little if it turns out that
we are born tired by themselves one day
we are there suddenly suddenly totally
unknown to us so
unknown as we are between 200
millions of sperm without knowing
what do some small hormones that
there is and what it tells us that I was born here
we do not see that everyone starts to leave
running we do not start running
we also started and started running
without stopping avoiding obstacles
we come to the end and we see how many
of those who have arrived are there
pecking at that immense ovule that
We see you there in the background and others as
let’s try to see how we
we launch we go there
we try and we are lucky we are successful
and we entered the only selected
to be there when they are generous and
It will have to wait after
everything that we have gone through so that
can get there wait for us
nine months of transformation of
development will grow the legs the
arms the eyes the mouth and when we are
finally fully accommodated there in
that belly that is foreign to us and
which we have consumed a lot
a lot of energy will come a hand and
catch the head is to start stretching
to remove it by a site that neither
we even know we do not show up then
in a world again all new world
unknown and and it’s a world where where
at the end to us they tell us that is a
fantastic world and look fantastic
that if he does not cry when you are born
whip and you are good then really
our life as you can already check
before birth, he has gone through diversity
of obstacles we have gone through
situations where we have had to
adapt to different environments
we have overcome obstacles we have wanted
also successes and obviously it’s not
it’s not easy to bring a life to the world and
they set nothing easy in the sense that
I was a year and a half good, my wife
and I was here for a year and
half trying to come and give it to you
I stick a year and a half and in the end what
We got it but it cost not and with a
you can imagine it but not
I imagined nothing is said not to
you imagine
then it is not easy to bring a
new life to the world and and us
you each of you have
had the opportunity to live the
opportunity to live that youtube
opportunity in 1980 and 19 years later
woke up in a room
hospital and surrounded by lots of cables
tubes did not get liquid in me
another body that drew my arm
totally that has cried various
fractures was immobilized and well then
in that awakening that I had
I asked my mother today I hope that
my mom what happened what what
I do here because to this day I still do not
I remember what happened, it reminds us that
the impact and told me you’ve had a
motorcycle accident
a boy hit you but you do not
worry that everything will be fine
well, it was going to be fine sixteen
years later today here with you
In the end we have some sequels in the
schools in my right shoulder that is a
break nerves that what prevent me
is to have sensitivity or feel and move
my right arm and it’s really hard
when when in those first days of
being hospitalized the doctors arrive and
they say good so you will not be able to
move your arm
never again and really it ‘s hard because
also I said but this is
I was 19 years old, I had too much
ahead to assume a one
thing and I thought no good because
a doctor is for that opens you tecos
eo unites and closes and until there out of
a few months then in the end you go back to the
normal
I really did not understand it and it’s that good
Well, the nerves and nerves tension
or the nerve cells are the tissue
more complex cellular of our
organism and and obviously not
regenerate in the same way
suddenly I find myself in another world
totally unknown and for which
I think nobody is prepared we are
preparations
it is a world as unknown as
all you have are thoughts
negative are thoughts of deposing you
handsome barrier and especially because the
doctors have already told you is limited
but because I’m limited
and it’s hard because all the thoughts
in those moments in those days months
it costs everything to assume a lot to assume everything
this and you start to imagine questions
how to ask questions what will happen
with my life I will find a couple one
person who accepts me as I am and
as I am right now and if I had
a son changes a diaper again or
how I raise it, I want you to smile
as it lifted it to the air I will lift it not to throw
and and other questions that in that
at the moment they have no answer for
you can not find it
Well, you still think negatively
time that in the end this time that for
the simplest things to need help
like for example the afternoon some shoes
of a zipper in the first
connection as does the connection of the
shave zipper since it no longer affected
to cut your nails, cut yourself into pieces
a steak or for example the
lawyer give me of the situation of
when you go to a restaurant and well
the typical business meals of
business that says do not get there with the
people to eat you feel you reach the
waiter and he puts a plate of prawns and
that you have next to you as well as very
subtly for internet and hair not
Leave it, do not worry, I’ll stick it
only me
all that good because in the end what are
situations that you have to turn around
do not see them in another understand the other
way in the end people are
offering his help and I find myself with
that I have two paths two alternatives
one that is to fight and accept me with the
second that it would be Saturday not
abandon me in what could be a
possible
pressure this second option do not I
It seemed viable has not appeared viable
because I have seen this suffering suffer
my parents and my brothers too and and
It seemed unfair to me not to choose that
way and especially when when my
father
in those days where one is
very pessimistic is everything black is
reasoning in your head what’s going on
assimilating then I will never forget what
he told me that if you fall you we
we fit all
it also turns out that in the end I was
I was angry he was in my
information head that I was
bothering in the sense to be able
take that first alternative of
move on there’s no fight of the
information that I have been told
doctors that were limiting me
she told me that I will never be able
recover my arm
please if someone has an illusion
is that I think nobody has the right
to take it from that person because
maybe we want to get something that
that may be impossible but in the end I
for example I would prefer to die with the
illusion of having fought to see with the
illusion that one day I could
recover my arm before I have
abandoned at any time not and by
that still continues
then you have information and hunting
laps and what he decided to erase the for
be able to make this decision decided
erase everything I did not want to know what I
doctors have said because this
infraction and influencing I was
limiting as a person my life my future
diddy better absorb the words that I
My mother commented one day too and I
He said this he told me if it’s true that
then I told you Europeans said before
that he had had 96 percent of
odds in the early hours of
accident
96 percent chance of having
Wheelchair been so
I would have been much worse in the chair
wheels why do not you
evolved is to a wheelchair
because I had a cervical lesion on
stripping of nerves and in that
first only inflammation occur
in the neck that depending on how
I respond to your body there will be a
one way or another and in that aspect I had
luck
she told me always remember that
you have been reborn and effectively you
I made a case and fixed if I took it on
serious that in my house he even held his
birthday
not because I will not be everything
negative can be taken advantage of and we celebrate
the two good ones as one at the end has
to make decisions and and I decided to decide
and reinventing I decided to accept myself to
myself decided it affects to accept my
physical because I reinvented myself changed my
way of thinking helping like others
had helped me helped me that the
I ask him who knows me knows
and I also reinvented myself by changing the
concept of what I wanted to study
this accident the other with 19 years
typical the selectivity in the
university and he was going to study what
I played and it touched me because despite
that we do not know in the end what one
wants to study then something to pick up what
that played what was for me was
study business because my parents
they were entrepreneurs and as big brother the
responsibility that fell to me although my
father would never have told me that
I had to do that but somehow
way inwardly
that was my reading and because of
accident
say no what is
from there to what I wanted for what
that really well in utrera yy me
fill as a person and I decided to do
creativity advertising because I
they liked to create and fixed qualified
as a second option architecture and yes
Clara arrives at the University of Alicante
and when ibarra was filling the
application as a second option
architecture well clear I knew that
the boys were there in the middle of the
street there sitting under a tree
freehand painted straight lines and
my mother said how they fuck me with the
left hand a straight line at the end
there were places and they caught me in publicity
less bad but hey there would not be
imported and sure it would have served
well the race in fact there I have a
little thorn stuck in doing something in
the future
and well, even the sport what
I decided to change and I was practicing
volleyball football would have liked to get there
more I was training for it and
I was doing fashion shows like
Spanish designer and I had to leave that
world obviously also all your life
change in a second
and well then after leaving that
sport and I said good to see what
sport now
Well, I’m going to ski sport
less extreme can not fit I say is that
I love skiing but I can not support
but of course you already know that they carry
canes this does not stop and stops to turn
for the turns and of course I can not catch
the canes very with only one that I do
Well, I decided to face it
look for information because there could be
stayed there and it is no longer and a barrier
more but that information was more
there
one began to spin the coconut and the
final decide to go to be what God
I want to go I threw and we’ll see what
what happened and I realized that they did not
missing the sticks that parents should not
skipping skiing there is a barrier not
simply a barrier that I was wearing
put a limitation and as well as
we think normally
and well with this that I learned between
other things that I want to share with
you, because we all have
many negative moments in
our life in which we have to
change our inner dialogue
that inner dialogue that that in the end
our thoughts are thoughts
that will make us feel one way or another
way and not the situations that we
they play live because of the situation of
same for me for you and for all
the situation is the same simply my
way of thinking and feeling in a way or
of another to take some decisions or another
we will each decide one thing because
we think differently and this is the attitude
and aptitude and and the other thing that is
I internalized to be able to accept me
same to affect my physical because it is
that you have to believe
you have to believe you have to believe what
that you want to be that in the end that will be
your reality and the reality each one the
we have it in a way of a
differently that’s why so
we talked earlier about the thoughts of
each one but my belief about what
I believe that I am what is going to do to me
motivate to take a step forward or
throw it back
therefore what I would like
to move you is that if you have understood
what you want to transmit is so
simple as you what we
you each of us have the
decision of what we want to do
We have the decision to choose the
problem not the solution
thank you very much
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