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¡Fuera máscaras! | Luisa López Madueño | TEDxTijuana


good afternoon, as we are clear

that we are well know why

on the Tijuana telex page are the

only 200 privileged of the two thousand

589 who wanted to attend so from

entrance, they already have a privilege

much greater

however my twelve years of

experience support me that if we go

deepening a little more in the

emotions of each one we will find

unfortunately that there are emotions a lot

stronger of the good and be well it

distort and we are no longer

where maybe we could find what

Through your childhood problems duels

abandon very difficult situations that

with just touching the sore a little

it’s enough for all of your

emotions to skin flower where maybe

have a problem a disease that does not

I managed to get out of it and now you’re

with the thinking on giving and giving

how to get out of it or maybe you

You did a good night fight with your

couple and you can not even

Concentrate because you keep thinking

also in that situation

so answering well is fine

because removing the mask does not mean

go through life increasing your raw

true or not taking away from the world its

mask because you have to say the

true

The challenge of the mask is to learn

take our forehead off ourselves

the challenge and the courage that is required

to learn to see yourself and

face your own truth and that is that there

lies lies the truth that the

cheating is very necessary in the

existence of life even of

planet because the plant kingdom

the animal do it in a way

extraordinary I love octopuses that

they are true masters of deceit

through camouflage and the human being

same to be able to live in society

in order to have harmony needs

also use deception and

pious lies that call him

for example if someone comes in front of

us and tell us all your problem

how it feels

we will not say

then how are we and

we are very good for example we have to

Learn to respond with courtesy

although sometimes have dyes

hypocrisy ate learn to put the

empathy in the other’s place and because

you also have to have a lot of respect

in front of the most expensive

we never know why someone can

be wearing a mask a deception

a mask is a defense mechanism

is what we use to face a

world when we sometimes believe that we do not

We have resources to be able to make you

facing a reality because maybe the

life put you in a family situation

where if I wanted to be an astronaut

you were born in a family of lawyers and

mimo you hold on to god with the moon

you have to be a lawyer or if it touched you

be living the expectations of a

society or maybe dreams

frustrated of your parents and they put you

only to live that or what is worse

like the stories we’ve heard

right now about being in a situation

where life does not even give you the

opportunity to stop and think

are you living your reality or not a

mask or what’s

what matters is that you survive

come out ahead and this is the only thing

has been that if the mask is going to

help save our skin from time to time

when I go where the mask

so the challenge is not to use the

mask from time to time this is not the

problem of the whole problem of the

mask is fond of her and

grabbing on her is finally more than

nothing super the materialists is finally

rather denied today cost where already what

use why do you think that is what

you have to pretend to be before

others because we have understood very

wrong the concept of being happy always

you do not have to be happy you always have to

try to be in harmony in this

moment where it now seems that we have

to be in states of donny to maximum

euphoria where we have that never came out

of the comfort zone and keep us

always clinging to what we can to

can not lose the style always be

in a control zone and is that today in

day through social networks

It is a seedbed, not masks

where right and left we can go

taking the virtual mask that gives us

wins in three filters and applications

for

show the best we have to the

others because it terrifies us even to think

in what we can remove the mask and

to see us because we are following as

Sheep behind the other what we believe

what we have to do doing each

foolishness for five minutes of fame

it does not matter in this vortex of being the

more to the smarter the one who has

more lax that has more millions of

seen the one that has more followers

all this nothing else encloses us more in

the greatest danger the most expensive

is to lose its essence the danger of

mask then is that you forget

who are you because the human being when

there comes a point where he is deceived

so much of a moment when the mind says

I can not with this situation anymore

I can continue fooling myself and

wearing me out in deception

so there is a word that

recently I learned product from my

new book that is called mystification

and the mystification is that you have to

turn into the most expensive you have to already

believe that it turns out that the mask is not

a mask

you think that’s you so

let’s do an exercise is going to play

free therapy everyone should stop

there a mask ok a color but

first they will listen to the following

there are many types of masks many

and nobody but nobody escapes

mask that is so that all the

this is for everyone

I will summarize them in three great types

which is what I think more is

frequent that we can use that

mask

for example there is the mask of

victim is a very ugly mask and it is

a mask that costs a lot of work

that everyone can identify that the

has the most expensive is to say to feel

sick poor where you can never

Do nothing where it always suits you

they are called secondary gains of the

disease is to say that it suits you

show others that you can not have

being sick helps to justify that

these like these because he’s sick

It helps you not to be responsible for everything

that may be happening to you and is more

easy to show the world that I always

I’m sick, bad luck always goes

wrong then I’m always a victim

but I repeat

the mask very difficult if one is

living detecting that is living that

victim’s mask is very easy to

maybe others can see it but

as if you are really generating

psychologically a disease

how are you going to admit that it ‘s because

issues of convenience so that

It is a very personal task for everyone

is the first one that we could include the

second is the most expensive of the anger the

rudeness mask the haters that go

for all the time now criticizing

anything or in a very

impulsive where you always go for life

with anger to the skin

putting you is more expensive is more all

the full armor where you fear

very much that they really see that

behind that mask there is a person

with little chicken heart you have

so scared that it hurts you and that you see

what’s behind that anger that better

you put everything and go through life with a

angry face of bad suits you

much more and finally the mask of

perfection the mask of the I all

it’s okay to never be wrong

December I always have to have everything

under control where he always assumed the

networks that my life is perfect where

I always try to make sure everything is

exceedingly well and this is also

very easy to detect by those who

we can be outside but the challenge

then it is not to be agreeing

right now of all the people who

we can know what the mask is

because it is very easy ayala korver not

I have a neighbor who puts on the mask

every day or not to work my

partner and between pure mask

not to mention the profile photos of the

facebook no then this is not a

task to see others I tell you the

The mask’s challenge is to detect if you

you are living a mask

so in your mask quickly and

that ‘s a very personal exercise situ

shows another mask with the you’re going to

draw the mask that you use the most

according to your needs

quick either the victim’s

sickly or the one with the anger or the one

everything is always happy and more control

Draw the and please

quickie is not is not does not take a lot

this is more than anything for you not to be

serving beside the self as it is

drawing is not a drawing test either

see if you do it right or wrong

They should have delivered a color and

well you put it on and please

the all all with their mask

although they have not drawn anything equal to

Sometimes we do not even know what mask

we bring very good very creative some

turn to see if everyone please like that

is how we walk through life with the

mask put and no way

if we need you the most expensive because

you have to keep it, leave the bet

please have two locations because what

only that we can not cheat that is a

Through the eyes through light

of the soul that is from where we can

manifest really now I want to

endings and nothing and when exhaling loose

download and take off the mask by

please get tired of the mask beyond

of the mask means the roles the

labels what we have to achieve in

life maybe the account in the bank

all you have to do is smile

to the mother- in- law or the boss and we have to

sometimes learn to use it from time to time

when but take off the mask

it means learning to have a silence

with yourself silence where you learn to

listen to this pepe cricket internal that

we all have that voice of intuition

is the voice of conscience that can

prevent even from a disease

the mask we use because we have a lot

fear and too much ego a fear where we

terrifies criticism to stand before

a public and they are thinking that the

conversation is not going well that maybe the

let’s go back to not doing things right

and the only thing we have to do is such

not even have much idea who

we are because we are not here all the time and

after a while we are transforming and

we are modifying our way of being

but at least drink tea every day

just a minute to walk look in the mirror

the house with the soul encuerada at least

There is take off the mask and dare to

find what is there to take out

from the emotional cloaca all you can

draw from behind and your son read already

stinks

today I do not like what I bring today

I did things well but you’re not going to

make your own executioner that is all

the time being whipped kicks

own you were wrong or with the

bitterness loaded loaded

because you can not forgive who he stepped on

there’s been damage for a long time

so that this so easy means

take off the mask court you from you

same

Tired of being afraid of all the

time to learn to be a little bit more

congruentes a little bit more in harmony

to breathe of the most trite things

but it is true that learning to

eat more slowly to say good morning

to see the other in the look instead of

be tagging instead of being

connected all the time to the phone and

go through life with nothing else to remember

that we are earth organicity we are

plants are part of the same

same universe

although it sounds very existential lady

remember that it is that we are simply

he was masks is to stop

pretend to stop pretending what

everyone thinks he wants from you and start

let your days be free

[Applause]

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