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Thriving through Turbulence | Ziad Ahmed | TEDxYouth@Harlow


we’re gathered here today to talk about

we’re gathered here today to talk about taking flight and that’s a bit ironic

taking flight and that’s a bit ironic

taking flight and that’s a bit ironic for me and to give you some context

for me and to give you some context

for me and to give you some context about why that is

about why that is

about why that is my name is yad and I’m an American

my name is yad and I’m an American

my name is yad and I’m an American Muslim student from Princeton New Jersey

Muslim student from Princeton New Jersey

Muslim student from Princeton New Jersey and I’m just interested in biting my

and I’m just interested in biting my

and I’m just interested in biting my tongue you see the thing is for American

tongue you see the thing is for American

tongue you see the thing is for American Muslims taking flight isn’t easy

Muslims taking flight isn’t easy

Muslims taking flight isn’t easy metaphorically or physically I took a

metaphorically or physically I took a

metaphorically or physically I took a flight to come here to go on a trip with

flight to come here to go on a trip with

flight to come here to go on a trip with my friends and taking flight as a Muslim

my friends and taking flight as a Muslim

my friends and taking flight as a Muslim can be in angst and anxious almost every

can be in angst and anxious almost every

can be in angst and anxious almost every Muslim can tell you stories about being

Muslim can tell you stories about being

Muslim can tell you stories about being profiled in airports but I’m not here to

profiled in airports but I’m not here to

profiled in airports but I’m not here to talk about what it’s like to fly as a

talk about what it’s like to fly as a

talk about what it’s like to fly as a Muslim there are hashtags for that I’m

Muslim there are hashtags for that I’m

Muslim there are hashtags for that I’m here to talk about metaphorically what

here to talk about metaphorically what

here to talk about metaphorically what taking flight means to Muslim

taking flight means to Muslim

taking flight means to Muslim communities around the world and other

communities around the world and other

communities around the world and other communities taking flight to me means

communities taking flight to me means

communities taking flight to me means thriving and it isn’t easy always is an

thriving and it isn’t easy always is an

thriving and it isn’t easy always is an American Muslim to thrive to have the

American Muslim to thrive to have the

American Muslim to thrive to have the spaces to thrive because my question to

spaces to thrive because my question to

spaces to thrive because my question to all of you is what do you need to thrive

all of you is what do you need to thrive

all of you is what do you need to thrive our answers might vary but invariably

our answers might vary but invariably

our answers might vary but invariably the one constant is that we all need

the one constant is that we all need

the one constant is that we all need space to thrive an airplane can’t fly

space to thrive an airplane can’t fly

space to thrive an airplane can’t fly unless it has the air to navigate and in

unless it has the air to navigate and in

unless it has the air to navigate and in the same way we can’t thrive realize our

the same way we can’t thrive realize our

the same way we can’t thrive realize our full potentials if we don’t have spaces

full potentials if we don’t have spaces

full potentials if we don’t have spaces schools like this one but so many spaces

schools like this one but so many spaces

schools like this one but so many spaces where we can realize our full potential

where we can realize our full potential

where we can realize our full potential where we can I haven’t used an

where we can I haven’t used an

where we can I haven’t used an opportunities to be our best selves and

opportunities to be our best selves and

opportunities to be our best selves and that’s why I started an organization at

that’s why I started an organization at

that’s why I started an organization at the end of my eighth grade year

the end of my eighth grade year

the end of my eighth grade year rediff I we’re a collection of nearly

rediff I we’re a collection of nearly

rediff I we’re a collection of nearly 500 kids from around the world

500 kids from around the world

500 kids from around the world advocating unapologetically for social

advocating unapologetically for social

advocating unapologetically for social justice too many of us feel alone

justice too many of us feel alone

justice too many of us feel alone unheard belittled marginalized and we

unheard belittled marginalized and we

unheard belittled marginalized and we exist to advocate and to enfranchise

exist to advocate and to enfranchise

exist to advocate and to enfranchise because we all deserve spaces to speak

because we all deserve spaces to speak

because we all deserve spaces to speak about the truths that we’re grappling

about the truths that we’re grappling

about the truths that we’re grappling with and feel and actualize our full

with and feel and actualize our full

with and feel and actualize our full potential so that’s what I do and that’s

potential so that’s what I do and that’s

potential so that’s what I do and that’s my contact

my contact

my contact but when I think about taking flight I

but when I think about taking flight I

but when I think about taking flight I think about how lucky I am to be in a

think about how lucky I am to be in a

think about how lucky I am to be in a platform like this today I think about

platform like this today I think about

platform like this today I think about the privileges my intersecting

the privileges my intersecting

the privileges my intersecting privileges that have informed this

privileges that have informed this

privileges that have informed this moment and I think about how many people

moment and I think about how many people

moment and I think about how many people have been granted those same privileges

have been granted those same privileges

have been granted those same privileges those same opportunities because taking

those same opportunities because taking

those same opportunities because taking flight is hard for so many of us and

flight is hard for so many of us and

flight is hard for so many of us and I’ve been so fortunate to be on stages

I’ve been so fortunate to be on stages

I’ve been so fortunate to be on stages like that some people ask me what is it

like that some people ask me what is it

like that some people ask me what is it like to the American Muslim today and I

like to the American Muslim today and I

like to the American Muslim today and I tell them I characterized the experience

tell them I characterized the experience

tell them I characterized the experience of American Muslim young people that’s

of American Muslim young people that’s

of American Muslim young people that’s constantly being on the defense and what

constantly being on the defense and what

constantly being on the defense and what I mean by that is similar to the

I mean by that is similar to the

I mean by that is similar to the characters on my jumper today football

characters on my jumper today football

characters on my jumper today football players soccer players I’m from America

players soccer players I’m from America

players soccer players I’m from America I apologize in soccer if you’re on

I apologize in soccer if you’re on

I apologize in soccer if you’re on defense all the time how can you score

defense all the time how can you score

defense all the time how can you score and when it’s liked the American Muslim

and when it’s liked the American Muslim

and when it’s liked the American Muslim today is to be constantly thwarting

today is to be constantly thwarting

today is to be constantly thwarting attacks against our humanity against our

attacks against our humanity against our

attacks against our humanity against our integrity against our quality you

integrity against our quality you

integrity against our quality you constantly feel invalidated and our

constantly feel invalidated and our

constantly feel invalidated and our faith and our identity that’s what I

faith and our identity that’s what I

faith and our identity that’s what I would characterize our experience as and

would characterize our experience as and

would characterize our experience as and how can we score and I’m not here to say

how can we score and I’m not here to say

how can we score and I’m not here to say we’re not scoring we are we are thriving

we’re not scoring we are we are thriving

we’re not scoring we are we are thriving there American Muslims all around the

there American Muslims all around the

there American Muslims all around the world who are thriving in every way

world who are thriving in every way

world who are thriving in every way possible but we have to wait for that

possible but we have to wait for that

possible but we have to wait for that little in-between moment that breakaway

little in-between moment that breakaway

little in-between moment that breakaway we should have an open field to score

we should have an open field to score

we should have an open field to score but that isn’t happening

but that isn’t happening

but that isn’t happening we’re being limited bombarded and I’m

we’re being limited bombarded and I’m

we’re being limited bombarded and I’m also not here to say that the American

also not here to say that the American

also not here to say that the American Muslim community is the first to

Muslim community is the first to

Muslim community is the first to experience this or the community

experience this or the community

experience this or the community experiencing this to the most extreme

experiencing this to the most extreme

experiencing this to the most extreme extent I am here to say that it is

extent I am here to say that it is

extent I am here to say that it is pronounced particularly right now for

pronounced particularly right now for

pronounced particularly right now for the most communities all around the

the most communities all around the

the most communities all around the world but I’m also here to say the black

world but I’m also here to say the black

world but I’m also here to say the black communities LGBT folk so many

communities LGBT folk so many

communities LGBT folk so many marginalized peoples are constantly

marginalized peoples are constantly

marginalized peoples are constantly being too mean are constantly being told

being too mean are constantly being told

being too mean are constantly being told that they don’t matter that they’re

that they don’t matter that they’re

that they don’t matter that they’re lesser and I’m here to say that we need

lesser and I’m here to say that we need

lesser and I’m here to say that we need to empower those people and it’s not

to empower those people and it’s not

to empower those people and it’s not just minorities young people how many

just minorities young people how many

just minorities young people how many times have you been told that we need to

times have you been told that we need to

times have you been told that we need to thrive and succeed later that things are

thrive and succeed later that things are

thrive and succeed later that things are for later I’m here to say there for now

for later I’m here to say there for now

for later I’m here to say there for now it’s as if people are telling us don’t

it’s as if people are telling us don’t

it’s as if people are telling us don’t score in the first

score in the first

score in the first laughs that’s ludicrous the first half

laughs that’s ludicrous the first half

laughs that’s ludicrous the first half is crucial we need to be scoring and

is crucial we need to be scoring and

is crucial we need to be scoring and contributing positively to society we

contributing positively to society we

contributing positively to society we have contributions that we need to be

have contributions that we need to be

have contributions that we need to be making we can’t be inhibited

making we can’t be inhibited

making we can’t be inhibited I refuse to be inhibited so that’s why I

I refuse to be inhibited so that’s why I

I refuse to be inhibited so that’s why I advocate the way that I do and what my

advocate the way that I do and what my

advocate the way that I do and what my idea worth spreading is what I want to

idea worth spreading is what I want to

idea worth spreading is what I want to impart upon all of you today is that so

impart upon all of you today is that so

impart upon all of you today is that so many people feel like they’re constantly

many people feel like they’re constantly

many people feel like they’re constantly on the defense right whether it’s women

on the defense right whether it’s women

on the defense right whether it’s women black communities Muslim communities but

black communities Muslim communities but

black communities Muslim communities but we all deserve to score

we all deserve to score

we all deserve to score we all deserve to have the opportunity

we all deserve to have the opportunity

we all deserve to have the opportunity to be able to take flight and soar and

to be able to take flight and soar and

to be able to take flight and soar and it doesn’t matter what analogy we’re

it doesn’t matter what analogy we’re

it doesn’t matter what analogy we’re using because whether we’re on a field

using because whether we’re on a field

using because whether we’re on a field or we’re on a plane we are experiencing

or we’re on a plane we are experiencing

or we’re on a plane we are experiencing turbulence and I’m not here to say that

turbulence and I’m not here to say that

turbulence and I’m not here to say that we’ll ever eradicate turbulence there

we’ll ever eradicate turbulence there

we’ll ever eradicate turbulence there will always be hard times but who you

will always be hard times but who you

will always be hard times but who you love how you pray the color of your skin

love how you pray the color of your skin

love how you pray the color of your skin should not free determine how much

should not free determine how much

should not free determine how much turbulence you will experience our

turbulence you will experience our

turbulence you will experience our hardships will come inevitably but it

hardships will come inevitably but it

hardships will come inevitably but it should not be that because of the way

should not be that because of the way

should not be that because of the way that I was born I will inevitably

that I was born I will inevitably

that I was born I will inevitably experience certain hardships and that’s

experience certain hardships and that’s

experience certain hardships and that’s important for us to swallow and

important for us to swallow and

important for us to swallow and recognize and challenge because if we’re

recognize and challenge because if we’re

recognize and challenge because if we’re interested in the future and the goals

interested in the future and the goals

interested in the future and the goals of our progress of our society we need

of our progress of our society we need

of our progress of our society we need to be pushing people to score so what I

to be pushing people to score so what I

to be pushing people to score so what I want to say to all of you today is

want to say to all of you today is

want to say to all of you today is something that I tell anyone when they

something that I tell anyone when they

something that I tell anyone when they ask me for advice and a lot of people

ask me for advice and a lot of people

ask me for advice and a lot of people ask me as a youth activist as a youth

ask me as a youth activist as a youth

ask me as a youth activist as a youth entrepreneur what do you want to tell

entrepreneur what do you want to tell

entrepreneur what do you want to tell other young see what do you want tell

other young see what do you want tell

other young see what do you want tell other people and what I say is run and

other people and what I say is run and

other people and what I say is run and while using a lot of sports analogies

while using a lot of sports analogies

while using a lot of sports analogies I’m not quite good at athletics oh I

I’m not quite good at athletics oh I

I’m not quite good at athletics oh I don’t mean physical running I mean we

don’t mean physical running I mean we

don’t mean physical running I mean we all have something that ignites the

all have something that ignites the

all have something that ignites the passion in our stomach that makes your

passion in our stomach that makes your

passion in our stomach that makes your eyes light up we all have that thing do

eyes light up we all have that thing do

eyes light up we all have that thing do it run with it now find that breakaway

it run with it now find that breakaway

it run with it now find that breakaway past the other players create that space

past the other players create that space

past the other players create that space and soar that’s your right that’s your

and soar that’s your right that’s your

and soar that’s your right that’s your duty we need to be running with these

duty we need to be running with these

duty we need to be running with these ideas with our passions until we can

ideas with our passions until we can

ideas with our passions until we can feel the wind against our hair

feel the wind against our hair

feel the wind against our hair and we look back for two reasons to see

and we look back for two reasons to see

and we look back for two reasons to see how far we’ve come and to see who we’ve

how far we’ve come and to see who we’ve

how far we’ve come and to see who we’ve left behind and that’s the step that

left behind and that’s the step that

left behind and that’s the step that we’re all too often missing because a

we’re all too often missing because a

we’re all too often missing because a lot of us are thriving but how many of

lot of us are thriving but how many of

lot of us are thriving but how many of us are taking the time to realize okay

us are taking the time to realize okay

us are taking the time to realize okay I’m here I’m on this platform who isn’t

I’m here I’m on this platform who isn’t

I’m here I’m on this platform who isn’t here who isn’t in this room and what can

here who isn’t in this room and what can

here who isn’t in this room and what can I do to get them to this to this point

I do to get them to this to this point

I do to get them to this to this point so we need to find those people we need

so we need to find those people we need

so we need to find those people we need to look back and see who did we leave

to look back and see who did we leave

to look back and see who did we leave behind and carry them on our backs

behind and carry them on our backs

behind and carry them on our backs forward that’s what this moment demands

forward that’s what this moment demands

forward that’s what this moment demands as an American Muslim right now if I

as an American Muslim right now if I

as an American Muslim right now if I tweet about today right now and I get

tweet about today right now and I get

tweet about today right now and I get more than 10 retweets the trolls will

more than 10 retweets the trolls will

more than 10 retweets the trolls will come out and attack me because my name

come out and attack me because my name

come out and attack me because my name sounds Muslim to them because my name

sounds Muslim to them because my name

sounds Muslim to them because my name means fear to them because where I come

means fear to them because where I come

means fear to them because where I come from is foreign to them and they hate me

from is foreign to them and they hate me

from is foreign to them and they hate me based on that alone that’s my reality

based on that alone that’s my reality

based on that alone that’s my reality and for so many of us there are moments

and for so many of us there are moments

and for so many of us there are moments where we feel invalidated and fearful of

where we feel invalidated and fearful of

where we feel invalidated and fearful of who we are and how we identify and we

who we are and how we identify and we

who we are and how we identify and we shouldn’t and my page to you today let’s

shouldn’t and my page to you today let’s

shouldn’t and my page to you today let’s pass to one another let’s create these

pass to one another let’s create these

pass to one another let’s create these spaces where we can feel full where we

spaces where we can feel full where we

spaces where we can feel full where we can be ourselves where we can join on

can be ourselves where we can join on

can be ourselves where we can join on the same team instead of being pitted

the same team instead of being pitted

the same team instead of being pitted against one another because we can all

against one another because we can all

against one another because we can all play in different styles we can have our

play in different styles we can have our

play in different styles we can have our own Flair’s we can have our own

own Flair’s we can have our own

own Flair’s we can have our own different moves we can pass one another

different moves we can pass one another

different moves we can pass one another we can be one hell of a beautiful team

we can be one hell of a beautiful team

we can be one hell of a beautiful team and I reckon we can score one hell of a

and I reckon we can score one hell of a

and I reckon we can score one hell of a spectacular goal together what so many

spectacular goal together what so many

spectacular goal together what so many millions of spectacular goals together

millions of spectacular goals together

millions of spectacular goals together cohesive collaborations and

cohesive collaborations and

cohesive collaborations and contributions to society that make this

contributions to society that make this

contributions to society that make this world a more full and beautiful place

world a more full and beautiful place

world a more full and beautiful place that’s what this moment demands let’s

that’s what this moment demands let’s

that’s what this moment demands let’s pass to one another let’s pass the mic

pass to one another let’s pass the mic

pass to one another let’s pass the mic buttsfast the ball let’s take flight

buttsfast the ball let’s take flight

buttsfast the ball let’s take flight together let’s score together I don’t

together let’s score together I don’t

together let’s score together I don’t care what the analogy or metaphor is

care what the analogy or metaphor is

care what the analogy or metaphor is let’s do it together let’s recognize our

let’s do it together let’s recognize our

let’s do it together let’s recognize our differences and do something positive

differences and do something positive

differences and do something positive with them who’s with me

how old are you I’m 18 years old see if

how old are you I’m 18 years old see if I’ve been like you 18 I think I’ll be

I’ve been like you 18 I think I’ll be

I’ve been like you 18 I think I’ll be running the planet by now I don’t know

running the planet by now I don’t know

running the planet by now I don’t know about that but I love is that you’ve

about that but I love is that you’ve

about that but I love is that you’ve come to this decision so early that

come to this decision so early that

come to this decision so early that you’ve can’t you’ve obviously spent time

you’ve can’t you’ve obviously spent time

you’ve can’t you’ve obviously spent time thinking about it and and I love that

thinking about it and and I love that

thinking about it and and I love that you’re so in touch with the reality of

you’re so in touch with the reality of

you’re so in touch with the reality of what it is to be an American Muslim and

what it is to be an American Muslim and

what it is to be an American Muslim and and as you say be in defense yeah and

and as you say be in defense yeah and

and as you say be in defense yeah and and always interested cause listening to

and always interested cause listening to

and always interested cause listening to you you know you sort of talked about

you you know you sort of talked about

you you know you sort of talked about there are people that aren’t here people

there are people that aren’t here people

there are people that aren’t here people are in the room and but you’re coming

are in the room and but you’re coming

are in the room and but you’re coming from a position of being one of those

from a position of being one of those

from a position of being one of those people yeah so you’ve made a real

people yeah so you’ve made a real

people yeah so you’ve made a real transition to saying yes I’m

transition to saying yes I’m

transition to saying yes I’m marginalized and yes I want to be there

marginalized and yes I want to be there

marginalized and yes I want to be there to support others yeah I mean the thing

to support others yeah I mean the thing

to support others yeah I mean the thing about it is there are all things that we

about it is there are all things that we

about it is there are all things that we experience privilege from and there are

experience privilege from and there are

experience privilege from and there are all things that we experience

all things that we experience

all things that we experience discrimination for right and I’ve been

discrimination for right and I’ve been

discrimination for right and I’ve been very fortunate to have a lot of

very fortunate to have a lot of

very fortunate to have a lot of religious in my life the fact that I’m

religious in my life the fact that I’m

religious in my life the fact that I’m in this room right now that I could

in this room right now that I could

in this room right now that I could travel from the u.s. to the UK that I

travel from the u.s. to the UK that I

travel from the u.s. to the UK that I could experience the safety has informed

could experience the safety has informed

could experience the safety has informed my perspective right so while I might be

my perspective right so while I might be

my perspective right so while I might be marginalized in one regard I’m not here

marginalized in one regard I’m not here

marginalized in one regard I’m not here to say I’m exclusively a victim

to say I’m exclusively a victim

to say I’m exclusively a victim I’m also complicit in so much

I’m also complicit in so much

I’m also complicit in so much marginalization of other communities and

marginalization of other communities and

marginalization of other communities and and I have to be able to challenge that

and I have to be able to challenge that

and I have to be able to challenge that and see yes okay so maybe in some way

and see yes okay so maybe in some way

and see yes okay so maybe in some way I’m marginalized in a way that we all

I’m marginalized in a way that we all

I’m marginalized in a way that we all are but who else is being marginalized

are but who else is being marginalized

are but who else is being marginalized more right how can I say right that I’m

more right how can I say right that I’m

more right how can I say right that I’m experience suffering when the Syrian

experience suffering when the Syrian

experience suffering when the Syrian refugees 22 million people are displaced

refugees 22 million people are displaced

refugees 22 million people are displaced yes

yes

yes I’m suffering in some regards but I’m

I’m suffering in some regards but I’m

I’m suffering in some regards but I’m more interested in talking about

more interested in talking about

more interested in talking about collective suffering the people after me

collective suffering the people after me

collective suffering the people after me our ability for each and every person to

our ability for each and every person to

our ability for each and every person to realize their full potential and I think

realize their full potential and I think

realize their full potential and I think that that is a human want and something

that that is a human want and something

that that is a human want and something that we’re all passionate we all want to

that we’re all passionate we all want to

that we’re all passionate we all want to feel safe and loved and accepted and we

feel safe and loved and accepted and we

feel safe and loved and accepted and we all care about that it’s just a matter

all care about that it’s just a matter

all care about that it’s just a matter of finding the space to do that and I’ve

of finding the space to do that and I’ve

of finding the space to do that and I’ve been fortunate to have the flip there’s

been fortunate to have the flip there’s

been fortunate to have the flip there’s the final spaces and create an

the final spaces and create an

the final spaces and create an organization how the resources and

organization how the resources and

organization how the resources and community to do so and it’s just a

community to do so and it’s just a

community to do so and it’s just a matter of us working together to create

matter of us working together to create

matter of us working together to create those spaces for all of us oh I just

those spaces for all of us oh I just

those spaces for all of us oh I just love that thank you I love that you can

love that thank you I love that you can

love that thank you I love that you can you know you can see where you have

you know you can see where you have

you know you can see where you have capacity and you can turn other people

capacity and you can turn other people

capacity and you can turn other people when I live when I look at you when I

when I live when I look at you when I

when I live when I look at you when I look at you

look at you

look at you you know I think I think swag and swag

you know I think I think swag and swag

you know I think I think swag and swag stands for seriously wild audacious

stands for seriously wild audacious

stands for seriously wild audacious goals I love that that’s what I love

goals I love that that’s what I love

goals I love that that’s what I love standing back there working out my

standing back there working out my

standing back there working out my acronyms and I really think because you

acronyms and I really think because you

acronyms and I really think because you know this kind of idea of saying what

know this kind of idea of saying what

know this kind of idea of saying what can we do what can we do what can you do

can we do what can we do what can you do

can we do what can we do what can you do we talked before about one person making

we talked before about one person making

we talked before about one person making a difference what you’re encouraging is

a difference what you’re encouraging is

a difference what you’re encouraging is all to do is to look at ourselves and

all to do is to look at ourselves and

all to do is to look at ourselves and say so what do we have

say so what do we have

say so what do we have yeah we have all this but what would it

yeah we have all this but what would it

yeah we have all this but what would it look like if we did this what would it

look like if we did this what would it

look like if we did this what would it look like if we could talk we did

look like if we could talk we did

look like if we could talk we did together absolutely as a community so

together absolutely as a community so

together absolutely as a community so please give it up for this amazing chat

please give it up for this amazing chat

please give it up for this amazing chat thank you thank you so much

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