Press "Enter" to skip to content

Developing Empathy for those with Autism | Lucía Murillo | TEDxUniversityofRochester


good morning everyone thank you all for

good morning everyone thank you all for being here and thank you for the

being here and thank you for the

being here and thank you for the University of Rochester for inviting me

University of Rochester for inviting me

University of Rochester for inviting me to speak today and I’m actually very

to speak today and I’m actually very

to speak today and I’m actually very excited to be speaking today about

excited to be speaking today about

excited to be speaking today about autism and not only what it means to

autism and not only what it means to

autism and not only what it means to have autism but really how we’re going

have autism but really how we’re going

have autism but really how we’re going to move forward in terms of building a

to move forward in terms of building a

to move forward in terms of building a more inclusive society for all those who

more inclusive society for all those who

more inclusive society for all those who live in it now the first thing that I’m

live in it now the first thing that I’m

live in it now the first thing that I’m often asked when I tell people I work in

often asked when I tell people I work in

often asked when I tell people I work in autism is do you have a personal

autism is do you have a personal

autism is do you have a personal connection to autism and years ago when

connection to autism and years ago when

connection to autism and years ago when I first started out my answer would be

I first started out my answer would be

I first started out my answer would be no I didn’t have a personal connection

no I didn’t have a personal connection

no I didn’t have a personal connection to autism I didn’t have an immediate

to autism I didn’t have an immediate

to autism I didn’t have an immediate family member who had autism but it was

family member who had autism but it was

family member who had autism but it was just a career choice that I had decided

just a career choice that I had decided

just a career choice that I had decided to make because I felt it was rewarding

to make because I felt it was rewarding

to make because I felt it was rewarding in a career in which I could help others

in a career in which I could help others

in a career in which I could help others and that’s ultimately what I wanted for

and that’s ultimately what I wanted for

and that’s ultimately what I wanted for my personal life and my career but

my personal life and my career but

my personal life and my career but nowadays it’s hard not to have a

nowadays it’s hard not to have a

nowadays it’s hard not to have a personal connection to autism if it’s

personal connection to autism if it’s

personal connection to autism if it’s not in your immediate family it might be

not in your immediate family it might be

not in your immediate family it might be that you have an extended family member

that you have an extended family member

that you have an extended family member who has autism which I now do it might

who has autism which I now do it might

who has autism which I now do it might be that you have friends who have family

be that you have friends who have family

be that you have friends who have family members with autism they could be in

members with autism they could be in

members with autism they could be in your class classes they could be in your

your class classes they could be in your

your class classes they could be in your workplaces so now it’s become more norm

workplaces so now it’s become more norm

workplaces so now it’s become more norm rather than the exception and so with

rather than the exception and so with

rather than the exception and so with that in mind we also need to be aware

that in mind we also need to be aware

that in mind we also need to be aware that that’s not the case around the

that that’s not the case around the

that that’s not the case around the world there are still places around the

world there are still places around the

world there are still places around the world in which families are isolating

world in which families are isolating

world in which families are isolating themselves and keeping their their

themselves and keeping their their

themselves and keeping their their children hidden away because of the fear

children hidden away because of the fear

children hidden away because of the fear of the stigma associated with having

of the stigma associated with having

of the stigma associated with having autism they’re scared of bringing their

autism they’re scared of bringing their

autism they’re scared of bringing their child out into the community because of

child out into the community because of

child out into the community because of what others will say about them and

what others will say about them and

what others will say about them and what’s even more shocking as that in

what’s even more shocking as that in

what’s even more shocking as that in many parts of the world particularly in

many parts of the world particularly in

many parts of the world particularly in developing countries there’s up to a 90%

developing countries there’s up to a 90%

developing countries there’s up to a 90% treatment gap and what that means is

treatment gap and what that means is

treatment gap and what that means is those families most in need those living

those families most in need those living

those families most in need those living in low resource settings underserved

in low resource settings underserved

in low resource settings underserved communities are the ones least likely to

communities are the ones least likely to

communities are the ones least likely to have access to services so we really

have access to services so we really

have access to services so we really have a long way to go but just to take

have a long way to go but just to take

have a long way to go but just to take it back a step I think everyone has

it back a step I think everyone has

it back a step I think everyone has heard of autism everyone knows autism

heard of autism everyone knows autism

heard of autism everyone knows autism but do you really know and have a good

but do you really know and have a good

but do you really know and have a good understanding of what it is so I’ll give

understanding of what it is so I’ll give

understanding of what it is so I’ll give you just a general understanding

you just a general understanding

you just a general understanding of what it means to have autism and

of what it means to have autism and

of what it means to have autism and generally it’s a lifelong condition that

generally it’s a lifelong condition that

generally it’s a lifelong condition that is characterized by social communication

is characterized by social communication

is characterized by social communication challenges and also repetitive and

challenges and also repetitive and

challenges and also repetitive and restrictive behaviors but it’s really

restrictive behaviors but it’s really

restrictive behaviors but it’s really much more complex than that you if you

much more complex than that you if you

much more complex than that you if you meet one person with autism they might

meet one person with autism they might

meet one person with autism they might be completely fully verbal able to have

be completely fully verbal able to have

be completely fully verbal able to have a conversation with you might miss some

a conversation with you might miss some

a conversation with you might miss some of those social cues that many of us

of those social cues that many of us

of those social cues that many of us just naturally learn another person with

just naturally learn another person with

just naturally learn another person with autism might not be verbal but they

autism might not be verbal but they

autism might not be verbal but they communicate in many other ways it could

communicate in many other ways it could

communicate in many other ways it could be through behavior through facial

be through behavior through facial

be through behavior through facial language through written text through

language through written text through

language through written text through music through art there’s different ways

music through art there’s different ways

music through art there’s different ways to communicate with each of those

to communicate with each of those

to communicate with each of those individuals with autism are going to

individuals with autism are going to

individuals with autism are going to look differently as dr. Stephen Shore

look differently as dr. Stephen Shore

look differently as dr. Stephen Shore put it if you’ve met one person with

put it if you’ve met one person with

put it if you’ve met one person with autism you’ve met one person with autism

autism you’ve met one person with autism

autism you’ve met one person with autism so this is what autism is but what it

so this is what autism is but what it

so this is what autism is but what it isn’t is this deficit view of disability

isn’t is this deficit view of disability

isn’t is this deficit view of disability and what I want you to take away from

and what I want you to take away from

and what I want you to take away from here today is really thinking about

here today is really thinking about

here today is really thinking about autism in more of a strength space

autism in more of a strength space

autism in more of a strength space ability based model people aren’t

ability based model people aren’t

ability based model people aren’t defined by their disabilities they

defined by their disabilities they

defined by their disabilities they aren’t defined by their challenges each

aren’t defined by their challenges each

aren’t defined by their challenges each person has strengths and abilities just

person has strengths and abilities just

person has strengths and abilities just like the rest of us and that’s what I

like the rest of us and that’s what I

like the rest of us and that’s what I want you to go home with here today now

how better to explain this than to

how better to explain this than to actually hear from someone who has

actually hear from someone who has

actually hear from someone who has autism so this is Gianna heat sews and

autism so this is Gianna heat sews and

autism so this is Gianna heat sews and she’s going to tell us a little about

she’s going to tell us a little about

she’s going to tell us a little about about her college experience let’s

about her college experience let’s

about her college experience let’s listen understanding and acceptance

listen understanding and acceptance

listen understanding and acceptance means not under estimating people with

means not under estimating people with

means not under estimating people with autism and giving them an opportunity to

autism and giving them an opportunity to

autism and giving them an opportunity to show their strengths so they can find

show their strengths so they can find

show their strengths so they can find their path to inclusion my path to

their path to inclusion my path to

their path to inclusion my path to inclusion was music because someone saw

inclusion was music because someone saw

inclusion was music because someone saw my strengths understood how I think

my strengths understood how I think

my strengths understood how I think accepted me who I was and gave me an

accepted me who I was and gave me an

accepted me who I was and gave me an opportunity I’m now a vocal music major

opportunity I’m now a vocal music major

opportunity I’m now a vocal music major in college and I’m changing perceptions

in college and I’m changing perceptions

in college and I’m changing perceptions of autism one son at a time so that’s

of autism one son at a time so that’s

of autism one son at a time so that’s Gianna and she’s just shared her own

Gianna and she’s just shared her own

Gianna and she’s just shared her own personal vision of her own future and

personal vision of her own future and

personal vision of her own future and how she’s going to make a change in

how she’s going to make a change in

how she’s going to make a change in terms of stigma associated with autism

terms of stigma associated with autism

terms of stigma associated with autism disability another example that I like

disability another example that I like

disability another example that I like to give is the center of Anne Sullivan

to give is the center of Anne Sullivan

to give is the center of Anne Sullivan in Peru and this example is more in

in Peru and this example is more in

in Peru and this example is more in terms of employment and workplace

terms of employment and workplace

terms of employment and workplace setting and this program itself was

setting and this program itself was

setting and this program itself was developed by dr. Liliana Mayo back in

developed by dr. Liliana Mayo back in

developed by dr. Liliana Mayo back in 1979 and she started it actually out of

1979 and she started it actually out of

1979 and she started it actually out of her father’s garage when she realized

her father’s garage when she realized

her father’s garage when she realized that there were just not enough supports

that there were just not enough supports

that there were just not enough supports and services available to the families

and services available to the families

and services available to the families in her community who needed them it’s

in her community who needed them it’s

in her community who needed them it’s now grown into an internationally well

now grown into an internationally well

now grown into an internationally well known program in which they provide

known program in which they provide

known program in which they provide early intervention education and

early intervention education and

early intervention education and vocational training and what’s key about

vocational training and what’s key about

vocational training and what’s key about the program is that they actually use a

the program is that they actually use a

the program is that they actually use a lifespan approach so when their students

lifespan approach so when their students

lifespan approach so when their students start in the program they’re immediately

start in the program they’re immediately

start in the program they’re immediately looking for those strengths and

looking for those strengths and

looking for those strengths and abilities what is it that the child does

abilities what is it that the child does

abilities what is it that the child does well and how are we going to build on

well and how are we going to build on

well and how are we going to build on this so that when they graduate from

this so that when they graduate from

this so that when they graduate from their pro from our program they’re able

their pro from our program they’re able

their pro from our program they’re able to be out in the workforce and live

to be out in the workforce and live

to be out in the workforce and live independent productive and happy lives

independent productive and happy lives

independent productive and happy lives and so that’s really the goal of this

and so that’s really the goal of this

and so that’s really the goal of this program I have the opportunity of

program I have the opportunity of

program I have the opportunity of visiting there a couple of years ago and

visiting there a couple of years ago and

visiting there a couple of years ago and seeing some of these individuals at work

seeing some of these individuals at work

seeing some of these individuals at work and the the process that they use to get

and the the process that they use to get

and the the process that they use to get them out into the workforce is through a

them out into the workforce is through a

them out into the workforce is through a supported employment process in which a

supported employment process in which a

supported employment process in which a job coach goes out with these new

job coach goes out with these new

job coach goes out with these new employees and helps them kind of learn

employees and helps them kind of learn

employees and helps them kind of learn those rules of engagement that those

those rules of engagement that those

those rules of engagement that those expectations that they need to know in

expectations that they need to know in

expectations that they need to know in order to be successful in their places

order to be successful in their places

order to be successful in their places of employment

of employment

of employment and so that’s what they do the job

and so that’s what they do the job

and so that’s what they do the job coaches are the intermediary between the

coaches are the intermediary between the

coaches are the intermediary between the management and and the employee in case

management and and the employee in case

management and and the employee in case there’s some challenges that come up

there’s some challenges that come up

there’s some challenges that come up they help them learn about some of the

they help them learn about some of the

they help them learn about some of the accommodations that might need to be

accommodations that might need to be

accommodations that might need to be made within the workplace for that

made within the workplace for that

made within the workplace for that employee to be successful one such

employee to be successful one such

employee to be successful one such example is isandro this is Sandro at the

example is isandro this is Sandro at the

example is isandro this is Sandro at the age of five he was diagnosed with autism

age of five he was diagnosed with autism

age of five he was diagnosed with autism at the time his family lived in a

at the time his family lived in a

at the time his family lived in a shantytown in Peru and now in his 30s

shantytown in Peru and now in his 30s

shantytown in Peru and now in his 30s he’s worked at the same company for over

he’s worked at the same company for over

he’s worked at the same company for over 20 years

20 years

20 years and he’s successful and he’s the

and he’s successful and he’s the

and he’s successful and he’s the breadwinner of family

breadwinner of family

breadwinner of family he’s helped his sister get through

he’s helped his sister get through

he’s helped his sister get through college he’s helped his family buy a

college he’s helped his family buy a

college he’s helped his family buy a home this is what’s possible and this is

home this is what’s possible and this is

home this is what’s possible and this is what I want you to see these examples of

what I want you to see these examples of

what I want you to see these examples of what can happen and what is possible in

what can happen and what is possible in

what can happen and what is possible in the world but the supported employment

the world but the supported employment

the world but the supported employment processes aren’t the only way to go what

processes aren’t the only way to go what

processes aren’t the only way to go what we really need to start thinking about

we really need to start thinking about

we really need to start thinking about is how to build diversity and inclusion

is how to build diversity and inclusion

is how to build diversity and inclusion into the organizational strategy in our

into the organizational strategy in our

into the organizational strategy in our workplaces into the company cultures

workplaces into the company cultures

workplaces into the company cultures what does that mean that means already

what does that mean that means already

what does that mean that means already coming in with a framework of thinking

coming in with a framework of thinking

coming in with a framework of thinking about accommodations for people with

about accommodations for people with

about accommodations for people with different abilities in your workplaces

different abilities in your workplaces

different abilities in your workplaces maybe having peer mentors or disability

maybe having peer mentors or disability

maybe having peer mentors or disability champions that can help support the

champions that can help support the

champions that can help support the process along the way but what this also

process along the way but what this also

process along the way but what this also means is that we’re going to be building

means is that we’re going to be building

means is that we’re going to be building organizations that in which people don’t

organizations that in which people don’t

organizations that in which people don’t think the same way they don’t probably

think the same way they don’t probably

think the same way they don’t probably solve it the same way you’re building an

solve it the same way you’re building an

solve it the same way you’re building an organization that hasn’t have a verse a

organization that hasn’t have a verse a

organization that hasn’t have a verse a group of employees who think differently

group of employees who think differently

group of employees who think differently problem solved differently are more

problem solved differently are more

problem solved differently are more creative and innovative I mean because

creative and innovative I mean because

creative and innovative I mean because ultimately that’s what you want if you

ultimately that’s what you want if you

ultimately that’s what you want if you have one company or the other which one

have one company or the other which one

have one company or the other which one do you think has more value the one

do you think has more value the one

do you think has more value the one where you have a diverse workforce and

where you have a diverse workforce and

where you have a diverse workforce and that’s what we want to work towards and

that’s what we want to work towards and

that’s what we want to work towards and that’s what we want to think about when

that’s what we want to think about when

that’s what we want to think about when we think about people not with

we think about people not with

we think about people not with disabilities but just people in general

disabilities but just people in general

disabilities but just people in general with different abilities and how those

with different abilities and how those

with different abilities and how those abilities and strengths can be

abilities and strengths can be

abilities and strengths can be implemented in the workforce

implemented in the workforce

implemented in the workforce so now I know most of you in the

so now I know most of you in the

so now I know most of you in the audience here are University students so

audience here are University students so

audience here are University students so kind of bringing it back to you what

kind of bringing it back to you what

kind of bringing it back to you what does this mean for you when you walk out

does this mean for you when you walk out

does this mean for you when you walk out of this room how are you going to take

of this room how are you going to take

of this room how are you going to take this information and it kind of

this information and it kind of

this information and it kind of influence and respond to others in your

influence and respond to others in your

influence and respond to others in your communities so what I want you to think

communities so what I want you to think

communities so what I want you to think about is the fact that you the person

about is the fact that you the person

about is the fact that you the person the student the peer are the influencer

the student the peer are the influencer

the student the peer are the influencer how you respond to others is going to be

how you respond to others is going to be

how you respond to others is going to be something that influences those around

something that influences those around

something that influences those around you those in your environment those in

you those in your environment those in

you those in your environment those in your social network so you really need

your social network so you really need

your social network so you really need to take that away from this is that

to take that away from this is that

to take that away from this is that there’s so many possibilities for

there’s so many possibilities for

there’s so many possibilities for individuals with different abilities in

individuals with different abilities in

individuals with different abilities in your communities and so if you’re

your communities and so if you’re

your communities and so if you’re viewing them through their deficit

viewing them through their deficit

viewing them through their deficit through their challenge through their

through their challenge through their

through their challenge through their disability you’re not going to get to

disability you’re not going to get to

disability you’re not going to get to that place of seeing their strengths

that place of seeing their strengths

that place of seeing their strengths theirs their abilities and how they can

theirs their abilities and how they can

theirs their abilities and how they can help support you in your future careers

help support you in your future careers

help support you in your future careers and in your workplaces so really it’s

and in your workplaces so really it’s

and in your workplaces so really it’s about changing the narrative of what it

about changing the narrative of what it

about changing the narrative of what it means to have a disability I’m here to

means to have a disability I’m here to

means to have a disability I’m here to talk about autism but this is the same

talk about autism but this is the same

talk about autism but this is the same for any type of disability that you come

for any type of disability that you come

for any type of disability that you come across it’s changing the narrative from

across it’s changing the narrative from

across it’s changing the narrative from a deficit model to a strength-based

a deficit model to a strength-based

a deficit model to a strength-based model and you’re going to be that social

model and you’re going to be that social

model and you’re going to be that social change that makes that happen from the

change that makes that happen from the

change that makes that happen from the moment you walk out this room so I want

moment you walk out this room so I want

moment you walk out this room so I want to leave you with just this quote from

to leave you with just this quote from

to leave you with just this quote from Mahatma Gandhi that really encompasses

Mahatma Gandhi that really encompasses

Mahatma Gandhi that really encompasses this this thought if we could change

this this thought if we could change

this this thought if we could change ourselves the tendencies in the world

ourselves the tendencies in the world

ourselves the tendencies in the world would also change as a man changes his

would also change as a man changes his

would also change as a man changes his own nature so does the attitude of the

own nature so does the attitude of the

own nature so does the attitude of the world change towards him we need not

world change towards him we need not

world change towards him we need not wait to see what others will do be that

wait to see what others will do be that

wait to see what others will do be that change thank you

”

Be First to Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *