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Why you should do what you love, not what you’re good at | Leila Pari | TEDxLAWomen


sitting in the corner Finland for hours

sitting in the corner Finland for hours all you feel is old it’s a little colder

all you feel is old it’s a little colder

all you feel is old it’s a little colder every time you feel they just say got it

every time you feel they just say got it

every time you feel they just say got it and keep your head in the game now

and keep your head in the game now

and keep your head in the game now whenever you try teams fly farther in

whenever you try teams fly farther in

whenever you try teams fly farther in the old mind nothing makes sense the

the old mind nothing makes sense the

the old mind nothing makes sense the thing rhymes how many heartbeats get

thing rhymes how many heartbeats get

thing rhymes how many heartbeats get lost

lost

lost taste a glove size way sing in line you

taste a glove size way sing in line you

taste a glove size way sing in line you risk it barbers ceiling falls through

risk it barbers ceiling falls through

risk it barbers ceiling falls through the seams right before your eyes always

the seams right before your eyes always

the seams right before your eyes always out of reach never quite knows back to

out of reach never quite knows back to

out of reach never quite knows back to you

[Music]

[Music] see you step around the corner Sun

see you step around the corner Sun

see you step around the corner Sun shines on you everything that you want

shines on you everything that you want

shines on you everything that you want comes into plain view wait another

comes into plain view wait another

comes into plain view wait another moment you’ll realize it dreams can come

moment you’ll realize it dreams can come

moment you’ll realize it dreams can come back to life

back to life

back to life what if your failures don’t make you

what if your failures don’t make you

what if your failures don’t make you weep they just show you strong you can

weep they just show you strong you can

weep they just show you strong you can be you ask yourself why do the see times

be you ask yourself why do the see times

be you ask yourself why do the see times change but every way don’t leave home

change but every way don’t leave home

change but every way don’t leave home flows o thoughts back to you

[Music]

[Music] you gotta get back up and try try try

exclaiming you too son side side all I

exclaiming you too son side side all I know is that ho floats back thank you

know is that ho floats back thank you

know is that ho floats back thank you [Applause]

passions are the beacons of your destiny

passions are the beacons of your destiny it amazes me that I’m standing before

it amazes me that I’m standing before

it amazes me that I’m standing before you today see my first memory of public

you today see my first memory of public

you today see my first memory of public singing happened when I was in the fifth

singing happened when I was in the fifth

singing happened when I was in the fifth grade choir I was placed in the second

grade choir I was placed in the second

grade choir I was placed in the second to last row of the auditorium after our

to last row of the auditorium after our

to last row of the auditorium after our first performance our teacher clapped

first performance our teacher clapped

first performance our teacher clapped and congratulated us on how great we

and congratulated us on how great we

and congratulated us on how great we sounded and this was immediately

sounded and this was immediately

sounded and this was immediately followed by tap on my shoulder from an

followed by tap on my shoulder from an

followed by tap on my shoulder from an outspoken girl standing behind me who

outspoken girl standing behind me who

outspoken girl standing behind me who leaned over and whispered half to me

leaned over and whispered half to me

leaned over and whispered half to me after friends clearly she wasn’t talking

after friends clearly she wasn’t talking

after friends clearly she wasn’t talking about you Leila

about you Leila

about you Leila in case she’s sitting in his seats

in case she’s sitting in his seats

in case she’s sitting in his seats feeling sorry for me dumb I wasn’t bad

feeling sorry for me dumb I wasn’t bad

feeling sorry for me dumb I wasn’t bad at everything just music I was actually

at everything just music I was actually

at everything just music I was actually really good at a lot of practical things

really good at a lot of practical things

really good at a lot of practical things like math I was so good at math in fact

like math I was so good at math in fact

like math I was so good at math in fact that when I was 14 my mom placed me in

that when I was 14 my mom placed me in

that when I was 14 my mom placed me in three simultaneous math courses one of

three simultaneous math courses one of

three simultaneous math courses one of which was through Community College and

which was through Community College and

which was through Community College and I was so obsessed with studying that

I was so obsessed with studying that

I was so obsessed with studying that when I finished the course I wound up

when I finished the course I wound up

when I finished the course I wound up receiving an A+ in the class along with

receiving an A+ in the class along with

receiving an A+ in the class along with the request that I tutor there the

the request that I tutor there the

the request that I tutor there the following semester for the record I’m

following semester for the record I’m

following semester for the record I’m just saying this to poke fun at the

just saying this to poke fun at the

just saying this to poke fun at the stereotype for female singers

stereotype for female singers

stereotype for female singers Angeles we actually can be smart and

Angeles we actually can be smart and

Angeles we actually can be smart and work hard the two questions I asked

work hard the two questions I asked

work hard the two questions I asked myself for this even if your art your

myself for this even if your art your

myself for this even if your art your love and your creativity don’t bring you

love and your creativity don’t bring you

love and your creativity don’t bring you the grand dreams you carry deep inside

the grand dreams you carry deep inside

the grand dreams you carry deep inside when you still have the desire to pursue

when you still have the desire to pursue

when you still have the desire to pursue them if you have to make a choice

them if you have to make a choice

them if you have to make a choice between passion and civility which would

between passion and civility which would

between passion and civility which would you choose

you choose

you choose much to my parents dismay I turn down my

much to my parents dismay I turn down my

much to my parents dismay I turn down my academic acceptance at the University of

academic acceptance at the University of

academic acceptance at the University of Southern California in order to pursue

Southern California in order to pursue

Southern California in order to pursue my passion for music at the Musicians

my passion for music at the Musicians

my passion for music at the Musicians Institute this is my mantra learn to

Institute this is my mantra learn to

Institute this is my mantra learn to stop envying the naturals because when

stop envying the naturals because when

stop envying the naturals because when things can easy it must be hard to tell

things can easy it must be hard to tell

things can easy it must be hard to tell if you really want it I really really

if you really want it I really really

if you really want it I really really wanted music call it was a bit of a

wanted music call it was a bit of a

wanted music call it was a bit of a culture shock for me I went from being

culture shock for me I went from being

culture shock for me I went from being the over prepared best in class to

the over prepared best in class to

the over prepared best in class to feeling like I was learning Chinese on

feeling like I was learning Chinese on

feeling like I was learning Chinese on the first day of school we learned this

the first day of school we learned this

the first day of school we learned this thing called the major scale which for

thing called the major scale which for

thing called the major scale which for those of you who aren’t familiar with

those of you who aren’t familiar with

those of you who aren’t familiar with musical theory the major scale is a

musical theory the major scale is a

musical theory the major scale is a diatonic sequence of intervals that can

diatonic sequence of intervals that can

diatonic sequence of intervals that can be attached and saying proportional to

be attached and saying proportional to

be attached and saying proportional to any pitch this is the major scale

any pitch this is the major scale

any pitch this is the major scale formula whole whole half whole whole

formula whole whole half whole whole

formula whole whole half whole whole whole half when you sing it it sounds

whole half when you sing it it sounds

whole half when you sing it it sounds like this one one two three four five

like this one one two three four five

like this one one two three four five six seven eight eight seven six five

six seven eight eight seven six five

six seven eight eight seven six five four three two one unfortunately for me

four three two one unfortunately for me

four three two one unfortunately for me at the time there was only about one key

at the time there was only about one key

at the time there was only about one key that was actually in my range which

that was actually in my range which

that was actually in my range which means a majority of the class was spent

means a majority of the class was spent

means a majority of the class was spent either whispering the notes as I climb

either whispering the notes as I climb

either whispering the notes as I climb the scale hoping nobody would hear me

the scale hoping nobody would hear me

the scale hoping nobody would hear me crack or blushing with total humiliation

crack or blushing with total humiliation

crack or blushing with total humiliation when my teacher would notice and call on

when my teacher would notice and call on

when my teacher would notice and call on me to sing up needless to say I’m no

me to sing up needless to say I’m no

me to sing up needless to say I’m no stranger to being the underdog the

stranger to being the underdog the

stranger to being the underdog the reason I’m standing before you today

reason I’m standing before you today

reason I’m standing before you today because I learned to focus on progress

because I learned to focus on progress

because I learned to focus on progress not perfection failure is a misnomer

not perfection failure is a misnomer

not perfection failure is a misnomer there’s no such thing

there’s no such thing

there’s no such thing you are either stagnant or taking steps

you are either stagnant or taking steps

you are either stagnant or taking steps forward obstacles or exercises meant to

forward obstacles or exercises meant to

forward obstacles or exercises meant to prove how dedicated and resilient we are

prove how dedicated and resilient we are

prove how dedicated and resilient we are your current skill levels don’t matter

your current skill levels don’t matter

your current skill levels don’t matter with time mastery will come a master is

with time mastery will come a master is

with time mastery will come a master is simply a beginner who doesn’t quit

simply a beginner who doesn’t quit

simply a beginner who doesn’t quit Khalil Gibran says you’ve been told even

Khalil Gibran says you’ve been told even

Khalil Gibran says you’ve been told even like a chain you’re as weak as your

like a chain you’re as weak as your

like a chain you’re as weak as your weakest link this is but half the truth

weakest link this is but half the truth

weakest link this is but half the truth you are also as strong as your strongest

you are also as strong as your strongest

you are also as strong as your strongest link to measure you by your smallest

link to measure you by your smallest

link to measure you by your smallest deed is second the power of the ocean by

deed is second the power of the ocean by

deed is second the power of the ocean by the frailty of its foam I agree don’t

the frailty of its foam I agree don’t

the frailty of its foam I agree don’t let discouragements and negativity

let discouragements and negativity

let discouragements and negativity settle in you even the smallest crack

settle in you even the smallest crack

settle in you even the smallest crack can sink a ship if you’re sitting there

can sink a ship if you’re sitting there

can sink a ship if you’re sitting there wondering what steps to take go as far

wondering what steps to take go as far

wondering what steps to take go as far as you see and there you will see

as you see and there you will see

as you see and there you will see further let your passions guide you

further let your passions guide you

further let your passions guide you there are moments you step into knowing

there are moments you step into knowing

there are moments you step into knowing they’ll change your life forever

they’ll change your life forever

they’ll change your life forever and Here I am now there are also moments

and Here I am now there are also moments

and Here I am now there are also moments that silently change you while you

that silently change you while you

that silently change you while you steadfast and pursuing your dreams they

steadfast and pursuing your dreams they

steadfast and pursuing your dreams they feel like obstacles they feel like hard

feel like obstacles they feel like hard

feel like obstacles they feel like hard work they feel impossible to conquer

work they feel impossible to conquer

work they feel impossible to conquer until one day you look back and you

until one day you look back and you

until one day you look back and you realize how far you’ve come let go of

realize how far you’ve come let go of

realize how far you’ve come let go of your expectations chase your passions

your expectations chase your passions

your expectations chase your passions gift your art all it takes is a dream

gift your art all it takes is a dream

gift your art all it takes is a dream and the courage to take a step so to the

and the courage to take a step so to the

and the courage to take a step so to the person in seventh grade who left me an

person in seventh grade who left me an

person in seventh grade who left me an out saying get a better voice or stop

out saying get a better voice or stop

out saying get a better voice or stop singing I did get a better voice and

singing I did get a better voice and

singing I did get a better voice and it’s exactly because I

it’s exactly because I

it’s exactly because I didn’t stop singing thank you

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