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The unapologetic beauty of focusing on your strengths | Wendelin Slusser | TEDxUCLA


welcome and hello everybody how are you

welcome and hello everybody how are you feeling today good fantastic

feeling today good fantastic

feeling today good fantastic well most students arrive at college

well most students arrive at college

well most students arrive at college with no roadmap for success having just

with no roadmap for success having just

with no roadmap for success having just spent their entire high school careers

spent their entire high school careers

spent their entire high school careers with a checklist on how to get into

with a checklist on how to get into

with a checklist on how to get into their college of choice and after

their college of choice and after

their college of choice and after graduation we often turn to self-help

graduation we often turn to self-help

graduation we often turn to self-help books or motivational seminars sharing

books or motivational seminars sharing

books or motivational seminars sharing their wisdoms on how to be successful

their wisdoms on how to be successful

their wisdoms on how to be successful and thrive in life but what if the path

and thrive in life but what if the path

and thrive in life but what if the path to success was simple and attainable for

to success was simple and attainable for

to success was simple and attainable for all of us what if it was as simple as

all of us what if it was as simple as

all of us what if it was as simple as identifying and building on our own

identifying and building on our own

identifying and building on our own strengths and those of others and not

strengths and those of others and not

strengths and those of others and not their deficits I’d like everyone in this

their deficits I’d like everyone in this

their deficits I’d like everyone in this hall to close their eyes take one deep

hall to close their eyes take one deep

hall to close their eyes take one deep breath and think about a strength that

breath and think about a strength that

breath and think about a strength that you’re particularly proud of and I want

you’re particularly proud of and I want

you’re particularly proud of and I want you to hold on to that thought and to

you to hold on to that thought and to

you to hold on to that thought and to the end of my talk when we will revisit

the end of my talk when we will revisit

the end of my talk when we will revisit it okay I’m gonna start with me in a

it okay I’m gonna start with me in a

it okay I’m gonna start with me in a prune now when I think of prunes I think

prune now when I think of prunes I think

prune now when I think of prunes I think of their unapologetic deliciousness

of their unapologetic deliciousness

of their unapologetic deliciousness they’re nutrient value for iron and of

they’re nutrient value for iron and of

they’re nutrient value for iron and of course they’re cathartic effect I also

course they’re cathartic effect I also

course they’re cathartic effect I also think of picking them and Sun drying

think of picking them and Sun drying

think of picking them and Sun drying them on my family Sonoma County farm

them on my family Sonoma County farm

them on my family Sonoma County farm every summer of my childhood and I used

every summer of my childhood and I used

every summer of my childhood and I used to use them as a screening device for my

to use them as a screening device for my

to use them as a screening device for my friends and those who love them have

friends and those who love them have

friends and those who love them have been my friends for life this is how I

been my friends for life this is how I

been my friends for life this is how I view my life how I view other people how

view my life how I view other people how

view my life how I view other people how I view communities I look at their

I view communities I look at their

I view communities I look at their strengths and not their deficits and in

strengths and not their deficits and in

strengths and not their deficits and in fact John McKnight and John kretzmann

fact John McKnight and John kretzmann

fact John McKnight and John kretzmann from Northwestern University they

from Northwestern University they

from Northwestern University they pioneered and telegraphed this strategy

pioneered and telegraphed this strategy

pioneered and telegraphed this strategy of identifying your strengths and assets

of identifying your strengths and assets

of identifying your strengths and assets and mobilizing them and they have found

and mobilizing them and they have found

and mobilizing them and they have found that it’s been a recipe for success for

that it’s been a recipe for success for

that it’s been a recipe for success for Community Development from the inside

Community Development from the inside

Community Development from the inside out

out

out and you can apply this to individuals to

and you can apply this to individuals to

and you can apply this to individuals to universities to cities and towns and

universities to cities and towns and

universities to cities and towns and countries and in fact you can actually

countries and in fact you can actually

countries and in fact you can actually build

build

build culture of well-being a healthy

culture of well-being a healthy

culture of well-being a healthy community success for life using this

community success for life using this

community success for life using this strategy now why are we so interested in

strategy now why are we so interested in

strategy now why are we so interested in the glass half full not half empty well

the glass half full not half empty well

the glass half full not half empty well here are the facts I’d like everyone in

here are the facts I’d like everyone in

here are the facts I’d like everyone in the middle rose to please stand up if

the middle rose to please stand up if

the middle rose to please stand up if you can

and I’d like you to stay standing until

and I’d like you to stay standing until I tell you to sit down okay one out of

I tell you to sit down okay one out of

I tell you to sit down okay one out of every two Americans over the age of 20

every two Americans over the age of 20

every two Americans over the age of 20 are pre-diabetic or diabetic that

are pre-diabetic or diabetic that

are pre-diabetic or diabetic that amounts to the percent of people

amounts to the percent of people

amounts to the percent of people standing compared to those that aren’t

standing compared to those that aren’t

standing compared to those that aren’t in this Hall now the good news is that

in this Hall now the good news is that

in this Hall now the good news is that if you have pre-diabetes you can reduce

if you have pre-diabetes you can reduce

if you have pre-diabetes you can reduce your risk by 58 percent by healthful

your risk by 58 percent by healthful

your risk by 58 percent by healthful eating regular exercise and a modest

eating regular exercise and a modest

eating regular exercise and a modest weight loss now I’d like the first three

weight loss now I’d like the first three

weight loss now I’d like the first three rows or four rows to sit down please

rows or four rows to sit down please

rows or four rows to sit down please the bad news is is that only one out of

the bad news is is that only one out of

the bad news is is that only one out of ten people who are pre-diabetic or

ten people who are pre-diabetic or

ten people who are pre-diabetic or diabetic know it and that amounts to the

diabetic know it and that amounts to the

diabetic know it and that amounts to the percent of people who’ve just sat down

percent of people who’ve just sat down

percent of people who’ve just sat down in other words ninety percent of people

in other words ninety percent of people

in other words ninety percent of people who have pre-diabetes or diabetes in the

who have pre-diabetes or diabetes in the

who have pre-diabetes or diabetes in the United States today do not know they

United States today do not know they

United States today do not know they have it

have it

have it okay you can all sit down now please

this is not sustainable this is a

this is not sustainable this is a tsunami waiting to happen what if we

tsunami waiting to happen what if we

tsunami waiting to happen what if we stop looking at people with a list of

stop looking at people with a list of

stop looking at people with a list of diseases and we look at them with a list

diseases and we look at them with a list

diseases and we look at them with a list of attributes in other words instead of

of attributes in other words instead of

of attributes in other words instead of treating disease to improve health we

treating disease to improve health we

treating disease to improve health we improve health by promoting health by

improve health by promoting health by

improve health by promoting health by identifying our assets and our passions

identifying our assets and our passions

identifying our assets and our passions for cooking or hiking or running or

for cooking or hiking or running or

for cooking or hiking or running or socializing this is what is meant by

socializing this is what is meant by

socializing this is what is meant by holistic health promotion what if we

holistic health promotion what if we

holistic health promotion what if we embrace the 1948 World Health

embrace the 1948 World Health

embrace the 1948 World Health Organization’s definition of health

Organization’s definition of health

Organization’s definition of health which is the complete state of physical

which is the complete state of physical

which is the complete state of physical mental and social well-being not merely

mental and social well-being not merely

mental and social well-being not merely the absence of disease or infirmity now

the absence of disease or infirmity now

the absence of disease or infirmity now our greatest assets are people like all

our greatest assets are people like all

our greatest assets are people like all of us in this room and like our

of us in this room and like our

of us in this room and like our undergraduate Savannah Savannah was five

undergraduate Savannah Savannah was five

undergraduate Savannah Savannah was five years old on 9/11 when her New York City

years old on 9/11 when her New York City

years old on 9/11 when her New York City firefighter father lost most of his

firefighter father lost most of his

firefighter father lost most of his friends and his fireman family he not

friends and his fireman family he not

friends and his fireman family he not only lost his fellow firefighters on

only lost his fellow firefighters on

only lost his fellow firefighters on 9/11 he ultimately lost his relationship

9/11 he ultimately lost his relationship

9/11 he ultimately lost his relationship with Savannah’s mom Savannah and her

with Savannah’s mom Savannah and her

with Savannah’s mom Savannah and her mother ended up moving to California

mother ended up moving to California

mother ended up moving to California where Savannah’s courageous mom started

where Savannah’s courageous mom started

where Savannah’s courageous mom started a new life

a new life

a new life a new family but not without financial

a new family but not without financial

a new family but not without financial hardship Savannah followed her mom’s

hardship Savannah followed her mom’s

hardship Savannah followed her mom’s lead devoting herself to her family

lead devoting herself to her family

lead devoting herself to her family while she pursued her college dreams and

while she pursued her college dreams and

while she pursued her college dreams and as a freshman here at UCLA she would

as a freshman here at UCLA she would

as a freshman here at UCLA she would chip in and babysit her younger siblings

chip in and babysit her younger siblings

chip in and babysit her younger siblings so her mom could study for her Community

so her mom could study for her Community

so her mom could study for her Community College exams

College exams

College exams she also often found herself not being

she also often found herself not being

she also often found herself not being able to go out and socialize with her

able to go out and socialize with her

able to go out and socialize with her friends because she didn’t have the

friends because she didn’t have the

friends because she didn’t have the pocket money to pay for the food instead

pocket money to pay for the food instead

pocket money to pay for the food instead she would sit in her dorm room and eat

she would sit in her dorm room and eat

she would sit in her dorm room and eat cereal by herself

cereal by herself

cereal by herself now many people would have compared

now many people would have compared

now many people would have compared themselves to the students who could go

themselves to the students who could go

themselves to the students who could go out at a drop of a hat

out at a drop of a hat

out at a drop of a hat and while Savannah did MIT and doesn’t

and while Savannah did MIT and doesn’t

and while Savannah did MIT and doesn’t MIT to have feeling lonely when she sat

MIT to have feeling lonely when she sat

MIT to have feeling lonely when she sat there and ate her cereal in her dorm

there and ate her cereal in her dorm

there and ate her cereal in her dorm room she was also a brave student and

room she was also a brave student and

room she was also a brave student and she shared her feelings and her story

she shared her feelings and her story

she shared her feelings and her story about her food insecurity publicly and

about her food insecurity publicly and

about her food insecurity publicly and she identified her assets for advocacy

she identified her assets for advocacy

she identified her assets for advocacy and she found professors who got her

and she found professors who got her

and she found professors who got her excited about learning and she took this

excited about learning and she took this

excited about learning and she took this food justice course where she was

food justice course where she was

food justice course where she was introduced to a nonprofit called food

introduced to a nonprofit called food

introduced to a nonprofit called food for word that viewed food waste as an

for word that viewed food waste as an

for word that viewed food waste as an opportunity and then she applied her

opportunity and then she applied her

opportunity and then she applied her classroom knowledge to real life and she

classroom knowledge to real life and she

classroom knowledge to real life and she observed that the fruits and vegetables

observed that the fruits and vegetables

observed that the fruits and vegetables at food ford gleaned from the fruit

at food ford gleaned from the fruit

at food ford gleaned from the fruit trees from private backyards and farmers

trees from private backyards and farmers

trees from private backyards and farmers markets could be delivered to the

markets could be delivered to the

markets could be delivered to the students who were food insecure and she

students who were food insecure and she

students who were food insecure and she didn’t stop there she identified a

didn’t stop there she identified a

didn’t stop there she identified a student group called swipes for hunger

student group called swipes for hunger

student group called swipes for hunger that she’s belong to now for over a year

that she’s belong to now for over a year

that she’s belong to now for over a year and this group has delivered 250 pounds

and this group has delivered 250 pounds

and this group has delivered 250 pounds per week of fresh fruits and vegetables

per week of fresh fruits and vegetables

per week of fresh fruits and vegetables gleaned from the farmers markets to the

gleaned from the farmers markets to the

gleaned from the farmers markets to the students doorsteps that’s

students doorsteps that’s

students doorsteps that’s [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] now Savannah is amazing and I not only

now Savannah is amazing and I not only

now Savannah is amazing and I not only want to highlight how amazing she is but

want to highlight how amazing she is but

want to highlight how amazing she is but I also want to emphasize that she

I also want to emphasize that she

I also want to emphasize that she identified her strengths and assets and

identified her strengths and assets and

identified her strengths and assets and she didn’t dwell on her deficits and

she didn’t dwell on her deficits and

she didn’t dwell on her deficits and then she took her assets and she

then she took her assets and she

then she took her assets and she mobilized them and if you follow this

mobilized them and if you follow this

mobilized them and if you follow this path that Savannah did a Gallup Purdue

path that Savannah did a Gallup Purdue

path that Savannah did a Gallup Purdue study has found

study has found

study has found whether you’ve attended most highly

whether you’ve attended most highly

whether you’ve attended most highly ranked university like UCLA or not if

ranked university like UCLA or not if

ranked university like UCLA or not if you’re a graduate from four-year

you’re a graduate from four-year

you’re a graduate from four-year universities for your colleges you will

universities for your colleges you will

universities for your colleges you will rank the highest and five areas of

rank the highest and five areas of

rank the highest and five areas of well-being in your lifetime and those

well-being in your lifetime and those

well-being in your lifetime and those include social purpose financial

include social purpose financial

include social purpose financial community and physical social well being

community and physical social well being

community and physical social well being is having strong supportive

is having strong supportive

is having strong supportive relationships and love in your life

relationships and love in your life

relationships and love in your life purpose well-being is following your

purpose well-being is following your

purpose well-being is following your path of what you want and liking what

path of what you want and liking what

path of what you want and liking what you do and being motivated to meet your

you do and being motivated to meet your

you do and being motivated to meet your goals financial well-being is having

goals financial well-being is having

goals financial well-being is having effective being effective at managing

effective being effective at managing

effective being effective at managing your economic life so that you are

your economic life so that you are

your economic life so that you are secure and you’re not and you don’t have

secure and you’re not and you don’t have

secure and you’re not and you don’t have less stress and community well-being is

less stress and community well-being is

less stress and community well-being is being engaged and liking and feeling

being engaged and liking and feeling

being engaged and liking and feeling safe and feeling proud of where you live

safe and feeling proud of where you live

safe and feeling proud of where you live and physical well-being is having good

and physical well-being is having good

and physical well-being is having good health and enough energy to get your

health and enough energy to get your

health and enough energy to get your daily activities done and following this

daily activities done and following this

daily activities done and following this path of identifying assets and and

path of identifying assets and and

path of identifying assets and and mobilizing them we’ve seen this great

mobilizing them we’ve seen this great

mobilizing them we’ve seen this great work that Savannah’s done we’ve also see

work that Savannah’s done we’ve also see

work that Savannah’s done we’ve also see it in business and universities and also

it in business and universities and also

it in business and universities and also in elementary schools that they’re

in elementary schools that they’re

in elementary schools that they’re benefiting from this approach like the

benefiting from this approach like the

benefiting from this approach like the ugly fruit campaign that was launched in

ugly fruit campaign that was launched in

ugly fruit campaign that was launched in 2014 in France aimed to reduce the 300

2014 in France aimed to reduce the 300

2014 in France aimed to reduce the 300 million tons of fruits and vegetables

million tons of fruits and vegetables

million tons of fruits and vegetables that are thrown away annually around the

that are thrown away annually around the

that are thrown away annually around the world the largest supermarket chain in

world the largest supermarket chain in

world the largest supermarket chain in France identified that these discarded

France identified that these discarded

France identified that these discarded ugly fruit were a business opportunity

ugly fruit were a business opportunity

ugly fruit were a business opportunity and they

and they

and they discounted the price by 30% and they’re

discounted the price by 30% and they’re

discounted the price by 30% and they’re just flying off the shelves and so not

just flying off the shelves and so not

just flying off the shelves and so not only are the consumers pocketbooks

only are the consumers pocketbooks

only are the consumers pocketbooks winning but also ugly stress fruit have

winning but also ugly stress fruit have

winning but also ugly stress fruit have been proven actually to have higher

been proven actually to have higher

been proven actually to have higher nutrient value than their pristine

nutrient value than their pristine

nutrient value than their pristine counterparts so the eater wins and then

counterparts so the eater wins and then

counterparts so the eater wins and then the earth wins because we have less food

the earth wins because we have less food

the earth wins because we have less food waste or this there’s the let’s move

waste or this there’s the let’s move

waste or this there’s the let’s move salad bars to school campaign that

salad bars to school campaign that

salad bars to school campaign that former first lady Michelle Obama

former first lady Michelle Obama

former first lady Michelle Obama launched and was based on research that

launched and was based on research that

launched and was based on research that I did with my colleagues here in Los

I did with my colleagues here in Los

I did with my colleagues here in Los Angeles and I’ll never forget the Los

Angeles and I’ll never forget the Los

Angeles and I’ll never forget the Los Angeles consultant when I pitched the

Angeles consultant when I pitched the

Angeles consultant when I pitched the idea of the research project he told me

idea of the research project he told me

idea of the research project he told me Oh Wendy you’ll never get rid of the

Oh Wendy you’ll never get rid of the

Oh Wendy you’ll never get rid of the sloppy joes but the parents and the

sloppy joes but the parents and the

sloppy joes but the parents and the principals and the teachers and the

principals and the teachers and the

principals and the teachers and the advocates and the let’s move campaign

advocates and the let’s move campaign

advocates and the let’s move campaign and US researchers believed in the

and US researchers believed in the

and US researchers believed in the children’s assets and willingness to

children’s assets and willingness to

children’s assets and willingness to accept healthful food if it was

accept healthful food if it was

accept healthful food if it was presented in a delicious-looking way and

presented in a delicious-looking way and

presented in a delicious-looking way and it tasted delicious and now they’re two

it tasted delicious and now they’re two

it tasted delicious and now they’re two and a half million children around the

and a half million children around the

and a half million children around the country who have salad bars and that’s

country who have salad bars and that’s

country who have salad bars and that’s growing by the day

and here at UCLA through the Cemil

and here at UCLA through the Cemil healthy campus initiative we’re

healthy campus initiative we’re

healthy campus initiative we’re embracing and we’ve adopted the strategy

embracing and we’ve adopted the strategy

embracing and we’ve adopted the strategy of identifying strengths and assets and

of identifying strengths and assets and

of identifying strengths and assets and mobilizing them and we’re building a

mobilizing them and we’re building a

mobilizing them and we’re building a healthier community a culture of

healthier community a culture of

healthier community a culture of well-being success for life and so I’d

well-being success for life and so I’d

well-being success for life and so I’d like to end and return to the prune at

like to end and return to the prune at

like to end and return to the prune at my family’s Sonoma County farm where my

my family’s Sonoma County farm where my

my family’s Sonoma County farm where my dad who is a fourth generation farmer

dad who is a fourth generation farmer

dad who is a fourth generation farmer believes in building on your strengths

believes in building on your strengths

believes in building on your strengths and being a model for others which I

and being a model for others which I

and being a model for others which I aspire to and I want all of you to

aspire to and I want all of you to

aspire to and I want all of you to return back to your strengths that you

return back to your strengths that you

return back to your strengths that you identified at the beginning of my talk

identified at the beginning of my talk

identified at the beginning of my talk and I want you to think about how you

and I want you to think about how you

and I want you to think about how you can build on it how you can mobilize it

can build on it how you can mobilize it

can build on it how you can mobilize it how you can share it with others and see

how you can share it with others and see

how you can share it with others and see what happens

what happens

what happens and so I’d like to share with you one of

and so I’d like to share with you one of

and so I’d like to share with you one of my strengths which are my children and

my strengths which are my children and

my strengths which are my children and end with a haiku that my then

end with a haiku that my then

end with a haiku that my then third-grade son wrote and it’s fruit

third-grade son wrote and it’s fruit

third-grade son wrote and it’s fruit comes from flowers fruit is good to eat

comes from flowers fruit is good to eat

comes from flowers fruit is good to eat I love to eat fruit thank you so much

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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