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Shift to inclusion | Shirley Engelmeier | TEDxUChicago


okay picture this mid-80s I was hired by

okay picture this mid-80s I was hired by a fortune 50 company to become one of 26

a fortune 50 company to become one of 26

a fortune 50 company to become one of 26 division sales managers I was really

division sales managers I was really

division sales managers I was really proud of that in my performance I was

proud of that in my performance I was

proud of that in my performance I was rocking it I was number six out of

rocking it I was number six out of

rocking it I was number six out of twenty six business changes happened

twenty six business changes happened

twenty six business changes happened divisions needed to be collapsed mine

divisions needed to be collapsed mine

divisions needed to be collapsed mine was one of them when they announced the

was one of them when they announced the

was one of them when they announced the new Sales Leader the person who had the

new Sales Leader the person who had the

new Sales Leader the person who had the worst sales record in the company got

worst sales record in the company got

worst sales record in the company got the job hmm I was crushed I really

the job hmm I was crushed I really

the job hmm I was crushed I really didn’t know what happened I mean the key

didn’t know what happened I mean the key

didn’t know what happened I mean the key metric for this organization was sales

metric for this organization was sales

metric for this organization was sales and then it occurred to me maybe it

and then it occurred to me maybe it

and then it occurred to me maybe it happened because I was different I was

happened because I was different I was

happened because I was different I was the only woman out of 26 division sales

the only woman out of 26 division sales

the only woman out of 26 division sales managers and guess what that

managers and guess what that

managers and guess what that organization didn’t know what to do with

organization didn’t know what to do with

organization didn’t know what to do with me he know how to cross the difference

me he know how to cross the difference

me he know how to cross the difference they didn’t know how to create a culture

they didn’t know how to create a culture

they didn’t know how to create a culture of inclusion yes that was because of

of inclusion yes that was because of

of inclusion yes that was because of gender but this could happen for a

gender but this could happen for a

gender but this could happen for a multitude of reasons it could happen

multitude of reasons it could happen

multitude of reasons it could happen because of race or ethnicity who your

because of race or ethnicity who your

because of race or ethnicity who your parents are where you went to school

parents are where you went to school

parents are where you went to school where you’re going to school

where you’re going to school

where you’re going to school socioeconomic status it could happen

socioeconomic status it could happen

socioeconomic status it could happen just because you don’t fit the mold lots

just because you don’t fit the mold lots

just because you don’t fit the mold lots of organization want leaders to rush the

of organization want leaders to rush the

of organization want leaders to rush the stage grab the microphone in heaven

stage grab the microphone in heaven

stage grab the microphone in heaven forbid if you’re an introvert where

forbid if you’re an introvert where

forbid if you’re an introvert where extroverts are really the key leaders

fast-forward 1995 my son John Michael he

fast-forward 1995 my son John Michael he was in second grade

was in second grade

was in second grade I picked the perfect school for him my

I picked the perfect school for him my

I picked the perfect school for him my dear friend owned operate and ran this

dear friend owned operate and ran this

dear friend owned operate and ran this school I bend at a school a couple times

school I bend at a school a couple times

school I bend at a school a couple times and I’d seen some of the kids in his

and I’d seen some of the kids in his

and I’d seen some of the kids in his second grade class but I’d never been

second grade class but I’d never been

second grade class but I’d never been there when all the kids were there at

there when all the kids were there at

there when all the kids were there at once until the day of the field trip to

once until the day of the field trip to

once until the day of the field trip to the pumpkin patch now some of you have

the pumpkin patch now some of you have

the pumpkin patch now some of you have been on some of these field trips I was

been on some of these field trips I was

been on some of these field trips I was sitting on my bale of hay and the kids

sitting on my bale of hay and the kids

sitting on my bale of hay and the kids streamed off to find their perfect

streamed off to find their perfect

streamed off to find their perfect pumpkin I have this amazing awareness my

pumpkin I have this amazing awareness my

pumpkin I have this amazing awareness my son’s blonde head shone brightly across

son’s blonde head shone brightly across

son’s blonde head shone brightly across the sea of the children he was the only

the sea of the children he was the only

the sea of the children he was the only white kid in the school every other

white kid in the school every other

white kid in the school every other child was african-american and you know

child was african-american and you know

child was african-american and you know what the most beautiful thing was he

what the most beautiful thing was he

what the most beautiful thing was he never noticed and you want to know the

never noticed and you want to know the

never noticed and you want to know the more beautiful thing is the other kids

more beautiful thing is the other kids

more beautiful thing is the other kids never noticed they embraced my son for

never noticed they embraced my son for

never noticed they embraced my son for his difference Charlotte’s the South

his difference Charlotte’s the South

his difference Charlotte’s the South Charlotte we’re less than a hundred and

Charlotte we’re less than a hundred and

Charlotte we’re less than a hundred and fifty years earlier 44 percent of the

fifty years earlier 44 percent of the

fifty years earlier 44 percent of the residents were slaves every person in

residents were slaves every person in

residents were slaves every person in that school embraced all the differences

that school embraced all the differences

that school embraced all the differences all the voices were being brought

all the voices were being brought

all the voices were being brought together for the purpose of ensuring

together for the purpose of ensuring

together for the purpose of ensuring that these kids were performing at their

that these kids were performing at their

that these kids were performing at their absolute best and guess what in that

absolute best and guess what in that

absolute best and guess what in that culture in that environment where

culture in that environment where

culture in that environment where differences were valued where

differences were valued where

differences were valued where differences were embraced the kids were

differences were embraced the kids were

differences were embraced the kids were performing to to

performing to to

performing to to four grade levels above national

four grade levels above national

four grade levels above national standardized tests you may be sitting

standardized tests you may be sitting

standardized tests you may be sitting there wondering why am i telling you

there wondering why am i telling you

there wondering why am i telling you about my career from a long time ago and

about my career from a long time ago and

about my career from a long time ago and my son who by the way will be 28 this

my son who by the way will be 28 this

my son who by the way will be 28 this month the reason I’m telling you is I

month the reason I’m telling you is I

month the reason I’m telling you is I think the times that we live in are so

think the times that we live in are so

think the times that we live in are so absolutely critical for us to find a way

absolutely critical for us to find a way

absolutely critical for us to find a way to cross this difference we live in a

to cross this difference we live in a

to cross this difference we live in a time of great complexity great

time of great complexity great

time of great complexity great complexity and disruption disruption

complexity and disruption disruption

complexity and disruption disruption simply meaning this unrelenting change

simply meaning this unrelenting change

simply meaning this unrelenting change every day technology changes seismic

every day technology changes seismic

every day technology changes seismic demographic shifts social media

demographic shifts social media

demographic shifts social media globalization I wake up in the morning

globalization I wake up in the morning

globalization I wake up in the morning wondering what massive changes happened

wondering what massive changes happened

wondering what massive changes happened that’s going to impact my life my world

that’s going to impact my life my world

that’s going to impact my life my world my affairs and so we need a new way of

my affairs and so we need a new way of

my affairs and so we need a new way of having dialog across difference so that

having dialog across difference so that

having dialog across difference so that we can address these situations these

we can address these situations these

we can address these situations these problems that are emerging we need a way

problems that are emerging we need a way

problems that are emerging we need a way to capitalize on the intelligence of

to capitalize on the intelligence of

to capitalize on the intelligence of differences we need a way to take

differences we need a way to take

differences we need a way to take advantage of the opportunities that are

advantage of the opportunities that are

advantage of the opportunities that are coming our way

we need a shift in thinking so what’s

we need a shift in thinking so what’s the answer I believe that inclusion is

the answer I believe that inclusion is

the answer I believe that inclusion is the solution inclusions about getting

the solution inclusions about getting

the solution inclusions about getting everybody’s voice heard to drive to an

everybody’s voice heard to drive to an

everybody’s voice heard to drive to an outcome it’s about ensuring that

outcome it’s about ensuring that

outcome it’s about ensuring that everybody’s perspective experience

everybody’s perspective experience

everybody’s perspective experience talents are used to drive to a result

talents are used to drive to a result

talents are used to drive to a result you have to do something to include

you have to do something to include

you have to do something to include people you have to do something to

people you have to do something to

people you have to do something to practice inclusion

practice inclusion

practice inclusion I’m gonna tell you what that is and then

I’m gonna tell you what that is and then

I’m gonna tell you what that is and then I’m going to tell you how I came up with

I’m going to tell you how I came up with

I’m going to tell you how I came up with it in my day job I’m founder and CEO of

it in my day job I’m founder and CEO of

it in my day job I’m founder and CEO of inclusion Inc we take inclusion really

inclusion Inc we take inclusion really

inclusion Inc we take inclusion really seriously number one asked me what I

seriously number one asked me what I

seriously number one asked me what I think number two keep me informed number

think number two keep me informed number

think number two keep me informed number three let me participate in

three let me participate in

three let me participate in decision-making those super straight

decision-making those super straight

decision-making those super straight forward behaviors are things that

forward behaviors are things that

forward behaviors are things that emerged as a result of a global study

emerged as a result of a global study

emerged as a result of a global study that we did with SMU executive education

that we did with SMU executive education

that we did with SMU executive education department called the global inclusion

department called the global inclusion

department called the global inclusion index Oh for about twenty years we had

index Oh for about twenty years we had

index Oh for about twenty years we had been looking at inclusion behaviors with

been looking at inclusion behaviors with

been looking at inclusion behaviors with our clients yes

our clients yes

our clients yes these emerged from business and yet the

these emerged from business and yet the

these emerged from business and yet the study that we did did cross position

study that we did did cross position

study that we did did cross position across age gender in fourteen countries

across age gender in fourteen countries

across age gender in fourteen countries we looked at the full spectrum of people

we looked at the full spectrum of people

we looked at the full spectrum of people within the workplace the first question

within the workplace the first question

within the workplace the first question we wanted to ask was our inclusion

we wanted to ask was our inclusion

we wanted to ask was our inclusion behaviors important a resounding yes in

behaviors important a resounding yes in

behaviors important a resounding yes in every single one of the fourteen

every single one of the fourteen

every single one of the fourteen countries people wanted inclusion

countries people wanted inclusion

countries people wanted inclusion behaviors at a higher level than was

behaviors at a higher level than was

behaviors at a higher level than was culturally normative that is gigantic

culturally normative that is gigantic

culturally normative that is gigantic because what it says to me while this

because what it says to me while this

because what it says to me while this was done in the workplace that everybody

was done in the workplace that everybody

was done in the workplace that everybody wants to be included even if it isn’t

wants to be included even if it isn’t

wants to be included even if it isn’t what they experienced day in and day out

what they experienced day in and day out

what they experienced day in and day out in their culture you want to be included

in their culture you want to be included

in their culture you want to be included I want to be included the other question

I want to be included the other question

I want to be included the other question we wanted to ask answer is there a

we wanted to ask answer is there a

we wanted to ask answer is there a return on investment for inclusion

return on investment for inclusion

return on investment for inclusion behaviors when I found the data the

behaviors when I found the data the

behaviors when I found the data the first time I was so lit up about it and

first time I was so lit up about it and

first time I was so lit up about it and I still AM

I still AM

I still AM every organization any of us are

every organization any of us are

every organization any of us are involved with whether it’s education

involved with whether it’s education

involved with whether it’s education whether it’s a volunteer organization

whether it’s a volunteer organization

whether it’s a volunteer organization whether it’s the workplace we are leaner

whether it’s the workplace we are leaner

whether it’s the workplace we are leaner than we’ve ever been before when we can

than we’ve ever been before when we can

than we’ve ever been before when we can find something that’s going to impact

find something that’s going to impact

find something that’s going to impact the return on investment with no dollar

the return on investment with no dollar

the return on investment with no dollar investment it’s so exciting to me what

investment it’s so exciting to me what

investment it’s so exciting to me what we found is that inclusion is a strategy

we found is that inclusion is a strategy

we found is that inclusion is a strategy to drive engagement productivity

to drive engagement productivity

to drive engagement productivity innovation and retention let’s start

innovation and retention let’s start

innovation and retention let’s start with retention again retaining your best

with retention again retaining your best

with retention again retaining your best talent in your volunteer organizations

talent in your volunteer organizations

talent in your volunteer organizations is just as critical as retaining your

is just as critical as retaining your

is just as critical as retaining your best talent in the workplace

best talent in the workplace

best talent in the workplace participants were 15 percent less likely

participants were 15 percent less likely

participants were 15 percent less likely to leave in the next year simply with

to leave in the next year simply with

to leave in the next year simply with inclusion behaviors being used five

inclusion behaviors being used five

inclusion behaviors being used five percent more productive the holy grail

percent more productive the holy grail

percent more productive the holy grail in organizations is engagement

participants said they were 25 percent

participants said they were 25 percent more engaged when inclusion behaviors

more engaged when inclusion behaviors

more engaged when inclusion behaviors were used the globally translated word

were used the globally translated word

were used the globally translated word for that is motivated imagine that you

for that is motivated imagine that you

for that is motivated imagine that you could motivate people by 25 percent

could motivate people by 25 percent

could motivate people by 25 percent simply by using inclusion behaviors in

simply by using inclusion behaviors in

simply by using inclusion behaviors in the final area innovation innovation is

the final area innovation innovation is

the final area innovation innovation is needed to deal with the complexity of

needed to deal with the complexity of

needed to deal with the complexity of our times

our times

our times not only were people 12 percent more

not only were people 12 percent more

not only were people 12 percent more likely to come up with ideas but they

likely to come up with ideas but they

likely to come up with ideas but they were also 12 percent more likely to

were also 12 percent more likely to

were also 12 percent more likely to share those ideas

the results of the global inclusion

the results of the global inclusion index align very nicely with an article

index align very nicely with an article

index align very nicely with an article that a Harvard Business Review wrote

that a Harvard Business Review wrote

that a Harvard Business Review wrote called why diverse teams are smarter

called why diverse teams are smarter

called why diverse teams are smarter very simply paraphrased it says that

very simply paraphrased it says that

very simply paraphrased it says that diverse teams look at information and

diverse teams look at information and

diverse teams look at information and examine the facts more carefully because

examine the facts more carefully because

examine the facts more carefully because they don’t go into groupthink they don’t

they don’t go into groupthink they don’t

they don’t go into groupthink they don’t let homogeneity of the team drive

let homogeneity of the team drive

let homogeneity of the team drive towards some predetermined outcome

towards some predetermined outcome

towards some predetermined outcome implied in that article is a practice of

implied in that article is a practice of

implied in that article is a practice of inclusion and so I’ve laid out here why

inclusion and so I’ve laid out here why

inclusion and so I’ve laid out here why I think inclusion is important and what

I think inclusion is important and what

I think inclusion is important and what inclusion is I’ve also laid out the

inclusion is I’ve also laid out the

inclusion is I’ve also laid out the return on investment so the question is

return on investment so the question is

return on investment so the question is if it’s so straightforward why aren’t we

if it’s so straightforward why aren’t we

if it’s so straightforward why aren’t we doing it because it’s hard to do because

doing it because it’s hard to do because

doing it because it’s hard to do because I may not want to ask you what you think

I may not want to ask you what you think

I may not want to ask you what you think I know you’re gonna disagree with me

I know you’re gonna disagree with me

I know you’re gonna disagree with me probably before I ask you and if if I

probably before I ask you and if if I

probably before I ask you and if if I inform you you may use it against me in

inform you you may use it against me in

inform you you may use it against me in the next conversation we have oh and if

the next conversation we have oh and if

the next conversation we have oh and if I let you participate in decision-making

I let you participate in decision-making

I let you participate in decision-making I know how long you talk I may never get

I know how long you talk I may never get

I know how long you talk I may never get my work done today

that’s human and remember it’s also

that’s human and remember it’s also human to want to be included I want to

human to want to be included I want to

human to want to be included I want to be included you want to be included

include

include getting all the voices together to drive

getting all the voices together to drive

getting all the voices together to drive towards an outcome to drive toward a

towards an outcome to drive toward a

towards an outcome to drive toward a result the practice of inclusion asked

result the practice of inclusion asked

result the practice of inclusion asked me what I think inform me let me

me what I think inform me let me

me what I think inform me let me participate in decision-making this is

participate in decision-making this is

participate in decision-making this is our call to action this is our practice

our call to action this is our practice

our call to action this is our practice maybe we didn’t know the impact that we

maybe we didn’t know the impact that we

maybe we didn’t know the impact that we could have maybe we didn’t know the

could have maybe we didn’t know the

could have maybe we didn’t know the shift that we could make by practicing

shift that we could make by practicing

shift that we could make by practicing inclusion come on let’s do it let’s make

inclusion come on let’s do it let’s make

inclusion come on let’s do it let’s make the shift

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