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The art of following | Dr Jane Bentley | TEDxGlasgow


nobody wants to be a follower anymore

nobody wants to be a follower anymore now we all collect followers we add them

now we all collect followers we add them

now we all collect followers we add them up on social media but we don’t really

up on social media but we don’t really

up on social media but we don’t really see ourselves as belonging in that

see ourselves as belonging in that

see ourselves as belonging in that category I think that’s got to be often

category I think that’s got to be often

category I think that’s got to be often see following as something passive like

see following as something passive like

see following as something passive like follow the herd or I’m just following

follow the herd or I’m just following

follow the herd or I’m just following orders when I was researching this talk

orders when I was researching this talk

orders when I was researching this talk I even came across one of these

I even came across one of these

I even came across one of these heroically entitled entrepreneurial

heroically entitled entrepreneurial

heroically entitled entrepreneurial books called real leaders don’t follow

books called real leaders don’t follow

books called real leaders don’t follow well I would really like to challenge

well I would really like to challenge

well I would really like to challenge that as a musician I’m a lifelong

that as a musician I’m a lifelong

that as a musician I’m a lifelong follower it’s what gets you into the job

follower it’s what gets you into the job

follower it’s what gets you into the job in the first place by following a

in the first place by following a

in the first place by following a teacher and then persistence in

teacher and then persistence in

teacher and then persistence in following your dream but it’s also what

following your dream but it’s also what

following your dream but it’s also what keeps you in the job friends of mine who

keeps you in the job friends of mine who

keeps you in the job friends of mine who are orchestral musicians are supreme

are orchestral musicians are supreme

are orchestral musicians are supreme followers they don’t really have a

followers they don’t really have a

followers they don’t really have a choice but to follow the conductor but

choice but to follow the conductor but

choice but to follow the conductor but in that moment of musical performance

in that moment of musical performance

in that moment of musical performance they’re bringing every iota of their

they’re bringing every iota of their

they’re bringing every iota of their skill experience and judgment to create

skill experience and judgment to create

skill experience and judgment to create something incredible so it’s not passive

something incredible so it’s not passive

something incredible so it’s not passive at all it’s a highly skilled process of

at all it’s a highly skilled process of

at all it’s a highly skilled process of collaboration and cooperation and doing

collaboration and cooperation and doing

collaboration and cooperation and doing something together that would be

something together that would be

something together that would be impossible alone and it gets deeper in

impossible alone and it gets deeper in

impossible alone and it gets deeper in my own journey as a musician I began to

my own journey as a musician I began to

my own journey as a musician I began to work in places like hospitals prisons

work in places like hospitals prisons

work in places like hospitals prisons and forensic psychiatry these are

and forensic psychiatry these are

and forensic psychiatry these are environments where you have to

environments where you have to

environments where you have to continually adapt to what’s going on and

continually adapt to what’s going on and

continually adapt to what’s going on and to the people that you’re with in order

to the people that you’re with in order

to the people that you’re with in order to try and make some kind of connection

to try and make some kind of connection

to try and make some kind of connection now I learned this the hard way and I

now I learned this the hard way and I

now I learned this the hard way and I was the person who managed to sing the

was the person who managed to sing the

was the person who managed to sing the song stand by me – a woman who had no

song stand by me – a woman who had no

song stand by me – a woman who had no legs I was mortified I was like the

legs I was mortified I was like the

legs I was mortified I was like the singing be true but I was getting in my

singing be true but I was getting in my

singing be true but I was getting in my own way when I genuinely looked at the

own way when I genuinely looked at the

own way when I genuinely looked at the situation she was actually just really

situation she was actually just really

situation she was actually just really enjoying the song from the lovely man

enjoying the song from the lovely man

enjoying the song from the lovely man with the guitar and the rather nervous

with the guitar and the rather nervous

with the guitar and the rather nervous looking singer so the moral of that

looking singer so the moral of that

looking singer so the moral of that story is the following is actually all

story is the following is actually all

story is the following is actually all about adaptability and being able to

about adaptability and being able to

about adaptability and being able to come up with responses and innovations

come up with responses and innovations

come up with responses and innovations that genuine

that genuine

that genuine fit the circumstances around us and it

fit the circumstances around us and it

fit the circumstances around us and it gets deeper still the moment that

gets deeper still the moment that

gets deeper still the moment that probably taught me the most about

probably taught me the most about

probably taught me the most about following happened when I was working

following happened when I was working

following happened when I was working with a man with dementia who was pretty

with a man with dementia who was pretty

with a man with dementia who was pretty much at death’s door flat out in bed

much at death’s door flat out in bed

much at death’s door flat out in bed when I saw him but hearing is one of

when I saw him but hearing is one of

when I saw him but hearing is one of your last senses to go so I began to

your last senses to go so I began to

your last senses to go so I began to sink to him now there’s not a lot to

sink to him now there’s not a lot to

sink to him now there’s not a lot to follow in that kind of setting except

follow in that kind of setting except

follow in that kind of setting except for the rise and fall of his chest

for the rise and fall of his chest

for the rise and fall of his chest as he’s breathing so I changed the

as he’s breathing so I changed the

as he’s breathing so I changed the rhythm of my song to match the rhythm of

rhythm of my song to match the rhythm of

rhythm of my song to match the rhythm of his breathing and then soon after that I

his breathing and then soon after that I

his breathing and then soon after that I heard a NAR from him that exactly

heard a NAR from him that exactly

heard a NAR from him that exactly matched the pitch of the song I was

matched the pitch of the song I was

matched the pitch of the song I was singing now it’s easy to read too much

singing now it’s easy to read too much

singing now it’s easy to read too much into that and go it’s a miracle but he

into that and go it’s a miracle but he

into that and go it’s a miracle but he did do it again and so at that point I

did do it again and so at that point I

did do it again and so at that point I gave up my song and joined him in

gave up my song and joined him in

gave up my song and joined him in singing they are instead and what

singing they are instead and what

singing they are instead and what followed can only be described as a kind

followed can only be described as a kind

followed can only be described as a kind of duet together

of duet together

of duet together he sang I sang he began to change his

he sang I sang he began to change his

he sang I sang he began to change his pitches more and more following me

pitches more and more following me

pitches more and more following me following him it was one of those

following him it was one of those

following him it was one of those moments where time just seemed to have

moments where time just seemed to have

moments where time just seemed to have no meaning and yet somehow we also

no meaning and yet somehow we also

no meaning and yet somehow we also managed to stop singing at exactly the

managed to stop singing at exactly the

managed to stop singing at exactly the same moment together at which point I

same moment together at which point I

same moment together at which point I promptly burst into tears because of all

promptly burst into tears because of all

promptly burst into tears because of all the emotion that was going on now he

the emotion that was going on now he

the emotion that was going on now he never once opened his eyes during that

never once opened his eyes during that

never once opened his eyes during that encounter I’m convinced that on some

encounter I’m convinced that on some

encounter I’m convinced that on some level he was able to know that there was

level he was able to know that there was

level he was able to know that there was a somebody out there that wanted to

a somebody out there that wanted to

a somebody out there that wanted to connect with him but somebody in there

connect with him but somebody in there

connect with him but somebody in there and it was following that enabled that

and it was following that enabled that

and it was following that enabled that connection to happen but only because I

connection to happen but only because I

connection to happen but only because I was able to get out of my own way and

was able to get out of my own way and

was able to get out of my own way and give up that plan that I had and join

give up that plan that I had and join

give up that plan that I had and join him which freed us both up to create

him which freed us both up to create

him which freed us both up to create something new and something unexpected

something new and something unexpected

something new and something unexpected together and also worked in less extreme

together and also worked in less extreme

together and also worked in less extreme circumstances as well we all have a

circumstances as well we all have a

circumstances as well we all have a mirror system in the brain which means

mirror system in the brain which means

mirror system in the brain which means that neurologically at least we’re

that neurologically at least we’re

that neurologically at least we’re following other people all the time we

following other people all the time we

following other people all the time we are born followers so

are born followers so

are born followers so let’s test that theory its audience

let’s test that theory its audience

let’s test that theory its audience participation time so if you have a

participation time so if you have a

participation time so if you have a musical tube please get it ready and if

musical tube please get it ready and if

musical tube please get it ready and if you don’t you’ve got options for choices

you don’t you’ve got options for choices

you don’t you’ve got options for choices first one your delightful ted notepad

first one your delightful ted notepad

first one your delightful ted notepad and you could also choose to use asset

and you could also choose to use asset

and you could also choose to use asset keys or I like this one two credit cards

keys or I like this one two credit cards

keys or I like this one two credit cards you’ll need a number on one of those and

you’ll need a number on one of those and

you’ll need a number on one of those and the last one would be your badge and

the last one would be your badge and

the last one would be your badge and your lovely Ted pencil as everybody

your lovely Ted pencil as everybody

your lovely Ted pencil as everybody ready with something to play fantastic

ready with something to play fantastic

ready with something to play fantastic see if if you’re in one of the places

see if if you’re in one of the places

see if if you’re in one of the places with options try and be the Maverick you

with options try and be the Maverick you

with options try and be the Maverick you were born to be and taking something

were born to be and taking something

were born to be and taking something different to the people in your

different to the people in your

different to the people in your immediate environment because your sound

immediate environment because your sound

immediate environment because your sound experience will be a whole lot better so

experience will be a whole lot better so

experience will be a whole lot better so let’s see how good we are following will

let’s see how good we are following will

let’s see how good we are following will start hold your instruments tight for

start hold your instruments tight for

start hold your instruments tight for now but we’ll start with a beat from Dan

great so before we play let’s start by

great so before we play let’s start by following put that beat somewhere in

following put that beat somewhere in

following put that beat somewhere in your body like your elbow or something

your body like your elbow or something

your body like your elbow or something like that

like that

like that great med choose and enjoy the space as

great med choose and enjoy the space as

great med choose and enjoy the space as much as the plane just the red ones I’ve

much as the plane just the red ones I’ve

much as the plane just the red ones I’ve also prepared some advice for you

also prepared some advice for you

also prepared some advice for you five ipsilon playing the first one when

five ipsilon playing the first one when

five ipsilon playing the first one when you’re following use all of your

you’re following use all of your

you’re following use all of your channels of information not just your

channels of information not just your

channels of information not just your ears but your eyes and your body as well

ears but your eyes and your body as well

ears but your eyes and your body as well great if you’ve got your kid pad ready

great if you’ve got your kid pad ready

great if you’ve got your kid pad ready let’s try that if you look spectacular

let’s try that if you look spectacular

let’s try that if you look spectacular brilliant it’s like a flock of birds

brilliant it’s like a flock of birds

brilliant it’s like a flock of birds great give it some attitude

great give it some attitude

great give it some attitude nice eight point number to continually

nice eight point number to continually

nice eight point number to continually adjust so the moment I think

adjust so the moment I think

adjust so the moment I think it’s actually the moment I’ve wondered

it’s actually the moment I’ve wondered

it’s actually the moment I’ve wondered off the pattern and I’m getting the

off the pattern and I’m getting the

off the pattern and I’m getting the funny looks demand so keep your

funny looks demand so keep your

funny looks demand so keep your reference between sounding great so

reference between sounding great so

reference between sounding great so yellow – I’ll get the right tube nice so

yellow – I’ll get the right tube nice so

yellow – I’ll get the right tube nice so you’re having a conversation so you can

you’re having a conversation so you can

you’re having a conversation so you can swallow the other yellow follow the red

swallow the other yellow follow the red

swallow the other yellow follow the red followed on three credit cards hold up

followed on three credit cards hold up

followed on three credit cards hold up the one with the number nine no money

the one with the number nine no money

the one with the number nine no money will be transacted during this process

let’s have some guitar from Margaret

let’s have some guitar from Margaret already found it lovely orange really

boring

boring [Music]

groove it in the middle great

groove it in the middle great Keith you’re ready we’re going so go

Keith you’re ready we’re going so go

Keith you’re ready we’re going so go shake shake shake catch catch straight

shake shake shake catch catch straight

shake shake shake catch catch straight [Music]

high number three as we’re getting more

high number three as we’re getting more informative get off your own way if you

informative get off your own way if you

informative get off your own way if you can hit a hole rather than just your

can hit a hole rather than just your

can hit a hole rather than just your part this is from the outside in rather

part this is from the outside in rather

part this is from the outside in rather than the inside out dreams keep on

than the inside out dreams keep on

than the inside out dreams keep on playing

playing

playing keep on playing standing gorgeous

Ted badges Ted control here we go so

Ted badges Ted control here we go so it’s going to be lay your pencil on the

it’s going to be lay your pencil on the

it’s going to be lay your pencil on the badge lay your pencil on your badge

fun purfles get a long ribbon so

fun purfles get a long ribbon so powerful dude what beautiful let’s add

powerful dude what beautiful let’s add

powerful dude what beautiful let’s add the icing on the cake with David

the icing on the cake with David

the icing on the cake with David [Music]

let’s see if we can do something fancy

let’s see if we can do something fancy now that we can all stop off your

now that we can all stop off your

now that we can all stop off your counter for and then starts again ready

counter for and then starts again ready

counter for and then starts again ready 1 2 3 4 2 3 go

1 2 3 4 2 3 go

1 2 3 4 2 3 go [Music]

can you do you’ll stop the band you keep

can you do you’ll stop the band you keep on playing you ready

on playing you ready

on playing you ready [Music]

but found wonderful next family penguin

but found wonderful next family penguin if we can swap from you to the band

if we can swap from you to the band

if we can swap from you to the band after for you guys stop fail start after

after for you guys stop fail start after

after for you guys stop fail start after one two three four gorgeous

nice fit bring you all to it it’s not a

nice fit bring you all to it it’s not a passive process so when you come back in

passive process so when you come back in

passive process so when you come back in change your rhythm whatever you’re doing

change your rhythm whatever you’re doing

change your rhythm whatever you’re doing make it your own

make it your own

make it your own change my ID one beat in tape on being

change my ID one beat in tape on being

change my ID one beat in tape on being out are you ready

out are you ready

out are you ready after one to make up your own

the Big Finish

the Big Finish [Music]

which people understand let’s have a

which people understand let’s have a drumroll

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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