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Undefined Origins | Athina Bohner | TEDxYouth@GAA | Athina Bohner | TEDxYouth@GAA


hello okay has someone ever asked you

hello okay has someone ever asked you where are you from and you didn’t really

where are you from and you didn’t really

where are you from and you didn’t really know what to say

know what to say

know what to say if I ask the question where are you from

if I ask the question where are you from

if I ask the question where are you from a few decades ago maybe when my parents

a few decades ago maybe when my parents

a few decades ago maybe when my parents were still my age I would have gotten an

were still my age I would have gotten an

were still my age I would have gotten an immediate one-word answer usually people

immediate one-word answer usually people

immediate one-word answer usually people died in the same small village or town

died in the same small village or town

died in the same small village or town in which they were born barely leaving

in which they were born barely leaving

in which they were born barely leaving the state they grew up in however as we

the state they grew up in however as we

the state they grew up in however as we see a more global modern world the

see a more global modern world the

see a more global modern world the answer through that seemingly simple

answer through that seemingly simple

answer through that seemingly simple question becomes more complex where am i

question becomes more complex where am i

question becomes more complex where am i from

from

from is where I’m from the place where I was

is where I’m from the place where I was

is where I’m from the place where I was born the place where my parents were

born the place where my parents were

born the place where my parents were born is where I’m from the place I have

born is where I’m from the place I have

born is where I’m from the place I have citizenship for or a residency permit

citizenship for or a residency permit

citizenship for or a residency permit well sometimes when people ask me the

well sometimes when people ask me the

well sometimes when people ask me the question where are you from I just stand

question where are you from I just stand

question where are you from I just stand there and the thing for getting

there and the thing for getting

there and the thing for getting everything around me like introducing

everything around me like introducing

everything around me like introducing myself hello everyone my name is Athena

myself hello everyone my name is Athena

myself hello everyone my name is Athena Bonner I’m a ninth grader here at gems

Bonner I’m a ninth grader here at gems

Bonner I’m a ninth grader here at gems American Academy and currently live

American Academy and currently live

American Academy and currently live right here in Abu Dhabi if someone

right here in Abu Dhabi if someone

right here in Abu Dhabi if someone really does ask me where are you from I

really does ask me where are you from I

really does ask me where are you from I always say my mothers have Bulgarian

always say my mothers have Bulgarian

always say my mothers have Bulgarian half Greek and my father’s half German

half Greek and my father’s half German

half Greek and my father’s half German and half Hungarian but I was born in

and half Hungarian but I was born in

and half Hungarian but I was born in Hamburg Germany so I’m a hamburger not a

Hamburg Germany so I’m a hamburger not a

Hamburg Germany so I’m a hamburger not a cheeseburger like I’m not even kidding

cheeseburger like I’m not even kidding

cheeseburger like I’m not even kidding this has been my standard reply for as

this has been my standard reply for as

this has been my standard reply for as long as I can remember but for a long

long as I can remember but for a long

long as I can remember but for a long time now this was this one topic

time now this was this one topic

time now this was this one topic something very close to my heart has

something very close to my heart has

something very close to my heart has been popping into my head

been popping into my head

been popping into my head internationalism and how it changes the

internationalism and how it changes the

internationalism and how it changes the world how it changes society but hey

world how it changes society but hey

world how it changes society but hey society that’s a very broad and complex

society that’s a very broad and complex

society that’s a very broad and complex concept so in order to really analyze

concept so in order to really analyze

concept so in order to really analyze how this is influencing our lives we’ve

how this is influencing our lives we’ve

how this is influencing our lives we’ve got to break it down now whether you

got to break it down now whether you

got to break it down now whether you like it or not the physical aspect of

like it or not the physical aspect of

like it or not the physical aspect of human nature is a very important part of

human nature is a very important part of

human nature is a very important part of our society the first part of society

our society the first part of society

our society the first part of society that you can actually see and

that you can actually see and

that you can actually see and acknowledge with your eyes thanks to a

acknowledge with your eyes thanks to a

acknowledge with your eyes thanks to a more diverse population we start to see

more diverse population we start to see

more diverse population we start to see a more colorful group of people

a more colorful group of people

a more colorful group of people with different body shapes clothes and

with different body shapes clothes and

with different body shapes clothes and facial features not only is this

facial features not only is this

facial features not only is this changing our communities but is also

changing our communities but is also

changing our communities but is also loosening the harsh beauty standards set

loosening the harsh beauty standards set

loosening the harsh beauty standards set previously now it’s not just one hair

previously now it’s not just one hair

previously now it’s not just one hair color one skin tone or one eye color

color one skin tone or one eye color

color one skin tone or one eye color that is deemed as beautiful but the

that is deemed as beautiful but the

that is deemed as beautiful but the different appearances and uniqueness of

different appearances and uniqueness of

different appearances and uniqueness of each and every individual is starting to

each and every individual is starting to

each and every individual is starting to become the true beauty of our society

become the true beauty of our society

become the true beauty of our society unfortunately as most things go there’s

unfortunately as most things go there’s

unfortunately as most things go there’s also a negative side to the

also a negative side to the

also a negative side to the interconnections between our physical

interconnections between our physical

interconnections between our physical appearances and the growing range and

appearances and the growing range and

appearances and the growing range and mix of nationalities some especially

mix of nationalities some especially

mix of nationalities some especially young children fall victim to bullying

young children fall victim to bullying

young children fall victim to bullying due to how they look different than the

due to how they look different than the

due to how they look different than the rest of their neighborhood one example

rest of their neighborhood one example

rest of their neighborhood one example was me the school where I started first

was me the school where I started first

was me the school where I started first grade in Germany was very small and not

grade in Germany was very small and not

grade in Germany was very small and not open-minded at all at most there were

open-minded at all at most there were

open-minded at all at most there were five nationalities in the entire school

five nationalities in the entire school

five nationalities in the entire school with the majority of course being

with the majority of course being

with the majority of course being Germans I was often mocked because I had

Germans I was often mocked because I had

Germans I was often mocked because I had dark hair and dark eyes and how my

dark hair and dark eyes and how my

dark hair and dark eyes and how my parents look so different from their

parents look so different from their

parents look so different from their parents now that I think about it it

parents now that I think about it it

parents now that I think about it it seems so silly to bully someone just

seems so silly to bully someone just

seems so silly to bully someone just because they look a bit more I guess

because they look a bit more I guess

because they look a bit more I guess Eastern European than you but back then

Eastern European than you but back then

Eastern European than you but back then it really really did hurt me exactly

it really really did hurt me exactly

it really really did hurt me exactly this is the reason why you as parents

this is the reason why you as parents

this is the reason why you as parents and educators need to teach kids

and educators need to teach kids

and educators need to teach kids acceptance and tolerance so that by the

acceptance and tolerance so that by the

acceptance and tolerance so that by the time they grow bit older they already

time they grow bit older they already

time they grow bit older they already have the morals and ethics

have the morals and ethics

have the morals and ethics of an in of an open-minded individual

the physical aspect of society isn’t the

the physical aspect of society isn’t the only one influenced by the growing

only one influenced by the growing

only one influenced by the growing multiculturalism in our fast-paced world

multiculturalism in our fast-paced world

multiculturalism in our fast-paced world a key way to understanding how we are as

a key way to understanding how we are as

a key way to understanding how we are as a global community is understanding the

a global community is understanding the

a global community is understanding the emotional side of things now you might

emotional side of things now you might

emotional side of things now you might be wondering how are my emotions and my

be wondering how are my emotions and my

be wondering how are my emotions and my feelings related to a more multicultural

feelings related to a more multicultural

feelings related to a more multicultural planet well in my mind emotions our

planet well in my mind emotions our

planet well in my mind emotions our feelings are extremely valuable to

feelings are extremely valuable to

feelings are extremely valuable to understanding a group of people and the

understanding a group of people and the

understanding a group of people and the way they relate to others especially to

way they relate to others especially to

way they relate to others especially to foreigners in this day

foreigners in this day

foreigners in this day an age where concepts like technology

an age where concepts like technology

an age where concepts like technology and migration have such significance in

and migration have such significance in

and migration have such significance in shaping lives we are forced to see

shaping lives we are forced to see

shaping lives we are forced to see different perspectives and are forced to

different perspectives and are forced to

different perspectives and are forced to adapt to people with different

adapt to people with different

adapt to people with different backgrounds wait a minute

backgrounds wait a minute

backgrounds wait a minute I don’t like how I use the word forced

I don’t like how I use the word forced

I don’t like how I use the word forced in my last sentence it makes it sound

in my last sentence it makes it sound

in my last sentence it makes it sound like a like a bad thing that we are

like a like a bad thing that we are

like a like a bad thing that we are evolving and expanding our horizons it’s

evolving and expanding our horizons it’s

evolving and expanding our horizons it’s not a negative thing at all

not a negative thing at all

not a negative thing at all but an opportunity to create more

but an opportunity to create more

but an opportunity to create more open-minded independent yet united

open-minded independent yet united

open-minded independent yet united leaders not just leaders in business or

leaders not just leaders in business or

leaders not just leaders in business or politics but normal people who stand up

politics but normal people who stand up

politics but normal people who stand up for equal human rights even with their

for equal human rights even with their

for equal human rights even with their family and friends unfortunately as I

family and friends unfortunately as I

family and friends unfortunately as I said previously there are always two

said previously there are always two

said previously there are always two sides of things the good and the bad see

sides of things the good and the bad see

sides of things the good and the bad see that that’s me this year we’re

that that’s me this year we’re

that that’s me this year we’re presenting Bulgaria in our schools

presenting Bulgaria in our schools

presenting Bulgaria in our schools International Day a few years ago

International Day a few years ago

International Day a few years ago something very similar to this was held

something very similar to this was held

something very similar to this was held at school but only one student from each

at school but only one student from each

at school but only one student from each country could carry their national flag

country could carry their national flag

country could carry their national flag of course there was a huge scandal about

of course there was a huge scandal about

of course there was a huge scandal about who should carry the German flag and

who should carry the German flag and

who should carry the German flag and some people and I got into a fight over

some people and I got into a fight over

some people and I got into a fight over it you know what they told me when I

it you know what they told me when I

it you know what they told me when I said I wanted to carry the flag they

said I wanted to carry the flag they

said I wanted to carry the flag they told me you’re not German enough first

told me you’re not German enough first

told me you’re not German enough first of all who decides what it takes to be

of all who decides what it takes to be

of all who decides what it takes to be German enough or American enough or

German enough or American enough or

German enough or American enough or Emirati enough for any other nationality

Emirati enough for any other nationality

Emirati enough for any other nationality for that matter who is this person this

for that matter who is this person this

for that matter who is this person this big boss who like pushes people into

big boss who like pushes people into

big boss who like pushes people into these categories like um well this guy’s

these categories like um well this guy’s

these categories like um well this guy’s American this one fits the description

American this one fits the description

American this one fits the description of an Italian and now pretend this is me

of an Italian and now pretend this is me

of an Italian and now pretend this is me well she’s not German enough I’m

well she’s not German enough I’m

well she’s not German enough I’m Bulgarian not really Hungarian well nah

Bulgarian not really Hungarian well nah

Bulgarian not really Hungarian well nah Greek now guess who this big boss really

Greek now guess who this big boss really

Greek now guess who this big boss really is it’s the stereotypes that we as

is it’s the stereotypes that we as

is it’s the stereotypes that we as humans have brought upon ourselves over

humans have brought upon ourselves over

humans have brought upon ourselves over time we are the ones who unknowingly do

time we are the ones who unknowingly do

time we are the ones who unknowingly do this sending our new generation onto the

this sending our new generation onto the

this sending our new generation onto the wrong path the third aspect of how our

wrong path the third aspect of how our

wrong path the third aspect of how our lives are being influenced by the

lives are being influenced by the

lives are being influenced by the modernization and globalization which is

modernization and globalization which is

modernization and globalization which is shape

shape

shape the very world we live in today is the

the very world we live in today is the

the very world we live in today is the social side of things as humans we’ve

social side of things as humans we’ve

social side of things as humans we’ve always been social always communicating

always been social always communicating

always been social always communicating in one shape or form a few years ago we

in one shape or form a few years ago we

in one shape or form a few years ago we communicated using letters and postcards

communicated using letters and postcards

communicated using letters and postcards which have been replaced by snapchat and

which have been replaced by snapchat and

which have been replaced by snapchat and Instagram

Instagram

Instagram why because social media is global

why because social media is global

why because social media is global allowing us to connect with people all

allowing us to connect with people all

allowing us to connect with people all over the world as internationalism

over the world as internationalism

over the world as internationalism Glaros but the most significant thing

Glaros but the most significant thing

Glaros but the most significant thing that is influencing the social side of

that is influencing the social side of

that is influencing the social side of the world today is the growth and

the world today is the growth and

the world today is the growth and spreading of languages languages are

spreading of languages languages are

spreading of languages languages are they’re beautiful and the way they

they’re beautiful and the way they

they’re beautiful and the way they convey messages has such a personal

convey messages has such a personal

convey messages has such a personal level and have the ability to truly bond

level and have the ability to truly bond

level and have the ability to truly bond us as international individuals together

us as international individuals together

us as international individuals together personally I’m learning four languages

personally I’m learning four languages

personally I’m learning four languages Spanish Arabic Hungarian and Greek and

Spanish Arabic Hungarian and Greek and

Spanish Arabic Hungarian and Greek and can fluently speak German Bulgarian and

can fluently speak German Bulgarian and

can fluently speak German Bulgarian and English however that wasn’t always the

English however that wasn’t always the

English however that wasn’t always the case

case

case actually five or six years ago I could

actually five or six years ago I could

actually five or six years ago I could only count to the number 12 in English

only count to the number 12 in English

only count to the number 12 in English that all changed when I stepped foot

that all changed when I stepped foot

that all changed when I stepped foot into my grade five classroom in this

into my grade five classroom in this

into my grade five classroom in this very building immediately I was welcomed

very building immediately I was welcomed

very building immediately I was welcomed by this amazing teacher who not only

by this amazing teacher who not only

by this amazing teacher who not only completely understood what I was going

completely understood what I was going

completely understood what I was going through in this brand-new environment

through in this brand-new environment

through in this brand-new environment but also talked to me and treated me

but also talked to me and treated me

but also talked to me and treated me like an equal

like an equal

like an equal that’s the first English word she ever

that’s the first English word she ever

that’s the first English word she ever taught me awesome

taught me awesome

taught me awesome she wrote it down on the first day of

she wrote it down on the first day of

she wrote it down on the first day of school and I’ve always kept the piece of

school and I’ve always kept the piece of

school and I’ve always kept the piece of paper close to me because it represents

paper close to me because it represents

paper close to me because it represents the kindness of strangers and most

the kindness of strangers and most

the kindness of strangers and most importantly Rian reminds me every single

importantly Rian reminds me every single

importantly Rian reminds me every single day what a good hearted and open-minded

day what a good hearted and open-minded

day what a good hearted and open-minded society I live in now if there’s one

society I live in now if there’s one

society I live in now if there’s one thing I learned over the course of my

thing I learned over the course of my

thing I learned over the course of my life is that I’m not really German I’m

life is that I’m not really German I’m

life is that I’m not really German I’m not really Bulgarian I’m not really

not really Bulgarian I’m not really

not really Bulgarian I’m not really Greek and I’m not really Hungary and so

Greek and I’m not really Hungary and so

Greek and I’m not really Hungary and so what exactly am i well just like you and

what exactly am i well just like you and

what exactly am i well just like you and you and you and the other seven billion

you and you and the other seven billion

you and you and the other seven billion five hundred and nine

five hundred and nine

five hundred and nine million nine hundred and fifty one

million nine hundred and fifty one

million nine hundred and fifty one thousand seven hundred and eighty-eight

thousand seven hundred and eighty-eight

thousand seven hundred and eighty-eight people living on this planet right now

people living on this planet right now

people living on this planet right now I’m a global citizen of the world

realizing that and not putting myself

realizing that and not putting myself into these boxes or categories really

into these boxes or categories really

into these boxes or categories really brought me into this new level of

brought me into this new level of

brought me into this new level of appreciating and understanding the

appreciating and understanding the

appreciating and understanding the complexity and diversity of our society

complexity and diversity of our society

complexity and diversity of our society however this can be difficult to achieve

however this can be difficult to achieve

however this can be difficult to achieve as we all speak so many different

as we all speak so many different

as we all speak so many different languages and communicate in so many

languages and communicate in so many

languages and communicate in so many different ways but there is one language

different ways but there is one language

different ways but there is one language that everyone understands music there

that everyone understands music there

that everyone understands music there comes a time when we hear a certain call

comes a time when we hear a certain call

comes a time when we hear a certain call when the world must come together as one

when the world must come together as one

when the world must come together as one mm-hmm

mm-hmm

mm-hmm they’re all people dyin oh when it’s

they’re all people dyin oh when it’s

they’re all people dyin oh when it’s time to lend a hand to life the greatest

time to lend a hand to life the greatest

time to lend a hand to life the greatest gift of all we are the world we are the

gift of all we are the world we are the

gift of all we are the world we are the children we are the ones who make a

children we are the ones who make a

children we are the ones who make a brighter day so let’s start giving

brighter day so let’s start giving

brighter day so let’s start giving there’s a choice we’re making we’re

there’s a choice we’re making we’re

there’s a choice we’re making we’re saving our own lives it’s true we’ll

saving our own lives it’s true we’ll

saving our own lives it’s true we’ll make a better day you and me thank you

make a better day you and me thank you

make a better day you and me thank you so much thank you thank you

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