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We all seek the same sense of inclusion | Julian Maha | TEDxBirmingham


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[Music] you look different we sound different

you look different we sound different

you look different we sound different and we even perceive the world in

and we even perceive the world in

and we even perceive the world in different ways but at the core of our

different ways but at the core of our

different ways but at the core of our being we all seek the same things we

being we all seek the same things we

being we all seek the same things we seek acceptance we seek inclusion and we

seek acceptance we seek inclusion and we

seek acceptance we seek inclusion and we seek community individuals of

seek community individuals of

seek community individuals of disabilities are no different in that

disabilities are no different in that

disabilities are no different in that regard they seek the same things that we

regard they seek the same things that we

regard they seek the same things that we do but what can be difficult is the

do but what can be difficult is the

do but what can be difficult is the accessibility to all the amazing things

accessibility to all the amazing things

accessibility to all the amazing things that our world has to offer you see my

that our world has to offer you see my

that our world has to offer you see my friends we live in a world where one in

friends we live in a world where one in

friends we live in a world where one in five of us has a disability these are

five of us has a disability these are

five of us has a disability these are our neighbors our friends or perhaps

our neighbors our friends or perhaps

our neighbors our friends or perhaps even a loved one but out of this group

even a loved one but out of this group

even a loved one but out of this group only 20 percent have a visible

only 20 percent have a visible

only 20 percent have a visible disability the remaining 80 percent have

disability the remaining 80 percent have

disability the remaining 80 percent have invisible disabilities but what is an

invisible disabilities but what is an

invisible disabilities but what is an invisible disability well an invisible

invisible disability well an invisible

invisible disability well an invisible disability is one where the person

disability is one where the person

disability is one where the person affected by it looks no different than

affected by it looks no different than

affected by it looks no different than me or you

me or you

me or you they could have post-traumatic stress

they could have post-traumatic stress

they could have post-traumatic stress disorder

disorder

disorder early onset dementia autism just to name

early onset dementia autism just to name

early onset dementia autism just to name a few they want the same things that we

a few they want the same things that we

a few they want the same things that we do or what can be difficult for them is

do or what can be difficult for them is

do or what can be difficult for them is the way they perceive and experience the

the way they perceive and experience the

the way they perceive and experience the world you see the majority of them have

world you see the majority of them have

world you see the majority of them have sensory processing issues bright lights

sensory processing issues bright lights

sensory processing issues bright lights loud noises certain smells and large

loud noises certain smells and large

loud noises certain smells and large crowds can not only be overwhelming to

crowds can not only be overwhelming to

crowds can not only be overwhelming to them but also sometimes physically

them but also sometimes physically

them but also sometimes physically painful how do I know this well my son

painful how do I know this well my son

painful how do I know this well my son is one of them he has autism you see

is one of them he has autism you see

is one of them he has autism you see before his diagnosis this was the world

before his diagnosis this was the world

before his diagnosis this was the world that we were very unfamiliar with we did

that we were very unfamiliar with we did

that we were very unfamiliar with we did not realize that being autistic could

not realize that being autistic could

not realize that being autistic could potentially limit his accessibility to

potentially limit his accessibility to

potentially limit his accessibility to all the things that he enjoyed doing for

all the things that he enjoyed doing for

all the things that he enjoyed doing for instance going to the park to the pool

instance going to the park to the pool

instance going to the park to the pool or even to a museum but all that change

or even to a museum but all that change

or even to a museum but all that change one summer you see Abram had always

one summer you see Abram had always

one summer you see Abram had always loved museums he loved all the exhibits

loved museums he loved all the exhibits

loved museums he loved all the exhibits there particularly the ones about

there particularly the ones about

there particularly the ones about mummies but he also struggled with

mummies but he also struggled with

mummies but he also struggled with sensory issues and because of this you

sensory issues and because of this you

sensory issues and because of this you might see him sometimes jump up and down

might see him sometimes jump up and down

might see him sometimes jump up and down flap his hands or sometimes even let out

flap his hands or sometimes even let out

flap his hands or sometimes even let out a shot or two to cope with this one

a shot or two to cope with this one

a shot or two to cope with this one summer we took him to a museum with the

summer we took him to a museum with the

summer we took him to a museum with the mummy exhibit he was so excited walking

mummy exhibit he was so excited walking

mummy exhibit he was so excited walking into that Lobby it was very loud and

into that Lobby it was very loud and

into that Lobby it was very loud and very crowded and because of all this and

very crowded and because of all this and

very crowded and because of all this and his excitement even was being a little

his excitement even was being a little

his excitement even was being a little extra bouncy when suddenly we were

extra bouncy when suddenly we were

extra bouncy when suddenly we were approached by a security guy the guard

approached by a security guy the guard

approached by a security guy the guard told us that if we could not get under

told us that if we could not get under

told us that if we could not get under our Sun under control we would be asked

our Sun under control we would be asked

our Sun under control we would be asked to leave explaining to him that Abram

to leave explaining to him that Abram

to leave explaining to him that Abram was autistic the god did not believe us

was autistic the god did not believe us

was autistic the god did not believe us but said that he did not look at the

but said that he did not look at the

but said that he did not look at the stick and because of this we would have

stick and because of this we would have

stick and because of this we would have to leave you see my friends stories like

to leave you see my friends stories like

to leave you see my friends stories like ours unfortunately are becoming more and

ours unfortunately are becoming more and

ours unfortunately are becoming more and more common each and every day such is

more common each and every day such is

more common each and every day such is the life of someone living with an

the life of someone living with an

the life of someone living with an invisible disability routine outings are

invisible disability routine outings are

invisible disability routine outings are difficult not only from the sensory

difficult not only from the sensory

difficult not only from the sensory standpoint but also from the social

standpoint but also from the social

standpoint but also from the social prejudice standpoint because we as a

prejudice standpoint because we as a

prejudice standpoint because we as a community have only created disability

community have only created disability

community have only created disability with the visible because of this a lot

with the visible because of this a lot

with the visible because of this a lot of these individuals and your families

of these individuals and your families

of these individuals and your families end up withdrawing from communities and

end up withdrawing from communities and

end up withdrawing from communities and living lives of isolation we need to

living lives of isolation we need to

living lives of isolation we need to change this we need to rethink

change this we need to rethink

change this we need to rethink accessibility in order to truly create a

accessibility in order to truly create a

accessibility in order to truly create a community of acceptance and inclusion

community of acceptance and inclusion

community of acceptance and inclusion but before we can do this we need to

but before we can do this we need to

but before we can do this we need to first examine what accessibility truly

first examine what accessibility truly

first examine what accessibility truly means see for the longest time

means see for the longest time

means see for the longest time accessibility has only been equated to

accessibility has only been equated to

accessibility has only been equated to physical access to a particular space so

physical access to a particular space so

physical access to a particular space so for example accessible doors and

for example accessible doors and

for example accessible doors and accessible ramps but accessibility needs

accessible ramps but accessibility needs

accessible ramps but accessibility needs to go beyond that in eastern come

to go beyond that in eastern come

to go beyond that in eastern come the entire experience thus creating a

the entire experience thus creating a

the entire experience thus creating a welcoming environment for everyone but

welcoming environment for everyone but

welcoming environment for everyone but how do we do this where do we begin

how do we do this where do we begin

how do we do this where do we begin we begin with sensory friendly events

we begin with sensory friendly events

we begin with sensory friendly events these events where all the noxious

these events where all the noxious

these events where all the noxious stimuli has been removed from the

stimuli has been removed from the

stimuli has been removed from the environment so you might see no harsh

environment so you might see no harsh

environment so you might see no harsh lighting no loud sounds and smaller

lighting no loud sounds and smaller

lighting no loud sounds and smaller crowds at these events but these events

crowds at these events but these events

crowds at these events but these events are a great initial first step they have

are a great initial first step they have

are a great initial first step they have some significant limitations firstly

some significant limitations firstly

some significant limitations firstly they are normally only catered to the

they are normally only catered to the

they are normally only catered to the artistic community which is great but

artistic community which is great but

artistic community which is great but still leaves out a lot of people with

still leaves out a lot of people with

still leaves out a lot of people with sensory issues secondly they are also

sensory issues secondly they are also

sensory issues secondly they are also limited to time and place because more

limited to time and place because more

limited to time and place because more often than not these are one-off events

often than not these are one-off events

often than not these are one-off events and finally they also miss about

and finally they also miss about

and finally they also miss about educating the general community about

educating the general community about

educating the general community about sensory processing certain issues during

sensory processing certain issues during

sensory processing certain issues during these events so you see as you can see

these events so you see as you can see

these events so you see as you can see we need to take the next step we need to

we need to take the next step we need to

we need to take the next step we need to move beyond sensory friendly into

move beyond sensory friendly into

move beyond sensory friendly into sensory inclusion but what is the

sensory inclusion but what is the

sensory inclusion but what is the difference between sensory friendly and

difference between sensory friendly and

difference between sensory friendly and sensory inclusion the best way to inform

sensory inclusion the best way to inform

sensory inclusion the best way to inform you about this is with an example

you about this is with an example

you about this is with an example imagine for a minute you walk into a

imagine for a minute you walk into a

imagine for a minute you walk into a restaurant it’s very crowded and it’s

restaurant it’s very crowded and it’s

restaurant it’s very crowded and it’s very loud you walk up to the host the

very loud you walk up to the host the

very loud you walk up to the host the hostess and you tell them about your

hostess and you tell them about your

hostess and you tell them about your sensory issues they look at you with a

sensory issues they look at you with a

sensory issues they look at you with a blank stare and say well we would love

blank stare and say well we would love

blank stare and say well we would love to accommodate you but we don’t have

to accommodate you but we don’t have

to accommodate you but we don’t have that ability to today but if you come

that ability to today but if you come

that ability to today but if you come back next Tuesday between the hours of

back next Tuesday between the hours of

back next Tuesday between the hours of 10:00 and 11:00 in the morning that’s

10:00 and 11:00 in the morning that’s

10:00 and 11:00 in the morning that’s when we have our sensory friendly dining

when we have our sensory friendly dining

when we have our sensory friendly dining hall now imagine walking into that same

hall now imagine walking into that same

hall now imagine walking into that same restaurant talking to that same host and

restaurant talking to that same host and

restaurant talking to that same host and hostess and telling them about your

hostess and telling them about your

hostess and telling them about your sensory issues but this time a look of

sensory issues but this time a look of

sensory issues but this time a look of recognition they give you a sensory bath

recognition they give you a sensory bath

recognition they give you a sensory bath with noise cancelling headphones and

with noise cancelling headphones and

with noise cancelling headphones and proceed to seat you that my friends is

proceed to seat you that my friends is

proceed to seat you that my friends is sensory inclusion you see sensory

sensory inclusion you see sensory

sensory inclusion you see sensory inclusion creates daily accessibility it

inclusion creates daily accessibility it

inclusion creates daily accessibility it educates the general community so that

educates the general community so that

educates the general community so that we can true

we can true

we can true create a culture of acceptance and

create a culture of acceptance and

create a culture of acceptance and inclusion in addition to this it’s also

inclusion in addition to this it’s also

inclusion in addition to this it’s also easier for a business to execute because

easier for a business to execute because

easier for a business to execute because only minor modifications are needed to

only minor modifications are needed to

only minor modifications are needed to the flow of business take for example

the flow of business take for example

the flow of business take for example the Cleveland Cavaliers of the NBA now

the Cleveland Cavaliers of the NBA now

the Cleveland Cavaliers of the NBA now the Cavaliers have held a ton of sensory

the Cavaliers have held a ton of sensory

the Cavaliers have held a ton of sensory friendly events but they made the move

friendly events but they made the move

friendly events but they made the move to become sensory inclusive this year

to become sensory inclusive this year

to become sensory inclusive this year they did this because of a boy named

they did this because of a boy named

they did this because of a boy named casa su casa de Savoie that loves sports

casa su casa de Savoie that loves sports

casa su casa de Savoie that loves sports but because of his sensory issues he

but because of his sensory issues he

but because of his sensory issues he does not get to attend many sporting

does not get to attend many sporting

does not get to attend many sporting events one sensory friendly event his

events one sensory friendly event his

events one sensory friendly event his parents decided to take him walking into

parents decided to take him walking into

parents decided to take him walking into the arena they were immediately accosted

the arena they were immediately accosted

the arena they were immediately accosted by security

by security

by security you see Carson is a nonverbal artist he

you see Carson is a nonverbal artist he

you see Carson is a nonverbal artist he communicates with an iPad that has an

communicates with an iPad that has an

communicates with an iPad that has an external speaker affixed to his person

external speaker affixed to his person

external speaker affixed to his person this iPad is not only his voice but also

this iPad is not only his voice but also

this iPad is not only his voice but also his lifeline to the world not

his lifeline to the world not

his lifeline to the world not recognizing this the security guard was

recognizing this the security guard was

recognizing this the security guard was extremely condescending and demeaning

extremely condescending and demeaning

extremely condescending and demeaning demanding that Carson remove his device

demanding that Carson remove his device

demanding that Carson remove his device this effectively stripped Carson of not

this effectively stripped Carson of not

this effectively stripped Carson of not only his voice but also his dignity when

only his voice but also his dignity when

only his voice but also his dignity when the Cavaliers found out about this they

the Cavaliers found out about this they

the Cavaliers found out about this they were determined not to let this happen

were determined not to let this happen

were determined not to let this happen ever again working with our nonprofit

ever again working with our nonprofit

ever again working with our nonprofit culture City we taught them about

culture City we taught them about

culture City we taught them about sensory processing issues we gave them

sensory processing issues we gave them

sensory processing issues we gave them the tools to better serve their guests

the tools to better serve their guests

the tools to better serve their guests that had those issues we provided them

that had those issues we provided them

that had those issues we provided them with sensory bags that contained fidget

with sensory bags that contained fidget

with sensory bags that contained fidget toys and noise cancelling headphones and

toys and noise cancelling headphones and

toys and noise cancelling headphones and we also worked with them to create

we also worked with them to create

we also worked with them to create sensory friendlier

sensory friendlier

sensory friendlier areas in the arena places where people

areas in the arena places where people

areas in the arena places where people could go to things got a little too

could go to things got a little too

could go to things got a little too overwhelming but becoming sensory

overwhelming but becoming sensory

overwhelming but becoming sensory inclusive the Cavaliers galvanized their

inclusive the Cavaliers galvanized their

inclusive the Cavaliers galvanized their community they made the arena a place of

community they made the arena a place of

community they made the arena a place of refuge where all could come and be

refuge where all could come and be

refuge where all could come and be accepted and included so you see my

accepted and included so you see my

accepted and included so you see my friends becoming sensory inclusive can

friends becoming sensory inclusive can

friends becoming sensory inclusive can truly change

truly change

truly change lives it can transform communities but

lives it can transform communities but

lives it can transform communities but we need to take that next step we need

we need to take that next step we need

we need to take that next step we need to move beyond the visible into the

to move beyond the visible into the

to move beyond the visible into the invisible and we need to rethink

invisible and we need to rethink

invisible and we need to rethink accessibility then and only then can we

accessibility then and only then can we

accessibility then and only then can we truly create communities that are

truly create communities that are

truly create communities that are accepting and inclusive for everyone

accepting and inclusive for everyone

accepting and inclusive for everyone because deep down inside despite our

because deep down inside despite our

because deep down inside despite our external differences we all seek the

external differences we all seek the

external differences we all seek the same things basic acceptance we seek

same things basic acceptance we seek

same things basic acceptance we seek inclusion and we seek community thank

inclusion and we seek community thank

inclusion and we seek community thank you

you

you [Applause]

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