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hello Vanakkam a castle

hello Vanakkam a castle my name is Sanjana Kanta I am from Tamil

my name is Sanjana Kanta I am from Tamil

my name is Sanjana Kanta I am from Tamil Nadu India from Kogi State Nigeria and

Nadu India from Kogi State Nigeria and

Nadu India from Kogi State Nigeria and from the Midwest I am from English

from the Midwest I am from English

from the Midwest I am from English educated Indians who found themselves in

educated Indians who found themselves in

educated Indians who found themselves in leadership positions

leadership positions

leadership positions I am from colonial missionaries who took

I am from colonial missionaries who took

I am from colonial missionaries who took in my forefather after he was disowned

in my forefather after he was disowned

in my forefather after he was disowned by his Hindu family I am from the

by his Hindu family I am from the

by his Hindu family I am from the Christian minority 6% of to millions and

Christian minority 6% of to millions and

Christian minority 6% of to millions and from equi and Tamil churches I am from

from equi and Tamil churches I am from

from equi and Tamil churches I am from West African drums and South Indian

West African drums and South Indian

West African drums and South Indian cooking from jasmine flowers and

cooking from jasmine flowers and

cooking from jasmine flowers and colourful clothes and from change names

colourful clothes and from change names

colourful clothes and from change names British tea racial slurs

British tea racial slurs

British tea racial slurs I’m from old tamil songs and radical

I’m from old tamil songs and radical

I’m from old tamil songs and radical hospitality from the exotic sized women

hospitality from the exotic sized women

hospitality from the exotic sized women and assumed terrorist men where and who

and assumed terrorist men where and who

and assumed terrorist men where and who I am from has created every piece of Who

I am from has created every piece of Who

I am from has created every piece of Who I am I am Sanjana Rachel Khan Thea who

I am I am Sanjana Rachel Khan Thea who

I am I am Sanjana Rachel Khan Thea who are you my great-great-great-grandfather

are you my great-great-great-grandfather

are you my great-great-great-grandfather Christian I converted from Hinduism to

Christian I converted from Hinduism to

Christian I converted from Hinduism to Christianity after a British missionary

Christianity after a British missionary

Christianity after a British missionary named Robert Turlington Nobel taught him

named Robert Turlington Nobel taught him

named Robert Turlington Nobel taught him English through the Bible everything

English through the Bible everything

English through the Bible everything about our culture was Hindu so when

about our culture was Hindu so when

about our culture was Hindu so when taking on this religion he made a

taking on this religion he made a

taking on this religion he made a sacrificial choice he gave up his family

sacrificial choice he gave up his family

sacrificial choice he gave up his family who disowned him and everything he knew

who disowned him and everything he knew

who disowned him and everything he knew for a new way of life he was no longer

for a new way of life he was no longer

for a new way of life he was no longer welcome at his mother’s table so he

welcome at his mother’s table so he

welcome at his mother’s table so he joined the Christian community that

joined the Christian community that

joined the Christian community that would accept him because of his

would accept him because of his

would accept him because of his conversion and integration into the

conversion and integration into the

conversion and integration into the British community my family was able to

British community my family was able to

British community my family was able to access good education learn academic

access good education learn academic

access good education learn academic English and have leadership positions my

English and have leadership positions my

English and have leadership positions my forefathers pastored churches owned a

forefathers pastored churches owned a

forefathers pastored churches owned a store selling imports from the UK and

store selling imports from the UK and

store selling imports from the UK and America worshiped in colonial churches

America worshiped in colonial churches

America worshiped in colonial churches and changed their wedding traditions

and changed their wedding traditions

and changed their wedding traditions essentially my family had the leadership

essentially my family had the leadership

essentially my family had the leadership and education to make our own space in

and education to make our own space in

and education to make our own space in this Christian community once we had

this Christian community once we had

this Christian community once we had made those spaces we had a choice either

made those spaces we had a choice either

made those spaces we had a choice either open the door and invite others to join

open the door and invite others to join

open the door and invite others to join us in our new community or enjoy our new

us in our new community or enjoy our new

us in our new community or enjoy our new space alone after independence we had

space alone after independence we had

space alone after independence we had even more space and we could remake it

even more space and we could remake it

even more space and we could remake it however we wanted space to blend both

however we wanted space to blend both

however we wanted space to blend both European Christian and in

European Christian and in

European Christian and in cultures but we chose to keep the suits

cultures but we chose to keep the suits

cultures but we chose to keep the suits and ties and Western hims even when we

and ties and Western hims even when we

and ties and Western hims even when we changed the culture of missions I want

changed the culture of missions I want

changed the culture of missions I want to talk with you about this concept of

to talk with you about this concept of

to talk with you about this concept of space space to be who you are and live

space space to be who you are and live

space space to be who you are and live with dignity and respect

with dignity and respect

with dignity and respect space in our social and political worlds

space in our social and political worlds

space in our social and political worlds for a person to speak and be heard the

for a person to speak and be heard the

for a person to speak and be heard the physical space in universities and

physical space in universities and

physical space in universities and organizations space and our curricula

organizations space and our curricula

organizations space and our curricula and space and our relationships space

and space and our relationships space

and space and our relationships space for your culture to be freely celebrated

for your culture to be freely celebrated

for your culture to be freely celebrated and for communities of people with

and for communities of people with

and for communities of people with different backgrounds and beliefs to

different backgrounds and beliefs to

different backgrounds and beliefs to coexist this concept of space is

coexist this concept of space is

coexist this concept of space is essential for people as a whole to

essential for people as a whole to

essential for people as a whole to thrive but when we look at history we

thrive but when we look at history we

thrive but when we look at history we see the dominant culture of a community

see the dominant culture of a community

see the dominant culture of a community taking over the space of someone else

taking over the space of someone else

taking over the space of someone else quieting voices time and time again the

quieting voices time and time again the

quieting voices time and time again the silencing of voices is not new and we

silencing of voices is not new and we

silencing of voices is not new and we can look at the wisdom of those who have

can look at the wisdom of those who have

can look at the wisdom of those who have been fighting for space through

been fighting for space through

been fighting for space through revolutions and relationships and try to

revolutions and relationships and try to

revolutions and relationships and try to move forward for example dr. Martin

move forward for example dr. Martin

move forward for example dr. Martin Luther King jr. and how he taught us

Luther King jr. and how he taught us

Luther King jr. and how he taught us about a counter to the model of groups

about a counter to the model of groups

about a counter to the model of groups having too much space versus not at all

having too much space versus not at all

having too much space versus not at all dr. King taught us about the Beloved

dr. King taught us about the Beloved

dr. King taught us about the Beloved Community a society that is based on

Community a society that is based on

Community a society that is based on justice equal opportunity and love he

justice equal opportunity and love he

justice equal opportunity and love he dreamt of dignity respect and freedom

dreamt of dignity respect and freedom

dreamt of dignity respect and freedom from oppression and systemic poverty he

from oppression and systemic poverty he

from oppression and systemic poverty he did not just hope for peace but went

did not just hope for peace but went

did not just hope for peace but went beyond seeking an end to violence toward

beyond seeking an end to violence toward

beyond seeking an end to violence toward a dream of deep reconciliation a

a dream of deep reconciliation a

a dream of deep reconciliation a reconciliation where we can transform

reconciliation where we can transform

reconciliation where we can transform both those who occupy the space of

both those who occupy the space of

both those who occupy the space of others and those who do not have any

others and those who do not have any

others and those who do not have any space at all into the beloved community

space at all into the beloved community

space at all into the beloved community where we can mutually share a meal

where we can mutually share a meal

where we can mutually share a meal around the same table this is the table

around the same table this is the table

around the same table this is the table where peace and freedom can be evoked

where peace and freedom can be evoked

where peace and freedom can be evoked this is the table where decisions are

this is the table where decisions are

this is the table where decisions are made that truly cause change where the

made that truly cause change where the

made that truly cause change where the voices that influence every part of

voices that influence every part of

voices that influence every part of society belong I saw a glimpse of the

society belong I saw a glimpse of the

society belong I saw a glimpse of the Beloved Community back in Nigeria in the

Beloved Community back in Nigeria in the

Beloved Community back in Nigeria in the northwest corner of Kogi State there is

northwest corner of Kogi State there is

northwest corner of Kogi State there is a hospital in egg Bay which was founded

a hospital in egg Bay which was founded

a hospital in egg Bay which was founded in the context of complex oppression

in the context of complex oppression

in the context of complex oppression during colonial times but now provides

during colonial times but now provides

during colonial times but now provides health care and certifies nurses for a

health care and certifies nurses for a

health care and certifies nurses for a region that is entirely under resource

region that is entirely under resource

region that is entirely under resource by the state in this imperfect community

by the state in this imperfect community

by the state in this imperfect community responding to immediate needs

responding to immediate needs

responding to immediate needs Nigerian Korean American and Indian

Nigerian Korean American and Indian

Nigerian Korean American and Indian doctors scrub in and work alongside each

doctors scrub in and work alongside each

doctors scrub in and work alongside each other to provide health care to this

other to provide health care to this

other to provide health care to this largely ignored area we lived in

largely ignored area we lived in

largely ignored area we lived in community and our table always looked

community and our table always looked

community and our table always looked different

different

different we had kimchi jjigae and rice vindaloo

we had kimchi jjigae and rice vindaloo

we had kimchi jjigae and rice vindaloo and curd fufu Iguchi stew and homemade

and curd fufu Iguchi stew and homemade

and curd fufu Iguchi stew and homemade ice cream from powdered milk the beloved

ice cream from powdered milk the beloved

ice cream from powdered milk the beloved community table in egg Bay had seats for

community table in egg Bay had seats for

community table in egg Bay had seats for Koreans Americans Indians and Nigerians

Koreans Americans Indians and Nigerians

Koreans Americans Indians and Nigerians all bringing their culture to the table

all bringing their culture to the table

all bringing their culture to the table so let’s think of community as this big

so let’s think of community as this big

so let’s think of community as this big table for a second I’m imagining it made

table for a second I’m imagining it made

table for a second I’m imagining it made of mahagony strong and smooth think

of mahagony strong and smooth think

of mahagony strong and smooth think about the tables where you eat who’s

about the tables where you eat who’s

about the tables where you eat who’s there who’s speaking why our tables are

there who’s speaking why our tables are

there who’s speaking why our tables are often full of a community living in the

often full of a community living in the

often full of a community living in the same circumstances as us a table in my

same circumstances as us a table in my

same circumstances as us a table in my immigrant grandmother’s home is full of

immigrant grandmother’s home is full of

immigrant grandmother’s home is full of Indians eating with our hands thummell

Indians eating with our hands thummell

Indians eating with our hands thummell food with Lay’s potato chips truly the

food with Lay’s potato chips truly the

food with Lay’s potato chips truly the best of both worlds the table in our

best of both worlds the table in our

best of both worlds the table in our religious spaces is where we worship and

religious spaces is where we worship and

religious spaces is where we worship and congregate as white churches black

congregate as white churches black

congregate as white churches black churches LGBTQ churches etc we have

churches LGBTQ churches etc we have

churches LGBTQ churches etc we have entire fields of work full of people who

entire fields of work full of people who

entire fields of work full of people who have shared privileged or

have shared privileged or

have shared privileged or underprivileged experiences that have

underprivileged experiences that have

underprivileged experiences that have brought them there there are things

brought them there there are things

brought them there there are things about our histories that bring us to the

about our histories that bring us to the

about our histories that bring us to the table things about our histories that

table things about our histories that

table things about our histories that give us a seat

give us a seat

give us a seat there are things about our histories

there are things about our histories

there are things about our histories that bar us from even walking in the

that bar us from even walking in the

that bar us from even walking in the room then there are those with a seat at

room then there are those with a seat at

room then there are those with a seat at the table but though they have the

the table but though they have the

the table but though they have the physical space they do not have equals

physical space they do not have equals

physical space they do not have equals say they’re surrounded by other guests

say they’re surrounded by other guests

say they’re surrounded by other guests they’re forced into an echo chamber to

they’re forced into an echo chamber to

they’re forced into an echo chamber to listen while their space to speak is

listen while their space to speak is

listen while their space to speak is being taken by others this can be going

being taken by others this can be going

being taken by others this can be going through an entire education system with

through an entire education system with

through an entire education system with lessons and literature that connect with

lessons and literature that connect with

lessons and literature that connect with the culture religion and history of most

the culture religion and history of most

the culture religion and history of most of your classmates but never your own

of your classmates but never your own

of your classmates but never your own you’re forced to listen to their

you’re forced to listen to their

you’re forced to listen to their narratives in the curriculum and

narratives in the curriculum and

narratives in the curriculum and discussion but never have the lessons or

discussion but never have the lessons or

discussion but never have the lessons or questions to add your experience to

questions to add your experience to

questions to add your experience to table in becoming the beloved community

table in becoming the beloved community

table in becoming the beloved community we need to give space to each other if

we need to give space to each other if

we need to give space to each other if we are one if we are the ones at the

we are one if we are the ones at the

we are one if we are the ones at the table

table

table we need to pause make space at the table

we need to pause make space at the table

we need to pause make space at the table for others and listen there’s a famous

for others and listen there’s a famous

for others and listen there’s a famous quote by shirley chisholm the first

quote by shirley chisholm the first

quote by shirley chisholm the first black woman in congress she says if they

black woman in congress she says if they

black woman in congress she says if they don’t give you a seat at the table bring

don’t give you a seat at the table bring

don’t give you a seat at the table bring a folding chair that’s not really easy

a folding chair that’s not really easy

a folding chair that’s not really easy to begin with and not all of us have

to begin with and not all of us have

to begin with and not all of us have folding chairs to bring in fact some of

folding chairs to bring in fact some of

folding chairs to bring in fact some of us are not even allowed in the same room

us are not even allowed in the same room

us are not even allowed in the same room as the table

as the table

as the table many of us are locked away behind real

many of us are locked away behind real

many of us are locked away behind real bars or the bars of unequal education

bars or the bars of unequal education

bars or the bars of unequal education and opportunity the unfortunate reality

and opportunity the unfortunate reality

and opportunity the unfortunate reality is that there are some tables we are

is that there are some tables we are

is that there are some tables we are welcome to some tables that are full

welcome to some tables that are full

welcome to some tables that are full some we never got the invitation to and

some we never got the invitation to and

some we never got the invitation to and there are some tables we just physically

there are some tables we just physically

there are some tables we just physically cannot reach we can try to get in and

cannot reach we can try to get in and

cannot reach we can try to get in and some even will but if there’s not

some even will but if there’s not

some even will but if there’s not someone who has enough power to make

someone who has enough power to make

someone who has enough power to make some room and pull those who have never

some room and pull those who have never

some room and pull those who have never been welcomed in the rest of the guests

been welcomed in the rest of the guests

been welcomed in the rest of the guests will likely never know there were others

will likely never know there were others

will likely never know there were others there in the first place there are

there in the first place there are

there in the first place there are things about Who I am that got me a seat

things about Who I am that got me a seat

things about Who I am that got me a seat at some tables and once you’re in it can

at some tables and once you’re in it can

at some tables and once you’re in it can be easy to not even notice there are

be easy to not even notice there are

be easy to not even notice there are folks on the outside how do we work

folks on the outside how do we work

folks on the outside how do we work against history to change this how can I

against history to change this how can I

against history to change this how can I look out from the inside and make some

look out from the inside and make some

look out from the inside and make some room to invite someone in how can I get

room to invite someone in how can I get

room to invite someone in how can I get in the tables my family has never been

in the tables my family has never been

in the tables my family has never been welcomed giving someone a spot at the

welcomed giving someone a spot at the

welcomed giving someone a spot at the table looks like pausing pulling up a

table looks like pausing pulling up a

table looks like pausing pulling up a chair and listening rather than just

chair and listening rather than just

chair and listening rather than just adding to the noise for example when I

adding to the noise for example when I

adding to the noise for example when I am home in India my Amma Chi is known

am home in India my Amma Chi is known

am home in India my Amma Chi is known for her hospitality especially her

for her hospitality especially her

for her hospitality especially her cooking it’s always fantastic

cooking it’s always fantastic

cooking it’s always fantastic first-class food offered more generously

first-class food offered more generously

first-class food offered more generously than she can probably afford she’s hired

than she can probably afford she’s hired

than she can probably afford she’s hired a few people to help them around the

a few people to help them around the

a few people to help them around the house and whenever we visit she prepares

house and whenever we visit she prepares

house and whenever we visit she prepares the best true tamil meals we sit and eat

the best true tamil meals we sit and eat

the best true tamil meals we sit and eat as a family we talk about church or

as a family we talk about church or

as a family we talk about church or about family things but if anyone who

about family things but if anyone who

about family things but if anyone who works in their home hasn’t eaten whether

works in their home hasn’t eaten whether

works in their home hasn’t eaten whether it’s the gardener or her cook my Amagi

it’s the gardener or her cook my Amagi

it’s the gardener or her cook my Amagi gets another play

gets another play

gets another play start serving rice and invites them to

start serving rice and invites them to

start serving rice and invites them to sit at her family table in most homes

sit at her family table in most homes

sit at her family table in most homes the servants eat separately but my

the servants eat separately but my

the servants eat separately but my grandmother’s invitation goes beyond

grandmother’s invitation goes beyond

grandmother’s invitation goes beyond acknowledging their presence she cleans

acknowledging their presence she cleans

acknowledging their presence she cleans a plate fills it pulls up a chair and

a plate fills it pulls up a chair and

a plate fills it pulls up a chair and sits them next to her guest of honor

sits them next to her guest of honor

sits them next to her guest of honor that is the beloved community we create

that is the beloved community we create

that is the beloved community we create the beloved community wherever we are by

the beloved community wherever we are by

the beloved community wherever we are by pausing to see who is missing making

pausing to see who is missing making

pausing to see who is missing making space and listening an example of this

space and listening an example of this

space and listening an example of this in Chicago’s refugee community is how

in Chicago’s refugee community is how

in Chicago’s refugee community is how girl forward was founded when Blair

girl forward was founded when Blair

girl forward was founded when Blair Brettschneider was working at one of the

Brettschneider was working at one of the

Brettschneider was working at one of the resettlement agencies she looked around

resettlement agencies she looked around

resettlement agencies she looked around the after-school center and saw

the after-school center and saw

the after-school center and saw something missing the girls were facing

something missing the girls were facing

something missing the girls were facing such unique barriers and there wasn’t

such unique barriers and there wasn’t

such unique barriers and there wasn’t enough time resources or support to give

enough time resources or support to give

enough time resources or support to give girls who were resettled the boost they

girls who were resettled the boost they

girls who were resettled the boost they needed to pursue the dreams they deserve

needed to pursue the dreams they deserve

needed to pursue the dreams they deserve to achieve so she started with one girl

to achieve so she started with one girl

to achieve so she started with one girl listened and looked for resources to

listened and looked for resources to

listened and looked for resources to support her and over time that turned

support her and over time that turned

support her and over time that turned into a girls group which turned into a

into a girls group which turned into a

into a girls group which turned into a mentoring program a summer camp a safe

mentoring program a summer camp a safe

mentoring program a summer camp a safe space in schools and an after-school

space in schools and an after-school

space in schools and an after-school Center what was created in the midst of

Center what was created in the midst of

Center what was created in the midst of the biggest refugee crisis the world has

the biggest refugee crisis the world has

the biggest refugee crisis the world has ever seen is a community of support for

ever seen is a community of support for

ever seen is a community of support for girls who are working long and hard to

girls who are working long and hard to

girls who are working long and hard to overcome poverty language barrier

overcome poverty language barrier

overcome poverty language barrier disrupted education trauma and the

disrupted education trauma and the

disrupted education trauma and the challenges Chicago throws at them our

challenges Chicago throws at them our

challenges Chicago throws at them our girls create this community as they come

girls create this community as they come

girls create this community as they come together from all over the world and

together from all over the world and

together from all over the world and bring their joys and pains to the table

bring their joys and pains to the table

bring their joys and pains to the table they build the Beloved Community with

they build the Beloved Community with

they build the Beloved Community with the resources and languages they have

the resources and languages they have

the resources and languages they have under the mutual understanding of what

under the mutual understanding of what

under the mutual understanding of what it feels like not to have a seat at the

it feels like not to have a seat at the

it feels like not to have a seat at the table they give each other the space to

table they give each other the space to

table they give each other the space to be who they are where they are when

be who they are where they are when

be who they are where they are when where they are is not what they had

where they are is not what they had

where they are is not what they had planned

now one last time imagine with me the

now one last time imagine with me the Beloved Community in full a society that

Beloved Community in full a society that

Beloved Community in full a society that is based on justice equal opportunity

is based on justice equal opportunity

is based on justice equal opportunity and love imagine walking into a room

and love imagine walking into a room

and love imagine walking into a room full of people people who know about

full of people people who know about

full of people people who know about your family your interests and where

your family your interests and where

your family your interests and where you’ve been with no doubt in your mind

you’ve been with no doubt in your mind

you’ve been with no doubt in your mind you know the people in this room are for

you know the people in this room are for

you know the people in this room are for you not against you

you not against you

you not against you maybe there’s music maybe people are

maybe there’s music maybe people are

maybe there’s music maybe people are praying or creating imagine there is a

praying or creating imagine there is a

praying or creating imagine there is a huge table in the center of the room the

huge table in the center of the room the

huge table in the center of the room the seats are full of people dressed in

seats are full of people dressed in

seats are full of people dressed in every fashion people who work in every

every fashion people who work in every

every fashion people who work in every field and come from different places

field and come from different places

field and come from different places they all welcome you imagine people who

they all welcome you imagine people who

they all welcome you imagine people who are all rich in health and education all

are all rich in health and education all

are all rich in health and education all sitting around this beautiful table

sitting around this beautiful table

sitting around this beautiful table imagine a truly multi-ethnic spread and

imagine a truly multi-ethnic spread and

imagine a truly multi-ethnic spread and somehow your favorite food is still

somehow your favorite food is still

somehow your favorite food is still there imagine a community where everyone

there imagine a community where everyone

there imagine a community where everyone is welcome and they’ve saved a space for

is welcome and they’ve saved a space for

is welcome and they’ve saved a space for you at the table

you at the table

you at the table this might sound unachievable completely

this might sound unachievable completely

this might sound unachievable completely out of reach but it is already present

out of reach but it is already present

out of reach but it is already present in small parts of our existing

in small parts of our existing

in small parts of our existing communities there are places where folks

communities there are places where folks

communities there are places where folks at the table make space for others and

at the table make space for others and

at the table make space for others and listen these small beloved communities

listen these small beloved communities

listen these small beloved communities are what will spread and over time give

are what will spread and over time give

are what will spread and over time give us the hope and space we need for a seat

us the hope and space we need for a seat

us the hope and space we need for a seat at the table

at the table

at the table so who is at your table who is not why

so who is at your table who is not why

so who is at your table who is not why it’s time to pause it’s time to listen

it’s time to pause it’s time to listen

it’s time to pause it’s time to listen it’s time to pull up a chair

it’s time to pull up a chair

it’s time to pull up a chair thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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