down into tears

that my stepmother broke down into tears was in a bank in a bureaucratic ordeal

was in a bank in a bureaucratic ordeal

was in a bank in a bureaucratic ordeal to retrieve a credit card which had been

to retrieve a credit card which had been

to retrieve a credit card which had been swallowed by an ATM and that’s all I had

swallowed by an ATM and that’s all I had

swallowed by an ATM and that’s all I had comforted and the issue resolved

comforted and the issue resolved

comforted and the issue resolved immediately thereafter I very quickly

immediately thereafter I very quickly

immediately thereafter I very quickly came to appreciate the care and respect

came to appreciate the care and respect

came to appreciate the care and respect for women that is a spouse by the Muslim

for women that is a spouse by the Muslim

for women that is a spouse by the Muslim culture as I celebrated the Eid holiday

culture as I celebrated the Eid holiday

culture as I celebrated the Eid holiday with my Muslim friends and families at

with my Muslim friends and families at

with my Muslim friends and families at the dinner party signifying me in the

the dinner party signifying me in the

the dinner party signifying me in the Ramadan I’m very quickly came to

Ramadan I’m very quickly came to

Ramadan I’m very quickly came to appreciate their boundless hospitality

appreciate their boundless hospitality

appreciate their boundless hospitality my first residency permit application

my first residency permit application

my first residency permit application was denied and because my stepmother was

was denied and because my stepmother was

was denied and because my stepmother was not my legal mother as printed on my

not my legal mother as printed on my

not my legal mother as printed on my birth certificate I was facing

birth certificate I was facing

birth certificate I was facing deportation with

deportation with

deportation with days despite this a local country

days despite this a local country

days despite this a local country friends took the time to come with us to

friends took the time to come with us to

friends took the time to come with us to answer your thority to translate our

answer your thority to translate our

answer your thority to translate our concerns and to explain the situation

concerns and to explain the situation

concerns and to explain the situation which tall the issue resolved very

which tall the issue resolved very

which tall the issue resolved very quickly there after these would not be

quickly there after these would not be

quickly there after these would not be ideals that I still plastered on the

ideals that I still plastered on the

ideals that I still plastered on the front page of Western newspapers had I

front page of Western newspapers had I

front page of Western newspapers had I not moved to Qatar have not been forced

not moved to Qatar have not been forced

not moved to Qatar have not been forced to adapt I probably never would have

to adapt I probably never would have

to adapt I probably never would have seen ultimately my home in Qatar it

seen ultimately my home in Qatar it

seen ultimately my home in Qatar it opened my eyes to the value of travel

opened my eyes to the value of travel

opened my eyes to the value of travel but more importantly it made me realize

but more importantly it made me realize

but more importantly it made me realize simply Auerbach’s tini I had been it

simply Auerbach’s tini I had been it

simply Auerbach’s tini I had been it brought to life by the apparent

brought to life by the apparent

brought to life by the apparent differences and the fundamental

differences and the fundamental

differences and the fundamental similarity between the two cultures and

similarity between the two cultures and

similarity between the two cultures and it forced me to adapt to them when you

it forced me to adapt to them when you

it forced me to adapt to them when you are forced to adapt you are rewarded

are forced to adapt you are rewarded

are forced to adapt you are rewarded with what I believe to be a much greater

with what I believe to be a much greater

with what I believe to be a much greater understanding of the world around you

understanding of the world around you

understanding of the world around you because in this social and political

because in this social and political

because in this social and political climate in which even the most powerful

climate in which even the most powerful

climate in which even the most powerful man in the free world can advocate for

man in the free world can advocate for

man in the free world can advocate for division on a global scale and in which

division on a global scale and in which

division on a global scale and in which one of Victoria’s very own state MPs can

one of Victoria’s very own state MPs can

one of Victoria’s very own state MPs can be refused entry into the United States

be refused entry into the United States

be refused entry into the United States for no reason other than being Muslim

for no reason other than being Muslim

for no reason other than being Muslim cultural understanding adaptability and

cultural understanding adaptability and

cultural understanding adaptability and most importantly empathy are vital

most importantly empathy are vital

most importantly empathy are vital [Applause]

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