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we all know that moment when your pulse

we all know that moment when your pulse begins to quicken and you lean in and

begins to quicken and you lean in and

begins to quicken and you lean in and mash your face into another person’s

mash your face into another person’s

mash your face into another person’s face we’re 80 million bacteria are doing

face we’re 80 million bacteria are doing

face we’re 80 million bacteria are doing a big old dance in your digestive juices

a big old dance in your digestive juices

a big old dance in your digestive juices she’s thinking oh he should have ordered

she’s thinking oh he should have ordered

she’s thinking oh he should have ordered no onions he’s thinking is that a

no onions he’s thinking is that a

no onions he’s thinking is that a lipstick stain or a beginning of a cold

lipstick stain or a beginning of a cold

lipstick stain or a beginning of a cold sore and yet there’s nothing like good

sore and yet there’s nothing like good

sore and yet there’s nothing like good kiss people have written songs about it

kiss people have written songs about it

kiss people have written songs about it stories made movies but why exactly do

stories made movies but why exactly do

stories made movies but why exactly do we do it I’m Erica Bergman and we’re

we do it I’m Erica Bergman and we’re

we do it I’m Erica Bergman and we’re wired that way your parents might be the

wired that way your parents might be the

wired that way your parents might be the first people you ever saw kiss it’s

first people you ever saw kiss it’s

first people you ever saw kiss it’s learned behavior so is how you do it but

learned behavior so is how you do it but

learned behavior so is how you do it but when it comes to romantic kissing only

when it comes to romantic kissing only

when it comes to romantic kissing only about 46% of contemporary cultures do it

about 46% of contemporary cultures do it

about 46% of contemporary cultures do it for example the Inuit of Perry Islands

for example the Inuit of Perry Islands

for example the Inuit of Perry Islands nuzzle noses instead which may be where

nuzzle noses instead which may be where

nuzzle noses instead which may be where the term Eskimo kiss comes from but in

the term Eskimo kiss comes from but in

the term Eskimo kiss comes from but in the cultures where we do kiss it’s super

the cultures where we do kiss it’s super

the cultures where we do kiss it’s super important to the success of a

important to the success of a

important to the success of a relationship sixty-six percent of women

relationship sixty-six percent of women

relationship sixty-six percent of women and 59 percent of men report ending a

and 59 percent of men report ending a

and 59 percent of men report ending a new relationship based on a bad first

new relationship based on a bad first

new relationship based on a bad first kiss because really is there any coming

kiss because really is there any coming

kiss because really is there any coming back from an icky lip-lock but when was

back from an icky lip-lock but when was

back from an icky lip-lock but when was the first first kiss and aren’t you

the first first kiss and aren’t you

the first first kiss and aren’t you dying to know how it was the first

dying to know how it was the first

dying to know how it was the first record of a romantic kiss was for more

record of a romantic kiss was for more

record of a romantic kiss was for more than 3,500 years ago in a Sanskrit text

than 3,500 years ago in a Sanskrit text

than 3,500 years ago in a Sanskrit text where it was likened to inhaling each

where it was likened to inhaling each

where it was likened to inhaling each other’s souls

other’s souls

other’s souls [Music]

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romantic isn’t it kissing is mentioned

romantic isn’t it kissing is mentioned in the Bible the Kama Sutra Cleopatra is

in the Bible the Kama Sutra Cleopatra is

in the Bible the Kama Sutra Cleopatra is rumored to have been great at it so it’s

rumored to have been great at it so it’s

rumored to have been great at it so it’s been around for a long time but what is

been around for a long time but what is

been around for a long time but what is it about the physical act of kissing

it about the physical act of kissing

it about the physical act of kissing that makes us want to do it kissing is

that makes us want to do it kissing is

that makes us want to do it kissing is very uncommon in the animal world it’s

very uncommon in the animal world it’s

very uncommon in the animal world it’s really only been observed in chimpanzees

really only been observed in chimpanzees

really only been observed in chimpanzees and bonobos chimps just seeing the kiss

and bonobos chimps just seeing the kiss

and bonobos chimps just seeing the kiss to make up and bonobos suck on each

to make up and bonobos suck on each

to make up and bonobos suck on each other’s tongue if you count that as

other’s tongue if you count that as

other’s tongue if you count that as kissing so maybe kissing in humans has

kissing so maybe kissing in humans has

kissing so maybe kissing in humans has more to do with the primal parts of our

more to do with the primal parts of our

more to do with the primal parts of our brain the other theory is that kissing

brain the other theory is that kissing

brain the other theory is that kissing is a socially acceptable way for people

is a socially acceptable way for people

is a socially acceptable way for people to smell each other yeah did you know

to smell each other yeah did you know

to smell each other yeah did you know that a good sniff can tell you pretty

that a good sniff can tell you pretty

that a good sniff can tell you pretty much everything you need to know about a

much everything you need to know about a

much everything you need to know about a person pheromones have everything to do

person pheromones have everything to do

person pheromones have everything to do with attraction and we think that

with attraction and we think that

with attraction and we think that sensing these pheromones through

sensing these pheromones through

sensing these pheromones through activities like kissing releases all

activities like kissing releases all

activities like kissing releases all sorts of juices into your system that

sorts of juices into your system that

sorts of juices into your system that make you feel great like serotonin which

make you feel great like serotonin which

make you feel great like serotonin which boosts your mood and dopamine which

boosts your mood and dopamine which

boosts your mood and dopamine which makes your brain register pleasure

makes your brain register pleasure

makes your brain register pleasure adrenaline which raises your heart rate

adrenaline which raises your heart rate

adrenaline which raises your heart rate and oxytocin which helps you form

and oxytocin which helps you form

and oxytocin which helps you form attachments so no matter how disgusting

attachments so no matter how disgusting

attachments so no matter how disgusting that bacteria party might sound you’ve

that bacteria party might sound you’ve

that bacteria party might sound you’ve probably grown up an environment that

probably grown up an environment that

probably grown up an environment that programmed you to want to do it and when

programmed you to want to do it and when

programmed you to want to do it and when you do you feel good so like it or not

you do you feel good so like it or not

you do you feel good so like it or not by now we’re wired that way do you have

by now we’re wired that way do you have

by now we’re wired that way do you have a great kissing story share it in the

a great kissing story share it in the

a great kissing story share it in the comments below this video

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