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Finding Courage to Be an Ally in the Fight for Rights | Wanda Thomas Bernard | TEDxDalhousieU


thank you very much

thank you very much I always find it very moving and very

I always find it very moving and very

I always find it very moving and very humbling when someone can actually give

humbling when someone can actually give

humbling when someone can actually give you a very personal touch with an

you a very personal touch with an

you a very personal touch with an introduction so I thank you very much

introduction so I thank you very much

introduction so I thank you very much for that finding courage to be an ally

for that finding courage to be an ally

for that finding courage to be an ally in the fight for rights when I think

in the fight for rights when I think

in the fight for rights when I think about the work that I’ve done over the

about the work that I’ve done over the

about the work that I’ve done over the years and people have called me fearless

years and people have called me fearless

years and people have called me fearless the reality is I’m not fearless I

the reality is I’m not fearless I

the reality is I’m not fearless I experience a lot of fear past and

experience a lot of fear past and

experience a lot of fear past and present but I find the courage to go

present but I find the courage to go

present but I find the courage to go beyond the fear that I may be feeling in

beyond the fear that I may be feeling in

beyond the fear that I may be feeling in the moment and so today I want to talk a

the moment and so today I want to talk a

the moment and so today I want to talk a little bit of both that you know living

little bit of both that you know living

little bit of both that you know living at the living with the intersection of

at the living with the intersection of

at the living with the intersection of oppression so I personally live with

oppression so I personally live with

oppression so I personally live with race gender oppression but I also know

race gender oppression but I also know

race gender oppression but I also know about oppression based on age based on

about oppression based on age based on

about oppression based on age based on ability based on socioeconomic class

ability based on socioeconomic class

ability based on socioeconomic class based on gender gender identity sexual

based on gender gender identity sexual

based on gender gender identity sexual orientation you know all of those isms

orientation you know all of those isms

orientation you know all of those isms and then if you go to the second layer

and then if you go to the second layer

and then if you go to the second layer oppression based on family status

oppression based on family status

oppression based on family status citizenship status all of those things

citizenship status all of those things

citizenship status all of those things impact on the lives of people every

impact on the lives of people every

impact on the lives of people every single day and when we think about

single day and when we think about

single day and when we think about oppression one of the things I think

oppression one of the things I think

oppression one of the things I think that really helps us and it helps help

that really helps us and it helps help

that really helps us and it helps help us move forward is actually the role of

us move forward is actually the role of

us move forward is actually the role of allies and allies help us in that in

allies and allies help us in that in

allies and allies help us in that in that whole movement I spent I have spent

that whole movement I spent I have spent

that whole movement I spent I have spent a lot of time and especially in my early

a lot of time and especially in my early

a lot of time and especially in my early days of my career I’ve spent a lot of

days of my career I’ve spent a lot of

days of my career I’ve spent a lot of time focusing on oppression focusing on

time focusing on oppression focusing on

time focusing on oppression focusing on my race and gender oppression race

my race and gender oppression race

my race and gender oppression race gender and class oppression as if that

gender and class oppression as if that

gender and class oppression as if that was all of who I am as if that was all

was all of who I am as if that was all

was all of who I am as if that was all that I embodied I really started my work

that I embodied I really started my work

that I embodied I really started my work as social activist as an anti-racist

as social activist as an anti-racist

as social activist as an anti-racist and focus there and then one day an ally

and focus there and then one day an ally

and focus there and then one day an ally that I admired a great deal talked to me

that I admired a great deal talked to me

that I admired a great deal talked to me about my privilege and I was in a state

about my privilege and I was in a state

about my privilege and I was in a state of shock a state of denial and probably

of shock a state of denial and probably

of shock a state of denial and probably a little bit of anger

a little bit of anger

a little bit of anger I mean who gives this who gave this

I mean who gives this who gave this

I mean who gives this who gave this person permission to tell me that I had

person permission to tell me that I had

person permission to tell me that I had privilege and then he started to tell me

privilege and then he started to tell me

privilege and then he started to tell me about the privilege I held at the time I

about the privilege I held at the time I

about the privilege I held at the time I was a doctoral student at University of

was a doctoral student at University of

was a doctoral student at University of Sheffield in England I had a job waiting

Sheffield in England I had a job waiting

Sheffield in England I had a job waiting for me back here at Dalhousie I had a

for me back here at Dalhousie I had a

for me back here at Dalhousie I had a class position as a Canadian citizen I

class position as a Canadian citizen I

class position as a Canadian citizen I could travel anywhere I wanted to in the

could travel anywhere I wanted to in the

could travel anywhere I wanted to in the world as a heterosexual female I had

world as a heterosexual female I had

world as a heterosexual female I had heterosexist privilege as what I called

heterosexist privilege as what I called

heterosexist privilege as what I called a temporarily able-bodied person I was

a temporarily able-bodied person I was

a temporarily able-bodied person I was physically able to do all of the things

physically able to do all of the things

physically able to do all of the things I wanted to do mentally able to do all

I wanted to do mentally able to do all

I wanted to do mentally able to do all of the things that I wanted to do I was

of the things that I wanted to do I was

of the things that I wanted to do I was living with incredible privilege and if

living with incredible privilege and if

living with incredible privilege and if I wasn’t owning the privilege you can

I wasn’t owning the privilege you can

I wasn’t owning the privilege you can rest assured that I certainly wasn’t

rest assured that I certainly wasn’t

rest assured that I certainly wasn’t using it and not using it in a way that

using it and not using it in a way that

using it and not using it in a way that could help move others along that was a

could help move others along that was a

could help move others along that was a transformative moment for me personally

transformative moment for me personally

transformative moment for me personally and I think it also transformed my

and I think it also transformed my

and I think it also transformed my politics transform my work transformed

politics transform my work transformed

politics transform my work transformed my my mission as a social justice

my my mission as a social justice

my my mission as a social justice advocate and it led me to this work what

advocate and it led me to this work what

advocate and it led me to this work what I call the triple a paradigm a social

I call the triple a paradigm a social

I call the triple a paradigm a social justice approach to challenging

justice approach to challenging

justice approach to challenging oppression so one of the things that I

oppression so one of the things that I

oppression so one of the things that I realized that we need these these triple

realized that we need these these triple

realized that we need these these triple A’s these three A’s awareness if we’re

A’s these three A’s awareness if we’re

A’s these three A’s awareness if we’re not aware of the oppression that’s

not aware of the oppression that’s

not aware of the oppression that’s around us that we witness that we even

around us that we witness that we even

around us that we witness that we even experience Harriet Tubman was asked once

experience Harriet Tubman was asked once

experience Harriet Tubman was asked once how many slaves did you free and I think

how many slaves did you free and I think

how many slaves did you free and I think she said something to the effect I’ve

she said something to the effect I’ve

she said something to the effect I’ve freed a thousand but I could have freed

freed a thousand but I could have freed

freed a thousand but I could have freed a thousand more if they’d known they

a thousand more if they’d known they

a thousand more if they’d known they were enslaved so building awareness both

were enslaved so building awareness both

were enslaved so building awareness both for those who live with oppression

for those who live with oppression

for those who live with oppression and also for those who witness it that

and also for those who witness it that

and also for those who witness it that awareness is key to moving along key to

awareness is key to moving along key to

awareness is key to moving along key to social change and the next step then is

social change and the next step then is

social change and the next step then is really analysis if we don’t develop an

really analysis if we don’t develop an

really analysis if we don’t develop an analysis of those issues then we’re

analysis of those issues then we’re

analysis of those issues then we’re bound to make mistakes we’re bound to do

bound to make mistakes we’re bound to do

bound to make mistakes we’re bound to do missteps and once you have a clear

missteps and once you have a clear

missteps and once you have a clear in-depth critical analysis then the

in-depth critical analysis then the

in-depth critical analysis then the third step is action now I’ve been that

third step is action now I’ve been that

third step is action now I’ve been that person who’s gone from awareness to

person who’s gone from awareness to

person who’s gone from awareness to action you become aware of something and

action you become aware of something and

action you become aware of something and you think you know this is not right I’m

you think you know this is not right I’m

you think you know this is not right I’m going to do something about it and

going to do something about it and

going to do something about it and you’re bound to make mistakes and I’ve

you’re bound to make mistakes and I’ve

you’re bound to make mistakes and I’ve made those mistakes and so getting to

made those mistakes and so getting to

made those mistakes and so getting to that place of action after you’ve done

that place of action after you’ve done

that place of action after you’ve done the analysis and so sometimes it takes a

the analysis and so sometimes it takes a

the analysis and so sometimes it takes a bit more time sometimes it takes more

bit more time sometimes it takes more

bit more time sometimes it takes more time than perhaps you think you have but

time than perhaps you think you have but

time than perhaps you think you have but it’s so important to take the time to go

it’s so important to take the time to go

it’s so important to take the time to go through the triple a if I’m building on

through the triple a if I’m building on

through the triple a if I’m building on that work I would add a fourth a now and

that work I would add a fourth a now and

that work I would add a fourth a now and that’s the the the a for allies

that’s the the the a for allies

that’s the the the a for allies I believe that allies are so significant

I believe that allies are so significant

I believe that allies are so significant to this journey of social justice allies

to this journey of social justice allies

to this journey of social justice allies help help us allies help those who are

help help us allies help those who are

help help us allies help those who are marginalized move forward and one of my

marginalized move forward and one of my

marginalized move forward and one of my students shared with me as from social

students shared with me as from social

students shared with me as from social media a woman named Kayla Reed wrote an

media a woman named Kayla Reed wrote an

media a woman named Kayla Reed wrote an acronym about an ally and I’ve added and

acronym about an ally and I’ve added and

acronym about an ally and I’ve added and built on that so she says a for

built on that so she says a for

built on that so she says a for awareness being aware being aware being

awareness being aware being aware being

awareness being aware being aware being aware of what’s required

so a for awareness Ella learn and listen

so a for awareness Ella learn and listen learn and listen learn and listen from

learn and listen learn and listen from

learn and listen learn and listen from the oppressed so allies really you don’t

the oppressed so allies really you don’t

the oppressed so allies really you don’t need to take affront you don’t have to

need to take affront you don’t have to

need to take affront you don’t have to be in the front row you don’t need a

be in the front row you don’t need a

be in the front row you don’t need a front row seat to be an ally you don’t

front row seat to be an ally you don’t

front row seat to be an ally you don’t need a front row seat to someone else’s

need a front row seat to someone else’s

need a front row seat to someone else’s oppression so listen and learn

oppression so listen and learn

oppression so listen and learn so allies need to listen and learn the

so allies need to listen and learn the

so allies need to listen and learn the second L leverage your privilege and I

second L leverage your privilege and I

second L leverage your privilege and I add to that leverage your privilege and

add to that leverage your privilege and

add to that leverage your privilege and your power so as I was saying earlier I

your power so as I was saying earlier I

your power so as I was saying earlier I wasn’t leveraging my privilege if I

wasn’t leveraging my privilege if I

wasn’t leveraging my privilege if I wasn’t even acknowledging that I had

wasn’t even acknowledging that I had

wasn’t even acknowledging that I had privilege and so it’s so important no

privilege and so it’s so important no

privilege and so it’s so important no matter where we are no matter what

matter where we are no matter what

matter where we are no matter what social location we occupy what space we

social location we occupy what space we

social location we occupy what space we occupy if we’re if we’re in a place

occupy if we’re if we’re in a place

occupy if we’re if we’re in a place where we have some privilege and we have

where we have some privilege and we have

where we have some privilege and we have some power is what we do with it we

some power is what we do with it we

some power is what we do with it we don’t have to apologize for the

don’t have to apologize for the

don’t have to apologize for the privilege that we hold we don’t have to

privilege that we hold we don’t have to

privilege that we hold we don’t have to apologize for being in positions of

apologize for being in positions of

apologize for being in positions of power it’s what we do with it that

power it’s what we do with it that

power it’s what we do with it that really matters that’s where the

really matters that’s where the

really matters that’s where the accountability comes in and then why

accountability comes in and then why

accountability comes in and then why yield the floor you know sometimes when

yield the floor you know sometimes when

yield the floor you know sometimes when allies are working with people who are

allies are working with people who are

allies are working with people who are marginalized and when people empower

marginalized and when people empower

marginalized and when people empower themselves and sometimes there’s a lot

themselves and sometimes there’s a lot

themselves and sometimes there’s a lot of anger and people can be triggered by

of anger and people can be triggered by

of anger and people can be triggered by that they can find themselves in a space

that they can find themselves in a space

that they can find themselves in a space of discomfort around people’s anger

of discomfort around people’s anger

of discomfort around people’s anger there’s a lot of social injustice that

there’s a lot of social injustice that

there’s a lot of social injustice that ought to make us angry and we need to be

ought to make us angry and we need to be

ought to make us angry and we need to be willing to just sit and listen and learn

willing to just sit and listen and learn

willing to just sit and listen and learn and sometimes we need to listen and

and sometimes we need to listen and

and sometimes we need to listen and learn through that place of anger and

learn through that place of anger and

learn through that place of anger and know that that’s alright

know that that’s alright

know that that’s alright and that is where courage comes in it

and that is where courage comes in it

and that is where courage comes in it takes a lot of courage to be an ally it

takes a lot of courage to be an ally it

takes a lot of courage to be an ally it takes a lot of courage to be willing to

takes a lot of courage to be willing to

takes a lot of courage to be willing to just sit and listen it takes a lot of

just sit and listen it takes a lot of

just sit and listen it takes a lot of courage to learn from the oppressed from

courage to learn from the oppressed from

courage to learn from the oppressed from the marginalize it takes a lot of

the marginalize it takes a lot of

the marginalize it takes a lot of courage to take a stand and fight for

courage to take a stand and fight for

courage to take a stand and fight for right

right

right at a time when maybe you’re alone maybe

at a time when maybe you’re alone maybe

at a time when maybe you’re alone maybe you’re the only person speaking this

you’re the only person speaking this

you’re the only person speaking this truth but it takes a lot of courage to

truth but it takes a lot of courage to

truth but it takes a lot of courage to do that but I think you need to do it

do that but I think you need to do it

do that but I think you need to do it and when we’re doing it we need to be

and when we’re doing it we need to be

and when we’re doing it we need to be able to work with allies we need to pull

able to work with allies we need to pull

able to work with allies we need to pull our allies in to help us in that fight

our allies in to help us in that fight

our allies in to help us in that fight for rights it takes courage to be a

for rights it takes courage to be a

for rights it takes courage to be a change leader if you think about it

change leader if you think about it

change leader if you think about it maybe those who of you who are here who

maybe those who of you who are here who

maybe those who of you who are here who already in leadership positions if you

already in leadership positions if you

already in leadership positions if you want to change things it takes courage

want to change things it takes courage

want to change things it takes courage to change things it takes so much

to change things it takes so much

to change things it takes so much courage so I want to invite you to find

courage so I want to invite you to find

courage so I want to invite you to find the places and the spaces and the people

the places and the spaces and the people

the places and the spaces and the people find the things that give you courage

find the things that give you courage

find the things that give you courage find the things that inspire you you

find the things that inspire you you

find the things that inspire you you know one of the things that really

know one of the things that really

know one of the things that really inspires me is actually my spirituality

inspires me is actually my spirituality

inspires me is actually my spirituality spirituality gives me courage

spirituality gives me courage

spirituality gives me courage faith over fear and actually I was in

faith over fear and actually I was in

faith over fear and actually I was in church this morning I attend East

church this morning I attend East

church this morning I attend East Preston United Baptist Church with

Preston United Baptist Church with

Preston United Baptist Church with Pastor laQuita Porter and she’s had a

Pastor laQuita Porter and she’s had a

Pastor laQuita Porter and she’s had a whole series since the beginning of

whole series since the beginning of

whole series since the beginning of January on faith and one of the key

January on faith and one of the key

January on faith and one of the key messages is faith over fear and that’s

messages is faith over fear and that’s

messages is faith over fear and that’s the message I carry with me every single

the message I carry with me every single

the message I carry with me every single day using that faith to overcome the

day using that faith to overcome the

day using that faith to overcome the fear that I feel to be a change leader I

fear that I feel to be a change leader I

fear that I feel to be a change leader I believe that we all need to lead the

believe that we all need to lead the

believe that we all need to lead the change that you want to see in this

change that you want to see in this

change that you want to see in this world you have to lead the change you

world you have to lead the change you

world you have to lead the change you want to see not wait for someone else to

want to see not wait for someone else to

want to see not wait for someone else to do it not wait for someone else to stand

do it not wait for someone else to stand

do it not wait for someone else to stand up and be the change leader you witness

up and be the change leader you witness

up and be the change leader you witness something you become aware of something

something you become aware of something

something you become aware of something you analyze something lead the change

you analyze something lead the change

you analyze something lead the change that you want to see and the final word

that you want to see and the final word

that you want to see and the final word on this things change when we do

on this things change when we do

on this things change when we do something when we don’t do anything we

something when we don’t do anything we

something when we don’t do anything we can get be guaranteed that things will

can get be guaranteed that things will

can get be guaranteed that things will continue as they are and if you’re

continue as they are and if you’re

continue as they are and if you’re unhappy

unhappy

unhappy with something that’s happening in your

with something that’s happening in your

with something that’s happening in your world remember that things will change

world remember that things will change

world remember that things will change when you do something about it thank you

so this past December I attended the

so this past December I attended the 30th anniversary of the North End Parent

30th anniversary of the North End Parent

30th anniversary of the North End Parent Resource Center and one of the people

Resource Center and one of the people

Resource Center and one of the people that was there was Canada’s

that was there was Canada’s

that was there was Canada’s parliamentary poet laureate dr. George

parliamentary poet laureate dr. George

parliamentary poet laureate dr. George Eliot Clarke and he was reading some of

Eliot Clarke and he was reading some of

Eliot Clarke and he was reading some of his poems and I said to him I said you

his poems and I said to him I said you

his poems and I said to him I said you know I’d like to ask you to write a poem

know I’d like to ask you to write a poem

know I’d like to ask you to write a poem about Viola Desmond that I want to read

about Viola Desmond that I want to read

about Viola Desmond that I want to read in the Senate and and he did and I read

in the Senate and and he did and I read

in the Senate and and he did and I read that poem on Wednesday International

that poem on Wednesday International

that poem on Wednesday International Women’s Day and I deliberately did not

Women’s Day and I deliberately did not

Women’s Day and I deliberately did not want to do it during Black History Month

want to do it during Black History Month

want to do it during Black History Month yes she’s an African Nova Scotian she’s

yes she’s an African Nova Scotian she’s

yes she’s an African Nova Scotian she’s also a woman so is that

also a woman so is that

also a woman so is that intersectionality piece and she is

intersectionality piece and she is

intersectionality piece and she is certainly one of the people that has and

certainly one of the people that has and

certainly one of the people that has and continues to inspire me so I’ve asked

continues to inspire me so I’ve asked

continues to inspire me so I’ve asked the organizers if I could read their

the organizers if I could read their

the organizers if I could read their poem and share that with you here today

poem and share that with you here today

poem and share that with you here today and the title on political economy or

and the title on political economy or

and the title on political economy or the ballot of Viola Desmond it’s

the ballot of Viola Desmond it’s

the ballot of Viola Desmond it’s impossible proof the $10 bill supporting

impossible proof the $10 bill supporting

impossible proof the $10 bill supporting her face demonstrates crime pays but

her face demonstrates crime pays but

her face demonstrates crime pays but first the heroine has to halt her she

first the heroine has to halt her she

first the heroine has to halt her she has to be jailed because she didn’t pay

has to be jailed because she didn’t pay

has to be jailed because she didn’t pay the penny tax required to sit where

the penny tax required to sit where

the penny tax required to sit where Caucasians folks sit in that segregated

Caucasians folks sit in that segregated

Caucasians folks sit in that segregated cinema blacks in 1946 were deemed unfit

cinema blacks in 1946 were deemed unfit

cinema blacks in 1946 were deemed unfit to share the same seating at the

to share the same seating at the

to share the same seating at the Roseland theater in New Glasgow and

Roseland theater in New Glasgow and

Roseland theater in New Glasgow and we’re told some rolls are White’s only

we’re told some rolls are White’s only

we’re told some rolls are White’s only who could withstand voila viola worth

who could withstand voila viola worth

who could withstand voila viola worth her weight in gold Desmond was a

her weight in gold Desmond was a

her weight in gold Desmond was a beautician but her change wasn’t

beautician but her change wasn’t

beautician but her change wasn’t cosmetic she wouldn’t give two cents to

cosmetic she wouldn’t give two cents to

cosmetic she wouldn’t give two cents to back racism that was strange it wasn’t

back racism that was strange it wasn’t

back racism that was strange it wasn’t how most coloreds had to live Sonos nova

how most coloreds had to live Sonos nova

how most coloreds had to live Sonos nova scotia swiftly saw her jailed tried her

scotia swiftly saw her jailed tried her

scotia swiftly saw her jailed tried her very guilt not for breaking racist rules

very guilt not for breaking racist rules

very guilt not for breaking racist rules but only because she failed to pay the

but only because she failed to pay the

but only because she failed to pay the province that one cent the province was

province that one cent the province was

province that one cent the province was taking to support whites only rules are

taking to support whites only rules are

taking to support whites only rules are plenty as if New Scotland was South

plenty as if New Scotland was South

plenty as if New Scotland was South Africa viola

Africa viola

Africa viola convicted was fined $20 that’s her

convicted was fined $20 that’s her

convicted was fined $20 that’s her beauty spot I tell you her two cents

beauty spot I tell you her two cents

beauty spot I tell you her two cents made a real difference may change begin

made a real difference may change begin

made a real difference may change begin to happen nine years before Rosa Parks

to happen nine years before Rosa Parks

to happen nine years before Rosa Parks sparked the civil rights movement

sparked the civil rights movement

sparked the civil rights movement stateside a century past civil war as an

stateside a century past civil war as an

stateside a century past civil war as an entrepreneur she sought value and profit

entrepreneur she sought value and profit

entrepreneur she sought value and profit in beauty sis Desmond did but she strove

in beauty sis Desmond did but she strove

in beauty sis Desmond did but she strove for justice because it’s true beauty

for justice because it’s true beauty

for justice because it’s true beauty turns ugly where justice is hid her bill

turns ugly where justice is hid her bill

turns ugly where justice is hid her bill is disappointingly smooth a one can’t

is disappointingly smooth a one can’t

is disappointingly smooth a one can’t feel her skirts scrapes and scabs that

feel her skirts scrapes and scabs that

feel her skirts scrapes and scabs that she suffered to bring about a better day

she suffered to bring about a better day

she suffered to bring about a better day whose dawn would usher in equality still

whose dawn would usher in equality still

whose dawn would usher in equality still she’s the first Canuck femme and person

she’s the first Canuck femme and person

she’s the first Canuck femme and person of color to see her face

of color to see her face

of color to see her face integrate Canadian currency partisan of

integrate Canadian currency partisan of

integrate Canadian currency partisan of justice ponder her interest rate from

justice ponder her interest rate from

justice ponder her interest rate from two cents to ten dollars an increase of

two cents to ten dollars an increase of

two cents to ten dollars an increase of fifty thousand percent also note her

fifty thousand percent also note her

fifty thousand percent also note her royal pardon miracles don’t cease Royal

royal pardon miracles don’t cease Royal

royal pardon miracles don’t cease Royal Mint is viola Desmond now find the

Mint is viola Desmond now find the

Mint is viola Desmond now find the courage to be an ally in the fight for

courage to be an ally in the fight for

courage to be an ally in the fight for rights in this age of uncertainty thank

rights in this age of uncertainty thank

rights in this age of uncertainty thank you

you

you you

you

you [Applause]

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