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How to Turn Trauma into a Warrior’s Adventure | Amy Oestreicher | TEDxVCU


welcome to the greatest adventure of

welcome to the greatest adventure of your life yes your life anyone going

your life yes your life anyone going

your life yes your life anyone going through a challenge right now well

through a challenge right now well

through a challenge right now well you’re probably on that adventure

you’re probably on that adventure

you’re probably on that adventure already playing out a pattern you might

already playing out a pattern you might

already playing out a pattern you might not know you’re in now as an artist I

not know you’re in now as an artist I

not know you’re in now as an artist I love patterns but I’m here to show you a

love patterns but I’m here to show you a

love patterns but I’m here to show you a pattern not for crafts but for turning

pattern not for crafts but for turning

pattern not for crafts but for turning that challenge into real transformation

that challenge into real transformation

that challenge into real transformation a pattern that leads you on an adventure

a pattern that leads you on an adventure

a pattern that leads you on an adventure to another world with a treasure chest

to another world with a treasure chest

to another world with a treasure chest of superpowers this pattern makes you a

of superpowers this pattern makes you a

of superpowers this pattern makes you a hero and as a kid didn’t you always want

hero and as a kid didn’t you always want

hero and as a kid didn’t you always want to be a hero we couldn’t wait to play

to be a hero we couldn’t wait to play

to be a hero we couldn’t wait to play make-believe we wanted to leave home

make-believe we wanted to leave home

make-believe we wanted to leave home fighting monsters and come back in time

fighting monsters and come back in time

fighting monsters and come back in time for dinner

for dinner

for dinner well you and I we can still make a

well you and I we can still make a

well you and I we can still make a hero’s adventure out of that challenge

hero’s adventure out of that challenge

hero’s adventure out of that challenge and you’re in good company

and you’re in good company

and you’re in good company but don’t take my word it’s in the

but don’t take my word it’s in the

but don’t take my word it’s in the pattern so what is the hero’s journey

pattern so what is the hero’s journey

pattern so what is the hero’s journey and why is this a pattern in his book a

and why is this a pattern in his book a

and why is this a pattern in his book a hero with a thousand faces

hero with a thousand faces

hero with a thousand faces Joseph Campbell explained it through

Joseph Campbell explained it through

Joseph Campbell explained it through mythology but just in case let’s ease a

mythology but just in case let’s ease a

mythology but just in case let’s ease a story we all know a hero stars in the

story we all know a hero stars in the

story we all know a hero stars in the ordinary world until a challenge turns

ordinary world until a challenge turns

ordinary world until a challenge turns their world upside down and suddenly

their world upside down and suddenly

their world upside down and suddenly they’re snatched from their everyday

they’re snatched from their everyday

they’re snatched from their everyday lives and called to a special realm this

lives and called to a special realm this

lives and called to a special realm this new world is scary and the hero might

new world is scary and the hero might

new world is scary and the hero might refuse its call but then there would be

refuse its call but then there would be

refuse its call but then there would be no story to tell

no story to tell

no story to tell sometimes it takes the special mentor to

sometimes it takes the special mentor to

sometimes it takes the special mentor to give us the courage we need for the long

give us the courage we need for the long

give us the courage we need for the long road ahead when the hero finally accepts

road ahead when the hero finally accepts

road ahead when the hero finally accepts the call they enter this special realm

the call they enter this special realm

the call they enter this special realm through the first threshold in this

through the first threshold in this

through the first threshold in this supernatural realm there are tasks

supernatural realm there are tasks

supernatural realm there are tasks and trials to face and temptations we

and trials to face and temptations we

and trials to face and temptations we encounter demons and everything we know

encounter demons and everything we know

encounter demons and everything we know is tested but we also meet more friends

is tested but we also meet more friends

is tested but we also meet more friends and mentors to help us through the arias

and mentors to help us through the arias

and mentors to help us through the arias point in a special realm the hero must

point in a special realm the hero must

point in a special realm the hero must survive a severe challenge but that

survive a severe challenge but that

survive a severe challenge but that reveals revelations and inner strength

reveals revelations and inner strength

reveals revelations and inner strength the revelation is when the hero decides

the revelation is when the hero decides

the revelation is when the hero decides to keep going to embrace the pattern to

to keep going to embrace the pattern to

to keep going to embrace the pattern to his ultimate destiny that’s when they

his ultimate destiny that’s when they

his ultimate destiny that’s when they achieve their reward which reveals

achieve their reward which reveals

achieve their reward which reveals self-discovery and a personal catharsis

self-discovery and a personal catharsis

self-discovery and a personal catharsis then the hero has to begin his journey

then the hero has to begin his journey

then the hero has to begin his journey back to the ordinary world which isn’t

back to the ordinary world which isn’t

back to the ordinary world which isn’t such an easy task when you’ve worked so

such an easy task when you’ve worked so

such an easy task when you’ve worked so hard to survive in darkness but more on

hard to survive in darkness but more on

hard to survive in darkness but more on that later then the hero brings this

that later then the hero brings this

that later then the hero brings this knowledge back to the world and helps

knowledge back to the world and helps

knowledge back to the world and helps everyone around him with everything he’s

everyone around him with everything he’s

everyone around him with everything he’s learned there is a no place like home

learned there is a no place like home

learned there is a no place like home because a hero actually changes the

because a hero actually changes the

because a hero actually changes the world and that’s the journey that

world and that’s the journey that

world and that’s the journey that Dorothy took it’s also the pattern

Dorothy took it’s also the pattern

Dorothy took it’s also the pattern followed by another feisty female

followed by another feisty female

followed by another feisty female Persephone’s who was snatched from her

Persephone’s who was snatched from her

Persephone’s who was snatched from her everyday life on earth by Hades taken to

everyday life on earth by Hades taken to

everyday life on earth by Hades taken to the underworld to be his Queen was

the underworld to be his Queen was

the underworld to be his Queen was rescued by mom but who chosen the end to

rescued by mom but who chosen the end to

rescued by mom but who chosen the end to live in both of these worlds which is

live in both of these worlds which is

live in both of these worlds which is how we ended up with the four seasons

how we ended up with the four seasons

how we ended up with the four seasons that was um Persephone’s gift from her

that was um Persephone’s gift from her

that was um Persephone’s gift from her journey okay so what does this mean for

journey okay so what does this mean for

journey okay so what does this mean for you for me does this pattern apply to us

you for me does this pattern apply to us

you for me does this pattern apply to us mortals in our everyday lives you bet it

mortals in our everyday lives you bet it

mortals in our everyday lives you bet it does but we don’t often call it a hero’s

does but we don’t often call it a hero’s

does but we don’t often call it a hero’s journey we call it a challenge we call

journey we call it a challenge we call

journey we call it a challenge we call it a a rough day we sometimes even call

it a a rough day we sometimes even call

it a a rough day we sometimes even call it a trauma we might not feel like

it a trauma we might not feel like

it a trauma we might not feel like heroes at all we might even call

heroes at all we might even call

heroes at all we might even call ourselves victims but if we see the

ourselves victims but if we see the

ourselves victims but if we see the pattern then we can cast ourselves the

pattern then we can cast ourselves the

pattern then we can cast ourselves the hero and even trauma can be an

hero and even trauma can be an

hero and even trauma can be an opportunity to play in that spirit we

opportunity to play in that spirit we

opportunity to play in that spirit we move into a pattern that that moves and

move into a pattern that that moves and

move into a pattern that that moves and grows into the spirit of adventure into

grows into the spirit of adventure into

grows into the spirit of adventure into the spirit of being a hero as heroes we

the spirit of being a hero as heroes we

the spirit of being a hero as heroes we create our own transformation like a

create our own transformation like a

create our own transformation like a snake shedding its skin we heal

snake shedding its skin we heal

snake shedding its skin we heal ourselves and heroes get to write the

ourselves and heroes get to write the

ourselves and heroes get to write the story that changes the world here’s how

story that changes the world here’s how

story that changes the world here’s how it happened for me my world my home was

it happened for me my world my home was

it happened for me my world my home was an ordinary house with friends and

an ordinary house with friends and

an ordinary house with friends and family and my dreams of being on

family and my dreams of being on

family and my dreams of being on Broadway I was acting in musicals

Broadway I was acting in musicals

Broadway I was acting in musicals playing heroes that were already written

playing heroes that were already written

playing heroes that were already written getting ready for college and studying

getting ready for college and studying

getting ready for college and studying with a voice coach in New York but not

with a voice coach in New York but not

with a voice coach in New York but not forever shrimp and broccoli with black

forever shrimp and broccoli with black

forever shrimp and broccoli with black bean sauce this was my portal to the

bean sauce this was my portal to the

bean sauce this was my portal to the realm of the hero this was the last

realm of the hero this was the last

realm of the hero this was the last scene from my ordinary world because it

scene from my ordinary world because it

scene from my ordinary world because it was the last thing I remember before the

was the last thing I remember before the

was the last thing I remember before the lesson where I was sexually abused by my

lesson where I was sexually abused by my

lesson where I was sexually abused by my voice coach I froze with fear petrified

voice coach I froze with fear petrified

voice coach I froze with fear petrified to face the hurt and anger I felt

to face the hurt and anger I felt

to face the hurt and anger I felt refusing the call of my tears and grief

refusing the call of my tears and grief

refusing the call of my tears and grief until that stress reached my body on

until that stress reached my body on

until that stress reached my body on April 25th 2005 the night my stomach

April 25th 2005 the night my stomach

April 25th 2005 the night my stomach literally exploded from a blood clot

literally exploded from a blood clot

literally exploded from a blood clot leaving me in a coma for months while

leaving me in a coma for months while

leaving me in a coma for months while the rest of my friends graduated high

the rest of my friends graduated high

the rest of my friends graduated high school the call to adventure had started

school the call to adventure had started

school the call to adventure had started without me but when I woke up I was

without me but when I woke up I was

without me but when I woke up I was forced to answer that call I had to deal

forced to answer that call I had to deal

forced to answer that call I had to deal with a whole new reality in the

with a whole new reality in the

with a whole new reality in the supernatural realm of the surgical ICU

supernatural realm of the surgical ICU

supernatural realm of the surgical ICU the challenge was to survive from day to

the challenge was to survive from day to

the challenge was to survive from day to day in total uncertainty unable to eat

day in total uncertainty unable to eat

day in total uncertainty unable to eat or drink anything by mouth sustained

or drink anything by mouth sustained

or drink anything by mouth sustained solely on nutritional I

solely on nutritional I

solely on nutritional I these until doctors could create a

these until doctors could create a

these until doctors could create a makeshift digestive system for me six

makeshift digestive system for me six

makeshift digestive system for me six entire years later and that was just the

entire years later and that was just the

entire years later and that was just the physical healing the emotional part was

physical healing the emotional part was

physical healing the emotional part was up to me much harder than melting a

up to me much harder than melting a

up to me much harder than melting a Wicked Witch temptations

Wicked Witch temptations

Wicked Witch temptations well the desire to eat and drink of

well the desire to eat and drink of

well the desire to eat and drink of course I created this to show how I felt

course I created this to show how I felt

course I created this to show how I felt about those challenges one bite would

about those challenges one bite would

about those challenges one bite would have killed me on the spot and yeah the

have killed me on the spot and yeah the

have killed me on the spot and yeah the temptation to give up to lose hope and

temptation to give up to lose hope and

temptation to give up to lose hope and once I could finally eat again

once I could finally eat again

once I could finally eat again the temptation to never want to face my

the temptation to never want to face my

the temptation to never want to face my own pain and anger and memories that I

own pain and anger and memories that I

own pain and anger and memories that I had pushed away for so long in order to

had pushed away for so long in order to

had pushed away for so long in order to survive and yes the temptation to never

survive and yes the temptation to never

survive and yes the temptation to never want to return to the ordinary world

want to return to the ordinary world

want to return to the ordinary world because I was so used to fighting my

because I was so used to fighting my

because I was so used to fighting my heroes battled in the darkness that I

heroes battled in the darkness that I

heroes battled in the darkness that I didn’t know how to do anything else like

didn’t know how to do anything else like

didn’t know how to do anything else like be happy refusal of the call or as a

be happy refusal of the call or as a

be happy refusal of the call or as a doctor once told my parents I don’t

doctor once told my parents I don’t

doctor once told my parents I don’t think she’s really bought into this life

think she’s really bought into this life

think she’s really bought into this life thing yet he was right so I closed

thing yet he was right so I closed

thing yet he was right so I closed myself off to the call to feeling

myself off to the call to feeling

myself off to the call to feeling anything so I’d never be hurt again

anything so I’d never be hurt again

anything so I’d never be hurt again maybe darkness was a good enough home

maybe darkness was a good enough home

maybe darkness was a good enough home after all I was surviving but a hero’s

after all I was surviving but a hero’s

after all I was surviving but a hero’s journey is not a mission to survive it’s

journey is not a mission to survive it’s

journey is not a mission to survive it’s a call to thrive and that’s when I met a

a call to thrive and that’s when I met a

a call to thrive and that’s when I met a very special mentor and here she is okay

very special mentor and here she is okay

very special mentor and here she is okay so I made her up but if I was going to

so I made her up but if I was going to

so I made her up but if I was going to be a hero I wanted to make believe and

be a hero I wanted to make believe and

be a hero I wanted to make believe and play dress-up and create my own mentors

play dress-up and create my own mentors

play dress-up and create my own mentors if I had to heal from drama trauma

if I had to heal from drama trauma

if I had to heal from drama trauma I wanted to play dress-up and uh get a

I wanted to play dress-up and uh get a

I wanted to play dress-up and uh get a little creative so if I was gonna kind

little creative so if I was gonna kind

little creative so if I was gonna kind of do this hero’s journey thing I needed

of do this hero’s journey thing I needed

of do this hero’s journey thing I needed the fierceness of a

the fierceness of a

the fierceness of a Tiger and determination to flourish like

Tiger and determination to flourish like

Tiger and determination to flourish like a flower like a lily that’s it

a flower like a lily that’s it

a flower like a lily that’s it Tiger Lily the warrior I ordered 500

Tiger Lily the warrior I ordered 500

Tiger Lily the warrior I ordered 500 business cards that said Tiger Lily

business cards that said Tiger Lily

business cards that said Tiger Lily professional warrior and hero just for

professional warrior and hero just for

professional warrior and hero just for myself this way it was official

myself this way it was official

myself this way it was official Tiger Lily meant business ready for the

Tiger Lily meant business ready for the

Tiger Lily meant business ready for the call to adventure and as Tiger Lily I

call to adventure and as Tiger Lily I

call to adventure and as Tiger Lily I start in three musicals while still

start in three musicals while still

start in three musicals while still hooked up to IVs and not even being able

hooked up to IVs and not even being able

hooked up to IVs and not even being able to consume a single ice cube I leapt

to consume a single ice cube I leapt

to consume a single ice cube I leapt across the stage as a cat a year after

across the stage as a cat a year after

across the stage as a cat a year after not even being able to sit up and dead

not even being able to sit up and dead

not even being able to sit up and dead on my own I went back to college I tried

on my own I went back to college I tried

on my own I went back to college I tried marriage and fought through the

marriage and fought through the

marriage and fought through the heartbreak of a divorce I toured a

heartbreak of a divorce I toured a

heartbreak of a divorce I toured a one-woman musical about my life for five

one-woman musical about my life for five

one-woman musical about my life for five years to help other people share their

years to help other people share their

years to help other people share their own story I’m still covered in bags and

own story I’m still covered in bags and

own story I’m still covered in bags and medical tape but it hasn’t stopped me

medical tape but it hasn’t stopped me

medical tape but it hasn’t stopped me from tap-dancing through my daily

from tap-dancing through my daily

from tap-dancing through my daily grocery shopping trips because after

grocery shopping trips because after

grocery shopping trips because after almost 30 surgeries I am now able to eat

almost 30 surgeries I am now able to eat

almost 30 surgeries I am now able to eat and drink again with a stomach created

and drink again with a stomach created

and drink again with a stomach created for me by some of my own allies tell me

for me by some of my own allies tell me

for me by some of my own allies tell me out of my coma one of the first things I

out of my coma one of the first things I

out of my coma one of the first things I said was I want to go home and almost a

said was I want to go home and almost a

said was I want to go home and almost a decade later I did return home but it

decade later I did return home but it

decade later I did return home but it and I were never the same because here’s

and I were never the same because here’s

and I were never the same because here’s one of the last steps of the hero’s

one of the last steps of the hero’s

one of the last steps of the hero’s journey

journey

journey you don’t just return to the ordinary

you don’t just return to the ordinary

you don’t just return to the ordinary world you knew before but you don’t just

world you knew before but you don’t just

world you knew before but you don’t just stay in the darkness forever fighting

stay in the darkness forever fighting

stay in the darkness forever fighting demons either the good part is you get

demons either the good part is you get

demons either the good part is you get the best of both you get to take this

the best of both you get to take this

the best of both you get to take this world of adventure you battle in and

world of adventure you battle in and

world of adventure you battle in and bring it back home and help everyone

bring it back home and help everyone

bring it back home and help everyone around you with what you’ve learned

around you with what you’ve learned

around you with what you’ve learned it’s called mastery of the two world

but why do we really go on this journey

but why do we really go on this journey just to add darkness to our world

just to add darkness to our world

just to add darkness to our world why if just like Dorothy we know we

why if just like Dorothy we know we

why if just like Dorothy we know we can’t really get back to the home we

can’t really get back to the home we

can’t really get back to the home we knew why not just save the adventure

knew why not just save the adventure

knew why not just save the adventure stories for the books because we’ll all

stories for the books because we’ll all

stories for the books because we’ll all encounter some kind of challenge in our

encounter some kind of challenge in our

encounter some kind of challenge in our lives

lives

lives darkness is inevitable but if we see the

darkness is inevitable but if we see the

darkness is inevitable but if we see the pattern then the journey can be exciting

pattern then the journey can be exciting

pattern then the journey can be exciting and child’s play and once you master

and child’s play and once you master

and child’s play and once you master these two worlds you get to the very

these two worlds you get to the very

these two worlds you get to the very final step freedom to live once Tiger

final step freedom to live once Tiger

final step freedom to live once Tiger Lily

Lily

Lily earned her spot of a hero she could

earned her spot of a hero she could

earned her spot of a hero she could become a mentor and continue the pattern

become a mentor and continue the pattern

become a mentor and continue the pattern – and there’s a tyrant in all of us

– and there’s a tyrant in all of us

– and there’s a tyrant in all of us dying to come out with that first call

dying to come out with that first call

dying to come out with that first call to adventure so now I want to share the

to adventure so now I want to share the

to adventure so now I want to share the treasure chest that she earned from her

treasure chest that she earned from her

treasure chest that she earned from her journey with four gifts to help you on

journey with four gifts to help you on

journey with four gifts to help you on yours so number one is stories when I

yours so number one is stories when I

yours so number one is stories when I was in hospital my mom would read me

was in hospital my mom would read me

was in hospital my mom would read me every inspirational autobiography she

every inspirational autobiography she

every inspirational autobiography she could find I could not stand them why

could find I could not stand them why

could find I could not stand them why would I care about these great comeback

would I care about these great comeback

would I care about these great comeback stories when I couldn’t even breathe on

stories when I couldn’t even breathe on

stories when I couldn’t even breathe on my own these stories felt like a smack

my own these stories felt like a smack

my own these stories felt like a smack in the face but as I got better I

in the face but as I got better I

in the face but as I got better I started to recall those stories in

started to recall those stories in

started to recall those stories in different ways I thought maybe that

different ways I thought maybe that

different ways I thought maybe that could be me I could visualize myself in

could be me I could visualize myself in

could be me I could visualize myself in their shoes then now they were realistic

their shoes then now they were realistic

their shoes then now they were realistic role model than infeasible goals so read

role model than infeasible goals so read

role model than infeasible goals so read and listen to as many stories as you can

and listen to as many stories as you can

and listen to as many stories as you can even if you feel like you can’t relate

even if you feel like you can’t relate

even if you feel like you can’t relate to them now your novels fairy tales star

to them now your novels fairy tales star

to them now your novels fairy tales star wars movies build up your story

wars movies build up your story

wars movies build up your story inventory because when you eventually do

inventory because when you eventually do

inventory because when you eventually do get to that step in the hero’s journey

get to that step in the hero’s journey

get to that step in the hero’s journey you’ll start to resource those stories

you’ll start to resource those stories

you’ll start to resource those stories and soon they’ll become the mentors that

and soon they’ll become the mentors that

and soon they’ll become the mentors that helped lead you to the next step number

helped lead you to the next step number

helped lead you to the next step number two is creativity it was so difficult

two is creativity it was so difficult

two is creativity it was so difficult for me to even speak the words I was

for me to even speak the words I was

for me to even speak the words I was sexually abused but on a hero’s journey

sexually abused but on a hero’s journey

sexually abused but on a hero’s journey we need to express how we feel about our

we need to express how we feel about our

we need to express how we feel about our challenges in order to transform them

challenges in order to transform them

challenges in order to transform them even though it can take mirrors for us

even though it can take mirrors for us

even though it can take mirrors for us to try to verbalize a challenge we face

to try to verbalize a challenge we face

to try to verbalize a challenge we face that’s why there are other things to do

that’s why there are other things to do

that’s why there are other things to do I use the magic of these guys my magic

I use the magic of these guys my magic

I use the magic of these guys my magic superhero senses and I scribbled I

superhero senses and I scribbled I

superhero senses and I scribbled I painted I danced I sang out my fear my

painted I danced I sang out my fear my

painted I danced I sang out my fear my grief any negative emotions I was scared

grief any negative emotions I was scared

grief any negative emotions I was scared to face and creativity became my hero’s

to face and creativity became my hero’s

to face and creativity became my hero’s bow and arrow that turned these scary

bow and arrow that turned these scary

bow and arrow that turned these scary feelings into a world of imagination and

feelings into a world of imagination and

feelings into a world of imagination and made it a really colorful trip number

made it a really colorful trip number

made it a really colorful trip number three is hope on a hero’s journey hope

three is hope on a hero’s journey hope

three is hope on a hero’s journey hope is the fuel that gets you through each

is the fuel that gets you through each

is the fuel that gets you through each step of the pattern but sometimes hope

step of the pattern but sometimes hope

step of the pattern but sometimes hope is hard to find when doctors discharged

is hard to find when doctors discharged

is hard to find when doctors discharged me from the hospital they gave me no

me from the hospital they gave me no

me from the hospital they gave me no hope of when or if I’d ever be able to

hope of when or if I’d ever be able to

hope of when or if I’d ever be able to eat and drink again so I literally made

eat and drink again so I literally made

eat and drink again so I literally made my own hope I made big countdowns on my

my own hope I made big countdowns on my

my own hope I made big countdowns on my wall seven days till I can eat again six

wall seven days till I can eat again six

wall seven days till I can eat again six days five days all the way to zero and

days five days all the way to zero and

days five days all the way to zero and then when it got to zero I started over

then when it got to zero I started over

then when it got to zero I started over again for six years there was actually a

again for six years there was actually a

again for six years there was actually a name for this in fairy tales willing

name for this in fairy tales willing

name for this in fairy tales willing suspension of disbelief Dorothy had

suspension of disbelief Dorothy had

suspension of disbelief Dorothy had doubts but she never gave up hope that

doubts but she never gave up hope that

doubts but she never gave up hope that one day she could get back to auntie

one day she could get back to auntie

one day she could get back to auntie Anna an occupational therapist once told

Anna an occupational therapist once told

Anna an occupational therapist once told me they call it therapeutic lying and

me they call it therapeutic lying and

me they call it therapeutic lying and sometimes hope is just a lie but it’s

sometimes hope is just a lie but it’s

sometimes hope is just a lie but it’s your best weapon so please don’t wait

your best weapon so please don’t wait

your best weapon so please don’t wait for hope to dawn on you in this

for hope to dawn on you in this

for hope to dawn on you in this inspirational beam of light a hero has

inspirational beam of light a hero has

inspirational beam of light a hero has to create his own hope number four is

to create his own hope number four is

to create his own hope number four is gratitude this is Tigerlily super secret

gratitude this is Tigerlily super secret

gratitude this is Tigerlily super secret treasure map actually it’s a list I made

treasure map actually it’s a list I made

treasure map actually it’s a list I made after my 27th surgery I made myself

after my 27th surgery I made myself

after my 27th surgery I made myself write one thing I was grateful for for

write one thing I was grateful for for

write one thing I was grateful for for every letter of the alphabet

every letter of the alphabet

every letter of the alphabet I made these lists every day for the

I made these lists every day for the

I made these lists every day for the four months I was in the hospital this

four months I was in the hospital this

four months I was in the hospital this list started to paint a new picture for

list started to paint a new picture for

list started to paint a new picture for me of what really mattered in my life

me of what really mattered in my life

me of what really mattered in my life now I was remembering what I stood for

now I was remembering what I stood for

now I was remembering what I stood for who I was what my values were your

who I was what my values were your

who I was what my values were your values are your compass that steer you

values are your compass that steer you

values are your compass that steer you where you need to go next on your hero’s

where you need to go next on your hero’s

where you need to go next on your hero’s journey but gratitude not only scared

journey but gratitude not only scared

journey but gratitude not only scared you it reminds you what you’re fighting

you it reminds you what you’re fighting

you it reminds you what you’re fighting for

for

for think about all the amazing gifts and

think about all the amazing gifts and

think about all the amazing gifts and surprises you could encounter in its

surprises you could encounter in its

surprises you could encounter in its special realm if Dorothy had just kept

special realm if Dorothy had just kept

special realm if Dorothy had just kept crying over her house in the air she

crying over her house in the air she

crying over her house in the air she would have never met the friends that

would have never met the friends that

would have never met the friends that helped transform her journey to Oz so

helped transform her journey to Oz so

helped transform her journey to Oz so use gratitude to be where you are in the

use gratitude to be where you are in the

use gratitude to be where you are in the pattern use creativity to embrace each

pattern use creativity to embrace each

pattern use creativity to embrace each step of the journey use hope to get you

step of the journey use hope to get you

step of the journey use hope to get you three step for the journey and use

three step for the journey and use

three step for the journey and use stories to reassure you that you’re on

stories to reassure you that you’re on

stories to reassure you that you’re on the right track with these four gifts I

the right track with these four gifts I

the right track with these four gifts I did make it home a changed hero now I

did make it home a changed hero now I

did make it home a changed hero now I was proud to be a role model for myself

was proud to be a role model for myself

was proud to be a role model for myself a role model for others just like the

a role model for others just like the

a role model for others just like the ones in my mom’s pile of inspirational

ones in my mom’s pile of inspirational

ones in my mom’s pile of inspirational books and just like Persephone’s whose

books and just like Persephone’s whose

books and just like Persephone’s whose journey brought the four seasons to the

journey brought the four seasons to the

journey brought the four seasons to the world season it was the beauty of change

world season it was the beauty of change

world season it was the beauty of change and our journeys can too but remember

and our journeys can too but remember

and our journeys can too but remember like Persephone’s like Dorothy like me

like Persephone’s like Dorothy like me

like Persephone’s like Dorothy like me you may find yourself juggling those two

you may find yourself juggling those two

you may find yourself juggling those two worlds and it can feel like madness

worlds and it can feel like madness

worlds and it can feel like madness others may not get it after I was all

others may not get it after I was all

others may not get it after I was all healed physically a lot of people didn’t

healed physically a lot of people didn’t

healed physically a lot of people didn’t understand why I was taking so long to

understand why I was taking so long to

understand why I was taking so long to repair emotionally I felt like I was

repair emotionally I felt like I was

repair emotionally I felt like I was going mad

going mad

going mad but that madness is the inner fire that

but that madness is the inner fire that

but that madness is the inner fire that we get from that journey

we get from that journey

we get from that journey and that inner fire is really our hero’s

and that inner fire is really our hero’s

and that inner fire is really our hero’s warrior gift that’s how we find the

warrior gift that’s how we find the

warrior gift that’s how we find the beauty in trauma the beauty in healing

beauty in trauma the beauty in healing

beauty in trauma the beauty in healing the beauty in being on the hero’s

the beauty in being on the hero’s

the beauty in being on the hero’s journey that is our life you’ll probably

journey that is our life you’ll probably

journey that is our life you’ll probably take this journey more than once but if

take this journey more than once but if

take this journey more than once but if you see the pattern accept the call and

you see the pattern accept the call and

you see the pattern accept the call and remember your treasure chest you’ll turn

remember your treasure chest you’ll turn

remember your treasure chest you’ll turn your life into the best adventure story

your life into the best adventure story

your life into the best adventure story you ever read thank you

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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