[Music] good afternoon would I find today’s
good afternoon would I find today’s
good afternoon would I find today’s topic very interesting because it’s
topic very interesting because it’s
topic very interesting because it’s about spaces so I want to talk about
about spaces so I want to talk about
about spaces so I want to talk about this space that means the most to all of
this space that means the most to all of
this space that means the most to all of you and I’m talking about the social
you and I’m talking about the social
you and I’m talking about the social media space to be honest it is the only
media space to be honest it is the only
media space to be honest it is the only space that most of you can relate with
space that most of you can relate with
space that most of you can relate with all of you are mostly on your phones or
all of you are mostly on your phones or
all of you are mostly on your phones or using your iPads or laptops so clearly
using your iPads or laptops so clearly
using your iPads or laptops so clearly coming from my generation where I’m
coming from my generation where I’m
coming from my generation where I’m Generation X to the Millennial
Generation X to the Millennial
Generation X to the Millennial Generation today we’re talking about a
Generation today we’re talking about a
Generation today we’re talking about a big leap in technology and a very
big leap in technology and a very
big leap in technology and a very different use of space
different use of space
different use of space have you ever unfriended someone because
have you ever unfriended someone because
have you ever unfriended someone because you thought about a candidate raise your
you thought about a candidate raise your
you thought about a candidate raise your hand there you go it got that bad
hand there you go it got that bad
hand there you go it got that bad Facebook not so personal that you had to
Facebook not so personal that you had to
Facebook not so personal that you had to unfriend a best friend is it that the
unfriend a best friend is it that the
unfriend a best friend is it that the irony you unfriend a best friend because
irony you unfriend a best friend because
irony you unfriend a best friend because you exchange ideas on Facebook that you
you exchange ideas on Facebook that you
you exchange ideas on Facebook that you don’t agree but it wasn’t just an
don’t agree but it wasn’t just an
don’t agree but it wasn’t just an exchange of ideas that’s why you
exchange of ideas that’s why you
exchange of ideas that’s why you unfriended them you know what it was at
unfriended them you know what it was at
unfriended them you know what it was at some point during the last elections you
some point during the last elections you
some point during the last elections you all broke into each other’s personal
all broke into each other’s personal
all broke into each other’s personal space
space
space do you agree boundaries were broken you
do you agree boundaries were broken you
do you agree boundaries were broken you felt this friend cross the line if he or
felt this friend cross the line if he or
felt this friend cross the line if he or she invaded a space I was willing to
she invaded a space I was willing to
she invaded a space I was willing to listen to an exchange of ideas but what
listen to an exchange of ideas but what
listen to an exchange of ideas but what he said she said cross a personal space
he said she said cross a personal space
he said she said cross a personal space and this is why I decided to talk about
and this is why I decided to talk about
and this is why I decided to talk about this today all of you are responsible
this today all of you are responsible
this today all of you are responsible for taking care of your personal space
for taking care of your personal space
for taking care of your personal space and the space
and the space
and the space of other people on social media just
of other people on social media just
of other people on social media just because it is social does not mean you
because it is social does not mean you
because it is social does not mean you have to lose your sense of space social
have to lose your sense of space social
have to lose your sense of space social media was supposed to give people a
media was supposed to give people a
media was supposed to give people a venue to speak to let your voice be
venue to speak to let your voice be
venue to speak to let your voice be heard but has it become a vehicle well
heard but has it become a vehicle well
heard but has it become a vehicle well in if you stand alone you are the lone
in if you stand alone you are the lone
in if you stand alone you are the lone Reed in a voice of one time instead of
Reed in a voice of one time instead of
Reed in a voice of one time instead of you being empowered to speak you have
you being empowered to speak you have
you being empowered to speak you have lost your voice do you feel that you
lost your voice do you feel that you
lost your voice do you feel that you disagree with a point of view suddenly
disagree with a point of view suddenly
disagree with a point of view suddenly you are trolled bashed bullied and
you are trolled bashed bullied and
you are trolled bashed bullied and instead of you being given a space to
instead of you being given a space to
instead of you being given a space to actually speak what happens is you think
actually speak what happens is you think
actually speak what happens is you think perhaps my thoughts are wrong perhaps I
perhaps my thoughts are wrong perhaps I
perhaps my thoughts are wrong perhaps I were I’m wrong perhaps there’s something
were I’m wrong perhaps there’s something
were I’m wrong perhaps there’s something wrong with me why is it that everybody
wrong with me why is it that everybody
wrong with me why is it that everybody feels a certain way and I don’t so I’m
feels a certain way and I don’t so I’m
feels a certain way and I don’t so I’m gonna show you my personal experience in
gonna show you my personal experience in
gonna show you my personal experience in the last presidential debate I moderated
the last presidential debate I moderated
the last presidential debate I moderated the abs-cbn presidential debates a Tory
the abs-cbn presidential debates a Tory
the abs-cbn presidential debates a Tory sympathy what if she is really bright
sympathy what if she is really bright
sympathy what if she is really bright finanza solution that’s a bo kid mom
Emilio I think stopping you for you
Emilio I think stopping you for you cannot be a president
cannot be a president
cannot be a president if you cannot kill it’s not the actual
if you cannot kill it’s not the actual
if you cannot kill it’s not the actual comet I can permit I cannot Presidente
Oh sibling Marco Joseon young para
Oh sibling Marco Joseon young para McLaren and Marshall oh well rebellion
McLaren and Marshall oh well rebellion
McLaren and Marshall oh well rebellion low less violence and seppuku line you
low less violence and seppuku line you
low less violence and seppuku line you know can that be taken on rebellion
know can that be taken on rebellion
know can that be taken on rebellion nothing gonna be on II see that Marcos
nothing gonna be on II see that Marcos
nothing gonna be on II see that Marcos yes definitely yes because it has
yes definitely yes because it has
yes definitely yes because it has divided the country until now harness
divided the country until now harness
divided the country until now harness lucky look I know
lucky look I know
lucky look I know galette come back to America
Solano murderer way I did it was a
Solano murderer way I did it was a response to a question coming from media
response to a question coming from media
response to a question coming from media it’s a concocted a pathetical question
it’s a concocted a pathetical question
it’s a concocted a pathetical question and I was only replying alright the
and I was only replying alright the
and I was only replying alright the winner cephalic mohammed pune yo now
winner cephalic mohammed pune yo now
winner cephalic mohammed pune yo now it’s awesome enough new everything is
it’s awesome enough new everything is
it’s awesome enough new everything is all everybody is okay said my order is
all everybody is okay said my order is
all everybody is okay said my order is even if it is killing me alright I
even if it is killing me alright I
even if it is killing me alright I wanted to show this because what you
wanted to show this because what you
wanted to show this because what you just saw was a segment on the third
just saw was a segment on the third
just saw was a segment on the third presidential debate of abs-cbn which I
presidential debate of abs-cbn which I
presidential debate of abs-cbn which I moderated and this was a segment on fast
moderated and this was a segment on fast
moderated and this was a segment on fast talk we did a fast talk segment and all
talk we did a fast talk segment and all
talk we did a fast talk segment and all the questions with then candidate who is
the questions with then candidate who is
the questions with then candidate who is now president to that they if you look
now president to that they if you look
now president to that they if you look at the questions then aren’t they all
at the questions then aren’t they all
at the questions then aren’t they all relevant today
relevant today
relevant today don’t you agree none of us saw that
don’t you agree none of us saw that
don’t you agree none of us saw that coming
coming
coming the burial of former President Marcos
the burial of former President Marcos
the burial of former President Marcos was a big issue there was a rally
was a big issue there was a rally
was a big issue there was a rally declaration of martial law doesn’t
declaration of martial law doesn’t
declaration of martial law doesn’t President Duterte in many of his
President Duterte in many of his
President Duterte in many of his speeches mentioned this repeatedly I
speeches mentioned this repeatedly I
speeches mentioned this repeatedly I asked him about Papapa he Caban
asked him about Papapa he Caban
asked him about Papapa he Caban common element on my command Anakin and
common element on my command Anakin and
common element on my command Anakin and a dragon he said yes and I asked him the
a dragon he said yes and I asked him the
a dragon he said yes and I asked him the next logical question my Anaka ba
next logical question my Anaka ba
next logical question my Anaka ba nanak Drogo
nanak Drogo
nanak Drogo he said no but we see that the forefront
he said no but we see that the forefront
he said no but we see that the forefront of president the therapist government in
of president the therapist government in
of president the therapist government in the first six months has been his war on
the first six months has been his war on
the first six months has been his war on drugs why am i showing you that video
drugs why am i showing you that video
drugs why am i showing you that video after I did the debate
after I did the debate
after I did the debate I was congratulating in Pangasinan by my
I was congratulating in Pangasinan by my
I was congratulating in Pangasinan by my bosses the public the crown but
bosses the public the crown but
bosses the public the crown but something really disturbing happened a
something really disturbing happened a
something really disturbing happened a friend of mine texted me and said Karen
friend of mine texted me and said Karen
friend of mine texted me and said Karen have you opened Facebook
have you opened Facebook
have you opened Facebook have you seen Twitter so this was 12:00
have you seen Twitter so this was 12:00
have you seen Twitter so this was 12:00 midnight because that particular debate
midnight because that particular debate
midnight because that particular debate which was life ended at 12:00 I said no
which was life ended at 12:00 I said no
which was life ended at 12:00 I said no I haven’t seen it Karen you better one
I haven’t seen it Karen you better one
I haven’t seen it Karen you better one you better open now the viewership of
you better open now the viewership of
you better open now the viewership of abs-cbn among the other networks was the
abs-cbn among the other networks was the
abs-cbn among the other networks was the largest among the three 46% of the
largest among the three 46% of the
largest among the three 46% of the Filipino people were watching this
Filipino people were watching this
Filipino people were watching this debate I opened it I could not believe
debate I opened it I could not believe
debate I opened it I could not believe what I saw I opened Facebook and I’m
what I saw I opened Facebook and I’m
what I saw I opened Facebook and I’m gonna say this openly because well your
gonna say this openly because well your
gonna say this openly because well your Savior and your mature and this is TED
Savior and your mature and this is TED
Savior and your mature and this is TED Talks I saw bullying like I’ve never
Talks I saw bullying like I’ve never
Talks I saw bullying like I’ve never seen it before
seen it before
seen it before Putin in a macaron Davila Mamata Khanna
Putin in a macaron Davila Mamata Khanna
Putin in a macaron Davila Mamata Khanna Malik asana but na kita kita seroquel
Malik asana but na kita kita seroquel
Malik asana but na kita kita seroquel Sasaki Nikita Akamai Inanna autistic
Sasaki Nikita Akamai Inanna autistic
Sasaki Nikita Akamai Inanna autistic biased car buyer ANCA
biased car buyer ANCA
biased car buyer ANCA I’m sorry they’re kids in the audience
I’m sorry they’re kids in the audience
I’m sorry they’re kids in the audience but it loses impact if I don’t tell you
but it loses impact if I don’t tell you
but it loses impact if I don’t tell you there were over seventy thousand social
there were over seventy thousand social
there were over seventy thousand social media messages wanting me killed or
media messages wanting me killed or
media messages wanting me killed or raped
think about that think about it and I’ll
think about that think about it and I’ll be honest with you it bothered me I
be honest with you it bothered me I
be honest with you it bothered me I asked myself was I wrong for asking
asked myself was I wrong for asking
asked myself was I wrong for asking those questions I’m human but this is
those questions I’m human but this is
those questions I’m human but this is the other side of social media I was
the other side of social media I was
the other side of social media I was bullied now am I gonna cry and tell you
bullied now am I gonna cry and tell you
bullied now am I gonna cry and tell you oh my god pity me I was bullied no it’s
oh my god pity me I was bullied no it’s
oh my god pity me I was bullied no it’s par for the course I’m an adult it’s
par for the course I’m an adult it’s
par for the course I’m an adult it’s there what happens next
imagine yourself waking up to being
imagine yourself waking up to being hated by a whole universe
hated by a whole universe
hated by a whole universe you don’t know I then posted a photo
you don’t know I then posted a photo
you don’t know I then posted a photo after three days in Twitter of me and
after three days in Twitter of me and
after three days in Twitter of me and then mayor de Tara thing because right
then mayor de Tara thing because right
then mayor de Tara thing because right after the debate I took a selfie with
after the debate I took a selfie with
after the debate I took a selfie with him the irony was among all the
him the irony was among all the
him the irony was among all the candidates he was the only one I
candidates he was the only one I
candidates he was the only one I approached for a photo isn’t that the
approached for a photo isn’t that the
approached for a photo isn’t that the irony of life so I posted that photo and
irony of life so I posted that photo and
irony of life so I posted that photo and I can’t remember exactly what I wrote
I can’t remember exactly what I wrote
I can’t remember exactly what I wrote but I said he’s the leading presidential
but I said he’s the leading presidential
but I said he’s the leading presidential candidate he can handle the toughest
candidate he can handle the toughest
candidate he can handle the toughest questions and my thing is when you’re
questions and my thing is when you’re
questions and my thing is when you’re the leading candidate anywhere in the
the leading candidate anywhere in the
the leading candidate anywhere in the world you shouldn’t have it easy you
world you shouldn’t have it easy you
world you shouldn’t have it easy you know why you’re bound to win and when
know why you’re bound to win and when
know why you’re bound to win and when you’re bound to win it means that you
you’re bound to win it means that you
you’re bound to win it means that you have to show that you’re ready and they
have to show that you’re ready and they
have to show that you’re ready and they after it was interesting that president
after it was interesting that president
after it was interesting that president Duterte then mayor came out with a
Duterte then mayor came out with a
Duterte then mayor came out with a statement all on Facebook this is all on
statement all on Facebook this is all on
statement all on Facebook this is all on Facebook I never spoke with him after he
Facebook I never spoke with him after he
Facebook I never spoke with him after he won or during the campaign other than
won or during the campaign other than
won or during the campaign other than interviews and he said to his followers
interviews and he said to his followers
interviews and he said to his followers don’t bash her stop it I was not
don’t bash her stop it I was not
don’t bash her stop it I was not offended and a strange thing happened
offended and a strange thing happened
offended and a strange thing happened almost 80
almost 80
almost 80 percent of the negative comments about
percent of the negative comments about
percent of the negative comments about me on social media disappeared so what
me on social media disappeared so what
me on social media disappeared so what am I saying
am I saying
am I saying is everything you’re reading organic the
is everything you’re reading organic the
is everything you’re reading organic the answer is no it is not during the
answer is no it is not during the
answer is no it is not during the campaign season you may think it’s
campaign season you may think it’s
campaign season you may think it’s organic but a lot of it are organized
organic but a lot of it are organized
organic but a lot of it are organized followers trumping one tune and you need
followers trumping one tune and you need
followers trumping one tune and you need to be sharp enough to see it if you
to be sharp enough to see it if you
to be sharp enough to see it if you don’t you will fall into the trap and
don’t you will fall into the trap and
don’t you will fall into the trap and think if everybody thinks this way and I
think if everybody thinks this way and I
think if everybody thinks this way and I don’t there must be something wrong with
don’t there must be something wrong with
don’t there must be something wrong with me and I’m here to tell you no there is
me and I’m here to tell you no there is
me and I’m here to tell you no there is nothing wrong with you social media has
nothing wrong with you social media has
nothing wrong with you social media has introduced something else an intrusion
introduced something else an intrusion
introduced something else an intrusion into your personal space and you know
into your personal space and you know
into your personal space and you know what it is your mind
what it is your mind
what it is your mind social media will let you bandwagon it
social media will let you bandwagon it
social media will let you bandwagon it will teach you you know what it’s easier
will teach you you know what it’s easier
will teach you you know what it’s easier to be with a group to go with the crowd
to be with a group to go with the crowd
to be with a group to go with the crowd well I’m here to tell you stop it don’t
well I’m here to tell you stop it don’t
well I’m here to tell you stop it don’t go with the crowd even if you’re on
go with the crowd even if you’re on
go with the crowd even if you’re on Facebook and it automatically do you
Facebook and it automatically do you
Facebook and it automatically do you know that Facebook automatically fix all
know that Facebook automatically fix all
know that Facebook automatically fix all the things that you read because it has
the things that you read because it has
the things that you read because it has a scientific method of already finding
a scientific method of already finding
a scientific method of already finding what you read learn to get away from the
what you read learn to get away from the
what you read learn to get away from the box search for new things look for a
box search for new things look for a
box search for new things look for a different point of view don’t fall into
different point of view don’t fall into
different point of view don’t fall into the trap of being in that point of view
the trap of being in that point of view
the trap of being in that point of view my tips for social media which is this
my tips for social media which is this
my tips for social media which is this is a personal experience number one you
is a personal experience number one you
is a personal experience number one you may think oh my god my settings are
may think oh my god my settings are
may think oh my god my settings are private well forget it nothing is
private well forget it nothing is
private well forget it nothing is private nothing if you want to post
private nothing if you want to post
private nothing if you want to post yourself naked I’m telling you when you
yourself naked I’m telling you when you
yourself naked I’m telling you when you apply for a job at Citibank Goldman
apply for a job at Citibank Goldman
apply for a job at Citibank Goldman Sachs globesmart they’re gonna find that
Sachs globesmart they’re gonna find that
Sachs globesmart they’re gonna find that photo they will more and more people job
photo they will more and more people job
photo they will more and more people job applications they look at Facebook what
applications they look at Facebook what
applications they look at Facebook what has this person been posting
has this person been posting
has this person been posting was he or she like in college so don’t
was he or she like in college so don’t
was he or she like in college so don’t think oh I am super private right only
think oh I am super private right only
think oh I am super private right only the Friends of my family and friends
the Friends of my family and friends
the Friends of my family and friends friends can see me there’s no such thing
friends can see me there’s no such thing
friends can see me there’s no such thing too if you’re unsure of something you’ve
too if you’re unsure of something you’ve
too if you’re unsure of something you’ve posted delete it I realized that
posted delete it I realized that
posted delete it I realized that Millennials today think this way I in a
Millennials today think this way I in a
Millennials today think this way I in a post gonna nah hahaha a yo ho I delete
post gonna nah hahaha a yo ho I delete
post gonna nah hahaha a yo ho I delete funny Linda gank Oh am i right
funny Linda gank Oh am i right
funny Linda gank Oh am i right stop it it’s a false sense of prime it
stop it it’s a false sense of prime it
stop it it’s a false sense of prime it is just social media it is not a binding
is just social media it is not a binding
is just social media it is not a binding contract
contract
contract do you understand next when you engage
do you understand next when you engage
do you understand next when you engage don’t malign insult or humiliate I want
don’t malign insult or humiliate I want
don’t malign insult or humiliate I want you to go back to your values what did
you to go back to your values what did
you to go back to your values what did your mother teach you redeemable
your mother teach you redeemable
your mother teach you redeemable Moravian and ‘santa or face to face Lee
Moravian and ‘santa or face to face Lee
Moravian and ‘santa or face to face Lee when a man kya go in uni so what gives
when a man kya go in uni so what gives
when a man kya go in uni so what gives you the right to do it on social media
you the right to do it on social media
you the right to do it on social media would you slap a person in front of you
would you slap a person in front of you
would you slap a person in front of you you wouldn’t do that you wouldn’t you
you wouldn’t do that you wouldn’t you
you wouldn’t do that you wouldn’t you milli ate somebody in front of you or
milli ate somebody in front of you or
milli ate somebody in front of you or here in Savior what gives you the
here in Savior what gives you the
here in Savior what gives you the license the thing when it’s social media
license the thing when it’s social media
license the thing when it’s social media it’s okay don’t accept profanity and
it’s okay don’t accept profanity and
it’s okay don’t accept profanity and bullying on your page what you accept
bullying on your page what you accept
bullying on your page what you accept and tolerate will foster my advice when
and tolerate will foster my advice when
and tolerate will foster my advice when people are cursing on your page you’ve
people are cursing on your page you’ve
people are cursing on your page you’ve got to block it or delete it don’t make
got to block it or delete it don’t make
got to block it or delete it don’t make it acceptable as a new language for you
it acceptable as a new language for you
it acceptable as a new language for you learn to block most of us are scared to
learn to block most of us are scared to
learn to block most of us are scared to block put back the line don’t let people
block put back the line don’t let people
block put back the line don’t let people intrude on your personal space blocking
intrude on your personal space blocking
intrude on your personal space blocking protects your personal space
protects your personal space
protects your personal space do not post what you want if you can’t
do not post what you want if you can’t
do not post what you want if you can’t tell somebody in person you need to
tell somebody in person you need to
tell somebody in person you need to learn respect
learn respect
learn respect online this is very important verifying
online this is very important verifying
online this is very important verifying requests
requests
requests link’s attachments downloads when you
link’s attachments downloads when you
link’s attachments downloads when you don’t verify you have an invasion of
don’t verify you have an invasion of
don’t verify you have an invasion of your space which then becomes either
your space which then becomes either
your space which then becomes either your hacked material is stolen or
your hacked material is stolen or
your hacked material is stolen or frankly there’s a virus somewhere and
frankly there’s a virus somewhere and
frankly there’s a virus somewhere and this is important don’t lead a fake life
this is important don’t lead a fake life
this is important don’t lead a fake life I know all of us will only post good
I know all of us will only post good
I know all of us will only post good things on Instagram Facebook and Twitter
things on Instagram Facebook and Twitter
things on Instagram Facebook and Twitter and it’s right I don’t believe that you
and it’s right I don’t believe that you
and it’s right I don’t believe that you should post how depressed you are if
should post how depressed you are if
should post how depressed you are if you’re very depressed I think you should
you’re very depressed I think you should
you’re very depressed I think you should talk to your parents your counselor a
talk to your parents your counselor a
talk to your parents your counselor a close friend you have to stop seeing
close friend you have to stop seeing
close friend you have to stop seeing social media as an intimate concept of
social media as an intimate concept of
social media as an intimate concept of there’s just one person there it isn’t
there’s just one person there it isn’t
there’s just one person there it isn’t like that and it’s important to start by
like that and it’s important to start by
like that and it’s important to start by being authentic don’t pretend
being authentic don’t pretend
being authentic don’t pretend don’t pretend you own a mercedes-benz
don’t pretend you own a mercedes-benz
don’t pretend you own a mercedes-benz when really it was your friends and you
when really it was your friends and you
when really it was your friends and you chose to sit there and have a photo you
chose to sit there and have a photo you
chose to sit there and have a photo you get the point
get the point
get the point don’t be that poser it will harm you in
don’t be that poser it will harm you in
don’t be that poser it will harm you in the end don’t reveal feelings online
the end don’t reveal feelings online
the end don’t reveal feelings online don’t share everything this is what I
don’t share everything this is what I
don’t share everything this is what I realized I look at Millennials pages I
realized I look at Millennials pages I
realized I look at Millennials pages I have among kins younger and everything
have among kins younger and everything
have among kins younger and everything they’re naked online shooting themselves
they’re naked online shooting themselves
they’re naked online shooting themselves talking to themselves I understand how
talking to themselves I understand how
talking to themselves I understand how things have changed but you must
things have changed but you must
things have changed but you must remember this try and preserve your
remember this try and preserve your
remember this try and preserve your personal space get it back you know how
personal space get it back you know how
personal space get it back you know how you’ll be empowered when you detach you
you’ll be empowered when you detach you
you’ll be empowered when you detach you have to see social media as a tool you
have to see social media as a tool you
have to see social media as a tool you cannot treat it as you am I making sense
cannot treat it as you am I making sense
cannot treat it as you am I making sense and the last one detach count your hours
and the last one detach count your hours
and the last one detach count your hours are you in social media for two hours
are you in social media for two hours
are you in social media for two hours after a while drop the phone let go go
after a while drop the phone let go go
after a while drop the phone let go go wireless
wireless
wireless talk to people it is not the world and
talk to people it is not the world and
talk to people it is not the world and that’s the end of my presentation and I
that’s the end of my presentation and I
that’s the end of my presentation and I want to close
want to close
want to close with this the spaces we have today are
with this the spaces we have today are
with this the spaces we have today are defined clearly limitlessly but let me
defined clearly limitlessly but let me
defined clearly limitlessly but let me invite you once again to value your
invite you once again to value your
invite you once again to value your personal space and when I say personal
personal space and when I say personal
personal space and when I say personal space I mean this the personal space
space I mean this the personal space
space I mean this the personal space where you were taught good things good
where you were taught good things good
where you were taught good things good values what’s right and wrong
values what’s right and wrong
values what’s right and wrong what’s respectful bring that to the open
what’s respectful bring that to the open
what’s respectful bring that to the open space of social media engage
space of social media engage
space of social media engage insightfully intelligently stick to what
insightfully intelligently stick to what
insightfully intelligently stick to what is true and good even when you banter or
is true and good even when you banter or
is true and good even when you banter or disagree thank you very much and have a
disagree thank you very much and have a
disagree thank you very much and have a good day
good day
good day [Applause]
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