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Bliss of Ignorance | Lecticia Lecticia Sepulveda Munguambe | TEDxUniversityOfAberdeen


good evening well as I take you on this

good evening well as I take you on this last journey I’d like you to leave

last journey I’d like you to leave

last journey I’d like you to leave behind everything you came with

behind everything you came with

behind everything you came with everything you know to be true and

everything you know to be true and

everything you know to be true and embark on a journey with me now what I’m

embark on a journey with me now what I’m

embark on a journey with me now what I’m about to share with you is the story of

about to share with you is the story of

about to share with you is the story of my evolution as a person but also my

my evolution as a person but also my

my evolution as a person but also my evolution as a human being with myself

evolution as a human being with myself

evolution as a human being with myself so are you ready for the journey so

so are you ready for the journey so

so are you ready for the journey so growing up I never really thought of

growing up I never really thought of

growing up I never really thought of differences much less of them as a bad

differences much less of them as a bad

differences much less of them as a bad thing to me differences where the norm

thing to me differences where the norm

thing to me differences where the norm and perhaps the only way to achieve

and perhaps the only way to achieve

and perhaps the only way to achieve excellence now of course we say we tend

excellence now of course we say we tend

excellence now of course we say we tend to align ourselves with individuals who

to align ourselves with individuals who

to align ourselves with individuals who share things in common with us make

share things in common with us make

share things in common with us make sense but it should be on a spiritual

sense but it should be on a spiritual

sense but it should be on a spiritual level rather than on a physical one and

level rather than on a physical one and

level rather than on a physical one and at least it is for me but growing up

at least it is for me but growing up

at least it is for me but growing up this concept change for me at the young

this concept change for me at the young

this concept change for me at the young age of seven my family and I moved to

age of seven my family and I moved to

age of seven my family and I moved to the United States of America quite the

the United States of America quite the

the United States of America quite the journey where I learned to read write

journey where I learned to read write

journey where I learned to read write and literally think for myself there I

and literally think for myself there I

and literally think for myself there I learned about the importance of thinking

learned about the importance of thinking

learned about the importance of thinking and creating thoughts of my own

and creating thoughts of my own

and creating thoughts of my own the move was revolutionary to my

the move was revolutionary to my

the move was revolutionary to my character to my beliefs even to my

character to my beliefs even to my

character to my beliefs even to my manner of being but simply because I

manner of being but simply because I

manner of being but simply because I went at such a young age now it also

went at such a young age now it also

went at such a young age now it also meant that they made me aware of a

meant that they made me aware of a

meant that they made me aware of a number of different issues and things

number of different issues and things

number of different issues and things that were my issues to begin with and

that were my issues to begin with and

that were my issues to begin with and you may all be sitting here today like

you may all be sitting here today like

you may all be sitting here today like well what’s that well it was during this

well what’s that well it was during this

well what’s that well it was during this time that America taught me about

time that America taught me about

time that America taught me about differences and their negative

differences and their negative

differences and their negative implications now when I first arrived in

implications now when I first arrived in

implications now when I first arrived in America my family and I moved into a

America my family and I moved into a

America my family and I moved into a predominantly white neighborhood in

predominantly white neighborhood in

predominantly white neighborhood in scope there I was constantly told that I

scope there I was constantly told that I

scope there I was constantly told that I was different and taught how to deal

was different and taught how to deal

was different and taught how to deal with this difference but that’s just it

with this difference but that’s just it

with this difference but that’s just it I had never thought of myself as

I had never thought of myself as

I had never thought of myself as different much less of having a problem

different much less of having a problem

different much less of having a problem that I had to cope with and you may be

that I had to cope with and you may be

that I had to cope with and you may be sitting here like hmm you were African

sitting here like hmm you were African

sitting here like hmm you were African in 1999 America but it isn’t that simple

in 1999 America but it isn’t that simple

in 1999 America but it isn’t that simple take a look at the image of these two

take a look at the image of these two

take a look at the image of these two boys

boys

boys who you may have seen at the Internet

who you may have seen at the Internet

who you may have seen at the Internet most recently now they got a same

most recently now they got a same

most recently now they got a same haircut in an attempt to confuse their

haircut in an attempt to confuse their

haircut in an attempt to confuse their teacher

teacher

teacher these boys thought that by simply having

these boys thought that by simply having

these boys thought that by simply having the same haircut their teacher wouldn’t

the same haircut their teacher wouldn’t

the same haircut their teacher wouldn’t be able to tell them apart now this for

be able to tell them apart now this for

be able to tell them apart now this for me is blissful ignorance interrupting

me is blissful ignorance interrupting

me is blissful ignorance interrupting this ignorant would have been to say and

this ignorant would have been to say and

this ignorant would have been to say and of course the teacher will tell you boys

of course the teacher will tell you boys

of course the teacher will tell you boys apart your complexions are different or

apart your complexions are different or

apart your complexions are different or even naming any other difference between

even naming any other difference between

even naming any other difference between them but it was at that moment that

them but it was at that moment that

them but it was at that moment that their mother took to understanding that

their mother took to understanding that

their mother took to understanding that prejudice is something that is taught

prejudice is something that is taught

prejudice is something that is taught and quoting her she says if this isn’t

and quoting her she says if this isn’t

and quoting her she says if this isn’t proof that hate and Prejudice is

proof that hate and Prejudice is

proof that hate and Prejudice is something that is taught I don’t know

something that is taught I don’t know

something that is taught I don’t know what is so in an attempt to take you on

what is so in an attempt to take you on

what is so in an attempt to take you on the journey with me I went in googled

the journey with me I went in googled

the journey with me I went in googled some images of what 1999 America thought

some images of what 1999 America thought

some images of what 1999 America thought of Africans in general we all know that

of Africans in general we all know that

of Africans in general we all know that most of it was based on The Lion King

most of it was based on The Lion King

most of it was based on The Lion King and whatever other images of social

and whatever other images of social

and whatever other images of social media that were around at the time but

media that were around at the time but

media that were around at the time but or even any campaigns that were around

or even any campaigns that were around

or even any campaigns that were around at the time basically to help Africans

at the time basically to help Africans

at the time basically to help Africans we know that but this is my reality now

we know that but this is my reality now

we know that but this is my reality now clearly I wasn’t very stylish I know I

clearly I wasn’t very stylish I know I

clearly I wasn’t very stylish I know I had the polkadot pants weren’t very nice

had the polkadot pants weren’t very nice

had the polkadot pants weren’t very nice but you can tell that I had the very

but you can tell that I had the very

but you can tell that I had the very same basic needs met as most Americans

same basic needs met as most Americans

same basic needs met as most Americans did I had food I had shelter and I had

did I had food I had shelter and I had

did I had food I had shelter and I had clothes but if you don’t yet understand

clothes but if you don’t yet understand

clothes but if you don’t yet understand where I’m coming from ask yourself this

where I’m coming from ask yourself this

where I’m coming from ask yourself this question would you tell a five-year-old

question would you tell a five-year-old

question would you tell a five-year-old that Santa Claus is not real now

that Santa Claus is not real now

that Santa Claus is not real now obviously it sounds pretty

obviously it sounds pretty

obviously it sounds pretty straightforward no in essence it’s the

straightforward no in essence it’s the

straightforward no in essence it’s the same thing we want our children to be

same thing we want our children to be

same thing we want our children to be naive and oblivious to certain realities

naive and oblivious to certain realities

naive and oblivious to certain realities we try to preserve their innocence we

we try to preserve their innocence we

we try to preserve their innocence we want them to believe in Santa Claus and

want them to believe in Santa Claus and

want them to believe in Santa Claus and the image of Santa Claus should be right

the image of Santa Claus should be right

the image of Santa Claus should be right here my sister and I we want them to

here my sister and I we want them to

here my sister and I we want them to have imaginary

have imaginary

have imaginary friends and have imaginary tea parties

friends and have imaginary tea parties

friends and have imaginary tea parties because in essence their innocence is

because in essence their innocence is

because in essence their innocence is the most important thing to us in

the most important thing to us in

the most important thing to us in essence taking away their innocence

essence taking away their innocence

essence taking away their innocence would be somewhat callous so what I’m

would be somewhat callous so what I’m

would be somewhat callous so what I’m trying to say is that before arriving in

trying to say is that before arriving in

trying to say is that before arriving in America I grew up in the Mozambique that

America I grew up in the Mozambique that

America I grew up in the Mozambique that was rich with cultural and ethnic

was rich with cultural and ethnic

was rich with cultural and ethnic differences I was surrounded by

differences I was surrounded by

differences I was surrounded by different races and ethnicities

different races and ethnicities

different races and ethnicities I just never acknowledged them as being

I just never acknowledged them as being

I just never acknowledged them as being different to me difference was the norm

different to me difference was the norm

different to me difference was the norm in that aspect I was blissfully ignorant

in that aspect I was blissfully ignorant

in that aspect I was blissfully ignorant and it wasn’t until I moved to the

and it wasn’t until I moved to the

and it wasn’t until I moved to the United States of America and had my

United States of America and had my

United States of America and had my differences pointed out that I started

differences pointed out that I started

differences pointed out that I started to feel inferior the school and the

to feel inferior the school and the

to feel inferior the school and the students made sure to highlight my

students made sure to highlight my

students made sure to highlight my differences basically and their

differences basically and their

differences basically and their ignorance for that matter they picked on

ignorance for that matter they picked on

ignorance for that matter they picked on me for the color of my skin they picked

me for the color of my skin they picked

me for the color of my skin they picked on me for my hair they picked on me from

on me for my hair they picked on me from

on me for my hair they picked on me from my lack of english-speaking proficiency

my lack of english-speaking proficiency

my lack of english-speaking proficiency and they even picked on me for what they

and they even picked on me for what they

and they even picked on me for what they thought when you experience this for me

thought when you experience this for me

thought when you experience this for me in joining a modern-day society like

in joining a modern-day society like

in joining a modern-day society like entering a car for the first time or

entering a car for the first time or

entering a car for the first time or watching TV for the first time things

watching TV for the first time things

watching TV for the first time things that I had done my whole life and moving

that I had done my whole life and moving

that I had done my whole life and moving on on the journey that I wanted to take

on on the journey that I wanted to take

on on the journey that I wanted to take you on imagine that as you’re sitting

you on imagine that as you’re sitting

you on imagine that as you’re sitting here today someone comes up to you and

here today someone comes up to you and

here today someone comes up to you and asks you and fellas please bear with me

asks you and fellas please bear with me

asks you and fellas please bear with me but as women someone comes up to you and

but as women someone comes up to you and

but as women someone comes up to you and says listen you’re a woman and there’s

says listen you’re a woman and there’s

says listen you’re a woman and there’s nothing you can do about it and I’m

nothing you can do about it and I’m

nothing you can do about it and I’m sorry it’s a challenge but I’m here to

sorry it’s a challenge but I’m here to

sorry it’s a challenge but I’m here to help you cope with it and fellas imagine

help you cope with it and fellas imagine

help you cope with it and fellas imagine the same thing if someone said that to

the same thing if someone said that to

the same thing if someone said that to you now obviously we’re all adults we

you now obviously we’re all adults we

you now obviously we’re all adults we all have critical thinking we can simply

all have critical thinking we can simply

all have critical thinking we can simply brush off what they’re saying

brush off what they’re saying

brush off what they’re saying but I was 7 I was 7 years old and I was

but I was 7 I was 7 years old and I was

but I was 7 I was 7 years old and I was hearing this systematically every single

hearing this systematically every single

hearing this systematically every single day

day

day so naturally I began to question myself

so naturally I began to question myself

so naturally I began to question myself I questioned my looks

I questioned my looks

I questioned my looks I questioned myself I questioned

I questioned myself I questioned

I questioned myself I questioned everything and it was at that point in

everything and it was at that point in

everything and it was at that point in my life that my part my father played a

my life that my part my father played a

my life that my part my father played a pivotal role in my life

pivotal role in my life

pivotal role in my life he worked tirelessly perhaps and aware

he worked tirelessly perhaps and aware

he worked tirelessly perhaps and aware to keep me from conforming to the norm

to keep me from conforming to the norm

to keep me from conforming to the norm and that basically entailed just telling

and that basically entailed just telling

and that basically entailed just telling me every single day how special I was it

me every single day how special I was it

me every single day how special I was it meant that he reminded me day in and day

meant that he reminded me day in and day

meant that he reminded me day in and day out that American reality wasn’t my

out that American reality wasn’t my

out that American reality wasn’t my reality and of course I didn’t

reality and of course I didn’t

reality and of course I didn’t understand it all I wanted was to have

understand it all I wanted was to have

understand it all I wanted was to have my hair straight like all the other

my hair straight like all the other

my hair straight like all the other girls but today I do and for that I’ll

girls but today I do and for that I’ll

girls but today I do and for that I’ll always be thankful

so if America had never told me that I

so if America had never told me that I was different and that because of it I

was different and that because of it I

was different and that because of it I was at a disadvantage I would have never

was at a disadvantage I would have never

was at a disadvantage I would have never thought of myself as an inferior I would

thought of myself as an inferior I would

thought of myself as an inferior I would have never thought of myself at a

have never thought of myself at a

have never thought of myself at a disadvantage and this is the point when

disadvantage and this is the point when

disadvantage and this is the point when I started to notice the importance of

I started to notice the importance of

I started to notice the importance of information and years later my family

information and years later my family

information and years later my family and I moved to Vietnam we’re going back

and I moved to Vietnam we’re going back

and I moved to Vietnam we’re going back on that journey and there I had people

on that journey and there I had people

on that journey and there I had people taking unsolicited pictures of me

taking unsolicited pictures of me

taking unsolicited pictures of me touching me touching my baby brother

touching me touching my baby brother

touching me touching my baby brother because they had never seen people so

because they had never seen people so

because they had never seen people so dark putting it simply and moving on I

dark putting it simply and moving on I

dark putting it simply and moving on I went to Thailand I went study at

went to Thailand I went study at

went to Thailand I went study at Stanford International University and on

Stanford International University and on

Stanford International University and on one of the trips as we were moving from

one of the trips as we were moving from

one of the trips as we were moving from Bangkok to another province in Hua Hin

Bangkok to another province in Hua Hin

Bangkok to another province in Hua Hin our car broke down now we were about 10

our car broke down now we were about 10

our car broke down now we were about 10 people in this van so we all had to get

people in this van so we all had to get

people in this van so we all had to get out and wait for the driver to fix the

out and wait for the driver to fix the

out and wait for the driver to fix the vehicle and while we were there just

vehicle and while we were there just

vehicle and while we were there just waiting and chatting our car pulls up

waiting and chatting our car pulls up

waiting and chatting our car pulls up and a man comes off and obviously it was

and a man comes off and obviously it was

and a man comes off and obviously it was my first semester in Thailand so I

my first semester in Thailand so I

my first semester in Thailand so I didn’t speak Thai but my friend was

didn’t speak Thai but my friend was

didn’t speak Thai but my friend was there and she translated it to me

there and she translated it to me

there and she translated it to me basically the man was requesting to

basically the man was requesting to

basically the man was requesting to purchase me yeah he wanted to purchase

purchase me yeah he wanted to purchase

purchase me yeah he wanted to purchase me because he had never seen someone of

me because he had never seen someone of

me because he had never seen someone of a darker complexion than his own and now

a darker complexion than his own and now

a darker complexion than his own and now of course my friend said that he meant

of course my friend said that he meant

of course my friend said that he meant it in the best of terms but this is when

it in the best of terms but this is when

it in the best of terms but this is when I began to realize that how fundamental

I began to realize that how fundamental

I began to realize that how fundamental information sharing is so these

information sharing is so these

information sharing is so these differences in skin

differences in skin

differences in skin in hair in speech they’ve all taught me

in hair in speech they’ve all taught me

in hair in speech they’ve all taught me the importance of information sharing of

the importance of information sharing of

the importance of information sharing of self love and self-acceptance in order

self love and self-acceptance in order

self love and self-acceptance in order to help other people embrace differences

to help other people embrace differences

to help other people embrace differences as a good thing take it from me your

as a good thing take it from me your

as a good thing take it from me your self love and acceptance is your biggest

self love and acceptance is your biggest

self love and acceptance is your biggest weapon against any form of

weapon against any form of

weapon against any form of discrimination and they come in all

discrimination and they come in all

discrimination and they come in all shapes and sizes don’t take my own as

shapes and sizes don’t take my own as

shapes and sizes don’t take my own as the only source now as a part of sharing

the only source now as a part of sharing

the only source now as a part of sharing information I think one of the most

information I think one of the most

information I think one of the most important things is to actually show

important things is to actually show

important things is to actually show people so to take away from that image

people so to take away from that image

people so to take away from that image of what Africa is this is my reality

of what Africa is this is my reality

of what Africa is this is my reality this is Mozambique and this is the

this is Mozambique and this is the

this is Mozambique and this is the beautiful Mozambique this is the place

beautiful Mozambique this is the place

beautiful Mozambique this is the place that I grew up in now of course it’s

that I grew up in now of course it’s

that I grew up in now of course it’s evolved with time but my role is to

evolved with time but my role is to

evolved with time but my role is to share information as it is today so Paul

share information as it is today so Paul

share information as it is today so Paul Hudson wrote in elite magazine that

Hudson wrote in elite magazine that

Hudson wrote in elite magazine that ignorance is bliss

ignorance is bliss

ignorance is bliss knowledge is power happiness is finding

knowledge is power happiness is finding

knowledge is power happiness is finding the balance between the two now this was

the balance between the two now this was

the balance between the two now this was just the title but I got to me and I

just the title but I got to me and I

just the title but I got to me and I began to cast myself

began to cast myself

began to cast myself all sorts of questions I mean it’s a

all sorts of questions I mean it’s a

all sorts of questions I mean it’s a beautiful sentence but you start to

beautiful sentence but you start to

beautiful sentence but you start to wonder and I started to ask myself all

wonder and I started to ask myself all

wonder and I started to ask myself all sorts of questions balance well what’s

sorts of questions balance well what’s

sorts of questions balance well what’s the balance what’s the scale for this

the balance what’s the scale for this

the balance what’s the scale for this balance how much information is too much

balance how much information is too much

balance how much information is too much information how much information is not

information how much information is not

information how much information is not enough and most importantly who should

enough and most importantly who should

enough and most importantly who should have the information so in an attempt to

have the information so in an attempt to

have the information so in an attempt to decipher this to myself and I thought it

decipher this to myself and I thought it

decipher this to myself and I thought it was important to share with you is that

was important to share with you is that

was important to share with you is that there’s many different ways that we can

there’s many different ways that we can

there’s many different ways that we can perceive ignorance and information and

perceive ignorance and information and

perceive ignorance and information and there’s a very thin line between

there’s a very thin line between

there’s a very thin line between blissful ignorance and just plain

blissful ignorance and just plain

blissful ignorance and just plain ignorance but although there’s a broad

ignorance but although there’s a broad

ignorance but although there’s a broad spectrum of ways that we can approach

spectrum of ways that we can approach

spectrum of ways that we can approach this topic today with you I want to

this topic today with you I want to

this topic today with you I want to share its importance with children

share its importance with children

share its importance with children children are the key to tomorrow

children are the key to tomorrow

children are the key to tomorrow our duties are with them so as adults

our duties are with them so as adults

our duties are with them so as adults we’re all able to think critically we

we’re all able to think critically we

we’re all able to think critically we can make sound judgments we can brush

can make sound judgments we can brush

can make sound judgments we can brush off a situation when someone tells us

off a situation when someone tells us

off a situation when someone tells us something that we just don’t agree with

something that we just don’t agree with

something that we just don’t agree with but as kids we don’t have the same

but as kids we don’t have the same

but as kids we don’t have the same capacity adults are able to tell right

capacity adults are able to tell right

capacity adults are able to tell right from wrong and they’re able to hold

from wrong and they’re able to hold

from wrong and they’re able to hold their tongues when that something is not

their tongues when that something is not

their tongues when that something is not supposed to be said but till children

supposed to be said but till children

supposed to be said but till children just do it they’re said children just do

just do it they’re said children just do

just do it they’re said children just do as they see so it’s important for us to

as they see so it’s important for us to

as they see so it’s important for us to share this very same important

share this very same important

share this very same important information with our own our children

information with our own our children

information with our own our children with any one of them that surrounds us a

with any one of them that surrounds us a

with any one of them that surrounds us a similar thing is happening right now in

similar thing is happening right now in

similar thing is happening right now in Mozambique and I think by now we’ve gone

Mozambique and I think by now we’ve gone

Mozambique and I think by now we’ve gone back to Mozambique so let’s embark on

back to Mozambique so let’s embark on

back to Mozambique so let’s embark on that journey and imagine yourselves in

that journey and imagine yourselves in

that journey and imagine yourselves in Mozambique it’s a beautiful country and

Mozambique it’s a beautiful country and

Mozambique it’s a beautiful country and while we’re there we have an

while we’re there we have an

while we’re there we have an organization named lamda who basically

organization named lamda who basically

organization named lamda who basically fights for LGBTQ awareness and

fights for LGBTQ awareness and

fights for LGBTQ awareness and acceptance now let me take you back to

acceptance now let me take you back to

acceptance now let me take you back to the beginning of the story Mozambique

the beginning of the story Mozambique

the beginning of the story Mozambique has never been a country to prosecute

has never been a country to prosecute

has never been a country to prosecute anyone for homosexuality not since it to

anyone for homosexuality not since it to

anyone for homosexuality not since it to the independence we did have a law put

the independence we did have a law put

the independence we did have a law put in 1866 roughly by the colonial powers

in 1866 roughly by the colonial powers

in 1866 roughly by the colonial powers the Portuguese back in the day that

the Portuguese back in the day that

the Portuguese back in the day that basically meant they would punish anyone

basically meant they would punish anyone

basically meant they would punish anyone with hard labor who was guilty of

with hard labor who was guilty of

with hard labor who was guilty of homosexuality but since our independence

homosexuality but since our independence

homosexuality but since our independence in 1975 we simply never convicted anyone

in 1975 we simply never convicted anyone

in 1975 we simply never convicted anyone but with the increase of campaign ads

but with the increase of campaign ads

but with the increase of campaign ads from lamda with the aid of US aid I have

from lamda with the aid of US aid I have

from lamda with the aid of US aid I have witnessed an increase of harmful jokes

witnessed an increase of harmful jokes

witnessed an increase of harmful jokes and harmful behavior towards the LGBT

and harmful behavior towards the LGBT

and harmful behavior towards the LGBT community and of course it’s my

community and of course it’s my

community and of course it’s my perception but I asked yourself you this

perception but I asked yourself you this

perception but I asked yourself you this we’ve never been known to target anyone

we’ve never been known to target anyone

we’ve never been known to target anyone for whom sexuality why should we move in

for whom sexuality why should we move in

for whom sexuality why should we move in and attempt to solve a problem now much

and attempt to solve a problem now much

and attempt to solve a problem now much like myself Mozambique is a pretty young

like myself Mozambique is a pretty young

like myself Mozambique is a pretty young country

country

country like I said in 1975 and when I moved to

like I said in 1975 and when I moved to

like I said in 1975 and when I moved to the United States I was seven and in an

the United States I was seven and in an

the United States I was seven and in an attempt to perhaps avert a problem or

attempt to perhaps avert a problem or

attempt to perhaps avert a problem or solve a problem but neither Mozambique

solve a problem but neither Mozambique

solve a problem but neither Mozambique nor I had we made

nor I had we made

nor I had we made in the process of actually creating it

in the process of actually creating it

in the process of actually creating it we need to let our minds open to the

we need to let our minds open to the

we need to let our minds open to the idea that not everyone shares the same

idea that not everyone shares the same

idea that not everyone shares the same troubles as we do and we don’t have to

troubles as we do and we don’t have to

troubles as we do and we don’t have to target different communities and

target different communities and

target different communities and different people because of it we should

different people because of it we should

different people because of it we should just let things be

just let things be

just let things be let Mozambique grow at a sustainable

let Mozambique grow at a sustainable

let Mozambique grow at a sustainable pace encounter its problems as it comes

pace encounter its problems as it comes

pace encounter its problems as it comes and of course many may argue that it’s

and of course many may argue that it’s

and of course many may argue that it’s actually a good thing

actually a good thing

actually a good thing fighting LGBT awareness and promoting

fighting LGBT awareness and promoting

fighting LGBT awareness and promoting but who’s to say for now

but who’s to say for now

but who’s to say for now Zenaida machado a BBC analyst from

Zenaida machado a BBC analyst from

Zenaida machado a BBC analyst from Mozambique said and she puts it how I

Mozambique said and she puts it how I

Mozambique said and she puts it how I think precisely is that while many may

think precisely is that while many may

think precisely is that while many may be relaxed about homosexuality in

be relaxed about homosexuality in

be relaxed about homosexuality in Mozambique many see promoting gay rights

Mozambique many see promoting gay rights

Mozambique many see promoting gay rights as an attack on our cultural and

as an attack on our cultural and

as an attack on our cultural and religious practices we have no problem

religious practices we have no problem

religious practices we have no problem with them so let’s not try to fix a

with them so let’s not try to fix a

with them so let’s not try to fix a problem that we don’t have let’s not

problem that we don’t have let’s not

problem that we don’t have let’s not clean the milk before it’s even spilt

clean the milk before it’s even spilt

clean the milk before it’s even spilt it’s useless unless you’re actually

it’s useless unless you’re actually

it’s useless unless you’re actually hoping to spill the milk so let’s take a

hoping to spill the milk so let’s take a

hoping to spill the milk so let’s take a breath and try to understand what I’m

breath and try to understand what I’m

breath and try to understand what I’m trying to say because it’s a lot my

trying to say because it’s a lot my

trying to say because it’s a lot my biggest weapon against discrimination as

biggest weapon against discrimination as

biggest weapon against discrimination as I told you is my self love and

I told you is my self love and

I told you is my self love and acceptance and it’s been a journey since

acceptance and it’s been a journey since

acceptance and it’s been a journey since the first day that I moved to the United

the first day that I moved to the United

the first day that I moved to the United States I’ve grown in all shapes and

States I’ve grown in all shapes and

States I’ve grown in all shapes and forms and America has done great things

forms and America has done great things

forms and America has done great things for me it’s what has me standing here

for me it’s what has me standing here

for me it’s what has me standing here before you today

before you today

before you today it’s taught me confidence but most

it’s taught me confidence but most

it’s taught me confidence but most importantly it’s taught me to love

importantly it’s taught me to love

importantly it’s taught me to love myself and I want to share that with you

myself and I want to share that with you

myself and I want to share that with you guys today with whatever it is in life

guys today with whatever it is in life

guys today with whatever it is in life you go through look within yourselves no

you go through look within yourselves no

you go through look within yourselves no one has the power to target you for

one has the power to target you for

one has the power to target you for something you don’t accept so in perhaps

something you don’t accept so in perhaps

something you don’t accept so in perhaps what is the oldest quote or read

what is the oldest quote or read

what is the oldest quote or read original it from Thomas grey wrote an

original it from Thomas grey wrote an

original it from Thomas grey wrote an appointment 17:46 where ignorant is

appointment 17:46 where ignorant is

appointment 17:46 where ignorant is bliss it’s folly to be wise let’s

bliss it’s folly to be wise let’s

bliss it’s folly to be wise let’s preserve the innocence of our children

preserve the innocence of our children

preserve the innocence of our children let’s keep them unaware of unnecessary

let’s keep them unaware of unnecessary

let’s keep them unaware of unnecessary to unnecessary realities I can’t say

to unnecessary realities I can’t say

to unnecessary realities I can’t say what would have been of my life if I

what would have been of my life if I

what would have been of my life if I hadn’t gone through the things that I

hadn’t gone through the things that I

hadn’t gone through the things that I but we don’t all have to go through the

but we don’t all have to go through the

but we don’t all have to go through the same things so go home

same things so go home

same things so go home love your families look to your children

love your families look to your children

love your families look to your children look to any child and see them as a

look to any child and see them as a

look to any child and see them as a representation of tomorrow because the

representation of tomorrow because the

representation of tomorrow because the person standing before here today is a

person standing before here today is a

person standing before here today is a mere representation of yesterday so to

mere representation of yesterday so to

mere representation of yesterday so to wrap this up I want to leave you with a

wrap this up I want to leave you with a

wrap this up I want to leave you with a quote from a song from Whitney Houston

quote from a song from Whitney Houston

quote from a song from Whitney Houston the greatest love of all and in it she

the greatest love of all and in it she

the greatest love of all and in it she says I believe the children are our

says I believe the children are our

says I believe the children are our future teach them well and let them lead

future teach them well and let them lead

future teach them well and let them lead the way and show them all the beauty

the way and show them all the beauty

the way and show them all the beauty they possess inside now the rest of it

they possess inside now the rest of it

they possess inside now the rest of it you guys can hear for yourselves and as

you guys can hear for yourselves and as

you guys can hear for yourselves and as I leave you here today I urge you to

I leave you here today I urge you to

I leave you here today I urge you to think of the following and to carry it

think of the following and to carry it

think of the following and to carry it with you everywhere you go ask yourself

with you everywhere you go ask yourself

with you everywhere you go ask yourself this how much information is too much

this how much information is too much

this how much information is too much information and how can we keep it how

information and how can we keep it how

information and how can we keep it how can we avoid it from taking away

can we avoid it from taking away

can we avoid it from taking away childhood innocence thank you

childhood innocence thank you

childhood innocence thank you [Applause]

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