[Music]
[Applause]
I want to be happy again
that’s the phrase that one afternoon taking
coffee said Maria Maria had been
my student one bright student one
student that when finished the institute
started a double degree finished a
master’s degree and a European doctorate and with that
impressive résumé did not take long in
soon find a good job
his career years he found a
boy who impacted him and together
they started a nice relationship and
also with time he was an entrepreneur
buoyant
they both had Christmas supposedly from
I dream a super happy life even
together they shared future projects
in marriage
everything is wonderful until one day
Maria discovered the many
infidelities of his boy would be called
He went into a deep crisis
existential that plunged her into a
deep depression and therapies with
psychologists or the visits of the
felt they were getting her out
of that deep crisis and one day
talking to her to try to help her
after that question I want to go back to
be happy
I suggested that why not dedicate part
of your time to work for others
help them and just as she started to
serve disadvantaged people in the
as well as primary care
together we were going to visit children at
sixth floor
hospital to oncological children and
home had many expectations
it’s true but little by little something was
changing in his life an engine got in
working on it and when not the
we saw are also kings we said
Mary that has changed in your life and what
he only said that a person who does not
have anything thank me or see
smile at a child with cancer
for me it is the greatest reward
That day I discovered that Maria was starting
to be a creator of happiness
who of us who are here now
The same has not been done
ask for happiness
I want to be happy then look how it is
try to create let’s create between all
the house of happiness and for that
let’s start laying the foundations
of this house and the birth of this
house we find the meaning of life
sure if this question what
let’s do it out there
many people would not say scratched
stop stories that Friday by
the afternoon and I do not feel like thinking about
this but miranda somehow
we have to discover all of which is the
the thread of our lives because
we do not wake up every morning when
I ask my students tell me why
he forced my father or they tell me why
I have to come to the institute but that
also in many adult people there
we get up because he plays and it’s good
I hope we find an answer what
as deep as possible to this question
because I wake up every morning what is
project there
ticul to my life and gives it a sense and a
orientation because sometimes only
we propose the meaning of life
when things do not go wrong and we say
this because the beauty would be to have that
orientation that is the one that really
illuminate everything we are
everything we do well a creator
of happiness is the one who tries to see each
day that opens his eyes as a gift
as a wonderful opportunity to
believe and do a little happier to
people that we have by our side and I
for example find meaning in my life
without a couple without children but nevertheless
giving my life totally to the
others and if we advance a little more in
this house
let’s put the walls on the walls
that are usually in front of
the others
well here we discover in this house
the self – esteem can not
love others if first we do not
we want ourselves if we have
a realistic vision of who we are from
what are our limits
what are our virtues but about
everything with optimism
looking at life and who we are
with enthusiasm many people are engaged
to destroy others ruin their
self-esteem and I cover you every day
with teenagers who have many
times morality and self-esteem for
soils especially in many relationships
of a couple that turns out totally
destructive
is a creator of happiness is also
the one who always has that word
positive for the other
you can you be worth you can
get and we are moving forward and we are going
putting already fixed
that piece that you have and you are each
of you because that puzzle does not
would be meaningless without that piece each
of which we are here are unique and
unrepeatable
We have never existed and we will never go back
to exist and what would it take tonight
longer and how do you see it safe animal
very much
with this and look at this house
if we take another step and move forward
we already have the roof the windows and the
door
that roof that crowns everything and those
windows and a door that open us to
others and in that house the priority
is the delivery to others
it is very clear that the people who
they give their lives to others from the
free and in an altruistic way are more
happy while the people who
they think only of themselves that they are
selfish and that are based on a logic
self-referential evening theme or early
they end up in the existential vacuum
that’s why we also discover that
our life is going to make sense if we are
able to do some action in favor
of the others and surely you wonder
that go home simple to be the house
Happiness has no color the
strokes are very simple and even
it would look like the house that a child
any child can do is look
precisely in simplicity is the
happiness and that house is transparent
so that the hyena and you of all
the people with whom you want from
today to be happy and do not forget that in
the innocent look of a child in the
best look we can have for this
world
I hope I invite you to have
true bridges between people
happiness is what will unite us
everybody
to fix our life is not measured only
for the years but for the time that
we have made others happy because
let’s build the bridges, let’s have those
ties that will unite it and let’s not forget
that my happiness and the sample is
intrinsically linked and that when
we make others happy
we also want very much
happier because love is the
full sense of reality
I invite you to think how you are going to
be from now creators of
our happiness
on a personal level in your family in
your jobs and in our relationship
with our friends that each one elaborates
your project and tell how today you are going to
invest will make the best investment
of his life in the happiness of others
wants to be a creator of happiness
thank you very much
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