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Learn to Lead | Shurti Adusumilli | TEDxYouth@PonderosaHeights


from a young age we’re taught there are

from a young age we’re taught there are two kinds of people in the world there

two kinds of people in the world there

two kinds of people in the world there are leaders and there are followers but

are leaders and there are followers but

are leaders and there are followers but like a lot of other children and my

like a lot of other children and my

like a lot of other children and my parents encouraged to come leader and in

parents encouraged to come leader and in

parents encouraged to come leader and in my case not simply about writing to be

my case not simply about writing to be

my case not simply about writing to be the third grade student council

the third grade student council

the third grade student council representative for my class so I did

representative for my class so I did

representative for my class so I did just die suddenly and I was attending

just die suddenly and I was attending

just die suddenly and I was attending monthly meetings for I would make

monthly meetings for I would make

monthly meetings for I would make groundbreaking decision it’s like what

groundbreaking decision it’s like what

groundbreaking decision it’s like what flavor lollipop should go on to our

flavor lollipop should go on to our

flavor lollipop should go on to our Valentine grads although my change was

Valentine grads although my change was

Valentine grads although my change was not substantial if I believed it to the

not substantial if I believed it to the

not substantial if I believed it to the other side going back to my positive

other side going back to my positive

other side going back to my positive reporting from our meetings made me feel

reporting from our meetings made me feel

reporting from our meetings made me feel like I had something that I didn’t

like I had something that I didn’t

like I had something that I didn’t necessarily have before power after

necessarily have before power after

necessarily have before power after implementing leadership and the work

implementing leadership and the work

implementing leadership and the work aspects of my life which in this case it

aspects of my life which in this case it

aspects of my life which in this case it was just elementary school I decided the

was just elementary school I decided the

was just elementary school I decided the highlight impact leadership in the play

highlight impact leadership in the play

highlight impact leadership in the play every day and I would go to the park in

every day and I would go to the park in

every day and I would go to the park in front of my house and play games like

front of my house and play games like

front of my house and play games like kind of diva tag with the five to ten

kind of diva tag with the five to ten

kind of diva tag with the five to ten another tip that led to my neighborhood

another tip that led to my neighborhood

another tip that led to my neighborhood cover my age one day we were all

cover my age one day we were all

cover my age one day we were all standing on the field arguing about who

standing on the field arguing about who

standing on the field arguing about who was going to beat it in the next game

was going to beat it in the next game

was going to beat it in the next game attack when suddenly I feel up with a

attack when suddenly I feel up with a

attack when suddenly I feel up with a brilliant idea I turned my back to the

brilliant idea I turned my back to the

brilliant idea I turned my back to the group and yelled at the top of my lungs

group and yelled at the top of my lungs

group and yelled at the top of my lungs last one to the play structure in it and

last one to the play structure in it and

last one to the play structure in it and as if everybody was glued to a trance

as if everybody was glued to a trance

as if everybody was glued to a trance they ran as fast as they could to make

they ran as fast as they could to make

they ran as fast as they could to make sure that they were not the last person

sure that they were not the last person

sure that they were not the last person from that day I became the unofficial

from that day I became the unofficial

from that day I became the unofficial leader of the park I will decide what

leader of the park I will decide what

leader of the park I will decide what games we were going to play when we were

games we were going to play when we were

games we were going to play when we were going to play them and who was going to

going to play them and who was going to

going to play them and who was going to play that but being the unofficial

play that but being the unofficial

play that but being the unofficial leader wasn’t enough for my greeting 9

leader wasn’t enough for my greeting 9

leader wasn’t enough for my greeting 9 year old self I wanted recognition so I

year old self I wanted recognition so I

year old self I wanted recognition so I decided that I was going to hold a club

decided that I was going to hold a club

decided that I was going to hold a club election almost certain that I was going

election almost certain that I was going

election almost certain that I was going to win have fun collection all the

to win have fun collection all the

to win have fun collection all the stirring that I was going to win

stirring that I was going to win

stirring that I was going to win president when with the votes were

president when with the votes were

president when with the votes were tallied and the results were given out I

tallied and the results were given out I

tallied and the results were given out I thought the biggest shock of my nine

thought the biggest shock of my nine

thought the biggest shock of my nine year old life I have lost I’ve had only

year old life I have lost I’ve had only

year old life I have lost I’ve had only a short temper tantrum I decided to find

a short temper tantrum I decided to find

a short temper tantrum I decided to find out who actually did one use the part

out who actually did one use the part

out who actually did one use the part reductions and it turned out to be my

reductions and it turned out to be my

reductions and it turned out to be my best friend although I was happy for her

best friend although I was happy for her

best friend although I was happy for her I didn’t understand why she had one

I didn’t understand why she had one

I didn’t understand why she had one because she was shot she was quiet and

because she was shot she was quiet and

because she was shot she was quiet and she listened to what everybody else told

she listened to what everybody else told

she listened to what everybody else told her to do in my mind she was the epitome

her to do in my mind she was the epitome

her to do in my mind she was the epitome of a follower so I decided to ask one of

of a follower so I decided to ask one of

of a follower so I decided to ask one of the kids why he had voted for her rather

the kids why he had voted for her rather

the kids why he had voted for her rather than me and he was extremely why he said

than me and he was extremely why he said

than me and he was extremely why he said that I was way too bossy and aggressive

that I was way too bossy and aggressive

that I was way too bossy and aggressive and I never listened to any of the other

and I never listened to any of the other

and I never listened to any of the other kids wanted to do I just made my own

kids wanted to do I just made my own

kids wanted to do I just made my own decisions

decisions

decisions in the government either there are two

in the government either there are two

in the government either there are two very important buttons about leadership

very important buttons about leadership

very important buttons about leadership the first being that there’s a large

the first being that there’s a large

the first being that there’s a large difference between being a person and

difference between being a person and

difference between being a person and power and being opener power something

power and being opener power something

power and being opener power something that’s circumstantial whether you are

that’s circumstantial whether you are

that’s circumstantial whether you are the President of the United States or a

the President of the United States or a

the President of the United States or a club president power something that you

club president power something that you

club president power something that you can earn simply by a vote but being the

can earn simply by a vote but being the

can earn simply by a vote but being the leader is something completely different

leader is something completely different

leader is something completely different it’s something that needs to be earned

it’s something that needs to be earned

it’s something that needs to be earned or in this case learned I also learned

or in this case learned I also learned

or in this case learned I also learned that every good leader is first a

that every good leader is first a

that every good leader is first a follower because if you can’t learn how

follower because if you can’t learn how

follower because if you can’t learn how to be part of an entity how do you learn

to be part of an entity how do you learn

to be part of an entity how do you learn to leave that group so I decided to

to leave that group so I decided to

to leave that group so I decided to stick myself with my 9 year old

stick myself with my 9 year old

stick myself with my 9 year old dictatorship qualities and learned what

dictatorship qualities and learned what

dictatorship qualities and learned what it actually meant to be a good leader

it actually meant to be a good leader

it actually meant to be a good leader and I whittled it down to three main

and I whittled it down to three main

and I whittled it down to three main qualities the first being effective

qualities the first being effective

qualities the first being effective communication now in the days before

communication now in the days before

communication now in the days before water and technology you can play novice

water and technology you can play novice

water and technology you can play novice banach to a message on a faulty pidgin

banach to a message on a faulty pidgin

banach to a message on a faulty pidgin of the pigeon post but now when we have

of the pigeon post but now when we have

of the pigeon post but now when we have many social media outlets mail servers

many social media outlets mail servers

many social media outlets mail servers and messaging house leaving somebody on

and messaging house leaving somebody on

and messaging house leaving somebody on bread isn’t something that can be

bread isn’t something that can be

bread isn’t something that can be excused when you respond to your team’s

excused when you respond to your team’s

excused when you respond to your team’s questions concerns and ideas quickly and

questions concerns and ideas quickly and

questions concerns and ideas quickly and effectively you can streamline the

effectively you can streamline the

effectively you can streamline the process and make sure that things

process and make sure that things

process and make sure that things actually get done the second quality is

actually get done the second quality is

actually get done the second quality is open-mindedness

open-mindedness

open-mindedness open-mindedness is extremely important

open-mindedness is extremely important

open-mindedness is extremely important because I’m sorry to break it to you but

because I’m sorry to break it to you but

because I’m sorry to break it to you but chances are your idea is not the best

chances are your idea is not the best

chances are your idea is not the best I’m sure you have a good idea but by

I’m sure you have a good idea but by

I’m sure you have a good idea but by asking other people for their ideas you

asking other people for their ideas you

asking other people for their ideas you can make those better being open-minded

can make those better being open-minded

can make those better being open-minded not only makes you a more knowledgeable

not only makes you a more knowledgeable

not only makes you a more knowledgeable Perceval leader so you can make sure

Perceval leader so you can make sure

Perceval leader so you can make sure that whatever you’re working on with

that whatever you’re working on with

that whatever you’re working on with your team can be improved because of the

your team can be improved because of the

your team can be improved because of the whole Museum of possibilities and

whole Museum of possibilities and

whole Museum of possibilities and perspectives that are being added on to

perspectives that are being added on to

perspectives that are being added on to it the third quality is accountability

it the third quality is accountability

it the third quality is accountability in my mind this is the hardest thing to

in my mind this is the hardest thing to

in my mind this is the hardest thing to do as an effective leader because it’s

do as an effective leader because it’s

do as an effective leader because it’s really easy to want to play what I like

really easy to want to play what I like

really easy to want to play what I like to call the blame game this is something

to call the blame game this is something

to call the blame game this is something that we see a lot in modern politics and

that we see a lot in modern politics and

that we see a lot in modern politics and headlines like competitions blame others

headlines like competitions blame others

headlines like competitions blame others for there to be peace when politicians

for there to be peace when politicians

for there to be peace when politicians and governments fail people blame the

and governments fail people blame the

and governments fail people blame the other party and my favorite Donald Trump

other party and my favorite Donald Trump

other party and my favorite Donald Trump in the psychology of blame it’s

in the psychology of blame it’s

in the psychology of blame it’s extremely easy to just point fingers and

extremely easy to just point fingers and

extremely easy to just point fingers and blame the person to your left

blame the person to your left

blame the person to your left but your leader will actually analyze

but your leader will actually analyze

but your leader will actually analyze the situation and see how they’re going

the situation and see how they’re going

the situation and see how they’re going false led to that failure even though

false led to that failure even though

false led to that failure even though you may not you may not be the sole

you may not you may not be the sole

you may not you may not be the sole reason for that failure everybody plays

reason for that failure everybody plays

reason for that failure everybody plays a part when you’re part of the team so

a part when you’re part of the team so

a part when you’re part of the team so by analyzing how you contributed you can

by analyzing how you contributed you can

by analyzing how you contributed you can make sure that those mistakes do not

make sure that those mistakes do not

make sure that those mistakes do not repeat themselves so right now if I need

repeat themselves so right now if I need

repeat themselves so right now if I need a good bite being a good communicator

a good bite being a good communicator

a good bite being a good communicator you can make sure that things actually

you can make sure that things actually

you can make sure that things actually get done but being open-minded you can

get done but being open-minded you can

get done but being open-minded you can make sure that those things are the best

make sure that those things are the best

make sure that those things are the best that they can be if I mean by holding

that they can be if I mean by holding

that they can be if I mean by holding yourself accountable you can make sure

yourself accountable you can make sure

yourself accountable you can make sure that past mistakes do not repeat

that past mistakes do not repeat

that past mistakes do not repeat themselves seven years later I’m about

themselves seven years later I’m about

themselves seven years later I’m about to say that I no longer that nine year

to say that I no longer that nine year

to say that I no longer that nine year old dictator that I was in the park in

old dictator that I was in the park in

old dictator that I was in the park in front of my house rather than leadership

front of my house rather than leadership

front of my house rather than leadership is something that’s prevalent in my

is something that’s prevalent in my

is something that’s prevalent in my everyday life for me the number on my

everyday life for me the number on my

everyday life for me the number on my city’s youth council advisory board to

city’s youth council advisory board to

city’s youth council advisory board to starting a nonprofit with my friends

starting a nonprofit with my friends

starting a nonprofit with my friends leadership is something that is very

leadership is something that is very

leadership is something that is very prevalent in my life and it’s something

prevalent in my life and it’s something

prevalent in my life and it’s something that I have to do on a daily basis

that I have to do on a daily basis

that I have to do on a daily basis however like many other things in life

however like many other things in life

however like many other things in life it’s a never-ending learning process I

it’s a never-ending learning process I

it’s a never-ending learning process I still have a long way to go I am a hard

still have a long way to go I am a hard

still have a long way to go I am a hard time being patient and being receptive

time being patient and being receptive

time being patient and being receptive to other people’s ideas but I have a

to other people’s ideas but I have a

to other people’s ideas but I have a strong believer in the idea that no

strong believer in the idea that no

strong believer in the idea that no matter how old you are or what stage you

matter how old you are or what stage you

matter how old you are or what stage you are in your life you can always learn to

are in your life you can always learn to

are in your life you can always learn to lead thank you

lead thank you

lead thank you [Applause]

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