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The pleasure of games | Marie-Amélie Le Fur | TEDxISTEC


[Applause]

hello to all I hope you go

good

for my part I am really very

happy to be among you this

afternoon so to start I have

decided to introduce it a little bit my

playground with two numbers so

I would have preferred 20 and 24

for paris 2024 it was a little echo

to the news but unfortunately

I had to start by putting you

then 22

it’s just the number

years since I practice

athleticism

this is my sport it’s my passion

and 24.6 simply the number of

medals I won at

the international Paralympic Games

world championship and championship

of time so that’s so thank you I have a

timing to hold so we’ll avoid too much

applause one of course no I

laughs of course thank you very much that that

it touches me so here are two

figures that summarize a course

so a course both long and that

for my part seems to me successful but for

to be honest with you at the base what

playground 7 this frozen fun

discovered by accident

literally and figuratively because

as nicolas said nicely

just now bah me my dream when

I was little idea become

professional firefighter

that was the playground on

which I wanted to have fun was my

ambition my passion and the job

that I wanted busy unfortunately

in 2004 at the age of 15 I was

overturned by a car is amputated

one leg

so necessarily with one leg less

we can make lasergame we have

understood just now but be

firefighter it’s not possible

So here we are not saying it’s a drama

life stops everything stops

but no it’s not with a

accident of life it’s not because we

has one leg less than everything stops

and his share the presence of my loved ones

from my entourage of many others

things in life I very quickly

understood and what I understood actually

it was that change

this difficulty this

this course error that I

encounter and if I’m going to send as

something positive if I arrived

to seize the opportunities and basel

charged to me to make life more

beautiful

so I did not know what my life would be like

I knew it would be different and

I knew I had to go on

a new playground and this terrain

of play bah they were already written

since a few years it was

athletics and this year by finally

in the next few years I had

just do it now

in handisport so at first to the

recovery of this accident I made it in

hobbies and little by little I decided

to build an athlete career

high level so that’s the frame

a bit of my playground wanting

to do high level sport wanting

to be at the top level

to rest his ambition and success in

life around high level sport is

something complicated because the

high level sport this is a field of

game that is still evolving where

the level that is required to be the

best in the world the best games

is always increasing and you

can you put a load of work

extra she much more

performing in your preparation you

do not even know if this will serve to

keep you at your level

so it’s necessarily a risk and

a lot of difficulties who are who

are facing you so far this is

as exhilarating because thanks to the sport

high level by this continual need

to be better each year you

go develop news

skills and you will learn to

to know you and that is

exceptional and over the course of three

Olympiads that I have the opportunity to do

of the three Paralympians I did

a lot of learning and I’m going I have

decided today to you in

present 3 and connect them to the game

that I could do

the first learning that is related

rather unfortunately a failure and that

participating in the Paralympic games

we live the experience of the games

Paralympics his greatness his magic his

decadence and unfortunately this

magic of games if you are not

focused on your goal

if you do not know why you are

present this magic to vavoua peace and

you totally go out of your field

I came to the games

Paralympics of 2008 I had barely

20 years back then it was my

first games

I wanted and I could be

gold medalist except that I arrive in

this village arrived in china first

big displacement like that in in

a country far from home

and here I am called by snapped up by the

magic I move a lot in the

village I go shopping

I’m going a little bit to visit life

things like that and I forget about it

totally my goal is

unfortunately it cost me the title

Paralympic in 2008

but luckily I was still

medalists so this is strong this

experience of telling me ok you have to be

on your playground you have to

to immerse myself in this magic of the tone

playground but you do not have to

forget your goal that I left

on on london in 2012

so i went back on on london in

2012 by improving myself by improving myself

so on my attentional focus of

the goal but also by improving

all the work I could do

that is to say I decided in 2009 to

become a real high athletes

level and implement everything in

my life to succeed in sport

so all the sacrifices of life that are

necessary all food hygiene

which is necessary and all the burden

necessary training and this

workout all those hours that

forced my schedule my life the one

of my entourage and my spouse I

did not see it as a burden

because in fact when I’m going to arrive

at high level competitions when

I arrived in France team

I had such happiness such

emotions I understood why

I had worked too much and I

realized that the more I

was working to earn more was

difficult to win and more victory

she was beautiful and in fact it was

really in the moments when there was

the most adversity where I earned from

the weakest steps I had

a lot of emotion and that’s what

makes the Paralympic title I could

win in 2012 as beautiful is that in

do I run I take the start I

I’m well ahead and the more

race ahead and over my opponents

come back then I do not see them

but I feel them I feel them in my

back I feel them doubling me and the line

crossed i fall

and here I’m sitting here is the

fault to convoys I sit by

earth i’m looking at the panel

and I say to myself oh here we worked

for years for nothing because

that second it was not my goal

so go we worked for all

these years for nothing so have to

leave and play it in 5 seconds

I’m already starting to redo everything

training plan of the four

coming years to come

this emotion and this interest

certainty of victory the fact of not

know during those thirty seconds that

I had won and finally Ben

that’s my name on the

billboard and that I know that

I am finally Paralympic Champion and

beat the emotion she is huge

she is extraordinary and she is

proportional to all the years of

sacrifices we could make before is

so excited about this victory

inevitably I say to myself we go we go we go

in which we go for the games of 2016 we

leave immediately for the singers

good that the world in 2013

so I’m leaving on the championships of

world with the will necessarily

to be world champion and

succeed the Paralympic Games of 2016

and the big mistake big mistake I’m

lose totally I lose myself totally

because I’m focused on I want

to be Paralympic Champion

I want to be world champion and not

why I want to be it is actually in

being focused just on this

that I want to do by being on the

how should i do it eh ben i have

lost all the pleasure of my sport I

lost the pleasure of work and

finally prepare the championships of the

world in 2013 had become really a

charge something that I was undergoing and

I took more pleasure except that the

said just before in the game concept and

I’m walking the Paralympic Games on

high level sport remains a game I do not

was taking more pleasure is there I was

in dissonance

So I decide in 2014 to move away

stadiums and regain the pleasure of

work the pleasure of training

and again it’s really really

strong of these of his learnings

that I continued my preparation for

the rio games in 2016

alas these games of rio they were

extraordinary

beautiful because thanks to my

mental trainer I’d like you

say that this learning the facts

all alone but there has been a long way

to understand through my

mental trainer I was in

capacity

to have fun even if I had

a monster pressure because when

you are a Paralympic champion in

2012 we are necessarily waiting for you

you are as strong four years older

late or even stronger etc

despite this pressure a preparation

which was very complicated with

many injuries on the end that I

I arrived in Rio and took

a lot of pleasure

two very simple solutions for

take the time of pleasure the first

do not try to gain a little

I’m going to be

Paralympic champion

however, when I start

of the contest of length and the 400 m he

it necessary that is focused on

to win

I do not have to focus on the

pleasure of the gesture on the passion of my

sport the passion of my game and it’s

very simple things ie

when I run when I run on my

run of momentum

I do not think about the results I do not think

the fact that I have to do

almost six meters to win

no I think of the feet that is strong at

soil to the pleasure that it gives me to

the impulse and being in the air

here I want to seek to be

really sure this pleasure of achievement

who has been animating me for over twenty years

now if I’m doing the key it’s

because I find pleasure and so

I’m really focused on that and

not wanting to make the jump

perfect day it was really

my problem was actually for

win I felt like the day

I had to make the perfect gesture

whereas no it’s not at all

wonder what is asked of me

to be gold medalists it’s

to apply what I had learned

for years of training and

especially not to look for the day to

do better here and by not seeking

not to do better by simply doing

what I know how to do and what I have

worked for years and ben

finally I reached levels of

quite exceptional performance and a

something else that had been detected and which

finally break totally my pleasure

of the game at a very high level is that

when I focus for to do

a great competition when I

concentrated to leave in the final of

I was hermetic hermetic

to hermetic partitions to people who

around me and this bubble of

concentration finally where I was

all by myself where I was focused on

the action to be done on the result to

get done

I did not interact with

coaches with my family with the

audience with my opponents and I think

that this bubble of concentration

completely hermetic was that

I had trouble managing the pressure and

so for the last two years

from my job to prepare the games

of Rio 2016 with my mental coach on

has worked to make

little holes in this bubble of

concentration little by little we

breakthrough we let the coaches come in

in this bubble of concentration we have

let the family get into this

bubble of concentration the audience then

adversary is actually the fact

to interact the fact when to rio jus

go back to the stadium and I smile

to the public that the audience smiles at me in

answer I ask the clape at

public and that the public a clap all at

along the momentum run the fact that I

laughs with grandma coach my family on

I laugh with my opponents

did not have any pressure

during the length contest

because in fact my attention they

were focused on something else

focused on the pleasure of

shares the pleasure of interaction and

not on the will absolutely to

succeed so I was in extreme

succeeds in rio and I have taken ten times

more fun than during the games of

London

so here it is that’s really the

secret of my game is to arrive in

to relocate the result to

consider the environment

shared with him because I you

ensures that in a game like games

Paralympic Games like the Olympics

like high level sport all

energies that is around you and

good to take and that of the public

as much to tell you that at rio she was

very strong she was very fervent

we had to know how to feed ourselves and therefore

it must have been one

ac experience would be extraordinary

for me so here is through everything

this little talk through the different

learnings that I could do as

I told you that being in

ability is open enough to grab

opportunities for change on the

do not forget that you have a

goal around the magic of your game

around all this cadences on the

to be really focused on the

pleasure in relocating the will

to succeed and being really in

sharing in human relations

finally

these keys I think they are

transposable to all of our

playgrounds and that they can all

enable us to perform well at

daily in our work and in the

Here’s thanks to everyone

[Music]

[Music]

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