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today six years and 13 days exactly
Look for the third time the little screen and
scream if there were two red lines
very red and very marked
it was the third project to check it in
father after my pleas for
make sure that the truth that
I was pregnant
at that time messages friends
well-known companions and even the neighbor
of the fifth will not be that someone will
I lost the biggest event ever
told why that was not the most
important of our lives was to
to happen exactly nine months
and me with the hormones to the surface of the skin
is ready for motherhood
it will change my life so that the light of
motherhood and will illuminate and change my
Priorities
at that time the first days of
maternity and pregnant first were
passing on tiptoe over
cotton candy but suddenly the
leg pains extreme tiredness
memory leaks that have already been
stayed for life with me and the
nausea gave rise to the doubts of
maternity
why a night of insomnia like another
anyone when you already know as a speaker
you feel like a whale stranded in the middle
of the ocean with a fiat and that you
runs through the body I got up determined and
type in google
be a mother at that time a lot of
images started to show me that
it was what was about to happen
images like these where you
shows that it’s worth a connection so
important in your life with your baby that
everything else does not import images
How is it going
who has not thought that when I have a
baby in arms to be able to work
perfectly with your laptop and a
smile to the phone images like
this because obviously everyone
tells you how beautiful and attractive
you’re pregnant, even if you do not know
well because they tell you emotion like
said the light of motherhood that
will illuminate and then you will only have
Emotion in emotion between you and you
baby wisdom
I always say that I was better mothers
before being a mother I thought everything was going
to come by infused science to learn to
cook address aa all those things that
know how to make mothers and of course
I would have a raspberry afternoon ready
to tell my husband my daughters that
you are and nobody would remember
how am I family because it is
clear the childhood made a lot of damage
these series also do not
my mother always reminds me that I
small I wanted to have seven and I would
I say I have five energy left
you see these images of these women
superwoman who come to everything they have
energy to have four companies one
Race 20 children and Cesc
Well, if they can, I can also charisma
they also told me these images that
I was going to have charisma like betty and
supposed recovery
I already knew that when I left
of the hospital would come out with the tablet
elsa pataky chocolate and to finish
well that in that moment in google only
pictures of lovely children appear
with wreaths of flowers that sleep and
They eat at all times today because this
It’s done
That excited and quiet night I left
to bed to sleep while the good
father snored like nothing of that
out with him and if the day came
seconds before having her in arm
he said to the terrified father
I think I’m not going to cry what kind of
mother does not cry when they put her in her arms
to his daughter
what kind of madrid does not cry when
they put the light of their life in their arms and if
I cried but that sentence of what kind of
mother you are accompanied forever and the
Good daughter, I’ll tell you, she did not come alone
I do not wish in and with a bread under the
arm
looked with a backpack loaded with guilt
that nobody tells you of infinite doubts and
of uncontrollable fears but also
I will tell you one thing but with strength and
energy that would come to overturn
my life and existence and I promise you and
here that I fight to try it fight for
be that perfect mother of smile
perpetual infinite patience and love
unconditional that had to be
I struggled to be that tireless superwoman
that does not complain that it is covered with brushstrokes
the dark circles and that grows and surpass
obstacles without disheveled
but one afternoon like any other
leave the agency skidding and this
late my superman cape or street bolus
knocked down on the asphalt and I realized
that I had lost control of my life
that the conciliation
it was that Chinese tale that we believed and
that the motherhood of the big lie
of society that can not fight
countercurrent eating less sleeping
me
if I see less because in the end you fall
and the fall can be very hard
I remember perfectly that day that
late I arrived very late to pick up the
good daughter when she was put in her arms
I cried like I never cried before
because right at that moment I realized
that I had lost my identity
that I did not know who I was was not that
perfect mother that everyone expected that
outside and what was worse was not the mother
that I hoped to be then now that
he was done with all his thoughts
impure of bad mother because in the
darkness of the night after an avatar I
I declared bad mothers in an account
twitter to call mothers steal
that tweet was the beginning of everything was the
start of a social movement and it was
and I put it was not in
November 2014 what is your merit
bad mother because they would channel you as
bad mother
because of course and saying I feel malamadre
there will be more like I do not think it’s the
only one of my kind that is here and
from there to social movements in
twitter with nocturnal treachery was the
start of the entire start of a change
personal and a social change all in
the regidor made boom followers empathy
identification plus followers more
empathy identification tweets and
retweets likes ideas marks talks
events and an emotional community that
scream we are bad mothers who are
becomes a generation speaker
of a generation of mothers like them
that do not renounce to see their
children but neither to his career
Professional mothers who do not want to lose
your identity with women mothers who have
a common goal to change a model
obsolete social maternity in a
patriarchal society like ours
that goal is possible today is
possible a media society of
communication and advertising do not launch
those idealized images of the
maternity a society is possible where
premium the labor presentism the culture
of heating the seat and the lack of
responsibility for the care of children
is that possible in a society that
the mother pushes the resignation and abandons
the labor market is that possible a
society where everyone has forgotten that a
were children and the hope of
future a society is possible where
hotels and children proliferate
restaurants the child trains them
planes and children and cities without
children
for I will say yes it is
possible it has to be possible if
we started looking at mothers more
beyond the md mother yes if we accelerate
the implication of man we do
team with him yes yes really all
the mothers all the women we join
for that change of social model
if we unite beyond a war
making a coalition beyond
a war between good and bad mothers /
AIDS from the breast gives the bottle if college
sounded college so the little pots hours
ecological food that does not matter
and while we create and build that
unbreakable union and today here I
I promise to keep looking how
buy the time to sleep a
night the pull time to pluck me
both legs the same day time
to continue with this fight and time
especially to remind me that recently
a day not too far away was not a mother
problems were going with me and I was going to
be a perfect mother of course like
all of you and if tomorrow
my daughters my two good daughters want
be mothers
I will be here by your side to tell you
Welcome to wrong welcome to
do not get to everything because it is not a mother
perfect you’re a bad mother and nothing happens
and so that they remember it always and
you
I also dedicate this video to you
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and now more
and now get a chain of favors
it will be you who are there
you who are sitting there something
I will have to do not men women
fathers mothers uncles grandparents all
we have a mission from the future
mother that you have next you need
time for her says that the
hiring is not like pain
strong of rule
tell him what to make croquettes
embroider the blanket and make birthday
three days there are not gives him the
diploma of being a good mother
tell him he needs time for her and that
nothing happens and you do not have to
give up but mostly tell him no
she is alone that we are all wrong
we have infinite doubts and that especially
shared guilt gets better
thank you very much and never give up is
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