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Prenez le risque de vous tromper ! | Michel Poulaert | TEDxValenciennes


[Music]

it happens to you from time to time

make bad choices actually in the

backstage before I came I saw this

carafe

I look in there is no water

but I see that in there was a

object I said to myself like I want it and

what do you know

so here I am I’m not too

how to do

well after we are all together on the 7th and

10 x it’s not mom who makes the top 6

month so I ‘ll get away

we’ll try like that you know

sometimes in life we ​​happen to

make choices that we regret

bitterly all our life that you

spoken

ok we are in front super and we

regularly maintain

rather complex relationships with our choices

yes do or not to eat or not

eat from or stay

survive or live maroilles pie or

quiche lorraine a hug or chocolate

the wolves of the beloved thigh or

hated

short

the choices is sometimes it’s important

that we can take time to

to make choices there are people who

you probably do not know them

you of course but people you

know who are waiting for their lives before

to take important paths because

that they need to master the

master the situation before

feeling that must gather all

the information needed to be

sure that the decision making goes the

lead to success and they

wait and again and we wait and then

sometimes you have to get started

and that ‘s called daring to

audacity audacity you know we

often confuses with courage we say

often pro line array of courage well

so let me just do a little

parenthesis the difference between

boldness and courage courage is

which allows us to give meaning to

dangers that is allowing us to

make sense of events

negatives of life to the things you

suffer yes because sometimes life does not

we do not gift

so ladies and gentlemen are

reassured the vine makes gift to

no one even to the most daring but

courage is this ability that

we have to be able to overcome these

things make sense to the unexpected and

when life sometimes does not smile at us

well, it’s the courage that allows us

to go to the end of the daring thing in

but that’s something else

daring is really going to fetch

shit

daring it’s a joy have chosen have

chose to go upwind have chosen

to take risks

we are going against all

conventions goes against all

the philosophies of all that we

know until then and we say we’re going

good after not no matter how good

heard because before you thought

that I make the apology for daring to

everything goes of course it’s important

to evaluate it’s important to

gather information

it’s clear it’s important too

visualize where we are going to make

scenarios

you know them these scenarios

knew what we could sell to

hollywood so much they are

catastrophic

indeed all in general one imagines

in the most scenarios

catastrophic and hollywood would

ready to buy you dearly this

scenario and you know what is

interesting is that most of the

time I never realized it

expects the worst

and very often we forget to expect

at the best the daring then starts

when you are bold

when making choices it is important

also to say that at some point

between two choices

what matters is to choose one

fit and it’s called power

from the resolution let me you

briefly explain

imagine that you are offered an apple and

which side you have a basket of

apples the same apple they are

all green and well the difference

will be next if you take a

apple that you have chosen or that you

you offer one you will have the

feeling that the apple you have

chosen will be the best because you

chose him then went to tokyo or

years in new york

we are tortured to find out where it is

we came on vacation the year

next we do not know too much and then

the weeks pass the days go by

the months pass and we still do not know

until we took a

resolution

I’m going to Tokyo and you know what

is magic is that from the moment

where you made the decision to

go to tokyo you are in the

ability to imagine you on vacation

that’s where the brain is able to

allow you to imagine your holidays

you can plan something

so of course it’s not always

as simple

of course

what I’m telling you is it’s just

simplify a principle that may well

heard to be complex so sometimes we

make choices in advance and we go

account that it does not work then we

uses what is called the

perseverance ah yes because we do not

not succeed all the first time

it would still be there then in

revenge yes there I managed the first

stroke

I put my hand on the first blow

perseverance and you know to

from the moment perseverance

becomes painful good at bottom it’s

not that bad because we had

athletes today we have people

which has increased you wonderful

success stories and of course

often the reward becomes after a

little bit any france anyway

little bit but after when this

suffering becomes really too strong

when we start losing friends

when we start indeed to lose

everything we had around us

and that it hurts us to the point

to lose even the reason it’s called

the stubbornness

she is there the difference between the

perseverance and stubbornness if the

cause is good is perseverance

if the cause is bad it is

the stubbornness

so when we have to act

we make a choice and that we must

to act

we must also be aware of

some things but if you

explain for twelve years I lived

in the Netherlands nobody is perfect us

in the Netherlands, its brand

it marks for life I made my life

there and in the Netherlands you have the

zealand to this super the North Sea and

a lot of people have misled and I got

the opportunity to sail for

a first time

and you know when you’re doing

sailing for a first time ago

always an instructor who comes to you

explain what to do

except that he had also forgotten

to explain what not to do

I explain myself I am a good student

the skipper explains me a given moment

michel you take the bar you go the

bar and one at all right there is the

fight right in front of you I’m the

compass nothing else to do cool

awesome we are to many on the

boat so imagine a little time

is beautiful it’s hot

the sea is oil the wind is favorable

we left for a wonderful

day on the North Sea

except that of course it would have been

Too beautiful if it could go like

until the end suddenly the wind turns

this is what happens on a sailboat

convent tour as you hold the helm

just hold the bar of people who

are sailing know what it is

to take roll is that at a

given moment the boat sign to

to roll more and more

louder me I’m at the helm I

understand nothing I do everything I am

asked for a I’m cap

the skipper coming out of the cabin he’s me

grows a big

he takes the helm he starts shouting

to all the crew

we must change the position sails

yes we did not know and so indeed everything

the world is very interested in

change the position sails for

change the angle of his sails and the

boat has gradually recovered

we were able to continue racing

so of course we deviated

game not very serious

we deviated but we were that

heats imagine back to swim

in the North Sea was rather blah

not won what’s interesting in

this story is that life had me

offered a wonderful metaphor you

know the expression be captain

of the ship is captain of his own life

I did not understand that

it’s just that we can

indeed sometimes wasting time

to question the elements posed

questions that we will never have

no answer

but why the wind turn it was going

so good

but why the current have changed

it was perfect I do not understand it

was really under the road there is everything

moved then these questions we get

poses sometimes you know I recognize

look at why me yeah we’re in phase

or what did I do to heaven

to deserve that as if in fact the

life where we deserved or not huh

so why do you leave me

explain one thing you will never have

the answer

good it’s already nice I offer you these

gifts do not ask you any more questions

you will never have the answer because

that it’s not fair why you

it’s everybody okay we’re all

at the same sign

we are all equal at this level

why me it’s you just not the

good question

do you just ask the questions that are going

enable you to act that allow you

to change the sails position then

I have to take a decision

I can do many things I can

take several decisions I can

come in there and ask you

to help me but I’m afraid of hurting

yes because will it fear of pain

so that’s what we want

also control that we are afraid to take

decisions are we are afraid

to have trouble

yes, we are not masochistic when

even we do not like to fail

finally not all we do not like to have pain

games

stung something in south america

and in India

he’s hunters who captures the

wise using traps made of nuts

coconut with a small opening and

give another that they put a

fruit or a firm treats lesage

approach but the hand in takes the

sweet treat and will never let her go to a

point only when the hunter comes but

will rather die than let go

the chip reese the chip reese what is it

that it might mean we hear

so much talk letting go and well

it’s very simple it happened to

say you do not buy anymore

of importance to something that you

touch

it means that the thing that you

touch right now no longer

important

look how is the mother doing

hold this object that I saw is for

that he can no longer get out

you have heard now since

I let go I can take

hindsight I can see it and I can

observe things from other angles

and tell me that there may be others

possibilities to get to take this

that I always dreamed wanted to take in

two cards 3g the hand my goal is

to apprehend her differently she

to say ah but yes you know what

it’s important what makes that

children learn faster than

we ladies and gentlemen because they

are children so my expression

wrong answer

simply because they do not know

not that it’s impossible because a

child is not yet formatted by you

can not it’s not possible you’re not

not able

you will not succeed because a child

believe it’s possible

when a child dreams and thinks that his

dream can come true

ladies and gentlemen, what about to

the child who is in you I saw

many young people here in the room that

warm to the heart and dear young people

young ladies young men do not kill

not the child who is in you continue

to keep this child because it’s him

which will allow you to demonstrate

boldness in life by daring

crazy because of course when I

explained it we must gather together

elements that allow us to know

if what we are going to do

will rather be lucky to

succeed or not the luck ah yes you

know it’s daring them annoys

it annoys us it’s daring yes

because they are more likely than

others they make better encounters

that others they travel they have

best results that are optimistic

and when he fails the tests he

start again end it annoys on all that

never got anything and I’m going to what

happens when lee mobilis you see a

daring plant their beds mobilized the

direccte do it

I knew daring it’s dangerous or

so he said yeah that I was sure

I could say it all he did

there use it for nothing and then returns

see his favorite series

in general immobilizes them know well

point the daring with the finger and then

after the critics and when they have

success ladies and gentlemen you are

all here present and all those who

watch in rebroadcast the heroes of

your own life

because all at one point in your life

you have shown and courage and

boldness

because if you ‘re here today

as you are you is the fruit of this

that you have lived you is the fruit of

your choices

even the bad ones because being

bold is also taking the risk

of course to fail and it’s also

the risk of succeeding and then I want

to say to conclude whether the substance of the

checks

it was by giving up or not

try

I thank

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