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Why are millennials so stressed? Is it Quarter Life Crisis? | Allison Osborn | TEDxOxbridge


imagine this recently I was on a

imagine this recently I was on a coaching call with a client who alcohol

coaching call with a client who alcohol

coaching call with a client who alcohol Shannon Shannon jumps on the line and

Shannon Shannon jumps on the line and

Shannon Shannon jumps on the line and says to me else the strangest thing just

says to me else the strangest thing just

says to me else the strangest thing just happened

happened

happened I was grocery shopping and all of a

I was grocery shopping and all of a

I was grocery shopping and all of a sudden I found myself totally frozen in

sudden I found myself totally frozen in

sudden I found myself totally frozen in the middle of the cereal aisle so I’m on

the middle of the cereal aisle so I’m on

the middle of the cereal aisle so I’m on the other end of the line wondering if

the other end of the line wondering if

the other end of the line wondering if this is perhaps going to be the first

this is perhaps going to be the first

this is perhaps going to be the first time in history that a coach has worked

time in history that a coach has worked

time in history that a coach has worked with a client through a cereal crisis

with a client through a cereal crisis

with a client through a cereal crisis but what I realized in that moment she

but what I realized in that moment she

but what I realized in that moment she continued is that the feeling I was

continued is that the feeling I was

continued is that the feeling I was having in the middle of that aisle is

having in the middle of that aisle is

having in the middle of that aisle is the same feeling I’m having about my

the same feeling I’m having about my

the same feeling I’m having about my career I so know this feeling that

career I so know this feeling that

career I so know this feeling that Shannon was talking about maybe you do

Shannon was talking about maybe you do

Shannon was talking about maybe you do too most of us in the millennial

too most of us in the millennial

too most of us in the millennial generation do for those of us who have

generation do for those of us who have

generation do for those of us who have been raised in the internet and digital

been raised in the internet and digital

been raised in the internet and digital technology era we have more choices

technology era we have more choices

technology era we have more choices available to us than any generation

available to us than any generation

available to us than any generation prior especially when it comes to how we

prior especially when it comes to how we

prior especially when it comes to how we choose to do our work for it the age of

choose to do our work for it the age of

choose to do our work for it the age of information is starting to give way to

information is starting to give way to

information is starting to give way to the age of choices now on one hand this

the age of choices now on one hand this

the age of choices now on one hand this is great we have a lot of choices but on

is great we have a lot of choices but on

is great we have a lot of choices but on the other hand we have so many choices

the other hand we have so many choices

the other hand we have so many choices do I want to get a nine-to-five and

do I want to get a nine-to-five and

do I want to get a nine-to-five and we’re going to startup do I want to

we’re going to startup do I want to

we’re going to startup do I want to start my own business do I want to

start my own business do I want to

start my own business do I want to freelance

freelance

freelance do I want to work remotely or in an

do I want to work remotely or in an

do I want to work remotely or in an office do i prioritize money or

office do i prioritize money or

office do i prioritize money or fulfillment security or flexibility my

fulfillment security or flexibility my

fulfillment security or flexibility my lifestyle or my career path and these

lifestyle or my career path and these

lifestyle or my career path and these questions are incredibly important to us

questions are incredibly important to us

questions are incredibly important to us because the quest for meaningful work is

because the quest for meaningful work is

because the quest for meaningful work is a hallmark of who we are as a generation

a hallmark of who we are as a generation

a hallmark of who we are as a generation many of us are going through the same

many of us are going through the same

many of us are going through the same thing and it’s what I’m calling a

thing and it’s what I’m calling a

thing and it’s what I’m calling a quarter life crisis now if you’ve had

quarter life crisis now if you’ve had

quarter life crisis now if you’ve had one I know you already know what I’m

one I know you already know what I’m

one I know you already know what I’m talking about but for the rest of you my

talking about but for the rest of you my

talking about but for the rest of you my definition of a quarter life crisis is

definition of a quarter life crisis is

definition of a quarter life crisis is this it’s

this it’s

this it’s personal identity crisis typically

personal identity crisis typically

personal identity crisis typically experienced in one’s 20s or 30s

experienced in one’s 20s or 30s

experienced in one’s 20s or 30s involving profound angst and anxiety

involving profound angst and anxiety

involving profound angst and anxiety about the direction of one’s life and

about the direction of one’s life and

about the direction of one’s life and what next steps to take particularly as

what next steps to take particularly as

what next steps to take particularly as it relates to finding meaningful work

it relates to finding meaningful work

it relates to finding meaningful work this often occurs during the transition

this often occurs during the transition

this often occurs during the transition from the academic world to the real

from the academic world to the real

from the academic world to the real world

world

world when the once clear-cut path suddenly

when the once clear-cut path suddenly

when the once clear-cut path suddenly drops off but can also happen a bit

drops off but can also happen a bit

drops off but can also happen a bit further down the line when one realizes

further down the line when one realizes

further down the line when one realizes that they’ve checked all the boxes of

that they’ve checked all the boxes of

that they’ve checked all the boxes of what it means to be a responsible adult

what it means to be a responsible adult

what it means to be a responsible adult but they’re still largely unfulfilled in

but they’re still largely unfulfilled in

but they’re still largely unfulfilled in some ways the quarter life crisis is

some ways the quarter life crisis is

some ways the quarter life crisis is similar to another life crisis you might

similar to another life crisis you might

similar to another life crisis you might be more familiar with the midlife crisis

be more familiar with the midlife crisis

be more familiar with the midlife crisis we all know those stories right where

we all know those stories right where

we all know those stories right where the guy who’s been working at the same

the guy who’s been working at the same

the guy who’s been working at the same company for 40 years just up and quits

company for 40 years just up and quits

company for 40 years just up and quits one day and blows his life savings on a

one day and blows his life savings on a

one day and blows his life savings on a bright red Maserati the difference is

bright red Maserati the difference is

bright red Maserati the difference is that where the midlife crisis is

that where the midlife crisis is

that where the midlife crisis is typically in response to an oppressive

typically in response to an oppressive

typically in response to an oppressive feeling of predictability the quarter

feeling of predictability the quarter

feeling of predictability the quarter life crisis stems from a deeply

life crisis stems from a deeply

life crisis stems from a deeply disorienting sense of unpredictability

disorienting sense of unpredictability

disorienting sense of unpredictability and now much of an entire generation is

and now much of an entire generation is

and now much of an entire generation is stuck and emotionally shutting down in

stuck and emotionally shutting down in

stuck and emotionally shutting down in the face of overwhelming analysis

the face of overwhelming analysis

the face of overwhelming analysis paralysis now this is a huge problem not

paralysis now this is a huge problem not

paralysis now this is a huge problem not just for the person suffering but for

just for the person suffering but for

just for the person suffering but for the world at large today

the world at large today

the world at large today 71 percent of Millennials are described

71 percent of Millennials are described

71 percent of Millennials are described as being disengaged at work that’s

as being disengaged at work that’s

as being disengaged at work that’s almost 3 out of 4 and it makes us the

almost 3 out of 4 and it makes us the

almost 3 out of 4 and it makes us the least engage generation in the workforce

least engage generation in the workforce

least engage generation in the workforce today despite the fact that this is

today despite the fact that this is

today despite the fact that this is something we care so much about and the

something we care so much about and the

something we care so much about and the big problems of today’s world are simply

big problems of today’s world are simply

big problems of today’s world are simply not going to be solved by a disengaged

not going to be solved by a disengaged

not going to be solved by a disengaged apathetic workforce and this trend isn’t

apathetic workforce and this trend isn’t

apathetic workforce and this trend isn’t going away if anything it could get

going away if anything it could get

going away if anything it could get worse by 2025 seventy five percent of

worse by 2025 seventy five percent of

worse by 2025 seventy five percent of all employees are going to be made up of

all employees are going to be made up of

all employees are going to be made up of Millennials and this epidemic which has

Millennials and this epidemic which has

Millennials and this epidemic which has been largely isolated to the developed

been largely isolated to the developed

been largely isolated to the developed world is going to spread globally as the

world is going to spread globally as the

world is going to spread globally as the internet and digital technologies

internet and digital technologies

internet and digital technologies continue to do so as well

continue to do so as well

continue to do so as well now I’m guessing that at this point some

now I’m guessing that at this point some

now I’m guessing that at this point some of you might be thinking something along

of you might be thinking something along

of you might be thinking something along the lines of please

the lines of please

the lines of please Millennials are just lazy entitled

Millennials are just lazy entitled

Millennials are just lazy entitled self-indulgent phone addicts they want

self-indulgent phone addicts they want

self-indulgent phone addicts they want the world handed to them on a silver

the world handed to them on a silver

the world handed to them on a silver platter without doing anything to earn

platter without doing anything to earn

platter without doing anything to earn it

it

it I’m not going to argue that that story

I’m not going to argue that that story

I’m not going to argue that that story isn’t true for some it is but that

isn’t true for some it is but that

isn’t true for some it is but that doesn’t change the fact that the

doesn’t change the fact that the

doesn’t change the fact that the landscape of the working world has

landscape of the working world has

landscape of the working world has changed dramatically but that the tools

changed dramatically but that the tools

changed dramatically but that the tools and resources we give young people to

and resources we give young people to

and resources we give young people to navigate that world have not I know this

navigate that world have not I know this

navigate that world have not I know this to be true and I know it because I lived

to be true and I know it because I lived

to be true and I know it because I lived it when I was graduating from high

it when I was graduating from high

it when I was graduating from high school I was a young girl with as your

school I was a young girl with as your

school I was a young girl with as your grandmother might say a pride future in

grandmother might say a pride future in

grandmother might say a pride future in front of me

front of me

front of me you know the type I was captain my

you know the type I was captain my

you know the type I was captain my sports teams got straight A’s in school

sports teams got straight A’s in school

sports teams got straight A’s in school was enrolled at a prestigious university

was enrolled at a prestigious university

was enrolled at a prestigious university and so on

and so on

and so on I had a clear path and I knew exactly

I had a clear path and I knew exactly

I had a clear path and I knew exactly what I wanted to do with my life which

what I wanted to do with my life which

what I wanted to do with my life which by the way was to become a clinical

by the way was to become a clinical

by the way was to become a clinical psychologist like both my parents but

psychologist like both my parents but

psychologist like both my parents but I’ll save the talk and what it’s like to

I’ll save the talk and what it’s like to

I’ll save the talk and what it’s like to grow up into therapists for another time

but when I was midway through university

but when I was midway through university everything changed a series of knee

everything changed a series of knee

everything changed a series of knee injuries ended my athletic career and

injuries ended my athletic career and

injuries ended my athletic career and prompted a major identity and

prompted a major identity and

prompted a major identity and existential crisis much of what I

existential crisis much of what I

existential crisis much of what I thought I knew about who I was and what

thought I knew about who I was and what

thought I knew about who I was and what I wanted was gone that path vanished

I wanted was gone that path vanished

I wanted was gone that path vanished for if I wasn’t an athlete showing up to

for if I wasn’t an athlete showing up to

for if I wasn’t an athlete showing up to training every day who was I this was

training every day who was I this was

training every day who was I this was the beginning of my quarter life crisis

the beginning of my quarter life crisis

the beginning of my quarter life crisis which honestly lasted for the better

which honestly lasted for the better

which honestly lasted for the better part of the next decade and I spent a

part of the next decade and I spent a

part of the next decade and I spent a lot of that time working in jobs that

lot of that time working in jobs that

lot of that time working in jobs that weren’t right for me living with my

weren’t right for me living with my

weren’t right for me living with my parents and feeling downright tortured

parents and feeling downright tortured

parents and feeling downright tortured at having either no idea or millions of

at having either no idea or millions of

at having either no idea or millions of ideas of what I wanted to do with my

ideas of what I wanted to do with my

ideas of what I wanted to do with my life but now 13

life but now 13

life but now 13 years later things are different I’m

years later things are different I’m

years later things are different I’m coaching entrepreneurs and other 20 and

coaching entrepreneurs and other 20 and

coaching entrepreneurs and other 20 and 30-somethings going through their own

30-somethings going through their own

30-somethings going through their own quarter life crisis which I find deeply

quarter life crisis which I find deeply

quarter life crisis which I find deeply fulfilling I’m engaged to the love of my

fulfilling I’m engaged to the love of my

fulfilling I’m engaged to the love of my life and I have the ability to travel

life and I have the ability to travel

life and I have the ability to travel the world and work from wherever and

the world and work from wherever and

the world and work from wherever and whenever I want to so what’s the secret

whenever I want to so what’s the secret

whenever I want to so what’s the secret sauce in retrospect I can see that there

sauce in retrospect I can see that there

sauce in retrospect I can see that there are three key lessons I learned that

are three key lessons I learned that

are three key lessons I learned that once I started applying them to my daily

once I started applying them to my daily

once I started applying them to my daily life things really started to change the

life things really started to change the

life things really started to change the first is that I got really clear on what

first is that I got really clear on what

first is that I got really clear on what matters to me most in my life and in my

matters to me most in my life and in my

matters to me most in my life and in my work now I mentioned earlier that

work now I mentioned earlier that

work now I mentioned earlier that usually the crux of a quarter life

usually the crux of a quarter life

usually the crux of a quarter life crisis is about finding meaningful work

crisis is about finding meaningful work

crisis is about finding meaningful work but what does meaningful work even mean

but what does meaningful work even mean

but what does meaningful work even mean I believe meaningful work is entirely

I believe meaningful work is entirely

I believe meaningful work is entirely personal what is meaningful to me is

personal what is meaningful to me is

personal what is meaningful to me is different than from you and from the

different than from you and from the

different than from you and from the person sitting next to you

person sitting next to you

person sitting next to you meaningful work is about alignment and

meaningful work is about alignment and

meaningful work is about alignment and it’s about fit and it changes over time

it’s about fit and it changes over time

it’s about fit and it changes over time as your life and priorities do this

as your life and priorities do this

as your life and priorities do this concept in itself is not new I imagine

concept in itself is not new I imagine

concept in itself is not new I imagine you’ve already heard about the

you’ve already heard about the

you’ve already heard about the importance of knowing and living by your

importance of knowing and living by your

importance of knowing and living by your values but there’s a problem in the way

values but there’s a problem in the way

values but there’s a problem in the way this concept is currently taught which

this concept is currently taught which

this concept is currently taught which is that it does not account for the fact

is that it does not account for the fact

is that it does not account for the fact that your most valuable and only

that your most valuable and only

that your most valuable and only non-renewable resources which are your

non-renewable resources which are your

non-renewable resources which are your time and your energy are limited

time and your energy are limited

time and your energy are limited remember Shannon in one exercise in our

remember Shannon in one exercise in our

remember Shannon in one exercise in our work together I asked Shannon to tell me

work together I asked Shannon to tell me

work together I asked Shannon to tell me about what matters most to her in her

about what matters most to her in her

about what matters most to her in her life like many of us she cited the

life like many of us she cited the

life like many of us she cited the importance of spending time with friends

importance of spending time with friends

importance of spending time with friends and family finding a life partner

and family finding a life partner

and family finding a life partner tending to her health and wellness

tending to her health and wellness

tending to her health and wellness having fun and exciting experiences her

having fun and exciting experiences her

having fun and exciting experiences her own personal growth and of course doing

own personal growth and of course doing

own personal growth and of course doing work she loves which all sounds great

work she loves which all sounds great

work she loves which all sounds great but here’s the problem with that

but here’s the problem with that

but here’s the problem with that when I asked Shannon how much time she

when I asked Shannon how much time she

when I asked Shannon how much time she thought she would need in an average

thought she would need in an average

thought she would need in an average week to do all that and sleep she came

week to do all that and sleep she came

week to do all that and sleep she came up with around 245 hours so for those of

up with around 245 hours so for those of

up with around 245 hours so for those of you who like me don’t do calculations in

you who like me don’t do calculations in

you who like me don’t do calculations in your head that easily

your head that easily

your head that easily let me help there are only 168 hours in

let me help there are only 168 hours in

let me help there are only 168 hours in a week obviously this was not going to

a week obviously this was not going to

a week obviously this was not going to work so what I learned is that this

work so what I learned is that this

work so what I learned is that this process needs to account for the fact

process needs to account for the fact

process needs to account for the fact that there are only 24 hours in a day no

that there are only 24 hours in a day no

that there are only 24 hours in a day no matter how you slice and dice it and the

matter how you slice and dice it and the

matter how you slice and dice it and the process I came up with to capture this

process I came up with to capture this

process I came up with to capture this is what I call your personal priority

is what I call your personal priority

is what I call your personal priority pie here’s how it works

pie here’s how it works

pie here’s how it works imagine you have a pie baked pie small

imagine you have a pie baked pie small

imagine you have a pie baked pie small pie doesn’t matter this pie represents

pie doesn’t matter this pie represents

pie doesn’t matter this pie represents your limited amount of time and energy

your limited amount of time and energy

your limited amount of time and energy your job is to decide how big of a slice

your job is to decide how big of a slice

your job is to decide how big of a slice of that pie do you want to give to the

of that pie do you want to give to the

of that pie do you want to give to the key areas of your life that Shannon

key areas of your life that Shannon

key areas of your life that Shannon mentioned this is not intending to

mentioned this is not intending to

mentioned this is not intending to reflect that these areas of your life

reflect that these areas of your life

reflect that these areas of your life happen in a vacuum they obviously don’t

happen in a vacuum they obviously don’t

happen in a vacuum they obviously don’t rather it’s intended to be a tool to

rather it’s intended to be a tool to

rather it’s intended to be a tool to clarify for you how much weight you’re

clarify for you how much weight you’re

clarify for you how much weight you’re giving to each category and consequently

giving to each category and consequently

giving to each category and consequently what trade-offs you are and are not

what trade-offs you are and are not

what trade-offs you are and are not willing to make because in making

willing to make because in making

willing to make because in making choices there are always trade-offs the

choices there are always trade-offs the

choices there are always trade-offs the same process then applies to finding

same process then applies to finding

same process then applies to finding work so once you know the size slice of

work so once you know the size slice of

work so once you know the size slice of the work piece of your pie what matters

the work piece of your pie what matters

the work piece of your pie what matters most you in how you do your work I

most you in how you do your work I

most you in how you do your work I believe that fundamentally there are

believe that fundamentally there are

believe that fundamentally there are four key things we all look for in a

four key things we all look for in a

four key things we all look for in a fulfilling career money and power

fulfilling career money and power

fulfilling career money and power happiness and fulfillment learning and

happiness and fulfillment learning and

happiness and fulfillment learning and growth and making a difference or

growth and making a difference or

growth and making a difference or leaving a legacy so if you have an

leaving a legacy so if you have an

leaving a legacy so if you have an entire pie just for work how big of a

entire pie just for work how big of a

entire pie just for work how big of a slice do you want to give to each of

slice do you want to give to each of

slice do you want to give to each of those four categories this is what I

those four categories this is what I

those four categories this is what I call your professional priority pie

call your professional priority pie

call your professional priority pie again this is not intending to reflect

again this is not intending to reflect

again this is not intending to reflect that you can’t have all four elements in

that you can’t have all four elements in

that you can’t have all four elements in your career I believe you can but you

your career I believe you can but you

your career I believe you can but you need to be aware that in prioritizing

need to be aware that in prioritizing

need to be aware that in prioritizing something you may need to sacrifice

something you may need to sacrifice

something you may need to sacrifice something else so for example let’s say

something else so for example let’s say

something else so for example let’s say making money is what matters to you most

making money is what matters to you most

making money is what matters to you most in your career

in your career

in your career great but maybe you’re not going to be

great but maybe you’re not going to be

great but maybe you’re not going to be able to have the flexibility or the time

able to have the flexibility or the time

able to have the flexibility or the time off you might want

off you might want

off you might want maybe what matters most you is making a

maybe what matters most you is making a

maybe what matters most you is making a difference awesome but maybe you’re not

difference awesome but maybe you’re not

difference awesome but maybe you’re not going to be able to make as much money

going to be able to make as much money

going to be able to make as much money knowing your personal and professional

knowing your personal and professional

knowing your personal and professional priority pies is the first step to

priority pies is the first step to

priority pies is the first step to finding meaningful work for you because

finding meaningful work for you because

finding meaningful work for you because again meaningful work is all about being

again meaningful work is all about being

again meaningful work is all about being aware of your priorities and the extent

aware of your priorities and the extent

aware of your priorities and the extent to which they are congruent with your

to which they are congruent with your

to which they are congruent with your present and future actions but there’s

present and future actions but there’s

present and future actions but there’s one other thing I want to add in here

one other thing I want to add in here

one other thing I want to add in here about my definition of meaningful work

about my definition of meaningful work

about my definition of meaningful work meaningful work needs to be able to pay

meaningful work needs to be able to pay

meaningful work needs to be able to pay the bills so how much money do you need

the bills so how much money do you need

the bills so how much money do you need to run your life and why does it matter

to run your life and why does it matter

to run your life and why does it matter that you know it matters because it’s

that you know it matters because it’s

that you know it matters because it’s basically impossible to hit a target you

basically impossible to hit a target you

basically impossible to hit a target you can’t see and the truth is for the vast

can’t see and the truth is for the vast

can’t see and the truth is for the vast majority of us it does take money to run

majority of us it does take money to run

majority of us it does take money to run your life most of us tend to be grossly

your life most of us tend to be grossly

your life most of us tend to be grossly off the mark with the answer to this

off the mark with the answer to this

off the mark with the answer to this question in one of two ways either you

question in one of two ways either you

question in one of two ways either you think you need to make a lot more money

think you need to make a lot more money

think you need to make a lot more money than you actually do which can enslave

than you actually do which can enslave

than you actually do which can enslave you to a life of chasing more and more

you to a life of chasing more and more

you to a life of chasing more and more and more and more money usually at the

and more and more money usually at the

and more and more money usually at the expense of what you actually value most

expense of what you actually value most

expense of what you actually value most or you underestimate how much money you

or you underestimate how much money you

or you underestimate how much money you need to earn as I did in the name of I

need to earn as I did in the name of I

need to earn as I did in the name of I just need enough to get by which has you

just need enough to get by which has you

just need enough to get by which has you compromising on things you really want

compromising on things you really want

compromising on things you really want because you can’t afford it oddly enough

because you can’t afford it oddly enough

because you can’t afford it oddly enough this is something that most of us in the

this is something that most of us in the

this is something that most of us in the millennial generation haven’t really

millennial generation haven’t really

millennial generation haven’t really been taught and don’t really think that

been taught and don’t really think that

been taught and don’t really think that much about I don’t know about you but I

much about I don’t know about you but I

much about I don’t know about you but I graduated from University never having

graduated from University never having

graduated from University never having done a budget and as trends towards

done a budget and as trends towards

done a budget and as trends towards self-employment and project-based work

self-employment and project-based work

self-employment and project-based work continue to grow it’s going to be more

continue to grow it’s going to be more

continue to grow it’s going to be more important than ever that you have this

important than ever that you have this

important than ever that you have this information available to yourself in the

information available to yourself in the

information available to yourself in the form of a specific exact concrete number

form of a specific exact concrete number

form of a specific exact concrete number your first step then if you haven’t

your first step then if you haven’t

your first step then if you haven’t already is to hit that number once you

already is to hit that number once you

already is to hit that number once you have you have another choice do you want

have you have another choice do you want

have you have another choice do you want to pursue making more money or do you

to pursue making more money or do you

to pursue making more money or do you want to start freeing up your

want to start freeing up your

want to start freeing up your time so that’s lesson two and lesson

time so that’s lesson two and lesson

time so that’s lesson two and lesson three is simple though perhaps not easy

three is simple though perhaps not easy

three is simple though perhaps not easy it’s just to get started I had no idea

it’s just to get started I had no idea

it’s just to get started I had no idea when I left my job in 2013 to start my

when I left my job in 2013 to start my

when I left my job in 2013 to start my own business that my next step would be

own business that my next step would be

own business that my next step would be coaching attorneys but that only

coaching attorneys but that only

coaching attorneys but that only happened because I was in motion and

happened because I was in motion and

happened because I was in motion and when I was I met my mentor

when I was I met my mentor

when I was I met my mentor Alexis Neely who taught me much of what

Alexis Neely who taught me much of what

Alexis Neely who taught me much of what I know today about the craft of coaching

I know today about the craft of coaching

I know today about the craft of coaching how to run and build an online business

how to run and build an online business

how to run and build an online business and gave me an example of living an

and gave me an example of living an

and gave me an example of living an unconventional life that I had sensed

unconventional life that I had sensed

unconventional life that I had sensed might be possible but had never really

might be possible but had never really

might be possible but had never really seen before in retrospect I regret some

seen before in retrospect I regret some

seen before in retrospect I regret some of the choices I made in my 20s I regret

of the choices I made in my 20s I regret

of the choices I made in my 20s I regret those years where I wasn’t investing in

those years where I wasn’t investing in

those years where I wasn’t investing in myself and pursuing professional

myself and pursuing professional

myself and pursuing professional opportunities with a sense of purpose

opportunities with a sense of purpose

opportunities with a sense of purpose you don’t need to know what your life’s

you don’t need to know what your life’s

you don’t need to know what your life’s calling is in fact many of the most

calling is in fact many of the most

calling is in fact many of the most successful people in the world today had

successful people in the world today had

successful people in the world today had no idea what they wanted to do when they

no idea what they wanted to do when they

no idea what they wanted to do when they were younger for example when she was 23

were younger for example when she was 23

were younger for example when she was 23 Oprah was fired from her first reporting

Oprah was fired from her first reporting

Oprah was fired from her first reporting job Vango didn’t pick up a paintbrush

job Vango didn’t pick up a paintbrush

job Vango didn’t pick up a paintbrush until he was 27 even louise hay who

until he was 27 even louise hay who

until he was 27 even louise hay who launched the massively successful

launched the massively successful

launched the massively successful publishing company Hay House didn’t do

publishing company Hay House didn’t do

publishing company Hay House didn’t do so until she was 62 you don’t need to

so until she was 62 you don’t need to

so until she was 62 you don’t need to know the answers but you do need to do

know the answers but you do need to do

know the answers but you do need to do is to start pursuing them with clear

is to start pursuing them with clear

is to start pursuing them with clear intention so take action explore do

intention so take action explore do

intention so take action explore do something that adds value to who you are

something that adds value to who you are

something that adds value to who you are and what you have to offer we all know

and what you have to offer we all know

and what you have to offer we all know that a basic economic principle is that

that a basic economic principle is that

that a basic economic principle is that capital begets more capital the same is

capital begets more capital the same is

capital begets more capital the same is true for your own personal capital so

true for your own personal capital so

true for your own personal capital so don’t just kill time waiting that’s

don’t just kill time waiting that’s

don’t just kill time waiting that’s procrastination not exploration and be

procrastination not exploration and be

procrastination not exploration and be patient

patient

patient finding your life’s work is a life’s

finding your life’s work is a life’s

finding your life’s work is a life’s work in itself and

work in itself and

work in itself and you’re a generation that has been

you’re a generation that has been

you’re a generation that has been trained to expect instant gratification

trained to expect instant gratification

trained to expect instant gratification but the truth is job satisfaction

but the truth is job satisfaction

but the truth is job satisfaction doesn’t work like that it’s a slow often

doesn’t work like that it’s a slow often

doesn’t work like that it’s a slow often meandering process so in closing I would

meandering process so in closing I would

meandering process so in closing I would like to leave you with this thought the

like to leave you with this thought the

like to leave you with this thought the Chinese character for crisis consists of

Chinese character for crisis consists of

Chinese character for crisis consists of two parts danger and opportunity I’ve

two parts danger and opportunity I’ve

two parts danger and opportunity I’ve already spoken some to the dangers and

already spoken some to the dangers and

already spoken some to the dangers and to that end I strongly believe we need

to that end I strongly believe we need

to that end I strongly believe we need to start bringing this conversation out

to start bringing this conversation out

to start bringing this conversation out into the light of day to be giving young

into the light of day to be giving young

into the light of day to be giving young people and the organizations that hire

people and the organizations that hire

people and the organizations that hire them the tools they need to fully

them the tools they need to fully

them the tools they need to fully leverage our human resources to solve

leverage our human resources to solve

leverage our human resources to solve the big problems of today’s world but

the big problems of today’s world but

the big problems of today’s world but there’s also a huge opportunity in this

there’s also a huge opportunity in this

there’s also a huge opportunity in this crisis transitions are inherently a time

crisis transitions are inherently a time

crisis transitions are inherently a time to ask yourself the big important

to ask yourself the big important

to ask yourself the big important questions about what makes you come

questions about what makes you come

questions about what makes you come alive because what the world needs most

alive because what the world needs most

alive because what the world needs most is people who have come alive finding

is people who have come alive finding

is people who have come alive finding meaningful work often requires asking

meaningful work often requires asking

meaningful work often requires asking many personal questions before it

many personal questions before it

many personal questions before it rewards any answers it’s not always fun

rewards any answers it’s not always fun

rewards any answers it’s not always fun and it’s not always easy but I promise

and it’s not always easy but I promise

and it’s not always easy but I promise the juice is worth the squeeze

the juice is worth the squeeze

the juice is worth the squeeze thank you

thank you

thank you you

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