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Building life skills over a resume | Harika Reddy | TEDxMLRIT


it’s nicer I can’t see the crowd because

it’s nicer I can’t see the crowd because it’s kind of intimidating after having

it’s kind of intimidating after having

it’s kind of intimidating after having so many people speak of their immense

so many people speak of their immense

so many people speak of their immense immaculate journeys and I hardly have

immaculate journeys and I hardly have

immaculate journeys and I hardly have anything to tell you people but I do

anything to tell you people but I do

anything to tell you people but I do have small milestones that I’ve crossed

have small milestones that I’ve crossed

have small milestones that I’ve crossed and maybe you could relate to mine so

and maybe you could relate to mine so

and maybe you could relate to mine so before I begin with whatever I have to

before I begin with whatever I have to

before I begin with whatever I have to say I like to ask a couple of questions

say I like to ask a couple of questions

say I like to ask a couple of questions just a couple how many of you here are

just a couple how many of you here are

just a couple how many of you here are engineers a call of hands please all

engineers a call of hands please all

engineers a call of hands please all right big number how many of you took up

right big number how many of you took up

right big number how many of you took up engineering by choice or you liked

engineering by choice or you liked

engineering by choice or you liked engineering the number has gone terribly

engineering the number has gone terribly

engineering the number has gone terribly dropped and I happen to be in that very

dropped and I happen to be in that very

dropped and I happen to be in that very majority so let’s go back to my 12th

majority so let’s go back to my 12th

majority so let’s go back to my 12th grade this is my journey in my 12th

grade this is my journey in my 12th

grade this is my journey in my 12th grade the body the board CBSE board

grade the body the board CBSE board

grade the body the board CBSE board decided to give an entire row of

decided to give an entire row of

decided to give an entire row of students 0 on our final exams and we had

students 0 on our final exams and we had

students 0 on our final exams and we had to fight for our marks and in this

to fight for our marks and in this

to fight for our marks and in this process I lost an entire year of

process I lost an entire year of

process I lost an entire year of Education and I plunged into deep

Education and I plunged into deep

Education and I plunged into deep depression adding to this it was a

depression adding to this it was a

depression adding to this it was a little difficult to explain to my

little difficult to explain to my

little difficult to explain to my parents that I wouldn’t consciously

parents that I wouldn’t consciously

parents that I wouldn’t consciously sabotage my exams because I might not

sabotage my exams because I might not

sabotage my exams because I might not have been an overachieving stood in 1980

have been an overachieving stood in 1980

have been an overachieving stood in 1980 90% student but I definitely wasn’t

90% student but I definitely wasn’t

90% student but I definitely wasn’t someone to fail so this was a little

someone to fail so this was a little

someone to fail so this was a little hard it was an obvious blow for me so

hard it was an obvious blow for me so

hard it was an obvious blow for me so after 12 after all this happened my

after 12 after all this happened my

after 12 after all this happened my parents decided not to take any more

parents decided not to take any more

parents decided not to take any more risks with my education and so put me

risks with my education and so put me

risks with my education and so put me into engineering it’s a safe option

into engineering it’s a safe option

into engineering it’s a safe option right so they put me into engineering

right so they put me into engineering

right so they put me into engineering now if I were to categorize engineering

now if I were to categorize engineering

now if I were to categorize engineering students into divisions I do so like

students into divisions I do so like

students into divisions I do so like this the first category of Engineers are

this the first category of Engineers are

this the first category of Engineers are the ones that are genuinely interested

the ones that are genuinely interested

the ones that are genuinely interested in studying engineering these are the

in studying engineering these are the

in studying engineering these are the ones that get to the root of the

ones that get to the root of the

ones that get to the root of the subjects understand on a more conceptual

subjects understand on a more conceptual

subjects understand on a more conceptual level and these are probably also the

level and these are probably also the

level and these are probably also the ones that go on to become huge

ones that go on to become huge

ones that go on to become huge also inventors and maybe just excel in

also inventors and maybe just excel in

also inventors and maybe just excel in their own fields then you have your

their own fields then you have your

their own fields then you have your second category of students these are

second category of students these are

second category of students these are the ones that have no idea what they’re

the ones that have no idea what they’re

the ones that have no idea what they’re doing might have scored well in maths

doing might have scored well in maths

doing might have scored well in maths and science and just ended up with

and science and just ended up with

and science and just ended up with engineering or maybe just followed their

engineering or maybe just followed their

engineering or maybe just followed their friends into it right now your third

friends into it right now your third

friends into it right now your third category and your final category are the

category and your final category are the

category and your final category are the ones that have had interests elsewhere

ones that have had interests elsewhere

ones that have had interests elsewhere but due to various family and or

but due to various family and or

but due to various family and or circumstantial reasons could not pursue

circumstantial reasons could not pursue

circumstantial reasons could not pursue it and land it up in engineering so as

it and land it up in engineering so as

it and land it up in engineering so as you all can assume I belong to the third

you all can assume I belong to the third

you all can assume I belong to the third category and also hailing from an

category and also hailing from an

category and also hailing from an extremely quintessential typical opinion

extremely quintessential typical opinion

extremely quintessential typical opinion family engineering was my only goal so

family engineering was my only goal so

family engineering was my only goal so before my first day of college my family

before my first day of college my family

before my first day of college my family or most mostly my uncle actually sat me

or most mostly my uncle actually sat me

or most mostly my uncle actually sat me down and explained to me that the

down and explained to me that the

down and explained to me that the computer science I’m a computer science

computer science I’m a computer science

computer science I’m a computer science engineer computer science stream is an

engineer computer science stream is an

engineer computer science stream is an ever growing field and that you have to

ever growing field and that you have to

ever growing field and that you have to constantly keep updating yourself

constantly keep updating yourself

constantly keep updating yourself constantly learn new things in order to

constantly learn new things in order to

constantly learn new things in order to stay on par with the current job

stay on par with the current job

stay on par with the current job opportunities and that the J&T or rather

opportunities and that the J&T or rather

opportunities and that the J&T or rather any university the set curriculum is

any university the set curriculum is

any university the set curriculum is efficient but it’s definitely not

efficient but it’s definitely not

efficient but it’s definitely not sufficient for you to get a high paying

sufficient for you to get a high paying

sufficient for you to get a high paying job so alright the advice was good so I

job so alright the advice was good so I

job so alright the advice was good so I got into engineering my first year I had

got into engineering my first year I had

got into engineering my first year I had huge transitional issues I come from a

huge transitional issues I come from a

huge transitional issues I come from a CBSE background of schooling I did not

CBSE background of schooling I did not

CBSE background of schooling I did not do the normal after tenth the

do the normal after tenth the

do the normal after tenth the intermediate the State Board but I

intermediate the State Board but I

intermediate the State Board but I continued to do my central board for my

continued to do my central board for my

continued to do my central board for my eleventh and twelfth as well and so

eleventh and twelfth as well and so

eleventh and twelfth as well and so engineering was a huge jump to me the

engineering was a huge jump to me the

engineering was a huge jump to me the transition was difficult primarily

transition was difficult primarily

transition was difficult primarily because CBSE allows students to try new

because CBSE allows students to try new

because CBSE allows students to try new things there’s a completely different

things there’s a completely different

things there’s a completely different mannerism of teaching and learning they

mannerism of teaching and learning they

mannerism of teaching and learning they believe in conceptual teaching and

believe in conceptual teaching and

believe in conceptual teaching and learning so this was entirely new to me

learning so this was entirely new to me

learning so this was entirely new to me and here I did not see anyone being

and here I did not see anyone being

and here I did not see anyone being curious enough because I strongly

curious enough because I strongly

curious enough because I strongly believe that

believe that

believe that curiosity leads to research and research

curiosity leads to research and research

curiosity leads to research and research leads to knowledge but I didn’t see the

leads to knowledge but I didn’t see the

leads to knowledge but I didn’t see the curiosity front itself so this was a

curiosity front itself so this was a

curiosity front itself so this was a little hard for me as I got the hang of

little hard for me as I got the hang of

little hard for me as I got the hang of things in my first year I started to

things in my first year I started to

things in my first year I started to learn things on the side because by this

learn things on the side because by this

learn things on the side because by this time I also figured that the curriculum

time I also figured that the curriculum

time I also figured that the curriculum or the college is not going to provide

or the college is not going to provide

or the college is not going to provide anybody with a map a map of all the

anybody with a map a map of all the

anybody with a map a map of all the branches in engineering because of

branches in engineering because of

branches in engineering because of various branches in engineering you

various branches in engineering you

various branches in engineering you could go on and on and on branches of

could go on and on and on branches of

could go on and on and on branches of engineering and what jobs they would

engineering and what jobs they would

engineering and what jobs they would fetch so I had to do my own research so

fetch so I had to do my own research so

fetch so I had to do my own research so I figured this and I started to learn

I figured this and I started to learn

I figured this and I started to learn things on the side now the Internet is

things on the side now the Internet is

things on the side now the Internet is an amazing place if you know how to use

an amazing place if you know how to use

an amazing place if you know how to use it so there’s this website called

it so there’s this website called

it so there’s this website called Coursera that offers courses from huge

Coursera that offers courses from huge

Coursera that offers courses from huge universities across the globe and on a

universities across the globe and on a

universities across the globe and on a vast number of topics you have NPTEL

vast number of topics you have NPTEL

vast number of topics you have NPTEL lectures online and also you have

lectures online and also you have

lectures online and also you have YouTube tutorials away available from

YouTube tutorials away available from

YouTube tutorials away available from any person so I felt like a kid in a

any person so I felt like a kid in a

any person so I felt like a kid in a candy store it was honestly like walking

candy store it was honestly like walking

candy store it was honestly like walking into a huge library there was a lot

into a huge library there was a lot

into a huge library there was a lot along they would truck clothes to learn

along they would truck clothes to learn

along they would truck clothes to learn so I did this in my first year and when

so I did this in my first year and when

so I did this in my first year and when I was doing this there was something I

I was doing this there was something I

I was doing this there was something I realized that if in genell’s had

realized that if in genell’s had

realized that if in genell’s had anything in abundance it was time it’s

anything in abundance it was time it’s

anything in abundance it was time it’s just that they don’t know how to utilize

just that they don’t know how to utilize

just that they don’t know how to utilize it so when I realized that I started to

it so when I realized that I started to

it so when I realized that I started to utilize my time and optimize my time by

utilize my time and optimize my time by

utilize my time and optimize my time by attending events and taking part in

attending events and taking part in

attending events and taking part in things here and there so once I started

things here and there so once I started

things here and there so once I started to do this your to and your three were a

to do this your to and your three were a

to do this your to and your three were a complete blur to me because I do not

complete blur to me because I do not

complete blur to me because I do not remember everything I did I was doing

remember everything I did I was doing

remember everything I did I was doing things left right and center my friends

things left right and center my friends

things left right and center my friends were starting to get a little annoyed

were starting to get a little annoyed

were starting to get a little annoyed because I was hardly around they would

because I was hardly around they would

because I was hardly around they would call me a mountain goat because I sprung

call me a mountain goat because I sprung

call me a mountain goat because I sprung from one thing to another they would

from one thing to another they would

from one thing to another they would call me spring feet the funniest

call me spring feet the funniest

call me spring feet the funniest nickname I got was Boeing because

nickname I got was Boeing because

nickname I got was Boeing because apparently that’s what that’s the sound

apparently that’s what that’s the sound

apparently that’s what that’s the sound spring mix I would Boeing from one thing

spring mix I would Boeing from one thing

spring mix I would Boeing from one thing to another

to another

to another also my faculty was starting to get

also my faculty was starting to get

also my faculty was starting to get annoyed – I hardly attended classes

annoyed – I hardly attended classes

annoyed – I hardly attended classes anymore my attendance was below minimum

anymore my attendance was below minimum

anymore my attendance was below minimum probably also paid the condemnation

probably also paid the condemnation

probably also paid the condemnation forms once or twice and adding to which

forms once or twice and adding to which

forms once or twice and adding to which of course you have the parental pressure

of course you have the parental pressure

of course you have the parental pressure my family wasn’t happy about it either

my family wasn’t happy about it either

my family wasn’t happy about it either but being the rebel is 2021 or that I

but being the rebel is 2021 or that I

but being the rebel is 2021 or that I was continued to do do things here in

was continued to do do things here in

was continued to do do things here in there and then cut to my final year a

there and then cut to my final year a

there and then cut to my final year a month into my final year I had this

month into my final year I had this

month into my final year I had this amazing opportunity at a startup that

amazing opportunity at a startup that

amazing opportunity at a startup that dealt with placement training now I

dealt with placement training now I

dealt with placement training now I hadn’t attended a single placement by

hadn’t attended a single placement by

hadn’t attended a single placement by then nor had I ever attended a single

then nor had I ever attended a single

then nor had I ever attended a single placement class but nevertheless I

placement class but nevertheless I

placement class but nevertheless I joined because that wasn’t my forte of

joined because that wasn’t my forte of

joined because that wasn’t my forte of job back then initially my job was

job back then initially my job was

job back then initially my job was solely to help my seniors code a test

solely to help my seniors code a test

solely to help my seniors code a test engine but then you do a lack of

engine but then you do a lack of

engine but then you do a lack of manpower I was pushed into training now

manpower I was pushed into training now

manpower I was pushed into training now training wasn’t definitely one of my

training wasn’t definitely one of my

training wasn’t definitely one of my first options when I considered work

first options when I considered work

first options when I considered work post-graduation because I was studying

post-graduation because I was studying

post-graduation because I was studying to work as a software engineer so I was

to work as a software engineer so I was

to work as a software engineer so I was never one of my options but then that

never one of my options but then that

never one of my options but then that got me thinking why is it that despite

got me thinking why is it that despite

got me thinking why is it that despite the lack of well-paying jobs engineers

the lack of well-paying jobs engineers

the lack of well-paying jobs engineers continue to stay in this field why is it

continue to stay in this field why is it

continue to stay in this field why is it that they do not try to do different

that they do not try to do different

that they do not try to do different things related or non related to

things related or non related to

things related or non related to engineering and that’s when the answers

engineering and that’s when the answers

engineering and that’s when the answers hit me if there was a bulb on my head so

hit me if there was a bulb on my head so

hit me if there was a bulb on my head so I realized that there were certain risk

I realized that there were certain risk

I realized that there were certain risk factors that every student considers

factors that every student considers

factors that every student considers before experimenting with their careers

before experimenting with their careers

before experimenting with their careers careers are important of course you

careers are important of course you

careers are important of course you wouldn’t want to experiment with them of

wouldn’t want to experiment with them of

wouldn’t want to experiment with them of course there are your risk factors so

course there are your risk factors so

course there are your risk factors so primarily your first risk factor is your

primarily your first risk factor is your

primarily your first risk factor is your relatability factor whether or not the

relatability factor whether or not the

relatability factor whether or not the experiment that I am doing right now is

experiment that I am doing right now is

experiment that I am doing right now is going to add to my resume because let’s

going to add to my resume because let’s

going to add to my resume because let’s face it be it a law student or an art

face it be it a law student or an art

face it be it a law student or an art student or your basic engine or you

student or your basic engine or you

student or your basic engine or you we’ll do anything and everything to help

we’ll do anything and everything to help

we’ll do anything and everything to help make your resume better so that is your

make your resume better so that is your

make your resume better so that is your relativity factor whether or not it will

relativity factor whether or not it will

relativity factor whether or not it will help my resume your second thing is will

help my resume your second thing is will

help my resume your second thing is will your degree still be a backup for you

your degree still be a backup for you

your degree still be a backup for you so say assuming I’ve worked as an

so say assuming I’ve worked as an

so say assuming I’ve worked as an animation artist for a year or two and

animation artist for a year or two and

animation artist for a year or two and then I decided okay it’s not working out

then I decided okay it’s not working out

then I decided okay it’s not working out let’s go back and apply to us apply for

let’s go back and apply to us apply for

let’s go back and apply to us apply for a software job some MNC will I still be

a software job some MNC will I still be

a software job some MNC will I still be able to secure that job has my two years

able to secure that job has my two years

able to secure that job has my two years of animation experimenting led me to a

of animation experimenting led me to a

of animation experimenting led me to a dead-end

dead-end

dead-end these are certain things and most

these are certain things and most

these are certain things and most importantly am I willing to invest that

importantly am I willing to invest that

importantly am I willing to invest that time and capital in my crucial years of

time and capital in my crucial years of

time and capital in my crucial years of education these are your risk factors

education these are your risk factors

education these are your risk factors the student considers before getting to

the student considers before getting to

the student considers before getting to experiment during the four years of

experiment during the four years of

experiment during the four years of engineering course but then I put these

engineering course but then I put these

engineering course but then I put these doubts aside I took that leap because I

doubts aside I took that leap because I

doubts aside I took that leap because I was still in my final year my stakes

was still in my final year my stakes

was still in my final year my stakes were low I did not have much to lose

were low I did not have much to lose

were low I did not have much to lose right even if I failed I was still 22

right even if I failed I was still 22

right even if I failed I was still 22 I could still bounce back up no issues

I could still bounce back up no issues

I could still bounce back up no issues so I took that leap but initially I had

so I took that leap but initially I had

so I took that leap but initially I had huge troubles because if you can see me

huge troubles because if you can see me

huge troubles because if you can see me right now it’s because of that spotlight

right now it’s because of that spotlight

right now it’s because of that spotlight because otherwise you won’t be able to

because otherwise you won’t be able to

because otherwise you won’t be able to see me I am hardly 5 feet off the ground

see me I am hardly 5 feet off the ground

see me I am hardly 5 feet off the ground and I’m still pretty sure that the

and I’m still pretty sure that the

and I’m still pretty sure that the backbenchers can’t see me if I’m not

backbenchers can’t see me if I’m not

backbenchers can’t see me if I’m not wearing heels and it’s still hot and it

wearing heels and it’s still hot and it

wearing heels and it’s still hot and it so happened on certain occasions that I

so happened on certain occasions that I

so happened on certain occasions that I would walk into class and the students

would walk into class and the students

would walk into class and the students would continue to do with whatever they

would continue to do with whatever they

would continue to do with whatever they were doing because they simply refused

were doing because they simply refused

were doing because they simply refused to believe that I was qualified enough

to believe that I was qualified enough

to believe that I was qualified enough to teach them or old enough to teach

to teach them or old enough to teach

to teach them or old enough to teach them they would sometimes actually ask

them they would sometimes actually ask

them they would sometimes actually ask me not not the students but the teachers

me not not the students but the teachers

me not not the students but the teachers who come in to ask for high tea coffee

who come in to ask for high tea coffee

who come in to ask for high tea coffee I’ve had instances where they would ask

I’ve had instances where they would ask

I’ve had instances where they would ask me madam will you have milk

yes that’s happened so there’s all my

yes that’s happened so there’s all my physical issues that I had within as my

physical issues that I had within as my

physical issues that I had within as my experience grew I sort of realized that

experience grew I sort of realized that

experience grew I sort of realized that the minute the listener starts to relate

the minute the listener starts to relate

the minute the listener starts to relate to this people they listen to you better

to this people they listen to you better

to this people they listen to you better another thing I realized I wish I was

another thing I realized I wish I was

another thing I realized I wish I was part of to realize it before but nothing

part of to realize it before but nothing

part of to realize it before but nothing I realized that the winner you start to

I realized that the winner you start to

I realized that the winner you start to tell them stories they listen to you

tell them stories they listen to you

tell them stories they listen to you better because the human mind is a story

better because the human mind is a story

better because the human mind is a story processor and not a logic processor and

processor and not a logic processor and

processor and not a logic processor and that’s when I started to use my yard two

that’s when I started to use my yard two

that’s when I started to use my yard two and three experiences to tell them

and three experiences to tell them

and three experiences to tell them stories to relate to me so I’ll give you

stories to relate to me so I’ll give you

stories to relate to me so I’ll give you a couple of instances my first example

a couple of instances my first example

a couple of instances my first example would be my mu and experience Model

would be my mu and experience Model

would be my mu and experience Model United Nations have played a major role

United Nations have played a major role

United Nations have played a major role in my life and in my network but I

in my life and in my network but I

in my life and in my network but I wasn’t an instant success

wasn’t an instant success

wasn’t an instant success my first mu n I clearly remember it was

my first mu n I clearly remember it was

my first mu n I clearly remember it was five years ago I was the delegate of

five years ago I was the delegate of

five years ago I was the delegate of Armenia at a UN Development Programme in

Armenia at a UN Development Programme in

Armenia at a UN Development Programme in some college and I barely spoke I don’t

some college and I barely spoke I don’t

some college and I barely spoke I don’t remember speaking at all or rather I

remember speaking at all or rather I

remember speaking at all or rather I think I spoke once and I managed to

think I spoke once and I managed to

think I spoke once and I managed to embarrass myself I’m sure nobody laughed

embarrass myself I’m sure nobody laughed

embarrass myself I’m sure nobody laughed because but that was out of courtesy

because but that was out of courtesy

because but that was out of courtesy nobody laughed I’m pretty sure I

nobody laughed I’m pretty sure I

nobody laughed I’m pretty sure I embarrassed myself but then that didn’t

embarrassed myself but then that didn’t

embarrassed myself but then that didn’t stop me from trying I went on to further

stop me from trying I went on to further

stop me from trying I went on to further conferences because I knew the knowledge

conferences because I knew the knowledge

conferences because I knew the knowledge gained through those conferences was

gained through those conferences was

gained through those conferences was immense and it couldn’t match up to

immense and it couldn’t match up to

immense and it couldn’t match up to anything else so I continued to do that

anything else so I continued to do that

anything else so I continued to do that and I remember the struggle I went

and I remember the struggle I went

and I remember the struggle I went through believe it or not I’ve not

through believe it or not I’ve not

through believe it or not I’ve not always been an amazing public speaker so

always been an amazing public speaker so

always been an amazing public speaker so the struggle I went through to conjure

the struggle I went through to conjure

the struggle I went through to conjure up enough courage to speak one proper

up enough courage to speak one proper

up enough courage to speak one proper sentence was the struggle I told my

sentence was the struggle I told my

sentence was the struggle I told my students to face their interviews and

students to face their interviews and

students to face their interviews and that helped them because of course I was

that helped them because of course I was

that helped them because of course I was telling them stories and they could

telling them stories and they could

telling them stories and they could relate to the speaker so this helped

relate to the speaker so this helped

relate to the speaker so this helped another instance was my experience with

another instance was my experience with

another instance was my experience with journalism my journalism was a lot

journalism my journalism was a lot

journalism my journalism was a lot so not a lot of Engineering students get

so not a lot of Engineering students get

so not a lot of Engineering students get into journalism in the first place

into journalism in the first place

into journalism in the first place because of course you have parents and

because of course you have parents and

because of course you have parents and of course language barriers but it was

of course language barriers but it was

of course language barriers but it was fun for me it was a lot of fun for me

fun for me it was a lot of fun for me

fun for me it was a lot of fun for me initially I would do the regular

initially I would do the regular

initially I would do the regular reporting jobs I would the most fun part

reporting jobs I would the most fun part

reporting jobs I would the most fun part was taking interviews of theatre artists

was taking interviews of theatre artists

was taking interviews of theatre artists and rock band artists it was probably

and rock band artists it was probably

and rock band artists it was probably the best part of my job because those

the best part of my job because those

the best part of my job because those cool dudes with long hair in black

cool dudes with long hair in black

cool dudes with long hair in black t-shirts look extremely hot so

fangirling and crushing on them I’d go

fangirling and crushing on them I’d go and take interviews and stuff and take

and take interviews and stuff and take

and take interviews and stuff and take pictures of them that was probably the

pictures of them that was probably the

pictures of them that was probably the best part of my job and then I jumped to

best part of my job and then I jumped to

best part of my job and then I jumped to sports journalism now this is something

sports journalism now this is something

sports journalism now this is something I’ve wanted to do for a very long time

I’ve wanted to do for a very long time

I’ve wanted to do for a very long time but then of course mom know so I didn’t

but then of course mom know so I didn’t

but then of course mom know so I didn’t get to do it and this was my dream come

get to do it and this was my dream come

get to do it and this was my dream come true this is in my second year here so

true this is in my second year here so

true this is in my second year here so to give you a basic idea football to me

to give you a basic idea football to me

to give you a basic idea football to me is what cricket to most of the nation is

is what cricket to most of the nation is

is what cricket to most of the nation is so I would eat a dream drink sleep wake

so I would eat a dream drink sleep wake

so I would eat a dream drink sleep wake up to football every day day in day out

up to football every day day in day out

up to football every day day in day out so writing about it reporting the

so writing about it reporting the

so writing about it reporting the English Premier League in the Bundesliga

English Premier League in the Bundesliga

English Premier League in the Bundesliga and the Champions League was a lot of

and the Champions League was a lot of

and the Champions League was a lot of fun but then of course you have your

fun but then of course you have your

fun but then of course you have your parents and so on and so forth but

parents and so on and so forth but

parents and so on and so forth but that’s another story

that’s another story

that’s another story so now is doing this I learnt to write

so now is doing this I learnt to write

so now is doing this I learnt to write properly we could write coming from a

properly we could write coming from a

properly we could write coming from a CBSE background my English was good

CBSE background my English was good

CBSE background my English was good enough but I couldn’t write as well so

enough but I couldn’t write as well so

enough but I couldn’t write as well so my writing got much better and this

my writing got much better and this

my writing got much better and this helped me teach my students how to write

helped me teach my students how to write

helped me teach my students how to write essays for their placements and yes

essays for their placements and yes

essays for their placements and yes essays because you’d be surprised at the

essays because you’d be surprised at the

essays because you’d be surprised at the standard of essays that engineering

standard of essays that engineering

standard of essays that engineering students write you can’t blame them

students write you can’t blame them

students write you can’t blame them because most of them come from a rural

because most of them come from a rural

because most of them come from a rural background and they do need that

background and they do need that

background and they do need that additional guidance to write proper

additional guidance to write proper

additional guidance to write proper essays but it’s still a little below

essays but it’s still a little below

essays but it’s still a little below standards so it helped me with all of

standards so it helped me with all of

standards so it helped me with all of this so things were going okay but then

this so things were going okay but then

this so things were going okay but then I hit a point where I started to wonder

I hit a point where I started to wonder

I hit a point where I started to wonder whether I hit a deadline

whether I hit a deadline

whether I hit a deadline I did not see any growth opportunities

I did not see any growth opportunities

I did not see any growth opportunities with placement training because I was

with placement training because I was

with placement training because I was already at the top of my tree I was a

already at the top of my tree I was a

already at the top of my tree I was a placement trainer and that’s it you

placement trainer and that’s it you

placement trainer and that’s it you can’t go higher than that or at least

can’t go higher than that or at least

can’t go higher than that or at least that’s what I thought back then I was so

that’s what I thought back then I was so

that’s what I thought back then I was so upset

upset

upset all my risks risk factors that I had

all my risks risk factors that I had

all my risks risk factors that I had considered earlier I preferred them

considered earlier I preferred them

considered earlier I preferred them better because right now the knocking on

better because right now the knocking on

better because right now the knocking on my door denied no courage to answer them

my door denied no courage to answer them

my door denied no courage to answer them so at this point I decided to I rather

so at this point I decided to I rather

so at this point I decided to I rather considered to quit my job and write for

considered to quit my job and write for

considered to quit my job and write for my higher studies because there is also

my higher studies because there is also

my higher studies because there is also this parental pressure constantly asking

this parental pressure constantly asking

this parental pressure constantly asking you as to what you are doing with life

you as to what you are doing with life

you as to what you are doing with life and where you’re getting act so when

and where you’re getting act so when

and where you’re getting act so when that happened I considered quitting and

that happened I considered quitting and

that happened I considered quitting and writing for my higher education but then

writing for my higher education but then

writing for my higher education but then on that very same day luckily enough an

on that very same day luckily enough an

on that very same day luckily enough an MNC approached and asked me to join

MNC approached and asked me to join

MNC approached and asked me to join their corporate training team now this

their corporate training team now this

their corporate training team now this was a huge deal because I knew that they

was a huge deal because I knew that they

was a huge deal because I knew that they my risk had paid off all my risks had

my risk had paid off all my risks had

my risk had paid off all my risks had paid off and another thing that happened

paid off and another thing that happened

paid off and another thing that happened on the very day was that a student of

on the very day was that a student of

on the very day was that a student of mine from Chennai called me to tell to

mine from Chennai called me to tell to

mine from Chennai called me to tell to thank me for training them on behalf of

thank me for training them on behalf of

thank me for training them on behalf of their entire class they actually made a

their entire class they actually made a

their entire class they actually made a whatsapp group chat and sent me a video

whatsapp group chat and sent me a video

whatsapp group chat and sent me a video saying thank you so much mum and that’s

saying thank you so much mum and that’s

saying thank you so much mum and that’s when I knew that day that moment I knew

when I knew that day that moment I knew

when I knew that day that moment I knew what job satisfaction meant it is it is

what job satisfaction meant it is it is

what job satisfaction meant it is it is a it is a lot to have when someone

a it is a lot to have when someone

a it is a lot to have when someone thanks you for whatever you are doing

thanks you for whatever you are doing

thanks you for whatever you are doing it’s nice to know that you have affected

it’s nice to know that you have affected

it’s nice to know that you have affected somebody’s life that’s when I knew our

somebody’s life that’s when I knew our

somebody’s life that’s when I knew our job satisfaction meant and I continued

job satisfaction meant and I continued

job satisfaction meant and I continued to train and I also went on to get

to train and I also went on to get

to train and I also went on to get certified as a trained trainer from the

certified as a trained trainer from the

certified as a trained trainer from the Dale Carnegie Mumbai chapter and I was

Dale Carnegie Mumbai chapter and I was

Dale Carnegie Mumbai chapter and I was one experience and in my 19 months of

one experience and in my 19 months of

one experience and in my 19 months of experience as a placement trainer I’ve

experience as a placement trainer I’ve

experience as a placement trainer I’ve observed one thing it’s that students

observed one thing it’s that students

observed one thing it’s that students specifically engineering students are

specifically engineering students are

specifically engineering students are shy

shy

shy yes this may be surprising but they are

yes this may be surprising but they are

yes this may be surprising but they are definitely shy because if you’ve

definitely shy because if you’ve

definitely shy because if you’ve observed engineering students they have

observed engineering students they have

observed engineering students they have never gone to the bathroom alone they

never gone to the bathroom alone they

never gone to the bathroom alone they always go in flocks until date I don’t

always go in flocks until date I don’t

always go in flocks until date I don’t understand why I have never understood

understand why I have never understood

understand why I have never understood as a student I still don’t get it as a

as a student I still don’t get it as a

as a student I still don’t get it as a teacher so if they can’t go to the

teacher so if they can’t go to the

teacher so if they can’t go to the bathroom alone you can only imagine the

bathroom alone you can only imagine the

bathroom alone you can only imagine the kind of daunting feeling they have in

kind of daunting feeling they have in

kind of daunting feeling they have in their head if they are wanting to try

their head if they are wanting to try

their head if they are wanting to try something different

something different

something different and if they don’t have company things

and if they don’t have company things

and if they don’t have company things become much worse right but then this is

become much worse right but then this is

become much worse right but then this is this is something I want to tell that

this is something I want to tell that

this is something I want to tell that there is no set time to learn to start

there is no set time to learn to start

there is no set time to learn to start off with before I go there I want to

off with before I go there I want to

off with before I go there I want to tell you one thing that engineering

tell you one thing that engineering

tell you one thing that engineering students when you compare it to any

students when you compare it to any

students when you compare it to any other students that age have low

other students that age have low

other students that age have low exposure and this is again my

exposure and this is again my

exposure and this is again my observation have low exposure to the

observation have low exposure to the

observation have low exposure to the world when compared to any other

world when compared to any other

world when compared to any other students elsewhere and this kind of

students elsewhere and this kind of

students elsewhere and this kind of holds them in a bubble so they have this

holds them in a bubble so they have this

holds them in a bubble so they have this comfort zone like this carpet of mine

comfort zone like this carpet of mine

comfort zone like this carpet of mine that they can’t go the now I can’t go

that they can’t go the now I can’t go

that they can’t go the now I can’t go out of this they don’t want to go out of

out of this they don’t want to go out of

out of this they don’t want to go out of it so this sort of holds them back to

it so this sort of holds them back to

it so this sort of holds them back to try something new but one thing they do

try something new but one thing they do

try something new but one thing they do need to understand is that they need to

need to understand is that they need to

need to understand is that they need to try something things new and that there

try something things new and that there

try something things new and that there is no set time to learn because at 23 I

is no set time to learn because at 23 I

is no set time to learn because at 23 I sit among nine and ten-year-olds

sit among nine and ten-year-olds

sit among nine and ten-year-olds learning basics of guitar chords now I

learning basics of guitar chords now I

learning basics of guitar chords now I may look like nine and ten-year-olds but

may look like nine and ten-year-olds but

may look like nine and ten-year-olds but I am definitely not that inch so it is a

I am definitely not that inch so it is a

I am definitely not that inch so it is a little embarrassing to learn among

little embarrassing to learn among

little embarrassing to learn among children but then you eventually get

children but then you eventually get

children but then you eventually get over that embarrassment for the greater

over that embarrassment for the greater

over that embarrassment for the greater gain and that is what is important let

gain and that is what is important let

gain and that is what is important let me give you a better idea of why

me give you a better idea of why

me give you a better idea of why learning at any given point of time is

learning at any given point of time is

learning at any given point of time is important so assume you have an

important so assume you have an

important so assume you have an examination or something that you have

examination or something that you have

examination or something that you have to prepare for beforehand

to prepare for beforehand

to prepare for beforehand and you procrastinate which is pretty

and you procrastinate which is pretty

and you procrastinate which is pretty obvious you progress you give the last

obvious you progress you give the last

obvious you progress you give the last couple of hours maybe to prepare for

couple of hours maybe to prepare for

couple of hours maybe to prepare for your exam assuming it’s your exam you

your exam assuming it’s your exam you

your exam assuming it’s your exam you give the last couple of hours for your

give the last couple of hours for your

give the last couple of hours for your exam and then that’s when something

exam and then that’s when something

exam and then that’s when something happens in that exact moment something

happens in that exact moment something

happens in that exact moment something happens maybe a relative might walk in

happens maybe a relative might walk in

happens maybe a relative might walk in or maybe your system meets with an

or maybe your system meets with an

or maybe your system meets with an accident and you have to rush you to the

accident and you have to rush you to the

accident and you have to rush you to the hospital or simply an amazing movie

hospital or simply an amazing movie

hospital or simply an amazing movie maybe on the television because I don’t

maybe on the television because I don’t

maybe on the television because I don’t know if it’s happened to you but it’s

know if it’s happened to you but it’s

know if it’s happened to you but it’s happened to me on a lot of occasions

happened to me on a lot of occasions

happened to me on a lot of occasions maybe 95% of the times is that every

maybe 95% of the times is that every

maybe 95% of the times is that every time I verdict I’ve had an exam the next

time I verdict I’ve had an exam the next

time I verdict I’ve had an exam the next day the television planned to air one of

day the television planned to air one of

day the television planned to air one of the three Lord of the Rings movies on

the three Lord of the Rings movies on

the three Lord of the Rings movies on one channel or some Balakrishna movie

one channel or some Balakrishna movie

one channel or some Balakrishna movie somewhere now I’m a huge fan of both

somewhere now I’m a huge fan of both

somewhere now I’m a huge fan of both plot of the Rings and Balakrishna so I

plot of the Rings and Balakrishna so I

plot of the Rings and Balakrishna so I don’t want even though I have all the

don’t want even though I have all the

don’t want even though I have all the movies in high definition on my laptop I

movies in high definition on my laptop I

movies in high definition on my laptop I still decide to watch that movie on

still decide to watch that movie on

still decide to watch that movie on television without studying and this is

television without studying and this is

television without studying and this is what most of them do but this is not one

what most of them do but this is not one

what most of them do but this is not one incident is it this is life for you in a

incident is it this is life for you in a

incident is it this is life for you in a nutshell life doesn’t give you time to

nutshell life doesn’t give you time to

nutshell life doesn’t give you time to prepare for anything you think areevo

prepare for anything you think areevo

prepare for anything you think areevo I’ll prepare towards the end but then

I’ll prepare towards the end but then

I’ll prepare towards the end but then that’s exactly when something happens

that’s exactly when something happens

that’s exactly when something happens maybe Shahrukh Khan might cross the road

maybe Shahrukh Khan might cross the road

maybe Shahrukh Khan might cross the road and there that’s it you don’t study

and there that’s it you don’t study

and there that’s it you don’t study anymore so by observing from life

anymore so by observing from life

anymore so by observing from life in a nutshell is that the minute you

in a nutshell is that the minute you

in a nutshell is that the minute you start investing in your free time trying

start investing in your free time trying

start investing in your free time trying to learn things new you start to be you

to learn things new you start to be you

to learn things new you start to be you start getting prepared to whatever

start getting prepared to whatever

start getting prepared to whatever curveball life has to throw at you at

curveball life has to throw at you at

curveball life has to throw at you at some point of time a life becomes starts

some point of time a life becomes starts

some point of time a life becomes starts becoming easier also because you’re

becoming easier also because you’re

becoming easier also because you’re ready for things you’re ready for your

ready for things you’re ready for your

ready for things you’re ready for your job interview you’re ready for things

job interview you’re ready for things

job interview you’re ready for things you’re in there because I honestly

you’re in there because I honestly

you’re in there because I honestly believe out of observation again is that

believe out of observation again is that

believe out of observation again is that the minute you start building on your

the minute you start building on your

the minute you start building on your life skills you’re as you may starts to

life skills you’re as you may starts to

life skills you’re as you may starts to build itself

build itself

build itself you don’t need even you don’t even need

you don’t need even you don’t even need

you don’t need even you don’t even need to try so that’s the sincere advice

to try so that’s the sincere advice

to try so that’s the sincere advice I have and the give away from my talk is

I have and the give away from my talk is

I have and the give away from my talk is that the minute you start building on

that the minute you start building on

that the minute you start building on your life skills your resume starts to

your life skills your resume starts to

your life skills your resume starts to build itself thank you so much

build itself thank you so much

build itself thank you so much [Applause]

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