(Music)
my friends,
(clap)
Live those who agree with this picture?
[There is no friendship between men and women]
(Applause) (Cheers)
Behold, ye yourselves have proved,
The friendship between men and women does not exist.
I think this is a problem.
Because of these warnings, I did not speak to the boys until the age of thirteen.
They also did not talk to me.
I thought the problem was, I might be eccentric or unattractive …
When I fell in the “ocean” for the first time I did not have children’s friends.
During the hearing, we had to talk about our fears.
We talk about everything, we find it necessary.
When my turn came, I uttered those words:
“I’m afraid boys, I never communicated with them”
I recognized my problem at the moment and then understood it
It was not just about me, it worried many.
Boys and girls, men and women,
Young men and women can not believe each other.
They only look at each other in a relationship.
But is not that strange?
The image has been typical since ancient times, that of men and women
They can not be friends.
This phenomenon has evolved over the centuries.
Until the twentieth century, women could not lift their eyes in the presence of men.
Even in literature we find that most of the inventory is for lovers.
For example, Natasha Rostova and Andrei Belkonski,
Or I’m Karenina and Alexey Fronski.
Women can not be friends with men, even in literary works.
Now tell me that in the 21st century there is no such thing.
Men and women can be friends.
But they explained to me then, why, if in a movie or in a book
Or in a series showing contradictory characters,
We automatically see them bilaterally, and then support them to be together?
One of the best examples is Harry Potter and Gremione Granger.
Directors and writers often go to class viewers
They gather couples from friends in romantic couples.
For example, despite the idea of the authors of “How I Met Your Mother”.
There is this pair that has not been included and consists of Robin and Barney.
Often, the husband who is perfect in the film,
Do not be that ideal in reality, or they may be hateful to each other,
Examples include Merlin Monroe and Tony Curtis
In the film “Only Girls in Jazz”.
Or Ryan Castle and Rachel McDasd of “Diary of Memory”.
Or that they could have been close friends, such as Leonardoa DiCaprio and Cadet Owenslett,
Who have become two of the finest couples …
Although it seemed to viewers, that they must be together.
Thus, Schipring is the product of the 21st century, which is still proving
That men and women, of different communities, can not be friends.
But where does all this come from?
Friendship was born in primitive society,
When fishing was prevalent.
Men and women have only met each other for the sake of gender continuity.
But this time has ended, and the need for self-defense has disappeared.
The world has become safer, and we have begun to experiment and ask
Intimate relationships.
But for communication, there must be an intellectual force, not a physical one.
It is enjoyed by people, I think.
Here is a conclusion that friendship is a phenomenon that keeps pace with evolution.
It is logical to assume that friendship between men and women
Can not exist from the standpoint of conventional rules or history.
So why do we endorse representatives of opposite sex?
In our time communication has become important,
We are satisfied with representatives of one race,
We are therefore deprived of 3.5 million potential friends.
This does not happen 100%.
I am sure that no one wants to deprive himself of the other half,
Especially when we can get everything full
What is the importance of this great circle of knowledge to us?
The more friends we have, the more we can learn from one another,
We receive the expertise and information we will not get from books.
Moreover, over the years, that quantity becomes quality.
The more friends you have in your youth, the more opportunities you have to hold on
Best friends and the most wonderful and greatest,
In adulthood.
But when we realized the need and even necessity
In making friends, not only with boys, but also with girls.
There remains a basic understanding:
How to make friends with the opposite sex
Or help do this with our relatives?
So when you understand this problem, you make the first important step.
For the second step you must show the initiative.
You can wait for how long you want, until your ideal friend comes to you
“Let’s be friends!” He says.
But this will not happen, unless you start with yourselves.
Here are two ways: The first is recognition of our problem for those around us.
When I signed in the “Ocean” for the first time, I did it perfectly.
The second way is to start dating depending on ourselves.
But if you do not know how to do this,
Get close to anyone you like and ask him any question,
This question may be stupid. For example: “Can you help me access the library?”
Thank.
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