when I was three years old I remember playing a game of chase with my older
playing a game of chase with my older
playing a game of chase with my older brother we were running around the house
brother we were running around the house
brother we were running around the house just like kids do and my brother decided
just like kids do and my brother decided
just like kids do and my brother decided to take the game to the next level he
to take the game to the next level he
to take the game to the next level he decided to take his shirt off he’s like
decided to take his shirt off he’s like
decided to take his shirt off he’s like this will make it that much more fun so
this will make it that much more fun so
this will make it that much more fun so he took his shirt off in about ten
he took his shirt off in about ten
he took his shirt off in about ten seconds after he did I was like that
seconds after he did I was like that
seconds after he did I was like that looks like so much fun I’m gonna do the
looks like so much fun I’m gonna do the
looks like so much fun I’m gonna do the same thing so I took my shirt off as
same thing so I took my shirt off as
same thing so I took my shirt off as well and we continued playing a game of
well and we continued playing a game of
well and we continued playing a game of chase about maybe five ten minutes after
chase about maybe five ten minutes after
chase about maybe five ten minutes after that one of my parents came into the
that one of my parents came into the
that one of my parents came into the room and they looked around and they saw
room and they looked around and they saw
room and they looked around and they saw what was going on and they seemed
what was going on and they seemed
what was going on and they seemed confused they turned towards me scolded
confused they turned towards me scolded
confused they turned towards me scolded me to some extent and told me to put my
me to some extent and told me to put my
me to some extent and told me to put my shirt back on instantly I was like oh
shirt back on instantly I was like oh
shirt back on instantly I was like oh okay I didn’t realize I had done
okay I didn’t realize I had done
okay I didn’t realize I had done something wrong
something wrong
something wrong then I waited for that my parents to
then I waited for that my parents to
then I waited for that my parents to tell my brother the same thing and they
tell my brother the same thing and they
tell my brother the same thing and they did it and my brother just lost interest
did it and my brother just lost interest
did it and my brother just lost interest at this point in the game of chase
at this point in the game of chase
at this point in the game of chase because we had got in trouble I had got
because we had got in trouble I had got
because we had got in trouble I had got in trouble and he went off and did his
in trouble and he went off and did his
in trouble and he went off and did his own thing and I remember standing there
own thing and I remember standing there
own thing and I remember standing there as a three-year-old with my hands balled
as a three-year-old with my hands balled
as a three-year-old with my hands balled up into fifths pulsing with anger
up into fifths pulsing with anger
up into fifths pulsing with anger thinking well this isn’t fair that was
thinking well this isn’t fair that was
thinking well this isn’t fair that was the first time I buried a little bit of
the first time I buried a little bit of
the first time I buried a little bit of fight though
fight though
fight though I remember being six years old and I had
I remember being six years old and I had
I remember being six years old and I had a conversation with my aunt in a car
a conversation with my aunt in a car
a conversation with my aunt in a car and she was telling me about all the
and she was telling me about all the
and she was telling me about all the potential suitors that I could one day
potential suitors that I could one day
potential suitors that I could one day choose from I was six years old and she
choose from I was six years old and she
choose from I was six years old and she was telling me about the arranged
was telling me about the arranged
was telling me about the arranged marriage I was going to have one day I
marriage I was going to have one day I
marriage I was going to have one day I was like great I have all these options
was like great I have all these options
was like great I have all these options to choose from
to choose from
to choose from while those options eventually became
while those options eventually became
while those options eventually became restrictions but I lived by it and
restrictions but I lived by it and
restrictions but I lived by it and Pfizer continued to bury herself when I
Pfizer continued to bury herself when I
Pfizer continued to bury herself when I was 15 years old I got
was 15 years old I got
was 15 years old I got engaged to one of those suitors and I
engaged to one of those suitors and I
engaged to one of those suitors and I did Saul willingly because that is all I
did Saul willingly because that is all I
did Saul willingly because that is all I ever knew from the age of six I was told
ever knew from the age of six I was told
ever knew from the age of six I was told that my worth was tied to a marriage I
that my worth was tied to a marriage I
that my worth was tied to a marriage I was told my work was tied to another
was told my work was tied to another
was told my work was tied to another human being and so for a whole year I
human being and so for a whole year I
human being and so for a whole year I was happily engaged to this individual
was happily engaged to this individual
was happily engaged to this individual and then reality set in and what I
and then reality set in and what I
and then reality set in and what I should mention is that another thing
should mention is that another thing
should mention is that another thing that happened to FISA when she was six
that happened to FISA when she was six
that happened to FISA when she was six years old is she started the first grade
years old is she started the first grade
years old is she started the first grade as most six-year-olds do and when FISA
as most six-year-olds do and when FISA
as most six-year-olds do and when FISA was in first grade her first grade
was in first grade her first grade
was in first grade her first grade teacher mrs. contrato told her she
teacher mrs. contrato told her she
teacher mrs. contrato told her she pulled her to the side actually in the
pulled her to the side actually in the
pulled her to the side actually in the classroom and told her one day I just
classroom and told her one day I just
classroom and told her one day I just want you to know how smart and
want you to know how smart and
want you to know how smart and intelligent you are and you will one day
intelligent you are and you will one day
intelligent you are and you will one day amount to something as great as an
amount to something as great as an
amount to something as great as an attorney and doctor or something even
attorney and doctor or something even
attorney and doctor or something even better so I saw this as the curveball of
better so I saw this as the curveball of
better so I saw this as the curveball of my life the curveball that no one
my life the curveball that no one
my life the curveball that no one expected because my parents once again
expected because my parents once again
expected because my parents once again values my marriage more than they valued
values my marriage more than they valued
values my marriage more than they valued my education and so as I was engaged I
my education and so as I was engaged I
my education and so as I was engaged I soon realized that I was going to have
soon realized that I was going to have
soon realized that I was going to have to choose two paths in my life I
to choose two paths in my life I
to choose two paths in my life I realized I was going to have to choose a
realized I was going to have to choose a
realized I was going to have to choose a path where I get married and I start
path where I get married and I start
path where I get married and I start having kids right away as soon as I
having kids right away as soon as I
having kids right away as soon as I graduate from high school or I fight
graduate from high school or I fight
graduate from high school or I fight like hell and I get out of this
like hell and I get out of this
like hell and I get out of this engagement well ten years later no ring
engagement well ten years later no ring
engagement well ten years later no ring on my finger
[Applause]
[Applause] so I thought I fought like hell and I
so I thought I fought like hell and I
so I thought I fought like hell and I share this because it was a time in my
share this because it was a time in my
share this because it was a time in my life where I was listening to one thing
life where I was listening to one thing
life where I was listening to one thing and one thing only and that was my heart
and one thing only and that was my heart
and one thing only and that was my heart it was a time in my life when I felt
it was a time in my life when I felt
it was a time in my life when I felt everyone was against me
everyone was against me
everyone was against me my parents my siblings my friends well
my parents my siblings my friends well
my parents my siblings my friends well at that point my friends didn’t really
at that point my friends didn’t really
at that point my friends didn’t really know what was going on I don’t know how
know what was going on I don’t know how
know what was going on I don’t know how many high schoolers go tell their
many high schoolers go tell their
many high schoolers go tell their Caucasian friends hey by the way I’m
Caucasian friends hey by the way I’m
Caucasian friends hey by the way I’m getting engaged but I shared these
getting engaged but I shared these
getting engaged but I shared these stories because this is what helped me
stories because this is what helped me
stories because this is what helped me first understand that I never got the
first understand that I never got the
first understand that I never got the chance to be me that I grew up with so
chance to be me that I grew up with so
chance to be me that I grew up with so many societal expectations placed onto
many societal expectations placed onto
many societal expectations placed onto me but I share it mostly because every
me but I share it mostly because every
me but I share it mostly because every single one of you in here also has those
single one of you in here also has those
single one of you in here also has those same expectations placed on you they may
same expectations placed on you they may
same expectations placed on you they may look different they may not be as
look different they may not be as
look different they may not be as Extreme as mine but you have them too
Extreme as mine but you have them too
Extreme as mine but you have them too how many of you wake up every single
how many of you wake up every single
how many of you wake up every single morning and go to work from 9:00 to 5:00
morning and go to work from 9:00 to 5:00
morning and go to work from 9:00 to 5:00 come home make your TV dinner turn on
come home make your TV dinner turn on
come home make your TV dinner turn on Netflix and repeat go ahead how many of
Netflix and repeat go ahead how many of
Netflix and repeat go ahead how many of you do that I like to think sadly that a
you do that I like to think sadly that a
you do that I like to think sadly that a lot of us are robots we we don’t get to
lot of us are robots we we don’t get to
lot of us are robots we we don’t get to really understand ourselves we are told
really understand ourselves we are told
really understand ourselves we are told that you have to work this way until
that you have to work this way until
that you have to work this way until you’re 65 I used to work at Huntsman
you’re 65 I used to work at Huntsman
you’re 65 I used to work at Huntsman Cancer Hospital and a lot of my clients
Cancer Hospital and a lot of my clients
Cancer Hospital and a lot of my clients there they didn’t start living until
there they didn’t start living until
there they didn’t start living until retirement they were told to be robotic
retirement they were told to be robotic
retirement they were told to be robotic but then by that time you’re 65 that’s
but then by that time you’re 65 that’s
but then by that time you’re 65 that’s when all the illnesses hit and when do
when all the illnesses hit and when do
when all the illnesses hit and when do you actually get to really live when do
you actually get to really live when do
you actually get to really live when do you actually get to see who’s really
you actually get to see who’s really
you actually get to see who’s really under here I want to share two other
under here I want to share two other
under here I want to share two other stories real quick they’re not mine
stories real quick they’re not mine
stories real quick they’re not mine theirs
theirs
theirs friends that I have recently met I was
friends that I have recently met I was
friends that I have recently met I was sitting with a friends one night he
sitting with a friends one night he
sitting with a friends one night he wants to go to school to become a social
wants to go to school to become a social
wants to go to school to become a social worker he is african-american from
worker he is african-american from
worker he is african-american from Brooklyn and he looks like a
Brooklyn and he looks like a
Brooklyn and he looks like a stereotypical black man like we would
stereotypical black man like we would
stereotypical black man like we would stereotype some would make me say that
stereotype some would make me say that
stereotype some would make me say that he looks like he belongs in a gang and
he looks like he belongs in a gang and
he looks like he belongs in a gang and we were talking and he told me what he
we were talking and he told me what he
we were talking and he told me what he wanted to do and i frightened up I said
wanted to do and i frightened up I said
wanted to do and i frightened up I said you don’t understand how many
you don’t understand how many
you don’t understand how many individuals you’re going to be able to
individuals you’re going to be able to
individuals you’re going to be able to help in your community and as we were
help in your community and as we were
help in your community and as we were talking as we were talking he all of a
talking as we were talking he all of a
talking as we were talking he all of a sudden changed the way he was talking
sudden changed the way he was talking
sudden changed the way he was talking with me he changed his tone and he
with me he changed his tone and he
with me he changed his tone and he changed his accent and I said hey what
changed his accent and I said hey what
changed his accent and I said hey what are you doing and he said well I want to
are you doing and he said well I want to
are you doing and he said well I want to South I want to be taken seriously and
South I want to be taken seriously and
South I want to be taken seriously and if I want to be taken seriously I can’t
if I want to be taken seriously I can’t
if I want to be taken seriously I can’t talk like this and he has to do that
talk like this and he has to do that
talk like this and he has to do that every single day he has to mute his
every single day he has to mute his
every single day he has to mute his personality he has to change who he is
personality he has to change who he is
personality he has to change who he is another friend a transgender woman she
another friend a transgender woman she
another friend a transgender woman she heard me give a talk once about my
heard me give a talk once about my
heard me give a talk once about my mental health
mental health
mental health I battled with depression for about 10
I battled with depression for about 10
I battled with depression for about 10 years I used to cut and the reason I
years I used to cut and the reason I
years I used to cut and the reason I used to cut is because when you go
used to cut is because when you go
used to cut is because when you go through so much emotional pain as what
through so much emotional pain as what
through so much emotional pain as what my situation when I was engaged
my situation when I was engaged
my situation when I was engaged sometimes you feel like you’re starting
sometimes you feel like you’re starting
sometimes you feel like you’re starting to make the pain up in your head and
to make the pain up in your head and
to make the pain up in your head and when that happens you want to feel real
when that happens you want to feel real
when that happens you want to feel real pain because the emotional pain can’t
pain because the emotional pain can’t
pain because the emotional pain can’t actually be true so this transgender
actually be true so this transgender
actually be true so this transgender woman I was talking to she started
woman I was talking to she started
woman I was talking to she started crying and she told me I just want you
crying and she told me I just want you
crying and she told me I just want you to know that when I decided to take on
to know that when I decided to take on
to know that when I decided to take on my true identity and be who I really am
my true identity and be who I really am
my true identity and be who I really am it was the happiest I had ever been but
it was the happiest I had ever been but
it was the happiest I had ever been but the journey that took me there was so
the journey that took me there was so
the journey that took me there was so painful that most people don’t want to
painful that most people don’t want to
painful that most people don’t want to go through it so I’m in a really pivotal
go through it so I’m in a really pivotal
go through it so I’m in a really pivotal point in my life right now
point in my life right now
point in my life right now 25 years old I live on my own which is
25 years old I live on my own which is
25 years old I live on my own which is taboo in my culture I am not married I’m
taboo in my culture I am not married I’m
taboo in my culture I am not married I’m not engaged I don’t have a boyfriend
not engaged I don’t have a boyfriend
not engaged I don’t have a boyfriend which is also not really good why aren’t
which is also not really good why aren’t
which is also not really good why aren’t you married
you married
you married all the Pakistani auntie’s see me and
all the Pakistani auntie’s see me and
all the Pakistani auntie’s see me and they come up to me and they say BEC now
they come up to me and they say BEC now
they come up to me and they say BEC now why aren’t you married yet what’s wrong
why aren’t you married yet what’s wrong
why aren’t you married yet what’s wrong you know that there’s something wrong
you know that there’s something wrong
you know that there’s something wrong with me you know society tells us a
with me you know society tells us a
with me you know society tells us a really big lie they tell us that in
really big lie they tell us that in
really big lie they tell us that in order to be happy we have to find that
order to be happy we have to find that
order to be happy we have to find that happiness in someone else yet I don’t
happiness in someone else yet I don’t
happiness in someone else yet I don’t have anything that’s etat Society says I
have anything that’s etat Society says I
have anything that’s etat Society says I should have I barely have a career
should have I barely have a career
should have I barely have a career that’s going for me but what if I lose
that’s going for me but what if I lose
that’s going for me but what if I lose that in 10 years what if I’m no longer a
that in 10 years what if I’m no longer a
that in 10 years what if I’m no longer a mental health therapist then I want then
mental health therapist then I want then
mental health therapist then I want then who is Pfizer going to be because right
who is Pfizer going to be because right
who is Pfizer going to be because right now if Isis just a mental health
now if Isis just a mental health
now if Isis just a mental health therapist but that’s what society says
therapist but that’s what society says
therapist but that’s what society says and that’s completely incorrect because
and that’s completely incorrect because
and that’s completely incorrect because I’m going to tell you who FISA is by
I’m going to tell you who FISA is by
I’m going to tell you who FISA is by this compassionate wisest loving FISA
this compassionate wisest loving FISA
this compassionate wisest loving FISA cares so much about everyone around her
cares so much about everyone around her
cares so much about everyone around her and yet everyone wants to put her into a
and yet everyone wants to put her into a
and yet everyone wants to put her into a box and I tell you this because the
box and I tell you this because the
box and I tell you this because the journey that has taken me to get here
journey that has taken me to get here
journey that has taken me to get here has been extremely painful it has been
has been extremely painful it has been
has been extremely painful it has been lonely it has been isolating and it
lonely it has been isolating and it
lonely it has been isolating and it feels like no one understands the pain
feels like no one understands the pain
feels like no one understands the pain that it takes to get here and again why
that it takes to get here and again why
that it takes to get here and again why do I share this with you what does this
do I share this with you what does this
do I share this with you what does this have to do with anything to be your
have to do with anything to be your
have to do with anything to be your authentic self because at the end of the
authentic self because at the end of the
authentic self because at the end of the day each and every single one of us are
day each and every single one of us are
day each and every single one of us are going to walk out of here living up to
going to walk out of here living up to
going to walk out of here living up to someone’s expectations except for our
someone’s expectations except for our
someone’s expectations except for our own
so you’ve got your mom’s expectations
so you’ve got your mom’s expectations your dad’s your siblings your employers
your dad’s your siblings your employers
your dad’s your siblings your employers when do you actually get to listen to
when do you actually get to listen to
when do you actually get to listen to yourself and just be you have you ever
yourself and just be you have you ever
yourself and just be you have you ever looked inside I have and it’s amazing
looked inside I have and it’s amazing
looked inside I have and it’s amazing because what’s in there is love and it’s
because what’s in there is love and it’s
because what’s in there is love and it’s light and it’s that love that every
light and it’s that love that every
light and it’s that love that every single one of us try to find within
single one of us try to find within
single one of us try to find within someone else but did you know that you
someone else but did you know that you
someone else but did you know that you are enough did you know you are worth it
are enough did you know you are worth it
are enough did you know you are worth it did you know that happiness you are
did you know that happiness you are
did you know that happiness you are trying to find is right here has anyone
trying to find is right here has anyone
trying to find is right here has anyone ever told you that as anyone ever told
ever told you that as anyone ever told
ever told you that as anyone ever told you that you’re looking in all the wrong
you that you’re looking in all the wrong
you that you’re looking in all the wrong places as anyone ever told you that your
places as anyone ever told you that your
places as anyone ever told you that your compassion is not complete until it
compassion is not complete until it
compassion is not complete until it includes yourself what do you do when a
includes yourself what do you do when a
includes yourself what do you do when a friend comes to you and they’re and
friend comes to you and they’re and
friend comes to you and they’re and they’re torn up and they’re going
they’re torn up and they’re going
they’re torn up and they’re going through a situation you want to be there
through a situation you want to be there
through a situation you want to be there for them but do you ever do that for
for them but do you ever do that for
for them but do you ever do that for yourself
yourself
yourself no you don’t because it’s too hard to be
no you don’t because it’s too hard to be
no you don’t because it’s too hard to be nice to yourself it’s too hard for some
nice to yourself it’s too hard for some
nice to yourself it’s too hard for some reason you’re a failure
reason you’re a failure
reason you’re a failure for some reason you’re not living up to
for some reason you’re not living up to
for some reason you’re not living up to it for some reason you’re always
it for some reason you’re always
it for some reason you’re always disappointing someone the other lie that
disappointing someone the other lie that
disappointing someone the other lie that we live is that we always expect things
we live is that we always expect things
we live is that we always expect things from other individuals and we’re tie our
from other individuals and we’re tie our
from other individuals and we’re tie our lives to outcomes we expect our wives to
lives to outcomes we expect our wives to
lives to outcomes we expect our wives to be that we expect our dads to be there
be that we expect our dads to be there
be that we expect our dads to be there we expect our children to take care of
we expect our children to take care of
we expect our children to take care of us when we grow older that’s a lie how
us when we grow older that’s a lie how
us when we grow older that’s a lie how many of them were actually there you
many of them were actually there you
many of them were actually there you come into this life alone and you leave
come into this life alone and you leave
come into this life alone and you leave this life alone if you can learn to be
this life alone if you can learn to be
this life alone if you can learn to be your own best friend it’ll save you a
your own best friend it’ll save you a
your own best friend it’ll save you a lot of heartache and I’m not telling you
lot of heartache and I’m not telling you
lot of heartache and I’m not telling you to you know go quit your jobs tomorrow
to you know go quit your jobs tomorrow
to you know go quit your jobs tomorrow oh and you know go tell all your friends
oh and you know go tell all your friends
oh and you know go tell all your friends to screw off that’s not what I’m saying
to screw off that’s not what I’m saying
to screw off that’s not what I’m saying they’re there for you but sometimes you
they’re there for you but sometimes you
they’re there for you but sometimes you just need to be there for yourself it’s
just need to be there for yourself it’s
just need to be there for yourself it’s the hardest thing to do but when you do
the hardest thing to do but when you do
the hardest thing to do but when you do it it gets so much easier when you live
it it gets so much easier when you live
it it gets so much easier when you live your life through the pain that you have
your life through the pain that you have
your life through the pain that you have experienced when you roll around it you
experienced when you roll around it you
experienced when you roll around it you know how elephants roll around in mud
know how elephants roll around in mud
know how elephants roll around in mud yeah you should roll around in your pain
yeah you should roll around in your pain
yeah you should roll around in your pain and I know it’s hard it’s really really
and I know it’s hard it’s really really
and I know it’s hard it’s really really hard but through the pain come something
hard but through the pain come something
hard but through the pain come something so wonderful through the pain comes the
so wonderful through the pain comes the
so wonderful through the pain comes the path that you get to choose and not who
path that you get to choose and not who
path that you get to choose and not who someone else gets to choose from you for
someone else gets to choose from you for
someone else gets to choose from you for you so I’m going to give a Lion King
you so I’m going to give a Lion King
you so I’m going to give a Lion King reference now because I’m sure you’ve
reference now because I’m sure you’ve
reference now because I’m sure you’ve all seen the Lion King I was watching
all seen the Lion King I was watching
all seen the Lion King I was watching The Lion King with two of my friends
The Lion King with two of my friends
The Lion King with two of my friends recently and there’s a part in Lion King
recently and there’s a part in Lion King
recently and there’s a part in Lion King where you know Nala comes and finds
where you know Nala comes and finds
where you know Nala comes and finds Simba after you know scar scared them
Simba after you know scar scared them
Simba after you know scar scared them away and everything and when she finds
away and everything and when she finds
away and everything and when she finds him she challenges him and asked him why
him she challenges him and asked him why
him she challenges him and asked him why why aren’t you why are you running away
why aren’t you why are you running away
why aren’t you why are you running away from who you are
from who you are
from who you are why won’t you look at who you are what
why won’t you look at who you are what
why won’t you look at who you are what what is going on and he’s in so much
what is going on and he’s in so much
what is going on and he’s in so much pain and everyone knows that right so
pain and everyone knows that right so
pain and everyone knows that right so then what happens then he meets Rafiki
then what happens then he meets Rafiki
then what happens then he meets Rafiki and he meets Rafiki and Rafiki hits him
and he meets Rafiki and Rafiki hits him
and he meets Rafiki and Rafiki hits him on the head with this little stick and
on the head with this little stick and
on the head with this little stick and he says What did he say he says you know
he says What did he say he says you know
he says What did he say he says you know basically the past is in the past
basically the past is in the past
basically the past is in the past validate your past because every single
validate your past because every single
validate your past because every single one of us here have some sort of trauma
one of us here have some sort of trauma
one of us here have some sort of trauma every single one of us we all walk
every single one of us we all walk
every single one of us we all walk around with trauma but yet we act like
around with trauma but yet we act like
around with trauma but yet we act like we’re fine
we’re fine
we’re fine we cover our trauma up to the point
we cover our trauma up to the point
we cover our trauma up to the point where you just wear a mask every day
where you just wear a mask every day
where you just wear a mask every day when you go to work because another lie
when you go to work because another lie
when you go to work because another lie society tells you
society tells you
society tells you is that you need to pick yourself up by
is that you need to pick yourself up by
is that you need to pick yourself up by your bootstraps sure you do but you
your bootstraps sure you do but you
your bootstraps sure you do but you don’t have to hide anything and that’s
don’t have to hide anything and that’s
don’t have to hide anything and that’s why I wanted to come share my story with
why I wanted to come share my story with
why I wanted to come share my story with all of you guys to hopefully give you
all of you guys to hopefully give you
all of you guys to hopefully give you the courage and strength to do the same
the courage and strength to do the same
the courage and strength to do the same because eventually Rafiki leads Simba to
because eventually Rafiki leads Simba to
because eventually Rafiki leads Simba to that pond and he tells him to look and
that pond and he tells him to look and
that pond and he tells him to look and you know the first time he does it he’s
you know the first time he does it he’s
you know the first time he does it he’s like now it’s just my reflection what’s
like now it’s just my reflection what’s
like now it’s just my reflection what’s there you know but then the second time
there you know but then the second time
there you know but then the second time he does it he sees something much deeper
he does it he sees something much deeper
he does it he sees something much deeper he sees parts of his dad he sees that he
he sees parts of his dad he sees that he
he sees parts of his dad he sees that he is meant to be a king and he goes back
is meant to be a king and he goes back
is meant to be a king and he goes back home and he accepts that role so you are
home and he accepts that role so you are
home and he accepts that role so you are all kings and queens aren’t you
all kings and queens aren’t you
all kings and queens aren’t you suffering and you allow your suffering
suffering and you allow your suffering
suffering and you allow your suffering to control you because what happens is
to control you because what happens is
to control you because what happens is yes something bad probably happened to
yes something bad probably happened to
yes something bad probably happened to each and every single one of us but
each and every single one of us but
each and every single one of us but eventually we become so attached to that
eventually we become so attached to that
eventually we become so attached to that suffering that we learn to live by it
suffering that we learn to live by it
suffering that we learn to live by it because it’s easier to suffer than to
because it’s easier to suffer than to
because it’s easier to suffer than to actually find happiness don’t you think
actually find happiness don’t you think
actually find happiness don’t you think so
so how many of you are ready to actually
so how many of you are ready to actually look inside how many of you are ready to
look inside how many of you are ready to
look inside how many of you are ready to take the journey to find yourself
take the journey to find yourself
take the journey to find yourself because I’ll tell you my clients the
because I’ll tell you my clients the
because I’ll tell you my clients the ones I see for therapy they will all in
ones I see for therapy they will all in
ones I see for therapy they will all in ten seconds tell me ten things they hate
ten seconds tell me ten things they hate
ten seconds tell me ten things they hate about themselves but when I ask them ten
about themselves but when I ask them ten
about themselves but when I ask them ten things they like about themselves they
things they like about themselves they
things they like about themselves they quiver with fear
quiver with fear
quiver with fear I’m just asking them ten things they
I’m just asking them ten things they
I’m just asking them ten things they like about themselves and they can’t do
like about themselves and they can’t do
like about themselves and they can’t do it I’m like how could you possibly be so
it I’m like how could you possibly be so
it I’m like how could you possibly be so hard on yourself you know we live in
hard on yourself you know we live in
hard on yourself you know we live in scary times where we’re divided where we
scary times where we’re divided where we
scary times where we’re divided where we think that we’re so misunderstood and
think that we’re so misunderstood and
think that we’re so misunderstood and who are those bad guys out there trying
who are those bad guys out there trying
who are those bad guys out there trying to come in but at the end of the day
to come in but at the end of the day
to come in but at the end of the day when you learn to accept and love
when you learn to accept and love
when you learn to accept and love yourself you have a you will have a much
yourself you have a you will have a much
yourself you have a you will have a much easier time learning and accepting all
easier time learning and accepting all
easier time learning and accepting all of those around you thank you
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