No estás solo. Existe una alternativa. | Luis Chávez | TEDxHumboldtMexicoCity

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Please raise your hand if any

has once felt that it does not fit in some

because they come down and lift the hand

who has felt loneliness or who

imagine raise your hand to whom you have not

bothered constantly

ok thank you very much to you in these two

images maybe they see good this is me

and maybe you can see a young man

hardened with desire

successful Felix who believes in himself and

what is valued

unfortunately this was not always

well and today I come to talk to you

exactly that the background that

have these two images

I was a child when I was a child

anybody liked to play run

avoid being with friends

I was the typical child I wanted to be

friend of all

one day we were when some friends and

me to stick with jackets and all what

We are having a great time

we were all part of the same thing

Suddenly the professor came to the room and

everyone was stunned

I did not see it and I thought that still

we were still in the game so I decided

continue and he hits one of my

companions

just listen to the teacher’s voice

say luis to the floor

I turned around and I did not know what was

happening because I was still with the idea of

that we were in a game in that

he turned around and saw the professor’s face

very angry and I go back to say Luis

floor one as a child always takes heed

to the voice of the adult not then I do not

it was another

in throwing me to the floor then I saw how the

Professor told my classmates

now each and every one of you is going to

pass and he will hit to luis xiv yo yo

I still did not understand why because

it was a child all the past states

very well and how things change

you are suddenly happy because you are part

of a group because they are living together

with everyone and suddenly life changes

and now you are alone and everyone is

hitting and time like everyone else

they have a smile on their face but

you are holding the blows

well life goes on I was still

with my friends if it is to continue talking and

I kept playing like any child

when I entered primary school, what

it is commonly done is to stir up all

generation and create new groups that

I was happy because I said wow

I have a new opportunity to meet

more people to be friends with more people

and the first days I had a very

all right

I tried to talk with everyone to be the

typical child of always but little to

little I was seeing that each of my

my companions are going away from each

situation

when I came with them to talk

they were silent they turned around or

they were just going

I started already live them pauses just to eat

a sandwich sitting in a window box and

to be only wanted that the

things are like that after a while

my colleagues started criticizing

say that it was not good for anything that was

a fool who did not know how to do things

that he was a fat man who did not have any

skill and that so if that was it

so much the influence that these had

children that even some teachers

they told me when I did things more

by God, Luis, fine things well

once I ask that do well to

After some time you start to

believe what they say

you start to believe that you really are not

no one

you do not have any skills and you do not

they serve things but that gave us

it stayed here but if I and my

comrades began to attack me

hits

I remember very well that once they were

in had finished an hour and I was

I kept my things to leave the room

and modern new living room to take the

next class in that a fellow

mine pushed me and threw me to the floor

friends seemed normal attitudes

but when I decide to pick up my things and

to stop two of my companions

kicked

when I was on the judo floor as

child grows up with the idea that the

girl is not touched with the petal or

with the petal of a rose

then I did not have any other than

hold my kicks hold me

blows stop me and walk towards the lounge

you do not understand why things happen

you want to belong to the group but the

same group that rejects you assaulting

you want to belong to them but they do not

they leave you and you constantly enter with

distrust classes with fear with

anguish

Fortunately my dad always me

motivated to do new things

I practiced and practiced all my

life and if you are asking

good because you do not hit to shock and

wise to defend yourself

one of the teachings that the

judo is that you as a person as judoka

you can not use judo against

that someone who does not know why you can

hurting or was not conscious is

then I could not do anything and not

I could tell the teachers because

the same teachers told me and there

they agreed with what they said

the children then distrust loneliness

anguish of you lose the value in yourself

fortunately at 11 years old between

annotation but enter with the same as

he has already been saying with distrust and

scared because if I knew that my

colleagues who were my same age

they did this I was very afraid of what

what could children do more

big

fortunately, they received me very well and

I was realizing that every time I went

to training was accepted and

feels very father the feeling of having

to someone that someone is

with you not just to hurt

to say that you can not but to

when you still have 20 series of

100 hundred is still tell you come on you

You can cheer you on and give you

breath when you’re in front of the

bank to launch you to a test it

feels very parents

then I started to see that in the

swimming they treated me better than me

they spoke well and I started to recover

Confidence begins to be a child more

happy that he started having more friends

that even though at school I

keep saying it was not good for anything

I already knew and I knew it was someone

that had that value that I was a

person capable of doing things

this was reflected so much in my

qualifications as my way of being and

obviously talking to people

many do not know why the people suffer

others and one thing that the

judo is that it does not matter how many times

how hard they throw you you have to

lift up

then that’s what I invite you to

do see each other

you may not know what you have

suffered the other people

many of us reflect it with the

street with happy face or with

there are simply the serious ones

look at each other and give each other a

hug very strong because many

they need to receive the hug but many

we also need to receive

many thanks

and